"everyone was asking about babies and no one was asking about me" ugh it's sad how women's health issues always manages to illuminate the sad reality of society valuing women as caregivers and don't give a damn about caring for women as humans themselves
Hanna is the epitome of the quote ‘tough times don’t last, but tough people do’. Her attitude towards her situation is incredible. As someone who is going to be doing IVF soon she is absolutely an inspiration to me! Great podcast
womens reproductive health is straight up ignored by most doctors. even if we DO get some sort of diagnosis, we're basically told "take pain killers & meditate thats all we can do for you" as if that is helpful in any way
I feel like at some point when you’re in and out of doctors offices, you become desensitized to it. I have UC and It’s horrible horrible but mentally, I’ve gotten used to it
@@giacintaah and y pain killers you mean NSAIDs which don’t do much. And have consequences to organs like your kidneys and liver. At least that’s what they tell me, take more ibuprofen. That should solve the pain that makes me vomit and pass out.
I really liked the vibe of this interview. Hanna's calming voice, the comfy clothes and bare feet, the interviewer curled up in her chair quietly listening/occasionally chiming in, the intermittent kitty visits. Very chill and nice. I really enjoyed it.
Such a good interview!! She killed it, and I feel so much more educated about hormones and menopause. Also so happy to hear about those doctors that made sure you felt that you were worthy even if you are infertile. That’s the way they need to be
So. Wow! I'm 47. I had a hysterectomy at 28. I've learned more from this 2 hour show than I've learned from ANY doctor I've seen. It is extremely difficult to "educate" yourself on this topic because there is So little information out there on Young post menopausal women. I've not ever been given any options on estrogen. Pills or nothing. Which were too strong and gave me headaches. No doctor has mentioned bone density, cholesterol... nothing.
I went through menopause at 26. It took 2 years of suffering through symptoms before my doctor would even refer me to an endocrinologist. So many appointments ended with me asking if it could be menopause and being told I was just too young. One appointment with a specialist confirmed what I had known. That was 17 years ago.
The fact that most ppl asked her mainly about the reproductive facet of her condition just goes to show that we still see women as primarily incubators and generally the attitude of " omg you cant have babiesss,how tragic 😭😭😭" - as if there is nothing more to life than that.. I dont wanna speculate on her feelings but i would assume based on the way she speaks about processing her diagnosis that she did have that kind of discourse in her mind- if you tell someone something often enough they will believe it! Women, we are more than just baby factories, remember that!
I see your point however I don’t think it comes from a bad place. It’s just that is tragic for many women to not be able to have kids. Even if you don’t want to have kids, I imagine something like that happening to you especially at that young of an age might make you double think. It’s like when it’s your choice it’s one thing, but once the option is taken from you it can cause different feelings. I don’t think people are thinking of her as an incubator. It’s just a natural response.
@@tayr3836 it does not come from a bad place at all. Its just that a lot of what society tells women they should, she sadly internalized. As many do. I hope she gets out of that mindset as it is damaging to herself (she seems to have made progres so yay)
@@buracarolina5462 yes it’s unfortunate, I think women in general internalize a lot of what society says. For example myself as a new twin that struggled with breastfeeding had what everyone would think of me if I decided to stop in the back of my head. It makes you feel less than if you don’t live up to societal standards. 😟 it’s hard to block out others opinions
Man they really treated her like she was cattle. Everyone is upset about her not having babies but no one is asking how she is doing in all of this. 1:23:11 really hit close to home. I hope she's feeling more secure. She might not even have been looking to be a mother but everyone seemed to have this idea that she is losing out.
I have stage 4 endometriosis. Its absolutely disgusting how the medical world treats women and endometriosis and pelvic issues. Disgusting. I have been dealing with this shit for over a year. The only way to disgnose is a lap. Birth control does not stop it from growing. I also did two transfers in IVF. Both failed. Also, endometriosis is not backflow. Its a problem at the cellular level. Recent research shows it may involve the stem cells, but a lot more research os needed. There is also another kind of a tissue called endosal that is similar and barely anything os known about it and is a bit rare, but i have that as well... It is a lonely, lonely thing to deal with. Especially when you're someone who did want a family. And yes, adoption is there, but its a completely different avenue. Frankly, its disrespectful to adoptees to think adoption is the same thing. It requires a lot of understanding about trauma. It is also expensive, long and also doesn't always work out. The medical world is way behind with this.
Agreed, especially considering this is becoming more and more common. It shocks me that there is not enough research or knowledge about endometriosis. I have been dealing with it for close to 10 years, have always been brushed off whenever I address it with a doctor.
Had to have a hysterectomy at 24 for endometriosis, as well as my left ovary removed due to endometriomas , my appendix, and so much more. This hit home. Sending light your way endometriosis is such a hard debilitating disease.
I must say this is one of the best podcast I have seen. U allow ur guest to speak and dont constantly probe for more. U are naturally keeping viewers interested, without doing the clickbaity stuff so many podcasters do now. Well done!! 👏👏
This is so comforting to hear. I went through the exact same procedures, and haven't had a period since the age of 20 (7 years ago). I was officially diagnosed earlier this year, after finally being sent to an endocrinologist, after having been diagnosed with severe osteoporosis. What a relief to hear another young, healthy woman went through the EXACT same journey since teen years. Thank you for this, I wish you so much happiness and love! 💜
This popped up on my feed and I was so elated to see I’m not alone in this situation! I’m 31 and currently pre-menopausal. Which has been a really scary experience and I’ve felt so alone during this knowing that most people don’t understand. Thank you for posting this.
honestly listening to Hanna explain so calmly how she went through the logistics of insurance/medication/testing makes me feel a lot better about how FRUSTRATING that process can be
She is a very good storyteller and her way of talking about a pretty traumatic experience is almost comforting :) she's super strong! I've dealt with hormonal problems before and its TOUGH
I’m so appreciative of this episode. I am experiencing some unexplainable symptoms. I thought UA-cam would have relatable stories but there’s been nothing. The doctor I went to said I should do some research on endometriosis and referred me to a specialist so this episode was a gem.
This was very encouraging. I’m grateful that she can clearly and calmly express her story and the associated emotions. I’m happy she had a great support system 💛
Thank you for this video! I’ve had ovarian cancer so they removed my uterus which resolved to have menopause at 25. The symptoms are horrible for me and i’m still battling with all that today at 27. You are strong girl ❤️ keep up the good
This episode honestly makes me want to care about my health more. Like is women never truly know what’s going on with our bodies and it’s hard sometimes to find a good doctor
I have this too! I have pcos got my period at almost 10 years old super early. So naturally, my menopause is way sooner. They told me by 30 I’d have full type 2 diabetes. But going vegetarian and taking care of myself A LOT, has helped me. The everyday struggle of staying alive and healthy and with energy , while everyone around you naturally has these things… it’s exhausting. But we’re here ❤
I randomly clicked on this, almost clicked out at the beginning, im almost half way through and I am so invested. As a woman, a lot of this is so interesting and new information to me and the voice and way in which she tells her story is so beautiful. I wish her nothing but the best and appreciate her sharing
Hands down the best guest on the program so far. The degree of education, intelligence, and maturity in this young guest was refreshing and encouraging. Greatest wishes for a long and fulfilling future, my dear!! #pharmacistsaremybesties
thank you so much for this!!! hanna is amazing, her experience with POI/POF has been almost identical to mine, and it’s nice to be able to relate to someone close to your age with the same issue. thank you so so much for this
I am in tears watching this and only am halfway through because my story is just like Hanna’s. I was diagnosed with POI last year and I’m turning 30 this year. Thank you so much for sharing your story. I also learned more from this video than from my reproductive endocrinologist lmao. I feel less alone knowing I’m not the only person going through this.
I’m going to have my daughter watch this. She has PCOS. Cyst always bursting and one is growing. That’s preventing her from having babies. They she has eggs. Her twin sister had 5 kids, her 1 brother has 3 the other brother 2, older sister 3. Ovarian cancer and those problems run in the family. I had the cyst. I had a hysterectomy. I still have my ovaries. Her twin said she would be her & her fiancé surrogate. They are looking into IVF as well. It worries me because my grandma & my mom passed away from cancer from ovarian. My grandma was 46 my mom was 54. My age!
wishing you the best! the only thing you really can do is regular checkups, but please don’t spend your days worrying about it! you’re doing your best 🖤
My twin sister gets cysts on her ovaries we are 31 about to be 32 in December she has no kids. I have had 4 and no more lol. Due to being underweight and malnourished most of my entire life pregnancy was really hard on my body.
Man the stories I could tell if I had someone to listen .. lol . Menopause at 19, sa survivor, recovering addict, family of addicts, the only box I can't check is cult lol
Feel ya sis. 1 year sober from IV and after 12 surgeries, hysterectomy and radiation therapy im out of this nightmare. İ was in NA so i can check the cult boz too 😂😂😂
more and more women are experiencing menopause and pre-menopausal symptoms at younger and younger ages. something is very wrong but little to no professionals are talking about this phenomenon right now.
@@christinam370 boom. some are also speculating “the jab” is having something to do with it. i know women personally who have shared their periods have been different since getting poked.
@@pabloescobarschanclas right! Weird that they don’t have to get it while pregnant… because it can cause misc@riages. So why would it be safe to have even while not pregnant? It messes with the body…
@@pabloescobarschanclas it’s disrespectful to bring this up on the video of a woman who’s dealt with something like this and has never mentioned anything about vaccines. Keep it somewhere else
My surgeon took it upon herself to remove one of my ovaries because she felt it would make my life easier. It literally created a shit storm in my body. She didn't even show up to my follow-up. Our surgeons dont care about us.
I really appreciated this interview. I myself have been struggling with adenomyosis for over a decade, and it can be so difficult and frustrating trying to explain to someone without endometriosis or similar diagnosis how much it affects your life. My body also can’t tolerate estrogen birth control, and I was placed on Orilissa at 19. Going through medical menopause at 19 was extremely traumatic, but I’m very grateful it hasn’t affected my fertility (at least that I’m aware). I’m now almost 24 with no children, trying every route possible to get a hysterectomy in order to know a life without a 3 week long hormonal nightmare. I have felt so alone in my journey with my body for SO long, and sure we may not have the same story it still is comforting to know that I don’t struggle alone. Thank you, thank you, thank you. Women are so fucking strong❤️
Hun i feel you, took 6 surgeries and 4 years to find a doctor willing to put a 24 years old in menopause. İt was the only option for stage 4 endo and adenomyosis but finding a doctor willing to do it. Now at 28 after 10 surgeries and radiation therapy we were able to end the nightmare. Stay strong babe ❤❤
Ugh. I have been there. 12 surgeries for me. I did end up getting the hysterectomy at 23. Unfortunately, there has just been too much trauma that the hysterectomy didn’t work. ☹️ I’m sending good, positive thoughts your way mama! 🖤
Hanna- thank you so much for sharing your story. I have PCOS and endo and can relate to you and your story. I’m currently on Orilissa after receiving both dx after a laparoscopy two years ago when I was 24. Due to the meds, I also have been dealing with menopausal symptoms (hot flashes, etc.), so I can totally understand the discomfort. Thanks for talking about the social pressure from family and friends and how it’s important to prioritize your health before worrying about being a mother. I have my second surgery scheduled for next month, and I have been super nervous. Your strength and willingness to share has inspired me! Also, I sent your story to my mom, and she called me to tell me about how much she learned from you. Thanks again for being so transparent ❤
I’m so glad you did this episode. I’ve had so many hormone issues that were sadly undiagnosed because doctors were incompetent in doing the right lab’s preventing me from having more than 1 child. I had my son when I was 20 and had a tumor on my pituitary for 16 years before anyone decided to say “oh this might be an issue”.
People's opinions can be so awful. 1:22:15 I don't understand why it's anyone's business what your family planning future will be. I guess maybe your parents would ask, but random people? dang. Osteoporosis is definitely a big thing to consider. I already have it despite still having my periods in my late 30's. Something caused it in me I guess. :(
Thank you for sharing your story. You are so well spoken. You went through quite a bit when so young. I had to get a biopsy of my uterus. They didn’t give me anything. No pain relief or anything to calm me. The Dr told me it would be fine and is a very quick process. I made the mistake of looking it up the day of the procedure. In hindsight, I can’t believe nothing was provided. It was so painful and accompanied with a lot of anxiety. 2 women recently told me they were given medication when they had the same procedure done. I’m not sure which is normal, but oh, man…. I’m glad that is over. Long story long, it let to me having surgery for uterine cancer. The oncologist was surprised bc of my age but figuring all this out and getting surgery was a blessing so I don’t get sick. Medical stuff is super stressful, overwhelming, expensive and frustrating to deal with.
I was diagnosed with MRKH syndrome (basically, I only have ovaries no uterus) when I was 14, so like, the opposite problem to this! Still I relate a lot to so much that was said, this was a really interesting episode!
yeah, i had an iud put in like 6 months ago for heavy and super painful periods, and my mom has endometriosis so i have a family history. it’s a really scary world to navigate, reproductive health. ive tried to do as much of my own research as i can find for what works for me, and im pretty satisfied with the BC i’m on so far. im so fortunate to not want biological kids for the entire foreseeable future, i feel like i’d be much more apprehensive because of how potentially dangerous all of it is. my mom had a hysterectomy because of her endometriosis, im so glad people are being vocal about their struggles with these conditions ! (edit: watched more of the video) my mom has lupus, which is an often overlooked immune disease as it’s symptoms can normally be attributed to other things that could go on in the body. lupus can absolutely cause gynecological issues like endometriosis and primary ovarian failure, so (not to scare or fearmonger but) id make sure to pay attention at that rheumatologist appointment and clarify more what those levels are and what it could mean. it absolutely could still be a perfect storm but if there are solid answers to find they may be worth searching for, for closure and symptom management.
only after finishing the video and hearing about the elevated autoimmune levels did i really draw all the parallels but my mom was pretty young and they told her she likely wouldn’t have kids if she didn’t have them nearly immediately. she was fortunate in that she proceeded to have three over 7 years before she finally got her uterus removed. that, plus her long history of endometriosis and scar tissue struggles. i wish i could give Hanna the advice or words of encouragement/understanding that my mother could but all i can say really is rule out autoimmune disorders with a specialist.
I also have ovarian failure which coincidentally happened when i was 26, im 35 now so its been some time and the biggest problems i have which is similar is the weight gain, high lab results. How ever my doctors didn't really give me any insight into ovarian faliure so hearing her story and what she went through and how similar it was to mine really gave me some insight into the condition and what i can talk to my dr about as far as cortisol and cholesterol goes. Thank you
Awesome interview! As someone who was had chronic pain and reproductive issues for 5 years in my early 20s, I relate to Hanna's story. So many times my pain and symptoms were dismissed because I was a woman, young, or both. The frustration was never. Now nearly two years post spinal fusion I feel so much better and my mental health is far more stable. Medical trauma is so real though! thank you Hanna! This made me feel very seen :)
Thank you so much for sharing your story Hanna. This was such an informative and educational video, I'm mind blown about how many things I didn't know or didn't quite understand about my own body.
Also, I have learned more about reproductive health and navigating healthcare in this interview than ever in my 32 years, count's gyno appointments, etc. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.
I've had several years of intense period pains since puberty and I started asking doctors for tests when I was around 21 when my cycle started changing drastically. No one wanted to talk about it with me. At 28 I had an unplanned pregnancy, full mental breakdown because kids are not what I want in life due to parental trauma and many other valid reasons. After the termination I started pressing much harder for doctors to investigate. 3 doctors later, one finally agreed to give me what I wanted; which was a permanent solution for my pain and not wanting my fertility. I'm now 30 and have recently fully healed from a total abdominal hysterectomy, keeping my ovaries. Turns out after my uterus was yanked out that the labs determined it was a perfectly healthy organ, which is frustrating considering the years of agony and heavy bleeding I had. Now I can live my life for me, in better health both physically and mentally. No matter what your reproductive journey is, I strongly believe that choice is extremely important.
I have Primary Ovarian Insufficiency too and this is the FIRST time since I have been diagnosed that I have heard that someone else has it too, because it’s rare. It’s nice to feel not alone.
Unfortunately,this can be a reality I was in full Menopause aged 39 This young Lady is very calm and centered New Subscriber here from Amman Jordan 🇯🇴 The Middle East 😊
It's so unfortunate how dismissive and neglectful some doctors can be. I have life altering hormone and menstrual issues that I've really never been able to get officially diagnosed because I keep being told nothing is wrong w me. 😢 I'm glad you got your answers and didn't stop until you got the right answers. Your mental health matters too.
I had done a hysterosalpingogram and it was the worst pain I've ever been through, It was almost violent and invasive. I've had 4 fractures, an open myomectomy, and nothing compares. I was told it's standard procedure to not have any anesthesia.
Thank you so much for this episode. These issues are not talked about enough. The female reproductive system needs to be studied more and taken seriously.
This was so interesting. I think I am in peri menopause at 37. my doctor has not been helpful so I am in limbo waiting to see what happens. I have learnt so much from this interview.
I had a hysterectomy a total hysterectomy at 20 it was a total shock to me and still is i feel like i for nowhere. And somehow i even feel less of a woman its alot.
Im 32, just had IVF that failed. Have stage 4 endometriosis.. left fallopian tube is blocked and my left ovary is a whole mess from from endometriomas. Have low ovarian reaerve.. dont think ill ever be a mother :( Thank you for speaking out
My mother went through menopause at 45 without knowing. No symptoms whatsoever, and since she had an IUD, it was normal to not have a period. Everyone was shocked specially her doctor since her exams were perfect 6 months before.
i have a lot of similar problems, not the same exactly but similar. theyve been lifelong, SEVERE period pain, inability to have kids, dysfunctional organs and abnormal anatomy being the icing on the cake which means unless its an EMERGENCY i either need to find a suuper specialist who would have to believe they understand my anatomy and are capable enough to perform a surgery. so i persist with severe period pain. shaking throwing up puking etc every month for over half my life now. im about to be 24 and ive genuinely been considering looking into inducing menopause and if it would be worth it since i already cant have kids and plan to adopt, so this was a very important episode for me to listen to and find at this stage of my life. glad youre doing better and figured everything out!! ❤
Definitely get a new OB/gyno that or be stern with her about how you feel she’s NOt listening, maybe she’ll snap out of her medical autopilot, but I can’t stand a doctor that won’t listen and attributes emotions to hormones or lack of . Thank you so much for talking about this! I’m someone who doesn’t want kids but I feel like women’s health and our whole system can be so out of wack and it effects out whole body and it’s functions
I just got diagnosed at 22 years old . They never believed me when I said I may have endometriosis because I had zero cyst . But now I have my IUD ( liletta) and just terrible pain before and after my periods with cramps and my doctors basically like at this point there is nothing more she can do . Surgery didn’t really help my symptoms at all 😢
I am the only female I know of with a menstural cycle that isn't super painful. The only time I experienced symptoms was when i😢 wss taking birth control pill. Gained 2 stone in weight, no sexual appetite, crazy moods and bleeding very randomly smd heavy on a frequent basis. Since then i am a lot better. I had it very easy compared to some of my friends!
I get slight cramping the day before my period or the first day but other than that I’m just bleeding and taking extra hygiene steps for a few days. But I also had terrible periods on BC.
Mine is mild in that I only have moderately bad cramps and heavy bleeding for a day then the rest of the days it's manageable. You're super lucky yours isn't painful at all.
Hannah let me start by saying you are a beautiful and very lovely young lady. I’m sure like many other viewers I wasn’t aware all of these things your going through could happen to someone so young. I’m sure this really helped lots of women so informative great job I wish you the best.👌❤️👍
I am 52 and i had complete hysterectomy at 23. I had a severe case of endometriosis. Devastation, yes but thank the Lord I had one child before this. I relate to your store !00%
This man who talked for 26 minutes without giving her the results is ridiculous…all of that and the way they presented that information sounds horrible
I'm most annoyed by the friends and family telling her to "have faith". Faith will not help someone who's ovaries are withering away. These platitudes, this idea that a serious medical issue may somehow be fixed by enough believing (and if you're still afflicted it's because you didn't believe hard enough), it's downright cruel and insensitive. Does the outcome have to be her having bio kids, or kids at all? I would want someone to listen and actually empathise. I personally would be upset if I found out my ovaries had stopped functioning and I don't even want children. That's a part of my body that's not working properly, that's scary. Early menopause is scary. Healthy hormone balance is really important for mental health and bone strength. Estrogen is a source of vitality for women the same way testosterone is vitality for men. I've seen it with my trans girlfriend who quickly loses energy and becomes depressed if she misses her estrogen shots. I would join her in the ranks of women who require HRT to be healthy. It's a big deal.
I also go through extreme cramping and bleeding, I had the laparoscopic surgery. They found nothing but a small fibroid that they said likely wasn’t causing my pain. I’m at a loss, and I don’t think I’ll ever get an answer or solution.
I know this is an old video, but I hope you have seen a menopause specialist. I’m sorry your gynecologist wasn’t listening to you. Sending lots of love from another person with early menopause symptoms.
You don’t have to have kids to be Mother and this woman is MOTHER.
"everyone was asking about babies and no one was asking about me" ugh it's sad how women's health issues always manages to illuminate the sad reality of society valuing women as caregivers and don't give a damn about caring for women as humans themselves
Hanna is the epitome of the quote ‘tough times don’t last, but tough people do’. Her attitude towards her situation is incredible. As someone who is going to be doing IVF soon she is absolutely an inspiration to me! Great podcast
I just want to send you warm wishes and all the good vibes, prayers and blessings to you on your journey!
She is so much calmer and patient about this situation than I could ever be
womens reproductive health is straight up ignored by most doctors. even if we DO get some sort of diagnosis, we're basically told "take pain killers & meditate thats all we can do for you" as if that is helpful in any way
I feel like at some point when you’re in and out of doctors offices, you become desensitized to it. I have UC and It’s horrible horrible but mentally, I’ve gotten used to it
@@animalseatmeat I had a doctor straight up ask me if I was exaggerating my pain somehow, you just get used to it unfortunately
@@animalseatmeatyeah same
@@giacintaah and y pain killers you mean NSAIDs which don’t do much. And have consequences to organs like your kidneys and liver. At least that’s what they tell me, take more ibuprofen. That should solve the pain that makes me vomit and pass out.
I really liked the vibe of this interview. Hanna's calming voice, the comfy clothes and bare feet, the interviewer curled up in her chair quietly listening/occasionally chiming in, the intermittent kitty visits. Very chill and nice. I really enjoyed it.
Such a good interview!! She killed it, and I feel so much more educated about hormones and menopause. Also so happy to hear about those doctors that made sure you felt that you were worthy even if you are infertile. That’s the way they need to be
So. Wow! I'm 47. I had a hysterectomy at 28. I've learned more from this 2 hour show than I've learned from ANY doctor I've seen. It is extremely difficult to "educate" yourself on this topic because there is So little information out there on Young post menopausal women. I've not ever been given any options on estrogen. Pills or nothing. Which were too strong and gave me headaches. No doctor has mentioned bone density, cholesterol... nothing.
I went through menopause at 26. It took 2 years of suffering through symptoms before my doctor would even refer me to an endocrinologist. So many appointments ended with me asking if it could be menopause and being told I was just too young. One appointment with a specialist confirmed what I had known. That was 17 years ago.
What were your symptoms?
did u have kids?
@@rcg224probably not
I've been asking for a referral to endocrinology since December 2022 😥
The fact that most ppl asked her mainly about the reproductive facet of her condition just goes to show that we still see women as primarily incubators and generally the attitude of " omg you cant have babiesss,how tragic 😭😭😭" - as if there is nothing more to life than that.. I dont wanna speculate on her feelings but i would assume based on the way she speaks about processing her diagnosis that she did have that kind of discourse in her mind- if you tell someone something often enough they will believe it!
Women, we are more than just baby factories, remember that!
I see your point however I don’t think it comes from a bad place. It’s just that is tragic for many women to not be able to have kids. Even if you don’t want to have kids, I imagine something like that happening to you especially at that young of an age might make you double think. It’s like when it’s your choice it’s one thing, but once the option is taken from you it can cause different feelings. I don’t think people are thinking of her as an incubator. It’s just a natural response.
@@tayr3836 it does not come from a bad place at all. Its just that a lot of what society tells women they should, she sadly internalized. As many do. I hope she gets out of that mindset as it is damaging to herself (she seems to have made progres so yay)
@@buracarolina5462 yes it’s unfortunate, I think women in general internalize a lot of what society says. For example myself as a new twin that struggled with breastfeeding had what everyone would think of me if I decided to stop in the back of my head. It makes you feel less than if you don’t live up to societal standards. 😟 it’s hard to block out others opinions
@@tayr3836 one must be able to know what deserves a full response, a yes/no response or none at all! Take care!
Man they really treated her like she was cattle. Everyone is upset about her not having babies but no one is asking how she is doing in all of this. 1:23:11 really hit close to home. I hope she's feeling more secure. She might not even have been looking to be a mother but everyone seemed to have this idea that she is losing out.
Wow! I love how well informed, eloquent, and thoughtful this guest is - my favourite episode to date.
What an intelligent and well spoken woman. I hope she is in the medical field herself or even an educator because she has an amazing way with words.
I have stage 4 endometriosis. Its absolutely disgusting how the medical world treats women and endometriosis and pelvic issues. Disgusting. I have been dealing with this shit for over a year. The only way to disgnose is a lap. Birth control does not stop it from growing. I also did two transfers in IVF. Both failed.
Also, endometriosis is not backflow. Its a problem at the cellular level. Recent research shows it may involve the stem cells, but a lot more research os needed. There is also another kind of a tissue called endosal that is similar and barely anything os known about it and is a bit rare, but i have that as well...
It is a lonely, lonely thing to deal with. Especially when you're someone who did want a family. And yes, adoption is there, but its a completely different avenue. Frankly, its disrespectful to adoptees to think adoption is the same thing. It requires a lot of understanding about trauma. It is also expensive, long and also doesn't always work out.
The medical world is way behind with this.
Agreed, especially considering this is becoming more and more common. It shocks me that there is not enough research or knowledge about endometriosis. I have been dealing with it for close to 10 years, have always been brushed off whenever I address it with a doctor.
Had to have a hysterectomy at 24 for endometriosis, as well as my left ovary removed due to endometriomas , my appendix, and so much more. This hit home. Sending light your way endometriosis is such a hard debilitating disease.
My appendix was taken over when I was 12 by endo. So good to know we are all not alone in this experience
I must say this is one of the best podcast I have seen. U allow ur guest to speak and dont constantly probe for more. U are naturally keeping viewers interested, without doing the clickbaity stuff so many podcasters do now. Well done!! 👏👏
This is so comforting to hear. I went through the exact same procedures, and haven't had a period since the age of 20 (7 years ago). I was officially diagnosed earlier this year, after finally being sent to an endocrinologist, after having been diagnosed with severe osteoporosis. What a relief to hear another young, healthy woman went through the EXACT same journey since teen years. Thank you for this, I wish you so much happiness and love! 💜
This popped up on my feed and I was so elated to see I’m not alone in this situation! I’m 31 and currently pre-menopausal. Which has been a really scary experience and I’ve felt so alone during this knowing that most people don’t understand. Thank you for posting this.
Is it a reversible condition or you just have to deal with it?
honestly listening to Hanna explain so calmly how she went through the logistics of insurance/medication/testing makes me feel a lot better about how FRUSTRATING that process can be
She is a very good storyteller and her way of talking about a pretty traumatic experience is almost comforting :) she's super strong! I've dealt with hormonal problems before and its TOUGH
I’m so appreciative of this episode. I am experiencing some unexplainable symptoms. I thought UA-cam would have relatable stories but there’s been nothing. The doctor I went to said I should do some research on endometriosis and referred me to a specialist so this episode was a gem.
This is the best podcast I have ever came across
it is pretty great
This was very encouraging. I’m grateful that she can clearly and calmly express her story and the associated emotions. I’m happy she had a great support system 💛
Thank you for this video! I’ve had ovarian cancer so they removed my uterus which resolved to have menopause at 25. The symptoms are horrible for me and i’m still battling with all that today at 27. You are strong girl ❤️ keep up the good
Hanna is so articulate and well educated! It was so interesting to hear her story. This was one of my favorite episodes by far.
This episode honestly makes me want to care about my health more. Like is women never truly know what’s going on with our bodies and it’s hard sometimes to find a good doctor
I have this too! I have pcos got my period at almost 10 years old super early. So naturally, my menopause is way sooner. They told me by 30 I’d have full type 2 diabetes. But going vegetarian and taking care of myself A LOT, has helped me. The everyday struggle of staying alive and healthy and with energy , while everyone around you naturally has these things… it’s exhausting. But we’re here ❤
I randomly clicked on this, almost clicked out at the beginning, im almost half way through and I am so invested. As a woman, a lot of this is so interesting and new information to me and the voice and way in which she tells her story is so beautiful. I wish her nothing but the best and appreciate her sharing
Hands down the best guest on the program so far. The degree of education, intelligence, and maturity in this young guest was refreshing and encouraging. Greatest wishes for a long and fulfilling future, my dear!! #pharmacistsaremybesties
thank you so much for this!!! hanna is amazing, her experience with POI/POF has been almost identical to mine, and it’s nice to be able to relate to someone close to your age with the same issue. thank you so so much for this
I am in tears watching this and only am halfway through because my story is just like Hanna’s. I was diagnosed with POI last year and I’m turning 30 this year. Thank you so much for sharing your story. I also learned more from this video than from my reproductive endocrinologist lmao. I feel less alone knowing I’m not the only person going through this.
the physical, emotional and mental hell she would’ve gone through is unimaginable. she’s incredible
Such a calming presence
This was so awesome!! Thank you for letting this wonderful lady tell her story, this one is definitely for the girls and I love that!!
You’re so well spoken. I’m glad you’re at a peaceful place now.
she has the most soothing voice i could listen to her talk forever
I’m going to have my daughter watch this. She has PCOS. Cyst always bursting and one is growing. That’s preventing her from having babies. They she has eggs. Her twin sister had 5 kids, her 1 brother has 3 the other brother 2, older sister 3. Ovarian cancer and those problems run in the family. I had the cyst. I had a hysterectomy. I still have my ovaries. Her twin said she would be her & her fiancé surrogate. They are looking into IVF as well. It worries me because my grandma & my mom passed away from cancer from ovarian. My grandma was 46 my mom was 54. My age!
wishing you the best! the only thing you really can do is regular checkups, but please don’t spend your days worrying about it! you’re doing your best 🖤
hope all goes well for your family! sounds like your daughter has a great support system.
My twin sister gets cysts on her ovaries we are 31 about to be 32 in December she has no kids. I have had 4 and no more lol. Due to being underweight and malnourished most of my entire life pregnancy was really hard on my body.
Man the stories I could tell if I had someone to listen .. lol . Menopause at 19, sa survivor, recovering addict, family of addicts, the only box I can't check is cult lol
Make a video and you’ll find a lot of people will listen. *like me for example*
Feel ya sis. 1 year sober from IV and after 12 surgeries, hysterectomy and radiation therapy im out of this nightmare. İ was in NA so i can check the cult boz too 😂😂😂
Her voice is so calming, I could listen to her talk for hours
more and more women are experiencing menopause and pre-menopausal symptoms at younger and younger ages. something is very wrong but little to no professionals are talking about this phenomenon right now.
probably chemicals in the food we eat, and plastic we use for everything:/
@@christinam370 boom. some are also speculating “the jab” is having something to do with it. i know women personally who have shared their periods have been different since getting poked.
Please stfu. Everything you said is completely false. Plenty of doctors have been speaking about this for a while now
@@pabloescobarschanclas right! Weird that they don’t have to get it while pregnant… because it can cause misc@riages. So why would it be safe to have even while not pregnant? It messes with the body…
@@pabloescobarschanclas it’s disrespectful to bring this up on the video of a woman who’s dealt with something like this and has never mentioned anything about vaccines. Keep it somewhere else
My surgeon took it upon herself to remove one of my ovaries because she felt it would make my life easier. It literally created a shit storm in my body. She didn't even show up to my follow-up. Our surgeons dont care about us.
That is insane
Sounds like she damaged it by accident then told you that to cover up
😰
When she felt guilt for something that wasn't her fault 😞stay strong girl💜
I really appreciated this interview. I myself have been struggling with adenomyosis for over a decade, and it can be so difficult and frustrating trying to explain to someone without endometriosis or similar diagnosis how much it affects your life. My body also can’t tolerate estrogen birth control, and I was placed on Orilissa at 19. Going through medical menopause at 19 was extremely traumatic, but I’m very grateful it hasn’t affected my fertility (at least that I’m aware). I’m now almost 24 with no children, trying every route possible to get a hysterectomy in order to know a life without a 3 week long hormonal nightmare. I have felt so alone in my journey with my body for SO long, and sure we may not have the same story it still is comforting to know that I don’t struggle alone. Thank you, thank you, thank you. Women are so fucking strong❤️
Hun i feel you, took 6 surgeries and 4 years to find a doctor willing to put a 24 years old in menopause. İt was the only option for stage 4 endo and adenomyosis but finding a doctor willing to do it. Now at 28 after 10 surgeries and radiation therapy we were able to end the nightmare. Stay strong babe ❤❤
Ugh. I have been there. 12 surgeries for me. I did end up getting the hysterectomy at 23. Unfortunately, there has just been too much trauma that the hysterectomy didn’t work. ☹️ I’m sending good, positive thoughts your way mama! 🖤
@@brennangappy8360 thanks angel sending love your way ❤️❤️
Hanna- thank you so much for sharing your story. I have PCOS and endo and can relate to you and your story. I’m currently on Orilissa after receiving both dx after a laparoscopy two years ago when I was 24. Due to the meds, I also have been dealing with menopausal symptoms (hot flashes, etc.), so I can totally understand the discomfort.
Thanks for talking about the social pressure from family and friends and how it’s important to prioritize your health before worrying about being a mother. I have my second surgery scheduled for next month, and I have been super nervous. Your strength and willingness to share has inspired me! Also, I sent your story to my mom, and she called me to tell me about how much she learned from you. Thanks again for being so transparent ❤
I’m so glad you did this episode. I’ve had so many hormone issues that were sadly undiagnosed because doctors were incompetent in doing the right lab’s preventing me from having more than 1 child. I had my son when I was 20 and had a tumor on my pituitary for 16 years before anyone decided to say “oh this might be an issue”.
People's opinions can be so awful. 1:22:15 I don't understand why it's anyone's business what your family planning future will be. I guess maybe your parents would ask, but random people? dang. Osteoporosis is definitely a big thing to consider. I already have it despite still having my periods in my late 30's. Something caused it in me I guess. :(
You’re such a great speaker and very likable gal. I admire your strength in the difficult experience you’ve gone through. Best of luck to you dear!
Thank you for sharing your story. You are so well spoken. You went through quite a bit when so young.
I had to get a biopsy of my uterus. They didn’t give me anything. No pain relief or anything to calm me. The Dr told me it would be fine and is a very quick process. I made the mistake of looking it up the day of the procedure. In hindsight, I can’t believe nothing was provided. It was so painful and accompanied with a lot of anxiety. 2 women recently told me they were given medication when they had the same procedure done. I’m not sure which is normal, but oh, man…. I’m glad that is over. Long story long, it let to me having surgery for uterine cancer. The oncologist was surprised bc of my age but figuring all this out and getting surgery was a blessing so I don’t get sick. Medical stuff is super stressful, overwhelming, expensive and frustrating to deal with.
As someone who went through menopause and got diagnosed at 19 I appreciate this
She is amazing and so well spoken, wishing you the best Hanna!
Thank you to you and your guest for sharing this. A lot of people do not talk about this. Your guest is so calm. Loving spirit.
I could listen to her talk all day
She has such a calm and soothing voice ❤
I was diagnosed with MRKH syndrome (basically, I only have ovaries no uterus) when I was 14, so like, the opposite problem to this! Still I relate a lot to so much that was said, this was a really interesting episode!
yeah, i had an iud put in like 6 months ago for heavy and super painful periods, and my mom has endometriosis so i have a family history. it’s a really scary world to navigate, reproductive health. ive tried to do as much of my own research as i can find for what works for me, and im pretty satisfied with the BC i’m on so far. im so fortunate to not want biological kids for the entire foreseeable future, i feel like i’d be much more apprehensive because of how potentially dangerous all of it is. my mom had a hysterectomy because of her endometriosis, im so glad people are being vocal about their struggles with these conditions !
(edit: watched more of the video) my mom has lupus, which is an often overlooked immune disease as it’s symptoms can normally be attributed to other things that could go on in the body. lupus can absolutely cause gynecological issues like endometriosis and primary ovarian failure, so (not to scare or fearmonger but) id make sure to pay attention at that rheumatologist appointment and clarify more what those levels are and what it could mean. it absolutely could still be a perfect storm but if there are solid answers to find they may be worth searching for, for closure and symptom management.
only after finishing the video and hearing about the elevated autoimmune levels did i really draw all the parallels but my mom was pretty young and they told her she likely wouldn’t have kids if she didn’t have them nearly immediately. she was fortunate in that she proceeded to have three over 7 years before she finally got her uterus removed. that, plus her long history of endometriosis and scar tissue struggles. i wish i could give Hanna the advice or words of encouragement/understanding that my mother could but all i can say really is rule out autoimmune disorders with a specialist.
Am I the only one who thinks it’s weird they don’t check if you have eggs before putting you on BIRTH control??
Her voice is so soothing!
I also have ovarian failure which coincidentally happened when i was 26, im 35 now so its been some time and the biggest problems i have which is similar is the weight gain, high lab results. How ever my doctors didn't really give me any insight into ovarian faliure so hearing her story and what she went through and how similar it was to mine really gave me some insight into the condition and what i can talk to my dr about as far as cortisol and cholesterol goes. Thank you
Awesome interview! As someone who was had chronic pain and reproductive issues for 5 years in my early 20s, I relate to Hanna's story. So many times my pain and symptoms were dismissed because I was a woman, young, or both. The frustration was never. Now nearly two years post spinal fusion I feel so much better and my mental health is far more stable. Medical trauma is so real though! thank you Hanna! This made me feel very seen :)
Thank you so much for sharing your story Hanna. This was such an informative and educational video, I'm mind blown about how many things I didn't know or didn't quite understand about my own body.
Thank you so much for sharing, Hannah!
Also, I have learned more about reproductive health and navigating healthcare in this interview than ever in my 32 years, count's gyno appointments, etc. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.
She is very poised and a graceful speaker
I've had several years of intense period pains since puberty and I started asking doctors for tests when I was around 21 when my cycle started changing drastically. No one wanted to talk about it with me. At 28 I had an unplanned pregnancy, full mental breakdown because kids are not what I want in life due to parental trauma and many other valid reasons. After the termination I started pressing much harder for doctors to investigate. 3 doctors later, one finally agreed to give me what I wanted; which was a permanent solution for my pain and not wanting my fertility. I'm now 30 and have recently fully healed from a total abdominal hysterectomy, keeping my ovaries. Turns out after my uterus was yanked out that the labs determined it was a perfectly healthy organ, which is frustrating considering the years of agony and heavy bleeding I had. Now I can live my life for me, in better health both physically and mentally. No matter what your reproductive journey is, I strongly believe that choice is extremely important.
I have Primary Ovarian Insufficiency too and this is the FIRST time since I have been diagnosed that I have heard that someone else has it too, because it’s rare. It’s nice to feel not alone.
I love the accuracy when it comes to the medical procedures and pathologies. It's a very emotional, inspiring and educational interview. Thank you♥
Unfortunately,this can be a reality
I was in full Menopause aged 39
This young Lady is very calm and centered
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It's so unfortunate how dismissive and neglectful some doctors can be. I have life altering hormone and menstrual issues that I've really never been able to get officially diagnosed because I keep being told nothing is wrong w me. 😢
I'm glad you got your answers and didn't stop until you got the right answers. Your mental health matters too.
I had done a hysterosalpingogram and it was the worst pain I've ever been through, It was almost violent and invasive. I've had 4 fractures, an open myomectomy, and nothing compares. I was told it's standard procedure to not have any anesthesia.
Thank you so much for this episode. These issues are not talked about enough. The female reproductive system needs to be studied more and taken seriously.
This was so interesting. I think I am in peri menopause at 37. my doctor has not been helpful so I am in limbo waiting to see what happens. I have learnt so much from this interview.
I’d love to hear a man live to tell this tale so calmly 😭cause I’m leaning in pain rn
I appreciate this episode and I appreciate you both.
I had a hysterectomy a total hysterectomy at 20 it was a total shock to me and still is i feel like i for nowhere. And somehow i even feel less of a woman its alot.
You’re as much as a woman as me, don’t beat yourself up! You’re more then your womb ❤️
Im 32, just had IVF that failed. Have stage 4 endometriosis.. left fallopian tube is blocked and my left ovary is a whole mess from from endometriomas. Have low ovarian reaerve.. dont think ill ever be a mother :(
Thank you for speaking out
This is so informative, thank you for sharing. You have an amazing talking voice too, I could listen to you for hours.
One of my favorite episodes!!! Shockingly detailed and informative, i leave this with more knowledge and compassion
My mother went through menopause at 45 without knowing. No symptoms whatsoever, and since she had an IUD, it was normal to not have a period. Everyone was shocked specially her doctor since her exams were perfect 6 months before.
Same with my mum (minus iud).
i have a lot of similar problems, not the same exactly but similar. theyve been lifelong, SEVERE period pain, inability to have kids, dysfunctional organs and abnormal anatomy being the icing on the cake which means unless its an EMERGENCY i either need to find a suuper specialist who would have to believe they understand my anatomy and are capable enough to perform a surgery. so i persist with severe period pain. shaking throwing up puking etc every month for over half my life now. im about to be 24 and ive genuinely been considering looking into inducing menopause and if it would be worth it since i already cant have kids and plan to adopt, so this was a very important episode for me to listen to and find at this stage of my life. glad youre doing better and figured everything out!! ❤
i think this has been my favourite episode. Hanna was so well-spoken and informative and thoughtful!
I really enjoyed this guest. She is clearly very smart and knows how to speak to make everything understandable to the audience.
i love her voice sm
Definitely get a new OB/gyno that or be stern with her about how you feel she’s NOt listening, maybe she’ll snap out of her medical autopilot, but I can’t stand a doctor that won’t listen and attributes emotions to hormones or lack of . Thank you so much for talking about this! I’m someone who doesn’t want kids but I feel like women’s health and our whole system can be so out of wack and it effects out whole body and it’s functions
I felt horrified that she was just putting up with that treatment from her gyno, it’s absolutely horrible that she’s not listening to her
I just got diagnosed at 22 years old . They never believed me when I said I may have endometriosis because I had zero cyst . But now I have my IUD ( liletta) and just terrible pain before and after my periods with cramps and my doctors basically like at this point there is nothing more she can do . Surgery didn’t really help my symptoms at all 😢
I am the only female I know of with a menstural cycle that isn't super painful. The only time I experienced symptoms was when i😢 wss taking birth control pill. Gained 2 stone in weight, no sexual appetite, crazy moods and bleeding very randomly smd heavy on a frequent basis. Since then i am a lot better. I had it very easy compared to some of my friends!
I get slight cramping the day before my period or the first day but other than that I’m just bleeding and taking extra hygiene steps for a few days. But I also had terrible periods on BC.
Me and you both sis my period always lasted 3 days and it was supper light and no pain. Didnt have cramps until i had my first child but it was mild
Mine is mild in that I only have moderately bad cramps and heavy bleeding for a day then the rest of the days it's manageable. You're super lucky yours isn't painful at all.
I've always had normal periods with minimal issues. I have more issues midcycle with pain in my ovaries.
mine isn’t painful at all lol it’s wierd but im thankful 😂😂, no pain at all but still a lot of mood swings
Hannah let me start by saying you are a beautiful and very lovely young lady. I’m sure like many other viewers I wasn’t aware all of these things your going through could happen to someone so young. I’m sure this really helped lots of women so informative great job I wish you the best.👌❤️👍
I am 52 and i had complete hysterectomy at 23. I had a severe case of endometriosis. Devastation, yes but thank the Lord I had one child before this. I relate to your store !00%
Interesting. I received the same diagnosis. I did t know it was that rare.
she was an amazing guest and wow what a strong outlook after something how traumatic
she is so strong !! the way i would be bawling for ever
Dev, thank you for shedding light on so many issues. I love your podcast! You are my favorite podcaster! ♥️
She is too nice about those doctors who don’t listen to her.
She did great!!
She has great energy, glad she’s doing better now
I wonder if she would be comfortable updating us after that appointment!
This man who talked for 26 minutes without giving her the results is ridiculous…all of that and the way they presented that information sounds horrible
I'm most annoyed by the friends and family telling her to "have faith". Faith will not help someone who's ovaries are withering away. These platitudes, this idea that a serious medical issue may somehow be fixed by enough believing (and if you're still afflicted it's because you didn't believe hard enough), it's downright cruel and insensitive. Does the outcome have to be her having bio kids, or kids at all?
I would want someone to listen and actually empathise. I personally would be upset if I found out my ovaries had stopped functioning and I don't even want children. That's a part of my body that's not working properly, that's scary. Early menopause is scary. Healthy hormone balance is really important for mental health and bone strength. Estrogen is a source of vitality for women the same way testosterone is vitality for men. I've seen it with my trans girlfriend who quickly loses energy and becomes depressed if she misses her estrogen shots. I would join her in the ranks of women who require HRT to be healthy. It's a big deal.
I also go through extreme cramping and bleeding, I had the laparoscopic surgery. They found nothing but a small fibroid that they said likely wasn’t causing my pain. I’m at a loss, and I don’t think I’ll ever get an answer or solution.
What an amazing and informative interview. What a remarkable young lady.
I'm happy to see your channel growing :')
I know this is an old video, but I hope you have seen a menopause specialist. I’m sorry your gynecologist wasn’t listening to you. Sending lots of love from another person with early menopause symptoms.