They also complain when you make more money than them. The number of guys that get their feelings hurt when they learn I make more money than them. 😂 Pick a lane men.
Bull ish. Spend some time in rp and men's spaces. Successful men get ran thru the ringer every day by moochers and leeches. Ask them why they aren't trying to get in serious relationships or married again. We are waking up to the game and y'all can't stand it😂
No, men get angry when women have standards that women can't even meet. Facts! And I got money. This dude does not represent us he represents the pookies yall love.❤
I’m currently dating a man with a high paying career and he WANTS to give me everything..even things I never mentioned and didn’t tell him I want. He literally showers me with gifts.
Because they've gaslit us into believing that's all we deserve, and if we even consider financial stability before dating someone we get called gold-diggers.
I was going to post the same thing. When I'm having a hard time, the last thing I want to do is date. I don't want to bring my emotional issues into a new relationship and start it off on a bad foot. But men only think about their physical needs instead of what is best for themselves and their potential mate
As far as the women dating broke men thing, I’ve noticed that men like to gaslight these women into thinking wanting a man with money is “gold digging”. And it’s crazy cause those same men will tell a woman to “pick better next time” if she ends up with an ain’t sht man…ion get it😂
Most the time these broke men, will come up and leave the chick that was down for him while he was broke. I’ve learned my lesson on that. I’ll NEVER again do that!!
Watch how this works: Most of the time a broke woman will marry a successful guy, then divorce him so she can take half his resources and get child support and alimony. Same line of reasoning.
If you are so broke that a single drink can make or break you, not only do you have no place dating, you shouldn’t even be sleeping! You should be working overtime!
Tbh it’s not even about that. I have no problems doing gestures like that for women. I WONT do that tho if I don’t trust you. I’m not buying a drink for a woman who I’m not sure will smash or who might attempt to gaslight me.
No, don't get fooled by this behaviour, he might have a certain degree of self awareness, but his demeanour drastically changed to worse when he lost his money, now his bitter, resentful etc & calls women "entitled" simply because he can't afford what he could back when he had money, besides something tells me he was NOT a generous person even when he had money, he looks & thinks cheap, it's very odd how he understands why he dislikes them,but still chooses to be asssholish about it......
Girl you are so smart you put what I was thinking in words omg we need to talk to insightful intelligent women like you before we make decisions. I almost believed his act!?!? He called them entitled bro you paid attention fr I didn’t even think ab that. Thank you 🤎
This dude on my social media that I know is twice divorced with five children was complaining women like dates, whereas he thinks he should be able to get to know someone at a park cause it's free and won't provide any food after cause it cost money. 🤔🧐😅🤣🤣 Kid wtf. Many men that talk to women about relationships say women have the power, so just hold out as a collective and men will adjust...
@@JasonFlake-op1llthen date men then , like what else are we supposed to want from men other than protecting and providing for us. Like you calling her tuby cause cause you’re upset tf
That’s why broke men be the only ones worried about Gold Diggers. Men with money don’t even care about a Gold digger, their pockets so deep, the Gold digger gets tired before she reaches the bottom of his pockets and he’s just chilling.
@justjules if he doesn’t have six months of savings set aside for emergency or when he loses his jobs then he’s not a provider type. Why did he lose his job? Was it a lay off or he did something job? Why does he not have two jobs, so he looses one he can rely on the other. And if he only has one job, then he must be making high six figures, and if that’s so, then he should have saved that 6 months of emergency money: All of that…..dump him and move on, he has proven to not be a reliable partner. If I as a woman can create a plan a, b, c for unforeseen circumstances so should a man. Don’t help him, he would dump you when you are down. Men don’t have a sense of loyalty towards women who hold them down during the struggle. He may be mad that you left him at hard times but he would have more respect for you for doing that and other women will not suffer. We as women need to change our behavior.
One gay friend told me once frustrated “I need a job to be able going on dates” he struggled because he started again studying and couldn’t find a job besides. And he was so honest and stressed about. Now I remember. And it’s so true. If you don’t have money don’t date just work on yourself and find a work.
It’s natural for everyone to be irritated or upset when they’re not in the best financial position but for men, it’s a little bit different because they align their identity with how much money they make and so does society
Because they want the high maintenance girls to brag to their male spouses. Women are gods to them, and if they can get one to carry their defiled seed, then they've won the lottery.
What’s annoying is that men don’t communicate effectively. Like…talk to your partner about your struggles. Learn to communicate on your own too, it’s not a woman’s job to educate men on everything.
Women need to take the training wheels off of relationships and off of discussions. Men should be adults. But then men will complain that women are “too masculine” or “too blunt” and “mean”. Oh well I guess. Get with the program men
I'm getting to the point where I see men who pay for hair, nails, meals, experiences, etc. as dog owners giving out little doggy treats. How about instead they cash app us some money that we can directly deposit into our IRA... Now we're talking! Wise up ladies. The hair, nails, make up, clothes, shoes, trips, resturaunts, etc.... All of that stuff is for HIM almost more than it is for you. He's delighted that's all you want. Make these men put their $$$ where it counts... In YOUR high yielding savings/investment account. You can pay for your own hair.
The only reason why I'm glad he told the truth, is so women stop owning these criticisms, and second guessing themselves. If you are broke, you should not be worried about dating. At this point, this man needs to worry about going to therapy and developing his finances. They are not entitled to us, our bodies, or energy, and our time. There were times in my life where I pulled back from the dating scene, because quite frankly I was not emotionally well enough to handle a healthy relationship. I spent that time cultivating my mental, spiritual, and financial health. Not that I have to have financial stability to date, cuz I am a woman. However, it is better to date when you have your own resources, so you cannot be manipulated and Lord in by money. That being said, this is why I tell women to make sure that they date men who are stable and have more resources than they do. Financially unstable dude are dangerous. There are more likely to commit DV and infidelity.
They are getting women, they are getting frustrated. They should wait till more women choosing single and childfree. By 2030, over 60% of women would be single. Now they are quiet and asking for unity 😂. Ladies hold your ground!
Women should be entitled, to good, financially stable relationships. Women should be darn near worshiped, we carry & bring forth life of your children, while risking our own lives to do it.
Feminism and equal rights for women have determined.... That was a lie😂 Get off your high horse. Any female animal can get pregnant, spit out some kids, and still usually have to fend for themselves... Alone Blame nature for that too.
I don't know if it's the YT algorithm that keeps deleting my comments or if it's the creator.... But suppression of respectful speech in a 'public' forum should be a sign to you that you are spreading propaganda and intentionally creating an echo chamber. Someone is interested in keeping this 'divide' alive
Men still feel entitled to women when he’s broke and has the audacity to say she’s entitled. And he’s the one taking HER out to places that requires money on dates. And gets mad at HER about the situation HE put them in
My ex (female) fell on hard times but instead of telling me she lost her job, she treated me so terrible and lied to me about everything. I think honesty goes a long way and if it’s a person that truly loves you they’ll understand and support you through it. Im quick to tell someone I can’t afford it at the moment. The economy is terrible right now so I get it.
@@Gem-n-life the economy is reported to be doing well because reports treat corporations as people. It’s not a really accurate gauge on how the actual people are faring. Of course now that corporations are wealthier than ever the economy is doing well. They’re committing wage theft. Lol. 😂
@@Gem-n-life It's good if you're already well-off. If you're broke and trying to get the basics, it's horrible, even in cheaper areas. Most younger people can't get the basics like a car or a house, even though they make more money than previous generations, the economy is so trash.
Women have a right to decide. Stop being deceptive and tell them your money is down. If the woman decides to proceed, that’s great. If not, that’s her choice.
8:50, my current partner was the first man I've ever been on a date with that paid for me, and I didn't try and get me to order cheaper. Its a bizzar feeling when it happens for the first time, but he told me "if I did all this work to pick you up and take you out and ask you out, why wouldn't I pay for you?".
Yes, they think you should be living in a storage uinit like that guy with a woman. Some of us have standards. I guess some women will settle for anything. I donot.....
I wish more women could see this for themselves without men having to admit it..at soe point you have to be about to read in between the lines. You aren’t asking for too much they just don’t have it to give, even if he wanted to.
I’m a gay woman so fortunately for me I’ve never had to deal with this. However, I’ll say this if a woman ASK me out I expect her to pay and I do the same. If she ask me out and tell me what I can and can’t order the date is immediately over. I’m not gonna be a lush and order 3 drinks but if she get mad because I ordered a 5 dollar drink 😂😂😂😂. Gurl bye
I once was on a sushi date with a younger man who limited the number of rolls I could order 😅. He would tell me that's enough, no more lol. Mind you, I only ordered one or 2 little rolls, nothing extravagant. And he invited me to the restaurant in the first place. I think taco bell was more in his budget.
Yaay last guy!! Im from Miami and live in the Florida Keys now. Honey, Monroe County is on the top five most expensive counties to live in Florida. Not a hotel here is less than $200 a night, and don't get me started on the cost of living, we're talking $2200+ a month for a studio! My husband and I go out every weekend and see what he's talking about. Men with money come here to party, men with money, don't complain about money. Boat trips, fancy island dining, and seafood straight from the ocean you're sitting on. I get so happy seeing groups of blaq people visiting here 😌
Truth be told, I respect the honesty. If I had to pick, I'd say it's better to date a broke man who is working to get his money up than to date a broke man who projects his insecurity by calling you entitled. But I think what's best of all is for everyone to focus on themselves and their own financial stability before getting too involved with dating. Priorities! How are you gonna try to provide for a partner when you can't even provide for yourself?
They are children and women have to do the ABCs for everything. Women have to clap at them comprehending the obvious. I say give them their F's and keep it moving.
I’m “ENTITLED”!!! Entitled to make my own money, entitled to pay my own car note, entitled to buy my own house and even more ENTITLED to not let a man without financial stability invade on my coin.
And at the same time, they _always_ seem to forget that they expect EVERYTHING from Women! You ain’t payin’ for *nothin’,* dude! Even if it’s just for the pleasure of My good company!
Exactly. They call women gold diggers when they are the real gold diggers. Expecting women to bring in money, cook and clean up after them, birth and rear the children while being eternally young and beautiful.
Personally for me it's less about the money and more about honesty and effort. If you're broke, be honest but still put in the work to make your partner feel loved and appreciated. A simple card and some flowers just to say you love and appreciate your partner can go a long way. The problem is too many broke dudes expect to be taken care of by rich women with no effort on their part. Imo
Insecure men will always find a way to blame women for their issues and inadequacies. Don’t pay them any attention - trust and believe if they can’t blame you for one thing, they’ll find something else to blame you for.
Wow the lady w the glasses … she’s right….. I’m not your bxxxxx…. Lol 😂 is true when I go out my uncles pay brothers pay dad pays for every day 4 families no problem we aren’t rich we are immigrants … we work hard and to be able to have all our family together
@@kayshawnsimmons5585Yes, it does. If a person (within a long term relationship/not casual dating) isn’t supporting you when you’re down then that tells you how they feel about you.
That second girl hit it home. A date is NEVER too much, following through with what you say your going to do instead of trying to gaslight the person your with over your inability to follow through is absolutely ridiculous. Using the person your with as a piggy bank, and providing next to nothing in return is ridiculous. But the most comical thing that comes out of their mouth? You'll never find someone like me. Bruh I hope tf I don't, not again, lesson learned, standards raised, have a great day!!!
What gets onto my nerves that these type of men always want and go after the ‘entitled’ women that they can’t have and then get mad when they can’t afford them and when it’s time to invest
When a woman sees her man going through a financial hardship, she should curb her financial expectations for the moment. Common sense will tell you he can spoil you if he doesn’t have the money he used to. If he’s a MAN, he will get another job quickly because he doesn’t want to be financially unstable.
They expect everything for absolutely nothing. You need to be a woman, have kids, be feminine! But he doesn't have to be a provider, or a protector? What's the point in asking got something when you have nothing to give? You earn in everything, jobs, food, relationships, life.
Sigh. Sir, if you are too broke to date, don't date. It really is that simple. Getting upset with your date because you can only afford water with lemon is asinine.
That tracks. They really just complain about any standard or choice any random woman makes if it means he is less likely to date her and get sex because of her choice. 🙄
It’s natural to be frustrated when you’re broke, it’s not natural to project that on to others - that’s emotional immaturity. That’s a choice. Working on your emotional maturity is free.
My financial stability affects me emotionally.Therefore, I lose interest in dating and even hanging out with friends. My s3* drive comes to an immediate halt and all I'm focused on is paying my debt and regaining my financial stability. Why are these xys dating if they're broke? That's weird ,immature and irresponsible.
Self-awareness is the first step. Now, what is he going to do with this knowledge? Having standards and accomplishments is a good thing. It's only the people who are insecure about your achievements who try to shame and denigrate you.
Doesn't help the fact that he sounds like he never passed grade 3. Can't even rub 2 sentences together. For me, that's embarrassing enough. You have to bring some level of intellect with you. No airheads for me.
The young man may be broke but he is very good looking, funny, he is probably tall and best of all, he seems like he can take accountability. He has a lot going for himself. He'll be back on top soon.
If a man isnt rich and still gives you all he can he is a good man to! I respect that to. Hardworking man with normal money that cant afford everything but still do the best they can..
It would make so much more sense to just fix your financial situation. That's the most logical thing to do. But to complain about it? Is ridiculous. They are focused on the wrong things. 🤦🏿♀️
Yikes my ex did this and we were just at a drive thru😭😭😭😭 and had the audacity to be like “oh it’s okaayyy/my man my man” NEVA AGAINNN. Should have either waited until he got paid orrrrrr just left much sooner before he left me🤡…
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Not only are they mad at 'entitled women', they are also mad at the men who can AFFORD to spoil their partners.
This 👏
Yessssss calling men that are true "providers" simps! It's insane!
And they’re the angriest at women who make more than them and refuse to lower their standards lol.
@@ijustneedausername6742 This!!
Or who wants to. Just because he has money doesn't mean he's generous.
And you'll notice the ones complaining about gold diggers ain't got no gold.
not one!!!! *smh*
Exactly!
Right 😂
They also complain when you make more money than them. The number of guys that get their feelings hurt when they learn I make more money than them. 😂
Pick a lane men.
Bull ish. Spend some time in rp and men's spaces.
Successful men get ran thru the ringer every day by moochers and leeches.
Ask them why they aren't trying to get in serious relationships or married again.
We are waking up to the game and y'all can't stand it😂
Finally, A man admitted the truth.
l Agree
IKR
Yep. If only they could say, or even realize, "I get angry at women with standards when I can not meet them"
No, men get angry when women have standards that women can't even meet. Facts! And I got money. This dude does not represent us he represents the pookies yall love.❤
I mean, we already knew the reason lol
I’m currently dating a man with a high paying career and he WANTS to give me everything..even things I never mentioned and didn’t tell him I want. He literally showers me with gifts.
How did you meet?
That's how my sister current boyfriend is, they met on a cruise ship! He's super cool guy too
@@tarawiseloveWe met at an upscale restaurant, I was sitting at the bar alone and he approached me
What race is he? He sounds like a prince 👑!
@@bestlife9143 Thank you for responding. Wishing you all the best. I'm happy he has set himself apart as man who is unafraid to treat his woman well.
Why do single men keep dating while broke and why do women keep dating broke men?
Because they've gaslit us into believing that's all we deserve, and if we even consider financial stability before dating someone we get called gold-diggers.
makes NO sense🤦🏾♀️
I was going to post the same thing. When I'm having a hard time, the last thing I want to do is date. I don't want to bring my emotional issues into a new relationship and start it off on a bad foot. But men only think about their physical needs instead of what is best for themselves and their potential mate
A question as old as time lol…I’ll never understand, and especially when men are trying to meet new women while they’re broke.
As far as the women dating broke men thing, I’ve noticed that men like to gaslight these women into thinking wanting a man with money is “gold digging”. And it’s crazy cause those same men will tell a woman to “pick better next time” if she ends up with an ain’t sht man…ion get it😂
Most the time these broke men, will come up and leave the chick that was down for him while he was broke. I’ve learned my lesson on that. I’ll NEVER again do that!!
Watch how this works:
Most of the time a broke woman will marry a successful guy, then divorce him so she can take half his resources and get child support and alimony.
Same line of reasoning.
That part 🎯🤌👏👏
Exactly! They’ll mine us for resources then discard. Little Colonizers
😮💨👏🏾👌🏾🚩
Same, this is so common and than men be doing the opposite and go wife up somebody who wouldn’t haven’t given them the time or day
If you are so broke that a single drink can make or break you, not only do you have no place dating, you shouldn’t even be sleeping! You should be working overtime!
😂
I mean that’s how I think as a woman, idk how these men walk around carefree 😵💫
Tbh it’s not even about that. I have no problems doing gestures like that for women. I WONT do that tho if I don’t trust you. I’m not buying a drink for a woman who I’m not sure will smash or who might attempt to gaslight me.
@@xandraislova!!!!!
🤣🤣🤣
How much money a man spends on you is how he feels about you.
Don't let other dusties and pick me women tell you otherwise
What? Lol 😂
You're broke and not a Woman so you wouldn;t know @@DemocratsArePussies
Nah, men will spend a lot without caring too. Don't be fooled by something thoughtless and generic.
No, don't get fooled by this behaviour, he might have a certain degree of self awareness, but his demeanour drastically changed to worse when he lost his money, now his bitter, resentful etc & calls women "entitled" simply because he can't afford what he could back when he had money, besides something tells me he was NOT a generous person even when he had money, he looks & thinks cheap, it's very odd how he understands why he dislikes them,but still chooses to be asssholish about it......
I also sense a lack of generosity in him.
Girl you are so smart you put what I was thinking in words omg we need to talk to insightful intelligent women like you before we make decisions. I almost believed his act!?!? He called them entitled bro you paid attention fr I didn’t even think ab that. Thank you 🤎
Yes m3n who are generous and p0ur back into the source (a woman) never go broke. He was never generous.
Right bc put my drink back.. I got it😂
He’d basically mad he can’t show off and a female Can by just affording regular stuff..
Shouldn’t be dating while broke anyway
Exactly and always staring 👀and harassing women smh
@@Roxy-nn5vtnobody is staring at you little girl.
You're broke and harassing Women on a comment section. @@JasonFlake-op1ll
How do you know this? Not all men stare but some sure do. @@JasonFlake-op1ll
That goes for both genders
I would hope anyone broke wouldn’t be approaching a woman for emotional support, sexual activity, or time.
High hopes 101 🙃😄
This dude on my social media that I know is twice divorced with five children was complaining women like dates, whereas he thinks he should be able to get to know someone at a park cause it's free and won't provide any food after cause it cost money. 🤔🧐😅🤣🤣
Kid wtf. Many men that talk to women about relationships say women have the power, so just hold out as a collective and men will adjust...
I told him to use the telephone to get to know people for free and he whined for paragraphs.
Edit: it's also winter. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😵💫😵🥶🥶
Yet you woman do it all the time tuby?
@@JasonFlake-op1llthen date men then , like what else are we supposed to want from men other than protecting and providing for us. Like you calling her tuby cause cause you’re upset tf
That’s why broke men be the only ones worried about Gold Diggers. Men with money don’t even care about a Gold digger, their pockets so deep, the Gold digger gets tired before she reaches the bottom of his pockets and he’s just chilling.
Baby that part only the blue collar average short king PPbro miracle thousaners 😅
Fatherless most likely we raise a dumbass kid.
So he feels entitled to her time and attention despite being broke, but calls her entitled, okay
And takes HER out to places that requires money on dates. And gets mad at her about the situation he put them in :/
DON'T DATE OR RELATIONSHIP WITH BROKE MEN! Too many women keep thinking they can reinvent the wheel. You can't!
What happens if you’re in a long term relationship with the man and he goes broke or loses his job?
Most of you live with mommy or daddy.
@justjules if he doesn’t have six months of savings set aside for emergency or when he loses his jobs then he’s not a provider type. Why did he lose his job? Was it a lay off or he did something job? Why does he not have two jobs, so he looses one he can rely on the other. And if he only has one job, then he must be making high six figures, and if that’s so, then he should have saved that 6 months of emergency money:
All of that…..dump him and move on, he has proven to not be a reliable partner. If I as a woman can create a plan a, b, c for unforeseen circumstances so should a man. Don’t help him, he would dump you when you are down. Men don’t have a sense of loyalty towards women who hold them down during the struggle. He may be mad that you left him at hard times but he would have more respect for you for doing that and other women will not suffer. We as women need to change our behavior.
@@meganakinsanya4702 you're talking so much sense. I'm taking notes!
One gay friend told me once frustrated “I need a job to be able going on dates” he struggled because he started again studying and couldn’t find a job besides. And he was so honest and stressed about. Now I remember. And it’s so true. If you don’t have money don’t date just work on yourself and find a work.
Says the ones not working.
You're up and down Women's videos like a pansy. Go get a job. @@JasonFlake-op1ll
Even men require other men to have money to go on dates. Imagine that
It’s natural for everyone to be irritated or upset when they’re not in the best financial position but for men, it’s a little bit different because they align their identity with how much money they make and so does society
I be begging for overtime at work cause I know date night is coming!
Why don’t those men date on their level instead of going for the high maintenance girlies?
No such thing little girl.
Because they want the high maintenance girls to brag to their male spouses. Women are gods to them, and if they can get one to carry their defiled seed, then they've won the lottery.
Nobody wants a dirty leg. Even when they are broke 😂
What’s annoying is that men don’t communicate effectively. Like…talk to your partner about your struggles. Learn to communicate on your own too, it’s not a woman’s job to educate men on everything.
Women need to take the training wheels off of relationships and off of discussions. Men should be adults. But then men will complain that women are “too masculine” or “too blunt” and “mean”. Oh well I guess. Get with the program men
I'm getting to the point where I see men who pay for hair, nails, meals, experiences, etc. as dog owners giving out little doggy treats. How about instead they cash app us some money that we can directly deposit into our IRA... Now we're talking! Wise up ladies. The hair, nails, make up, clothes, shoes, trips, resturaunts, etc.... All of that stuff is for HIM almost more than it is for you. He's delighted that's all you want. Make these men put their $$$ where it counts... In YOUR high yielding savings/investment account. You can pay for your own hair.
Ain't nobody dating you crazy eyes.
Best comment on here!
I make them pay for both. I use their money to invest in my future and my appearance by collecting monthly or weekly sums and then I re-invest.
You’re a smart lady 😊👑
… yikes
they hate us so much but also won't leave us alone. he could just... not date. men really believe they're entitled to (at least one or two) women.
*pretends to be shocked* 🙄😒
We already know they mad cuz they're broke. A man who has it is a peaceful King.
Uncle sam's little girl.
That's why broke men should opt out of dating until they get their money up. They are impossibly unpleasant to be around
The only reason why I'm glad he told the truth, is so women stop owning these criticisms, and second guessing themselves. If you are broke, you should not be worried about dating. At this point, this man needs to worry about going to therapy and developing his finances. They are not entitled to us, our bodies, or energy, and our time. There were times in my life where I pulled back from the dating scene, because quite frankly I was not emotionally well enough to handle a healthy relationship. I spent that time cultivating my mental, spiritual, and financial health. Not that I have to have financial stability to date, cuz I am a woman. However, it is better to date when you have your own resources, so you cannot be manipulated and Lord in by money. That being said, this is why I tell women to make sure that they date men who are stable and have more resources than they do. Financially unstable dude are dangerous. There are more likely to commit DV and infidelity.
A man doesn't have to be rich but he damn sure better not be a financial burden to other people.
They are only concerned about mating. They don't care about dating lol
Ain't you that chick who left her kid from a pokie?
The dust is unsettling out here😂
Ok tubby.
They are getting women, they are getting frustrated. They should wait till more women choosing single and childfree. By 2030, over 60% of women would be single. Now they are quiet and asking for unity 😂. Ladies hold your ground!
Women should be entitled, to good, financially stable relationships. Women should be darn near worshiped, we carry & bring forth life of your children, while risking our own lives to do it.
Feminism and equal rights for women have determined.... That was a lie😂
Get off your high horse. Any female animal can get pregnant, spit out some kids, and still usually have to fend for themselves...
Alone
Blame nature for that too.
Exactly !
Amen 🙏
I don't know if it's the YT algorithm that keeps deleting my comments or if it's the creator....
But suppression of respectful speech in a 'public' forum should be a sign to you that you are spreading propaganda and intentionally creating an echo chamber.
Someone is interested in keeping this 'divide' alive
Exactly. If anyone should be worshipped, it should be women. Women literally risk their lives to create more life. That sounds praise worthy to me.
I don't know any broke man who treated his wife or girlfriend honourably
Men still feel entitled to women when he’s broke and has the audacity to say she’s entitled. And he’s the one taking HER out to places that requires money on dates. And gets mad at HER about the situation HE put them in
My ex (female) fell on hard times but instead of telling me she lost her job, she treated me so terrible and lied to me about everything. I think honesty goes a long way and if it’s a person that truly loves you they’ll understand and support you through it. Im quick to tell someone I can’t afford it at the moment. The economy is terrible right now so I get it.
Actually the report shows the economy is doing well. However, I understand what you’re saying.
@@Gem-n-life the economy is reported to be doing well because reports treat corporations as people. It’s not a really accurate gauge on how the actual people are faring. Of course now that corporations are wealthier than ever the economy is doing well. They’re committing wage theft. Lol. 😂
@@Gem-n-life It's good if you're already well-off. If you're broke and trying to get the basics, it's horrible, even in cheaper areas. Most younger people can't get the basics like a car or a house, even though they make more money than previous generations, the economy is so trash.
Women have a right to decide. Stop being deceptive and tell them your money is down. If the woman decides to proceed, that’s great. If not, that’s her choice.
Happy he said it. It's exactly that. It's not the men that have it that are complaining.
True
“If I’m asking you out on a date order what you want”
That’s the only type of men I’ve dealt with. I will never expect anything less.
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8:50, my current partner was the first man I've ever been on a date with that paid for me, and I didn't try and get me to order cheaper. Its a bizzar feeling when it happens for the first time, but he told me "if I did all this work to pick you up and take you out and ask you out, why wouldn't I pay for you?".
I'm rooting for y'all, it's a wonderful feeling that brought me to tears meeting a guy who actually valued me enough to pay for me. 😂❤❤
😂😂😂 exactly we been knowing this.
I saw a comment a few days ago calling a woman a gold digger because she said she wouldn't be homeless for a guy. They be gaslighting hard.
Yes, they think you should be living in a storage uinit like that guy with a woman.
Some of us have standards.
I guess some women will settle for anything. I donot.....
I wish more women could see this for themselves without men having to admit it..at soe point you have to be about to read in between the lines. You aren’t asking for too much they just don’t have it to give, even if he wanted to.
This. Nice he admitted it, but it's very obvious without male confirmation. We need to stop needing male confirmation to believe ish.
I’m a gay woman so fortunately for me I’ve never had to deal with this. However, I’ll say this if a woman ASK me out I expect her to pay and I do the same. If she ask me out and tell me what I can and can’t order the date is immediately over. I’m not gonna be a lush and order 3 drinks but if she get mad because I ordered a 5 dollar drink 😂😂😂😂. Gurl bye
You look like a guy.
I once was on a sushi date with a younger man who limited the number of rolls I could order 😅. He would tell me that's enough, no more lol. Mind you, I only ordered one or 2 little rolls, nothing extravagant. And he invited me to the restaurant in the first place. I think taco bell was more in his budget.
I don't need their self-awareness, we already knew it 💀
We've been saying this to them! "Finally" is the right word
Yaay last guy!! Im from Miami and live in the Florida Keys now. Honey, Monroe County is on the top five most expensive counties to live in Florida. Not a hotel here is less than $200 a night, and don't get me started on the cost of living, we're talking $2200+ a month for a studio! My husband and I go out every weekend and see what he's talking about. Men with money come here to party, men with money, don't complain about money. Boat trips, fancy island dining, and seafood straight from the ocean you're sitting on. I get so happy seeing groups of blaq people visiting here 😌
Florida has become and even bigger shit hole.
Truth be told, I respect the honesty. If I had to pick, I'd say it's better to date a broke man who is working to get his money up than to date a broke man who projects his insecurity by calling you entitled. But I think what's best of all is for everyone to focus on themselves and their own financial stability before getting too involved with dating. Priorities! How are you gonna try to provide for a partner when you can't even provide for yourself?
Thought it was obvious 😅
It was to women but we still need men to say the words out loud. For themselves.
They are children and women have to do the ABCs for everything. Women have to clap at them comprehending the obvious. I say give them their F's and keep it moving.
I’m “ENTITLED”!!! Entitled to make my own money, entitled to pay my own car note, entitled to buy my own house and even more ENTITLED to not let a man without financial stability invade on my coin.
And at the same time, they _always_ seem to forget that they expect EVERYTHING from Women! You ain’t payin’ for *nothin’,* dude!
Even if it’s just for the pleasure of My good company!
Exactly. They call women gold diggers when they are the real gold diggers. Expecting women to bring in money, cook and clean up after them, birth and rear the children while being eternally young and beautiful.
Smart women knew this already.
Personally for me it's less about the money and more about honesty and effort. If you're broke, be honest but still put in the work to make your partner feel loved and appreciated. A simple card and some flowers just to say you love and appreciate your partner can go a long way.
The problem is too many broke dudes expect to be taken care of by rich women with no effort on their part. Imo
No to many little girls with anime weeboos wanting to be a queen you probably can't even.
What a bum why u even take her??? to count and do 2 for $20 and share soda and 1 water oh hell no … If u are that angry …. Stay away from me
This is something we’ve been aware of, just glad that someone finally owned up to it.
I am glad the girl at 5:22 was talking. She was PREACHING!!!
Mark it on your calendars, ladies, a man said he was wrong.
My whole thing is if you are person who invited someone out, you should be able to pay. Why would you take someone out if you can't afford it?
Lol. We already knew this! Men with money and success don't worry about women having money and success.💁🏽♀️✨️
Most of you live off of welfare?
It’s ok to be angry, but it’s not ok to hurt people. lol. Advice I give my toddlers!
Don’t let society trick you into settling
Thank God for subtitles. I could barely understand that first dude. Boomhauer's baby brother apparently.
Kudos to dude. Maybe more will follow and be honest with themselves.
Petty & broke 😂😂...I guess the lady will choke on her food because he refuses to buy a drink with a meal.
Insecure men will always find a way to blame women for their issues and inadequacies. Don’t pay them any attention - trust and believe if they can’t blame you for one thing, they’ll find something else to blame you for.
If you don't have money, you should not date. It's hard but it could kill a lot of these problems.
When arrogant chad is broke then the tables finally told and they're getting their just desserts!
How about just getting a job and STOP buying tattoos?
Latinos in a nutshell.
Wow the lady w the glasses … she’s right….. I’m not your bxxxxx…. Lol 😂 is true when I go out my uncles pay brothers pay dad pays for every day 4 families no problem we aren’t rich we are immigrants … we work hard and to be able to have all our family together
💯 That’s how we are! Our men are raised with proper principles, and I see them treat the women in their lives the very same way.
You could also date in your tax bracket or don’t date at all until you got it like that.
Simple….Don’t date when you’re broke! 😵💫
Yup men with money aren’t pressed like the broke ones
Find a person that likes you for you
Right. Also, make sure that liking each other does not come before financial sense.
that has nothing to do with Dating while broke🤔
@@kayshawnsimmons5585Yes, it does. If a person (within a long term relationship/not casual dating) isn’t supporting you when you’re down then that tells you how they feel about you.
@@justjules2029 well this video was about dates. btw, dating is not a necessity. you could just opt out if you can't afford it atm.
@@kayshawnsimmons5585depends on why you’re dating
Interesting that he still describes the woman as "entitled" when he thinks he's entitled to her while still being broke/doing nothing for her.
That second girl hit it home. A date is NEVER too much, following through with what you say your going to do instead of trying to gaslight the person your with over your inability to follow through is absolutely ridiculous. Using the person your with as a piggy bank, and providing next to nothing in return is ridiculous. But the most comical thing that comes out of their mouth? You'll never find someone like me. Bruh I hope tf I don't, not again, lesson learned, standards raised, have a great day!!!
I lost some brain cells listening to that mushmouthery. 😩
What gets onto my nerves that these type of men always want and go after the ‘entitled’ women that they can’t have and then get mad when they can’t afford them and when it’s time to invest
When a woman sees her man going through a financial hardship, she should curb her financial expectations for the moment. Common sense will tell you he can spoil you if he doesn’t have the money he used to. If he’s a MAN, he will get another job quickly because he doesn’t want to be financially unstable.
Like the old saying....it ain't trickin if you got it
They expect everything for absolutely nothing.
You need to be a woman, have kids, be feminine! But he doesn't have to be a provider, or a protector? What's the point in asking got something when you have nothing to give?
You earn in everything, jobs, food, relationships, life.
Sigh. Sir, if you are too broke to date, don't date. It really is that simple. Getting upset with your date because you can only afford water with lemon is asinine.
That tracks. They really just complain about any standard or choice any random woman makes if it means he is less likely to date her and get sex because of her choice. 🙄
I laugh at men who flashes their money and things. Why? Those are the ones who don't have much
It’s natural to be frustrated when you’re broke, it’s not natural to project that on to others - that’s emotional immaturity. That’s a choice. Working on your emotional maturity is free.
News flash don't date if your broke
I LOVE this man's honesty. ❤
My financial stability affects me emotionally.Therefore, I lose interest in dating and even hanging out with friends. My s3* drive comes to an immediate halt and all I'm focused on is paying my debt and regaining my financial stability. Why are these xys dating if they're broke? That's weird ,immature and irresponsible.
Self-awareness is the first step. Now, what is he going to do with this knowledge? Having standards and accomplishments is a good thing. It's only the people who are insecure about your achievements who try to shame and denigrate you.
We stan an honest man, even if we don't want to associate with him 🫡
l Agree
Yes, let the truth come out.
“It ain’t trickin if you got it.” Most men with money don’t mind spending some on their woman.
Doesn't help the fact that he sounds like he never passed grade 3. Can't even rub 2 sentences together. For me, that's embarrassing enough. You have to bring some level of intellect with you. No airheads for me.
At least the first guy was honest.
She already broke up with him
20k????? You’re on your way to your goal and I am so happy for you 😊❤
The young man may be broke but he is very good looking, funny, he is probably tall and best of all, he seems like he can take accountability. He has a lot going for himself. He'll be back on top soon.
Shit .. at least he was honest lol
#selfawareness
If a man isnt rich and still gives you all he can he is a good man to! I respect that to. Hardworking man with normal money that cant afford everything but still do the best they can..
Unlike the majority of woman that live off of welfare.
It would make so much more sense to just fix your financial situation. That's the most logical thing to do. But to complain about it? Is ridiculous. They are focused on the wrong things. 🤦🏿♀️
as a broke man, living in this economy. i probably won’t be dating until my 30s hopefully inflation doesn’t outpace me💀😭
Can we pls be honest about how mean broke men are?
Yikes my ex did this and we were just at a drive thru😭😭😭😭 and had the audacity to be like “oh it’s okaayyy/my man my man” NEVA AGAINNN. Should have either waited until he got paid orrrrrr just left much sooner before he left me🤡…
Been chirping this for years but they only listen when a man says it
Well good for him anyway
This is why i say screw what men say...😂 its all insecurity...!
He be TIGHT!! 😂😂😂
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Clean your room little girl.
it’s nice to see a man with sense.