Comedian TK Kirkland Gives The Best Relationship Advice For Dating In 2023
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- Опубліковано 15 чер 2024
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🕘 Timestamps:
0:00 Introduction
4:50 Getting Game from the Right People
7:25 Would you date an Instagram chick?
9:50 You need $75,000 Before You get Married
14:20 Dating & Having a Roster
22:42 Respecting a Man's Time
25:00 Responding to Lizzo of Big Women
31:20 Bringing Back Honor and Respect
33:30 Relationships with Baby Mamas
40:19 Dating 10 years Younger
46:50 Processing Heartbreak & Emotions
49:59 Moving in together & Dating Single Moms
1:00:20 Communicating to Women You Won't Marry
1:07:55 The Coldest Game in the World
Speaking straight facts. No man in this day should move in with a woman
There’s a skill and art to everything even moving in with women.
This is bad advice on all levels. If a man moves in with a women there should a understanding that his name be added to the lease. This will make him accountable for the rent and everything else that's involved with the rental property. Low vibrating women will move a man in and then say "get the f out". Know the type of women you are getting involved with before you decide to move in.
@@danacooper6723 women do this period 😂 not matter how they vibrating 😅
@@insanebeatjunkie Not all women.
EVER🎯
And TK is right learn to be by yourself. Nothing wrong with it.
He dropped some gems, but I really can’t take a man with 7 baby mothers too serious. That’s 7 different women you have to argue with about child support and child custody. The hell you mean you want to be generous with your seed? Procreating with hookups and never seeing them again after the fact. I know he can’t give all those kids the attention they deserve.
The man is 62, he comes from a different age, 7 kids with 7 baby mamas was normal in his age, even worse if you are famous and have a little money like him
Heck. I'll be the first to admit since the world is to scared to. A good bit of the baby mother's tossed a baby on the dad. Meaning got them selves pregnant. Sperm stealing / self insertion in order to gain financial support from a man. Yes someone has to say it. They are desperate to get out of their parents homes or bad roommate situations. They will hitch their wagon to the best horse available to them over and over again, knowing they do not want that man longterm nor care about his dreams she is now killing, or how those children will grow. Another sad reality is that the majority of men in this world do not get to choose who they really want to marry or have a baby with. They get strong armed finessed by a woman who has no regards to destroying his life to better her own current situation. So when we look at how many baby mamas a man has let's be honest. He wasn't the menace to society we make him out to be. The problem is that there are no laws to protect a man from his biggest thief. We are constantly rewarding a womans conniving nature. And sadly we look at their male victim that was aggrieved and believe they should have known better than to be targeted by a criminal or they are impregnating women purposely just to leave. Men are 1000 times more honorable than women, and women count on that to take advantage of them.
For anyone judging men by the number of children sired by different women. I'll be the first to admit since the world is too scared to. A good bit of the baby mother's out there tossed a baby on the dad. Meaning they got themselves pregnant purposely. Sperm stealing / self insertion in order to gain financial support from that man. Yes someone has to say it. Most women are desperate to get out of their parents homes, bad roommate situations or whatever self perceived negative situation they were in. They will hitch their wagon to the best horse available to them over and over again, knowing they do not want that parti ular man longterm nor care about his dreams she is now killing, or how those poor tools/children will grow. Another sad fact is that most men in this world do not get to choose who they really want to marry or have a baby with. They get strong armed finessed by a woman who has every intention on destroying his dreams to better her own current situation. So when we look at how many baby mamas a man has let's be honest. He wasn't the menace to society we make him out to be. The problem is that there are no laws to protect a man from his biggest thief nor folks with enough good sense to say stop this.. We are constantly rewarding a womans conniving nature. And sadly we look at their male victim that was aggrieved and believe they should have known better than to be targeted by a woman or they enjoy impregnating women purposely just to leave. No man wants to pay a woman to be separated from his child while watching other male victims come in and out of their child lives. Men are 1000 times more honorable than women, and women count on that to take advantage of them.
At the same time why 7 women think he suitable to be a dad 😅
@@Lemmholddat They lost their minds. That’s why single motherhood is at it’s highest. 😂
When I had my daughter and held her in my arms and looked at her and she looked at me, I got on my needs and Thank God and prayed. And from that day, I say every woman is somebody daughter and never took advantage of it a woman, even if th eff women wanted me too. I protect all women. By respecting them.
Thats Wisdom
I’m so happy he elaborated on what you feed your mind. If it’s toxic, it will rub off in your daily life and you start to portray the same stupidity and ignorance. Thank you TK.
Uhhhhhh. Duhhhh.
That's common sense
I "laughed" when my chic bounced and emptied the "joint" account....she obviously thought that GOOD men "grow on trees"!!..lol...now when she calls I press DECLINE!!!...smh
You should block her number.
Gotta cut all lines of communication. That's the best way to go about this. Thru heavy action. Plus if she stole from you...just know....the opp gotta pay you back x 7. If you are a believer of the most high God. Just have sniper patience.
“Now when she calls, I press decline.” J. Cole should use that line.
@@bl1429 I did....she calls from different numbers....smh
@@Erica-cf1xb if that's what it took to reveal who she "really" was....I would say it was money "well" spent!!(I've almost TRIPLED what she took)...lesson learned...no more "joint" accounts for me!!
I'm a 65 year old woman, and I agree that in order to grow you must be selfish, honest with people you encounter and keep your emotions in check. My mom told me to always have your own because no one owes you anything . Treat people the way you would like to be treated. Lastly, the world we live in is not fair so save yourself disappointment and learn this lesson as soon as possible.
Peace and Blessings!!🙏👼🙏❤❤❤❤
Wooorrdd!!
Bless you Mam 🙏🏾
I thoroughly enjoyed this podcast. Speaking on 31:23 - 33:14 and 50:40
As an immigrant, one of the first culture shock I experienced in the US is kids 18 - 24 leaving parent's house to be by themselves, get married without even letting parents know.
In my culture, you are not considered grown until you are at least 30 years old or 30 yrs. and married minimum 5yrs. It shows you know how to manage feelings, emotions, money, and compromise with your partner. Once you turn 35, you will start hearing people referring to you as a grown person.
This is why for most Africans; ideally you don't leave you father's house until you are old enough to get married (usually at 25 for women) and around 30 for men that has enough to take care of a woman. And a man don't move into a woman's house. The man provide the house and the woman makes it into a home. Her home, built with love
Bro is speaking facts. My ex and I had a spot together. I paid most of the bills. One time we had an argument and she was acting as if it was her spot. Overheard her talking to her friends like “ I’ll kick him out” 😂
Thank God I have the means move out when shit went left.
I am a 40 year old male and I dont have ANY kids because I have never been married...NOW THATS DISCIPLINE felazzz
I commend. Just because it’s available don’t mean you have to submit to the desire of the flesh.
👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾now that's to be commended.
He gay lol
I’m a loner but I am not lonely and I found this podcast to be very informative even as me being a female it help me understand how i should continue to navigate in my life
Why are you a loner?
@@getmoneychill6462 The "WHY" is a Provocatively insightful, importantly REFLECTIVE question that MOST fail, MISERABLY, to ASK enough (Externally and INTERNALLY).
You’re NOT wanted by us men… there are others notes you should take on learning MEN so you won’t be a “loner.”
If you want to end up alone like him. Take all his bad advice. 😮😂
If you want a respectable woman choose a respectful woman and stop calling them out their names
"Lingerie was the shit back in the day.. now bitches wearing em outside with Airforce 1's" 🤦🏾🤣😂🤣
I absolutely love listening to TK Kirkland, and I could listen to him for hours.
He’s 62!!! No way . He looks amazing. Handsome 🤎
I absolutely LOVE TK Kirkland!!!! He is such an upfront, educated, hilarious, manly MAN!!!!! && That's just sum'n we don't get to see on a daily like we used to... SMH. Masculinity lacks from a LOT of "guys" in this generation... 😑☹️🤦🏾♀️
"To each his own. That's my philosophy. I don't know what's right for you and you don't know what's right for me. "
- Faith, Hope & Charity
I remember my mum telling me, never move in with a woman always have your own, when i was 17.
Yes sir. Father's be good to your daughters. My 1st born has been all over the world with me since she was 8 months old. On July 18th my 9 month old, and my now 6yr old will be on their way to Costa Rica with me, and my entire close family. Nana, pop pop, TT Khris, and Uncle Sterling. The memories we all make will last us a lifetime. I'm so happy to have the financial freedom, to do the thing I hadn't had the chance to do until my adult life. With them 😊
I love this interview…. A very honest and informative conversation…. Thanks Kings!
Whenever a bw get the man they want they will always cheat with a man that has nothing but when a man has nothing she would cheat on a man that has something. A bw want GOD and the devil so good bm date out side of the race the chances is better
I understand what tk is saying about relationships and marriage but man it's nice having to come home to someone who got your back and having a nice cooked meal and knowing you have that extra security and confort when you need it especially when you're old or a senior citizen because at tk age any health problem can change everything and to have that one person who got your back is nice
: This is so very true.
Mind you, TK's, outlook on relationships has a lot to do with the fact that he has seven baby mama's. Who wants that? He is not that smooth. And you are smart to want a partner in life. Remember, this is God's plan. People listen to this man as though he is God.
Some ppl are happy alone some ppl are happy with a partner
@@synthtv5976sounds like you have a personal vendetta… relax lil man!
TK need a talk show -Late Night. Give a sermon and take callers. Guaranteed blow up!
Like Patrice Oneal used to do on opie and Anthony. It would be perfect.
If you see this message, he did have an podcast show last year was the last time l’ve watched it
This was such a great interview! So grateful to TK Kirland for dropping invaluable wisdom.
Ty for the advice
i am a man and listen to this conversation and i don't understand what tk is saying. He thinks because he got a career and some money that he totally gets it. meanwhile he has 7 children with 7 different women?
Those two men ask him no real questions at all. this is a conversation without depth. Anyone can tell a story but if he is not confronted with what he claims and his own way of acting, this is an implausible conversation.
for a man who is already of age, your advice to women and men is quite basic and so is your language. you sound like a young man. age is really just a number
Not going to lie, I was in the military for five years, and I often see people in my age bracket about 5 years ahead in terms of finances. I’m 34 and finally hit my stride.
34 years old here too!
I was in as well. I joined at 17 and my first duty station was Okinawa Japan. I was 18 getting paid Overseas COLA plus my regular pay. All I had was a cell phone bill, I was able to save one pay check and ball out on the other(and I had a lot fun in Japan lol). By 20 years old I saved over 50K, had 780 credit score, almost done with my degree. Shiiiit I was way ahead of people in my age range. With the military you have to do it right.
@Quis Buffett you got it Bro.. I served 23 years...being married most of it but after divorce I'm still able to live a great life...military gives you great discipline
@@carlosphillips3 Thanks for your service and hope you're enjoying retirement.
Don't be hard on yourself to a degree
Life is a journey spiritually we all evolve at different times body mind and spirit
Some wake up younger....I was actually a very late awakened individual but only God knows all things!
He knows when we as individuals are ready.
Amazing interview. I could listen to him for hours. Respect! Thank you for keeping it all the way real!
I could listen to TK all day.
Watching this video today has shown me how much you guys have grown lol
Been listening to TK for years… I never knew he has 7 kids…
This man is preaching truth I’m a late 40’s and I fully agree
His part about how women from different races act in different situations was spot on....
Been waiting on yal to drop this one 💪🏽
Aye when TK was dropping game about withholding sex from your woman that's real talk. I heard this same game from my pops who is 64. I started practicing that in my relationship with my girl and it's the ultimate game changer. Because I'll do things to build the sexual tension 2 or 3 days in a row like give her a bath, a massage but won't have sex with her. Then I when I finally touch her it's a great experience for both of us.
Now that's 🔥
Yayyyy!!! 🙌🏾✨💯 It’s about to be a lit conversation. #Gems.
I could listen too tk all day, reminds me of some of my old heads … dropping straight jewels 💯
I move in twice with some females. They got mad and said get out. for petit reason. I gave up my own place to move in with them. I just got my shit and never look back. 🙂 I was getting money at the time. so it was easy for me to move on. 🙂
Man TK just became a BIG HOMIE after this one. He first started winning me over after he added Charleston White to his tour shows he understands the future. Nothing but WISDOM here. Salute to TK 🫡 💯 ⛓️
No cap I mess with guys around the board and I love how they stuck with they guns and don't give a damn about who doing what, respect to that because every conversation is genuine and relatable from a common ground stand point we need more podcasts like you all much love brothers👊✊️
Should have let Mr. Kirkland carry the interview. Ask him the question and get out the way. Dude is super wise and has internalized his life experiences.
Let's all admit that TK Looks incredible for his age.💯 Damn I hope to God that I look as young and vibrant as this man when I'm his age.... God willing that I get that far. I have great genetics in my background, but Damn, this nigga hasn't aged at all in over 25 yrs. It's this Man's Mental program that truly keeps him vibrant. He looks in his 40s....and barely @ that. Awesome interview Fellas 💯. You got a new subscriber.
TK dropping 💎 As Always!
i learned the hard way not to move in unless your married......to this day i tell my daughters that now. it will save alot of headaches.
Yikes, this guy made lemonade out of his lemons! He’s a funny guy and appears to have learned from his mistakes as we all should!
This is why i listen to TK he always gives up THAT real advice
I’m glad he mentioned that women be with a guy she really doesn’t want, just like Guys do.
I definitely appreciated T.K.’s clarification pertaining to his profanity usage.
One thing I learned when I was younger is you can respect what someone says or check yourself out and go on about your business. I don't mind listening to SOME podcast with men because it gives perspective. I love that TK has logic behind how he thinks it not just based off how a woman did him wrong or whatever everyone else is doing. He also gives context and makes sure people don't take some jokes literally.
He ain't lying. When I first started dating my lady, my mom kicked me out when her man came home, so I moved in with her and her aunt. We get in an argument and she goes, "get tf out of my aunts house!" So I had no choice. Ain't been none of that since I started paying rent and now mortgage. Funny how God works
I'm a woman who finds ur comedy incredibly halirious thought provoking and highly intelligent and its true people can't handle the truth 😂
My first time listening to you guys! I of course clicked on because of TK. But you guys are really cool. Look forward to checking you guys out more before I subscribe.
Keep up the great work!
I'm really tired...I felt that. I'm 31 and I'm overrrrrr it!
TK you a real OG much respect my brother great interview 4sho!!!
Boss talk I had to subscribe glad u did this interview
this was a great pod !!!
Great show guys!!! First the femininity Queen, then my Pastor, and now TK!!!! Yall cousins in my head. Stay blessed!!!
Now that I have listened further to the conversation, TK I have respect for you, not using profanity in front of your children and off stage🎉👍🏽
Great Interview.. Been a fan of TK since the 90s.. glade he’s receiving his flowers 👌🏾
My new favorite podcast subscribed!!!!
Great Show , Much ❤To You Guys.
TK definitely puts on a great show❤❤❤
Awesome interview fellas! Real smooth! Was more like a conversation!
Each of you Guys had awesome points and you compliment each other well. You actually let your guest speak and get their point across. It truly feels like a natural conversation and all vibes are well in the room. Awesome WORK Brothas‼️
All hail to TK! "The King" Kirkland
Oh man, I like this dude. I had it all, 💯 so relatable words of wisdom. Great show y'all, keep it up!
TK one of the best!, can't wait 🎉🎉🎉
TK went crazy on this one. LEGEND
Yo fellas my first time checking y’all out I searched TK and y’all interview came up y’all gave a wonderful interview I enjoyed it TK be in the city next weekend at the Funnybone can’t wait to see him keep grinding guys
He was giving gems.. at the age of 45i have No tolerance for BS.. and I stop making excuses for bad behavior in these women.. it made choose better.. now I have found someone who give me peace and love me for me.. allows me to lead..
This conversation is fire🔥 and very much needed Big ups to you guys❤
Thank you. I love the information.
Good info! Thank you.
That part about never moving in with a woman is real. I can speak from experience...
I love your transparency lol
It was alot game and knowledge on this episode! Thanks kings!
No, it’s not that we just can’t wait to say that but when you do move in with us, you literally son yourself …men should never live off of women and always have their own. Everyone should have their own honestly so you can’t be manipulated.
When you move in because she wants you to and you pay the bills as a man lol How can she say get out? Son yourself smh nah y’all together! How old is you?
That's toxic
@@ishmailirizarry6912 In my example he doesn’t move in and pay all the bills and that’s where I was coming from . Otherwise that’s different.. I’m old enough sir . Next
@@ishmailirizarry6912 why would you want to move in with her anyway? Don’t you have your own spot?
Great show
This man in his 60s 🤔 TK doing something right. Great podcast gentlemen. Agree 💯 you have to feed your mind with knowledge!!
Great content!
Great interview fellas. Intellectual conversation. T to the mothafuckin' K. One of the realest...
Where can we find dates and cities where TK is going to perform? It doesn’t say on his website
Just an amazing podcast hosts with a fabulous guest. Thoroughly enjoyed watching it. Thanks 🙏
Love my unk TK loved this interview fellas 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
Great interview.
Thank you bro it let me know what I have to do for my self
Great episode TK❤. Love that
Really good interview!!!
Great show 👍
We were raised to never live together unless you married & I stand on that.
I love it brothers getting together sharing they knowledge and people are really listening. Im sure some couples are happy now and willing to listen
I recall seeing TK at the uptown comedy club in the Bronx back in 1992-1993. I was so shy, but we kept eyeing each other lol. I admire his consistency and unapologetic honesty. Love and blessings. 🪴💜
You shoulda said what up to him 😁👀👀
Lol bloated TK or this TK lol his words 😆
Great interview!!
You got your priorities straight on your kids ❤
Good show 👏🏿
Great advice. Amazing conversation.
Shout man TK out every episode. He deserve it just off the strength butbhe also help me beat all my cases in court (non domestic violence of course)
That’s how I was raised TK things have changed
Brilliant first episode to catch. Instant sub!
I truly love listening to this guy!!!!!
Great conversation👌💯
You gotta love TK
“Tk get a haircut & put a hat on” 😂😭