Most this advice is, somewhat morainic - and dating in the church has own challenges -In church the expectation is marriage. This isn’t all bad. It should be the ultimate goal of dating. But it shouldn’t be the goal of the first date. ( If you get one) At the same time, for the love of all things, a few dates does not a marriage make. No other context creates this type of pressure. And if it goes bad, you still have to go to church there. In other words, that's if you like you're church. If you ask someone out, she’ll still be there next week. What if she says no? What if she says yes? What if you kiss and then break up? What if you then ask someone else out? No matter what happens this is both people’s place of worship. It only takes one scornful woman to mess with your reputation. ( Blasting it all over social media) Choose wisely.
@@CameronRiecker Women are not attracted to practicing catholic men unless they have a lot of money. It's the 666 principle that women follow. 6 feet tall, 6 inches long/6 pack abs, and 6 figure salary. They marry down morally while marrying up socio-economically. You need to look at the analytics to understand actually results.
My history professor in high school Mr. Brady told us that exact same thing. “If you want to know if you truly love that person ask yourself if you would want for your child to be that way. Ask yourself if you would be ok if that was your son/daughter and then you will get your answer.” Now I am single.
I am so glad you guys talked about the importance of staying healthy, it was golden advice. It is so important and sadly not talked about enough. Thank you for the encouragement to keep health a high priority!
Covid led me down the rabbit hole of learning about hormones, metabolism & gut health.. so much I didn’t know about myself at 24 years old! Women aren’t given proper education about our bodies & it’s quite sad.
Not even Catholic but this video is very timely as I discern how to ask out a girl that I am interested in. I am definitely going to commit to being her friend first. Thank you !
I think that being a stay at home mom is harder now than in our grandparents generation (except for modern conveniences). We don't have community like we used to. Mom's used to help each other and lived near each other. Parents had multiple children and they could play outside while mom got work done in the house. Maybe the babies were with her but the children old enough to be outside were out there any chance they had. In many areas today, it's not safe for kids to be outside without parents. Now, I hear mom's that want to work instead of be at home strictly because they can't handle the kids hanging on them all day, with zero autonomy. Which is understandable to some degree. My point here is that we need to re-establish community and safety. Mom's to be able to be around to help each other and safe neighborhoods. The home school communities probably have some of this figured out.
At 24 min it's really true. My father can't control his emotions and every times he was angry (when I lived with my parents) the atmosphere sucks and I never wanted to be in the living room with my parents and the diner was silent. And it was not because of the family it was because he not did the right professionals choices so he didn't like his job so he was angry about that and there was repercussions on the family. He wasn't violent or anything like that, but you don't have a good relationship with you're parents when the atmosphere sucks and you never know how you father is going to react about what you do, because he is emotionally unstable. That's sad but, I forgived him and I hope he will change for his better and maybe find Jesus Christ. But this experience showed me what not to do for some points so there is some positive in all that. Have a nice day and god bless you !
@@CameronRiecker That is too funny! I love it! My 2 sisters look just like me, so it’s a lot of fun! people tell us all the time how we look so similar, and it’s hilarious because we can unlock face lock on each others phones too😂 Again, loved the video! You and your wife are a wonderful example, and I hope to have a family similar to yours someday!
It's Amazing the way in which you get along and how you genuenly compliment each other..you are showing to the world how a Godly relationship should be..I pray to be ready for my spouse to be the perfect match for Her by the grace of God.
I made it to the end of the video and my brain did not consciously realize the Easter egg. 🤯 Makes it all the more obvious we are as cognizant and aware of the things we consume, and all the more reason we should guard our eyes from certain things, if something so subtle can slip past and into our subconscious, how much more can our brains be decieved by things that aren't just playful and fun such as this Easter egg. Really insightful video. Thank you to both Mr and Mrs Riecker for this one. You both are such beautiful people and lucky to have one another. God bless your marriage and your family.
The girl I liked and wanted to marry left me some weeks ago and my life has become so much worse since. Pray to Our Blessed Lady for me Cameron, do you have some kind of advice? Thank you so much
I’m planning on making a video on how to deal with rejection soon! Remember that God’s plan is better for you than your own plan. I know how that feels and it sucks. But God knows what He is doing and He will provide for you!
Out of curiosity, is it Dr. Wendy Wells? I was audio-only and the quiet audio helped mask the change but it's funny to go back and see the swap happen. Nice editing, great advice!
I noticed the stunt double.. but not till late, like "she looks like she's two different people." and she came on after an add to so it wasn't super obvious
It can be hard sometimes to know if a woman is just being friendly, or if she is focusing on you in particular and trying to give you signals to take action and ask her on a date. Especially if she is more extroverted and bubbly.
My dating advice is focus on your relationship with Jesus first work on your health and self improvement and then just pray and ask out any woman that seems like a good attractive Catholic woman. People make dating too complicated and there’s no single piece of advice that helps everyone. My wife and I dated for 4 months got engaged and married after a year of meeting each other. We’ve been together for 5.5 years and have a good marriage with 3 kids. But obviously other people go the let’s be friends and then date route. Neither way is necessarily correct or incorrect
As to your first part I'm either incapable of telling when a woman is interested in me like that or there's has been literally one woman who actually was interested in me since my conversion five years ago but she was more interested in the other guy (who she is engaged to) before I attempted to ask for exclusivity. Literally, every other woman has either turned me down or gone on 1 date (with one exception going on 3) even when I thought they were interested in me.
0:57 What % of the time does that work? Ask for her number (w/o the graceful exit ramp); if she demures, walk away w/o comment. Be the one to end the convo before it goes flat. Wait a week. Send her the funnies meme (singular; one meme, not two or more) you can find. Dont contact her again unless she contacts you first. Tell her youre going for coffee at such and such a place, and you'ld love it if she would join you. If she demures, say "nice chatting with you." and hang up, never to initiate contact again.
I don’t think you should compliment your wife’s beauty so she will want to take care of herself. That’s not a good motivation. You should do it if you want to stay married. If you stop calling her beautiful or refuse to do it you will end up divorced. It’s that simple. Those words really matter.
@ because it is an undeniable statistical fact that there are not enough practicing single Catholic women for each practicing single Catholic man in America. And of course the fact that there is an epidemic of obesity, tattoos, and women being career/education focused in America. And of course, let’s be honest and acknowledge that Latin American women are just more feminine and pleasant on average than American women. And more likely to be submissive obedient wives. Also age gaps are more culturally acceptable so it’s easier to find a younger woman.
I disagree with the common mentality I see with “Catholic dating”. Most people have this idea that you must be going through this whole exaggerated process of getting to know the person. This leads to seeing people as products to be tried out instead of persons to be loved. You really only need to know that they are a real practicing Catholic (in this there is already so much: like having a living relationship with Christ, ethics, the desire for holiness, etc.). Other than this, it’s about committing and sticking through time with love. Think about it, if it’s not ok to marry someone and then ditch them, why should it be ok to enter a dating relationship and then ditch them under the excuse of not being compatible. You are not even compatible with Christ, but He conforms you to Him through time and love. The same happens with two people who commit themselves to each other in Christ - His loving grace will make them compatible in time. In the past, Catholics didn’t date. They most often met within the context of family and church and then promised themselves to each other. They committed themselves not only from the moment of the sacrament of marriage but before that (it’s called bethrothal and there is a rite and blessings relate to it). The ability to commit through thick and thin is the real test before marriage, because that will be the foundation for continuing married through the inevitable challenges that will come.
Its better to end a dating relationship than an actual divorce. Dating isnt in doctrine either and is a crutch made to give time for people to interact before commiting to eachother.
@ that is correct! My point is that you should only enter a dating relationship if you already feel you could marry the person and only break it if there is an extreme fault with the person’s character to which you either cannot help, the help isn’t wanted or it isn’t safe to try. We have to remember that we are to be (or at least are supposed to be) united to EVERY communion receiving Christian there is, because we are all the body of Christ. The only difference really is that we will do that more intimately and sexually with only one person and that comes only after receiving the sacrament of Holy Matrimony. So the point is that since you will not really know a whole lot about this person before you marry them anyway, do what Christ does: make the risky investment of loving this person prior to knowing them; do this by committing to this person through thick and thin. Love entails suffering and we need to actually practice that love/suffering instead of walking out on people. The reason why we have less married couples today is because many people are being super non-committal. They want to see if the person will match their pre-conceived, highly idealized, social media-patterned ideal partner. And only then will they love them? This is not love and it’s definitely not Christian.
How about older people who are free to marry in the Church? 52. Two grown children. Church has plenty of activities for singles under 35, but nothing for anyone older.
How about just saying HELLO? I have made more friendships with just the stupid basic, saying "hello". And sorry, there are single women at Mass???? where? In my parish, it is all lonely, single men. Not a single girl in sight. I have had several conversations with men in their 30s that are faithful followers of christ, attend Mass regularly, are friendly, good looking, etc...There are no Catholic girls to 'bump' into. I am an older married woman. I have befriended people at church by just turning around at the end of the service, giving a nice smile, wishing the person a good week & offering my name/asking theirs. I have ended up chatting for up to an hour after doing so. So, I would say, sit near the person & just say hello!
Hi both, thank you for this. May we please have your perspective on going to Latin mass at a church run by the Society of St Piux X? I am a revert, the modern churches lack of authenticity and I lost my self for years. I'm back and tradicional is definetly the way forward, the people I want to surround my self with. I have a St Piux church 3 min far from home, and the other is 30 min by taxi. Hence the dileme.
Hey! Maybe I'm not them, but I had been going to latin mass for a few months after recovering my faith, and yeah, I have another St Piux X church! I recomend you to go and at least, experiment what it can offer you! I'm so happy with latin mass and I promise that you will encounter people more serious about their faith in these kind of churchs. (Sorry for my english!)
The SSPX is in an extremely complicated situation canonically. I think you should look into John Salzas arguments and see if there’s any responses to them. I highly recommend looking into a different Latin mass parish. Or asking or pleasing to your bishop. Just so you know, you’re going to get a lot of different answers
@@TheRaik97congratulations on returning to church 🎉 and yes, I value your comment even if you're not them 😊 May I please ask you to share what other Catolic channels do you follow?
I wish I wasn't that guy but talking to a girl whom I've never met purely because I might be interested in her seems like a recipe for instant jail in our current day and age. Moreover it seems like I'm only interested in women I'm already friends with but it doesn't look like a lot of women like to the idea of a romance developing from friendship. It's okay, we all have our preferences.
@@DakkogiRauru23I'm sorry but I don't know what world you are living in. You obviously are reading too much stuff online, the worst thing that could happen is they think you are weird if you are super nervous and aren't able to be graceful. No one is going to jail for saying hi to women lmao.
@ False accusations have happened, and I am in California. I have actually been falsely accused before, and while I got off lucky, I know there are men who went to prison because a woman lied about them to get revenge. Not to mention how easily they can ruin your reputation. Based on my experience, the safest thing to do is to assume that people you don’t know are unpredictable and dangerous, and that you should at all cost avoid putting yourself in a compromising position. That compromising position all too often happens to be simply talking to a woman you’ve never met. It’s just a lot safer to already have friends, among whom are women whom you can relatively trust.
Who gets together in group settings anymore? ( This isn't the 1980's where we all hangout at the mall) And if they did, they all be on they're phones anyway.
@@KyleWhittington" intentional?" Few and far between is code for that. (And it all sound so Junior High?) And by luck you find a group how do you invite yourself into this friends group without looking desperate,and needy? Than you hope to God that some one that you think is attractive enough to date, would be willing to date you? . And here's another scenario what happens if you ask somebody out and they won't go on a date in this "friends group." with you but date somebody else in this group? Ouch! I bet it happens more than you think? Thing to tell to men is keep you expectations low , and then you won't be disappointed.
Terrible advice for people who are unable to lose weight, or are overlooked by women on account of their lack of wealth and looks, even with God's grace.
@@chasejohnson1775 What can I do, except to say the truth? Some people cannot lose weight, escape sin, or acheive wealth or physical attractiveness. I don't feel sorry for myself, I'm acknowledging the truth, to shed light on my situation, and of many young men.
You two are going to go viral soon I'm calling it. Such necessary conversations for young adults to hear.
God bless you! Thank you!
I took her advice and football tackled a cute girl after Mass. It didn’t work, I want my money back!
This comment made me lol
I will show my wife this!!
Most this advice is, somewhat morainic - and dating in the church has own challenges -In church the expectation is marriage. This isn’t all bad. It should be the ultimate goal of dating. But it shouldn’t be the goal of the first date. ( If you get one) At the same time, for the love of all things, a few dates does not a marriage make. No other context creates this type of pressure.
And if it goes bad, you still have to go to church there. In other words, that's if you like you're church. If you ask someone out, she’ll still be there next week. What if she says no? What if she says yes? What if you kiss and then break up? What if you then ask someone else out? No matter what happens this is both people’s place of worship.
It only takes one scornful woman to mess with your reputation. ( Blasting it all over social media) Choose wisely.
@@sitka49But that’s the thing when you are dating you are already discerning if you are going to marry that said person.
@@CameronRiecker Women are not attracted to practicing catholic men unless they have a lot of money. It's the 666 principle that women follow. 6 feet tall, 6 inches long/6 pack abs, and 6 figure salary. They marry down morally while marrying up socio-economically. You need to look at the analytics to understand actually results.
@@vaderkurt7848 If you get a second date. Lol
My history professor in high school Mr. Brady told us that exact same thing.
“If you want to know if you truly love that person ask yourself if you would want for your child to be that way. Ask yourself if you would be ok if that was your son/daughter and then you will get your answer.”
Now I am single.
I am so glad you guys talked about the importance of staying healthy, it was golden advice. It is so important and sadly not talked about enough. Thank you for the encouragement to keep health a high priority!
Noticed the switch from wife to sis-in-law the moment she appeared on screen. The contrast in the voice and height was the immediate difference.
You’re sharp lol a lot of people missed it!
Indian catholic 😮??
Covid led me down the rabbit hole of learning about hormones, metabolism & gut health.. so much I didn’t know about myself at 24 years old! Women aren’t given proper education about our bodies & it’s quite sad.
Not even Catholic but this video is very timely as I discern how to ask out a girl that I am interested in. I am definitely going to commit to being her friend first. Thank you !
Glad this was helpful 😁
God bless you!
I really like the Our Lady Undoer of Knots artwork that you have on your bookshelf! I just finished a novena to her ❤
Grace builds on nature! Great tips! We need to use common sense when dating and calm down the pressure and the emotions.
Super true
I think that being a stay at home mom is harder now than in our grandparents generation (except for modern conveniences). We don't have community like we used to. Mom's used to help each other and lived near each other. Parents had multiple children and they could play outside while mom got work done in the house. Maybe the babies were with her but the children old enough to be outside were out there any chance they had. In many areas today, it's not safe for kids to be outside without parents. Now, I hear mom's that want to work instead of be at home strictly because they can't handle the kids hanging on them all day, with zero autonomy. Which is understandable to some degree. My point here is that we need to re-establish community and safety. Mom's to be able to be around to help each other and safe neighborhoods. The home school communities probably have some of this figured out.
I agree. The lack of community is brutal in many places
At 24 min it's really true. My father can't control his emotions and every times he was angry (when I lived with my parents) the atmosphere sucks and I never wanted to be in the living room with my parents and the diner was silent. And it was not because of the family it was because he not did the right professionals choices so he didn't like his job so he was angry about that and there was repercussions on the family. He wasn't violent or anything like that, but you don't have a good relationship with you're parents when the atmosphere sucks and you never know how you father is going to react about what you do, because he is emotionally unstable. That's sad but, I forgived him and I hope he will change for his better and maybe find Jesus Christ. But this experience showed me what not to do for some points so there is some positive in all that.
Have a nice day and god bless you !
God bless you! Thank you for sharing!
praying for your family
I did not notice the switch, but i will say I was listening while doing my chores around the house vs. watching.
Haha! I think you get a pass!!
I noticed and I was so confused😂 they totally do look and sound the same! Thank you for the wonderful video guys, and God bless!!
Haha they just happened to wear the same outfit on accident so we went with it 😆
@@CameronRiecker That is too funny! I love it! My 2 sisters look just like me, so it’s a lot of fun! people tell us all the time how we look so similar, and it’s hilarious because we can unlock face lock on each others phones too😂
Again, loved the video! You and your wife are a wonderful example, and I hope to have a family similar to yours someday!
It's Amazing the way in which you get along and how you genuenly compliment each other..you are showing to the world how a Godly relationship should be..I pray to be ready for my spouse to be the perfect match for Her by the grace of God.
God has blessed us both in abundance :) Thank you for these kind words!
I made it to the end of the video and my brain did not consciously realize the Easter egg. 🤯 Makes it all the more obvious we are as cognizant and aware of the things we consume, and all the more reason we should guard our eyes from certain things, if something so subtle can slip past and into our subconscious, how much more can our brains be decieved by things that aren't just playful and fun such as this Easter egg.
Really insightful video. Thank you to both Mr and Mrs Riecker for this one. You both are such beautiful people and lucky to have one another. God bless your marriage and your family.
I definitely noticed and thought i was going crazy 😂
😂😂
The girl I liked and wanted to marry left me some weeks ago and my life has become so much worse since. Pray to Our Blessed Lady for me
Cameron, do you have some kind of advice? Thank you so much
I’m planning on making a video on how to deal with rejection soon!
Remember that God’s plan is better for you than your own plan.
I know how that feels and it sucks. But God knows what He is doing and He will provide for you!
@CameronRiecker thank you. Salve Maria 🤚🤝
Out of curiosity, is it Dr. Wendy Wells?
I was audio-only and the quiet audio helped mask the change but it's funny to go back and see the swap happen. Nice editing, great advice!
Yes it is 😁 glad you enjoyed!
I noticed the stunt double.. but not till late, like "she looks like she's two different people." and she came on after an add to so it wasn't super obvious
Is it me or are there two different women in this video? If so they look so much alike.
Did you watch till the end? lol
It can be hard sometimes to know if a woman is just being friendly, or if she is focusing on you in particular and trying to give you signals to take action and ask her on a date. Especially if she is more extroverted and bubbly.
What a beautiful marriage. I learned a lot. Thank you.🙏
Great video!
Definitely... I had to rewind a few minutes back to be sure.
😂😂
So good. Even for us old, mature types.
My dating advice is focus on your relationship with Jesus first work on your health and self improvement and then just pray and ask out any woman that seems like a good attractive Catholic woman. People make dating too complicated and there’s no single piece of advice that helps everyone. My wife and I dated for 4 months got engaged and married after a year of meeting each other. We’ve been together for 5.5 years and have a good marriage with 3 kids. But obviously other people go the let’s be friends and then date route. Neither way is necessarily correct or incorrect
As to your first part I'm either incapable of telling when a woman is interested in me like that or there's has been literally one woman who actually was interested in me since my conversion five years ago but she was more interested in the other guy (who she is engaged to) before I attempted to ask for exclusivity. Literally, every other woman has either turned me down or gone on 1 date (with one exception going on 3) even when I thought they were interested in me.
There’s a Catholic event I go to monthly but the problem is the girls only go sporadically.
I noticed, was very confused and doubted my perception
Please don't switch the two women again, I noticed and it freaked me out.
0:57 What % of the time does that work?
Ask for her number (w/o the graceful exit ramp); if she demures, walk away w/o comment.
Be the one to end the convo before it goes flat.
Wait a week.
Send her the funnies meme (singular; one meme, not two or more) you can find.
Dont contact her again unless she contacts you first.
Tell her youre going for coffee at such and such a place, and you'ld love it if she would join you.
If she demures, say "nice chatting with you." and hang up, never to initiate contact again.
I have tried the bump effect. It helps, not a solution, also its important not to bump too hard 3:40. Never tried it at church
I don’t think you should compliment your wife’s beauty so she will want to take care of herself. That’s not a good motivation. You should do it if you want to stay married. If you stop calling her beautiful or refuse to do it you will end up divorced. It’s that simple. Those words really matter.
The number one piece of advice I give American Catholic men who are looking for a wife…..get your passport and go to Latin America.
Or the Philippines
What makes you say this?
@ because it is an undeniable statistical fact that there are not enough practicing single Catholic women for each practicing single Catholic man in America. And of course the fact that there is an epidemic of obesity, tattoos, and women being career/education focused in America. And of course, let’s be honest and acknowledge that Latin American women are just more feminine and pleasant on average than American women. And more likely to be submissive obedient wives. Also age gaps are more culturally acceptable so it’s easier to find a younger woman.
Remember courting also
What a power couple
God is good!
There is an audio glitch, what are the 3 temperance aspects you mention?
What time in the video does that happen?
13:43 :)
@@missadamstheologywhat other Catholic channels do you follow?
I disagree with the common mentality I see with “Catholic dating”. Most people have this idea that you must be going through this whole exaggerated process of getting to know the person. This leads to seeing people as products to be tried out instead of persons to be loved. You really only need to know that they are a real practicing Catholic (in this there is already so much: like having a living relationship with Christ, ethics, the desire for holiness, etc.). Other than this, it’s about committing and sticking through time with love. Think about it, if it’s not ok to marry someone and then ditch them, why should it be ok to enter a dating relationship and then ditch them under the excuse of not being compatible. You are not even compatible with Christ, but He conforms you to Him through time and love. The same happens with two people who commit themselves to each other in Christ - His loving grace will make them compatible in time. In the past, Catholics didn’t date. They most often met within the context of family and church and then promised themselves to each other. They committed themselves not only from the moment of the sacrament of marriage but before that (it’s called bethrothal and there is a rite and blessings relate to it). The ability to commit through thick and thin is the real test before marriage, because that will be the foundation for continuing married through the inevitable challenges that will come.
Its better to end a dating relationship than an actual divorce. Dating isnt in doctrine either and is a crutch made to give time for people to interact before commiting to eachother.
@ that is correct! My point is that you should only enter a dating relationship if you already feel you could marry the person and only break it if there is an extreme fault with the person’s character to which you either cannot help, the help isn’t wanted or it isn’t safe to try. We have to remember that we are to be (or at least are supposed to be) united to EVERY communion receiving Christian there is, because we are all the body of Christ. The only difference really is that we will do that more intimately and sexually with only one person and that comes only after receiving the sacrament of Holy Matrimony. So the point is that since you will not really know a whole lot about this person before you marry them anyway, do what Christ does: make the risky investment of loving this person prior to knowing them; do this by committing to this person through thick and thin. Love entails suffering and we need to actually practice that love/suffering instead of walking out on people. The reason why we have less married couples today is because many people are being super non-committal. They want to see if the person will match their pre-conceived, highly idealized, social media-patterned ideal partner. And only then will they love them? This is not love and it’s definitely not Christian.
I think it would be interesting if you haven’t already tackling on male loneliness and I don’t mean just being a single Christian.
Great topic! Will consider
How about older people who are free to marry in the Church? 52. Two grown children. Church has plenty of activities for singles under 35, but nothing for anyone older.
How about just saying HELLO? I have made more friendships with just the stupid basic, saying "hello". And sorry, there are single women at Mass???? where? In my parish, it is all lonely, single men. Not a single girl in sight. I have had several conversations with men in their 30s that are faithful followers of christ, attend Mass regularly, are friendly, good looking, etc...There are no Catholic girls to 'bump' into. I am an older married woman. I have befriended people at church by just turning around at the end of the service, giving a nice smile, wishing the person a good week & offering my name/asking theirs. I have ended up chatting for up to an hour after doing so. So, I would say, sit near the person & just say hello!
Hi both, thank you for this. May we please have your perspective on going to Latin mass at a church run by the Society of St Piux X? I am a revert, the modern churches lack of authenticity and I lost my self for years. I'm back and tradicional is definetly the way forward, the people I want to surround my self with. I have a St Piux church 3 min far from home, and the other is 30 min by taxi. Hence the dileme.
Hey! Maybe I'm not them, but I had been going to latin mass for a few months after recovering my faith, and yeah, I have another St Piux X church! I recomend you to go and at least, experiment what it can offer you! I'm so happy with latin mass and I promise that you will encounter people more serious about their faith in these kind of churchs. (Sorry for my english!)
The SSPX is in an extremely complicated situation canonically. I think you should look into John Salzas arguments and see if there’s any responses to them.
I highly recommend looking into a different Latin mass parish. Or asking or pleasing to your bishop. Just so you know, you’re going to get a lot of different answers
Will make a video on this 😁
SSPX is complicated, go to a FSSP instead. Same beautiful mass but without the complications and sometimes cult vibe
@@TheRaik97congratulations on returning to church 🎉 and yes, I value your comment even if you're not them 😊 May I please ask you to share what other Catolic channels do you follow?
My wife wants to be strong and worthy. Not always beautiful. She thinks being pretty is just superficial and of no value.
I wish I wasn't that guy but talking to a girl whom I've never met purely because I might be interested in her seems like a recipe for instant jail in our current day and age.
Moreover it seems like I'm only interested in women I'm already friends with but it doesn't look like a lot of women like to the idea of a romance developing from friendship.
It's okay, we all have our preferences.
nah you're not gonna go to jail. Just go say hi. She brushes you off, nbd onto the next one.
@ I have seen it happen way too many times for me to ever believe that it’s safe to say hi to a woman one doesn’t know.
@@DakkogiRauru23I'm sorry but I don't know what world you are living in. You obviously are reading too much stuff online, the worst thing that could happen is they think you are weird if you are super nervous and aren't able to be graceful. No one is going to jail for saying hi to women lmao.
@ False accusations have happened, and I am in California. I have actually been falsely accused before, and while I got off lucky, I know there are men who went to prison because a woman lied about them to get revenge. Not to mention how easily they can ruin your reputation.
Based on my experience, the safest thing to do is to assume that people you don’t know are unpredictable and dangerous, and that you should at all cost avoid putting yourself in a compromising position. That compromising position all too often happens to be simply talking to a woman you’ve never met.
It’s just a lot safer to already have friends, among whom are women whom you can relatively trust.
I noticed the switch of your wife n sil
haha! Many people didn't notice!
My 28 year old daughter has physical problems acne is one but can your wife suggest a book or video i could tell her about.
Jessica just went to Dr Wendy Wells in Arizona.
I’m not sure of any book! She likes Dr Axe as well
Based
That was adorable.
Glad you enjoyed the video! Jess and her sister are fun to record with (:
Neat
4:39 - 5:53
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shhhhhh ;)
Who gets together in group settings anymore? ( This isn't the 1980's where we all hangout at the mall) And if they did, they all be on they're phones anyway.
@@sitka49 It still happens. You just have to be far more intentional about it as those groups won't find you. But they 100% still exist.
@@KyleWhittington" intentional?" Few and far between is code for that. (And it all sound so Junior High?) And by luck you find a group how do you invite yourself into this friends group without looking desperate,and needy?
Than you hope to God that some one that you think is attractive enough to date, would be willing to date you?
. And here's another scenario what happens if you ask somebody out and they won't go on a date in this "friends group." with you but date somebody else in this group? Ouch! I bet it happens more than you think?
Thing to tell to men is keep you expectations low , and then you won't be disappointed.
Terrible advice for people who are unable to lose weight, or are overlooked by women on account of their lack of wealth and looks, even with God's grace.
You sound as though you feel sorry for yourself, do not do this.
@@chasejohnson1775 What can I do, except to say the truth? Some people cannot lose weight, escape sin, or acheive wealth or physical attractiveness. I don't feel sorry for myself, I'm acknowledging the truth, to shed light on my situation, and of many young men.
You have to hate being fat more than you love eating food. That is what it takes to lose weight.
@@B1GPUDD1NG I do, having hatred for my ugliness and fatness hasn’t helped.
@@B1GPUDD1NG I do hate being fat more than eating. Hasn’t helped change anything.