Transform Your Life with www.blueprintreloaded.com/ Headed to New York City for a FREE event Oct 6 - www.owenfreetour.com - and if you can't make it do the FREE call - www.highstatuscommunication.com - both are super helpful free value adds to your life, be spontaneous and click the link and enjoy the free value. We've also got Phoenix, Miami, San Diego and Vegas coming up. Enjoy this video on how to add value and flip the script when people have too much going on in their lives to acknowledge you. Hope it helps, and let me know what you think! -Owen
When did u become so funny? ))I was literally dying the whole time. )). Those gestures, the voices.. man.. those are stand-up comedy worthy. Love u dude.
Nothing like the "real" hence Real Social Dynamics...the moment that happens I guarantee you nothing will be "real" about socializing. Protect your soul folks.
So here's the formula in this video: look at any person, ask yourself how many offers they're getting in a day. Offers could mean wanting to talk, wanting to go do something together, wanting to do business or any type of intimate activity together. If that person is getting whatever you're offering too often per day, that for them to say YES to you, they'd be busy all day SAYING YES TO EVERYONE, then your offer is physically impossible to receive. What you have to do instead is switch things up, be more original, remove the downside, add value, have a good follow up system via social media, and then suddenly THEY CAN SAY YES. If you simply take these basic steps, YOU SUDDENLY BECOME THE PERSON WHO IS OVERWHELMED WITH OPTIONS. You in effect "flip the script" and become the person who everyone wants things from. It's all so simple, and yet most people will NEVER DO IT. Why? They're in a derp state, traumatized, and unwilling to "think outside themselves". Then, if anyone gives them a talk like this, they get all upset. So they're permanently stuck. A talk like this won't be popular, but I know that if you're ready to hear it, it will change your life. Good luck and let me know what you think -Owen
Thanks for this quick summary. Is it possible in some way to buy and watch some more videos from these last seminars? hdd write " be more original, remove the downside, add value, have a good follow up system via social media". problem is how to deal with people in derp state. You see eg. girl on the street and she is in derp state.
These two offer so much much gold for those who are ready. 🙏🏻 Also the introvert thing is 💯 accurate. I'm an INFJ who used to be nervous just going to a Yoga class. Two weeks ago I TAUGHT my first class! Despite my introverted nature. Don't let it hold you back if you are naturally introverted!!! 🧘🏻🙏🏻
"Freeing up mental bandwidth" It's true isn't it? That a lot of us have too much going on inside our minds that it takes away our ability to effectively process the current moment. It's likely painful to be present so what little bandwidth we have left is used to do things that bascially distracts us from that pain and then we're locked into place. Once that mode is habitualized, we're gone unless some outside force comes in and shakes us out of it(like what owen does in almost every video). It's a little mind blowing to think about because the glimpses of breaking out that we get and try to share so that someone we care about could see what we see or so that we can at least be validated, effectively gets rejected. It's like a defense mechanism for derpers. "Oh no! Truth that hurts. Ah i dont like this..." Distraction distraction distraction. And in this current era there it is way too easy to slip into distractions. It certainly takes a special kind of person to break out of it or it takes a special kind of person to help others to break out of it. I'm going to watch this again. Also love the thumbnail toyblock letter font. I take it as a title for kids since mentally and emotionally, a lot of us are(including myself) and the things in this vid are pretty basic in the grand scheme of things... I get the feeling Owen has some mindbenders in his back log that a lot of us probabaly aren't ready for. Bring it on!
Key takeaways: 12:05 - 13:02, 37:12 - 38:47 Don't try to rebuild the ego when there is an attack on it. Stop making it about you. How can I connect to THEIR reality (Jim Carrey's epiphany) 23:35 - 25:40 There's a key point somewhere in here about finding a "mutual yes" but I kinda still don't get that portion. My takeaway is "just BE a friend, stop trying so hard to go above and beyond yourself" 29:22 - 37:11 (30:00 main point) It's actually a good thing for higher profile people if you can seem as if you don't care if the other person is there or not. Remove downside 38:48 - 39:45 Remove trauma to stop being offended and be able to think where other people are coming from 39:47 - end. Trauma colors how you perceive the world preventing you from seeing how things really are, and gives you excuses to not take action. Micromanaging an image is maintaining a front, it's being inauthentic, rebuilding the ego house.
Interesting takeaways - i hadn't seen your comment til now and my 3 big takeaways were totally different...My 4th one falls inside of yours though, @ 24:09 - it's a uniquely human sickness how envy becomes moral superiority - not unlike how feeling threatened becomes racial prejudice. Some INSANE ways humans psychologically cope, for sure.
it's funny how this video got recommended to me. Recently during the workout I had the same exact thoughts Owen is expressing at 3:30-3:50. Objective truth is simple. Most of us, the herd, knows what's right and what's wrong but we can't defend on our opinion. We are afraid of the original thought because shadowing someone else's is safer. This is one of the best Owen's speeches!
Thanks for helping me heal my childhood wounds and design the life and romantic relationship of my own design. I bought Hot Seat @ Home years ago. I plan on coming to one of your paid live events to support your business in helping millions of people like me out. God Bless - Max from Boulder, CO
@@KalkiAvatarATWAR He's doing it in a laid back and expressive way though, not hiding it. Can't say I agree with your assessment when it comes to julien.
Well, people can talk whetever about Owen or Julien or RSD, but my respect and loyalty for the message and movement that this guys do is gonna last for the rest of my life, and no-one can change that. i guess that's the power of realocating your energy in creating something better So Owen, you did a good job!.
Spitting truths again. Monster monster speech for one of the most lucid and genius thinkers of 2021 and beyond this space time also. Thanks Owen. This is the new punk rock. This is the new voice of personal sovereignty.
~ 26:00 yes: I used to be cynical about stepping up because I wanted it to be convenient, I wanted it to be congenial to my inner little bitch (aka ego), I wanted growth without leaps of faith involved. but as I find myself taking more and more action I see what "effortless effort" truly means. this is what Owen et al reminds (and inspires in) us in these brilliant talks: we must follow our deeper impulse against the grain of our fear (aka collective mushmind) and let the truth (aka God) EVOLVE through us.
being a "nice" person and being a "kind" person are two separate things. "getting along to get along" is the mantra of the nice person. but yeah that's awesome....a concise way of being able to decipher between the two.
Owen I think you should do something about the loudness level in your videos. In short, there’s almost no dynamic range, meaning the loudest sound and the quietest sound don’t vary much. This leads to the audio sounding “loud” without you actually clipping. If you check out your own video from 7-8 years ago, you’ll notice that the audio level are much less compressed, which leads to more of a natural and appealing sounding audio. (Here compression doesnt mean audio quality, but the compression of dynamic range) In the past few years, whenever I watch ur videos I have to turn the volume almost all the way down, something I never do with anyone else’s videos. I suspect that when your team is recording, the audio level is set too high, and then they are using a hard limiter to compensate, this means the audio doesn’t clip, but that also leads to no dynamic range. That or the audio compressor setting is out of whack when they are editing in post. I believe good video/audio quality is one of the reason you attracted a lot of viewers in the past, I’ve been wanting to write this comment for a long time but was always too lazy to do so, of course it’s just one person’s opinion but I really think this is something to look into.
Very appreciative that you posted this. If guys really understood what you're talking about here, 90+ percent of their social limitations would be handled. 22:18 Ever hooked up with a less attractive chick, just cause she was into you and you were "excitable", then she wants "something more" afterwards? Yup, exactly 💯. 27:47 This isn't complicated, just find events in your area you enjoy, and invite people low-key like Owen describes @~ 32:00 or so. Things you enjoy regardless of whether the other person comes. 37:45 "I always have something to give everyone in every situation...give them the benefit of the doubt, give them an opportunity to be themselves, give them an opportunity to talk to you, and to escape their lives, give them a break". -Brent Smith Lifestyle
15:01 - 15:31 @Owen Cook Free Tour - I know you're onto something big here, and def wanna see your thoughts if you ever expand that into "like 12 hours of content" lol. Here's 1 thing I'd like to contribute on this: So often an axiom in this space is "being man to woman". And that's correct, that's not wrong at all. But now we're going in a direction society-wide, where I think we need to reexamine this with fresh eyes. I've heard multiple women say to me recently (basically) "do you know how many guys just want to sleep with me?" - and they're telling the truth - the cause should be obvious, swipe apps and Instagram, etc. Which leads me to this conclusion: it's time to 90-99% reduce verbal expressions of man to woman, and stick to just having that vibe and that natural intent as a man, still being bold and dominant but without explicitly saying anything that sets off her "oh hes just trying to bang me" button. Because the dynamic I see today is different than even 10 years ago, and I think *this* is the way her feel special and see you as special (so that she wants to chase/invest) now in 2022.
Went out the other night to a local club haven't gone out in a long time but still remember most of the fundamentals dont wanna be Braggy but my friend and I basically owned the club being friends with almost everyone dancing with everyone multiple make outs made many people die laughing, guys trying to be our friends the only thing though is I was super wasted and even though it was the funnest night I've had in a long time and do remember everything I still felt kinda empty the next morning but if it wasn't for you guys my old self would NEVER believe id ever do things like that. My biggest regret is not seeing you guys live when I could of. I need to soon
The world is a bad and evil place. Not because most people are bad and evil, but because most people are very nice. They are so nice to the point that they can be easily manipulated by the tiny minority of bad and evil people to make the world bad.
There’s an empathy-understanding gap in some people. They are empathetic but don’t have a good understanding of what’s actually going on in the minds of others. When you first meet someone who is high-status, attractive or interesting to you in some way: that person is a stranger to you, and you are a stranger to him/her. In almost all cases, this person is indifferent to you and does not have empathy for you. Also, the two of you do not yet understand each other (you’re still strangers). So, if you are feeling empathetic towards this person who you don’t know and who actually doesn’t feel any empathy towards you, then you are out of sync with this person. You can close the empathy-understanding gap by practicing this: put your emotions aside, and observe people objectively, with awareness and indifference. To know that there is less empathy in the world than you had assumed or would like there to be makes the world seem harsher. Most people are empathetic. Your problem was that you were skipping the important step of understanding people. When you meet someone, lead with understanding. Later, your empathy will have precision and meaning, because it will occur within the context of a relationship with this person. To care about people is good. To understand and care about people is better.
The trick to getting what you want is to stop caring about getting it. Shoot the arrow and let it land where it lands. Have fun with it. It's way easier to learn without all the pressure. Then one day you'll get to say, "holy shit I got it!".
Brother wait until you see what's coming in this channel the next few months. I almost didn't release this one, but thought "hey it's a foundational piece so let's do it" -Owen
Hey Owen - is the answer to stop trying to constantly rebuild your ego to simply just be? From what I understand, our hesitation to simply stop thinking so much is a great stumbling block.
When I read the game I thought that Owen came over as an endearing person who was trying to find his place in life. Also, as I was reading it, I was thinking "There's 2 sides to this story."
19:47 same here Owen, when I moved to the US from Ottawa i processed greetings like "how are you" and "we should hang out" as literally what people meant. Funny thing to get used to
What do you do if the girl says she has a boyfriend? Could it be shit test? One of the girls I approached was super receptive but said she had a boyfriend when I went for number. It doesn't make sense!
Transform Your Life with www.blueprintreloaded.com/
Headed to New York City for a FREE event Oct 6 - www.owenfreetour.com - and if you can't make it do the FREE call - www.highstatuscommunication.com - both are super helpful free value adds to your life, be spontaneous and click the link and enjoy the free value. We've also got Phoenix, Miami, San Diego and Vegas coming up. Enjoy this video on how to add value and flip the script when people have too much going on in their lives to acknowledge you. Hope it helps, and let me know what you think! -Owen
When did u become so funny? ))I was literally dying the whole time. )). Those gestures, the voices.. man.. those are stand-up comedy worthy. Love u dude.
5:26 - Isn’t that the whole point? :)
Owen! almost 10 years ago you introduced me to "the power of now" and it played an integral part in my awakening from the dream. Thank you so much!
Can't wait for the future hologram version of Owen in my living room, yelling at me how to get out of my derp state.
That'll be the dream.
Why would you wait
Nothing like the "real" hence Real Social Dynamics...the moment that happens I guarantee you nothing will be "real" about socializing. Protect your soul folks.
I hate the thought of future tech and what’s coming. But this... may just get me on board
Hell yeah
So here's the formula in this video: look at any person, ask yourself how many offers they're getting in a day. Offers could mean wanting to talk, wanting to go do something together, wanting to do business or any type of intimate activity together. If that person is getting whatever you're offering too often per day, that for them to say YES to you, they'd be busy all day SAYING YES TO EVERYONE, then your offer is physically impossible to receive.
What you have to do instead is switch things up, be more original, remove the downside, add value, have a good follow up system via social media, and then suddenly THEY CAN SAY YES. If you simply take these basic steps, YOU SUDDENLY BECOME THE PERSON WHO IS OVERWHELMED WITH OPTIONS. You in effect "flip the script" and become the person who everyone wants things from.
It's all so simple, and yet most people will NEVER DO IT. Why? They're in a derp state, traumatized, and unwilling to "think outside themselves". Then, if anyone gives them a talk like this, they get all upset. So they're permanently stuck. A talk like this won't be popular, but I know that if you're ready to hear it, it will change your life. Good luck and let me know what you think -Owen
I miss your forum posts!
Thanks for this quick summary. Is it possible in some way to buy and watch some more videos from these last seminars?
hdd write " be more original, remove the downside, add value, have a good follow up system via social media".
problem is how to deal with people in derp state. You see eg. girl on the street and she is in derp state.
@@piotrjee3918 Thanks bro, I'd say join the mentoring - www.highstatuscommunication.com -Owen
@@BronnBlackwater Thank you bro, I miss them too lol -Owen
Excellent text break down. Thank you.
These two offer so much much gold for those who are ready. 🙏🏻
Also the introvert thing is 💯 accurate. I'm an INFJ who used to be nervous just going to a Yoga class. Two weeks ago I TAUGHT my first class! Despite my introverted nature. Don't let it hold you back if you are naturally introverted!!! 🧘🏻🙏🏻
That reminder to be present just made sense of so much going on in life I got so caught up in a derp state, thanks Owen
Yes! -Owen
I feel this is such an underrated topic that can lead to endless amounts of pain unless taken care of, thanks for highlighting this life lesson!
Just watched a very information hour of Owen telling his fans to stop asking him out to lunch! Love the content
Lol yes that's it -Owen
Thank God for that 200 page book or I would have never discovered this man. A blessing in disguise.
Haha yes it helped me a lot as well, tnx u bro -Owen
That´s how i found him too about 10 years ago :)
Wow! This one gave me glimpses of the power of old RSD videos. Thank you so much for continuing spreading value till today.
7:46 epiphany. Thanks again Owen. This why I've followed you religiously for 9 years.
The mans a genius.
"Freeing up mental bandwidth"
It's true isn't it? That a lot of us have too much going on inside our minds that it takes away our ability to effectively process the current moment. It's likely painful to be present so what little bandwidth we have left is used to do things that bascially distracts us from that pain and then we're locked into place. Once that mode is habitualized, we're gone unless some outside force comes in and shakes us out of it(like what owen does in almost every video).
It's a little mind blowing to think about because the glimpses of breaking out that we get and try to share so that someone we care about could see what we see or so that we can at least be validated, effectively gets rejected. It's like a defense mechanism for derpers. "Oh no! Truth that hurts. Ah i dont like this..." Distraction distraction distraction. And in this current era there it is way too easy to slip into distractions. It certainly takes a special kind of person to break out of it or it takes a special kind of person to help others to break out of it.
I'm going to watch this again. Also love the thumbnail toyblock letter font. I take it as a title for kids since mentally and emotionally, a lot of us are(including myself) and the things in this vid are pretty basic in the grand scheme of things...
I get the feeling Owen has some mindbenders in his back log that a lot of us probabaly aren't ready for. Bring it on!
Great post! And yes, the backlog is 1000X more advanced than this one, but love the foundations as well! -Owen
@@OwenCookFreeTour looking forward to it! Thanks for everything
Key takeaways:
12:05 - 13:02, 37:12 - 38:47 Don't try to rebuild the ego when there is an attack on it. Stop making it about you. How can I connect to THEIR reality (Jim Carrey's epiphany)
23:35 - 25:40 There's a key point somewhere in here about finding a "mutual yes" but I kinda still don't get that portion. My takeaway is "just BE a friend, stop trying so hard to go above and beyond yourself"
29:22 - 37:11 (30:00 main point) It's actually a good thing for higher profile people if you can seem as if you don't care if the other person is there or not. Remove downside
38:48 - 39:45 Remove trauma to stop being offended and be able to think where other people are coming from
39:47 - end. Trauma colors how you perceive the world preventing you from seeing how things really are, and gives you excuses to not take action. Micromanaging an image is maintaining a front, it's being inauthentic, rebuilding the ego house.
Interesting takeaways - i hadn't seen your comment til now and my 3 big takeaways were totally different...My 4th one falls inside of yours though, @ 24:09 - it's a uniquely human sickness how envy becomes moral superiority - not unlike how feeling threatened becomes racial prejudice. Some INSANE ways humans psychologically cope, for sure.
it's funny how this video got recommended to me. Recently during the workout I had the same exact thoughts Owen is expressing at 3:30-3:50. Objective truth is simple. Most of us, the herd, knows what's right and what's wrong but we can't defend on our opinion. We are afraid of the original thought because shadowing someone else's is safer. This is one of the best Owen's speeches!
Thanks for helping me heal my childhood wounds and design the life and romantic relationship of my own design. I bought Hot Seat @ Home years ago. I plan on coming to one of your paid live events to support your business in helping millions of people like me out. God Bless - Max from Boulder, CO
I love how Julien doesn’t laugh
he's over it (heard it before)
The laughing and giggling are signs of insecurity, this isn't funny, it's serious business
@@KalkiAvatarATWAR He's doing it in a laid back and expressive way though, not hiding it. Can't say I agree with your assessment when it comes to julien.
He seems to find it funny, but in a super grounded state
@@adamhenrikson4549 You don't even understand what I'm saying, I'm saying that the people in the crowd laughing are revealing their insecurity
One of the best free videos I’ve seen on this channel. And I’ve been watching Tyler’s videos for like 3 years now
Owen you look healthy and strong 💪. Keep it up! all the love from Canada 🇨🇦
Thank you feeling good! -Owen
Its almost upsetting how much i learned from this
Anyone else want to give Owen a hug when he said "why doesn't anyone want to be my friend?" ??
It’s such lucky to have owen’s content! I appreciate your work and hope God bless u for many years more! U really change lives!
One minute through already and YES!!!!!!! ABSOLUTELY NAILED IT!!!!!!!!!!!!
Tyler I love this talk you’re so great at waking me up when I’m in a deep state sometimes. Love the content man!!!!!
Thank you so much for making the sacrifice and being dedicated making these content,, it's powerful, they really have that immediate effect
“Getting to the cause is LETTING GO OF TRAUMA”
Always some lightbulbs 💡 turning on with these guys!! Love it
Thanks bro yes ! -Owen
Had to pause the video and take this in he’s really speaking some facts right now
a lot of this is common sense, but it's nice to get that extra reminder every now and then
Well, people can talk whetever about Owen or Julien or RSD, but my respect and loyalty for the message and movement that this guys do is gonna last for the rest of my life, and no-one can change that.
i guess that's the power of realocating your energy in creating something better
So Owen, you did a good job!.
Awareness..is a pivotal point!
Great video, I came across the blueprint over 10 years ago and it opened my eyes! Will catch ya next time your in the UK, thanks for the work bro x
Appreciate the longterm viewership bro! Do an online mentoring perhaps, as I don't come to UK! -Owen
@@OwenCookFreeTour Ah ya bastard! i filled out the online form. Sexy form thing
Watching this was not fun, but it's what I needed.
Thank you.
Amazing content Owen. Sadly a lot of people need to see this and apply it to their life. 👑🔥
Spitting truths again. Monster monster speech for one of the most lucid and genius thinkers of 2021 and beyond this space time also. Thanks Owen. This is the new punk rock. This is the new voice of personal sovereignty.
I need to watch this 8-9 times. Crucial!
~ 26:00 yes: I used to be cynical about stepping up because I wanted it to be convenient, I wanted it to be congenial to my inner little bitch (aka ego), I wanted growth without leaps of faith involved.
but as I find myself taking more and more action I see what "effortless effort" truly means.
this is what Owen et al reminds (and inspires in) us in these brilliant talks: we must follow our deeper impulse against the grain of our fear (aka collective mushmind) and let the truth (aka God) EVOLVE through us.
I love how focused Owen is here
Love it! Thank you! 🙏🏻
This is so fkn hilarious. One of your best work!
Tnx bro! -Owen
def
In my experience nice people take obedience and convenience as goodness.
Ya that's the key right there -Owen
being a "nice" person and being a "kind" person are two separate things. "getting along to get along" is the mantra of the nice person. but yeah that's awesome....a concise way of being able to decipher between the two.
Thank you for being a friend.
Loving the new videos lately, lots of extra gravy! Was tuning in hard right before you stopped yourself.. that’ll be a great one!
Owen I think you should do something about the loudness level in your videos.
In short, there’s almost no dynamic range, meaning the loudest sound and the quietest sound don’t vary much. This leads to the audio sounding “loud” without you actually clipping.
If you check out your own video from 7-8 years ago, you’ll notice that the audio level are much less compressed, which leads to more of a natural and appealing sounding audio. (Here compression doesnt mean audio quality, but the compression of dynamic range)
In the past few years, whenever I watch ur videos I have to turn the volume almost all the way down, something I never do with anyone else’s videos.
I suspect that when your team is recording, the audio level is set too high, and then they are using a hard limiter to compensate, this means the audio doesn’t clip, but that also leads to no dynamic range.
That or the audio compressor setting is out of whack when they are editing in post.
I believe good video/audio quality is one of the reason you attracted a lot of viewers in the past, I’ve been wanting to write this comment for a long time but was always too lazy to do so, of course it’s just one person’s opinion but I really think this is something to look into.
One of my favorites in a while
Appreciate it bro -Owen
Love the energy in this video it’s on point love love love it
Thanks for the awesome videos!
There is so much value in this video
Raw, genuine, unseasoned information by RSD. Great stuff.
Very appreciative that you posted this. If guys really understood what you're talking about here, 90+ percent of their social limitations would be handled.
22:18 Ever hooked up with a less attractive chick, just cause she was into you and you were "excitable", then she wants "something more" afterwards? Yup, exactly 💯.
27:47 This isn't complicated, just find events in your area you enjoy, and invite people low-key like Owen describes @~ 32:00 or so. Things you enjoy regardless of whether the other person comes.
37:45 "I always have something to give everyone in every situation...give them the benefit of the doubt, give them an opportunity to be themselves, give them an opportunity to talk to you, and to escape their lives, give them a break". -Brent Smith Lifestyle
15:01 - 15:31 @Owen Cook Free Tour - I know you're onto something big here, and def wanna see your thoughts if you ever expand that into "like 12 hours of content" lol. Here's 1 thing I'd like to contribute on this:
So often an axiom in this space is "being man to woman". And that's correct, that's not wrong at all. But now we're going in a direction society-wide, where I think we need to reexamine this with fresh eyes. I've heard multiple women say to me recently (basically) "do you know how many guys just want to sleep with me?" - and they're telling the truth - the cause should be obvious, swipe apps and Instagram, etc.
Which leads me to this conclusion: it's time to 90-99% reduce verbal expressions of man to woman, and stick to just having that vibe and that natural intent as a man, still being bold and dominant but without explicitly saying anything that sets off her "oh hes just trying to bang me" button. Because the dynamic I see today is different than even 10 years ago, and I think *this* is the way her feel special and see you as special (so that she wants to chase/invest) now in 2022.
"including cutting off your friends". LOL
Totally cracked me up. #Awareness
Really nice topic! Let's stop complaining and start focusing on what we can do! :)
That's the key right there -Owen
Went out the other night to a local club haven't gone out in a long time but still remember most of the fundamentals dont wanna be Braggy but my friend and I basically owned the club being friends with almost everyone dancing with everyone multiple make outs made many people die laughing, guys trying to be our friends the only thing though is I was super wasted and even though it was the funnest night I've had in a long time and do remember everything I still felt kinda empty the next morning but if it wasn't for you guys my old self would NEVER believe id ever do things like that. My biggest regret is not seeing you guys live when I could of. I need to soon
you been working out owen i wish i could articulate myself better but you look good man!
The world is a bad and evil place. Not because most people are bad and evil, but because most people are very nice. They are so nice to the point that they can be easily manipulated by the tiny minority of bad and evil people to make the world bad.
That’s a great description of wokeism.
Absolutely! Truth!
Owen what are the healthy foods that you recommend eating?
Thanks Owen. Greetings from Switzerland🤙
You as well! -Owen
“Alternate crowds” would be like hipsters.. they’re everywhere here in KC. God forbid I order coffee the wrong way & one overhears it
Thanks for explaining the “let’s hang out” then that never happening even though you weren’t the one that suggested it dilemma 😹
Lol yes SO WEIRD lol -Owen
Great video. Lol, poor Julien couldn't finish a sentence. 😂😂 Owen was like a freight train that couldn't slow down.
Owen is enlightened period !
Tnx!! Lots of progression needed to get to that point, but lucky to be light years ahead of where I started! -Owen
Great insightful video Owen! Thanks
Julien is like a cool anime character, ripped jeans with a tuxedo shirt
Owen that part near the end about the billionaire trust fund painter vibe had me dead! Cheers from Canada.
Lol ya same -Owen
Amazing content owen
Thanks for all the lessons owen
Thank you! -Owen
Owen let's do lunch! Thanks for the perspective and insight brother.
There’s an empathy-understanding gap in some people. They are empathetic but don’t have a good understanding of what’s actually going on in the minds of others.
When you first meet someone who is high-status, attractive or interesting to you in some way: that person is a stranger to you, and you are a stranger to him/her. In almost all cases, this person is indifferent to you and does not have empathy for you. Also, the two of you do not yet understand each other (you’re still strangers).
So, if you are feeling empathetic towards this person who you don’t know and who actually doesn’t feel any empathy towards you, then you are out of sync with this person.
You can close the empathy-understanding gap by practicing this: put your emotions aside, and observe people objectively, with awareness and indifference.
To know that there is less empathy in the world than you had assumed or would like there to be makes the world seem harsher. Most people are empathetic. Your problem was that you were skipping the important step of understanding people. When you meet someone, lead with understanding. Later, your empathy will have precision and meaning, because it will occur within the context of a relationship with this person.
To care about people is good. To understand and care about people is better.
It's like hollering at beautiful innocent zombies LOL what do we want?Brains! when do we want them?! BRAINS
Idk why but this video was funny af. Great job
The trick to getting what you want is to stop caring about getting it. Shoot the arrow and let it land where it lands. Have fun with it. It's way easier to learn without all the pressure. Then one day you'll get to say, "holy shit I got it!".
Best vid you've made in awhile
Brother wait until you see what's coming in this channel the next few months. I almost didn't release this one, but thought "hey it's a foundational piece so let's do it" -Owen
Don't count your days by productive, count your days by present. Most people live in the future or in the past.
I so wanted to quote your tirade about comments. Thanks Owen!
This Owen rant >>>
I love these kind of video where Owen gets salty like
Was letting the video end in the middle of Juliens sentence a part of the "cutting your friends off" joke some seconds earlier? Hahaha
Owen, I'm taking you out on a Zoom lunch. My treat
Great vid 10/10
Julien out here giving a eulogy
Good shit Owen, looking good bro
Love this vid
Yes! Yes! Yes!
Hey Owen - is the answer to stop trying to constantly rebuild your ego to simply just be? From what I understand, our hesitation to simply stop thinking so much is a great stumbling block.
You almost got it! The answer is to fix the "master / slave" relationship between ego and being present. It has to be the other way around -Owen
@@OwenCookFreeTour Alan Watts- "a good servant, but a bad master" - the wisdom of insecurities in an age of anxiety -
When I read the game I thought that Owen came over as an endearing person who was trying to find his place in life. Also, as I was reading it, I was thinking "There's 2 sides to this story."
Nice bro that's very open minded of you! -Owen
Present...present present!
Thanks, great one !
Thanks! -Owen
I’ve watched this video a few times now and taken a different lesson away each time
Thank you
Appreciate it! -Owen
*he looks like hes drinking a jumbo bottle of cough syrup from costco* 13:08
Kombucha?
33:19 you said don’t be too needy that you come off as “”, so he was just being relaxed or himself “
in a world where following the crowd has become the norm Tyler is the self thinking teacher that helps us fall into the politically correct trap
Just out of pure curiosity what’s the book that Owen is talking about around 10 minutes
Best video on UA-cam@
Haha aw poor Owen
THIS IS FOR SURE THE NATURAL CURE FOR THE EGO. cracked the derp state armour!!
He always says people will leave negative comments. I never see them
Perfect Owen perfect!
I LOVE YOU. YEEEEEEEEEEAAAAAAAHHHHH
19:47 same here Owen, when I moved to the US from Ottawa i processed greetings like "how are you" and "we should hang out" as literally what people meant. Funny thing to get used to
What do you do if the girl says she has a boyfriend? Could it be shit test? One of the girls I approached was super receptive but said she had a boyfriend when I went for number. It doesn't make sense!