SELF-SABOTAGE
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- Опубліковано 2 лип 2014
- ARE YOU YOUR OWN WORST ENEMY? DO YOU SABOTAGE YOUR BEST EFFORTS TO CREATE THE LIFE YOU WANT?
WHY DO WE STOP DOING THOSE THINGS THAT WE KNOW ARE GOOD FOR US? IF THIS IS HAPPENING TO YOU AND YOU FEEL LIKE YOU MIGHT BE TRAPPED IN A CYCLE OF SELF-SABOTAGE, TUNE IN TO OUR PROGRAM TODAY FOR HELP - Розваги
Wow hit the nails on the head on how I feel and what need to do to feel better. I know I want it but keep geeting back in same rut. This has given me more confidence to try again.
I am the King of procrastination . Was going to post this yesterday but then I thought to myself, "It can wait." lol!
Omg I need to hear this
EXCELLENT!!!! Thank you❤️
He's amazing
Thank you so much for the insights of changing old beliefs now for the new ones.What do I do about the fact I had parents who did not cope with my sight impairment ? I am somebody I am not dumb. God bless.
But if you are living your authentic self, you will find strength in this. You will be what you soul is truly. What other people want or think about or for you is not a factor here. You are not living authentically if you live the others want. Authentically you won't care what others think. you will be too happy doing you.
Great
Can't recognize me in that story. I am who I am, but sabotage myself mostly anyways.
The motivational speaker said, "You are God", and hopes everyone can believe that. I worship, and serve the God of heaven, and earth. It is blasphemy to me to even consider myself as God. To try, and persuade others to view themselves as God, is to set them up to believe a lie.
Beth Harrison Yep - that’s when I knew this was a message to lure listeners to a wolf in sheep’s clothing. BIG WARNING ⚠️ of MAJOR JUDGEMENT on that in Jeremiah 17.
It sounds sincere and positive, but given what we know about trauma and narcissism and other personality disorders - a little trite? Too naïve? When you show you're grateful, some people see weakness - yeah damn right you are, just like the sap you always were, eh. So they take advantage, your mindset is still too sabotaged I guess, and vulnerable to abuse from others. Is it any wonder that people with these problems don't live the life that they want to live.
+Marmamarquess True. The best way is to live a " narc free" life, push past one's fears, set boundaries and don't share ones inner life or dreams with them.
Alex Holt aka 'Brigham Palava' good point. I might add he appears to focus, as you develop a new self image, on personal empowerment, which to me means developing your intuition to guide you through the reality that there is dualism. And, that dualism is on a spectrum, meaning some people are more altruistic than others, but most all are self concerned first. This is why the system is designed by the powers that be to be a scarcity model. By keeping people in fear and anxiety, it forces a predominately self concerned psychology, because that's the "way it is." While that is true, it is a cultural creation, which can be changed. This is why from Lao Tzu on, it is said change begins with the individual, then the family, then the village, then the city, etc. As you know reality exists on a spectrum, you come to realize people, regardless of their true hearts, are not now fully selfless. This allows you to use this knowledge to protect yourself while at the same time understanding and loving them. This is called wisdom. Loving doesn't mean not recognizing a wolf in sheep's clothing, it means being as cunning as wolves, but as gentle as sheep.
Lex, I used to feel just like you do about change of self perception and getting others to honor that. It took me lots of time and lots of repetition.