"You're so peculiar in a good way, peculiar? yeah it means unusual or more like unique in this case, sorry I use crazy words, I read everyday, try at least haha".
@@MukiukiukiI think they were talking about how the ‘nice guy’ acts as though he’s empowering women when he really just wants them to satisfy his own desires, ie laundry
"Like, in my opinion women can literally do any job they want, and that's so empowering. Just as long as they keep doing the jobs they're supposed to be doing, you know?"
That's exactly it! 😂 Because he's good looking enough and probably a decent lover (as in will go down and relatively care about your pleasure) but that's about it!
Seems like she either grew up around this or dated a lot of guys like this. Either way, her skit proves she has had lots of interactions with this type in order to duplicate it that well.
I’m starting to think you have some sort of magical shell amulet like Ursula from the Little Mermaid and whenever you see a train-wreck start to act a damn fool in public, the shell starts to glow and you’re like, “yes, keep singing! KEEP SINGING!” and then boom, two days later our screens get blessed with “Barista Who Clearly Got Cheated On and Ran Out Of Adderall Four Days Ago”
Once, a guy said that to me & I responded “oh yeah, I hear that a lot actually - my whole life”, he had absolutely no idea how to handle it - but I got a kick out of it
Crazy because I never actually realized how bad it is until just now WOW 😅 - it always sounded like “you should’ve been told that before and you deserve to be told that” - but no you’re right - it’s a whole roast 😅😅😅
@@hilariousname6826 "They" is obviously referring to the type of men represented in this video, no other type of man or other "they" is relevant right now. Stay on topic or speak with your chest I beg
Aw little Jess. Well she was probably just too weak to survive that 5 minutes without a man. To mother and communicate for and do all the maintenance in the relationship.
It is just a character, but the blood pressure goes up because we've dated so many of these same guys. Using the cool nice guy vibe as bait and when you see it and cringe and try to get away the meanness comes out.
That’s the hard and tricky thing dating. You want to get to know the person and enjoy your time together but at the same time nobody wants to feel like they’re being interrogated. It’s really difficult to get that balance just right where you’re finding things out about each other that you want to know, but without it feeling like an interview because nobody wants that.
@@tigernotwoods914 I feel like I’m at the point where I honestly don’t care if it feels like an interview. Why beat around the bush and avoid the hard-hitting questions? Nobody wants their time wasted in the end. Obviously I won’t ask like super invasive questions on the first date, but I’m definitely not gonna stick to only generic questions and hoping we have a good time. I think a lot of people are good at having fun, but that alone doesn’t make them relationship material.
@@samwisegamgee1243 Maybe it's just the autism speaking, but I'd be totally into it. Let's get to brass tacks here and see if there are going to be any deal breakers right at the start. I don't want to waste three months dating you, only to find out that you're "not racist, [you] just think, you know, different races have different average IQs" or something.
@@samwisegamgee1243Well that's the best way to not have a great time. I'm exactly the opposite, great time first, getting to know who you really are later. At least when you get to realize the person is not the one, you could still say well I had a great time in the beginning. Also I think aggressive straight to the point interrogations are useless against potentially good lyers who can pretend very well to be the person you want. Spending time with a person and talking about various random things can give you way more information about someone. You gotta be a smooth investigator. I have dated many girls who were not slick with the obvious interrogation questions. Date looked liked a damn job interview. Absolutely depressing. Nowadays as soon as I sense the job itw type I call them out and remind them playfully that this is not a job itw, let's have a good time and if we don't like each other then nothing is gonna happen, not the end of the world.
Guy gets really self-aware at the end. He's so close to not being the worst, but he uses what communicative power he has to ask for what he wouldn't need if he put that reflective effort into treating his date like a partner and not his caretaker/management/doll.
even being able to say, re: the communication/relationship work "...because I don't want to do all that" is a little bit of welcome self-awareness. A low bar, but lots of people wouldn't even recognise why they were looking for someone to do that for them, or even that they were@@beepbeepcasucha
These guys will somehow relate you saying you got a coffee this morning to the passing of their dad 20 years old whom they didn't even remember just so they can get their sympathy points lol
You know how sometimes you've just identified and dropped a fuckboy, but still sometimes doubt your own conclusion, until a great satire of a fuckboy comes along and you're like "ah yep that's him"? I feel validated now lol, and grateful to be reminded that I'm not missing anything
@@oxhorn2906 DEEPEST of apologies, my good sir! Rest assured I will be most heedful to never phrase my idioms in the “current internet lingo” EVER again!😊
Isn't that the point of a first date though? Like sure, don't go trauma dumping and presenting your list of requirements, but just hinting at life experiences and what you want in a partner, that sounds appropriate
@@myname203y’all bitches be the same ones crying and having blood flow down y’all gashes moaning about “men deserve to be emotional too” , but when men Are actually emotional it’s him trying to have a therapy session . I actually agree with you that oversharing is weird but try and be less hypocritical will u women
Oh my god, I've gone on a date with a guy like this in 2014. He was explaining the British class system to me and told me basically that because I'm not white, it's not even a system I can belong to 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 it was insane. He said a bunch of other wild things and tried to kiss me at the end of it all.
The psychic damage I received from imagining actual going through this made me understand the full meaning of "weaponized incompetence". You're so damn good at bringing these characters to life
but how will you know if he's one of those guys who wont' do a god damn bit of work in the relationship (or with chores)? I guess you could look at his mother and if she looks too doting and like the type that always does his laundry for him then RUN
That WHY stuff like this is good. I'm gonna guess your from USA. USA people have this mindset where you have to capitalise on everything good and take it to most commercial platform or its a wasted talent or opportunity. That is where hundreds of regulations apply and change things. Its not just a sole creator putting up their videos, its a corporate machine, and usually the final product is a sanitised, less funny, broader product. Also, with short form comedy like this it leaves you wanting more. It would get boring after a while in long format. Basically, the reason why this is good content is precisely because it is not on TV and in a show. Some things are better just being left well enough alone.
@@NowhereMan7 You could've just disliked the comment and kept it pushing, homes. I read the entire novel you wrote under my comment but between you and me, it really wasn't necessary or that deep.
I’ve been on a ridiculous number of first dates from dating apps and I don’t think I’ve ever met any of these types of guys. They were boring but kind people and we had nothing to talk about, but they were never this. 😂 Either that or I left out of boredom before they had time to show their misogyny. 😂
I've never been on dates like this, but I have met guys who acted like this. They show their true colors once they're more comfortable around you though.
Hey@@rileymcphee9429 haha samanthamitchell was just referencing 1:05 of the video where s/he goes "women can do basically anything they want" :) Great catch abt the nostrils though, hadn't noticed before yr comment!
He seems like someone I'd lightheartedly make fun of through the date for my own entertainment, and then never see again 😂 "How did I know you'd say Michelle Obama 😆 Would you also have voted for her husband a third time if you could?"
The women who "challenge him" eventually somehow all end being "crazy nags who never appreciate him" during the relationship to his buddies when they're out drinking, though
Hey ladies, so when Caitlin made that “Vast” joke, what she did here is called mansplaining. Mansplaining is when a man condescendingly (condescending means to talk down to you) explains something to a woman that she already knows. Men do it to women who are often more educated (that means she went to school) and already know what they’re trying to explain. Did I lose you yet? Pay attention, doll. Almost done ;). So that causes women to be really annoyed as he’s implying that she needed his explanation. Now that you’ve got it, how about I teach you how to please a man. Haha. Heh. Here’s my phone, just put your number in.
The first 70 seconds of this is just a normal person… then the last 30 seconds he’s suddenly lazy and a simp. It doesn’t feel like a cohesive person, sorry.
I used to have a best friend like this. He was having a difficult time getting with women for a while. When I finally got to asking him what he looked for in a partner his view on it was completely selfish, narcissistic, and infantile („I want a woman who supports me unconditionally, never gets in my way, and encourages me whenever I’m down”). I kind of joked around and said, „So you’re looking for your mother?” followed by a laugh. He got quietly defensive and never opened up to me again. Sometimes I still look back at that time and hoped that I hadn’t joked around the awkwardness of the situation for me (though humour of that particular sort was our language), and maybe had approached it more constructively. I have much better friends now who are leagues more responsible and thoughtful, and I’m grateful for that but the shadow in me can’t help but feel like I could have been a better friend.
"I want a strong woman to challenge me" and all I could think about is that dude wearing her down by having to complain about him being a lazy ass and draining her of all spirit 💀💀💀
It's the worst when they don't actually sound mean, but it's so clear that they have a specific view of women.
Yes...
Try being in a relationship with a man who swallowed the red pill. You can guess the amount of respect I get. I'm leaving him.
@@usernameisunavailable8270 Leave his ass right now!!! I'm so proud of you!!!
@@usernameisunavailable8270good for you, sister! You deserve much better, good luck ❤
@@usernameisunavailable8270girlie leave him like yesterday😭 that red pill shit ONLY gets worse, like the worst marinate ever
Vast …. Crazy words , really.
tbh i heard she say 'best' n got confused
"You're so peculiar in a good way, peculiar? yeah it means unusual or more like unique in this case, sorry I use crazy words, I read everyday, try at least haha".
Words be crazy indeed
One of my favorite puns that is also words of wisdom is "Don't start vast projects with half-vast ideas."
I have literally never heard such big words before my silly girl brain- I am begging you to tell me more please
He has chlamydia and has had it for some time now. He also is fully aware of this.
Sup bay bay 😁
The only reason he doesn't know is because a strong woman didn't challenge him to go get tested. Poor guy 😅😮💨
He will not tell you
@@QueenShiva1920😂😂😂 true factsss 😂😂😂
Yea you gave it to him.
"passed away viciously" well that's a phrase that's going to be stuck in my head forever
Because of the CrAzY word he used?
" thank you"
"To shreds, you say?"
freaked me the hell out since that's precisely my experience - but i haven't been on a date before so not sure where that leaves me
And he was 5 and learned guitar 🎉
Women can do anything they want as long as they do his laundry as well
can you do you own...?
Please tell me your joking
@@MukiukiukiI think they were talking about how the ‘nice guy’ acts as though he’s empowering women when he really just wants them to satisfy his own desires, ie laundry
Yeaa
"Like, in my opinion women can literally do any job they want, and that's so empowering. Just as long as they keep doing the jobs they're supposed to be doing, you know?"
We call these “One Night Can’t Stands” back where I come from 🤠
"Can't Stands" 😭💀
That's exactly it! 😂 Because he's good looking enough and probably a decent lover (as in will go down and relatively care about your pleasure) but that's about it!
Made me lol
Haha this is awesome 😂
so you have sex with them when you don't even like them...what does that make you?
The way Caitlin is able to control her face to look exactly the way these people look like is insane
Seems like she either grew up around this or dated a lot of guys like this. Either way, her skit proves she has had lots of interactions with this type in order to duplicate it that well.
@@Ninjanimegamer Not necessarily. Depending on ones skill and talent, just seeing a type once or twice could be enough.
Its giving chad 😂
I’m starting to think you have some sort of magical shell amulet like Ursula from the Little Mermaid and whenever you see a train-wreck start to act a damn fool in public, the shell starts to glow and you’re like, “yes, keep singing! KEEP SINGING!” and then boom, two days later our screens get blessed with “Barista Who Clearly Got Cheated On and Ran Out Of Adderall Four Days Ago”
I heart this comment so much 😂 It started strong and kept getting better
@@vanessasalinas8583 right??
You win the internet this year.
That title !! “ Barista Who Clearly Got Cheated On and Ran Out of Adderall Four Days Ago” …. You slayed me!!!
This needs more likes
🤣
“I don’t know if anyone’s ever told you that” always feels like such a lowkey read 😅
It's pretty subtle. We all know what he meant by it anyway lol
Once, a guy said that to me & I responded “oh yeah, I hear that a lot actually - my whole life”, he had absolutely no idea how to handle it - but I got a kick out of it
Crazy because I never actually realized how bad it is until just now WOW 😅 - it always sounded like “you should’ve been told that before and you deserve to be told that” - but no you’re right - it’s a whole roast 😅😅😅
@@JoyaLewisTheMusicianwait what do you mean?
@@drea7474he’s implying she’s never been told that because she’s not actually stunning to most people
They all want a strong woman to "challenge them" despite taking no women in their life seriously enough to be challenged by them
Omg preach
💯🎯‼️
IWantStrWoman😅Said not one real human, ever.
"They all want" .............. okay ............ Now let's talk about the other "they" and what "they all want" ........
@@hilariousname6826 "They" is obviously referring to the type of men represented in this video, no other type of man or other "they" is relevant right now. Stay on topic or speak with your chest I beg
wanted to pass away viciously as I watched. great stuff
Any need to projectile vomit? The two things might not be linked. I was just curious.
My disgust was also vast
@@dubblebubbletoilandtrouble6646 I love a big vocabulary 😍/swoon
LMFAO
"Little Miss Jess" took me out ☠
just casually patronizing, no big deal /
He forgot to mention how much he just _loves and supports_ lesbians/bisexual women and how they're his favourite part of the LGBTQ 💀
100%
"I want a strong woman...to do all the maintenance in the relationship, 'cause I don't wanna do that."
OOF.
and a woman who doesn't take herself too seriously
Well done, you quoted what she said
my exact reaction to that too: OOF
m-mommy!! 😭😭😭
That’s pretty self aware to know that about himself lol
I can just picture Jess' reactions. She's definitely going to excuse herself to go to the bathroom, then mysteriously never come back...
Aw little Jess.
Well she was probably just too weak to survive that 5 minutes without a man.
To mother and communicate for and do all the maintenance in the relationship.
Imagine her name isn't even remotely close to being Jess lol
I think she went to the bathroom came back and then mysteriously got an emergency phone call and had to leave in a rush, (to never be seen again).
I had to turn this off because that's my name.
@@T_Cup
"Okay so Jess--"
"...My name's Janice."
"Right, right Jacquelyn."
This is one of those ones where you have to remind yourself its just a character to keep your blood pressure down
It is just a character, but the blood pressure goes up because we've dated so many of these same guys. Using the cool nice guy vibe as bait and when you see it and cringe and try to get away the meanness comes out.
Not the "And I love ethnic food as well." *(awkward silence)* 🤣
Lol
WHY was it so hostile!?!
that and michelle obama's book hits hard if you're a WOC and you date white men
@@mercedesbenzodiazapine reminded me of Get Out where he says “I would have voted for Obama a third time!” but somehow it was a threat.
Jess gotta be Black, Dominican, or Desi with that line😂😂
The way you said Thank you, right after the story of losing your pops LMAO 💀
Got me too lmao
"VICIOUSLY"
Was he Indicating that it was supposed to be a good thing, or just saying thank you in advance as if she was going to say "Aww I'm sorry"?? lol
@@trophyscene5015 i think it’s supposed to be “my dad passed away”, “i’m so sorry for your loss”, “THANK YOU”
Yeah, loved that detail
You could fully tell him youre a serial killer and he would keep to that tired script
"Wow, you're a serial killer? That's really breaking gender boundaries. Women can truly do anything."
I want to see this guy go on a date with Stanzi's empowered woman serial killer 😂
when he casually drops “vast” in the conversation it’s like take me now
You have a problem with people using incredibly common basic words? What the fuck?
@@misterviper1 Do you have trouble understanding everything?
@@Smuffy357Using the worst "vast" isn't the problem lol
the energetic bouncing 😭
my ex did the exact same thing, kinda made me die
And like arm shocks or shakes? Not sure how to describe it. Like pulling his shirt tight without actually pulling it
I'm betting the girl maybe got 5 words out that whole dinner.
I used to work as a barista, and me and my coworkers witnessed a lot of first dates like this. We never saw those almost-couples a second time.
"My dad passed away viciously" is such funny throwaway line
Viscously would have also been a sufficient substitute comedically.
Non-standard but fine use of language, true to his experience
If someone would have showed me this video in psychology class it would have made the concept of benevolent sexism way easier to understand
Tbh though I feel like it's too oxy-moronic of a descriptor really, I feel like "covert" would be a much better word than "benevolent" here
This video also makes malevolent sexism easier to understand.
@@feliciaroseantonia It's covert in trying to appear benevolent.
No, there's actually men out there who think and talk this way and believe it's good.
What's there to understand. Smarmy manipulation has always existed It's only the trends that change.
Date= interview is my worst trope of date
That’s the hard and tricky thing dating. You want to get to know the person and enjoy your time together but at the same time nobody wants to feel like they’re being interrogated. It’s really difficult to get that balance just right where you’re finding things out about each other that you want to know, but without it feeling like an interview because nobody wants that.
@@tigernotwoods914 I feel like I’m at the point where I honestly don’t care if it feels like an interview. Why beat around the bush and avoid the hard-hitting questions? Nobody wants their time wasted in the end.
Obviously I won’t ask like super invasive questions on the first date, but I’m definitely not gonna stick to only generic questions and hoping we have a good time. I think a lot of people are good at having fun, but that alone doesn’t make them relationship material.
@@samwisegamgee1243 Maybe it's just the autism speaking, but I'd be totally into it. Let's get to brass tacks here and see if there are going to be any deal breakers right at the start. I don't want to waste three months dating you, only to find out that you're "not racist, [you] just think, you know, different races have different average IQs" or something.
I was feeling this in my soullll 😭
@@samwisegamgee1243Well that's the best way to not have a great time. I'm exactly the opposite, great time first, getting to know who you really are later. At least when you get to realize the person is not the one, you could still say well I had a great time in the beginning. Also I think aggressive straight to the point interrogations are useless against potentially good lyers who can pretend very well to be the person you want. Spending time with a person and talking about various random things can give you way more information about someone. You gotta be a smooth investigator. I have dated many girls who were not slick with the obvious interrogation questions. Date looked liked a damn job interview. Absolutely depressing. Nowadays as soon as I sense the job itw type I call them out and remind them playfully that this is not a job itw, let's have a good time and if we don't like each other then nothing is gonna happen, not the end of the world.
Guy gets really self-aware at the end. He's so close to not being the worst, but he uses what communicative power he has to ask for what he wouldn't need if he put that reflective effort into treating his date like a partner and not his caretaker/management/doll.
He's not self-aware, that's Caitlin coming through at the end and saying what the guy actually means.
Buddy, it's a woman that made this.
Men are notoriously not self aware and it’s best to hold out until you find one of the few who is
even being able to say, re: the communication/relationship work "...because I don't want to do all that" is a little bit of welcome self-awareness. A low bar, but lots of people wouldn't even recognise why they were looking for someone to do that for them, or even that they were@@beepbeepcasucha
@@vapingfury4460thanks for explaining, no one was aware of that
These guys will somehow relate you saying you got a coffee this morning to the passing of their dad 20 years old whom they didn't even remember just so they can get their sympathy points lol
“I got this vocab app cause I’m trying to step my mental game up, ya know?”
He definitely plays those spammy games that are like, “HoW oLd Is YoUr BrAiN?” 😂
this physically hurt me
I COULD fix him, but my god, I do NOT want to
Yikes. Go outside to therapy maybe
@@MoonchildDontCry no no, I mean I wouldn't want to waste my time fixing him
@@howlt005 what you said was clear. i don't understand the first response, ha
"I can fix him" said literally every woman ever unsuccessfully 😂
congratulation on learning that lesson, what i can only assume, the hard way 😂🤝
You know how sometimes you've just identified and dropped a fuckboy, but still sometimes doubt your own conclusion, until a great satire of a fuckboy comes along and you're like "ah yep that's him"? I feel validated now lol, and grateful to be reminded that I'm not missing anything
Oh wow the aggressive “thank you” at 00:48 is perfect
the way i knew it was gonna be michelle obama 😩
Why though? I'm not American, so I don't get it
@@need_more_kittens MO is awesome but guys are saying this because that's what they think women want to hear. not that they actually want to meet MO
@@rk430able oh my god that is so wrong on many levels
I was banking on "My mother, she's such an incredible woman, you know?"
and if not her, he might also name someone like Oprah or Hillary Clinton. 💀
I, too, have been on dates with performative “feminist” men, they truly end up being the most pretentious POS’ so stay vigilant y’all
It's the repeated (and failed) attempts at performative male feminism that make this
“Little Miss Jess”
As a Jessica, I had a very visceral reaction to this.
Mood
I have been called Little Miss Jess far too many times as well 😂😂
Its the subtly not-so-subtle sexism for me.
"she's a stay at home mother, you know, the hArdEst jOb iN tHe wOrlD 😏😏😏"
Do you phrase everything in current internet lingo? It's giving....etc.
@@oxhorn2906not the uncalled-for critique
@@oxhorn2906 The word "subtle" and the word "sexism" are not internet lingo, maybe learn what words existed
@@oxhorn2906 DEEPEST of apologies, my good sir! Rest assured I will be most heedful to never phrase my idioms in the “current internet lingo” EVER again!😊
Somehow the worst part for me was the “what’s your story!?” My fight or flight flared at that part
Ughhh how he launches straight into some weird childhood trauma and admits he wants to be mothered on a first date 😆 too real.
You seem lame.
Isn't that the point of a first date though? Like sure, don't go trauma dumping and presenting your list of requirements, but just hinting at life experiences and what you want in a partner, that sounds appropriate
@@karolciszek8550 THIS IS NOT HINTING 💀
@@whodovoodoo2313 treating a first date like a free therapy session is lame in my opinion, whether it's the woman or the man over-sharing 💀
@@myname203y’all bitches be the same ones crying and having blood flow down y’all gashes moaning about “men deserve to be emotional too” , but when men Are actually emotional it’s him trying to have a therapy session . I actually agree with you that oversharing is weird but try and be less hypocritical will u women
Oh my god, I've gone on a date with a guy like this in 2014. He was explaining the British class system to me and told me basically that because I'm not white, it's not even a system I can belong to 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 it was insane. He said a bunch of other wild things and tried to kiss me at the end of it all.
Oh ew that's horrific 😂😂
Admit it you loved it
@stormcorrosion176 I'm sure you are that guy in fact.
I like the "tried to" part of this 🤣🤣
Getting to kiss you was not a system he could belong to
"It's, uhh, Jake"
Of course it is 😂
Chad and Incel had a baby. This is he.
😂
💀
So an average person then
VICIOUSLY 🥲
I'm curious now😂
The psychic damage I received from imagining actual going through this made me understand the full meaning of "weaponized incompetence". You're so damn good at bringing these characters to life
Ladies…save yourself from dating guys like these. It’s not worth it
but how will you know if he's one of those guys who wont' do a god damn bit of work in the relationship (or with chores)? I guess you could look at his mother and if she looks too doting and like the type that always does his laundry for him then RUN
It's the immediate "thank you" after saying his father passed viciously that takes me out 😂😂😂
She’s so good because I actually feel like I’m looking at a guy saying all of this stuff. 😅😭😭
"I just love using crazy words" uses a 5th grade vocabulary
And sometimes they use it in the wrong context to sound smart ERGGG
The “little Ms Jess” almost sent me into a rage spiral. Great job!! 😂
INCREDIBLE, i hate it, 10★, no notes
The fact that you don't have your own show is crazy 🤣
Hopefully, she's gonna somdeday have it
That WHY stuff like this is good. I'm gonna guess your from USA. USA people have this mindset where you have to capitalise on everything good and take it to most commercial platform or its a wasted talent or opportunity.
That is where hundreds of regulations apply and change things. Its not just a sole creator putting up their videos, its a corporate machine, and usually the final product is a sanitised, less funny, broader product.
Also, with short form comedy like this it leaves you wanting more. It would get boring after a while in long format. Basically, the reason why this is good content is precisely because it is not on TV and in a show.
Some things are better just being left well enough alone.
damn you should have your own show@@NowhereMan7
She could, though. Women can basically do anything, I guess?
@@NowhereMan7 You could've just disliked the comment and kept it pushing, homes. I read the entire novel you wrote under my comment but between you and me, it really wasn't necessary or that deep.
The thin lipped smile!!! You're too good at this
Is that a guy thing lol?
@breegilbert943
No clue, but the ONE guy I went on a date with, who was exactly like this, also had thin upper lip.
I don't mean when men (or women) have thin lips but the way they shape their lips when they speak, like they tighten them a lot(?) I recognized it
How do you die viciously? Bro, what happened? XD
Maybe food poisoning?
Some male mishap
Me who's never been on a single date: so accurate!!
That means you haven't had to have the hassle of dealing with dating apps yet. Enjoy it while it lasts!
Trust me you're better having been on no dates than being this woman
And I SWEAR they’re always musicians too! And the trauma dumping on the first date 🤣😭
She captured how we dudes are raised to think perfectly. It's why I love her content 🤌🏾
I’ve been on a ridiculous number of first dates from dating apps and I don’t think I’ve ever met any of these types of guys. They were boring but kind people and we had nothing to talk about, but they were never this. 😂 Either that or I left out of boredom before they had time to show their misogyny. 😂
you dont find out about that last run-on self-confession until you've been dating for a year or two
I've never been on dates like this, but I have met guys who acted like this. They show their true colors once they're more comfortable around you though.
Dudes always want a strong woman until they get a strong woman that won’t listen to them
1:08 when the date goes from okay to worst
How did she keep her nostrils flared the whole time?? 🤣🤣🤣
Women can do basically anything so...
@@samanthamitchell4115 ALERT!!
@@rileymcphee9429#whoosh
@@rileymcphee9429 Women can also say "whoosh" and move their palm-down hand over their head from front to back.
It's amazing.
Hey@@rileymcphee9429 haha samanthamitchell was just referencing 1:05 of the video where s/he goes "women can do basically anything they want" :) Great catch abt the nostrils though, hadn't noticed before yr comment!
You had me at "My name is Jake" and really nailed it at "I'm a musician."
The little tongue-to-lips action at 0:20 kills me 😵
my name is Jess so this video jumpscared me
lol - the hopping up and down in the seat as he gets "comfortable"
This is the worst ever but could have been EVEN worse if he mentioned cryptocurrency 😂
😂😂
He seems like someone I'd lightheartedly make fun of through the date for my own entertainment, and then never see again 😂
"How did I know you'd say Michelle Obama 😆 Would you also have voted for her husband a third time if you could?"
dudes really just encompassing the oedipus complex
Sometimes I feel sad that COVID anxiety keeps me from meeting people. This made me feel better. I'm never leaving my house again
Remind me to completely change my personality the next date I go on
“My dad passed away *viciously* when I was 5 years old”
lmao my brain trying to figure out what that could possibly mean
Aughhhhh. The visceral reaction right now. How do you do this every time?
The talking on the one side of the mouth at the bro moments. That’s brilliant acting.
Is it though?
"Every time I hear an acoustic guitar I projectile vomit" is what sent me 🤣🤣🤣🤣
the way she changed all her face muscles to play this man
The women who "challenge him" eventually somehow all end being "crazy nags who never appreciate him" during the relationship to his buddies when they're out drinking, though
i need to see how he handles rejection
Classic female behavior, we know how you guys handle it 🍆
^^^^
oh he loves the sound of his own voice, i just know that
He actually seemed like a pretty good guy up until the very end.
The way it just went from terrible to the worst in the last like 20 seconds.
He love bombs you for weeks/months and then says "I was never ready for a relationship, you were imagining things"
Hey ladies, so when Caitlin made that “Vast” joke, what she did here is called mansplaining. Mansplaining is when a man condescendingly (condescending means to talk down to you) explains something to a woman that she already knows. Men do it to women who are often more educated (that means she went to school) and already know what they’re trying to explain. Did I lose you yet? Pay attention, doll. Almost done ;). So that causes women to be really annoyed as he’s implying that she needed his explanation. Now that you’ve got it, how about I teach you how to please a man. Haha. Heh. Here’s my phone, just put your number in.
I'm a 6'5" 250lb guy alone in my apartment and I instinctually covered my drink with a coaster as soon as this video started
Wow. I think that one is Caitlin's best so far. It's clever, brutal, painfully realistic, painfully hilarious.
The first 70 seconds of this is just a normal person… then the last 30 seconds he’s suddenly lazy and a simp. It doesn’t feel like a cohesive person, sorry.
"I want a strong woman... to do all the maintence of the relationship" LOL
I used to have a best friend like this. He was having a difficult time getting with women for a while. When I finally got to asking him what he looked for in a partner his view on it was completely selfish, narcissistic, and infantile („I want a woman who supports me unconditionally, never gets in my way, and encourages me whenever I’m down”). I kind of joked around and said, „So you’re looking for your mother?” followed by a laugh. He got quietly defensive and never opened up to me again. Sometimes I still look back at that time and hoped that I hadn’t joked around the awkwardness of the situation for me (though humour of that particular sort was our language), and maybe had approached it more constructively. I have much better friends now who are leagues more responsible and thoughtful, and I’m grateful for that but the shadow in me can’t help but feel like I could have been a better friend.
Ah yes, the 'I'm a feminist because it gets me what I want, and absolutely not because I value women as equals' type
Wow i couldn't count all those red flags in one sitting! 😅
Lol “cause I don’t really want to do any of that”
"I want a strong woman to challenge me" and all I could think about is that dude wearing her down by having to complain about him being a lazy ass and draining her of all spirit 💀💀💀
At first it just seemed like he was trying too hard to say what he thought women wanted to hear, then it started to take a turn full of red flags.
"I love ethnic food". One of the most vacuous things anyone can say.
He sounded like an okay guy until the end
"Damn that date with this Caitlin was super fun, I should check out her UA-cam channel"
This is the vibe I get from all those feminist dudes you meet
Never been more relieved to fly the ace flag
I feel personally attacked.
I'm several layers deep into the cringe and I can't stop going deeper!
"It's shareables, right? You don't mind sharing?" Dude's about to order 5 days' worth of food, box most of it up, and ask you to split the bill 50/50
Yeah...there was a guy just like this who tried to shoot his shot with me, especially with "I need someone to tell me what to do 24/7."
He actually dosent seem too bad