How To Be "Grounded" In Your Own Validation And Experience Of Life
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- Опубліковано 4 вер 2024
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This reminds me of old school Owen Cook that I started watching a decade ago, and I’m absolutely loving it. Wow. Still can’t believe this stuff is free.
yep! :0
This is perfect timing! I’ve realised my biggest issue is that I’m subconsciously seeking validation from others, and my self esteem is tied up too much in how my interactions go with others
Yup, analyzing every conversation wondering what that person thinks of you. Just remember that you can never truly know how other people feel, nor is it your responsibility to make them feel better or like you.
Sameeeeeeeeee
Never heard something more relatable in my life, how did you come to find this out and what have you done about it?
Niiice!!! Yes, learning how to be grounded within your OWN validation is the key! 🙏
Tnx bro, excited for high vibration communication and our upcoming collabs -Owen
Excellent vidéo
This is some next level bullshit
Great algorithm comment sweetie, daddy loves you 🥰
At the beginning it looks like you’re punching everybody who walks in lol
Hahaha Jeff!
Gotta prepare them lol -Owen
@@OwenCookFreeTour lmfao... “has life got you beat down b r o t h e r ? ? Well COME ON DOWNNN to the next LA Free Tour where I will p u n c h you upon entry, you can meet like minded people, and you can finally WAKE UP! 🗣 AAAAAAAAAAYEOOOO!”
Great video. I’ve been following Owen for over 10 years, trained with him and I’ve gone to multiple tours. Now, in my 30’s, the largest jump I’ve had towards “groundedness” was when I gave myself to God. Hear me out. - God can solve all your grounding problems much more efficiently than you can via self development reframes. For example, when owen talks about co-dependence, trying to tell yourself “don’t be needy! Don’t be clingy!” doesn’t really get you far. But, if love is what you require, the love of your Father, Lord Jesus Christ, your creator, is all you really need to to feel whole. If you feel disconnect to God, repent and reconnect to him. If you’re independent and you’re too jaded to be vulnerable, because of the pain someone caused you, all you need to do is trust in your God to heal you and comfort you and your soul will be restored. - last point, if you want to be the “main character” to your movie, you don’t need to go around and force it and try awkwardly to be the center of attention, all you need to know is that God has bestowed upon you a REASON for living. A purpose. It’s easy to be the main character when you understand that God gave you a role to play. Lastly, it’s important to understand that all men and women are equal in the eyes of the Lord. It’s easy to assert yourself when you know you are all equal in the kingdom of heaven. Just because someone has more worldly possession, doesn’t mean they’re better than you. Stand up for what you believe in and who you are. You’re a child of God.
AMEN
@@Dbulkss Yessir.
So did God create women the way they are? I grew up in the church and memorized the Bible and spent many summers evangelizing people. However when it comes to women if you follow biblical teachings of being kind, humble and putting her first over yourself and unselfishly giving , it doesn’t work. If you have been in the game , you know that.
What works is being indifferent, somewhat rude, putting yourself above her needs and have her seek your validation.
So if God created women this way, why would He instruct us to be essentially good beta males catering women and then she goes and screws some asshole behind your back?
I say this because I am the guy that all these married women and pastor’s wives wanted to cheat with. And their poor husbands working 24/7 proving for her and thinking he bagged a gem.
Well said. One note: You can substitute Jesus or certain religion with ANY higher power and this will still work.
@Brian I didn't say being kind and humble was pathetic and weak. My point still stands that being generous, selfless, very giving and putting her needs above yours (which the BIble instructs you to do) will lead her to disrespect you and eventually her pussy can't get wet for you.
I have tested this with dozens of women of all races and religions ( most of these women were virgins before they married their husbands) and they all act the same.
Which is what led me to be redpilled. As a chirtsian, this is a big riddle and no clear answers and a major stumbling block for the advocacy of marriage for men,
GOLD. Free tour videos are my love language since 10 years ago. And they’re still so damn good all these years later. Great quality, great content. Thanks Owen!
Appreciate the longtime viewership bro! Lots more truly epic videos to come (already shot) -Owen
I always feel like that about The Superbowl, that NBA Game 7 energy. "Playing to NOT lose, instead of playing to WIN."
I was taken over by a feeling of emotion of a gratitude for your message to the point of almost tearing up.
These messages are so important and no one I’ve heard has explicitly laid it out like this.
Let’s go Owen and his team! 💪🏽😤😁
Thanks Owen!
Validation
7:00 boundaries and willingness to always walk away
11:00 codependence, independence, interdependence, synergy
Balance of wanting but willing to walk away
18:00 hating is not moving passed the trauma
33:00 attachment
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"You're not going to get desperate, because you're coming from an infinite source, because energy is ever expanding, so you're never going to get fully controlled or denied you know? You're always growing." You guys see how important that is right?
Great video Owen, being free from outcome is incredibly important in dating! A lot of guys associate neediness with a specific behavior but I see at as "being more invested in what other people think, than in what you personally feel". So as paradoxical as this may sound if you feel a lot of neediness due to past trauma and you are judging/shaming that part of yourself, your neediness will only intensify because what you resist only persists. So the key is to ALLOW yourself to feel needy because that is what you're experiencing in the moment.
Thanks and great summary ! -Owen
That was amazing. We need more discussions about spirituality and energy, especially in the modern era.
She added a ton of value. Bring her back on Owen
Owen is a great teacher because even tho he’s the best in the world, he Can dumb it down for those of us that just started. He speaks about insecurities as if they’re totally normal and familiar.
Honestly, I am blessed to have found you and Julian right as I am graduating college and facing the "real" world. I am expecting a ton of rejection but your teachings, across the board , are incredibly applicable during this transition. (Adding value, drawing state from within, creating systems- including seeing your self as a system). Right now I am struggling with energy with respect to nutrition, and good choices for what to put in my body. I know you talk a little a about your nutrition and supplements, but a dedicated video would be transcendent.
Thank you for everything you do, and your beautiful mind, journey, and way of being in this world.
Same about the nutrition guide but i think he talked about getting banned on the platforms if he talked about it because the system dont want us to eat really really healthy to unlock our full energy from nutrition
Yeah he mentioned this when I asked him in person at free tour. He did recommend checking out books and writings about natural health. I started looking into chinese medicine as a start. So far I'm learning loads of value on disease prevention using traditional methods (tonics, acupunctures, things of that nature) combined with modern medicine/science.
Meat, fruits and vegetables
@@idonthatex3 ty bro can you pm me which books?
Thanks, Owen. You are perceptive about the situation that I and many other men are in. I've been getting rejected by 100% of the females I've been interested in lately (for at least a year). I can talk to girls, have good conversations, be confident, express interest in them, ask them out, and even have what I am sure is a good connection with some of these girls. Then, they refuse to see me again, and they stop talking to me. The thing is, I get a little excited, I get enthusiastic when I meet a girl who is my type, if she's beautiful and shows evidence of being intelligent and having a good personality. Most girls aren't like this. So, when I see a girl who is really type, and when I talk to her and we have an intelligent conversation and common interests, and I'm attracted to her: I'm sorry, but I do get a positive feeling of enthusiasm about the girl; I want to hang out with her and do fun things with her, and I feel motivated to ask her out and really make this happen. It turns out that this positive enthusiasm that I feel is not perceived by the girl as it is in my mind. Rather she perceives it as something very different and negative, something that makes me become very unattractive in her mind! This seems crazy, but I can't change anyone. Owen, I'm thinking about all of this, and I have some ideas about what I can do better. Thank you for helping me become more aware of what is going on.
Wow owen this therapy, improvement, learning at the same time. Post more pls thank you
Thank you that's the goal, and entertainment too -Owen
yeah it's weird somehow i feel very emotional after watching this... in a good way though
Knowing this video will still be extremely powerful even 10 years from now makes me thankful for being able to view it for free. Thank you Owen
Joe Rogan needs to get Owen on his podcast! Would be epic
the way they propped themselves up on those chairs LMAO comedy gold!
I personally would love more on how to stay grounded and how to meditate properly
priceless information here, brilliant.
Great video
Wow, fantastic, this is resonating so much! Super thanks
I enjoyed the way the woman articulated her ideas
This talk has like every secret to life there is.
This was a fantastic watch I'm glad I stuck through. Very useful! And who knew, I've watched Brandon's workout videos!
Also, Anna was super valuable here. I really like her view of things and that zen vibe she has!
I'd like to volunteer a term, I refer to it as 'ports and adapters'. The outermost layers of a system are dependent on the core components. The outermost components are pluggable, they can be mixed and matched. Just like Owen mentioned, if an individual were to leave the room, the show continues as normal.
Why can components be mixed and matched? Because, they implement a standard interface. If you've used one electrical outlet, you have used them all. When traveling internationally, you might need an adapter, which completes the phrase, 'ports and adapters'
The core, is not thoroughly acquainted with the outermost layers. The core is loosely coupled to its outer components. This means that the dependency is formed against the flow of control. An example of dependencies that are formed inappropriately, is when we say "the tail is wagging the dog".
Core elements are not perturbed when outer elements are changed wildly. The core element sits at a very high level of abstraction, it does not care about the details.
Consider some of the literal components of your support system, house, car, friends, refrigerator etc. You depend on the abstract version of those things, and not so much the actual implementation. You are dependent on the car interface, the ability to drive a vehicle somewhere. Does it matter which vehicle? Vehicles can be replaced, so long as they implement the 'driveable' interface.
Owen is fucken amazing man !!!Owen and Julian have changed my life.
I've been watching your videos since the blueprint decoded and maybe this is the apex of your teachings so far.
Good one! She gave a lot of great value, thanks for bringing her on. A lot of this seems easy said & to watch & hear but to do & experience out is the tough challenge. I proly should jump on a bootcamp with you soon. In the meantime I'll apply this in-field.
Thanks Owen! Keep crushing it!
Ya I feel like it's a lot more grounded having her add her take -Owen
@@OwenCookFreeTour Riffing with educated, well spoken women like this is some of the highest value content I've seen from you yet. This is the sort of stuff that really does help get society back on track.
The Law of one book is of massive help for anyone getting to the spiritual side of reality.
ty ill buy that one now! cheers
It’s crazy this video popped up on my feed!!! I literally prayed 30min ago about feeling more grounded in the good and bad times, to be satisfied whatever the outcome may be… wild
Great great great video.
Love the energy in this video. LFG! 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾
Yeah Madison my G. You the goat man keep cranking out videos yourself
Your internal validation is based on you achieving your own standards. "The work instills the worth." Alignment with your purpose gives crazy confidence and self validation.
Best part of this is, this is love, you are happy with yourself and someone else is happy what's the problem? Enjoy don't feel obliged to do something.
wow this video gave me that old RSD feeling....but more polished. This is awesome owen!
I liked my own comment....Call it self validation. LMAO
So happy u brought up value scanning lmfao. Thats some og hidden forum advice i remember which blew up. Been thinkin bout it for years
23:56 love the synchronised poses :')
I like the new style of videography, perspective changes and walking down the corridor. Reminds me of tony robbins 👌🏼👌🏼
owen you are for sure the king of epic rants. but dam this one was on point. great to see you still enjoying your craft!
Thanks yes I had a great time! -Owen
After all these years, Owen only has 168k subs. He deserves more, that’s a bit shocking his YT following is that low.
Most creators are always studying the algorithm and how to release titles, tags, video length, etc, to get subs. I've coached many of them, often to the top in their niche on UA-cam. In my own case, I just release when I have something I feel is amazing. I focus more on the back end business and so have done over 100 million in sales in my career -Owen
Thank you Owen for making a video like this again. I appreciate it.
Unbelievable video. Thank you for putting this out there for free
26:25 - she said something very interesting, she said that as a woman she didn't want the "neediness energy" in her life but she didn't meant the guy's neediness, she referred to her own neediness. Perhaps it's about the phenomenon that when we don't accept something in ourselves, we also don't accept it in others.
While he was talking, I was making Checkmarks. Again It hit hard
Keep bringing up this kind of videos Owen, its fun because if this was fresh and fit you would be totally dismissed by mentioning the *energy* part, the redpill is meant to be integrated with the fullness of life and this sinergy cant be achieved with someone else if you are acting through logic. The hole point is to be smart with our dating as well of letting go of desire.
26:50
What a coincidence mentioning Game 7s of NBA....There are 2 Game 7 of the Playoffs today.
Luka's Mavs vs CP3s Suns
Giannis' Bucks vs Boston Celtics.
I'm really loving the old school owen type material. Great content
The fast pace at the beginning makes it look like Owens boxing a buch of people as they come in😂
always look forward to watching your videos 💯💯💯
Thank you! -Owen
This is a MASTERPIECE; I’m not even a third in yet.
Thank you bro -Owen
One of owen’s best talks
The brotherhood lives on!!!
Excellent video I like that he brought the feminine perspective into consideration. I would have loved seeing this video back in my teenage years. I began to understand and process a lot of this in my late 20's it was difficult and painful. I would also recommend Jordan Peterson, David Tian and Jose Zuniga to anyone on their journey of self-actualization!
6:48 - it's ultimately is all about frame control.
Every person have positive and negative traits. The key is to not overvalidate a person you are first meeting. Concentrate on their negative traits/aspects (mustache, self absorbsion, insecurities).
15:46 - as you evolve, you wouldn't be afraid to get into relationship, because it is impossible for you to get hurt!!! God is good, God is great!!!
30:50 - never let anything or anybody distract you from being the most important hero of the journey.
Once it have happened, you WILL become needy and desperate.
Great value! Cool to see just how relaxed and projective Owens’ speech is.
owen thanks for the hotseat in seattle some years ago, really helped me move foward in my dating life, cultivate some great romantic relationships, and make some lasting friendships. “be the cause not the effect” - cheers bro and inspiring content
some good owen content was due in my life.. much love
Would be great if you could come to south africa
Cape town.
Wow unbelievable thiabis the good stuff i swear
This is perfect excited to see you guys in Miami soon. Super great stuff.
I LOVE YOU YOU ARE GOD , JUST KEEP GIVING LIKE GOD UNCONDITIONALLY
She’s incredible!
Top tier type of video, Owen 🔥 reminds me of your old school stuff 2010+
24:00 lmao that double pose
Lol yes -Owen
The King Is Back
Classic content. Love this stuff!
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Starting to watch, if it is like the 1st video with the same name which I watched like 10 times, I'm gonna be so grateful!
Thanks, yes same theme -Owen
Owen punching all these poor ppl at the beginning of the video 😭🤣
Amazing job Owen. I felt the connection through the video. Alot of different people there but I can relate to you on this one. You are smart and flowing like water. Subjective and Objective? For me I feel I am needy that's why self love is important. What do you do to practice self love?
Spend time with yourself. DO things on your own. Get to know YOU. On top of Owen and Julien. I highly recommend Neville Goddard. He's the one who really went the deepest and pointed out the little esoteric things that no one else was willing to talk about. And you will also hear Owen talk about some of his same things at times, but usually he bookends it by saying, "we're going into the esoteric stuff now" That's always been my favorite parts of Owen and Julien's talks. Much respect Phil. Keep growing! Keep Developing!
Seen the 4 day nyc card in the right hand corner when you asked about dreams... Not sure if that's a hidden gem or a mistake.
Owen, just thank you man .
Appreciate it! -Owen
Me: "Owen what made you successful?"
Owen (yelling): "AAAAAAAAYYYYYYYYYYYYY!!!!!"
Unstifles the constraints on the brain -Owen
Flow states caused by yelling like that, meditation, working out, ecosystem of positive thoughts, etc are bridges to success
Wow what a nice track in the beginning
Thank you
3:35 As long as you have some outcome or desire in mind you can't be your full self. It´s just like in quantum physics, the act of observation changes the behaviour.
King of king Owen 🙏🙏
Excellent Owen, kinda funny that speeded up beginning looked like you were boxing the crowd while you were letting them in.
Thank you Owen. 🙏🏻
These free tours are quite something. I can only imagine the paid events.
Thanks, yes the free tour is a blast of free-associative energy and incredible networking event. Paid events are extremely structured and exercise and feedback based, focused on steps and results -Owen
@@OwenCookFreeTour Very lovely.
Thank you!!!!!!
You're welcome -Owen
!!! WOW !!! great video ... guatemala city in the house please subtitles in english 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
You're reminding me about Elliot Hulse. Thanks for your insight, Owen.
The louder, sassier and more exposed you need to be, the less elegant, charismatic and grounded women tend to be. Releasing the need to proof oneself is life changing 🎉
Right up my alley, I am totally into the spiritual zen stuff but went a bit overboard with it so there is always some disconnection "he's so spiritual" "he's not always nice", anyway was always telling myself I don't need a relationship I know the ultimate truth or Self or God or Energy I am it even (not as a person don't worry) but still seem to have this neediness, still act needy around and with women I really like. Guess what want to say to most guys don't focus to much on the physical and if your spiritual don't focus to much on that. But mostly wow I loved those DVDs Owen and great to "accidentally" find you again.
38:42 I love this part. Someone can tell me if this women have a youtube channel ?
Why do I feel like 10 years ago he would have said b14tch at 19:36. Somehow the irony makes it funnier. :'D
exactly what i needed
bruh, she should be a coach too, she has a nice tone of voice and her explanation was great!
Grab some clippers and take it down to the nub baby. You already have the dope beard .. just take it off already! You’d look sick Owen. Love ya bud
I'll shave my head and trim the beard and get leaner for my next iteration. I always do a look for a certain Era for a few years -Owen
@@OwenCookFreeTour I’d say keep the hair. In England there’s something quite distinguished about a man wearing his thinning loud and proud
@@immers2410 according to scientific big data we have from all the online dating it is better the shave it after a certain stage of baldness
I used to relate to your audience, now I relate to you
the masculine feminin Concept was very eye opening
It’s so crucial being grounded. This is something I’ve known for years, but still I forget to do it from time to time. Just 3 days ago I had a date. When she met me there, I realized she’s significantly hotter in real life than on pictures. Somehow that made me a little dumber, and I found out that she had a pretty strong frame and her walls were up high, so I just fumbled it. Not like “oh my god, that’s the most disastrous game I’ve ever seen”, as I have been in the game for years, and can sort of manage my emotions and words, but damn .. I was off center. Was too reactive to what she was saying. Tried to filter my words or articulate my sentences to not offend her. And I didn’t even realize it while it was happening. Damn. Needless to say, there won’t be a second date. But it sure does suck when you make a mistake like that when you already learned that you shouldn’t.
Thanks top stuff
Whoa this one is going to be really useful for me I think. Thank you Owen from one ginger to another lol
Haha thanks -Owen
You just blew my mind again, we all are perfect entities
False
The work instills the worth
Great video!
Aw I wanted to hear Brandon’s take too. Haven’t seen him in a minute