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Hello Jessica am onesmus from Kenya am 24years of age and you have been a very great inspiration in my life since I knew you last year ,I have learned alot when it comes to marriage and dating life you have made me a void alot of mistakes people of my age do, thumps up on you
I understand if you don't have the length, girth can make up for it. You guys didn't discuss this. Girth can be improved and there are many surgeries/procedures to increase girth. After all, 90% of the nerves are outside the vagina, not in it. Length without girth is not very useful. Girth with an average length is all that is needed. In the Philippines, men insert beads in the shaft of their penises to increase the girth and increase the pleasure of the woman. Filipino women swear by it.
Size matters to men because women always talk about how they want a man with girth and/or length. So, of course, it would ultimately matter to men because men want to be able to please a woman in the bedroom. If all women said "Size doesnt matter" then this topic wouldn't even be on the radar for men.
I sat with my girlfriend once and together we measured my genital it was 7 inches, & most of the time when having sex she gets cramps by her belly button & on her side but still she says she enjoys it, so the thing is yes big penis can cause pain and uncomfort to your lady. So we had a convo about our sex life and she just wants me to take it easy even though the sex is sweet & enjoyable. 😊
I was close to 8" and for some unknown reason I shrunk to a little over 6." Even so, I have gotten overwhelming compliments of my sexual performance from women that I have been with. At one point a girlfriend told her cousin about me and the cousin was very interested in getting her share of the experience. I have never, ever received a negative comment. Not even from a woman who preferred a little bigger size
Hey, love your channel. Great topic: Penis size. I agree you and with your guest completely. I had fun watching your channel. Thank you. I do have a different perspective though, I'm more into being faithful, protector, long lasting/enduring, and honorable within relationships. Now days, I know most people are caught up in the difference of men/women or are selfish in their needs; they think are not getting the rightful things from their partner. Porn and other vice things cause people to think their lacking in some way in relationships. When married couples are true to each other through real love, they don't see color, physical flaws, sizes of penises/breasts, or potential greener pastures. People looking for certain "covered" physical attributes are pretty shallow in my book. A player, men/women, will play if they are allowed to play. Who wants to be played in a relationship? Not me. How can you commit to someone when their perspective is about themself?
Size will always matter. Why are women just not up front with it. Also women are having more partners than in the past. They have all told me that size matters. You can be too big or too small. So stop saying it does not matter period. Also women just like men are larger and smaller. Get in where you fit in. These women are not being honest so it's painful to watch. She can like him all she wants but if it's too small, she always cheats with a larger dude.
Size is differently interpreted by each woman. I’m perfectly average and have been too big for some and too small for others. Some of these women out here have some giant caverns.
Here in Kenya and from my community, this is a topic which is never talked about in public but this is a message which many Men needs to hear. Especially when it's coming from Women. This video is a worthy one. I thank God for what He gave me as a Man. Perfect.
Size does matter when there’s no emotions involved and it’s just sex but once you connect with someone it doesn’t because for a woman it’s all about how you can stimulate her mind and less about her physical.
Amen, so incredibly true! This is by far, the most accurate and in depth true to life comment ever! I am, thankfully, living this right now, finally! I am, also thankfully, above average in length and girth, but matters none! My lovely wife tells me all the time, I rock her world not because of the size of my penis ( she can't take it all and she's had 4 kids ), but because of the endless depth of our love and the truly emotional connection we share! That is truly what gives her endless, breathtaking and mind blowing orgasms over and over everyday. The intimate pleasure we share is truly indescribable. I've never experienced this before in all of my life. It is truly incredible! I sincerely hope more couples share this very same connection.
This is the true assessment I thought they were going to touch on. From experience, I believe this to be true. In love, size matters least to women. Not in love, size can mean everything to her.
You’re right Adult films screwed up reality. Me personally as a man growing up watching pornography , it messed me up mentally. I look at it as a curse in some way but I have a 5 inch without girth and growing up was difficult being a black man. And till this day I’m still messed up even after having kids with two different females. What messed me up as a young kid/ young adult was the judgement, females had a way getting and that’s when they talked about penis sizes. And knowing that I was the total opposite of what a girl wanted I distant myself from the world. That’s when I realized that I had a third eye 👁️. I realized how people act from standing outside the box and a lot of people are the same especially most females. But hey that what make humans human. Me on the other hand smh 🤦🏾♂️ I’m still building my confidence but it’s not to deal with females but it’s to deal with life itself because life is hard when going without medication to help with mental health issues but I’m still here… God I need you
Life is hard bro, find what makes you happy, be around those who have great energy and joyful spirit. Listen to your favorite songs. Try to find things that make you laugh. We all are going to die someday and we’re only getting older. Enjoy your life within reason. Hope this helps
It doesn't, you have to understand who drives this narrative. It's the adult industry and women who have slept around a lot to the point that they need herbs or other remedies to narrow their v canals as the muscles in there get tired or become relaxed from a lot of action with men of different sizes and as such they need bigger members to even feel the penetration. Unfortunately we are in a world where these are the people who are more vocal and drive the narrative. The porn stars and women who live a promiscuous life. But for any woman who hasn't experienced a lot of action with many men of different sizes, it doesn't matter.
I quite agree with you ladies. Again I think what makes for a great sexual pleasure is how much both partners loves and want themselves. I mean, the connection between both parties.
You all saying size matters During my undergraduate as a sociology student I went out with the social work for field work researching on divorce Out of 100% of couples we couselled were actually complaining of the big size and some complain of consistent sex and some complained of both consistentbsex and big size.... To my understanding women who had series of relationships or sex who complained of sizes There some I know who usually complain of his size to me, he could not have a relationship bcuz of the size. By the time he had a couple of relationships and have sex he said that size doesn't matter is how you use and last long using it.. He said the lady he had relationship with didn't complain about the size but he was able to use it very well 😂 and last long without any herbs but lots of water and being enemy of anything sugar... I have seen a lady saying size doesn't matter is how you use it some have big size and doesn't know how to use and some with big size before it gets hard you already using like 30mins to get it hard.. .. In a nutshell size doesnt matter Use it well and stay away from sugar
don’t listen to most of those women,they just want the guy to feel bad,that same women was enjoying it in the moment and probably in a few weeks will be asking for it again 😂😂
The determination of weather or not size matters is an individual thing and not a universal thing. I have had dozens of conversations with women at different stages of their lives about size and weather or not it matters. Older women whom have had their lifetime of exploration usually don’t want womb brooms because they have grown to learn that the pleasurability of such is usually decreased by the pain involved in that engagement. Younger inexperienced women however are usually enthused by the larger sizes and after time realize that it’s unhealthy and less pleasurable. Small is definitely not what women want but usually a “nice” size as they like to term it. Usually around the median size is what women find most exciting.
From my experience the only reason guys care about size is because women make a big deal out of it. A lot of women aren't really vocal in bed explaining what they need from less than average sized guys. Now to be honest I'm 7 inches, and I had chic in a group conversation say that was small to her lol smh.
@@loosecannonkishiko5857 , the problem is that was never mentioned in the conversation lol. The lady just said anything under 9 inch is small to her and she can't mess with it. A lot of women like to pit a lot of the blame in men but many of them ain't doing their part either to stay tight down there.
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The question you should ask is, if two guys have the same good sex skills, would size make any difference, you are being bais about the question and the answer honestly. Does size matter and you are hearing, if you have big and does not know how to use it. Come on.
I think the saying “size doesn’t matter” is too vague. I’m not claiming to be an expert, but size does matter. I’ve had conversations with several women who’ve encountered men with micro-penises. I asked them to elaborate and they showed me their pinky finger. I just don’t see how that can pleasure any woman. As far as average penises go with 5 inches or less I just think the positions are limited. But in the grand scheme of things I think having a jumbo penis isn’t necessary and you shouldn’t stress over not having one. One more thing. I know way too many women who are in relationships with men who can no liver get an erection. These men are within the ages of 40 and up. That’s the real issue.
Every woman knows that size matters (3inches mentioned as average is certainly small ; 4.5-6 more like average) but it is not as important as performance . In other words , the best combination would be size and performance , obviously . Jessica conveniently speaks about men with size without performance and men who are painfully humongous . She conveniently skips the man who is deliciously large and can perform , on top of that .
Size does matter in some instances. If the lady is Big or has a big lower body, then that takes more inches off . So an average size may not be enough to please her and go in totally
I really appreciate everything said here, Jessica you're doing a great job, I've been following your videos for some time now and I find them interesting and educative, thanks for helping us in this area's of life.
This video was really interesting. Size doesn't matter at all. Penile size is a genetical factor so NO need going against GOD to make it above 17cm when full erect. But working on your health and energy management, hitting the right spots at the right time will make a man a big hero 🙌.
All women care about is money or the shape of your body and how confident you’re. If you don’t have money, just be cute or have a good looking body. But just be yourself , not worth struggling for women.
To meet and be with the wrong woman can cause you to develop such belief which my point clearly is, ALL WOMEN ARE NOT THE SAME. No matter how many negatives you experience in life or with a woman, you still cannot use all those negative experiences to generalize anything. There is still something positive to experience. Good women exists!!!
@@Underratedcommentator Thanks for your response to my comment and even though I already expressed my thought, I still must apologize for misunderstanding the point that he was really making or rather what he was really referring to. Thank you and my apology.
I’m 44yrs of age with good experience with close to 10 women, and having an average 6” inches member. From experience is how to use it which means how hard you can hit and stamina and how long you can go. I used to be a bit insecure about my size but women makes me realize it’s not basically about the size, the good advantage I have is my body size 6 foot 1, good looking to at least most women, the strength with my member and I can stay longer and always come back quicker for another round. So satisfaction is also key. Very educational and informative, really interesting
Actually, it's much more complex than that. At the end of the day it boils down to blood chemistral connection, of course there are many other variables and permutations. Size doesn't really matter.
@@saragora3331 off course it is important for a woman to like you and want to be with you around you that’s quite obvious. But hey mate it doesn’t sustain a relationship when intimate satisfaction is not present.
@raiff kingsley That's my point. I agree with you on this one. What I wanted to highlight, thrusting in a big penis, on its own, is unlikely to make her happy. There is a host of other factors that must be present to make her satisfied. Even getting her to climax sometimes is not enough.
Women: Size don't matter...Breaks up with man...same woman: That's why your d*** little 😅😅...Ladies are always trying to save feelings...When they are with each other in a private session that is when the truth will come out🤷🏾♂️😅
100%! And most women I've talked to admit this to me as they know I'm not gong to shame them for it, why should we judge women for feeling it more with bigger ones.
I would think that it matters so much in this day and time to certain women. With all due respect I think it has to do with the way a woman anatomy works and is working. And I do think somewhat of a body count because you end up with different sizes so size can matter depending. My opinion from a males perspective sorry if I'm wrong I'm please no offense intended
Hi Jess i think that size does not matter but also there is a top that we don't speak about which is how does a man recover form being told that their members are not big enough?
I’m a man but de guest nailed the reality of men member…… Penile length doesn’t matter to a long term relationship being marriage or casual relationship. Lot of good women Much more care about romantic in bed then sexual intimacy. Especially, marriage doesn’t require sexual intimacy all time but all in all depends on de woman
I work in the medical field. And see penis all the time and the doctor 👩⚕️ is right. About the average size. I concur with her. Unfortunately people not in this field won’t know or believe it to be true. Thank you Jessica for discussing this topic. I hope it helps someone.
Well, the flaccid penile length is different from the erect penile length. A flaccid could be 3-4 and you see it erect to about 6-7 inches. People on sickbed don’t stand totally erect as they would on a healthier day.
The video is from a woman's view. To simps that is all that matters. To me the words of a woman doesn't matter that much, they don't want to hurt weak men, like a good loving mom would do. I am good with women all my life, women don't understand themself, there are a only a view men that do understand women. To me as a heterosexual man size does matter. Cuz it matters To ME. I am very proud to show it when he is needed. I have no eréctile dysfunctions cuz there is no shame for my member. God is freedom, I don't have to use it all, but I can. And often at the end I have to, just saying. With a small one there is no choice. Many women enjoy it to be dominated by a big one. Without respect their is no love and often no orgasms. If you want kids a big one helps as well. I had girls praying on their knees. Saying things like ...'he is so beautiful and hard!' What matters as well, he has to be hard like steal, for a big one you have to be very fit cardiovascular. To filling it up with blood and keep it for hours. But there are lesbians without a dig at all who are loved by women. Simps listen to women, men explain. Women hate that kinda men, that's why they allways return to men. If a woman is absolutly true to you, without the fiar of hurting you, she respects and trusts you. Desde Sudamérica
Size does matter,especially to women,but I don't know why you all keep lying about it.Any man who has insecurities about their member,most often than not it stems from their past partners. But all in all,yes are stuck with what you are born with.
Thanks so much you two refreshingly attractive ladies. Am distraught in my situation. I did a surgery and my prostate were removed, resulting in my very short penis. Erectile dysfunction is there to some extent. My wife says she no longer enjoys sex with me and has eyes for younger guys. At 71years, is it possible for me to work on and get a bigger penis OR is too late?? I very much want your replies. Thanks.
I have 7.5 member and most girls complain about it, it's just funny to see how ladies out there in the streets be saying they want men with over 8 inches. Women please stop with the cap 🧢
I agree, and I think the question is being made in the wrong way. The question should be whether women prefer bigger with good performance or smaller with good performance?
As a man I don’t really think size matters cuz (as the say it’s not the car it’s about the driver in the car.) but some women have made it hard on guys.
Be content with what you have and LEARN HOW TO USE IT. Most men I’ve discussed this with erroneously think sex starts in the bedroom. That’s just wrong. Women take much longer to be ready for sex so how you treat her from the beginning of the day leading to the real act matters. It’s also important how a man affects her woman emotionally; show affection, touch her, compliment her and talk a bit “naughty” etc. after this is done, the woman will be all wet and ready by the time the actual sex begins. Take time to caress her and engage in foreplay instead of just jumping on her like a jumpstart battery.
I hope the size is not problem. How you use it matters a lot. Any woman can use any size of Penis if you apply the right styles. A long penis or big one has sex styles to be applied.just as short and small. But a lot of people are ignorant of the styles for effective sex. I recently advice a lady who complain of her man not satisfying her because of small dick but after giving her tricks she called me to complain that the guy is becoming too much on her after discovering the styles. Nothing is impossible but ignorant is the impossibility to happy life and sex.
Loved Lily´s explanation on this issue, and totally agree, having even asked a lot of female friends throughout the years they all say the same, although I have to say, it is not always the size of the sausage but the size of the bun is important too....
Have a question my son’s mother has my password to my phone she goes through it everyday when I ask for her password to her phone she gets upset and won’t give it to me
Size does and doesn't matter almost at the same time, but there are other factors like the shape and girth. Almost every women says that" size doesn't matter but not all women are telling the truth. Today's women will start with what they can handle and then gradually increase. Lots of men have grown tired of being a women's starting point just to be left behind for a man who has something more.
Never ever, I have heard behind closed doors a woman mentioned that size doesn't matter...They all said they preferred it big. not shorter than 6....at least 7.....I remember once 2 girl friends talking and one was saying how her boyfriend was big and she felt everything inside and was satisfied. I also noticed on tv women will say size doesn't matter but privately, they would prefer a big one....
Size doesn't matter as much as people think it does cos there are other factors that also matters, your skill, your core strength, self-discipline, diet and overall health. There are also exercises that I know and have prescribed to people that helps increase penile strength, length and overall bed performance, the exercises require consistency but they are worth it in the long run
Obviously, the tallest man in the room is not necessarily going to be any good at basketball, but that does not change the fact that most good basketball players are very tall.
Yeah u supposed to help people u never say anything about women like you all are perfect n don't. Have any problems but you hear to say about men in securities n size n it's too much n can penis can increase then u ask her do u have a penis if u not here to help or to be fair between men or women to me in real life most women are honest they can't hang with men with stamina regardless of his size n most woman r selfish n hardly no experience vsome ask for something big but can't handle it .I think some of the woman doing show is here to bash men but I'm a man I'm still confident so it don't matter I'm here for the men n say hold your head up.
It doesn't matter if the man is making 200,000 a year or more but if your broke and small that can end a relationship quick there is some women that will break up with you if you are to small no matter how good they felt about you
I worked in a pregnancy prevention clinic and have had multiple conversations with young women and I've drown a few conclusions when it comes to women and sex. I've learned that what women think they want is not what they really want. For example, short term wise she wants the ruff, rugged lean man where is penis is appealing to the eye. She wants the lean abs, flat rectus abdominus that shows more of the man's penis. Many women who crave men like these are caught up in the media and/or they watch a lot of porn. They see a lot of lean men who's penis standout in porn. Long term wise or when a woman matures, she starts to realize that asthetics is now a plus and not a requirement. I am not saying she doesn't want a man that doesn't take care of himself. I am saying that a woman who understands her emotions know that how a man makes her feel is what makes him sexually attractive (attraction is chemical and not physical). An immature woman is more into social acceptance and she will even put up with abuse for social acceptance.Women need to also understand that some men are growers and some are showers. A shower can show more than a grower and when the grower is erected he is longer and thicker than the shower. Women need to also understand that their thickness plays a part in how deep a man can go inside them. A man can be 8 inches and your lower body is so thick you are only getting 4 inches of him in certain positions. Women need to understand that a man can be 9 inches and based on his lower body's anatomy he seems shorter than he is. Some neb pubic area appears convexed and some concaved. The concaved pubic area will make a man look shorter, but if you measure him you will see that is pubic structure creates an illusion. Some men have fatty tissue in and around the pubic area. Some men have fat around the waist and upper thighs. All these things plays a part in how big a man APPEARS to be, NOT HOW HE LOOKS BUT HOW HE APPEARS.
You're right bc I'm about 2" bigger than average. She is thick and it does get in the way, but when she was thinner it went alot further. I wouldn't ever tell her that but I know it and you've confirmed it. Luv and peace.
I'm not talking about the frequency of having sex rather the main point of having a partner. And the quality of sex is what maintains the relationship in long term.
"No, Honey, of course size does not matter! You don't need to feel ashamed!" That is exactly what a certain guys wife clearly explained to him just before she left him!
I've got a really big one. Every girl I've been with is same story, soon as they feel the tip brush up against the back walls and they look and see that it's only halfway in, they start acting crazy and pulling on the blankets and crabbing and biting and saying all kinds of "it's the greatest sex they ever had". A few instances where the ladies were going into full body convulsions.
I think the key phrase is here: “If We are being Honest with ourselves”… Mentally speaking, just of the thought of it, just by fantasizing of it, Women get arose on the bigger size. Men know it, period. Some gentlemen have lost their relationship just because their small size AND their lack of art on how to use it. Both large, wide or small must know how dance well; however, the smaller you are, the better your dance craft must be done, facts from the streets playa. Now, if we are into mature relationship, nothing related with playing games on the streets (Size “doesn’t matter”) that is what some women believe by their experience. Just make sure you get deep pockets too🎉😂
I say, rather have the size and don't need it then to need it and don't have it. Like Jessica said you don't need to put all in. For a man size does matter for our Ego and it boost our masculinity confidence.
If size do matter because of certain sex positions, then I think when it gets to some point in the woman's life when she can't do that style again, the man will be right to go outside for someone who can do it perfectly
The Kama Sutra talks about sexual unions. It mentions about 3 types of wimen and 3 types of men and it makes sense. Apart from the sentimental aspect, the compatibility of these union is certainly of importance to consider. Conventional medicine and social engineering takes a simplistic outlook.
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As serious as this discussion is for me (from a male perspective), it made me laugh several times. Looking at their face expressions, and their gestures to put across what they have in mind. I had to contain myself from laughing out loud, lest I might wake up my wife sleeping in the other room! Thank you ladies.
If you are between 4"-6", you are good. Most important thing is that you need to master that Kegel Pelvic muscle. This will prevent u from having PE. You are in control when you want to come. 5min, 10mins, 30mins, to 60mins. Up to you.
@Troy Truong - re: "PE" = for us speed readers ... "PE" stands for "premature ejaculation." (too swift a conclusion) Wish in high school, I did not have to attend "PE" (physical education) !!
I thinks it completely disingenuous to ask where this thought process comes from. I’ve watched your channel for a long time but I am so disappointed that you asked posed that question as if you don’t understand why men become fixated on their size. Thank you very much for what you’ve done up to this point, but I’m completely put of by the way you started this. “Where does it come from?” SMH.
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Hello Jessica am onesmus from Kenya am 24years of age and you have been a very great inspiration in my life since I knew you last year ,I have learned alot when it comes to marriage and dating life you have made me a void alot of mistakes people of my age do, thumps up on you
Thank you beautiful lady
I understand if you don't have the length, girth can make up for it. You guys didn't discuss this. Girth can be improved and there are many surgeries/procedures to increase girth. After all, 90% of the nerves are outside the vagina, not in it. Length without girth is not very useful. Girth with an average length is all that is needed. In the Philippines, men insert beads in the shaft of their penises to increase the girth and increase the pleasure of the woman. Filipino women swear by it.
Penis exercise is a myth ,if you got it you got it if you don't have it you don't, genetic lol I'm 10 inch I can prove it.
Size matters to men because women always talk about how they want a man with girth and/or length. So, of course, it would ultimately matter to men because men want to be able to please a woman in the bedroom. If all women said "Size doesnt matter" then this topic wouldn't even be on the radar for men.
Many women will always look for a way to play on a man's insecurities. Height, money, penis size.
@@zumba.c yeah. They have to set your ceiling for your confidence
I sat with my girlfriend once and together we measured my genital it was 7 inches, & most of the time when having sex she gets cramps by her belly button & on her side but still she says she enjoys it, so the thing is yes big penis can cause pain and uncomfort to your lady. So we had a convo about our sex life and she just wants me to take it easy even though the sex is sweet & enjoyable. 😊
@@AKEnt. does that cause a woman to have hysterectomy surgery well one of the reasons
What matters most is what you do with it
I was close to 8" and for some unknown reason I shrunk to a little over 6." Even so, I have gotten overwhelming compliments of my sexual performance from women that I have been with. At one point a girlfriend told her cousin about me and the cousin was very interested in getting her share of the experience. I have never, ever received a negative comment. Not even from a woman who preferred a little bigger size
Hey, love your channel. Great topic: Penis size.
I agree you and with your guest completely. I had fun watching your channel. Thank you.
I do have a different perspective though, I'm more into being faithful, protector, long lasting/enduring, and honorable within relationships. Now days, I know most people are caught up in the difference of men/women or are selfish in their needs; they think are not getting the rightful things from their partner. Porn and other vice things cause people to think their lacking in some way in relationships.
When married couples are true to each other through real love, they don't see color, physical flaws, sizes of penises/breasts, or potential greener pastures. People looking for certain "covered" physical attributes are pretty shallow in my book.
A player, men/women, will play if they are allowed to play. Who wants to be played in a relationship? Not me.
How can you commit to someone when their perspective is about themself?
Size will always matter. Why are women just not up front with it. Also women are having more partners than in the past. They have all told me that size matters. You can be too big or too small.
So stop saying it does not matter period.
Also women just like men are larger and smaller. Get in where you fit in.
These women are not being honest so it's painful to watch. She can like him all she wants but if it's too small, she always cheats with a larger dude.
Thank you. This is so so educative, God bless you
I have really learnt a lot.
Well said 👏.
Glad to hear that
Good to hear your experience, jess ..
Well ! From my perspective size does not really matter.
Size is differently interpreted by each woman. I’m perfectly average and have been too big for some and too small for others. Some of these women out here have some giant caverns.
Caverns 💀
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You should not have much of an issue with a virgin
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It doesn't matter if you sexually satisfy a woman or not she'll just find something else to complain about
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fact.
Lol yes
best and most truthful comment on here.
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His your size big ?
That's so true.. Guys be content with what you've got. Impressing a woman isn't worth it but ya health matters first.
would u rather have a 3" over 6"?
Words of wisdom good sir.
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Here in Kenya and from my community, this is a topic which is never talked about in public but this is a message which many Men needs to hear. Especially when it's coming from Women. This video is a worthy one.
I thank God for what He gave me as a Man. Perfect.
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It isn’t discussed because most men are packing😂
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Size does matter when there’s no emotions involved and it’s just sex but once you connect with someone it doesn’t because for a woman it’s all about how you can stimulate her mind and less about her physical.
Funny thing i never thought about it like that. But you have an excellent point the more I replay it in my hard.
Amen, so incredibly true! This is by far, the most accurate and in depth true to life comment ever! I am, thankfully, living this right now, finally! I am, also thankfully, above average in length and girth, but matters none! My lovely wife tells me all the time, I rock her world not because of the size of my penis ( she can't take it all and she's had 4 kids ), but because of the endless depth of our love and the truly emotional connection we share! That is truly what gives her endless, breathtaking and mind blowing orgasms over and over everyday. The intimate pleasure we share is truly indescribable. I've never experienced this before in all of my life. It is truly incredible! I sincerely hope more couples share this very same connection.
This is the true assessment I thought they were going to touch on. From experience, I believe this to be true. In love, size matters least to women. Not in love, size can mean everything to her.
Most intelligent response I’ve heard if someone is into you that wont be the focal point its whole body and mind experience excellent comment
Just an excuse to have had large "big guys" body count before settling for the Beta male.
Size wahala !!!... I am good with my 5.5'... you want more, Gerrout!!!
From their facial expressions size matters to both of them y’all stop lying to us men 😞
Size matters to women who have had multiple partners. Keep that in mind. You should not have an issue with virgins
Women all over social media have been saying the bigger the better, how is this a men's issue? And they shame men for having small ones
Jessica:You don’t have a penis do you?
Guest:No, I do not
Jessica: okay just checking
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You’re right Adult films screwed up reality. Me personally as a man growing up watching pornography , it messed me up mentally. I look at it as a curse in some way but I have a 5 inch without girth and growing up was difficult being a black man. And till this day I’m still messed up even after having kids with two different females. What messed me up as a young kid/ young adult was the judgement, females had a way getting and that’s when they talked about penis sizes. And knowing that I was the total opposite of what a girl wanted I distant myself from the world. That’s when I realized that I had a third eye 👁️. I realized how people act from standing outside the box and a lot of people are the same especially most females. But hey that what make humans human. Me on the other hand smh 🤦🏾♂️ I’m still building my confidence but it’s not to deal with females but it’s to deal with life itself because life is hard when going without medication to help with mental health issues but I’m still here… God I need you
Life is hard bro, find what makes you happy, be around those who have great energy and joyful spirit. Listen to your favorite songs. Try to find things that make you laugh. We all are going to die someday and we’re only getting older. Enjoy your life within reason. Hope this helps
@@LOJOTV95 matter of fact
It doesn't, you have to understand who drives this narrative. It's the adult industry and women who have slept around a lot to the point that they need herbs or other remedies to narrow their v canals as the muscles in there get tired or become relaxed from a lot of action with men of different sizes and as such they need bigger members to even feel the penetration.
Unfortunately we are in a world where these are the people who are more vocal and drive the narrative. The porn stars and women who live a promiscuous life.
But for any woman who hasn't experienced a lot of action with many men of different sizes, it doesn't matter.
Well,I gotta love this comment right here...well said,very well said.
About to hit a million subscribers. Congratulations Jess, you're awesome.
All in all. It was a fun and educating watch. Thank you Jess, for the value you bring to the table with each and every video.
I quite agree with you ladies. Again I think what makes for a great sexual pleasure is how much both partners loves and want themselves. I mean, the connection between both parties.
Size especially length makes it easier to explore more sex positions.
You all saying size matters
During my undergraduate as a sociology student I went out with the social work for field work researching on divorce
Out of 100% of couples we couselled were actually complaining of the big size and some complain of consistent sex and some complained of both consistentbsex and big size....
To my understanding women who had series of relationships or sex who complained of sizes
There some I know who usually complain of his size to me, he could not have a relationship bcuz of the size.
By the time he had a couple of relationships and have sex he said that size doesn't matter is how you use and last long using it..
He said the lady he had relationship with didn't complain about the size but he was able to use it very well 😂 and last long without any herbs but lots of water and being enemy of anything sugar...
I have seen a lady saying size doesn't matter is how you use it some have big size and doesn't know how to use and some with big size before it gets hard you already using like 30mins to get it hard.. ..
In a nutshell size doesnt matter
Use it well and stay away from sugar
Just get a woman who loves you for who you are and not the size of your hotdog 😂
i have seen women shame men after a breakup."You have a small pipi"Its a common saying
don’t listen to most of those women,they just want the guy to feel bad,that same women was enjoying it in the moment and probably in a few weeks will be asking for it again 😂😂
@@hazacarrobinson6673 hw can u feel ashamed f size doesn't matter
@@kycuganda8087 true,unless u were unfortunately given a super super small one that she won’t feel at all,it should be good
The determination of weather or not size matters is an individual thing and not a universal thing. I have had dozens of conversations with women at different stages of their lives about size and weather or not it matters. Older women whom have had their lifetime of exploration usually don’t want womb brooms because they have grown to learn that the pleasurability of such is usually decreased by the pain involved in that engagement. Younger inexperienced women however are usually enthused by the larger sizes and after time realize that it’s unhealthy and less pleasurable. Small is definitely not what women want but usually a “nice” size as they like to term it. Usually around the median size is what women find most exciting.
Thank you for your teachings they help us a lot keep on keeping on
From my experience the only reason guys care about size is because women make a big deal out of it. A lot of women aren't really vocal in bed explaining what they need from less than average sized guys. Now to be honest I'm 7 inches, and I had chic in a group conversation say that was small to her lol smh.
That chick was ran through for sure.
Maybe itd bc of your girth the length is more than enough so it's your circumference that lacks
@@loosecannonkishiko5857 , the problem is that was never mentioned in the conversation lol. The lady just said anything under 9 inch is small to her and she can't mess with it. A lot of women like to pit a lot of the blame in men but many of them ain't doing their part either to stay tight down there.
@Marcquis Jones - re: "Now to be honest..." Are you not "honest" all the time, or only when using that meaningless phrase?
@@jonesmarcquis 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣bruh said do the are not doing their part to stay tight down there...🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣HAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHANANANANA I STILL WEEPING OVER HERE
The question you should ask is, if two guys have the same good sex skills, would size make any difference, you are being bais about the question and the answer honestly. Does size matter and you are hearing, if you have big and does not know how to use it. Come on.
Thank you very enlightening. People should not compare their sizes and not feel less as a man because of what God has given you
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The pump works just that it does not stay longer permanently but you can get a good size for the period.
I think the saying “size doesn’t matter” is too vague. I’m not claiming to be an expert, but size does matter. I’ve had conversations with several women who’ve encountered men with micro-penises. I asked them to elaborate and they showed me their pinky finger. I just don’t see how that can pleasure any woman.
As far as average penises go with 5 inches or less I just think the positions are limited. But in the grand scheme of things I think having a jumbo penis isn’t necessary and you shouldn’t stress over not having one.
One more thing. I know way too many women who are in relationships with men who can no liver get an erection. These men are within the ages of 40 and up. That’s the real issue.
Every woman knows that size matters (3inches mentioned as average is certainly small ; 4.5-6 more like average) but it is not as important as performance . In other words , the best combination would be size and performance , obviously .
Jessica conveniently speaks about men with size without performance and men who are painfully humongous . She conveniently skips the man who is deliciously large and can perform , on top of that .
Hey Jessica, you are really raising the bar with deep topics... keep it up!
Size does matter in some instances. If the lady is Big or has a big lower body, then that takes more inches off . So an average size may not be enough to please her and go in totally
I really appreciate everything said here, Jessica you're doing a great job, I've been following your videos for some time now and I find them interesting and educative, thanks for helping us in this area's of life.
You're so welcome!
This video was really interesting. Size doesn't matter at all. Penile size is a genetical factor so NO need going against GOD to make it above 17cm when full erect. But working on your health and energy management, hitting the right spots at the right time will make a man a big hero 🙌.
All women care about is money or the shape of your body and how confident you’re. If you don’t have money, just be cute or have a good looking body. But just be yourself , not worth struggling for women.
To meet and be with the wrong woman can cause you to develop such belief which my point clearly is, ALL WOMEN ARE NOT THE SAME. No matter how many negatives you experience in life or with a woman, you still cannot use all those negative experiences to generalize anything. There is still something positive to experience. Good women exists!!!
@@dimitriebarrett2934 obviously he’s referring to the average American woman…everyone knows ALL women aren’t the same.
@@Underratedcommentator Thanks for your response to my comment and even though I already expressed my thought, I still must apologize for misunderstanding the point that he was really making or rather what he was really referring to. Thank you and my apology.
If the size is small then it literally landed into a bigger hole. If it fits well that means it lands in the perfect size.
I’m 44yrs of age with good experience with close to 10 women, and having an average 6” inches member. From experience is how to use it which means how hard you can hit and stamina and how long you can go. I used to be a bit insecure about my size but women makes me realize it’s not basically about the size, the good advantage I have is my body size 6 foot 1, good looking to at least most women, the strength with my member and I can stay longer and always come back quicker for another round. So satisfaction is also key. Very educational and informative, really interesting
Actually, it's much more complex than that. At the end of the day it boils down to blood chemistral
connection, of course there are many other variables and permutations. Size doesn't really matter.
@@saragora3331 off course it is important for a woman to like you and want to be with you around you that’s quite obvious. But hey mate it doesn’t sustain a relationship when intimate satisfaction is not present.
@raiff kingsley That's my point. I agree with you on this one. What I wanted to highlight, thrusting in a big penis, on its own, is unlikely to make her happy. There is a host of other factors that must be present to make her satisfied. Even getting her to climax sometimes is not enough.
6 inches is above average.
I think 5-5.5 inches is average lol.
Women: Size don't matter...Breaks up with man...same woman: That's why your d*** little 😅😅...Ladies are always trying to save feelings...When they are with each other in a private session that is when the truth will come out🤷🏾♂️😅
I agree ,size isn't everything but it does matters.
Omg😭... Im scared AF...
100%! And most women I've talked to admit this to me as they know I'm not gong to shame them for it, why should we judge women for feeling it more with bigger ones.
I would think that it matters so much in this day and time to certain women. With all due respect I think it has to do with the way a woman anatomy works and is working. And I do think somewhat of a body count because you end up with different sizes so size can matter depending. My opinion from a males perspective sorry if I'm wrong I'm please no offense intended
Hi Jess i think that size does not matter but also there is a top that we don't speak about which is how does a man recover form being told that their members are not big enough?
I’m a man but de guest nailed the reality of men member…… Penile length doesn’t matter to a long term relationship being marriage or casual relationship.
Lot of good women Much more care about romantic in bed then sexual intimacy.
Especially, marriage doesn’t require sexual intimacy all time but all in all depends on de woman
Don't know if size matters, but it definitely makes a difference.
Men are struggling to increase their size while women are buying all the stuff to keep it small and tighter 😂
Problem don't finish.....😂
5 inches is how long guys? I know about centimeters a size of a ruler, but this inches confuses me...🤷🍆
I work in the medical field. And see penis all the time and the doctor 👩⚕️ is right. About the average size. I concur with her. Unfortunately people not in this field won’t know or believe it to be true. Thank you Jessica for discussing this topic. I hope it helps someone.
So what's the average size?
Do u see them hard? How could u possibly know then. Theres a recent metastudy by some stanford mfers saying that the average is 6 inches
Hi, I am 5 1/2 inches in length and 4 1/2 inches in girth. Is this considered a little
@@mikec5104 is that girth accurate?
Well, the flaccid penile length is different from the erect penile length. A flaccid could be 3-4 and you see it erect to about 6-7 inches. People on sickbed don’t stand totally erect as they would on a healthier day.
The video is from a woman's view.
To simps that is all that matters. To me the words of a woman doesn't matter that much, they don't want to hurt weak men, like a good loving mom would do. I am good with women all my life, women don't understand themself, there are a only a view men that do understand women.
To me as a heterosexual man size does matter.
Cuz it matters To ME.
I am very proud to show it when he is needed. I have no eréctile dysfunctions cuz there is no shame for my member.
God is freedom, I don't have to use it all, but I can. And often at the end I have to, just saying.
With a small one there is no choice.
Many women enjoy it to be dominated by a big one.
Without respect their is no love and often no orgasms. If you want kids a big one helps as well.
I had girls praying on their knees.
Saying things like ...'he is so beautiful and hard!' What matters as well, he has to be hard like steal, for a big one you have to be very fit cardiovascular. To filling it up with blood and keep it for hours.
But there are lesbians without a dig at all who are loved by women.
Simps listen to women, men explain. Women hate that kinda men, that's why they allways return to men. If a woman is absolutly true to you, without the fiar of hurting you, she respects and trusts you.
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You said a bunch of nothing 😂😂😂😂
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Size does matter,especially to women,but I don't know why you all keep lying about it.Any man who has insecurities about their member,most often than not it stems from their past partners. But all in all,yes are stuck with what you are born with.
Both men and women know that penile size matters greatly, especially as it relates to girth, therefore let no one deceive anyone!
It does matter. You are correct. Honesty would be of more help than BS studies being referred to.
It doesn't! You just have to hit the right spots when in coitus
@@Kelsbyname you wrong bro. I have a female friend who really really opens up to me in those things…trust me size really really matters
@@Kelsbyname bro I tell you. Size really matter
Showing off random "new skills" during sex can actually be a turnoff to your long term partner
This is my second time listening to the Dr. and am liking her already. Thanks Dr. for the information. Keep it up Jess. From Zambia 🙌
Congrats on your million subscribers I appreciate your truth I can’t believe your single
This video was worth it.
Thank you the two amazing brown skin ladies ❤❤🇨🇲
Thanks so much you two refreshingly attractive ladies. Am distraught in my situation. I did a surgery and my prostate were removed, resulting in my very short penis. Erectile dysfunction is there to some extent. My wife says she no longer enjoys sex with me and has eyes for younger guys. At 71years, is it possible for me to work on and get a bigger penis OR is too late?? I very much want your replies. Thanks.
I have 7.5 member and most girls complain about it, it's just funny to see how ladies out there in the streets be saying they want men with over 8 inches. Women please stop with the cap 🧢
Did your size come naturally or did you Increased it to that size
If size does not matter, people would have been teaching how to use any size and not how to grow it. In ten women, 7 prefer a bigger size.
I agree, and I think the question is being made in the wrong way. The question should be whether women prefer bigger with good performance or smaller with good performance?
As a man I don’t really think size matters cuz (as the say it’s not the car it’s about the driver in the car.) but some women have made it hard on guys.
Be content with what you have and LEARN HOW TO USE IT. Most men I’ve discussed this with erroneously think sex starts in the bedroom. That’s just wrong. Women take much longer to be ready for sex so how you treat her from the beginning of the day leading to the real act matters. It’s also important how a man affects her woman emotionally; show affection, touch her, compliment her and talk a bit “naughty” etc. after this is done, the woman will be all wet and ready by the time the actual sex begins. Take time to caress her and engage in foreplay instead of just jumping on her like a jumpstart battery.
Your correct
@@egwudikedenis2055 Thanks.
I hope the size is not problem.
How you use it matters a lot.
Any woman can use any size of Penis if you apply the right styles.
A long penis or big one has sex styles to be applied.just as short and small.
But a lot of people are ignorant of the styles for effective sex.
I recently advice a lady who complain of her man not satisfying her because of small dick but after giving her tricks she called me to complain that the guy is becoming too much on her after discovering the styles.
Nothing is impossible but ignorant is the impossibility to happy life and sex.
Loved Lily´s explanation on this issue, and totally agree, having even asked a lot of female friends throughout the years they all say the same, although I have to say, it is not always the size of the sausage but the size of the bun is important too....
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You are right, the size of the cookie 🍪, also matters.....
only size that matters to me now is the size of the money in my wallet
This is very educative, thank you Jessica, we miss you in Ghana
Have a question my son’s mother has my password to my phone she goes through it everyday when I ask for her password to her phone she gets upset and won’t give it to me
Size does and doesn't matter almost at the same time, but there are other factors like the shape and girth. Almost every women says that" size doesn't matter but not all women are telling the truth. Today's women will start with what they can handle and then gradually increase. Lots of men have grown tired of being a women's starting point just to be left behind for a man who has something more.
Our Doctor and Jessica 🙌😊 continue educating us
Never ever, I have heard behind closed doors a woman mentioned that size doesn't matter...They all said they preferred it big. not shorter than 6....at least 7.....I remember once 2 girl friends talking and one was saying how her boyfriend was big and she felt everything inside and was satisfied. I also noticed on tv women will say size doesn't matter but privately, they would prefer a big one....
Do what you feel people want to hear ! Stay strong on your content .
Size doesn't matter as much as people think it does cos there are other factors that also matters, your skill, your core strength, self-discipline, diet and overall health. There are also exercises that I know and have prescribed to people that helps increase penile strength, length and overall bed performance, the exercises require consistency but they are worth it in the long run
What are the exercises?
What are the exercises?
Hie, can you kindly share those exercises
share these excercises please.
Hahaaa,gv them the tips
The pump does work I know that I've used it and it added just over half an inch to me.
What pump?
@@jacksoninnocent6541 water pump
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@@AbeyAdemak hahaha
@@AbeyAdemak 😂😂😂
Am from KENYA nation I appreciate your work sister
God bless you
Obviously, the tallest man in the room is not necessarily going to be any good at basketball, but that does not change the fact that most good basketball players are very tall.
It's always a matter of preference
Yeah u supposed to help people u never say anything about women like you all are perfect n don't. Have any problems but you hear to say about men in securities n size n it's too much n can penis can increase then u ask her do u have a penis if u not here to help or to be fair between men or women to me in real life most women are honest they can't hang with men with stamina regardless of his size n most woman r selfish n hardly no experience vsome ask for something big but can't handle it .I think some of the woman doing show is here to bash men but I'm a man I'm still confident so it don't matter I'm here for the men n say hold your head up.
It doesn't matter if the man is making 200,000 a year or more but if your broke and small that can end a relationship quick there is some women that will break up with you if you are to small no matter how good they felt about you
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This is the billion dollar question. Here in the US it matters.
Since women want to pick men's bodies apart let's pick theirs apart.
I worked in a pregnancy prevention clinic and have had multiple conversations with young women and I've drown a few conclusions when it comes to women and sex. I've learned that what women think they want is not what they really want. For example, short term wise she wants the ruff, rugged lean man where is penis is appealing to the eye. She wants the lean abs, flat rectus abdominus that shows more of the man's penis. Many women who crave men like these are caught up in the media and/or they watch a lot of porn. They see a lot of lean men who's penis standout in porn. Long term wise or when a woman matures, she starts to realize that asthetics is now a plus and not a requirement. I am not saying she doesn't want a man that doesn't take care of himself. I am saying that a woman who understands her emotions know that how a man makes her feel is what makes him sexually attractive (attraction is chemical and not physical). An immature woman is more into social acceptance and she will even put up with abuse for social acceptance.Women need to also understand that some men are growers and some are showers. A shower can show more than a grower and when the grower is erected he is longer and thicker than the shower. Women need to also understand that their thickness plays a part in how deep a man can go inside them. A man can be 8 inches and your lower body is so thick you are only getting 4 inches of him in certain positions. Women need to understand that a man can be 9 inches and based on his lower body's anatomy he seems shorter than he is. Some neb pubic area appears convexed and some concaved. The concaved pubic area will make a man look shorter, but if you measure him you will see that is pubic structure creates an illusion. Some men have fatty tissue in and around the pubic area. Some men have fat around the waist and upper thighs. All these things plays a part in how big a man APPEARS to be, NOT HOW HE LOOKS BUT HOW HE APPEARS.
You're right bc I'm about 2" bigger than average. She is thick and it does get in the way, but when she was thinner it went alot further. I wouldn't ever tell her that but I know it and you've confirmed it. Luv and peace.
Great input
Medical practitioners must just admitt woman love big memeber check most of the cucumber parks in yotube for that matter
Feeling insecured about your member, JELQ and eat lots of watermelon. It's bae
Fulfilling relationship is not all about sex,but it must consist of the package of companionship and caring for each other etc.
Sex is about 70% of fulfilling relationship
@@benajaatchie2586 it varies for each individual.
I'm not talking about the frequency of having sex rather the main point of having a partner. And the quality of sex is what maintains the relationship in long term.
@@benajaatchie2586 agreed
"No, Honey, of course size does not matter! You don't need to feel ashamed!"
That is exactly what a certain guys wife clearly explained to him just before she left him!
that is true but I believe men should focus on having harder erections that ever before
I Will have to measure to see how long or short I am 🤪🤪🤪I just love you Jessica
Physical Health, Emotional interaction, and some basic skill to understand your lady body is the most important thing.
I've got a really big one. Every girl I've been with is same story, soon as they feel the tip brush up against the back walls and they look and see that it's only halfway in, they start acting crazy and pulling on the blankets and crabbing and biting and saying all kinds of "it's the greatest sex they ever had".
A few instances where the ladies were going into full body convulsions.
That must be awesome
I think the key phrase is here: “If We are being Honest with ourselves”… Mentally speaking, just of the thought of it, just by fantasizing of it, Women get arose on the bigger size. Men know it, period. Some gentlemen have lost their relationship just because their small size AND their lack of art on how to use it. Both large, wide or small must know how dance well; however, the smaller you are, the better your dance craft must be done, facts from the streets playa. Now, if we are into mature relationship, nothing related with playing games on the streets (Size “doesn’t matter”) that is what some women believe by their experience. Just make sure you get deep pockets too🎉😂
I say, rather have the size and don't need it then to need it and don't have it. Like Jessica said you don't need to put all in. For a man size does matter for our Ego and it boost our masculinity confidence.
If size do matter because of certain sex positions, then I think when it gets to some point in the woman's life when she can't do that style again, the man will be right to go outside for someone who can do it perfectly
I'm just happy I don't have to worry about needing size bc I would never have my lil guy go under a.knife 😬
It matters because almost every woman sing about it. So men without big penis sizes feels depressed
If it's not matter why they come to compliment you in some days after?
Another factor is a lot of women were sexually assaulted or molested, and can only experience pleasure through pain
The Kama Sutra talks about sexual unions. It mentions about 3 types of wimen and 3 types of men and it makes sense. Apart from the sentimental aspect, the compatibility of these union is certainly of importance to consider. Conventional medicine and social engineering takes a simplistic outlook.
Pls, who is JESS? I watched U being in Ghana and speaking "TWI". I always find it difficult staying away from Ur voice to be precise Ur accent. I wonder who U are!!!! Be blessed JESS. U are WONDERFUL with SUPERB Program. AYEEKOOO JESS!!!
As serious as this discussion is for me (from a male perspective), it made me laugh several times. Looking at their face expressions, and their gestures to put across what they have in mind. I had to contain myself from laughing out loud, lest I might wake up my wife sleeping in the other room! Thank you ladies.
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If you have it long and a lot of girth the word gets around and the ladies will be knocking on your door for action.
If you are between 4"-6", you are good. Most important thing is that you need to master that Kegel Pelvic muscle. This will prevent u from having PE. You are in control when you want to come. 5min, 10mins, 30mins, to 60mins. Up to you.
@Troy Truong - re: "PE" = for us speed readers ... "PE" stands for "premature ejaculation." (too swift a conclusion) Wish in high school, I did not have to attend "PE" (physical education) !!
I thinks it completely disingenuous to ask where this thought process comes from. I’ve watched your channel for a long time but I am so disappointed that you asked posed that question as if you don’t understand why men become fixated on their size. Thank you very much for what you’ve done up to this point, but I’m completely put of by the way you started this. “Where does it come from?” SMH.
"You want a man who knows what he's doing with what he has" Spot on
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