🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation: 00:00 💡 *Death grip refers to using a firm grip during masturbation, potentially leading to desensitization of the penis.* 02:15 📚 *A 2023 study found a correlation between abnormal masturbatory behaviors like death grip and erectile dysfunction.* 03:41 🤔 *Factors contributing to idiosyncratic masturbation include frequency, technique, duration, and intensity.* 05:32 📊 *Men with erectile dysfunction and atypical masturbatory behaviors were more likely to have firmer erections during masturbation than during sex.* 07:09 🩺 *Evaluation by a urologist is recommended to rule out other medical conditions contributing to erectile dysfunction.* 08:32 🔄 *Strategies for addressing death grip include abstaining from masturbation, using gentle touch, and exploring different sensations.* 10:23 🚫 *Masturbation is not inherently problematic but may become an issue if it affects one's sex life or daily functioning.*
Since I broke my Vacuu-Jack™, I've had to go back and use what we used to call the Indian Rope Burn (native American), where you wrap both fists around the fuselage and while twisting one fist clockwise, you simultaneously twist the other fist counter-clockwise with firm grips, and repeat always twisting both fists in opposite directions. Boy, does that feel so good. If you run out of Jergens or body lotion, you can use Extra Virgin Olive Oil in a pinch - works great, you just end up smelling like an Italian restaurant.
A girl I hooked up with did it and at first I was going to stop her but then I thought to myself, “this is new, let’s see if it works” 😂 It did not work, you’re a freak 😂
That was me! I had the 3 times a day no lube death grip. I couldn't finish when I was with a partner and I had to use viagra. About 4 months ago I stopped watching porn and changed to a highly lubricated light grip 2 times a week. Now I'm rock hard. LIFE CHANGING!!!!!
@@jcjayrock I'll tell you brother I'm in that boat that this guy is talking about and it was like he was speaking to me and I wouldn't really say I need to take it I just take it to be on the safe side.
When I saw the title card I thought it was referring to a woman's death grip on a penis....vaginal spams gripping the penis very tightly. Very informative, thank you.
I’m proud of my self control. It has taken me many moons but I think I got it down to a T. 11 weeks & going. I feel a weight lifted after I gained self control. 😊
I think that being in your own head while getting the chicken choked can make the ending difficult. Also, imagination can be much better than what's on the internet.
Another great scientific explanation by Dr. Malik! As someone who gave up the "Death grip" years ago, I have discovered the benefits of mindfulness, soft touch and lots of lube and toys. My solo time is much more fulfilling and sx with my wife is better than ever for both of us. Thank you Dr. Malik
Explained logical example the most adverse effect of hand job. Really appreciate u Dr .this is v.important sharing which men shud take in consideration before doing this practice.
My urologist says this is basically impossible. I practice very frequently, but my grip isn't a death grip, and my sensation is minimal at this point during actual sex. I can barely feel it. This causes me to go soft pretty quickly.
Death grip is actually caused by circumcision, because the lack of sensation causes the person to grip harder to try and get more sensation, rather than the normal functioning of gliding the movable skin up and down.
@@rotimioyemade8179it's not surprising to me at all, as she has promoted circumcision as overall beneficial elsewhere (while also discussing drawbacks) and strongly implied having her own son circumcised in one video on urinary tract infections.
@@jKLa Her son is not circumcised she stated she left him intact. The urinary tract infection was cured with antibiotics. However she has promoted circumcision.
Honest question. What is wrong with doing it prone? I’ve done that most of my life. I have had sex with only one person, and not a whole lot of times. I will honestly say that it felt like…nothing. No pressure whatsoever. I chalked it up to her not being into it (which did come up and eventually end our time together) and her not exercising and having had 3 kids prior to us meeting. Having no other experience, I assumed it could be better, but I really don’t know. I do prone because seated upright really doesn’t do it for me. Any advice, knowledge, etc would be appreciated.
I hope you find someone who is more into it. On my early 20's I just assumed everyone would be enthusiastic about it, and unfortunately that's not the case. Some people are more creative and experimental than others.
@@jkjives1786 hey thanks. Yeah, my whole situation seemed to be a lie to get extra time coaching and parenting her kids (usually whilst she was with other people). Might never have actually wanted to be with me. Maybe one day intimacy can happen again but it seems my not wanting to have children could really set me as single for my whole lifetime.
There was a study in 2007 on 255 circumcised men in which they found that masturbatory pleasure decreased after circumcision in 48% of the respondents, while 8% reported increased pleasure. Masturbatory difficulty increased after circumcision in 63% of the respondents but was easier in 37%.
Just read up on the term and I should have known but at 78 what the Hell do I know anymore!!! Sounds to God to be true and how does one escape the grip? O we well cannot think of a better way to go and have a smile from ear to ear🇨🇦😄
Often, it's enough to take a 2 week break. And possibly get a fleshlight, or something that is as close to the real thing as possible. Also, be patient. Explain this to the partner, and allow the body to readjust to real life encounters. Real life isn't porn, and vaginas are not a super tight fist.
Dr. Malik should clarify that this technique should not be confused with the non sexual Vulcan Death Grip where manual pressure is applied to the face and/or head in order incapacitate an adversary.
Just watched “The Enterprise Incident” tonight. Vulcan Death Grip was a quick reaction to a threat. It was to the face and Kirk later said it felt like his head was twisted off.
Thank you for addressing this! I have been facing these issues and i fall into one of the abnormal masturbation habits you mentioned. I have been edging and rubbing through clothes every day and sexting strangers while doing it. I also use a death grip when i have to ejaculate. I am going on my no fap journey. Your advice is really appreciated 👍
Its 100% a thing and a problem ,,i came to the point that never mind sex having issues,,i could only finish masturbating sitting down ,if i stand up it would not happen
Dr. Milik, this is off subject however in one of your videos you spoke about a supplement called Horse Chestnut to improve blood flow. I have been taking this supplement for about two weeks now and what a deference it has made in my ability to get and keep an erection. Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge.
A little off topic, but I thought you might want to comment on the use of chaperones in particular with male patients and female providers. One set of prying eyes is bad enough, let alone 2 sets. This would never be allowed if the situation were reversed.
I remain totally impressed with your clinical balance and range of perspective. Kudos to you Doctor Malik: the Consummate Professional.
🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation:
00:00 💡 *Death grip refers to using a firm grip during masturbation, potentially leading to desensitization of the penis.*
02:15 📚 *A 2023 study found a correlation between abnormal masturbatory behaviors like death grip and erectile dysfunction.*
03:41 🤔 *Factors contributing to idiosyncratic masturbation include frequency, technique, duration, and intensity.*
05:32 📊 *Men with erectile dysfunction and atypical masturbatory behaviors were more likely to have firmer erections during masturbation than during sex.*
07:09 🩺 *Evaluation by a urologist is recommended to rule out other medical conditions contributing to erectile dysfunction.*
08:32 🔄 *Strategies for addressing death grip include abstaining from masturbation, using gentle touch, and exploring different sensations.*
10:23 🚫 *Masturbation is not inherently problematic but may become an issue if it affects one's sex life or daily functioning.*
Since I broke my Vacuu-Jack™, I've had to go back and use what we used to call the Indian Rope Burn (native American), where you wrap both fists around the fuselage and while twisting one fist clockwise, you simultaneously twist the other fist counter-clockwise with firm grips, and repeat always twisting both fists in opposite directions. Boy, does that feel so good. If you run out of Jergens or body lotion, you can use Extra Virgin Olive Oil in a pinch - works great, you just end up smelling like an Italian restaurant.
Fuselage! Lol. I'm dead!
Thanks!
😦😦😦
Amazing video and Knowledgeable. God bless you with health and prosperity.
I’m a huge death grips fan and I was like “what does urology have to do with death grips”
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA now you know where the name came from
😂
Yuh!
A girl I hooked up with did it and at first I was going to stop her but then I thought to myself, “this is new, let’s see if it works” 😂
It did not work, you’re a freak 😂
@@Baba_Yaga_123 😆😅🤣
That was me! I had the 3 times a day no lube death grip. I couldn't finish when I was with a partner and I had to use viagra. About 4 months ago I stopped watching porn and changed to a highly lubricated light grip 2 times a week. Now I'm rock hard. LIFE CHANGING!!!!!
Thanks for sharing that really helped me. I think I'm going to try that
you just gave me big time motivation mate . thanks for sharing man .
@@frost1358 same here brother
For real? Cos I’m having to use viagra all the time
@@jcjayrock I'll tell you brother I'm in that boat that this guy is talking about and it was like he was speaking to me and I wouldn't really say I need to take it I just take it to be on the safe side.
My wife has “death grip” kegel muscles, especially when she’s on her hands and knees ! 😜
Congrats!
That’s awesome
This was really informative!!!!
💀 I lost it at 9:15 when doc said start by using a feather 🪶 🤣
You are a phenom, Dr. Malik. No joke.
That was very informative thank you.
Great info! And fantastic hair, looking awesome in this video!
When I saw the title card I thought it was referring to a woman's death grip on a penis....vaginal spams gripping the penis very tightly. Very informative, thank you.
Thank you soooo much Dr. Rena ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
She’s gorgeous and super smart.
reminds me of the old joke- what's the difference between pink and purple?- the grip lol
The antidote is for your partner to exercise and develop a kung fu kegel grip just as strong as your death grip
😂
😂😂😂😂
Nah , just keep using your hand
😂😂😂😂😂😅😅,ha haaa
Yes....they exist
I like how she doesn't show any signs of criticism
Takes 3 weeks to recover. The authors of the pleasure trap Dr Alan Goldsmith and Dr. Doug Lisle told me that
I recommend a Flesh Light. Feels better and builds up sensitivity that was lost from death grip.
Preview text correction: difficulties "getting" and "staying" not "get" and "stay". Love the work you do Dr.! Thank you!
I’m proud of my self control. It has taken me many moons but I think I got it down to a T. 11 weeks & going.
I feel a weight lifted after I gained self control. 😊
Can you do a video on the role of high blood pressure and blood pressure medication on erections and sexual health?
Amazing video Dr Rena❤🙌🏿💪🏿
New subscriber! Really enjoy your videos. Keep up the great work.
You are a really wonderful woman.Always love your channel.
Thank you so much!
This opened my eyes never considered this
I think that being in your own head while getting the chicken choked can make the ending difficult. Also, imagination can be much better than what's on the internet.
i needed this vid, thanks
Man…this was useful. Probably meant for me. UA-cam really needs to stop tracking me.
Thanks anyway Doc Rena ❤
I've tried a few of those automatic male masturbators, and one of them seems to have a "death grip" mode but not quite as dramatic as you explained.
What about pumping?
Another great scientific explanation by Dr. Malik! As someone who gave up the "Death grip" years ago, I have discovered the benefits of mindfulness, soft touch and lots of lube and toys. My solo time is much more fulfilling and sx with my wife is better than ever for both of us.
Thank you Dr. Malik
Mine is so tiny, i use the 2 finger deaths grip
My condolences to you
I use 800 grit sandpaper
Better than 40 grit.
Is that the same with wiping? You're not done until it's raw and bloody?
Yes, I have had this discussion before.
Explained logical example the most adverse effect of hand job.
Really appreciate u Dr .this is v.important sharing which men shud take in consideration before doing this practice.
I tell you what, buy a Fleshlight, it's an absolute game changer and will get you away from the Death Grip.
What if you can’t fit in one?
Toys could prevent you from gripping too hard.
Thanks Rena for the helping hand.
I never had true Love in my Life 😢😢
My urologist says this is basically impossible. I practice very frequently, but my grip isn't a death grip, and my sensation is minimal at this point during actual sex. I can barely feel it. This causes me to go soft pretty quickly.
nice video
Is the desensitization reversible?
oh tg
Once in the last 6 month to qualify? Were they looking for saints?
Death grip is actually caused by circumcision, because the lack of sensation causes the person to grip harder to try and get more sensation, rather than the normal functioning of gliding the movable skin up and down.
I have this issue and I’m uncut
Another reason to ban circumcision/genital mutilation on babies
It may be a pre-cause for death grips but circumcision doesn't inevitably lead to the practice and it isn't solely a problem for circumcised men.
@@rotimioyemade8179it's not surprising to me at all, as she has promoted circumcision as overall beneficial elsewhere (while also discussing drawbacks) and strongly implied having her own son circumcised in one video on urinary tract infections.
@@jKLa Her son is not circumcised she stated she left him intact. The urinary tract infection was cured with antibiotics. However she has promoted circumcision.
Could the same thing be applied to women & the things they do.... I'm pretty sure it applies to women as well
I’d fake illnesses just to see the good Dr. Malik 🤷♂️.
I've got an acute case of Simpitis.
@@BradAaronTaylor yeah, but I’ve got it worse, so you can schedule your appointment after mine, buddy.
😆😅😂
Nice highlights Dr.
4:22 When you mentuined lubricant, I instantly thought about another variable - what about being circumcised/uncircumcised?
Exactly. Also, the fact that cut men have less erogenous zones. So, focusing on more than one area of the genitals is more difficult.
@@Ajay_Ghale18 Also, what about using a fleshlight? Does it prevent you from gripping too hard?
Circumcised typically deteriorates glans sensitivity at about 1% a year.
@@jamesredman1263 yikes doesn't bode well for me then.
@@stravvmanrequires a lot of lube in my experience, and very easy to tear the skin and glans with them
How long of a break would you recommend?
So people are over sensitive during sex. Can the death grip help desensitize the area during sex to last longer?
Honest question. What is wrong with doing it prone? I’ve done that most of my life. I have had sex with only one person, and not a whole lot of times. I will honestly say that it felt like…nothing. No pressure whatsoever. I chalked it up to her not being into it (which did come up and eventually end our time together) and her not exercising and having had 3 kids prior to us meeting. Having no other experience, I assumed it could be better, but I really don’t know. I do prone because seated upright really doesn’t do it for me. Any advice, knowledge, etc would be appreciated.
I hope you find someone who is more into it. On my early 20's I just assumed everyone would be enthusiastic about it, and unfortunately that's not the case. Some people are more creative and experimental than others.
@@jkjives1786 hey thanks. Yeah, my whole situation seemed to be a lie to get extra time coaching and parenting her kids (usually whilst she was with other people). Might never have actually wanted to be with me. Maybe one day intimacy can happen again but it seems my not wanting to have children could really set me as single for my whole lifetime.
Can too much sexual activity be bad for the prostate?
Does aggressive pressure on clit cause similar problems
Mam . I'm might sound like flirting but . Ur the most beautiful doctor that I have ever seen 😂.
Well the longer you last makes your lady happy. There's that 😊❤
I use a Versa Gripps
I’m sure you have to that when you’re circumcised because of the loss of sensitivity and with no loose skin to glide over the glans
There was a study in 2007 on 255 circumcised men in which they found that masturbatory pleasure decreased after circumcision in 48% of the respondents, while 8% reported increased pleasure. Masturbatory difficulty increased after circumcision in 63% of the respondents but was easier in 37%.
I love the "death suck" that some women do
I guess I am lucky as I have always had weak forearms.
I love this woman.
Just read up on the term and I should have known but at 78 what the Hell do I know anymore!!! Sounds to God to be true and how does one escape the grip? O we well cannot think of a better way to go and have a smile from ear to ear🇨🇦😄
Eh Thanks Doc.
*You received a 👍🏼*
Thank you Doc
“Have you ever given yourself a stranger?” - Chapelle Show. Dave Chapelle
where’d you get the windshield light up thing
thanks doc
Is using oil advisable instead of lubricant?
Often, it's enough to take a 2 week break. And possibly get a fleshlight, or something that is as close to the real thing as possible. Also, be patient. Explain this to the partner, and allow the body to readjust to real life encounters. Real life isn't porn, and vaginas are not a super tight fist.
Yeah but what about when your woman uses the "death grip" on you??? Trying to get her to understand is tough
You are awesome this on point ❤ all correct
"Death grip"...sounds so violent! 😆😅😂
It is not but like she said you can get addicted to it. I did.
What if they called it choking the chicken. Which one would rate higher on the violence scale.
@@EyeSee4.8 “Choking the chicken by death grip!” 👀😑😇
@GregO0oo lol that's very violent hehe.
fun fact: Darth Vader invented the Death Grip on the Death Star!
Isn't the same true for females?
"Kung Fu GRIP YO! Kung Fu Grip!" 🤣
Huh?
Now what . . . ?
What where you saying about the quadratric formula?
It's the key to knowing how to do the Vulcan death grip?
Well son of a...... Damn my strong arm.... 💪
This world is a crazy place
Why it has to do with the video
I have replaced my masterbation with Jelq because I want to make it longer. Some articles state “it doesn’t” and others state “it does.”
Dr. Malik should clarify that this technique should not be confused with the non sexual Vulcan Death Grip where manual pressure is applied to the face and/or head in order incapacitate an adversary.
The Vulcan death grip was to the neck, not the head / face. The head / face thing was the mind meld.
Your point is well taken further emphasizing the need for clarity from the publisher in this matter.@@harpintn
Just watched “The Enterprise Incident” tonight. Vulcan Death Grip was a quick reaction to a threat. It was to the face and Kirk later said it felt like his head was twisted off.
@@gryhze That is part of the reboot crap, that is not star trek.
@JustinArut I will look it up on pluto and watch it.
Thank you for addressing this! I have been facing these issues and i fall into one of the abnormal masturbation habits you mentioned. I have been edging and rubbing through clothes every day and sexting strangers while doing it. I also use a death grip when i have to ejaculate. I am going on my no fap journey. Your advice is really appreciated 👍
Asslamo Alaikum sister
Its 100% a thing and a problem ,,i came to the point that never mind sex having issues,,i could only finish masturbating sitting down ,if i stand up it would not happen
Is excessive mastubation in 20s and 30s age cause prostate cancer is true or wrong?
Wrong.
My doctor once told me to get a grip...so can I sue him for malpractice? 🤣
Sounds like a heavy metal band 🤟🏼
It is a band
It does
Mine is a 5. I can plank on top of it.
Dr. Milik, this is off subject however in one of your videos you spoke about a supplement called Horse Chestnut to improve blood flow. I have been taking this supplement for about two weeks now and what a deference it has made in my ability to get and keep an erection. Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge.
The death grip is my go to. It actually helps you to last longer in bed.
This is too true it adds hrs until your used to your partner
Doesn’t really matter in my case. I’m 35 and have never even been on a date.
This is new to me Doc!!! I've heard of GI Joe Kung-fu Grip!!!!! As always, another interesting topic!!!! Thanks Doc. Enjoy the rest of your week!!!!❤
this just makes me want to ....
bro exactly she knows it too
A little off topic, but I thought you might want to comment on the use of chaperones in particular with male patients and female providers. One set of prying eyes is bad enough, let alone 2 sets. This would never be allowed if the situation were reversed.
Everyone has a different grip you need a visual demonstration of what is to aggressive
Get get get get got got got got
💯👍🏽
Other types? There are other types? Why did no one tell me there are other types?
Can shockwave therapy fix issues with death grip?
I went once to a urologist and I asked that. He told me that shockwave treatment does not work. He can also be wrong.
waste of money. Not that I would know, but way too many people on online forums had different results. So that's a no
@@MikeBNumba6how am I gonna fix it thennn
Always thought this term had something to do with driving a train...sure wouldn't mind stopping my locomotive in Dr Rena's station...