BECOMING who YOU are created to BE | Charles Metcalf | The Basement w- Tim Ross
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“TheUnknown” let the unknown voices be on your show 🎉 I can’t wait to meet you Apostle Ross
Im tasha~ I went to apple valley lolol
TIM know his bible. And do not try to go toe to toe. He rarely read any other book other than the bible. I just realized Eve did not eat a apple.
Hi Tim and the Basement. I would love to subscribe to your basement dwellers for your monthly fee. Please tell me how to do so. I truly love your podcast!
Which Bible do you have Tim? Thank you and keep going!
I heard an unbeliever say “there’s no hate like Christian love”. I was speechless and it broke my heart bc I knew exactly what he meant. We have to do better fam.
Amen Desiree ❤ including myself. I need to do better. God bless you ❤
OMG..THIS !! So true.
@@kimberlygonzalez2864 same sis, I’ve said critical things the Holy Spirit did not tell me to say & I’ve been on the receiving end of criticism not led by the Holy Spirit. The basement has given me perspective for a lifetime! Excited for us to be better 💕
Wow
Oh man that hurt to hear and I've seen examples of that.
When you downplay your calling, you give yourself an excuse to require less of yourself. What a powerful statement. 🙌🏾
Girl when I tell you that hit me like a ton of bricks?!
K444444. 9am
💥💥💥💥💥
Unsure how we might “downplay” our callings when in my opinion it isn’t possible if it is a true calling
@@danniellereinhardt9674 Some of us have downplayed our calling to “fit in” with society, friends, and other things because it wasn't popular. Even if it's a “true” calling, it's possible. Not everybody does what God calls them to do.
Hector and Sam laughing in the background has become iconic, you cant miss it
I thought I was the only one. lol EVERY episode
Iconic
I soooo relate to Charles. Having so many different versions of yourself can be tiring. Thank God for showing me the freedom in being who he created me to be ❤
Yassss you go girl! 💜
Add Being multi talented is even worse.
@@shontaviajohnson9020 ♥️♥️
@@jasonmedas603 yeeees
@@jasonmedas603 you got this! You are apart of GOD! You are strong!
This is what we NEEDED. Vulnerable people walking in who God called them to be. I’m so thankful for this podcast
When Tim thanks Abby for not running away 🥹🥲💞 The relationship is a symbol to show Gods love for us, & Abby truly has showed Charles the love Jesus has for him through providing that safe place 🙏🏼💝
What min of the vid was that??
@@danielsaidaer754655:23
The basement is shaping the generation of preachers, teachers, and content creators. It is shaping and reorienting our perspective of the gospel. How we see people, what God is telling us personally, and what He wants to be shared with His people.
Thanks, Tim.
"Long-term commitment is sexy!" I feel that and commend it so much 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 I love the idea of monogamy and when done with the right person it could truly be such a beautiful experience. I wish more people felt this way 🤎
“If I tell you the truth, will you still be with me!” That right there spoke volumes. Thank you Lord!
“ if you can’t own up to it, I can’t deal with you “ AMEN, I felt that and I receive it, I will live by this!!!
Charles is super dope💯 so glad he was called into the fashion space🙌🏼 we creative's need Kingdom representation in every arena we can get! #LetsMakeImpact
"When you downplay your call, you give yourself an excuse to require less of yourself."
THIS hit so hard...
As a adult with past trauma, this episode was so enlightening for me. It’s so tiring to hide behind the many masks trying to conform to “standards” and appease others. Thank you guys for your vulnerability.
“When you downplay your call, you give yourself an excuse to require less of yourself” 🤯😱 I had to selah on that
right!? I had to pause and rethink my entire life! This pod is ON TIME!
My selah was on minute 45 when Charles started talking about his wife being a safe space and I will be unpacking why that was the case for several weeks on end. That hit me HARD
@@AlyssaJoy95 yesss! It was so beautiful to hear. That kinda love hits DIFFERENT ✨
This was one of the rawest, most funny, most insightful, uplifting, and most impactful episodes. Man! I thank God for y'all, God bless.
Im in my DJ Khaled "Another One" in the basement. I cried, laughed, learned, related with and so much more! All in all, my spiritual appetite is open for more bible. Appreciate the community!!! This is where its at!!!❤🎉😊
Its the several octaves Charles' voice dropped when he said "she has been the safest place for me to become the man that I never thought I could be"🥲🥵😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 I'm gonna leave this episode now🙌 I be back tomorrow🚶♀🚶♀
And I’m right there with you ❤️ I’ll be chewing on that and how Holy Spirit moved in that moment for a minuteee
Charles was the vessel that God used to give my life to Christ after me not knowing the lord at all at the age of 28! He will always hold a special place in my walk with God. My testimony will always start with him. 🫂
“The highest form of Art IS NOT THE appreciation from others , it is the last thing of your soul. “…… amazing, another great episode !
43:33 I felt every word this man was saying right here. If not for the love of my wife and her being a safe place for me to go to, I don’t think I ever would have developed my relationship with God and become a man I can be proud of. I’m still a work in progress as we all are but this hit me bro. Thank you so much to Tim Ross and Charles Metcalf for this amazing pod. So grateful to be a basement dweller.🤙🤙🤙
Thank u both for sharing this…. I am a green hair wearing, tattooed, fashion lover that is IN LOVE with GoD and for most of my life in church I was made to feel I had to be a certain way to minister to the body of Christ!!! This podcast TUHDAY confirmed what God has been trying to tell me!! I am perfect how I am!! God can use us all!! THANK YOU both for sharing!!
That’s so good. “When you downplay your calling, you give yourself an excuse to demand less of yourself”
When Charles said " After experiencing what it is to breath in and out normally, I can't hold my breathe, I don't have time to hold my breathe" I felt that. Thank you for this podcast❤
Tim makes me so comfortable with my calling. When I feel like I'm sharing to much or being too much I remember this is what I was destined to do, be vulnerable, be transparent, authentic, and very loving. And I just love Charles, I would've never known he was dealing with this because I've always loved ho he is fully himself. This is a great episode.
Thank you for this comment. You putting it into the context of a calling really resonates with me because it’s the same for me. Whenever I’m vulnerable I feel so exposed and awkward even though it’s naturally apart of who I am and also partially because I’m still working through my pride.. pride and radical vulnerability do not like eachother 😂 thank you for this comment ❤ God bless you
@@TylerElijah 🥰❤️ it definitely takes vulnerability to share this. I know you will make a major impact, ppl really need us. I will be praying for you. Blessings! 🙌🏾
@@arialdemi As will you too❤️ we’re in this walk together for God. I hope you have a joyful day today Arial.
Thank you! 😊
👏👏👏🎉🎉🎉 @arialdemi so much power in your words!!
The more Charles speaks, the more I see so much of my self in his wife. Abby is such a gem. Bless her soul ❤.
I relate 1000% to what Tim said about if people can own up to things, I can work with that! “If you can’t own it, I can’t rock with you.” Taking accountability is the first step to resolution and moving forward. Love this podcast. Thank you both for your obedience and vulnerability as always!!! ❤
I cannot say how much I appreciate Pastor Charles for the first topic that they covered which essentially was code switching. I will need to listen to this several more times. I am a black woman who was raised by a white stepfather, lived in an all black neighborhood and went to all white schools. Every room that I walk in I evaluate which version of myself I need to be in order to survive and I only breathe when I am at home alone because no one can judge me there. God has taught me that even that is pride but that’s a whole other topic. I just want to say thank you Pastor Charles for going into the basement on that topic.
I'm only like 40 minutes in and I'm in tears.The journey to become myself has been a struggle for me but, becoming self aware has been the most liberating moment of my life! I know God has much more in store for me and I pray that his purpose would continue to manifest in my life. @TimRoss Thank you so much for being obedient and doing @The basement .I have been blessed over and over. You have absolutely no idea on how these episodes have brought revelation and transformation 🙌 ☺.
Me over here weeping at the 45 minute mark… Charles, that did something in me I will be unpacking for a good amount of time… there is so much power in the give and take of vulnerability and the longing to be a man’s safe place. That empowers in a way I haven’t heard the wife role in a marriage being empowered. Thank you for that, brother! ❤
Bi-racial/multi-racial kids/people have it tougher than you think. Most of us have identity issues because of how American treats us, that is, both white Americans and black Americans. Its difficult. Thank you for bringing this forth Charles. I would love to offer a female perspective to this.
Omg Charles is my best preacher of all times!!! I'm so pumped for this to drop!!! 💃💃
Yoooooooo REAL LIVE !!!!!!
he’s so genuine and honest and relatable. he seems like a dude you’d meet in college and be inspired by or get great advice to, who was then led to being a pastor. not some stuffy, uptight and prosperity gospel preaching pastor, the fact that he’s so young gives me such great motivation. young people are still strong and vulnerable in Christ.
@@angel1202003 I totally agree.
I am Charles. i felt a deep exhale when I allowed myself to fully surrender to God and let him help me thru my weakness and be vulnerable in a way to my husband I never thought I was capable of before. thank you Charles for your vulnerability. thank you the basement! Thank you. First time I’ve used words without tears and be open.
Not me in the hairdresser chair.. fighting tears but resonating with everything so far and I’m 56 mins in!!! … I needed this convo, this level of honesty, transparency and vulnerability today… I think Charles is such a gift and blessing to us .. the way he articulates the truth & his truth always hits … thank you so much for this.. the way he speaks of what his wife has done for him 🥹..just by accepting and loving him for who he is has given us the blessing we are seeing and hearing and be led by today.. mannnn!! I just love it.. thank you God, Charles and Tim for this 🤎
God has been stretching my mind and growing my Spirit with this awesome broadcast. Praise GOD
Triggered & Blessed by this message. I’m only half way through and have to comment on how incredibly beautiful and transformative it is hearing husbands speak about vulnerability, safety in their spouses, and letting self reflection be the benchmark for relationships. 😢😮❤
Bro the basement has already helped me a lot. This space is safe for me, and that means so much to me because I identify heavily with the breaths at the beginning of the video. Thank you so much! 💓
As a designer and creative, I wish I was friends with Charles or people like him. I relate so much and also so convicted during this episode! The creatives are so grateful for you having him. It’s REALLY inspiring man
Man this pod was a blessing to my spirit. Not only do I feel a calling to create art for the Lord, but to know that it's my soul that I want to have last. Long term goals man! Long term goals is the key to this walk.
Okay, I don’t know what just happened, but this was my first exposure to this podcast and the people; the topics shook me to my core. The openness, the insight, the the hurt, the humor, (and I can’t overlook the cinematic, buttery imagery). It’s so crazy to see something God clearly did (this podcast).
This podcast just resignated with the deliverance I was seeking 😢 thank you. The normality to want to
Serve and live to be free but yet bound. While yet trying to Be Me
The thought of one (or many) of my "secular" friends giving their life to Jesus waters my eyes. God giving you the privilege of that experience is mesmerizing/astonishing/amazing/beautiful/etc. God bless you, Charles. And may you continue Kingdom-building 🤲🏽
this podcast has been one of the greatest blessings I’ve ever experienced. No cap.
This was one of my favorite ones so far🙏🏼🙌🏼the level of realness on the basement is next level.👏🏼 thank you! Vulnerability is our superpower.⚡️
One of the big takeaways from this as a single Christian man is the power of having a God ordained spouse…….I want that Lord
I relate SO MUCH with what Charles said about being a youth pastor and struggling with sins, I literally had that "breakdown" moment in a camp 2 days ago and i really hope that God free me from this 😭
Was just saying how I needed a basement session. God heard me. 🙏🏾🗣
Excited for this one. The way Tim and Charles deliver the word!!!! Exceptional.
Absolutely love this! The Holy Spirit definitely convicts us on an individual ,intimate level. What some can do, others cannot. God knows our heart. But we gotta love how He knows what we like! I love that God gave Tim a deal on the chain he wanted. Man,obedience is everything. 🫶
As I sit at my craft table and create these handmade earrings…I needed this and didn’t even know. Whew. I’ve been on this creative journey since I was little. I was constantly fighting a battle with myself because I was doing something to satisfy my parents and others. Don’t get me wrong, all of those experiences helped me learn about myself and be able to do what I love full time. I never understood what I was going through until I spent a long year of what felt like hell and talking to God. After I changed my view on my dreams, God has been showing out for me!❤️
So excited! Literally my favs! Abby + Charles ♥️
Yay pastor Charles and Tim for 2 hours!! So excited!! ❤
This is the episode I didn't know I needed. I grew up moving around a lot too and as much as it opened me up to the world, it definitely contributed (along with other life events) to me compartmentalising and not knowing how to let the different parts of who I am to exist freely. I'm now trying to let God heal me and I've seen some victories even though full recovery still feels a little far away. Your podcast and your guests always bless us so much, thank you for all the work you do and for freely gifting us with your experiences and outlook on life, I trust the Lord will continue to increase you all.
Been crying since the first 10min of this. Y’all dropping some gems thru y’all’s vulnerability
This might be one of my favorite episodes. Thank you for your authenticity and your yes!
What Pastor Charles said is really freeing for me!!!! Cause I’ve been many versions of myself but I’m at place in my life now(in my 40s) that all the versions I was is me and I’m just me. When he said tap dancing and holding your breath, that resonated with me.
This touched my heart in such a deep way... Learning to take deep breaths ❤️❤️❤️ Thanks for this
So thankful for this podcast! I am THANKFUL and GRATEFUL for the authenticity of all of you! ✊🏻
You have no ideaaaa how this episode blessed me from beginning to end and how absolutely everything resonated. Thank you for being real and genuine, and funny lol
Excellent choice for a guest! I LOVE Charles Metcalf!!!! Such a courageous, transparent, and loving being
Ive loved and looked up to Charles for a while now, but I have a whole new level of respect for him after showing this level of vulnerability…❤️ so much love to you both.
For each and every one of your podcasts, I want to say, thank you for your yes. ❤
Loving this podcast❤ from a Canadian fan🇨🇦 who follows TC weekly and The Basement . Glory to God.
I’ve been waiting for this one!!! Thank you. I pray this one goes viral.
I am very appreciative of this podcast episode and the opportunity to get to know Pastor Charles better
Amazing podcast! Such good content. I coulda listened to you and Charles talk for hours n hours. Both your voices are so chill and soothing to listen to. Please bring him back again in the future. This is definitely one of my favorite podcasts. Love n Light
It’s supernatural how much I relate to Pastor Charles. Thank you both for this🙌🏾
I’m really thankful for what you guys are doing you’ve made me sit down and realize the things that are stopping me from having a closer relationship with God don’t ever stop we need you 🙏🏻❤️
Awesome pod. You gentlemen were on Holy ground today and brought all the dwellers with you. Tim and Pastor Charles authenticity together is memorizing. Can't stop watching/ listening❣️
I was so excited to see Charles on the cast. Been watching his stuff for a while now. This podcast is on another level of positivity and education.
Omg I love everything about your podcast. Thankyou for modeling authenticity. You've brought so many answers to questions I've been asking the past few months. There's so much wisdom in your insights. Thankyou🙏
Thank you both for your authenticity and transparency! It’s setting me free and having a ripple affect on those in my community and now outreach! God bless this whole production ❤
I finally caught the live ❤ I love this podcast and the work you are doing pastor Tim ❤️ much love to you & your beautiful wife Juliette
I went through all the emotions on this one. Also this video made me finally subscribe cause now I get what the basement is about, it's vulnerability and liberation. Going to start a new internal dialogue with myself now. I used this as a meditation and bible study, had to sleep for an hour after getting halfway cause it got too deep and I kept writing notes, having ideas, praying, crying, I got so exhausted. This is the best thing I've ever seen in my life. Thanks for the life hack will experiment later 😂
Wow, I truly loved this. So refreshing….. my son shared this with me and it makes me feel even more proud of him. He is of both black and Hispanic ethnicity and because of pastor Charles sharing his truth I learned about my son’s truth. One evening he just sent me this video and the moment PC opened his mouth I knew it was my son telling me what his life experience had been all along. Thank you for spreading the real truth and the for modeling true agape love for His people. One love ❤️
The honesty, transparency of these discussions helps me grow in my walk with Jesus 🙏🏼
Let’s goooo!!! I’ve been waiting for Charles to come to the basement!!!👏 I already know this pod is going to be very powerful!!!
This has been one of the realest,coolest, down to earth podcast I've ever listen to. I didn't want u guys to stop. Love u guys. Charles is the man..... Blessings from Trinidad and Tobago ❤
The most needed podcast of this century ❤️🔥🙏🏾🔥
Charles is one of the reasons I got back into church. I love listening to him. I listen to clips of this podcast. This is my first full episode and I will continue on and go back on some. Thank you for this. And I will have to say thank you Charles for bringing me back.
The background laughs always get me 🤣. I love it.
I absolutely LOVE the production teams laughs in the background on every video. It adds a special layer of interaction to the podcast I wish others would utilize. 🙌🏽🙏🏽🔥
I enjoyed this so much, vulnerability is so healing. I also enjoyed P. Charles speaking about his wife, just beautiful.
This help me so much. God keeps revealing things to me and it’s what I prayed for, he KEEPS teaching me how to love the way he did .. he checked me and blew my mind with this one…like, have I been that safe space for my husband of 14 years? Man 🤯💕 and how EVERYONE just wants to hear and feel, “I’m with you.” 🤯💕 and how we need to expand our minds..& the new title he created and concept !! Man sooo good ! 💕 ALL of it. As someone who feels like an artist with my hands tied behind my back..As a creative, trying to figure it out…I just can’t say enough.❤
Omgggg! Yes, we love Pastor Charles!!!
Listening to this all the way in Malawi, Africa. And man I'm blessed, each time. On every level. Thank Jesus
Tim. Thank you. I can’t tell you what it means to have a man with God at the forefront of his heart guiding our generation with such wisdom and tenderness. For me specifically, it’s life changing. I’m here in Dallas if you are still mentoring or ever have an opening, I’d love nothing more than to have a leader like you. Thank you for your vulnerability. You’re walking me through so much in my spiritual journey already, you have no idea. Thanks for pouring out!!! ❤❤❤❤
This was incredible! So many good words I want to re-watch this over & over just to catch all of the insights. I am struggling with a similar feeling as charles in my identity but I have been turning to God and resources like this. Hearing his story was something God knew I needed. Thank you for being vulnerable and real.
I want to share a little story: I have been reading Genesis in my own Bible study time and my pastor just quoted that same Philippians 4 verse this past weekend. Also… psalms 51 is what I’m always referring back to… lol in short all of these verses have been so relevant to me lately the fact God referenced them all in one place through this pod is quite literally miraculous.
Thank you for all the work you do and for allowing us to listen in on your conversation. There is so much truth & goodness here. Y’all stay blessed ❤
Our exposure determines our approach to the gospel and how we interpret it. This is powerful! 🔥🔥🔥🔥
I think I had the same thing with struggles. Father is helping me with that !! Thank pastor Charles. I am always praying that God helps me changing. I stepped down in a lot of things.
I already commented but God has been changing so much in my heart as I’m listening to all this vulnerability!!❤ I love you both and my life has been changed by the power of God and the seed that’s being planted right now. Thank you Jesus
This is so good. I just went to follow Charle about 15 minutes into watching this & the comments under his posts made me sick. Praying for you bro. Keep on keeping on, God got you & it shows!
I’m so thankful that God led me to this podcast and this specific episode. Charles’ story really resonates with me because I’ve been dealing with similar struggles. This video blessed me❤️
WOOOOWWWW!! Literally mind blowing how amazing this episode was.. I see myself in Charles and Tim and just to hear their experiences, revelations, etc.. is so refreshing.. They aren’t playing church, this is representation of their relationship with Jesus!! Amazing!!
I Love it Here 🙏🏾Thank You Tim & Charles , I’m here for all this Dope Truth Serum 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 God Knew we would need the Basement in times like these! I love it here ❤
This was good. Charles hit me when he said, “irrational Grace feels uncomfortable…” ummmm! Hello?! Yes! But who ministered to me without saying a word? Abby. When Charles mentioned her ambition with photography and she was uninhibited in her dreams. She decided to open up her platform to the WORLD for business…how far would I be had I been able to believe I could really do whatever and be paid for it…that hit me…HARD. I’m a black girl from the South, I’ve lived my life up and down the East Coast and while Ive traveled to multiple countries…I just have never heard…wow. The narrative for me has been about what my limits are but never the limitless abilities. Now I know culture, race, and racism is a part of that and as Tim pointed out, America keeps up the labels to keep boundaries in place by telling you what you are…what a run on sentence lol it’s just A LOT. I love it, I’m blessed. Abby!! Girl! Yes ma’am!
Thank you, Tim. Thank you. Thank you for having Charles Metcalf on. This episode so blessed me!!!
I love you. I love what you're doing. You are blowing the doors off that blind us to who we actually are. Thank you!
Thank you for this!!! It made me feel applicated to the fact I'm not alone physically. I know my angels are always here but for physical people far away to share the same and or similar experience. It's astonishing to know others are growing, we are all growing together different levels and all. It's exciting. Thank you!!
17:45 feeling this so deeply in my spirit. I need so desperately to re-integrate the versions of myself that I’ve used to navigate life. I want to breathe deeply in freedom and authenticity.
This episode was SO GOOD!! *insert Pastor Charles voice* 😂 Seriously he dropped gems. I thank him for the gift of understanding the intersection of my empath ability and intercessor gifting!! When That heaviness falls now I know to ask God if what I am feeling is me or is this intercession for someone else…wow just pray!!