My Non Small Cell Lung Cancer Diagnosis at 33 Years Old (Adenocarcinoma)

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  • @chuckguy17
    @chuckguy17 Рік тому +670

    The way our healthcare system functions is so incredibly unacceptable. She had to beg and cry at an urgent care months too late to get a test that she needed. How is this possible in a first world country? Imagine if they took her seriously at the onset of her symptoms. It is infuriating watching her go through what she's going through today, and I put the blame in large part on our terrible system. Not a guarantee, but the outcome could have been so different if they got to her earlier. Jenny and her husband are such good people, and it is so messed up this happened! People need to be strong advocates for themselves, and we need reform!!!

    • @amyberg1413
      @amyberg1413 Рік тому +71

      Our medical system has been taken over by big business. They have forced MDs to join large groups where they track everything and all that matters is the bottom line. MDs are just worker bees now. It is insane and sad. Appointments are weeks or months out. Emergency Care facilities are sometimes the only option. ER's are overrun with patients and under staffed. Things are not going to improve anytime soon.

    • @Andrea-ue7gv
      @Andrea-ue7gv Рік тому +54

      I don‘t think it‘s the healthcare system. It has to do more with the fact that young people, especially women often aren‘t taken seriously by doctors. Lung cancer on someone so young is very rare and most doctors probably only see it few times in their careers if that. But still, if you have rib pain they should at least do chest x-rays. It‘s so infuriating.

    • @janegao5747
      @janegao5747 Рік тому

      So true. My son went to a family doctor for annual check up. The doctor told him no need to come back for a couple of years. I am so mad at this doctor. It wasn't easy to get my son to do an annual physical. I told my son to find another doctor who take him seriously.@@Andrea-ue7gv

    • @fabiantr100
      @fabiantr100 Рік тому +47

      I too went thu hell- a simple chest xray- which is protocal,- and I had to fight, beg, demand for 10 months- a simple chest xray showed I have lung cancer- the way I have been treated was so cruel- I seriously considered no treatment after the fact- just wrong to treat people this way on a systematic basis

    • @aeolianhrp1
      @aeolianhrp1 Рік тому +22

      No! Tragically it IS our healthcare system in the United States of America. It didn't used to be this way when I started working in healthcare back in 1971. Now, primary care docs' practices have been bought up by larger hospitals and are under pressure to see as many patients as possible. Appointments are waitlisted for months. Last time I checked the rating of medical care in the US was.listed as 45th in the world with the best care being in the Nordic countries and many other nations. It is a travesty!!! The countries rated as providing the highest quality of medical care were all socialized medicine. Look it up.

  • @conservativegirl3371
    @conservativegirl3371 Рік тому +1135

    Going back and watching repeats of Jenny’s story in honor of her life. Prayers for Kyle, Ellis, and Winnie.

    • @janelensch6168
      @janelensch6168 Рік тому +18

      I know, this was next after Kyle announced Jenny did pass away. To see Jenny describing how a healthy person had these symptoms is difficult.

    • @gigglesandhugs5690
      @gigglesandhugs5690 Рік тому +19

      I didnt know what else to do but to come to her channel and watch to at least let money come in.

    • @gowest5145
      @gowest5145 Рік тому +9

      I heard about Jenny from Kneady Homesteader's channel on UA-cam. I have only been watching Jenny's videos for 3 or 4 days. I didn't even hardly know Jenny. This video popped up and I thought I would come and meet Jenny. Prayers for you Kyle, just praying continually for you for strength to continue on and take care of your children and that you will stay well. Please make sure that you and your children are sleeping. Lack of sleep after a death can cause lots of problems and could be a sign that something is wrong. Once again prayers.

    • @kathyd8846
      @kathyd8846 Рік тому +8

      I’m doing the same.

    • @elainehenning1387
      @elainehenning1387 Рік тому

      @@gigglesandhugs5690I watch all these videos but I don’t know how payment works for them. Do I just need to watch? Like? I would like to help out the family. I’m disabled and on a fixed income so donating isn’t an option, but if it helps for me to watch or rewatch videos I would love to help.

  • @lisasharf1442
    @lisasharf1442 Рік тому +1210

    I see I’m not alone in wanting to see Jenny “at the beginning” and hear her sweet voice again. Kyle, I just watched your livestream an hour or so ago. I’m grateful that Jenny’s pain is controlled and that she’s able to sleep. I’m especially thankful that she’ll be able to come home. You are all very much in my thoughts and I’m praying for you daily. We love you all. ❤️🙏🏻

    • @JodiLeaSnakeQueen
      @JodiLeaSnakeQueen Рік тому +8

      Me!!

    • @coracarp3819
      @coracarp3819 Рік тому +13

      I’m doing to same thing.

    • @KathrynLQuinn
      @KathrynLQuinn Рік тому +13

      I am doing the exact same thing after watching Kyle's live stream. My heart hurts for them all. But, I can say from my personal experience with both of my parents' passing that a kind hospice nurse makes all the difference. I am so thankful they have found great hospice care willing to do what it takes to allow Jenny to be home. 💔

    • @TeresaMom1
      @TeresaMom1 Рік тому +8

      You are right, you aren't the only one.

    • @ajoverholt7343
      @ajoverholt7343 Рік тому +6

      I also went back after his latest stream.
      I also lost a cousin to cancer a few months ago, just oof.

  • @JillyBean1968
    @JillyBean1968 8 місяців тому +31

    Who else still comes back to the beginning of Jenny’s journey? I don’t think I’ve ever seen anyone as strong as her. Praise God that she had Kyle…he was/is a rock!!
    🙏🏼💕🙏🏼

  • @anbrdari
    @anbrdari Рік тому +398

    It looks like everyone came to the same place to see Jenny. I will miss seeing her beautiful face everyday. She is so sweet and has a comforting voice. She had such grace throughout this entire, sad, painful journey. Even after being told its her last days, she was making pizzaman jokes trying to ease everyone elses pain. What a beautiful soul !! I will miss you Jenny! Still praying for you and family. We love you!! ❤️

    • @spark2053
      @spark2053 Рік тому +4

      Did she passed away??

    • @christophermiller159
      @christophermiller159 Рік тому +9

      She did on the 5th of november at 5:00pm RIP Jenny I will never forget you and your great attitude in life even though you had cancer, you made the best of every day! I pray for your family…

    • @spark2053
      @spark2053 Рік тому +2

      @@christophermiller159 prayers for her tiny family and friends all over. She earned my heart 😢

    • @priscilliaclemee690
      @priscilliaclemee690 Рік тому +4

      Yes I just wanted to see her beautiful face

    • @lizkt
      @lizkt Рік тому +5

      Me too. I didn't really know her before she got very ill. She was beautiful before and beautiful during her journey. I'm so honored to have known her

  • @LifeAccordingtoMaria
    @LifeAccordingtoMaria Рік тому +658

    Horrifying to see how fast this cancer took her, from diagnosis until now. She was the sweetest person and so humble. RIP. Praying for the family.

    • @chrisb3976
      @chrisb3976 Рік тому

      Cancer didnt take her she took cancer. Cancer didnt survive once she died.

    • @rachelkessinger2295
      @rachelkessinger2295 Рік тому +21

      She actually survived a long time considering her initial diagnosis was stage 3. Dustin Diamond died in one month after his diagnosis

    • @84mobstar
      @84mobstar Рік тому +4

      ​@@gailsfoodandstuffthat's amazing to hear something else worked and yes I have seen someone cancel free then died because of the chemotherapy. So very sad

    • @queendygravy9437
      @queendygravy9437 Рік тому +5

      Yup my mom and mother in law had small cell lung cancer and it moves quick! Generally only 2 years tops smh. Miss both of our parents 😢

    • @sylwiax793
      @sylwiax793 Рік тому +15

      it wasn't the cancer that took her, but the "treatment"

  • @skelter1153
    @skelter1153 11 місяців тому +89

    The fact that She had to *beg* medical professionals to do their JOB is beyond infuriating.
    They were just going to send her home because her blood work "appeared" normal.
    That's borderline Malpractice!
    Rest In Paradise Sweet Angel.
    The Courage, Grace, and Dignity you displayed was and is Awe-inspiring. God Bless🕯

    • @robertobonani4631
      @robertobonani4631 6 місяців тому +2

      Yeah unfortunately people do the job for the money only. And the social position. You have to have different doctor, until you fell you have and answer.

    • @lucasdamotta2931
      @lucasdamotta2931 5 місяців тому +1

      I aint no communist but i believe everything involved with medicine and medical industry should be state owned.

    • @djnoneofyourbusiness525
      @djnoneofyourbusiness525 5 місяців тому +2

      This isn’t a surprising thing… Doctors will always look for a minor thing and it causes so much delay in getting answers, especially when time isn’t something these people have to waste.

    • @sahmcgowan7
      @sahmcgowan7 4 місяці тому +1

      ​@lucasdamotta2931 state government is not competent either. Take the "practice out" quite doing screenings and start doing diagnostic test. This happens every time or it's found accidentally while doing another procedure.

  • @BeMoreAwareGodWatches
    @BeMoreAwareGodWatches 8 місяців тому +29

    How can I miss a woman I never met, but I do truly miss seeing her.

  • @mp-rv8gu
    @mp-rv8gu Рік тому +394

    Looks like a lot of us are having the same idea come see Jenny in a more healthier state. God😢 idk what to even say. She has touched our hearts with her beautiful soul. You all are in so many of our prayers.

    • @andreakurzner9653
      @andreakurzner9653 Рік тому +14

      I feel the same way. Remembering her without the pain and suffering. What a beautiful woman and family.

    • @aliciaholland3308
      @aliciaholland3308 Рік тому +5

      So true that’s exactly what I’m doing, beautiful inside and out💕🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

    • @NaomiC336
      @NaomiC336 Рік тому +2

      I’m so sad that this beautiful soul is gone. She is now an angel. God bless her family.

  • @RabidGarbagePossum
    @RabidGarbagePossum Рік тому +1277

    It's so frustrating how medical gaslighting can happen for women so frequently. Rest in peace, Jenny, your channel will help so many people advocate for themselves when they know something is wrong.

    • @adamtedder1012
      @adamtedder1012 Рік тому +132

      Happens for men as well. Going thru it myself. It's just a thing. The arrogance of those we depend on to work for us.

    • @Claymore1977
      @Claymore1977 Рік тому +61

      what makes you think this just a female issue?

    • @ChadHatcher-y7j
      @ChadHatcher-y7j Рік тому +1

      She's a possum guys, and a stupid one. Leave it alone.

    • @joycevillano755
      @joycevillano755 Рік тому +45

      This is why one has to advocate for themselves when they feel something is wrong. And keep pressing the issue until your medical problem is addressed. Unfortunately, just because someone is young does not necessarily make her or him immune to serious disease.

    • @Rocko1990
      @Rocko1990 Рік тому +35

      It's not just women believe me. It's everyone. It's just incompetence in the medical system.

  • @terri5757
    @terri5757 Рік тому +298

    R.I.P. Jenny 11/5/23 at 5pm. You will be greatly missed. You taught the world a lot about non-smoking Lung Cancer and Stage 4 cancer through your thoughtful loving journey. Loving, healing prayers to Kyle, Ellis and Winnie. 🙏🙏

    • @terri5757
      @terri5757 Рік тому +1

      @@jsj297 oops, I must have put 7 by accident. I changed it. Thanks!

    • @philipcross8121
      @philipcross8121 Рік тому +6

      ​​@@jsj297That is what her husband, Kyle, said.
      To avoid any confusion, she was declared deceased on November 5, 2023 at 5 pm.
      RIP Jennifer Appleford.
      She was only 36.

    • @jaypie0864
      @jaypie0864 Рік тому +1

      I am seeking information for a family member with the same condition and have to ask: Has she ever disclosed her vaccination status?

    • @terri5757
      @terri5757 Рік тому

      @@jaypie0864 as far as I know I don’t believe she has, but thank you for not coming on here and right away blasting the covid vaccine for causing cancer. At this point we really don’t know. While I cannot say for certainty that it can’t cause cancer, I have been doing my own research and haven’t really found a correlation in any increase of multiple kinds of cancer in those who have received the vaccine. Personally I think the increase in cancer rates is caused more by environmental factors, air quality, food additives, etc. The increase of certain types of cancer has been on the rise long before the covid vaccine became available. But I guess only time will tell. Thanks again for being nice and not coming on here in an attacking fashion as I’ve seen many people do on other cancer channels I’m following. That’s just hurtful to those already feeling guilty wondering if they did something that caused their cancer.

    • @pinkyfingerhehe
      @pinkyfingerhehe Рік тому

      @@jaypie0864if you look at some recent videos all the information about it is in the description idk which video it was maybe checkout the recent ones

  • @kimmij6873
    @kimmij6873 Рік тому +608

    Who else is on here because they wanted to know how it all started…..😢

  • @jmgs24lady
    @jmgs24lady Місяць тому +12

    I miss her sweet voice. She looks like an angel with her white shirt/dress. 👼

  • @JustJoASMR
    @JustJoASMR 8 місяців тому +18

    I still can't understand how they refused to scan the chest/lungs... like what the heck...They should be held accountable! RIP Beautiful

    • @Krujstr1
      @Krujstr1 2 місяці тому

      Turn to jesus Christ you will not be scared to die and not be scared of cancer and stuff like this

  • @Ilovechickpeas24
    @Ilovechickpeas24 6 місяців тому +96

    Imagine if the doctors took her concerns seriously from the first time she mentioned them. She might still be here. RIP Jenny.

    • @PhyreReighn
      @PhyreReighn 5 місяців тому +1

      Absolutely!! USA is overwhelmed and notorious for gaslighting, brushing it off, and passing the buck

    • @Krujstr1
      @Krujstr1 2 місяці тому

      Turn to jesus Christ you will not be scared to die and not be scared of cancer and stuff like this

  • @LtEllenRiplley
    @LtEllenRiplley Рік тому +515

    Jenny, you didnt lose your battle you fought like the warrior you are and I hope your transition is pain free and peaceful. Fly high.

  • @lynnhettrick7588
    @lynnhettrick7588 Рік тому +107

    This is eye-opening that a person's blood work can look normal and good, yet have cancer.

    • @globefm
      @globefm 6 місяців тому +9

      Depends what you check.

    • @janetcarlson31
      @janetcarlson31 5 місяців тому +6

      I agree with you. I always thought it would show any type of cancer!!

    • @lucasdamotta2931
      @lucasdamotta2931 5 місяців тому +8

      @@globefmExactly. There are blood test markers specifically for cancer.

    • @J3RiC3LL
      @J3RiC3LL 5 місяців тому +7

      Nah any asthma person now has gained severe anxiety 😭

    • @popstarronaldo75
      @popstarronaldo75 4 місяці тому

      ​@@J3RiC3LLI know right

  • @cyndianderson7056
    @cyndianderson7056 Рік тому +166

    My mom had been complaining of a stomach ache for quite some time but her doctor kept brushing it off. One day she had a stroke. While recovering in the hospital, they finally took a look at her stomach. She had ovarian cancer that spread throughout her abdomen. We lost her a few months after. This makes me SO ANGRY. For my mom and this beautiful young woman that should be living a long life with her family. These doctors need to listen to us. We know if there's something wrong with our bodies. How many people would still be here if diagnosed sooner. It breaks my heart.

    • @annaferrelli4009
      @annaferrelli4009 Рік тому +20

      The same thing happened to my mother. They say Ovarian Cancer is the silent killer. I'd say it's more like deaf doctors are the silent killer. So sorry for your loss. I was 27 when she passed.

    • @SandraLuz3
      @SandraLuz3 Рік тому +9

      My aunt is fighting right now. I pray she will be healed. She was misdiagnosed and ignored many times

    • @sap3737
      @sap3737 Рік тому +4

      Why won’t drs do the tests ? i don’t understand don’t they just get paid more money to do them?

    • @maxine3587
      @maxine3587 Рік тому +5

      I feel as if doctors don't like it if you need to say "actually, I still have the problem".
      It becomes like a battle of wills between you and them.

    • @Valturnaqueen
      @Valturnaqueen 11 місяців тому

      @@sap3737They know some insurance carriers will not pay for expensive tests. That’s a primary reason they won’t order tests. Find another doctor if someone does this to you.

  • @valentinaplasaj8587
    @valentinaplasaj8587 7 місяців тому +75

    I don't know her and I cried like I'm grieving a sister. What a beautiful soul. Rest easy angel.

    • @Krujstr1
      @Krujstr1 2 місяці тому

      Turn to jesus Christ you will not be scared to die and not be scared of cancer and stuff like this

  • @anniebananie7887
    @anniebananie7887 Рік тому +34

    Shame on that doctor for not taking you seriously when you explained your symptoms! Doctors don't take women seriously, after watching your video today, I'm in tears. God bless you and your family and friends.

  • @nancychamberlin6520
    @nancychamberlin6520 11 місяців тому +86

    This is so sad to think it took her so long to be diagnosed. Absolutely sickening. Your body tells you when something is wrong but they ignored her until it was too late. Rest in peace beautiful Jennie. You deserved so much better than you got.

    • @angelh3771
      @angelh3771 11 місяців тому +9

      It could have saved her life if they'd given her better care the year symptoms started. This is sickening 😞😔😯

    • @samhull1118
      @samhull1118 11 місяців тому +2

      When did the symptoms start because I have been looking back and I don't see her saying anything about being in pain

    • @iamwhoiam7887
      @iamwhoiam7887 9 місяців тому +3

      To be fair, its extremely unlikely for a healthy young woman with no history of nicotine abuse to have this.

    • @anonymous-bb2dw
      @anonymous-bb2dw 7 місяців тому +3

      ​@@iamwhoiam7887yet she had it and died because of it. doesn't mean shxt, if you're in pain something is wrong

    • @iamwhoiam7887
      @iamwhoiam7887 7 місяців тому

      @@anonymous-bb2dw well the issue is women think everything is cancer.

  • @sambitbhattacharya2911
    @sambitbhattacharya2911 9 місяців тому +23

    Sorry to hear from you Jenny! You’re like an older sister to me. I’m from India and I accept I belong to a 3rd world country. But here the medical system is totally different than first world. Our medical system is so cheap and our doctors are so helpful that whenever we ask for CT and MRI, they write in the prescription. We do blood test by our own from clinic. Our healthcare system is not that advanced but at least we’ve freedom to test with our own body! RIP Jenny, a caring mother,wife,sister,daughter. You will be always remembered by your existing videos.

    • @x.sahara.x.sun.x
      @x.sahara.x.sun.x 8 місяців тому

      She died…

    • @cynthiaholland13
      @cynthiaholland13 8 місяців тому +2

      ​@@x.sahara.x.sun.xyes. That's why they said RIP

    • @Krujstr1
      @Krujstr1 2 місяці тому

      Turn to jesus Christ you will not be scared to die and not be scared of cancer and stuff like this

  • @americangraffiticaroz2082
    @americangraffiticaroz2082 Рік тому +224

    Your story is similar to my Dad’s. He had pain in his ribs/arm for over a year. When he complained to his family Dr, the Dr would say things like “ just don’t move your arm if it hurts” He finally complained to his cardiologist who ran tests and found cancer with Mets. My Dad had the same cancer as yours. For anyone reading this, you know your body, if something isn’t right, don’t stop until you get answers. Don’t let Dr’s discredit your complaints. Be your own advocate, it may save your life. This is so sad.

    • @dtbnfl2
      @dtbnfl2 Рік тому +12

      im going through this rn and its even worse because i’m a 16 year old female who looks very healthy on the outside, i’ve been getting a bunch of symptoms along with unexplained fatigue yet everyone around me thinks im faking everything for “attention”, its been going on for a month and i just feel helpless

    • @americangraffiticaroz2082
      @americangraffiticaroz2082 Рік тому +5

      ⁠@@dtbnfl2You know your body better than anyone. Keep advocating for yourself and demand answers. I wish you well.

    • @dtbnfl2
      @dtbnfl2 Рік тому

      @@americangraffiticaroz2082 thank you sm i will 💕

    • @Alabanzas159
      @Alabanzas159 Рік тому

      @@dtbnfl2 go to the hospital plz

    • @Alabanzas159
      @Alabanzas159 Рік тому +1

      I think this was the med she talked about.

  • @christa526
    @christa526 10 місяців тому +26

    Notice she had to REQUEST her own blood work and scans!! People we have to be our own doctors now! We have to advocate for our own health, especially as women!

    • @Spacemonkeymojo
      @Spacemonkeymojo 10 місяців тому +6

      It happens to men too. It’s the lazy bastard doctors that are the problem.

  • @DReardon-hq2vb
    @DReardon-hq2vb Рік тому +255

    It's just awful that it's SO hard to get doctors to listen. I'm following you, Jenny. My heart is with you.

    • @cuteface88
      @cuteface88 Рік тому +1

      Doctors are good listeners. They listen to their instructors and colleagues tell them all the lies and misinformation that they then spread on to us that gets and keeps us all sick so they make bank on drugs.

    • @iposttoxicshorts
      @iposttoxicshorts Рік тому +3

      They are too concerned with providing answers instead of the right ones.

    • @KBP120
      @KBP120 Рік тому +1

      This is generalizing doctors pretty heavily. All doctors are different. There are "doctors" and then there are doctors. Same kinda concept with "back the blue". There are "police officers" and there are police officers. It's common sense.

    • @ruadhagainagaidheal9398
      @ruadhagainagaidheal9398 11 місяців тому

      Doctors don’t listen, they talk and expect you to listen. In their minds they know all there is to know about everything and the patients are just peasants who know nothing. We adults are supposed to be thankful that these people - who seem like kids right out of school- are gracing us with their wisdom.

    • @Konchunas
      @Konchunas 9 місяців тому

      @@KBP120 they gatekeep the analyses necessary for rare early diagnoses of such problems

  • @danielaholhos9507
    @danielaholhos9507 Рік тому +136

    The drs should be held accountable for their “ negligence “

    • @Jerseyboondocks
      @Jerseyboondocks Рік тому +21

      Exactly because she complained for months. If they would have done the scan when it first started. They could have called it a lot earlier and that can mean all of the difference with the prognosis of how much time she has with us... Their mistake could have literally taken off months of somebody's life!!

    • @SuperMichelleDJ
      @SuperMichelleDJ Рік тому +7

      I think doctors don't make as many mistakes as they claim. They knew this lady was getting sick and kept on lying to her. I do believe most doctors are just scammers. I really hope this lady gets better.

    • @MikeZachary-jz2wk
      @MikeZachary-jz2wk 11 місяців тому

      ​@@Jerseyboondocksk

    • @MikeZachary-jz2wk
      @MikeZachary-jz2wk 11 місяців тому +1

      Everyone has to have an advocate. I am in in home West pathway in home hospice.

    • @maryshank7825
      @maryshank7825 10 місяців тому +6

      Malpractice for sure. Heartbreaking 😢

  • @john404201
    @john404201 Рік тому +800

    2 years ago the Doctors found I had Stage 3a Lung Cancer. And Now I am Cancer Free. There Is always hope for everyone

    • @eyespy0070
      @eyespy0070 Рік тому +15

      What did you use to heal yourself?

    • @john404201
      @john404201 Рік тому +62

      @@eyespy0070 It took Radiation and Chemo therapy now I feel great

    • @eyespy0070
      @eyespy0070 Рік тому +21

      @@john404201 That's incredible.
      So it really worked? Im absolutely amazed. Congratulations!

    • @eyespy0070
      @eyespy0070 Рік тому +6

      Was it small cell?

    • @john404201
      @john404201 Рік тому +7

      @@eyespy0070 Yes

  • @melissaspurr7752
    @melissaspurr7752 Рік тому +141

    I've been following Jenny's story for a while now. I'm a retired nurse practitioner, and it appalls me that she didn't get a simple CXR to start with. Not expensive - diagnosis very possible at the outset of her symptoms. I've known of other non-smokers who got her form of adenocarcinoma - it does happen. She, Kyle, and her children are in my prayers every day. God bless you, Jenny.

    • @petrajamnik3430
      @petrajamnik3430 Рік тому +8

      I can't stop thinking about where she would've been now if she got scan straight away.... Overwhelming to think that this could have been prevented...Is it possible that she would have developed this kind of symptoms already when the canser is in the first stage?

    • @brookiejai
      @brookiejai Рік тому +19

      It’s because of California. I had to begggggg to get an MRI on my Knee for pain for over 7 years. I’m only 27 and I have a cyst on it. They disregard everyone. It took 6 months for us to get my son diagnosed with acid reflux to get him medicine.
      As a Canadian, this country disgusts me.

    • @deadlyqueens
      @deadlyqueens Рік тому +1

      Exactly

    • @spark2053
      @spark2053 Рік тому +10

      Doctors trying to save money for the insurance companies!!! 😡 🤦‍♀️

    • @cigarettediet1185
      @cigarettediet1185 2 місяці тому

      yeah that is insane, actually and i live here in Hungary and as much as our government is bad, you can have your lung scanned and looked at after some weeks if you ask for an appointment for free

  • @slayerpianoman
    @slayerpianoman Рік тому +154

    Rest in Peace Jenny, this journey you recorded will not just be a testament to the vibrancy, love, and courage you showed on your own cancer journey, but a light for those going through it themselves. Thank you for being you.

    • @Krujstr1
      @Krujstr1 2 місяці тому

      Turn to jesus Christ you will not be scared to die and not be scared of cancer and stuff like this

  • @Lori-em4wh
    @Lori-em4wh 11 місяців тому +28

    She was so beautiful. It’s unfair this disease took this young mother’s life. My dad had lung cancer but was a heavy smoker.

    • @Krujstr1
      @Krujstr1 2 місяці тому

      Turn to jesus Christ you will not be scared to die and not be scared of cancer and stuff like this

  • @ellisj98
    @ellisj98 Рік тому +70

    It’s quite hard to watch this knowing she’s gone … she’s so articulate, looks like such a good mum, and to think she’s gone… hard to comprehend

    • @Krujstr1
      @Krujstr1 2 місяці тому

      Turn to jesus Christ you will not be scared to die and not be scared of cancer and stuff like this

  • @utubesanjay
    @utubesanjay 5 місяців тому +28

    Just lost my wife a week ago. Lung cancer. She fought for 10 long years.

    • @robhorneman483
      @robhorneman483 2 місяці тому +2

      Sorry my friend!! 😢 lost my wife to stg 4 adenocarcinoa lung cancer in 14 March 2024

    • @Krujstr1
      @Krujstr1 2 місяці тому

      Turn to jesus Christ you will not be scared to die and not be scared of cancer and stuff like this

    • @littlems.tries-to-fix-it6270
      @littlems.tries-to-fix-it6270 Місяць тому +2

      ❤ I’m sorry for your loss

    • @robhorneman483
      @robhorneman483 Місяць тому +1

      @@utubesanjay mine died in March 3 weeks time..sorry foyour loss

  • @aidans666
    @aidans666 2 місяці тому +7

    Wow. If a Dr or nurse would have listened to her she might still be here today. RIP Jenny. You have hundreds of thousands of people who still think about you every day.🙏🏻

  • @ClaudiaRusso-tr2qg
    @ClaudiaRusso-tr2qg Рік тому +60

    I'm watching this after Jenny passed on 11/5/23. R.I.P. Jenny you're now officially an angel but in rewatching this now I realized that you were always an angel all along! ❤️🙏

    • @marshashriver118
      @marshashriver118 Рік тому +4

      As a nurse myself, you were blown off for over a year! That is medical malpractice!! I know you are gone. To anyone reading this…… you must be your own advocate. Be aggressive and fight for answers. I can not believe that a simple, cheap x-ray was not done the first visit!!
      I am 5 yrs post breast cancer.
      This just kills me. I am so sorry❤

  • @cynthiaholland13
    @cynthiaholland13 8 місяців тому +4

    Your son looks so happy here. It's hard looking at Ellis now that you passed. He looks like he misses you so much and I pray that God brings back the gleam in his eye. I know you are watching over him❤

  • @deirdrekiely6187
    @deirdrekiely6187 2 роки тому +164

    When a person mentions breathing issues and pain in the chest a GOOD doctor would do some kind of diagnostic test - chest X-Ray, pulmonary testing, chest CT scan or MRI chest scan ....something, anything to at least begin to explore possible lung issue. And you can see the cost of being "too nice" or a "people pleaser." Frankly, a lot of doctors just do the bare minimum these days. And even in this case the ER nurse wanted to block you from getting the MRI. Good for being pushy.

    • @justlivin8629
      @justlivin8629 Рік тому +18

      I purposely go to a doctor rotation Clinic. I get a new fresh faced excited resident yearly. You are able to go to one visit and cover anything you want. If I want a chest scan they give it to me, if I want bloodwork they give it to me, if I need to discuss mental health and medication, they give it to me. They sit down and they say, what do you need from this visit? It has changed my whole perspective on doctors and care.

    • @TheAdventuresofDrewandAmanda
      @TheAdventuresofDrewandAmanda Рік тому +9

      @@justlivin8629 where do you find this type of clinic?

    • @CoCo-yv3hl
      @CoCo-yv3hl Рік тому

      They don’t

    • @out_of_control1
      @out_of_control1 Рік тому +3

      @jennyapple I agree yet my doctor has referred me for further tests but there's a waiting list. Got a slightly hoarse voice, some ache (not pain) in left lung, indesgestion and breathlessness etc.

    • @BidenOwesMeGasMoney
      @BidenOwesMeGasMoney Рік тому +7

      I’ve learned through experience that doctors usually like to be reactive and not proactive, and that is a problem.

  • @gloriaturner9861
    @gloriaturner9861 Рік тому +44

    I found a penny in a store yesterday. I picked it up and said "hi, Jenny!

    • @Krujstr1
      @Krujstr1 2 місяці тому

      Turn to jesus Christ you will not be scared to die and not be scared of cancer and stuff like this

  • @silvialogan9226
    @silvialogan9226 11 місяців тому +17

    I cannot believe the negligence of doctors. When one is complaining of rib pain and shortness of breath, doctors should start sounding the alarm and send people to do scans such as MRIs, CT Scans, and PET Scans. Too me that was disgusting the way which they treated sweet Jenny. Maybe she would had been alive today if the doctors took her seriously and sent her to do the Chest X-Ray immediately.

  • @Rocko1990
    @Rocko1990 Рік тому +32

    What a sweetheart she was. I'm sad she's gone.

  • @peggyk.schunk4322
    @peggyk.schunk4322 Рік тому +142

    I researched this video because of Jenny's hospice state. I am so proud of her personal advocacy and yet feel she was so let down by her primary's negligence. Pain is a symptom and it should have been taken more seriously. And yet her bravery during her journey is so admirable. Utterly heartbreaking.

    • @christinelamb1167
      @christinelamb1167 Рік тому +18

      Yes, her doctors massively let her down, and I feel they have blood (metaphorically speaking) on their hands. It IS heartbreaking!

    • @JohnDeere1738
      @JohnDeere1738 Рік тому

      @@christinelamb1167this story is unbelievably sad, but I don’t see how it’s the initial PCP’s fault. They ordered a chest X-ray as well as a CBC and spleen US. That’s quite a bit of testing, and the truth is stuff gets expensive for people very quickly. Medicine is just the application of evidence based science, and 999/1000 someone of her age and health wouldn’t need more testing. It’s super unfortunate in this situation, but I feel that the PCP did take her concerns seriously, and placing blame on them isn’t super fair.

    • @christinelamb1167
      @christinelamb1167 Рік тому +7

      @@JohnDeere1738 Actually they did not order an x-ray. Months and months later she had to BEG the doctor for an x-rays. That's when they found something, but it was already so advanced.

    • @iamwhoiam7887
      @iamwhoiam7887 8 місяців тому

      The problem is women always worry about benign sh.

  • @AfterTheRain_Beth
    @AfterTheRain_Beth Рік тому +31

    So, today is 8th Nov 2023 and I just learned we lost our beautiful Jenny on the 5th. I'd never seen this video before. When I came across Jenny's channel was just before she shaved her hair off and she knew she was terminal. but was about to start a new clinical trial.
    She's unbelievably beautiful and graceful. What a loss! Cancer sucks! Her husband and family are broken-hearted. But she's free from pain and sadness at last. And the love she gave and received, she took with her to cherish until they are reunited again.

  • @ericajones5345
    @ericajones5345 Рік тому +47

    I witnessed how horrible healthcare was during covid. It is such a shame that she was ignored and dismissed. Ive never seen someone handle such a devastating situation with as much grace, faith and love as her and Kyle. God bless Kyle and them babies ❤ fly high Jen.

    • @xoAnimal_Loverxo
      @xoAnimal_Loverxo Рік тому +4

      I couldn't agree more. The last time I was in the Hospital for COVID so many people were out in the waiting room some so so sick they couldn't even stand an they didn't even care or separate me from others knowing I had it. It makes me wonder if she would still be here had they listened to her sooner! She shouldn't had had to beg for tests..

    • @samsmith8415
      @samsmith8415 10 місяців тому +1

      Ignoring this because of a minor sickness... these doctors need to face consequences..

  • @Beacontotheword
    @Beacontotheword 5 місяців тому +25

    So heartbreaking this was only 3 years ago 😢 gives me comfort coming back and watching older Jenny videos

  • @katrina7082
    @katrina7082 Рік тому +156

    You won the battle with cancer Jenny 🙏🏽

    • @Itsmejo-h6q
      @Itsmejo-h6q 7 місяців тому +1

      @katrina7082 How?

    • @MrTruckerf
      @MrTruckerf 4 місяці тому +1

      I would call it a draw.

  • @SusanDavis-mt3qe
    @SusanDavis-mt3qe Рік тому +203

    As I watch this and your live stream now your journey is coming to an end. Sweet Jenny, you fought so hard. I will never forget your bravery and courage during your fight. Sending love, hugs 🫂 and prayers for you, Kyle, Ellis and Winnie. May God comfort you during this journey. You set an example for all of us Warriors out there to never give up. God Speed.🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋❤️❤️❤️💐

    • @Theresa-zg9uo
      @Theresa-zg9uo Рік тому +5

      No one knows what will happen. I was startled to read comments about end of life and angels. Jenny is alive. Shouldn´t that be the focus?

    • @bettysmith4527
      @bettysmith4527 Рік тому

      You, like many people have not accepted death as a part of life. She is dying, there is not going to be a miracle, and it is important to accept that so that you can help that person through this last stage of life. @@Theresa-zg9uo

    • @GinaGraff-vi3xm
      @GinaGraff-vi3xm Рік тому +5

      She’s dying in the hosp at present

    • @lisasharf1442
      @lisasharf1442 Рік тому +9

      @@Theresa-zg9uoJenny is in hospice now. The doctor says she may only have a few days left. In medical parlance, she is “actively dying”. Kyle posted a livestream about an hour ago. Her pain is controlled, she is getting good rest, and spending as much time as she can with her family.

    • @JodiLeaSnakeQueen
      @JodiLeaSnakeQueen Рік тому +1

      ​@Theresa-zg9uo yes but she is dying. There isn't any coming back from where she's at right now unfortunately. The focus is being comfortable - pain free and spending time with family, because they have days.
      As someone who was right there when my mother passed of Lung cancer and witnessing a lot of death in my career. She is going to pass and soon unfortunately.

  • @labcat647
    @labcat647 Рік тому +28

    Everyone I know who has had cancer had at least one doctor in the beginning tell them they didn’t have cancer.

  • @dianetaylor5653
    @dianetaylor5653 Рік тому +45

    I love that we are all here looking at Jenny's beautiful face. I am new to her journey but it affected me so much. What a courageous woman who bear the hell out of cancer❤

  • @williamcoe9200
    @williamcoe9200 Рік тому +16

    RIP Jenny....you will never be forgotten

  • @melissadawn9374
    @melissadawn9374 11 місяців тому +11

    This just breaks my heart after watching the latest videos first. She was so young and beautiful. My mom passed from non-Hodgkin’s lymphoma. And when they did her brain scan, it showed this big beautiful butterfly, taking up most of her brain from the center out and she passed away. Exactly 2 months later on my third wedding anniversary. I am so sorry for your families loss and I completely agree with Jenny when she said she beat cancer because my mom did too it could no longer manifest in their bodies so it died.

  • @PennyJackson123
    @PennyJackson123 8 місяців тому +15

    We miss you so much Jenny ❤ I’m pregnant with hopefully a daughter this time, and my husband and I have been so excited to have her named after you. Jennifer 🦋🌻 it’s such an honor to have gotten to known you through your videos. Forever missed - never gone 🩷🩷🩷

    • @sunshine9122
      @sunshine9122 6 місяців тому +2

      I'm sure Jenny is smiling and honored.❤

    • @PennyJackson123
      @PennyJackson123 6 місяців тому +2

      @@sunshine9122 I truly hope so 💕 When I think of Jenny I think of a Disney princess with a heart of gold. Her humble personality and kindness and motherly nature inspires me.
      I am now 4 months pregnant with a girl 👧 who will be named Jenny Doralee Johnson 🥰

    • @lisasharf1442
      @lisasharf1442 3 місяці тому +1

      @@PennyJackson123be sure to let Kyle know when she’s born. 😊

  • @judyhill6311
    @judyhill6311 Рік тому +11

    My first husband passed from a brain tumor. When he got sick he always said no tears. He only wants people around that’s happy to see him. No tears . We done that while he was sick.he was sick 9 years. Our God is great. He had a wonderfull life I made sure of it. Our kids are now 39 and 44 they remember him playing music and always happy even while he was in pain.

  • @chancybyford
    @chancybyford 11 місяців тому +10

    Can't believe this was 2 years ago that she got diagnosed. She was so brave through her journey, always positive, happy, and loved her kids and husband. You sure are missed, Jenny 😢

  • @betsybabf748
    @betsybabf748 Рік тому +111

    So beautiful, inside and out. You will be forever missed and remembered. You touched the world and taught so much to many. 💔💔 As a widowed mother, and former smoker, who lost my own mother to lung cancer, I was having severe rib pain. I was too scared to see a doctor for awhile. Because I watched this video , I got a CT scan. It was thankfully clear, but I never would have gotten it without Jenny. I'm sure she saved others.

    • @AfterTheRain_Beth
      @AfterTheRain_Beth Рік тому +5

      Thank God you were clear. That must have been terrifying. I'm sorry for your losses.

  • @wendycrawford1792
    @wendycrawford1792 6 місяців тому +15

    What a beautiful woman. Rest in peace until you are reunited with your family.

  • @oldcollegecoed
    @oldcollegecoed Рік тому +32

    I know I should wait to get control over my rage, but I truly hope Jenny’s original doctor hears about her UA-cam channel and reads these comments! I’ve spent the last 2 years watching this absolutely beautiful young mom and wife suffer through the most horrific treatments in order to have more time to spend with her precious children and unbelievably supportive & loving husband. Tragically, her poor little body wore out, and this cruel world lost a true gift from God. And why is this perfect little family now forced to face a life without her in it? Because for over a year, her doctor adamantly refused to listen to her complaints and concerns, despite the fact that she knew her body better than anyone else, and she was worried! Not to mention, she was an educated, health-conscious, young woman who was exhibiting obvious pulmonary distress. Rather than simply order a routine chest x-Ray, he completely ignored her requests, trivialized her fears, and treated her based solely on his own guess work. This arrogant, irresponsible, callous narcissist should be sued for medical malpractice, and he should not be allowed to practice medicine on another human being. Because of his recklessness, Jenny’s once treatable cancer spread too far to cure, and that beautiful angel was forced to suffer though years of devastating treatments which assaulted her body so badly, she wasn’t able to truly enjoy the little time she had left with her children and her family! Not to mention, her husband is not only faced with a future without the love of his life, he’s going to have to find childcare for his two traumatized children who have been raised with a stay-at-home mommy! There is no excuse for what this doctor put this family through, and he should be held accountable for the misery he caused!

  • @CataclysmDM
    @CataclysmDM Рік тому +13

    She was so strong and graceful! I'm glad she can rest now, she finally beat cancer.

  • @aliinwonderland656
    @aliinwonderland656 Рік тому +106

    One thing being an RN has taught me, is to just live life and enjoy it the moment. You can do everything right, and still be sick or worse. Wish the best for this person and family ❤

    • @carmencarp3594
      @carmencarp3594 Рік тому +20

      Hope this video also taught you guys to be open-minded and listen to patients. I think that's the biggest lesson in this video and many others

    • @Kitty_Lechat
      @Kitty_Lechat Рік тому

      ​@@carmencarp3594You have to know what to ask and do some research before seeing the doctor. A lot of the doctors would not think of cancer the first thing when they see a young person walking into the clinic. If they see a young person complaining of blood in the stool, they will do a physical exam, probably saying something like hemorrhoids or rectal fistula send you home with the cream maybe a blood test. They will not send the person to colonoscopy right away especially the bleeding is not significant. People with no medical background will just listen to whatever the doctor tell them.
      ( By the way if it is bleeding from the hemorrhoids it will stop within a week) otherwise it could be something more serious. 😮

    • @patsmith8035
      @patsmith8035 Рік тому

      ​​​@@carmencarp3594it will carry happening because the long and short of It is most doctors don't care, their needs, those of their colleagues trump their patients needs, I had my pneumonia and Sepsis missed by one GP practice and PMR missed by another. Both practices covered up their mistakes.I now have a private naturopathic doctor, I might pay but he cares about and does the best for his patients.

  • @MarieLovely143
    @MarieLovely143 Рік тому +67

    I can't believe these Dr's she saw. This is extremely heartbreaking. My mom just passed away from lung cancer. Started with back pain like Jenny, and Dr's told her it's probably her mattress. NO IT WASNT. it was lung cancer.
    Dr's are horrible now ah days. Jenny is right. ADVOCATE FOR YOUR SELF AND FAMILY.
    Jenny is soooo strong. My mamma was too. ❤

    • @robertsole9970
      @robertsole9970 Рік тому

      Yes! Most of them are assholes and think they always know better

    • @elainew2230
      @elainew2230 Рік тому +10

      I watched this and wondered if the first doctor she saw had taken her seriously... would she still be here. Hearbreaking to think about.

    • @beckymedvetz228
      @beckymedvetz228 Рік тому +3

      So sorry for the loss of your mom. I pray God comforts you and gives you peace.

    • @romanaabo3664
      @romanaabo3664 Рік тому +2

      ​@@elainew2230from what I understood she had a gene mutation that would have been fatal no matter what 😢

  • @Dana-lf8we
    @Dana-lf8we 7 місяців тому +4

    This video has encouraged me to advocate for myself. I’ve had a cough for months along with rib pain. The doctors have done X-rays and blood work and are convinced that because my results are good then it must just be stomach acid. Meanwhile my pain and cough are getting worse. I’m going to push for a CT scan. Thank you for telling your story so that others can get checked ❤️

    • @louern123
      @louern123 6 місяців тому

      good luck 🤞🏻

  • @jeancampbell6641
    @jeancampbell6641 Рік тому +189

    Kyle this broke my heart watching this today . I truly understand where your coming from . My husband got very confused before he passed . The Drs suspected the cancer had spread to his brain . It’s the most horrible thing watching your loved one go from the vibrant person they were to not knowing what’s going on around them .Your whole family is in my prayers .🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @saulgoodman8063
    @saulgoodman8063 2 роки тому +528

    i was a perfectly healthy 14 year old in feb 2016, by june i had stage 4 alveolar rhabdomyosarcoma with distant mets. i can remember the feeling of constant fatigue and breathlessness pre diagnosis. it’s incredibly scary. i can also relate to the drs dismissing me because of how healthy i looked, ignored my obvious lumps. the second i felt my lump i knew it was cancer idk i just could tell. i am now 2.5 yrs in remission after a relapse but i’m remaining positive.

    • @danielleiapalucci1693
      @danielleiapalucci1693 2 роки тому +36

      Oh I love this🙌🏻how easily doctors dismiss us because of young age or what not….but we know our bodies and are our best advocates!

    • @danielleiapalucci1693
      @danielleiapalucci1693 2 роки тому +17

      God bless you! So happy you are doing well!!💕

    • @saulgoodman8063
      @saulgoodman8063 2 роки тому +39

      @@danielleiapalucci1693 yes the first dr i saw when i went to the er for cancer symptoms was more concerned with my appearance. he pulled my mom aside and said “if she doesn’t like the way she looks in a bikini in a few years we can remove the lump”. talking about a 14 year old girl… some drs are in it for all the wrong reasons and it’s hard to trust them.

    • @danielleiapalucci1693
      @danielleiapalucci1693 2 роки тому +9

      @@saulgoodman8063 wow 🤦🏻‍♀️I don’t doubt it….you’re so right

    • @JustaFriend2012
      @JustaFriend2012 2 роки тому +9

      My prayers are with you

  • @stheday1
    @stheday1 Рік тому +82

    It is so infuriating how doctors brush aside or not take seriously issues that patients bring up. Good job pushing for the MRI scan. I saw your more recent videos and am heart broken. I truly wish you and your family all the best.

    • @heatherm8736
      @heatherm8736 Рік тому +1

      Right!?! The Drs need to have the shame rubbed in their face but by the point of actual diagnosis the patient has other things to think about than booking another appointment and saying to the Dr ' so that thing you said was nothing? Well it is cancer dickwad'

    • @Valturnaqueen
      @Valturnaqueen Рік тому +1

      Find a new doctor. A caring doctor will listen to you.

  • @leahpitman2731
    @leahpitman2731 Рік тому +31

    This is so sad that your symptoms were brushed off! Shortness of breath along with rib pain should have warranted diagnostic testing of your lungs the first time you went in. Goodness, I wish you weren’t suffering through all these treatments. Wonderful you have so much support in your family. 💕🙏

  • @katycooke3635
    @katycooke3635 Рік тому +23

    We went through this same experience with my father in law. He was a very healthy 73 year old that spontaneously lost 20 lbs in 2 weeks, localized pain in his abdomen, chest, and back. I had to beg for an abdominal ct scan. Long story short he had stage 4 Mets to the lungs, kidneys, retroperitoneal area, liver and mediastinum. We were devastated. He had been to the doctor several times with concerns prior.. and no one would listen. He passed away at.Home with us 8 wks after his scan. Praying for you Jenny and everyone else fighting.

  • @carriemorley356
    @carriemorley356 Рік тому +47

    🥰😘🌹Honey, it’s been 2years now since you made this video and I just want you to know how proud I am of you sweetheart, SOOOO proud. You’re a Class act, all the way! You’re very Brave, have Dignity, Poise, and are still stronger than you probably know. I love you my Dearest Sister in Christ Jesus. Love love love love love YOU! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @Shelilah41
    @Shelilah41 Рік тому +31

    We love you Jenny. We are here with you two years later. You have been a true warrior. When you transition into a angel your family will not leave your side. Don’t be afraid. You have made such a impact on all of us that watch you. To never give up. You never did. We will miss you so much!

  • @fai1t0liv3
    @fai1t0liv3 Рік тому +32

    It's hard going back to watch these videos knowing all the pain that would come.
    Jenny, you are so sorely missed.

  • @rmilkyswife
    @rmilkyswife 4 місяці тому +12

    It is strange to miss a person I never met before. I have only watched their videos.

  • @helenazzopardi1713
    @helenazzopardi1713 Рік тому +10

    Hi Jenny, Just watched your beautiful husband give us the sad news. Rest in peace beautiful Jenny

  • @brack0609
    @brack0609 Рік тому +115

    Jenny, it is 10/6/23 and I've recently found your channel. I've watched all of your more recent videos but this one was recommended to me and so I watched even though it is 2 years old. I want to say that you are beautiful and strong and you've been such a fighter through all of this. I will pray for you to have the strength and grace and comfort you need on this journey.

    • @keelopugdog1
      @keelopugdog1 Рік тому +16

      Same here but 10/25/23 so I am catching up! My nanny (2015-80 years old) and husband (2021-52yeaes old) both passed from the same cancer both smoked since they were very young. My nanny had the cancer removed by lobectomy and tonsillectomy and did not treatments when she was 76 and it returned 3 years later. She lived almost a year with no treatment. They had told her she might gain 1 year but it would be a rough year of treatment to gain that other year. She was very lucky to be relatively healthy and felt pretty good until the last month. She ended up having showers of mini strokes and survived that about a week and passed with a bigger stroke. I was glad the pain and suffering didn’t linger on and on. My husband has a bunch of abdominal surgeries due to a ruptured ulcer and abbess’s. After 4 surgeries and a rough year and severe weight loss his back and hips were hurting him and just weren’t getting better so we inquired, a scan was done and blasting lesions were found on the pelvis. A bone biopsy was done quickly and we were expecting prostate cancer because his dad had it , but we’re were shocked with news it was stage 4 lung cancer that had already spread to the pelvis, spine, collar bone and tailbone. He was a horrible patient, still smoked, did eat right, was already down about 75lbs, was addicted to pain meds due to chronic pain for 15 years, didn’t sleep regular, just over all stubborn and non compliant. But we did radiation and chemo, he continued to lose weight. Ended up going from a man that was 6’3” weighing about 220 to 130lbs and was nothing but bones and that was so painful. He could never take his pain meds correctly and I felt terrible fighting with him over because he did have cancer and it was in the bones and extremely painful. But the doctor literally wouldn’t have ever been able to give him enough meds! It was that bad. It ended up spreading to his liver and ribs and he was in so much unmanageable pain we talked to hospice and we had decided that he was going to sign up with hospice and I honestly think that finally coming to that decision and being so tired of the pain he was at peace with his decision and he actually passed away in his sleep that very next morning. He fought his cancer almost a year from his diagnosis. I hate lung cancer for taking 2 of the. People that I loved the most in this world and I am so sorry you are going through this. My prayers are with you, your husband and children and extended family! It is so very hard to watch your loved one be in pain and suffer. I pray your good days outweigh you bad and you get to enjoy your babies much longer than the doctors think! Sending love and prayers.

    • @annetjieolckers5013
      @annetjieolckers5013 Рік тому

      ​@@keelopugdog1AÀ

  • @aliciamonger2920
    @aliciamonger2920 Рік тому +47

    I've been watching Jenny for awhile and I've always wondered how she looked with locks and she is absolutely stunning. Then and now, she is a beautiful soul. I'm praying for you all.

  • @nsalr
    @nsalr Рік тому +24

    Your wife will soon be a beautiful angel . So sad to watch this video! Jenny is beautiful inside and out and she is one of a kind special lady . She will be missed by everyone that has had the pleasure to be graced by her . Watching her be soo strong and so unselfish through this journey . She fought with such bravery . May her passing be beautiful with no suffering.

  • @AccidentallyOnPurpose
    @AccidentallyOnPurpose 10 місяців тому +27

    It is so heartbreaking that if our healthcare system was better she could still be alive today.

    • @waldagagnon7903
      @waldagagnon7903 6 днів тому

      you don't know THAT! She was being treated at a known cancer faciluty ,City of Hope.

  • @2nicnag2
    @2nicnag2 9 місяців тому +4

    I just found this channel a few hours ago, as someone who has had major medical issues and almost dying multiple times, I have had doctors dismiss me despite more than 28 years of issues, been told it’s all in my head, issues getting worse and then finally found two doctors who actually listened to me and numerous organs removed later, low dose chemo for the rest of my life and a permanent ostomy but I’m finally the healthiest I’ve been in my entire adult life at age 41. We don’t know what all lies ahead but will take it a day at a time.

  • @soultaina
    @soultaina 8 місяців тому +6

    Thanks for your bravery Sweet Jenny.. I'm sure you're still helping many....Rest in Paradise 🕊

  • @louise8752
    @louise8752 2 роки тому +360

    Wishing you all the best in your cancer battle. Unfortunately regardless of your diet, environmental factors and how well you take care of yourself anyone can get cancer. The unfair thing is that sometimes there just isn’t an answer for so many people including my beloved mom. Prayers for your health.

    • @jennyapple4704
      @jennyapple4704  2 роки тому +34

      Thank you for the prayers.

    • @louise8752
      @louise8752 2 роки тому +13

      @@jennyapple4704 You're welcome. Thinking of you

    • @erebusagarista8031
      @erebusagarista8031 2 роки тому +34

      And it's strange how some people can abuse their health and chain smoke for decades and not get cancer.. My gran is a good example. She's nearly 90 and has chain smoked several packs a day since her 20's. Weird

    • @powerofloveism
      @powerofloveism 2 роки тому +12

      The Dimming is a Documentary about Geoengineering taking place on the Planet I just seen it on You Tube , Engineers risking it all to let us know.

    • @enigma_-_79
      @enigma_-_79 Рік тому

      @@erebusagarista8031
      Lung cancer is caused by gene mutations. Genes can be affected by many things both environmental and genetic.
      Smoking damages the lungs but so do particles in the air, for example, dust, car fumes etc. People who work with dangerous chemicals or items such as asbestos, are also carcinogenic.
      We don’t really know and cannot predict who will get cancer. Who does, and who doesn’t get lung cancer is overall down to luck at the moment.
      85% of people living with lung cancer are non-small cell cancers. Over 300,000 cases are diagnosed every year and of course, not all lung cancer patients are or have been smokers. While people who smoke are of course damaging their lungs on a daily basis which makes them more susceptible to developing gene mutations, it’s not guaranteed that everyone who smokes will develop those gene mutations.

  • @debrak3594
    @debrak3594 Рік тому +162

    I'm so sorry for everything you have had to go through: denial of your symptoms, inadequate testing, lack of pain management. I am a nurse and it's painful to me to see someone suffering. Sending you healing thoughts and hoping your care from this point on is competent, timely, and most of all supportive and compassionate. xo

    • @lisasharf1442
      @lisasharf1442 Рік тому

      Sadly, Jenny died on November 5th.

    • @debrak3594
      @debrak3594 Рік тому

      Thank you for letting us know. My heart goes out to her husband and family.@@lisasharf1442

  • @tinatilton2711
    @tinatilton2711 Рік тому +8

    You are such a beautiful soul. I will miss you so much. I just watched Kyle give an update. You finally beat cancer, it is dead. Fly high beautiful 😢

  • @carolstauffer6422
    @carolstauffer6422 Рік тому +58

    Watching this now with the situation at the hospital makes me brutally sad. So smart and well spoken and beautiful. Ellis upside down and her smile is what i want to remember!! So much love from Florida during this terrible time. ❤

  • @theresazieglmeier4957
    @theresazieglmeier4957 Рік тому +106

    Your beautiful family and sharing Jenny’s cancer journey has been a true inspiration for more people than you can possibly imagine. Specifically the grace and honesty you have displayed amidst such difficult and emotional situation has been courageous and encouraging at the same time. Praying for peace and comfort as you all transition to a new life.

    • @AtheoPaganWiccan
      @AtheoPaganWiccan Рік тому +6

      Yeah. What a rip to see her go from this video to 'now'.

    • @csnr1227
      @csnr1227 Рік тому +2

      @@AtheoPaganWiccan I thought the exact same thing :(

    • @AtheoPaganWiccan
      @AtheoPaganWiccan Рік тому +1

      @@csnr1227 let's hope science can do something really fast-finger's crossed....

  • @margaretskinner6972
    @margaretskinner6972 Рік тому +20

    I’m another person that followed Jenny on her cancer journey and yes its so infuriating that they didn’t listen to her concerns! I believe this happens too much nowadays and hope her doc, nurses that looked after her watch this video and learn that not listening on their end can shorten a persons life. Put yourself in Jenny’s shoes how would they feel if their health concerns weren’t heard and were given such a diagnosis!
    So yes I’m devastated that Jenny has passed I will remember you! I’d like to think she’s gone to a much better place that’s what keeps me going!

  • @dizzymindy6024
    @dizzymindy6024 Рік тому +8

    I didn’t have lung cancer, but I had chest pain. I had to call a nurse to get permission to see a doctor, the nurse heard my young children in the background and told me I was just stressed out ( I was having chest pains, back pains and shortness of breath). The nurse told me to sit down and put my head between my legs. That didn’t work.
    This all started around 2pm. I waited until my husband got home from work around 7, and we decided to just head to the hospital, cuz I was so uncomfortable.
    At the hospital, the doctor told me I should have called 911. I was kind of lectured, I told the doctor that the advice nurse wouldn’t ok an appointment for me, that I was just having stress.
    Well, I wound up in ICU for 11 days, I had to have two surgeries, if I had gotten to the hospital sooner, I might have only had to have one surgery.
    I was 31. I had a 3 and a 4 year old. I was young and healthy, but I had a birth defect that almost cost me my life.
    My advice to people, listen to your body. You know when something is wrong. Don’t make my mistake, I knew something was wrong, but I listened to the advice nurse, and I knew better. I knew there was something very wrong with me.

  • @TexasBluebonnets22
    @TexasBluebonnets22 Рік тому +8

    Jenny, you are already missed so much!

  • @Mr.T-BAGGIN-UR-MOM
    @Mr.T-BAGGIN-UR-MOM 11 місяців тому +9

    Such a beautiful soul. She was taken far too soon. Her story hit me hard and even harder when i realized she is my age. As a grown man i cant imagine having to go through what this poor girl went through. I remember a video where she said its "horrifying" and thats always stuck with me and reminded me to be grateful. Rip❤

  • @saraglickman5889
    @saraglickman5889 Рік тому +11

    Life is so unfair! How can someone who was so careful get lung cancer? Life is so cruel. What a beautiful young woman taken too soon.

    • @vickimarlene4905
      @vickimarlene4905 7 місяців тому +1

      I had a gf who also did everything right. She died of lung cancer too. She didn’t smoke or drink, had a good diet etc. cancer isn’t selective sadly.

  • @davidcampos1118
    @davidcampos1118 Рік тому +40

    cancer has no boundaries, my grandfather smoked and passed at the age of 97, started smoking at 16. I am so sorry to hear this. Sending prayers through Jesus.

    • @eaglevision993
      @eaglevision993 Рік тому +2

      My grandfather too, smoked since 15, quit at around 75 from one day to the other and died at 91 without any type of cancer.

    • @mikegutierrez6227
      @mikegutierrez6227 Рік тому +2

      @@eaglevision993 so I guess it's the vegetables than are killing us🤔

    • @eaglevision993
      @eaglevision993 Рік тому

      @@mikegutierrez6227 No, cancer is mostly genetic. Some don´t smoke and eat healthy will get it while some smoking their whole life while drinking and working in an asbestos mine won´t.

  • @Blessedbeyond.
    @Blessedbeyond. 11 місяців тому +8

    I am watching this in December after Jenny's passing 😭. I still can't believe she's no longer with us it just blows my mind. The COVID pandemic costs Soo many people so much more than we could ever believe. God bless and hold you all.

  • @dj1469
    @dj1469 Рік тому +36

    My mom had the same cancer! My mom also put up a great fight! She passed away in 2012 at the age of 63. Stay strong!! Jenny is in the best place anyone could be looking down over you and the kids! RIP Jenny!

    • @brittneylyntalks
      @brittneylyntalks Рік тому +1

      Non smoking lung cancer? I’m so sorrt

    • @dj1469
      @dj1469 Рік тому

      Yes - thank you! @@brittneylyntalks

  • @virginiahamel8973
    @virginiahamel8973 Рік тому +13

    I just watched the video where you are dying
    I came back here to the beginning
    You are a warrior
    You are so beautiful

  • @SpuddersSpud-ps6dd
    @SpuddersSpud-ps6dd Рік тому +25

    RIP Jenny. You came across as a lovely lady and your children are a credit to both you and Kyle.

  • @miranda13c
    @miranda13c Рік тому +28

    Rest in peace, beautiful Jenny. You didn’t deserve this. All my love to your sweet family. ❤

  • @brandip77
    @brandip77 Рік тому +18

    Our medical system keeps failing people. So many don’t believe patients, and don’t follow through on symptoms. From the first medical visit in 2021, to the urgent care PA, to the pulmonologist who left you hanging with web sites after your official diagnosis. It’s frustrating and unfair. May God bless you, Kyle and the kids. I hope your transition is peaceful. May God comfort your family. 🙏🏾❤️

  • @dianac1411
    @dianac1411 Рік тому +4

    I found a penny yesterday and Jenny was my first thought. What a beautiful light.

  • @barefootedblonde89
    @barefootedblonde89 7 днів тому +1

    this is to her husband: you were an angel of light for Jenny. there every step if thr waking day and night for her. you were her rock. I am so happy you stood by her side and went on this journey with her. may she let you know from time to time she is watching you. she is in no pain yet I'm sire hearing that sucks because she isn't with you either. death is a thief and cancer is the devil. Jenny suffered more then we all know. you were with her, day in and day out. if anyone knows you do. so thankful she didn't have to suffer any longer then she did but sad all the poking and prodding that she had to go through. 😢 she is an angel now. beautiful and healthy. doing God's work. one day reunification will happen. until then. chin up my guy you did more then anyone could for there spouse.

  • @jax3320
    @jax3320 Рік тому +10

    I’m so disappointed in the fact that they didn’t do a chest scan. I’ve been watching your newest videos and now some of your old ones.

  • @JillyBean1968
    @JillyBean1968 2 роки тому +120

    Thank you for sharing the symptoms before being diagnosed. This will be so helpful for so many people. Sending you comforting prayers for healing.

    • @jennyapple4704
      @jennyapple4704  2 роки тому +23

      Thank you, and that is my hope for others

    • @firecracker8071
      @firecracker8071 Рік тому

      I'm one of those Jenny who your story has affected. I, too, have been suffering rib pain for a year and a half and I had Pneumonia 3 times since COVID started. I also have shortness of breath. I am also a whimp with my dr. I explained the pain and she ordered lab work and a exray. There was nothing she sent Me to a pulmonologist and and did some breathing tests.
      And they prescribed me a inhaler. So here I sit 2 and a 1/2 months later. With all the same symptoms, not knowing who to turn who is going to hear me
      And order the right tests. I feel completely defeated. I refuse to use the inhaler. It gives me a horrible sore throat And makes me even more anxious Than the anxiety I suffer from does.. I'm afraid to push the issue with my doctor for fear of being labeled a hypochondriac and yet.... I am lost

    • @heathers.911
      @heathers.911 Рік тому

      @@firecracker8071Find another doctor.

    • @enigma_-_79
      @enigma_-_79 8 місяців тому

      @@firecracker8071
      I hope you returned your the doctor and were much more assertive. Don’t forget, your doctor is performing a service that you are paying for, they aren’t doing you a favour.
      Go back and insist that they check your lungs properly.

  • @nicolewasilewski4282
    @nicolewasilewski4282 3 місяці тому +6

    Oh Jenny, this breaks my heart. I think of you everyday and all that you contributed to this world.

  • @biancadesousa
    @biancadesousa 5 місяців тому +6

    Cancer doesn't discriminate. You can be in perfect health and still get it. The best any normal healthy person can do is just get their yearly physicals and trust your intuition if something is "off" and be your own advocate.

  • @grey1735
    @grey1735 Рік тому +12

    Folks...
    Listen to Mrs. Apple's advice, because she knew what she was talking about.
    If you're talking with a doctor, and you feel like they aren't doing the right tests on you...
    Then become your own advocate and say that for your peace of mind that you would like the right test done.
    And if that doctor doesn't listen to you, then get another doctor!
    Reason being, that doctor isn't living their life for you, you are.
    And I've experienced doctors playing that type of mind game before, by haggling about one test verses another test?
    (Some doctors are weird that way, and I view that medical mind game stuff as unprofessional.)
    God bless the Apple family, and God bless you all as well.

  • @catecate2809
    @catecate2809 Рік тому +6

    Oh my heart. None of this is fair. I’m so angry that young people are not taken serious when it’s statistically proven that cancer does not discriminate. I don’t know if the outcome would be different if she was diagnosed sooner but I wish she was given that chance. Jenny, you are so beautiful. I can’t write in past tense. I’m so angry. It’s so unfair you were taken from your kids, your husband, your friends and family and from this world. I know you talk about how having resentment is not necessary and you didn’t feel any resentment. I wish I could be more like you. You are so good, so kind, so pure. I love you Jenny even though you have never met me.