Feminine Energy Is Chaos. Indifference Makes You Irresistible

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  • @raxtrades
    @raxtrades Рік тому +259

    Us men have to be calm, cool and collected. The rock for her storm. The mountain for her switching weathers. When she wants space, we give it to her, but if she wants attention, we give it to her when we are not currently on our mission or purpose. ☝

    • @codymurphy998
      @codymurphy998 Рік тому +31

      Men have to do everything the female wants and receive nothing we desire 😂

    • @raxtrades
      @raxtrades Рік тому +36

      @@codymurphy998 No man, not what she wants. Then you would be a doormat. You do what you want, if she likes it she will follow

    • @brianwaller7383
      @brianwaller7383 Рік тому +27

      No man have the balls to call her out on her bs. Until men start doing this women will continue with their nonsense. Problem is most guys are afraid to lose the girl by calling her out. Most dating coaches won’t tell you this because it will inevitably lead to guys losing her and their books and courses will flop. These dating coaches will tell you to move on and her nonsense will continue unchecked. This is the reason why the dating scene is a shit show.

    • @raxtrades
      @raxtrades Рік тому +21

      @@brianwaller7383 I always call my woman out on her bs, she might get butthurt, but in the end, you gotta state your truth

    • @raxtrades
      @raxtrades Рік тому +13

      @@brianwaller7383 The key is to be calm about it

  • @timnichols7760
    @timnichols7760 Рік тому +162

    It's ALL about mindset. It's almost impossible to do the right things if you're still too thirsty. You must have an abundance mindset to have the right mindset.

    • @DUNEATV
      @DUNEATV Рік тому +12

      Giving yourself nut clarity before talking/texting works amazingly well!

    • @brianmeen2158
      @brianmeen2158 Рік тому +7

      I tell guys they need to get to the point where they can refuse sex from an attractive woman. If you can get to that point then you own the game

    • @brianmeen2158
      @brianmeen2158 Рік тому +2

      @@DUNEATVif I do that then I usually
      Never have the desire to talk to them
      Then 🤣🤣

    • @DUNEATV
      @DUNEATV Рік тому +1

      @@brianmeen2158 LOL! Probably a good thing!

    • @ethanarabia116
      @ethanarabia116 Рік тому +1

      Easier to have an abundant life than abundance mindset

  • @junky32
    @junky32 Рік тому +56

    Your knowledge is helping me throughout my 30s. Currently 32

  • @Gurubu
    @Gurubu Рік тому +26

    "Rejection breeds obsession" is such a strange and interesting concept. I have definitely fallen prey to this in the past myself

  • @jt_gray
    @jt_gray Рік тому +16

    Guys (and ladies).. if you haven’t subscribed to the Coach… DO SO NOW PLEASE. This guy single handily flipped my world and gave me a whole new perspective in life. His work is priceless!!! PRICELESS!!!
    I just ask that we get him over half a mill subs. That is a tragedy. The world needs to know this information!!
    “C’mon man”
    💪🏼😎

    • @Malitubee
      @Malitubee Рік тому +4

      Yea he’s truly a gem

  • @samundraghimire9281
    @samundraghimire9281 Рік тому +19

    First!!! I respect you coach! Love from Nepal.

  • @ApostleThe344
    @ApostleThe344 Рік тому +32

    I love the encouragement that our situation is not that bad... especially when she pulls back and she doesnt even say anything. Indifference allows you to not care whether she comes back or not. Love it

    • @ApostleThe344
      @ApostleThe344 Рік тому +3

      @talsapps Bro if you didn't do anything wrong genuinely, why is it your responsibility to open her up and get her to share? You create the space for it to happen and when shes ready she will come to you

    • @FunnyVideos-cl4qd
      @FunnyVideos-cl4qd Рік тому +1

      @@VoiceOfTheouch thx for sharing. I’m single 11 yrs about to try my luck at 31 … wish me luck
      Plenty of relationships+sex in my teenage years, so I’m not new to it. It’s just been awhile lool😅🎉😂 no sex over that 11 years. Was more so by choice, or not idk, just got busy with work and life. Own a house now though😈🔥🤘🏻
      Hoping these women don’t tear me apart. But they might. Luckily, while it’ll hurt, ehh, I’m used to being single at least 😂😅😂😅
      I get matches on apps now but nvr talk to em much. 😕 just not ready yet.
      I’m figuring it’s best NOT to mention how long I’ve been single & without sex. Man. That’d be pretty hurtful if I confided in a woman I liked like that, and she was “turned off” or made to feel in some negative way about it.
      And yeah, while it may not happen then if I tell her, she may say months later “that’s a problem for me” like wtf 😂 you all I got, I’m just trying to enjoy my time with you, why you have to be fuckin mean like that? You have a secret?
      We’re you raped? Should I shame you for that and tell you what a PROBLEM!!!! it is 😂😂🎉🎉🎉😂🎉😂
      I mean come on. A little common sense, and self-respect will be your best coach to know what to do. That said, some of Corey’s stuff about texting and etc are great tips if one wasn’t already aware 😂 depends on situation tho

    • @classicphysique9493
      @classicphysique9493 Рік тому

      @@VoiceOfTheshe’s probably jumping around

    • @st.toussaint4632
      @st.toussaint4632 8 місяців тому

      @@VoiceOfThehahaha Ls

  • @davidj5425
    @davidj5425 Рік тому +19

    Thank you Corey! Perfectly timed. Have some feminine chaos going on in my life from different areas. I wish these ladies would behave themselves but they like to test us. Needed a pick me up to remember to remain cool and indifferent.

    • @TGP109
      @TGP109 Рік тому +1

      Who is to say she's ''testing you''? Be careful not to project your own confusion onto another.

  • @christianmercado5510
    @christianmercado5510 Рік тому +11

    Corey, I was seeking my purpose path about 5 or 6 years ago and I stumble on to your book and videos. In great part, thanks to you I was able to reach a level where I knew exactly what I wanted and how to get there. I purposely put all my efforts into manifesting these objectives and I can tell you that I live a happy life. It took a few years into building, but for the past 2-3 years I have been pursuing these life goals and I can’t be happier with the results. I just wanted to thank you for your existence and guidance, you add so much value a lot of us. Thank you 🙌🏽

  • @jasonschell7473
    @jasonschell7473 Рік тому +18

    Dude I watch video after video, read the book over and over. Listen to it read along with it. And something else clicks everytime.. and I'm a piss poor student. I own my own business, and everything other than relationships are good to go. I been following since a horrible breakup in 2017 and totally messed that up. I'm the common denominator in every bad relationship I have had. 14 times of reading that book, and I'm still learning..

    • @JamieDrumz
      @JamieDrumz Рік тому +5

      Keep at it mate. Like you I had a nasty breakup back in 2017 also; luckily I found Corey’s work as a result and my dating life is now completely different for the better 💪 keep putting the time in and the results will come. You're already three reads ahead of me!

    • @AYYYEEEEYOOO
      @AYYYEEEEYOOO Рік тому

      Yeah man keep at it. I have pretty integrated EVERY 3% principle and have been reading the book since 2017. Almost at 20 listens of the audiobook, I have the kindle version and highlight all type of things.
      The issue I am growing through and healing is me acting weak and insecure around pretty girls that I like.
      I will heal this because I believe it comes down to me have a low self view in this area. I can date and fuck a 6 all day 24/7 but when I get a 10 to me it’s over lol

    • @Carloss86py
      @Carloss86py Рік тому +1

      Read the book a bunch of times. Stop being lazy.

  • @Anthony-fe4oj
    @Anthony-fe4oj Рік тому +6

    It’s crazy because I used to use my ex as a gauge for the beginning of relationships. We basically had lust the day we met and were so attracted to eachother. We ended up falling in love and the rest just flowed. So I always used to say “you don’t have to make them think. If it’s there, it’s there”. However, looking back and truly delving into my history, I forgot I was a challenge for her. I didn’t want to rush into a relationship because she just broke up with her kids father, and I thought it was too soon for her to move on. A wanted more time for him to get over it before it caused chaos. A few months later she gave me an ultimatum. She said either I’m your girl or I’ll move on. So I made her my girl friend. So it’s definitely true. You have to show mysteriousness, and they have to think they want you more than you want them.

  • @neotenylv09
    @neotenylv09 Рік тому +6

    Robot Wayne is hilarious!! 🤣🤣

  • @KaraRocknRoll
    @KaraRocknRoll Рік тому +7

    I swear even though it’s inevitable you become a robot, it’s still funny.

    • @shayandrs
      @shayandrs Рік тому +1

      What you mean by that

  • @brianwaller7383
    @brianwaller7383 Рік тому +30

    If a woman is put off by the attention you give her because it comes off as “desperate “ that means she wasn’t really interested in you. You were “meh” to her. If she’s into you she’ll make it very easy for you not hard or even debatable.

    • @brad3201
      @brad3201 22 дні тому

      They absolutely do make it easy for you when the attraction is high. My problem is my gf has a drop in attraction every 2 months or so. Last time was around thanksgiving. This time it is the middle of January. Take a week or so of really following what Corey teaches and then she’s back to normal. I’ll take it though, she responds well when I stop giving her interest for that week.

  • @ludovico117
    @ludovico117 Рік тому +5

    We latinoamerican guys need this in spanish.
    Here in Colombia we have lots of simps. Including myself.
    One example is a friend of mine.
    He got another girl older than him. Again.
    The first one cheat on him and she is older too.
    The thing is that he thinks in those kind of "disgay" (disney) storys and think in marrige more than the woman.
    I shared with him the 3% man pdf book and I bet he hasn't read it yet.
    Thanks Coach Corey for all your teachings.

    • @1by110
      @1by110 7 місяців тому

      While watching the video , click on "settings"
      Click on "captions"
      Click on "Auto Translate"
      Choose Spanish

  • @jacobo4606
    @jacobo4606 Рік тому +8

    Corey, Thanks for your teaching. Your work has a Lot and great value !

  • @FBA2025
    @FBA2025 Рік тому +4

    Going through a nearly identical situation, I couldn’t stand my kid’s mom at times but now that she’s finally left I apologized for my jack in the box behavior and I’ve been in no contact for about 2 weeks now

  • @Stuntkrazy929
    @Stuntkrazy929 Рік тому +4

    I'm liking the follow up emails you've been doing lately coach B)

  • @gerarpope6581
    @gerarpope6581 Рік тому

    Lol, I would finally figure this out in the later years of my life, never having a video or Coach or even a book to confirm this. 😅 Some of us really do #liveandlearn 👍🏾

  • @thereverendgypsy
    @thereverendgypsy Рік тому +2

    Corey Wayne is an amazing teacher. Thanx for your every word

  • @timothylloyd3852
    @timothylloyd3852 Рік тому +8

    If she wants to walk let her . Wish her the best . If she comes back , depending on what’s she’s done when she split , regardless of “why “
    She walked in the first place , she may be just and FWB or possible back in relationship . Either way , who gives a shit . Plenty of open doors to walk thru instead of beating on a closed one .

  • @hamzatayyab8450
    @hamzatayyab8450 Рік тому +3

    Great Advice Coach. Shout out from Pakistan!

  • @brianmeen2158
    @brianmeen2158 Рік тому +3

    “Indifference makes you irresistible”
    And yet so few guys realize this and of the % that do, most won’t put it into action.

  • @johny8113
    @johny8113 Рік тому +1

    I have watched your video, Indifference makes the difference.

  • @remdut4634
    @remdut4634 6 місяців тому +1

    If the girl is too chaotic or is a mess. There is no way to keep your peace around that. See it and act like a catch and move on to the next one.

  • @ninedaniel8626
    @ninedaniel8626 4 місяці тому +1

    Always let the woman come to u at there own pace, I started this and it works , marriages no it doesn't cause living together brings her attraction level low. I live alone now and I'm never going to live with a woman again ,

    • @lillehammerexperimental
      @lillehammerexperimental 3 місяці тому

      My long term gf got way more into me again after I found my own place- totally refreshed the relationship after living together for many years

  • @Goddess_Garden
    @Goddess_Garden Рік тому +8

    Distorted feminine energy can be chaotic but so can distorted masculine energy…

    • @ShadePuppet
      @ShadePuppet 10 місяців тому

      I'd say corruption is a more accurate term for distorted masculine energy. That being said, true feminine energy is *freedom*; it only becomes chaos when unchecked my order, which is the true energy of masculinity. Order and freedom become corruption and chaos if they're unchecked by the other.

  • @Summer25080
    @Summer25080 Рік тому +1

    Like my ex. I started to feel done because he was so not behaving like a strong man. He had nothing for me to be proud off....so i backed off little by little. And he asked me to move in with him for the second time, asked me to marry him while we were just busy cleaning the garden and got into an little fight because i did not gave him enough attention and he told me it made him feel insecure. (I was cleaning the kitchen...) We were together for 3 months!!! It made me even feel more turned off and in the end i got sick for just spending time with him 😂 I broke it off and i never felt better! 🎉🎉🎉 He was just a weight on my shoulder. Not a nice person to have around.

  • @anthonyjacksonjr4812
    @anthonyjacksonjr4812 Рік тому +1

    Words of wisdom, Coach. 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾

  • @kaursiilbek8995
    @kaursiilbek8995 Рік тому

    Good to see you again ;)

  • @amiramenra8296
    @amiramenra8296 Рік тому +1

    Calm before the storm.
    Men First.

  • @newdrug1880
    @newdrug1880 Рік тому

    I'm on my 10th reading of the book! :D

  • @Garry-h4v
    @Garry-h4v Рік тому +2

    Will Robinson, danger danger danger! lol

  • @ralfj.1740
    @ralfj.1740 Рік тому +2

    Over pursuit mode is bad.. Super pursuit mode in Knight Rider was pretty cool ;)

  • @funnyegg
    @funnyegg Рік тому +1

    Amazing advice as always! Thank you coach!

  • @caterinadelgalles8783
    @caterinadelgalles8783 Рік тому

    I LOVE YOU COACH COREY WAYNEEEE!!! ❤ (a hysterical woman, but I hide it.....mostly/never ) 😅😅😅😅😅😅
    He is so no bs.
    I use you as Vital Life Advice in just Life. Xxx

  • @joen8529
    @joen8529 Рік тому +7

    Too many people know this advice now. All the competition knows this stuff, and if every man is indifferent, the most attractive looking and financially secure indifferent guy still wins most of the time. It’s still great advice, it’s just that a huge percentage of dudes know this stuff now, so it provides less of an edge than it used to. I’d say knowing this makes you more of a 20% man than a 3% man at this point.

    • @joen8529
      @joen8529 Рік тому +2

      That said… I will concede that 3% is probably still close to accurate for those who’ve read the book 10-15 times. Hahha. Just the basics like indifference, that type of “secret” is out.

    • @scottrc5391
      @scottrc5391 Рік тому

      No, the "competition" knows how to FAKE being indifferent, but a man who is actually truly indifferent is still relatively rare. I know men in their 50s still chasing after women and doing stupid, wimpy things like they're schoolboys. So you can FAKE it, for a while, but you'll slip up eventually.

    • @CoachCoreyWayne
      @CoachCoreyWayne  Рік тому +35

      Nonsense

    • @joen8529
      @joen8529 Рік тому +3

      @@CoachCoreyWayne Hey! Nice!! I got a response from the Coach. Hell yeah. haha..
      Soo… You think? Ive been watching you on and off for years, and at the beginning there was very little like that advice, but these days I feel like every last single dude I meet says “you need to be indifferent to win…” or some variation of that.
      Now maybe they aren’t good at actually putting it into practice, or they haven’t read the book or read it enough times to do it right… I guess I have no way of knowing that…
      See I also believe your advice is the best out there I’ve seen… it just seems like this particular message has caught on like wildfire because in fact you are right… (a testament to it being great advice indeed,) but to me at least, it seems like it also spread *so crazy* that half the dating advice people on the net out there have ripped you off because of that.
      Kinda like what Commissioner Gordon said to Batman… “Escalation.” What once was more rare has now become a necessary foundational skill…
      I can also concede there’s absolutely a good chance what I wrote really is in fact nonsense. You’d probably know much better than I would because you are the one dealing with all these guys. I just know what I’ve seen firsthand myself, a very small sample no doubt.

    • @kellykiser7600
      @kellykiser7600 Рік тому

      @@joen8529 Everyone may know it and say to do it. Few do and blow it. You know that to be true. Men know how they should act but don’t. So who cares if everyone knows almost 97 percent wont follow it or lose their center at some point and blow it.

  • @Singhamanus5
    @Singhamanus5 Місяць тому +1

    22:47 LISTEN TO THIS BROTHERS ☝🏼😕

  • @efrencalvario
    @efrencalvario Рік тому +11

    i know she will be back , and i will be ready, i thought i became more mature but in reality i became more soft and femenine , when i was 16 my first indoor Olympic adventure was with a 36 YO woman then with a 38 years old woman my whole dating life was so easy i knew what to do and i did never care about failure i used to act like a 3% men without knowing it , till i got in my mind that being real and being nice and all that BS we see in the movies would it bring me a better woman haha i am gonna be what i was and i am gonna do what i know will bring me the results i need in my dating life
    She reached out and I just asked directly. I hope you are doing well ,I miss that pretty face of yours. Let's get together when are you free? Well we have a date this Friday. ..to be continued

  • @jacksongutierrez4920
    @jacksongutierrez4920 Рік тому +4

    Just head my girlfriend and her roommate talking behind doors and she’s thinking about breaking up with me :(. She was saying to her I deserve someone that’s more all over me like I am with her. Sucks to hear man

    • @JeremyBarbell
      @JeremyBarbell Рік тому +5

      That’s a gift man, you know what you need to do. Back off and let her do all the initiating. Wait for her to reach out then court her with a date night and have some sex. Mirror her level of interest. If she still isn’t all over you, then she’s just not that into you and you can find way better. Trust me, I just broke up wit my girl of 2 years cuz she wasn’t reaching out at all. It was all me and I got tired being the only one putting in effort. And I feel way better now.

    • @beekenko2379
      @beekenko2379 Рік тому +11

      Let her go it’s over. When she sends you the “we need to have a talk” text. Simply say “ok” and when she says “it’s not you, it me” “I need to work on myself” you reply “okay.. take care” with a smile and walk away and never look back or talk to her again

    • @davidj5425
      @davidj5425 Рік тому +5

      @@beekenko2379 This is truly the best proactive "gotcha" approach when you are tipped off that it's coming. Process that ending in your own time but don't let her see you suffering. Then when she ends it you just accept it calmly with your chin up. If you've traditionally been more codependent then It's the last thing she'll expect and she'll be questioning her decision for months just because you reacted in a strong, masculine way. God I wish I did that with my ex when she broke it off. I did it right at first, but then I couldn't hold it and caved after a while. Didn't stay congruent. I wish I had. There is so much abundance, and she wasn't worth grieving over for so long. Love was cheap and fleeting to her anyways.
      Now I'm with someone else and the only thing about that ex that bothers me in the slightest is how I handled it at the end. If you have the gift of foresight DONT screw it up! Be strong and respect yourself!

  • @basketweaver1144
    @basketweaver1144 Рік тому +5

    Corey loves that ignoring reality quote, but to me it seems like the most useless quote, because who thinks they're ignoring reality? Everyone believes they have 20 20 vision, so they will agree with that quote even if they miss something.

    • @sekhabisa
      @sekhabisa Рік тому +2

      Deep down you know when you ignoring the reality!!

  • @viperpodcast
    @viperpodcast Рік тому +1

    I tried to find the portion where we can pay for an email on your website under the products tab. I didn’t see it. I want to do a paid email!

  • @HaydenHero
    @HaydenHero Рік тому

    Man, I really need to get off my ass and read the book more. I’ll admit I’m lazy as hell with reading lmao

  • @Reinguko
    @Reinguko Рік тому +1

    Yup, even if she goes away like a cat and cheats on you just be a rock. It sounds so f****** stupid when you say it all out. But the fact is, how many girls are there? Are you gonna find that will respect you? Shall go out, get tired, get bored of you cheat on you and come back because you're cool and collected? I think the hardest thing for me is accepting it. And letting her come back into my life. Which if I have an abundance mindset I wouldn't. But just because I have an abundance mindset. Doesn't mean I get all that p****

  • @anonanon4194
    @anonanon4194 Рік тому +2

    His coaching advice is solid, but it is sad that guys can't be themselves, by that openly expressing their feelings and have to follow strict guidelines to keep a woman interested. Also not sure how this applies to situations where you are exclusive and in a long term relationship, his advice to women going cold is to keep yourself distracted by paying attention towards women who are more open. If exclusive, most guys are not in that position. When dating however, that is fine.

  • @SolReaver
    @SolReaver 6 місяців тому

    Healthy loving relationships require intelligent “experiential-knowledge” and not really intellectual knowledge... GENTLEMEN! You can’t cut any corners when it comes to relationships, you either get your repetitions in if you want to be masterful and have them work. Cause if you’re not having success, you are either not getting your repetitions in or you are not doing the right things. Make sense?

  • @benjaminholt6640
    @benjaminholt6640 8 місяців тому +1

    This is why men must at lesst once in their life practice semen retention. This is the fastest way to crush that needy energy

  • @DR4SH3R
    @DR4SH3R Рік тому

    How do I get a signed copy of how to be a 3% man?

  • @gregorycurrier8383
    @gregorycurrier8383 Рік тому +5

    If these guys haven't read your book 15 times,, they certainly haven't read Doc Love's dictionary (like you recommend ed,,, ) they end up consequently as cannon fodder

  • @abrahamcordova3796
    @abrahamcordova3796 Рік тому +4

    i miss the intro song :(

  • @DR4SH3R
    @DR4SH3R Рік тому +2

    Corey Wayne for life

  • @marcrigor6423
    @marcrigor6423 Рік тому

    Blows my mind Western guys have to beg their own baby mama for a date. And Corey won't even discuss the fundamentals of that bprobably because it's outside the scope. Sad stuff.

  • @namename3139
    @namename3139 Рік тому

    my mum is bd to me
    so i go away
    but then she talk to me again, and tries and disprects me

  • @bigl9478
    @bigl9478 5 місяців тому

    A significant portion of this video is just him chastising and ridiculing a fan for not memorizing his stupid book. It goes on for a really long time and he just keeps repeating himself over and over. I clicked away at that point.