Why it's difficult to go again after one round of sex
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- Опубліковано 29 чер 2024
- This video highlights your sexual refractory period. The reason why you can't seem recover fast enough to go multiple rounds when it comes to sex and what you can do to improve your situation.
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00:00 - Intro
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When the time comes !
Ok
Alcohol actually helps a lot in lasting longer during the act.
B*tch cook multiple meals!!!
Jessy I’m a video and graphic designer and I would like to work with you thank you 🙏🏽
She Even went as far as inviting a professional Doctor to get us educated. Ma'am you are a humanitarian. Love you
In my experience (54 male, never slept around 😂) the quality of Sex changes with age. In my 20's it was all about intercourse, in my 30's i found out that foreplay is awesome, in my 40's i discovered the power of words and creating fantasies and now i combine all i have learned and don't care about performance anymore 😁
So true!
I have to get my words and fantasies up 😂
Nobody gets an award going many rounds. You simply just wear yourself 😂😂😂
True
Hattrick!😂😊
I can attest to the fact that the more you are attracted to your partner the shorter the refractory period. Until I met my partner that I am so attracted to, my refractory period was so long and most of the time I won't go another round but with my partner I realize I don't take too long to recover.
yeah, I don't even have any
big facts. messing with girls youre not absolutely attracted to will do that to you
Sex comes from the mind. The appetite you have for the woman would enable you to bounce back quickly. Change in your partner's body appearance and the way she has been treating herself would make you lose a taste of her. Also if you have a bad relationship with her can make going run two very difficult. Men love a respectful, clean, trustworthy woman, even though you can't get her 100%. Lastly, when you jumped on a woman without running your hands around her body for sometimes sex becomes very tiring and that would make the man lose energy and cannot bounce back again.
Wow, your channel has really grown... 1.06Million subscribers! I started watching your channel when you had about 250k subscribers. Bravo! For the growth ✊
Guys my advice is:
Step 1.) Do only what you can do, then go to bed and sleep well. You will live longer if you sleep well. Don't kill yourself because of guilt trip. Good luck with a partner who appreciates what you do, not what they see other people doing in porn movies after taking performance enhancing drugs. Peace!!!
Step 2.) Follow step 1 and don't buy that drug they're selling... unless you need it.
You absolutely right about those pills. Some don't even work
Abi oooo, no go die on top of woman
I love your comment brother
Hey y got the best advice ever,be who you're
I agree 100% Do what you can😂
I think hitting the gym and cardio really works good whether young or old age
State of mind 💯. Thats something very high if not #1 for us women for sure. Alot of men dont seem to understand that, if she isnt feeling secure in your relationship, tired, if she doesnt feel good about her body etc she will be over thinking and therefore her performance.
That’s why I don’t bother with the big fat ones
Very informative and beings out solutions for many of my silent questions.
Attraction to partner plays a role in this as long as you are healthy....anxiety, depression, stress etc. Effects it also.
Thanks bruh, finally someone agrees with what I been saying.
I agree with you with the attraction to partner. It’s very important
@@leoatrulionking7772 yessirrrr!
True. Some women will stimulate you more than others.
True man
I love the knowledge this doc possess
I now understand !
Thank you for your information.
Jessica ft your Doc allow me to scream "Bravo ! Bravo !
Great explanation and clarity indeed, thanks for sharing.
Thank you Jessica and your doctor guest.
Hello Jessica, I have been listening to your presentations from time to time for a number of months. I find what you present to be informative. Also, you dare to present information that is helpful about topics that others seem to avoid.
I appreciate what you do.
I am looking forward to more.
Wilson
Wow, thank you!
Thanks madam Jessica and our Doctor.
You know what you are doing.
Great topic Jessica and thank you for bringing the doctor on this episode. T
Jessicaaaaaa I miss you ooo been listening to you since Jhs through to my masters n marriage we need a 24hr podcast😅😅you always made radio so exciting n informative God bless you
Been away for a while,I see some serious growth, continue helping boychild
Blessings on this one Jessica 🇧🇧
Some of the video content I done and also watched have helped me and most of guys
1) pelvic muscles plays great role ,so, there is need to do it's workout
2) DIET:avoiding sugar and junks
3)mental: make yourself meditate and relaxed, don't bring your stress to bed.
4)I used to believe when I take certain beer,I would perform, it worked ..but I failed without it,
5) squeeze lemon juice in a jug,add some water,boil it. Leave it over night.. drink it one glass first thing in morning, and before sleep.
6)do atlist some workouts,I have some homework in my videos u can watch them .
Great piece of advice
They should take fruits like watermelon, bananas and make sure they have enough blood in their body system, lots of water too
Good advice. Personally I would say the general 9 to 5 lifestyle is physically exhausting on the body and mind and it doesn't give people time to exercise without being in the gym like simple walking, no time to get some adequate sunshine which is essential and also not getting enough time to cook healthy meals and have time to actually talk to your partner, be romantic, be silly enjoy, each other emotionally before physically. That being said I would say the best bet is getting 3 to 4 days of exercise in a week. Try walking 10k steps daily. Men avoid processed sugar, avoid sugary drinks. Water should be your friend, and Fruits should be your best friend. Cut down on Alcohol and smoking, if you can stop the better. No fast food, try to have home cooked food with a lot of veggies. Maintain a healthy social life, have friends and family that you genuinely talk to, this opens you up to be able to effectively communicate with your wife too. last but not least AVOID PORN!!!......In fact FLEEE from it. I believe like this will not only affect your sex life but your whole life in general
Good one Jes👍🏽
After all those years of reading and researching, I just encourage my friends to:
1. stop watching porn.
2. Stop generalizing pleasure, it's not about how to please a woman it's about how to please YOUR woman. So listen to HER and do what SHE likes/loves.
3. Enough with the goal-oriented sex.
4. Stop competing with her ex.
5. flirting is not only for the initial stages of a relationship.
6. For Some if not most men the minute they start kissing her their hand automatically goes to her vagina. There are other parts of her body that you could touch but you must learn them.
7. While it can be good information, don't go listening to podcasts or watching youtube and then just go try it in the bedroom only to be disappointed because it didn't work. Talk to your partner about it first.
8. Guys who would like to last longer sometimes it's all in your head if not you have to figure out the root of the problem.
9. If you're trying to last longer only so that she can get hers then there is a great possibility you're missing something. I don't know maybe FOREPLAY!!!
10. The refractory period differs in men it can be short for some and long for others it depends on age, health, and fitness.
11. If you think you finish too soon go back to foreplay it might be hard for some but try, ladies don't just wait on him to be ready again. You can also help by stimulating him.
You made some important points. But I don't think there's one fit all solution when it comes to sex. What works for you might not work for the other person, there are some things that we can all relate to regardless of our differences
This is really well put together . I would agree and definitely keep some of these I tend to miss out .
@@Oyzatt That’s why he gave 11 😂
@@Oyzatt Bro it doesn't mean that everything he said will work out , you can pick a few lines which you think will help
@@Oyzatt agree with you 100%
The process is Excitement, Plateau, Orgasm, Refractory……..like he said many factors affect the the refractory period, namely: age, weight, how tired you are, anxiety, stress, how much you are into the person etc. great information.
Refraction is relative. Some of us don't even finish in the second round
If you are realeasing more than once, you are a goat! Period!
Anxiety is the key of all
Jessica your videos have helped me a lot in decision making...thank you so much Mam I appreciate u a lot
As Iam over 70 years of age it was very informative for me
Thanks once again.
Kevin from UK 🇬🇧 Radcliffe nr Manchester xx
Waaah!! You mean at 70 you still perform
I would love to hear from you what you really do
Congratulations on reaching 1M🎉
thanks
Diet is also very important. I recently adapted a plant-based diet and now I feel like I’m always ready to stick it😂
WOW - NICE AND HEALTHY DISCUSSION.
Thank you Jessica OS.
I agree with him for it is important to enjoy with the person you always get attracted too rather than pleasure of it
Thank you, Jessica and Doctor keven. This is the perfect issue I've ever heard .clear and detailed. 😊😊
The lesson i get frkm Daktari is the state of the mind... As a neuroscience enthusiast i endorse that message.
I don't know really but in the medical field in every problem or situation there is these factors to consider Genetics , lifestyle ( diet included), environment,age. So that being said and done although you might engage in lifestyle modification it can change a lot of things in your body and life in general. However the major thing that we fail to mention more often whether it be gym or sexual performance etc,Genetics. This is where the whole game is
For me I agree that sex is psychologically driven and factors like attractiveness of the person you are having sex and your mood play a fundamental role in having a short refractory period or vise versa
Honestly, my ears are on the doc but my eyes are on Jessica all throughout😍.
Almost everything he said is very true to me , anxiety plays a role as well as tiredness, attraction to whoever you are having sex. Permit me to say this that my refractory rate is shorter when i encounter a squirter comapared to others
They all squirt
Made no sense . You mean to tell me squirter affect you . Bro . Go to the movies by yourself, in the front .
My self im having a problem with erection big time I’m 45 years and I don’t make love any more
Squirters r d best for me 😂
Mine is shorter if it is a different woman (from among my women)
Spot on, thanks for sharing 👍
U always got our back in real facts you need an Oscar’s award 🥇⭐️👌🫶
Thanks you for the information
Lack of money ,this is my reason when you have money as a man your partner are in to you,they become more romantic then ever. As a man if you don't have money your feelings lost
Both parties should prepare themselves and be clean and fresh. After the first round clean up and that will even attract the male or female to engage and wants more. Cleanliness is very important.
very informative, kudos
This was very helpful. Bare facts!
Man, I wish more women could be this understanding! 😂
You are right. They should now understand
Thanks Jesca fo the program
A lot of great advice
Well dissected for sure 😂😂🤙
This is some dope info 😎🎉
Hahaha fit for that stress. I liked this
Jessica and this Doc would have made sense.
Great talk doctor. But natural is the best. I don’t need second round to avoid feverish condition.
Always educative stuffs
Hey Queen Jessica ❤
Guys try doing squats... i do atleast 50 a day.. not only does it strengthen you legs but blood flow to.your junk is better
💯!!
Pls explain step by step hw u do it , is it edging
Yea,just work out dammit.Everything is easier for men who work out
For me it's a bit different, more like chemistry and feeling for my partner. ,when I don't feel someone regardless of what I do, nothing will change
50+ squats at once or cumulatively?
As a lady, keep yourself for your husband. That way, there'll be no one to compare his performance to and that will lead to a FULFILLING sexual life till death do you part. Isn't that what we all want?
True 💯💯💯💯, most of the problems is caused by men thinking when they discover their wives or girlfriends have slept with other men behind their back.
Exactly.
Exactly that! Thank you!
Good advice, unfortunately they wont listen.
Same for the men too. They should keep themselves for their wives. Women want that too.
I'm definitely a member of Team One and Done. After grunting out a few quick pumps, it's 😴time! 😄
I'm with you on that. I don't want to be, but it's where I am right now. LOL
@@KingCoze212 I feel yuh bro but I try to look on the positive side. Been with the wife a long time. If I get her to her happy place first and then pop off fast and pass out, I'm thinking that she sees me as her 2 Pump Champ. Then she gets to 😴 earlier! 😉
@@seanpatrick7497 I feel you on that. I also use a lot of foreplay to get my lady taken care of. I definitely try to make sure that she get hers first.
Hey , Jessie , I missed you so much . 😁😍🤩
Amazing topics
Guys do what you can do, after all it's not a world cup. 😂 Love life and stay healthy.
Make one round last an hour or two and you won't need multiple rounds. More rounds are needed because the first one was too short and you didn't satisfy her.
Is it really real? Having sex without intermittent stops for 2 hours straight? How do y’all do it ?
💯 correct
@@gilbertmensah637 It's not continuous penetration for 2 hours. However, you do have to learn d!ck discipline to not bust in a few minutes. When you feel like you're gonna nut you have to stop and not just keep going. You should be able to penetrate with various speeds, depths, and positions for about 20 minutes. Then move on to something else like going down or getting her to give you head. Then work your way back to penetration. Keep it varied and interesting for her and yourself. If done right for an hour or more she'll be completely satisfied and won't want more. You gotta give her at least 2 to 5 org@sms by the time you're done. Women have the advantage here because during this time you have to be able to hold back while she doesn't.
@@gilbertmensah637 yes it is real...I've been having sex up to 3 hours nonstop if you got the rite woman wich you are in to. It's very real and I'm the proof of that. It's a lot to do with chemistry and your fitness as well...
@@albania8982 How is it enjoyable to have sex for 2 or 3 hours. Unless its a job. Most jobs are for 8 hours and you going to spend 3 hours having sex. Madness.
State of mind is key
The number one thing that can shorten refractory period is how much you really enjoy sex with your partner.
The second is how fit you are.
The third is how attracted you are to your partner.
Mind control In+tion - This is a key factor aswell
Well elaborated
I’ll be 43 next month and just did 3 rounds Friday night.
With your hands ✋️ 🙌🏾 👏🏾
Hand-some geezer. Boom! 🤣🤣🤣
@@chiinechi9472 are you having fun on the internet today?
@@jmak98jsuboom yes brother. Thank you for asking. I'm glad you're having fun on a Friday night 🌙...
@@chiinechi9472 then i got ghosted 👻 🤦🏾♂️
It has to do with how good of physical condition you are in. The older you are the longer it takes to bounce back. Plus my experience is about 85% or more of the physical exertion comes from the man. You just plain get physically exhausted. Also I've used the Joymode product before. It works average at best for me. Nothing like the prescription meds. So don't expect that go around with this.
Hi jessica
Thanks for ur informative content .
By the way u have a beautiful eyes take care
Drink water during, before and after sex ignore the urge to go sleep right after
I have no medical training. However I have experience. Every thing that the Doctor has said is true .For me more than half of the results depends on the people involved. I work out a strategy for myself. Cleanliness first. I eat immediately before I start .... during sex I might stop and eat or drink and after a round I will eat and drink to provide me with extra energy .
I feel it’s age and also attraction when yr young full of energy and a new chic it was standard to go more then one round. When you’re older with long term partner one round is enough for everybody usually.
Thanks for sharing💪💪💪
Correct analyses
I never had that problem n never will
Just tested my refractory period and It took only 10 min I'm already ready to go again
Satisfying someone in the bedroom is a multifaceted thing . Someone sexual experience matters a lot. There's no an answer, just try to see what works for you 😅
Most women be asking for things they don't want. After 1st round, same woman will be asking if you're about to bust, sending hints that you should hurry it up
Lol
Please what should the woman do in assisting the man in this refractory period? Or what should the partners be doing?
Life pressures be getting crazy. Priorities change.
I am watching this interesting healthy education but here in my country we have herbs u take them no matter the age or health things will work out bro
Jessica thanks for this discussion, in addition to all the doctor has said, a woman's appealing state for her man plays a major role in keeping him aroused and want more of sex with her. Cleanliness, game participation, encouraging words to your man and respect keeps your man wanting to give you the very best. Let the woman engage her man on what he loves most to boost his desire for her. And the woman can also say what spices her most from her man, all said and done expect good sex experiences for both, wigon from Kenya.
After you bust, you come to your senses and lose interest. So you either go to sleep or try to get away as fast as possible 😂😂😂
Factssss…but if the poom new you usually bounce back quicker
May be guilty feeling,,
U Krazy lol
he killed me on the alcohol part "its not for discussion
No need too. YOU DO ROUND 1 RIGHT IT'S OVER LIKE "Joe Frazier " Is down and she can't handle no More ..Period
For married couples
The reason this is funny to me is most women when they climax they really don’t want to be bothered!
Hi Jes . I really like the way u speak English. Please how can I speak as good as u. Ps:I have a french background. Am just learning English
I used to be tired after 1 round of sex. Gym changed my life. Lost weight, gained stamina… I was even able to ejaculate, stay hard & keep
Going
Testosterone may be low, which depletes with age. Zinc, Vitamin D, 20 mins of exercise should increase stamina.
I don’t even know why I’m watching 😂 but hey, doesn’t hurt to learn new stuff
From the title of this video my response is: Dear women make yourselves more available and ready. The more experience a guy has the better he gets.
thank you
As a Namibian, this topic has been the centre of the discussion. I have to agree with the doctor. It all depends from the type of partner you are dating.
How do you define sexual active partners as opposed to non sexual partners. We have to learn from the😅 sexual history of overly active sexually partners. This type of experience doesn’t requires a doctor's expertees, but a layman street wise and common sense. It's not about the biological part of your body or performance drugs or pills or exercises.
Imagine dating a prostitute, or a outgoing partner that are used to have slept with sexual active partners during parties and club outings, and over the years, that partner decide to change. That faithful partner whose life prospect and sexual drive had never been exposed to different multi partners prior to this partner, his sexual pleasure and performances will be affected, nomatter how hard he/she tries to please the other.
This why it was advisable to date or marry a virgin, because in it, the pleasure is pure. Just my thought 😂
The last paragraph nailed it👌.some expectations are as a result of past experiences,
good point,get your match
I told my lady, i can go on top for as long as you can. I get no complaints. 😅
You aint bout to kill me 😂
Is there a trophy to be won? When I’m jobless then yes (as I’m jobless). But when I have two businesses to run and financially securing my family, one round every night is enough as I need to be rational and distribute my energy amicably.
Hehehe.did you just say every night?joker..your wife won’t do every night..
I always said if a Man can't go twice he's not attracted to the Woman. If I'm attracted to a woman give me a 10 minute time out 😅. All sports have time outs