A Urologist explains what is edging and is it SAFE?!

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  • Edging (also called surfing, peaking, teasing, and more) is the practice of stopping yourself from reaching orgasm right when you’re on the cusp - the metaphorical “edge” right before you fall off the cliff into sexual climax.
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    Chapters
    00:00 Intro
    00:11 What is edging?
    00:30 Pros of edging
    03:30 What can you do to stop early climax
    05:07 Cons of Edging
    08:14 Conclusion

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  • @SweepTheLeg2023
    @SweepTheLeg2023 Рік тому +1838

    Having sex on a regular basis helps keep your memory alive.
    I wish you all a great 2017.

  • @TerreHauteRemoteGoat
    @TerreHauteRemoteGoat Рік тому +933

    I learned edging as a landscaper. This gives a whole new perspective, though I don't know how my clients will react to me doing THIS in their yard.

    • @FrankThePlank925
      @FrankThePlank925 11 місяців тому +48

      No that is hedging

    • @crandonborth
      @crandonborth 10 місяців тому

      Definitely sounds illegal... @@FrankThePlank925

    • @jimmoore4041
      @jimmoore4041 9 місяців тому +29

      @@FrankThePlank925Still better than wedging...

    • @paulagooding8441
      @paulagooding8441 3 місяці тому +9

      😅😅😅

    • @mccjoy
      @mccjoy 2 місяці тому +3

      😂😂😂

  • @seendabeen1740
    @seendabeen1740 7 місяців тому +2299

    Why am I watching this 💀

    • @alchene321
      @alchene321 6 місяців тому

      ​@@leumas8536😅

    • @Master.Baiting_to_you
      @Master.Baiting_to_you 6 місяців тому +85

      ​@@leumas8536so you basically said that you edged to this video?!

    • @gavinspencer2308
      @gavinspencer2308 6 місяців тому +29

      Because it can be a fun and enjoyable and useful practice

    • @Master.Baiting_to_you
      @Master.Baiting_to_you 6 місяців тому +50

      @@gavinspencer2308 then get your whole family and start practicing

    • @Echo_Edge_Gaming
      @Echo_Edge_Gaming 5 місяців тому +11

      Heres why. You looked up edging because you thought it would be funny. Or. You were in a VERY WEIRD STRING OF VODEOS and got to this

  • @Proud_Troll
    @Proud_Troll 6 місяців тому +743

    Currently on a 3 year edge...

    • @hiteshananda8975
      @hiteshananda8975 6 місяців тому +42

      It's over for u

    • @Master.Baiting_to_you
      @Master.Baiting_to_you 3 місяці тому +34

      @@hiteshananda8975 it's over the edge fr

    • @churlesjenkins4338
      @churlesjenkins4338 3 місяці тому +87

      Bro's gonna cause another biblical flood. At least I'll know it's you when it happens.

    • @Proud_Troll
      @Proud_Troll 3 місяці тому +11

      @@churlesjenkins4338 lmao

    • @aniimaii
      @aniimaii 2 місяці тому +19

      Little guys stuck in the longest traffic jam of the century

  • @introverted_mixmasher
    @introverted_mixmasher Місяць тому +319

    Why did I got recommended of this video 💀

  • @KpxUrz5745
    @KpxUrz5745 Рік тому +901

    Let's be fair. Dr Malik is surely one of the best and most informative physicians openly discussing a great many topics that most would never touch upon, and in such a genuine and non-judgmental way. This is just a wonderful channel! Thank You, Dr Malik, for putting your clear voice out there!

    • @wilmarkjohnatty4924
      @wilmarkjohnatty4924 Рік тому +12

      I think she misrepresents many of these topics by conflating Ejaculation, Sex and Relationships. For example, during her Prostate cancer vids, she mixes up sex with ejaculation. Sex is with a partner. Very very few sex partners can maintain 21x per month outside the honeymoon period. Masturbation - you might make that in a week easy when you are younger. And the research shows this, married men have a higher incidence of prostate cancer, but the research is very taboo and hard to find online. This is another topic where sex vs masturbation is conflated. Edging is largely a self controlled, masturbatory tactic, and not for half hour with a partner - but >2 hrs solo when you get good at it.

    • @meandshe1518
      @meandshe1518 Рік тому +10

      I agree 100%. I just started watching. She has a way of concisely and clearly conveying the information in an informative and collegial manner.

    • @davidh2550
      @davidh2550 Рік тому +5

      Agreed

    • @josephlewis
      @josephlewis Рік тому +5

      Sounds like there is no discussion or thought. She is just reading. I’d love to hear her opinions or thoughts or experiences, but no.

    • @bluesbro3851
      @bluesbro3851 Рік тому +2

      and the hottest!❤

  • @sdthrutheroof9161
    @sdthrutheroof9161 Рік тому +1639

    For me, the best method of controlling ejaculation is frequent intercourse. I had a girlfriend several years ago and we would have intercourse several times a week, sometimes two or three times a day. After getting used to "getting it" this often I was able to hold my ejaculate for 30 to 40 minutes, enough time so that she would have 2 or 3 orgasms before I had one. It took a lot of practice!! I sure do miss that woman!!😊

    • @benjeanettebooth1800
      @benjeanettebooth1800 Рік тому +143

      Sound like you had a lot of fun. Practice does make perfect 🥰

    • @joshualamont5768
      @joshualamont5768 Рік тому +93

      I agree a 100%, I have that right now With my fiancee I have it every day . Some times 2 or 3 times a day,20 to 30 min. For me. Going on 3 months now.

    • @TomMcDonaldatYahooDotCom
      @TomMcDonaldatYahooDotCom Рік тому +178

      Sooo true, soo if women want men to last longer, they have to pitch in and help more with more sex !!👍😉

    • @sdthrutheroof9161
      @sdthrutheroof9161 Рік тому +24

      @@TomMcDonaldatYahooDotCom umm.. No. It doesn't seem to work that way. The real thing is so much more exciting than the hand it seems masterbating does not have the same effect. At least, in my experience anyway.

    • @TomMcDonaldatYahooDotCom
      @TomMcDonaldatYahooDotCom Рік тому +1

      @@sdthrutheroof9161 i agree bcause ive been jacking off for many years sometimes a few times a day and it still doesnt work

  • @jamesantosca4005
    @jamesantosca4005 Рік тому +432

    Doc, you haven't mentioned the BEST edging technique. In oral edging, for instance, this is when the receiver instructs the giver to "Stop!" just before orgasm. The giver ceases the stimulus, momentarily, and then resumes. As this is done repeatedly, the receiver enters a state of semi-orgasmic ecstasy, usually quite vocal, which should be to the delight of the giver who should also be greatly enjoying the teasing element of the technique.
    But here's the real fun part. On one of those cycles when the receiver says, "Stop," the giver defies the instruction and plays on through, so to speak, bringing the receiver to an enormously powerful climax. The cumulative pre-orgasmic tensioning, abruptly released via the element of surprise, produces such a rush of pleasure that the receiver will vocalize with reckless abandon and/or experience the sensation of nearly losing consciousness. (I recommend vocalizing into a pillow, for privacy.) Yes, it's THAT powerful.

    • @ramrod0209
      @ramrod0209 Рік тому +70

      Whoa that's quite a Mouth-Full! ♡♡

    • @mikhailmikhail2372
      @mikhailmikhail2372 Рік тому +16

      Wow thanks for sharing

    • @IAm_Meeh
      @IAm_Meeh Рік тому +13

      Dangerously amazing , that climax is like no other

    • @michelemoneywell8765
      @michelemoneywell8765 Рік тому +1

      @@ramrod0209 😄

    • @Mick_4591
      @Mick_4591 Рік тому +13

      Ive tried that and u get asked " whats wrong" i say nothing then starts again i say stop she says whats wrong then i try and explain what im trying to achieve she then looses interest

  • @Shreadington
    @Shreadington Рік тому +604

    Been edging 20+years. I edged twice last night before she got hers at around 15 minutes. Stop/start method is what I do. 10-15 seconds and mask it by adjusting/changing position, kissing, or something similar. I might edge 1-3 times depending on how long it takes for her to finish. It builds the intensity of the bedroom fun for both of us.

    • @tausif3k
      @tausif3k Рік тому +18

      no blue balls?

    • @Shreadington
      @Shreadington Рік тому +86

      @@tausif3k never. You still get your nut. It's just prolonged. Edging helps to increase stamina.

    • @aaronautry1981
      @aaronautry1981 Рік тому +13

      @@Shreadington especially the powerful release

    • @ItsYaBoi888
      @ItsYaBoi888 Рік тому +14

      She lets you edge? She's not too...greedy?

    • @Shreadington
      @Shreadington Рік тому +57

      @@ItsYaBoi888 that's why I mentioned masking or disguising it with some other stimulus. She really doesn't know it's happening. Know what I mean 😁

  • @benjeanettebooth1800
    @benjeanettebooth1800 Рік тому +82

    Absolutely LOVE edging! Orgasms are so much more pleasurable and explosive. I highly recommend this technique to anyone who is suffering from premature ejaculation. Awesome video!

  • @BackFocus11
    @BackFocus11 Рік тому +7

    Bravo! We’ve been waiting years for you to do this video. Great job. Thanks for the info.

  • @bobbygrey5859
    @bobbygrey5859 Рік тому +144

    Dr. Malik thank you, I've been edging for decades and absolutely love it!!!
    Bringing more pleasure for both of us is definitely beneficial.
    Happy New Year to you and keep the videos coming 👍🏾

  • @juleslincredule
    @juleslincredule Рік тому +93

    1- Edging is the practice of orgasm control to delay climax during sexual activity.
    2- Edging can be done by oneself or with a partner and can be incorporated into many different kinds of sex.
    3- The pros of edging include potentially increased pleasure, enhancing connection with one's partner, being a learning process, allowing for greater control, and helping with premature ejaculation.
    4- The data on how well edging works is limited, but the stop-start method has been found to help with premature ejaculation.
    5- Preventing climax can be achieved by increasing the length of the sexual excitation phase through abdominal breathing, focusing on moderate intensity, and enjoying the journey rather than just the end result.
    6- Trying to distract oneself from sexual stimuli during edging is not recommended.
    7- A study of 36 couples found that the stop-start method helped extend the intra-ejaculatory latency time up to seven minutes.

    • @freddiemedley5580
      @freddiemedley5580 4 місяці тому +3

      Edging is the act of leaning to the left or right edge while in a kayak or canoe and holding it for a pierod of time. You might have stollen our word, but where getting it back.

    • @carynmartin6053
      @carynmartin6053 3 місяці тому

      Great, except when you're hired to service someone you aren't particularly attracted to, it just prolongs the torture to the giver 😮😢

    • @David280GG
      @David280GG 4 дні тому

      What the sigma

  • @SternLX
    @SternLX 7 місяців тому +14

    In my very late teens(18-19) I recall listening to Dr. Ruth discuss this very subject on her Radio program way back in the 1980's. She mentioned it's roots in the Kama Sutra. Those ancient texts cover advice on how to control or extend the male orgasm. Picked up a copy for myself at a Book store and started practicing and using the diet advice it gave in there. Now in my late 50's it still amazes me how often this same information keeps getting re-presented in new formats.

  • @davidpetersen1
    @davidpetersen1 Рік тому +9

    You ae so awesome. Your positive attitude and nonjudgemental tempermant towards these subjects is literally heartwarming. Rational people do exist. Humanity might have a chance after all. 😁😁😂😂

  • @haroldclark1787
    @haroldclark1787 Рік тому +72

    Dr, Malik deserves the Nobel Prize in Medicine. Her videos are replete with useful, practical information, and she is incredibly articulate in disseminating her encyclopedic knowledge of all things urologic. What a gift she is to humankind!

  • @bazilbatlledragon
    @bazilbatlledragon Рік тому +4

    Agreed this is a wonderful doctor. It's unfortunate so many doctors will not talk about this today.

  • @wiexenspei
    @wiexenspei Рік тому +12

    Everyone wants to live on top of the mountain, but all the happiness and growth occurs while you're climbing it.

  • @rjeption
    @rjeption Рік тому +12

    So informative and it feels open and no judgements. Thank you!

  • @ra8640
    @ra8640 Рік тому +25

    As a guy I can honestly say Dr. Malik has lots of information that you cannot learn on your own. This is medically based sexual education. Thank You for these Amazing videos!

  • @eamonmcerlean7136
    @eamonmcerlean7136 Рік тому +39

    I’ve been edging for over 20 years. I can allow myself to almost come but then stop, contract my PC muscles (perineum) while pushing a finger on the perineum. This allows me to carry on indefinitely. 😊

    • @yashadiwal5712
      @yashadiwal5712 Рік тому

      Orgasm is the contraction of pc muscle,, so in theory u gotta relax ur pc muscle not contract,,
      U r contracting during sex or during masturbation?

    • @praetentious2925
      @praetentious2925 11 місяців тому +2

      Ever hurt yourself?

    • @xmo552
      @xmo552 9 місяців тому +1

      How exactly please ?

    • @AhmedMohammed-pg9si
      @AhmedMohammed-pg9si 7 місяців тому +3

      Thats called retrograde ejaculation simply by not allowing seminal fluid to come out of your body and instead of that it comes back to the bladder and released with the urine when you urinate

    • @joshmanwaring3848
      @joshmanwaring3848 2 місяці тому +1

      ​@AhmedMohammed-pg9si pee is stored in the balls

  • @ezeudonwaozuzu
    @ezeudonwaozuzu Рік тому +29

    Wow! What a urology genius we got here. Thanks a lot prof. Can’t get enough of your lectures. 💪💪💪

  • @jaimeabarca6256
    @jaimeabarca6256 7 місяців тому +2

    As a Male physician specialized in dermatology & venereal diseases I can surely appreciate Dr Malik´s contribution with these useful & interesting videos

  • @rogerwilcojr
    @rogerwilcojr Рік тому +36

    I'm 60 and have a slow urine flow and difficulty emptying my bladder. If I edge for an hour I have an orgasm like an 18 yo and then piss like a race horse and can empty my bladder. I first learned about it when I was 18 in a Penthouse Magzine story called Time Lag Orgasm. It involved 2 girls that teased a man for an hour until he had the ultimate orgasm. I feel blessed I read it and have been practicing it 42 years with only positive results.

  • @paulh6067
    @paulh6067 Рік тому +15

    Hiya Rena,
    Thanks for the very informative videos 📹 . I love watching them 👍
    I've been edging for years and have found that it's really helped with my ejaculation control. Therefore, am lasting much longer, which is great!
    The benefits definitely outweigh the cons 😉

    • @GghhkKjut5
      @GghhkKjut5 3 місяці тому

      😮 0:51 ❤

    • @GghhkKjut5
      @GghhkKjut5 3 місяці тому

      1:03 😮😅 1:10 😊🎉😊🎉❤

    • @GghhkKjut5
      @GghhkKjut5 3 місяці тому

      ❤😂 1:28

  • @garymurawski1476
    @garymurawski1476 4 місяці тому +1

    so informative. I have been watching and learning and now subscribed. Thank you for your concern and content

  • @theoddlemon408
    @theoddlemon408 28 днів тому +2

    Never thought I’d get lectured by a doctor about gooning

  • @cayennepeppa707
    @cayennepeppa707 Рік тому +27

    Great topic. Edging is fun. It's been around certain communities for a looong time. Keep it fun, keep stimulating in the start-stop, change it up. Enjoy it in a safe, secure place with the person you are absolutely crazy in love with.

    • @renamalike
      @renamalike Рік тому

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    • @MartinWhiteWest
      @MartinWhiteWest Рік тому +3

      Agree, I thought the ejaculation/orgasm is the best. But if you know how to edge, you keep pleasuring yourself not 5seconds only during the orgasm. They best one is if your GF is part of it. She also gets fun while making you pleased.

    • @JackMason-oq8lf
      @JackMason-oq8lf 3 місяці тому +2

      This is kind of a hoot. I'm part of a large community of guys who edge all the time and love it. Just about 100% live alone. I've been edging for decades. Now I have graduated into gooning, a whole different ball.

  • @toggletacfish
    @toggletacfish 2 місяці тому +8

    Imagine edging to the point where it's interfering with your daily life! That sounds incredible!

  • @YourpainRx
    @YourpainRx Рік тому +2

    Awesome! That answer many questions I had. Thank you!

  • @ivy0912
    @ivy0912 Рік тому +3

    This is exactly how the doctors should talk. With all the knowledge about a topic!!

  • @jetbudgieii
    @jetbudgieii Рік тому +109

    What I found worked really well for my partner and myself was the 'Rule of 10' Basically to gently thrust for nine times, then on the tenth to firmly push right in, and back to nine gentle thrusts, and so on. Could keep going for a long time using that method, highly recommend it 👍

    • @Ayaymeer
      @Ayaymeer Рік тому +1

      This sounds like a good tip thanks 👌

    • @jimminimac
      @jimminimac Рік тому +18

      "There once was a man named McAmiter, who had a tool of Prodigious Diameter . But it wasn't his size that made his woman sigh, 'twas his rhythm, Iambic Pentameter "

    • @LoneLee2022
      @LoneLee2022 Рік тому

      Do you use your fingers to count?

    • @jetbudgieii
      @jetbudgieii Рік тому +2

      @@LoneLee2022 Well, if you can see them.... 😂

    • @LoneLee2022
      @LoneLee2022 Рік тому +1

      @@jetbudgieii Whattya mean?

  • @celestinoybarra3057
    @celestinoybarra3057 Рік тому +4

    Older women taught me a lot of this when I was younger. Thank God for that.

  • @rinoceronte2692
    @rinoceronte2692 Рік тому +7

    I have been practicing edging for many years now and it has been working wonders for me. Thanks to mastering edging I can go over an hour doing different positions......

  • @ibookboyuk
    @ibookboyuk Рік тому +2

    Your videos are always excellent.

  • @jefflay5818
    @jefflay5818 Рік тому

    Dang, I need to watch past #4 before commenting. Loved the video Dr Rena.

  • @jayatlas9577
    @jayatlas9577 4 місяці тому +4

    One thing I learned is how much the prostate swells when you're very close. On the perineum area you can feel something there and rubbing it can eventually trigger one. I practiced this by rubbing my legs together slowly one time when I was on the edge and words can't describe the build up that I felt. Basically my legs started shaking uncontrollably and the "point of no return" feeling lasted like 20 seconds as it went higher and higher in pleasure until I had to let go because it was too much. I never tried prostate toys but I had no idea I could have a prostate O by rubbing externally, it was much more intense and full body than the usual way

  • @91364Steve
    @91364Steve Рік тому +138

    Great topic. This is a big practice in the BDSM community. We use it as a component of power exchange, where top edges the bottom. It was nice to hear you chime in on the medical aspects of it. Keep posting great videos like this!

    • @yelizaveta1278
      @yelizaveta1278 Рік тому +5

      O denial is pretty incredible. Certainly a more simplified act , but inadvertently results in some edging.

    • @cuckertarlson3037
      @cuckertarlson3037 Рік тому +5

      Why your picture look like BTK ?

    • @socalpal8416
      @socalpal8416 Рік тому +3

      BDSM? Sounds like a railroad. What is it?

    • @91364Steve
      @91364Steve Рік тому +24

      @@socalpal8416 Yes, it's a railroad

    • @socalpal8416
      @socalpal8416 Рік тому +7

      @@91364Steve thanks......I'll let my parents know. they were curious too.

  • @insanity6105
    @insanity6105 Рік тому +3

    Dear Dr. Rena, In the thumbnail picture of you at the beginning of this presentation, I can’t tell if you are reaching the edge, at the edge or well into the festivities. I’m guessing the latter. Anyhow, thanks for sharing this little window into your personal pleasures. This picture is worth a thousand words, as they say.

  • @rythic.
    @rythic. 8 місяців тому +69

    Edging is life

  • @juancarloscienfuegos7450
    @juancarloscienfuegos7450 Рік тому +24

    Great video Doc thanks ❤ ever happy new year

  • @HirXeBomb
    @HirXeBomb Рік тому +5

    Thank you Rena, I did not know this and am glad I have no issues yet. Nice to know this now. 👍

  • @markmarkofkane8167
    @markmarkofkane8167 Рік тому +1

    I just found this channel. Very interesting. I knew about edging. But love to learn more things.

  • @fatherofthepigeons2854
    @fatherofthepigeons2854 6 місяців тому +11

    On my 10 year edge right now.

  • @stephen9302
    @stephen9302 Рік тому +5

    This woman is a natural treasure

  • @davidroberts5577
    @davidroberts5577 Рік тому +4

    Deeply appreciate the information you share on your channel... namaste 🕉️

    • @davidroberts5577
      @davidroberts5577 Рік тому

      @Nicegram--Me--RenaMalik_MD Right Back at you, have a wonderful New Year☮️🕉️

  • @sigvar6795
    @sigvar6795 Рік тому +2

    Great topic! Great activity!

  • @nickmcnellis3937
    @nickmcnellis3937 Рік тому +10

    Love Dr. Rena. She's spot on with everything and explains things well with a flowing calm and cool demeanor. Not to mention her thourough knowledge of pleasure is VERY VERY atractive. Thinking her husband is an extremely lucky guy!

  • @theoavg
    @theoavg 10 місяців тому +12

    I am always edging when watching this kind of videos

    • @Master.Baiting_to_you
      @Master.Baiting_to_you Місяць тому

      Most of those videos are with men explaining. It makes sense for you

  • @Mikeyj130
    @Mikeyj130 6 місяців тому +59

    I spend 22 hours edging and 2 hours tipping my landlord everyday. Now read that again in Sungondese.

    • @kaelandin
      @kaelandin 5 місяців тому +6

      "What's sugondese?"
      there, go for the joke

    • @SaberCross19k
      @SaberCross19k 5 місяців тому +7

      @@kaelandin Ligma balls! That's the joke right?

    • @TheGraffiti600rr
      @TheGraffiti600rr 3 місяці тому +6

      I really thought this was a dupont method. Lol

    • @madhukarjonathanminj2772
      @madhukarjonathanminj2772 2 місяці тому

      I see,the Royce Dupont awakening has begun,we were few,now there will be many of the few.

    • @assetaden6662
      @assetaden6662 2 місяці тому

      Now replace the word "kia sonata" with "beethoven wrote chinese". Thank me later.

  • @LendallPittsII
    @LendallPittsII Рік тому

    I very much appreciate Dr. Malik's discussion orgasms strategies from a western medical perspective.

  • @MrRKWRIGHT
    @MrRKWRIGHT Рік тому

    Good Wednesday morning Doc. Happy New Year.

  • @okanguncu5453
    @okanguncu5453 Рік тому +8

    Don't take this edging too far. It sometimes ends up with very late ejaculation duration s and that is very hard to reverse or let's say lessen, if somehow it becomes a standard or habit.

  • @Error-0x0194
    @Error-0x0194 11 місяців тому +5

    The best are quickies. If it goes for too long things get numb.

  • @timothywoods8170
    @timothywoods8170 Рік тому +1

    Great information Ma'am! ✊🏾

  • @TheDekysar
    @TheDekysar Рік тому

    Wow 😊great information!

  • @kriogenk2495
    @kriogenk2495 Рік тому +6

    Great content as usual. Can you please put English subtitle (cc) on your videos? Can be helpful for audience from other countries. Thank you!

  • @NewestDocumentaries
    @NewestDocumentaries Рік тому +32

    Yoga exercises like leg stretching, deep squat, glute bridge, planks etc., are the only things which helped me with pre ejaculation. After doing these for a while, now I can keep thrusting for half an hour without ejaculating by simply pushing my abs down towards the anus & squeezing my glutes at the same time. So the bottom line is to build power in your abs & glutes, and you will become master in the bedroom.

  • @gr5217
    @gr5217 Рік тому +1

    VERY INFORMATIVE

  • @Patrick10274
    @Patrick10274 Рік тому +3

    Happy 2023, Dr. Rena

  • @brettbarager9101
    @brettbarager9101 Рік тому +14

    As a therapist, people often ask me what the most important thing is for satisfying sex. I tell them: communication!

  • @ambasing69
    @ambasing69 5 місяців тому +28

    edging to this rn

  • @user-hi3kx6fj3s
    @user-hi3kx6fj3s Рік тому

    Why did I just found out that Dr. Malik ir around the Baltimore area? 😢 I could have gone to her for my vasectomy and stay with her as my Urologist. Her videos are very informative! Thank you so much for giving us all this info.

  • @jordanburrill7182
    @jordanburrill7182 Рік тому +2

    My wife and I have been edging for a number of years. But, not every time. I found that I can stay before the point of 'no return' for up to 40 minutes. Experts that teach this suggest that during the short 'cool-down'/slow-down period, that gently massaging the testicles will ileviate 'blue balls'. This does work.

  • @michaelcapeless3268
    @michaelcapeless3268 Рік тому +12

    To me, it sounds a lot like Tantra... being in the moment rather than trying to reach some point of conclusion

  • @Kentrc11
    @Kentrc11 Рік тому +18

    I do edging either to fight sleep during study or to soothe numbness at refract period. I take Ibuprofen or use a cold/heat pack if swelling is painful. Happy New Year, Dr. Rena.

  • @timelston4260
    @timelston4260 Рік тому

    I scrolled through all your videos and didn't see one on high PSA counts. Could you please make one. Thank you! Love your channel.

  • @roberthudyma3773
    @roberthudyma3773 Рік тому

    Dr Malik,
    Really enjoy your videos, quite informative.
    Any chance you can do a talk on the Rezum Procedure for reducing enlarged prostate and associated symptoms.
    Thanks

  • @DrJohnnyApocolypse
    @DrJohnnyApocolypse Рік тому +152

    I’m happy to see an edging video, it’s pretty popular in modern culture almost as recognizable a trend as no nut November which I was also glad to see addressed.. I’m curious about a scientific explanation and or warnings if needed about another form of edging, or I guess a entirely different experience, which is called “semen retention” it begins with edging and orgasm control, then it becomes about training yourself to feel an orgasm in full but retain semen and prevent the ejaculation from happening, this is a full climax orgasm but using the muscles of the penis to clench or hold back the semen, at first this is right at the exit of the urethra but with practice this “pinch” happens deeper, under the testicles even, with the muscles contracting. I’m curious as to any possible dangers or prostate damage etc. I’ve had almost a year go by without ejaculating, orgasming but retaining my semen, I had a normal sex life both with partners and without but had no nocturnal emissions and when I didn’t “retain semen” I still produced a healthy amount of semen upon ejaculation, so the year I spent without “spilling a seed” as it were, was entirely due to the physical discipline and control. I’m very curious to see this from the perspectives of professionals.

    • @justyouraveragefox3561
      @justyouraveragefox3561 Рік тому +26

      When you use the clench technique the sperm ends up in your bladder (it's called a retrograde orgasm), which might cause issues if you do it for years. Look into orgasm techniques that don't trigger a retrograde orgasm. Urban Tantra is a good read for both men and women.

    • @joshdunne8792
      @joshdunne8792 Рік тому +21

      Keeping semen in your body long term is definitely not healthy. It's a normal body function for a reason

    • @aaronautry1981
      @aaronautry1981 Рік тому +14

      You body doesn't need to release amen to stay healthy, sex or not, master bastion or not. It will simply reabsorb out and make a new batch. You can have blue balls and if you can manage to endure the discomfort and pain, it goes away and you'll be fine.

    • @MikeNaples
      @MikeNaples Рік тому +14

      @@aaronautry1981 You make a good point. I had always thought blue balls were some kind of urban myth until my uncle was stricken with a bad case. He ended up in the ER and had a male nurse take care of him. He was embarrassed as all get out but fortunately learned his lesson and now cleans out his pipes on a daily basis.

    • @JTV84
      @JTV84 Рік тому +5

      @@MikeNaples best way. i keep my pipes clean.

  • @BobbieLovesSoles
    @BobbieLovesSoles Рік тому +3

    Thank you for making this one Doc.

  • @davidcadena3815
    @davidcadena3815 Рік тому

    Thanks Doc!!!

  • @7591warthog
    @7591warthog Рік тому +1

    1 more time, very concise, interesting, accurate, for the complete ignorant I am. Thxs very much.

  • @yenotsnostrebor7714
    @yenotsnostrebor7714 Рік тому +59

    Yes fourplay one gets close to the eruption and return to fourplay then got back to smash manytimes back and fourth back and forth and back and forth back and forth and then finally viola both partners are exhausted with smiles on their faces oh joy

  • @ajeyavaani1366
    @ajeyavaani1366 Рік тому +5

    Please enable captions

    • @Quija9334
      @Quija9334 Рік тому

      Thank you so much!😅

  • @Feuerfr3i
    @Feuerfr3i Рік тому

    Oh this doctor could help me find relief, and unload.

  • @freddybaez1884
    @freddybaez1884 Рік тому

    Thank you soo much - good info - God bless you

  • @haroldhenderson2824
    @haroldhenderson2824 Рік тому +7

    Additionally, edging is useful for those times when you just want sex to last longer than 10 minutes. Occasionally, it is really nice to last over 30-40 minutes. Especially, when you haven't had a chance to be together for a long time. Downside for me, ejaculation is "the beginning of the end" for that night.

  • @tmeyer2022
    @tmeyer2022 Рік тому +24

    Edging is not new. I've practiced it most of my adult life. With a partner (PIV), 15 - 30 minutes is good. 20 - 25 is a bit better. Whatever time it takes so she reaches orgasm is the absolute best. So often, an additional vibratory toy helps her reach orgasm (We nicknamed one of these toys our 'Buddy'). 'Buddy' always helps finish things off. 'Buddy' is fun to keep around. 🎉✨🎊💓

    • @resourcefulqueen
      @resourcefulqueen Рік тому

      I like the name "Buddy". Sounds friendly and inclusive. 😊

    • @Master.Baiting_to_you
      @Master.Baiting_to_you Місяць тому

      @@resourcefulqueen all good and fun till buddy because bunny

  • @bxr9000
    @bxr9000 Рік тому

    Enjoying the journey is well said ,

  • @shanerichards9399
    @shanerichards9399 Рік тому

    I love what you do thanks

  • @chirag.r
    @chirag.r Рік тому +7

    Excellent video ma'am.. As always keep it up!!

  • @szogunder
    @szogunder 3 місяці тому +5

    I only know, that Chris Griffin is a Quahog Edging Champion.

    • @KBlade1
      @KBlade1 3 місяці тому

      Chris is one of the funniest characters in the new season.

  • @barbaradw9969
    @barbaradw9969 4 місяці тому

    After hearing of this, i tried it last evening ! WoW ! Wish I would have known this earlier

  • @davidthomspson9771
    @davidthomspson9771 Рік тому

    Works fricken great!

  • @zawarhamdani
    @zawarhamdani Рік тому +4

    Very Nice

  • @user-it1dx5yi6n
    @user-it1dx5yi6n 9 місяців тому +4

    this is probably gonna make me sound like a weirdo but I have been edging for a while and it has the plus of no mess of cleaning up, pain is a factor after day 4 and after day four you may have an insane mess to clean up when you finally do let it out depending on frequency. At that point the pain of bending down for me has been indescribable, very similar to when you dry heave for a puke and it pulls on your nut somehow. What I mean by big mess after or on day 4 is that if you ejaculate but hold it and do it repeatedly for that long as in pulsate from climax (while holding it) you will build it up (if you do it all day every day) and it will all come out at the same time with a seemingly impossible amount. probably not healthy but I tend to have so much free time from health problems anyway so how bad could it be

  • @davidk.7264
    @davidk.7264 Рік тому

    A jem....lots of great information, Thanks

  • @jcruisioso5975
    @jcruisioso5975 Рік тому +2

    Right on. Nicely done. Luckily I’ve always used this . I never heard the term edging though.

    • @JacoWium
      @JacoWium Рік тому

      Likewise. It always seemed to me so natural/logic (outside of the quickie-scenario) that I never really thought of it as a "technique". Just learned 10 minutes ago there is a term for it!

  • @karenfield8274
    @karenfield8274 Рік тому +9

    Interesting to find it now has a name! I've been doing it for decades. For me it's simply about staying in the place of arousal. It's so enjoyable to be there why rush "finishing". I see it mostly seems to be discussed in power and control terms which makes me sad for young women today. Extending pleasure doesn't have to be about power or control. It can just be about joy and fun.

    • @nilsfrederking62
      @nilsfrederking62 Рік тому

      Finally a commenter points it out. The orgasm often is less intense after a very long time of edging, but the time spent is better than any orgasm.....some state of ecstasy can only be achieved by it.

    • @JackMason-oq8lf
      @JackMason-oq8lf 3 місяці тому

      @@nilsfrederking62 Keep your edge going. You'll enter a realm of "gooning," a state of constant stimulus, which becomes trance-like and numbing. It offers the immediate of pleasure, with the pot of gold anytime you choose in the future.

  • @CrazyDEntertainment
    @CrazyDEntertainment Рік тому +12

    Great video. I personally love edging no other way to live.

  • @GeoHvl
    @GeoHvl Рік тому +2

    My wife says she learned to surf the wave. She is very MO and learned to hook all those together and what we call Surfing the Wave. Took several years but we got the rhythm.

  • @priyanjanasen102
    @priyanjanasen102 Рік тому

    Had no idea of edging at all thks for this vedio.

  • @dudestuff1557
    @dudestuff1557 Рік тому +9

    Great vid! Edging has sure worked for me and my wife well. I agree with the comment below about increasing frequency of whoopi. Both of these has helped our relationship, which then can also lead to multiples for both the man and the woman. 👍🏻

  • @Brainydaps
    @Brainydaps Рік тому +3

    "epididymal hypertension", I always thought that term was a pseudomedical term because it isn't present in most medical textbooks and very little information is found about it on Wikipedia

  • @dala5568
    @dala5568 Рік тому +2

    At 7:20 she says edging lasting 30 minutes or more is okay as long as it doesn’t interfere with your daily life. I was edging ‘towards’ 1 hour and was released from my job as I was late for work. Back to the 2 minute quicky now.

  • @winnile1139
    @winnile1139 Рік тому

    Good advice.

  • @RM.....
    @RM..... Рік тому +11

    I love to edge for hours at a time. Feels amazing.

  • @firstlast7719
    @firstlast7719 Рік тому +6

    Definitely a way to have really strong ejaculation. Staying hard for an hour or more makes everything more sensitive. Every touch is magnified.

    • @nilsfrederking62
      @nilsfrederking62 Рік тому

      After longer time the sensitivity declines, up to the point where an orgasm cannot be reached even if wanted.

  • @mariocalderon8703
    @mariocalderon8703 Рік тому

    Learning experience about edging! People controlling sex craves or just being conservative 🤔
    Thank You Dr. Malik

  • @jefflay5818
    @jefflay5818 Рік тому

    #1 absolutely true!!!