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Hello Jessica am onesmus from Kenya am 24years of age and you have been a very great inspiration in my life since I knew you last year ,I have learned alot when it comes to marriage and dating life you have made me a void alot of mistakes people of my age do, thumps up on you
I understand if you don't have the length, girth can make up for it. You guys didn't discuss this. Girth can be improved and there are many surgeries/procedures to increase girth. After all, 90% of the nerves are outside the vagina, not in it. Length without girth is not very useful. Girth with an average length is all that is needed. In the Philippines, men insert beads in the shaft of their penises to increase the girth and increase the pleasure of the woman. Filipino women swear by it.
Size matters to men because women always talk about how they want a man with girth and/or length. So, of course, it would ultimately matter to men because men want to be able to please a woman in the bedroom. If all women said "Size doesnt matter" then this topic wouldn't even be on the radar for men.
I sat with my girlfriend once and together we measured my genital it was 7 inches, & most of the time when having sex she gets cramps by her belly button & on her side but still she says she enjoys it, so the thing is yes big penis can cause pain and uncomfort to your lady. So we had a convo about our sex life and she just wants me to take it easy even though the sex is sweet & enjoyable. 😊
Here in Kenya and from my community, this is a topic which is never talked about in public but this is a message which many Men needs to hear. Especially when it's coming from Women. This video is a worthy one. I thank God for what He gave me as a Man. Perfect.
Size is differently interpreted by each woman. I’m perfectly average and have been too big for some and too small for others. Some of these women out here have some giant caverns.
I’m 44yrs of age with good experience with close to 10 women, and having an average 6” inches member. From experience is how to use it which means how hard you can hit and stamina and how long you can go. I used to be a bit insecure about my size but women makes me realize it’s not basically about the size, the good advantage I have is my body size 6 foot 1, good looking to at least most women, the strength with my member and I can stay longer and always come back quicker for another round. So satisfaction is also key. Very educational and informative, really interesting
Actually, it's much more complex than that. At the end of the day it boils down to blood chemistral connection, of course there are many other variables and permutations. Size doesn't really matter.
@@saragora3331 off course it is important for a woman to like you and want to be with you around you that’s quite obvious. But hey mate it doesn’t sustain a relationship when intimate satisfaction is not present.
@raiff kingsley That's my point. I agree with you on this one. What I wanted to highlight, thrusting in a big penis, on its own, is unlikely to make her happy. There is a host of other factors that must be present to make her satisfied. Even getting her to climax sometimes is not enough.
Size does matter when there’s no emotions involved and it’s just sex but once you connect with someone it doesn’t because for a woman it’s all about how you can stimulate her mind and less about her physical.
Amen, so incredibly true! This is by far, the most accurate and in depth true to life comment ever! I am, thankfully, living this right now, finally! I am, also thankfully, above average in length and girth, but matters none! My lovely wife tells me all the time, I rock her world not because of the size of my penis ( she can't take it all and she's had 4 kids ), but because of the endless depth of our love and the truly emotional connection we share! That is truly what gives her endless, breathtaking and mind blowing orgasms over and over everyday. The intimate pleasure we share is truly indescribable. I've never experienced this before in all of my life. It is truly incredible! I sincerely hope more couples share this very same connection.
This is the true assessment I thought they were going to touch on. From experience, I believe this to be true. In love, size matters least to women. Not in love, size can mean everything to her.
The determination of weather or not size matters is an individual thing and not a universal thing. I have had dozens of conversations with women at different stages of their lives about size and weather or not it matters. Older women whom have had their lifetime of exploration usually don’t want womb brooms because they have grown to learn that the pleasurability of such is usually decreased by the pain involved in that engagement. Younger inexperienced women however are usually enthused by the larger sizes and after time realize that it’s unhealthy and less pleasurable. Small is definitely not what women want but usually a “nice” size as they like to term it. Usually around the median size is what women find most exciting.
You’re right Adult films screwed up reality. Me personally as a man growing up watching pornography , it messed me up mentally. I look at it as a curse in some way but I have a 5 inch without girth and growing up was difficult being a black man. And till this day I’m still messed up even after having kids with two different females. What messed me up as a young kid/ young adult was the judgement, females had a way getting and that’s when they talked about penis sizes. And knowing that I was the total opposite of what a girl wanted I distant myself from the world. That’s when I realized that I had a third eye 👁️. I realized how people act from standing outside the box and a lot of people are the same especially most females. But hey that what make humans human. Me on the other hand smh 🤦🏾♂️ I’m still building my confidence but it’s not to deal with females but it’s to deal with life itself because life is hard when going without medication to help with mental health issues but I’m still here… God I need you
Life is hard bro, find what makes you happy, be around those who have great energy and joyful spirit. Listen to your favorite songs. Try to find things that make you laugh. We all are going to die someday and we’re only getting older. Enjoy your life within reason. Hope this helps
100%! And most women I've talked to admit this to me as they know I'm not gong to shame them for it, why should we judge women for feeling it more with bigger ones.
Loved Lily´s explanation on this issue, and totally agree, having even asked a lot of female friends throughout the years they all say the same, although I have to say, it is not always the size of the sausage but the size of the bun is important too....
I quite agree with you ladies. Again I think what makes for a great sexual pleasure is how much both partners loves and want themselves. I mean, the connection between both parties.
I really appreciate everything said here, Jessica you're doing a great job, I've been following your videos for some time now and I find them interesting and educative, thanks for helping us in this area's of life.
Hey, love your channel. Great topic: Penis size. I agree you and with your guest completely. I had fun watching your channel. Thank you. I do have a different perspective though, I'm more into being faithful, protector, long lasting/enduring, and honorable within relationships. Now days, I know most people are caught up in the difference of men/women or are selfish in their needs; they think are not getting the rightful things from their partner. Porn and other vice things cause people to think their lacking in some way in relationships. When married couples are true to each other through real love, they don't see color, physical flaws, sizes of penises/breasts, or potential greener pastures. People looking for certain "covered" physical attributes are pretty shallow in my book. A player, men/women, will play if they are allowed to play. Who wants to be played in a relationship? Not me. How can you commit to someone when their perspective is about themself?
As serious as this discussion is for me (from a male perspective), it made me laugh several times. Looking at their face expressions, and their gestures to put across what they have in mind. I had to contain myself from laughing out loud, lest I might wake up my wife sleeping in the other room! Thank you ladies.
~This video helped a lot. I've always been self concious about myself especially b/c of how society and adult films have portrayed things to be. I'm 45 with a member of 19.05 cm which is 7 1/2 inches, on a real good day it's a little more. I use to think I had to walk in the room with 8 or above. My experience with women has always been positive. No one ever_ talked down on me. I've always been told I was the perfect size and I know how to use it. But in my head I was always doubting myself smh. After this video I feel a little more confident. Us men need positive information like this. Thank you.~
Samething I said bro But women that claims size matters are the ones that cap they watch to many porn that companys pays for their best performer surgery to get a bigger size for the camera and them women fantasize off that ..when in reality u can be average size like 5 or 6 and an average woman will say u to big
I m a little overweight but I use to be a runner. And have enough stamina. While I lose wait. Bettering my health and still can last. 30 minutes. Looking to keep it that way.
Size doesn't matter as much as people think it does cos there are other factors that also matters, your skill, your core strength, self-discipline, diet and overall health. There are also exercises that I know and have prescribed to people that helps increase penile strength, length and overall bed performance, the exercises require consistency but they are worth it in the long run
I’m a man but de guest nailed the reality of men member…… Penile length doesn’t matter to a long term relationship being marriage or casual relationship. Lot of good women Much more care about romantic in bed then sexual intimacy. Especially, marriage doesn’t require sexual intimacy all time but all in all depends on de woman
I was close to 8" and for some unknown reason I shrunk to a little over 6." Even so, I have gotten overwhelming compliments of my sexual performance from women that I have been with. At one point a girlfriend told her cousin about me and the cousin was very interested in getting her share of the experience. I have never, ever received a negative comment. Not even from a woman who preferred a little bigger size
If you are between 4"-6", you are good. Most important thing is that you need to master that Kegel Pelvic muscle. This will prevent u from having PE. You are in control when you want to come. 5min, 10mins, 30mins, to 60mins. Up to you.
@Troy Truong - re: "PE" = for us speed readers ... "PE" stands for "premature ejaculation." (too swift a conclusion) Wish in high school, I did not have to attend "PE" (physical education) !!
Every woman knows that size matters (3inches mentioned as average is certainly small ; 4.5-6 more like average) but it is not as important as performance . In other words , the best combination would be size and performance , obviously . Jessica conveniently speaks about men with size without performance and men who are painfully humongous . She conveniently skips the man who is deliciously large and can perform , on top of that .
THIS IS THE MOST HONEST CONVERSATION OF WOMEN I'VE EVER SEEN , 👁️ THEY ARE VERY REAL DOWN TO EARTH 🌍 PEOPLE AND SPEAK FROM MIND BODY AND SOUL ✌🏿👍🏿👊🏿😌👁️🌍
All women care about is money or the shape of your body and how confident you’re. If you don’t have money, just be cute or have a good looking body. But just be yourself , not worth struggling for women.
To meet and be with the wrong woman can cause you to develop such belief which my point clearly is, ALL WOMEN ARE NOT THE SAME. No matter how many negatives you experience in life or with a woman, you still cannot use all those negative experiences to generalize anything. There is still something positive to experience. Good women exists!!!
@@Underratedcommentator Thanks for your response to my comment and even though I already expressed my thought, I still must apologize for misunderstanding the point that he was really making or rather what he was really referring to. Thank you and my apology.
The Kama Sutra talks about sexual unions. It mentions about 3 types of wimen and 3 types of men and it makes sense. Apart from the sentimental aspect, the compatibility of these union is certainly of importance to consider. Conventional medicine and social engineering takes a simplistic outlook.
I worked in a pregnancy prevention clinic and have had multiple conversations with young women and I've drown a few conclusions when it comes to women and sex. I've learned that what women think they want is not what they really want. For example, short term wise she wants the ruff, rugged lean man where is penis is appealing to the eye. She wants the lean abs, flat rectus abdominus that shows more of the man's penis. Many women who crave men like these are caught up in the media and/or they watch a lot of porn. They see a lot of lean men who's penis standout in porn. Long term wise or when a woman matures, she starts to realize that asthetics is now a plus and not a requirement. I am not saying she doesn't want a man that doesn't take care of himself. I am saying that a woman who understands her emotions know that how a man makes her feel is what makes him sexually attractive (attraction is chemical and not physical). An immature woman is more into social acceptance and she will even put up with abuse for social acceptance.Women need to also understand that some men are growers and some are showers. A shower can show more than a grower and when the grower is erected he is longer and thicker than the shower. Women need to also understand that their thickness plays a part in how deep a man can go inside them. A man can be 8 inches and your lower body is so thick you are only getting 4 inches of him in certain positions. Women need to understand that a man can be 9 inches and based on his lower body's anatomy he seems shorter than he is. Some neb pubic area appears convexed and some concaved. The concaved pubic area will make a man look shorter, but if you measure him you will see that is pubic structure creates an illusion. Some men have fatty tissue in and around the pubic area. Some men have fat around the waist and upper thighs. All these things plays a part in how big a man APPEARS to be, NOT HOW HE LOOKS BUT HOW HE APPEARS.
You're right bc I'm about 2" bigger than average. She is thick and it does get in the way, but when she was thinner it went alot further. I wouldn't ever tell her that but I know it and you've confirmed it. Luv and peace.
I think the key phrase is here: “If We are being Honest with ourselves”… Mentally speaking, just of the thought of it, just by fantasizing of it, Women get arose on the bigger size. Men know it, period. Some gentlemen have lost their relationship just because their small size AND their lack of art on how to use it. Both large, wide or small must know how dance well; however, the smaller you are, the better your dance craft must be done, facts from the streets playa. Now, if we are into mature relationship, nothing related with playing games on the streets (Size “doesn’t matter”) that is what some women believe by their experience. Just make sure you get deep pockets too🎉😂
I must say... This is the FIRST TIME i have seen a video address the full spectrum of this topic. I Commend yall alot for this. ALL OVER the internet... All of these 'Sex Specialists' and 'Sex Gurus' have been so biased about things. The go to statement is ALWAYS... Size does not matter... Size does not matter. Yet I've been in so much situations where I've seen that it matters and women have told me that it matters! I acknowledge how yall mentioned that it does not Necessarily matter... But at the same time... She acknowledged that there are women whose mental construct and vice and preferences may want a large member to "fill them up"... Because that's their excitement and thing. There are women who just like a big Penis! And it matters to them that they have a large Penis as the thicker or more lengthy member may stimulate THAT particular person More! And it's such an easy question to answer... Because as long as there are different size of vagina canals from all the Billions of women in the earth... Then there will always be some women that need a LARGER than normal Penis to satisfy That particular person. So... Size Matters! Is that so difficult to reason?? Lol. Specialists have been avoiding to mention that for what reason??....I'll never know. Its as if they are trying to make all Men feel good by making it sound as if it doesn't matter. I don't care about how the info makes persons feel. I want the Facts. And the facts are that... A large Penis may not matter for some... But it matters for others. Im glad this lady was honest about that. The consensus was still leaning on the side that it "Doesn't matter"... I sensed that was the general direction being leaned towards... But atleast I saw that she entertained the pure blunt reality that size can very well matter according to the Person. Because it's just subjective. That little acknowledgement was good enough for me... Because it's really rare to come upon a video that acknowledges where it matters at all. Apologies for the essay... I'm just appreciative that the video was atleast somewhat on the fair and honest side. She also properly explained the size issue in the context of short term vs long term. If it's short term... U don't mind the excitement of having your stomach dug-up a bit by a large Penis for the sake of vice or being inquisitive or wild. It doesn't matter if it's painful or not.. Because it's a one time adventure. And adventures are to experience things that are not commonly experienced! (In this case a huge Penis) But for a long term relationship... U have more to consider...because u have to ensure the person have traits for a Life partner... So u have to weigh and consider those other aspects over just the thrill of a large Penis. So it's not that women rather a small Penis. It's..... Because they have to consider other important issues in choosing a life partner... It's obviously sensible to stick with someone who MIGHT have a smaller than wanted penis because he has other traits that neutralize that. Traits that are necessary for long term relationships. It's that simple to understand. I've never found it too difficult to grasp. The great thing about diversity is that... When u think about this topic on a really large scale... What is truly a large or small Penis?? Yes the terms and values of measurements come from surveys etc. But there are women who you will be to small for... Regardless of your size... And there will be women who you will be too large for or just right for with that same size! So that's the next thing. It's about finding someone who is very properly satisfied with what your package is. That mixed with being lucky to have a partner that you're very mentally and emotionally connecting with... Is the sweet spot. Once more... Sorry for the essay. Thumbs up on this video.
Be content with what you have and LEARN HOW TO USE IT. Most men I’ve discussed this with erroneously think sex starts in the bedroom. That’s just wrong. Women take much longer to be ready for sex so how you treat her from the beginning of the day leading to the real act matters. It’s also important how a man affects her woman emotionally; show affection, touch her, compliment her and talk a bit “naughty” etc. after this is done, the woman will be all wet and ready by the time the actual sex begins. Take time to caress her and engage in foreplay instead of just jumping on her like a jumpstart battery.
Thanks so much you two refreshingly attractive ladies. Am distraught in my situation. I did a surgery and my prostate were removed, resulting in my very short penis. Erectile dysfunction is there to some extent. My wife says she no longer enjoys sex with me and has eyes for younger guys. At 71years, is it possible for me to work on and get a bigger penis OR is too late?? I very much want your replies. Thanks.
I work in the medical field. And see penis all the time and the doctor 👩⚕️ is right. About the average size. I concur with her. Unfortunately people not in this field won’t know or believe it to be true. Thank you Jessica for discussing this topic. I hope it helps someone.
Well, the flaccid penile length is different from the erect penile length. A flaccid could be 3-4 and you see it erect to about 6-7 inches. People on sickbed don’t stand totally erect as they would on a healthier day.
Just found you on UA-cam about two days ago. If I ever need a voice over I would definitely send you an email. With topic like these I would be watching you for a long time. Even a 72 year can learn Jessica
From my experience the only reason guys care about size is because women make a big deal out of it. A lot of women aren't really vocal in bed explaining what they need from less than average sized guys. Now to be honest I'm 7 inches, and I had chic in a group conversation say that was small to her lol smh.
@@loosecannonkishiko5857 , the problem is that was never mentioned in the conversation lol. The lady just said anything under 9 inch is small to her and she can't mess with it. A lot of women like to pit a lot of the blame in men but many of them ain't doing their part either to stay tight down there.
@@jonesmarcquis 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣bruh said do the are not doing their part to stay tight down there...🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣HAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHANANANANA I STILL WEEPING OVER HERE
In Uganda one singer said women are funny,a small thing and a big thing all make her cry.But all in all it depends on on how you prepare your partner,age,and her preference.i know 2 ladies who told me they die for men with big whoopers,and another a half sister of mine divorced because the man was huge.But thanks u Jesca for your content 👍.
I say, rather have the size and don't need it then to need it and don't have it. Like Jessica said you don't need to put all in. For a man size does matter for our Ego and it boost our masculinity confidence.
Size does and doesn't matter almost at the same time, but there are other factors like the shape and girth. Almost every women says that" size doesn't matter but not all women are telling the truth. Today's women will start with what they can handle and then gradually increase. Lots of men have grown tired of being a women's starting point just to be left behind for a man who has something more.
I would think that it matters so much in this day and time to certain women. With all due respect I think it has to do with the way a woman anatomy works and is working. And I do think somewhat of a body count because you end up with different sizes so size can matter depending. My opinion from a males perspective sorry if I'm wrong I'm please no offense intended
This video was really interesting. Size doesn't matter at all. Penile size is a genetical factor so NO need going against GOD to make it above 17cm when full erect. But working on your health and energy management, hitting the right spots at the right time will make a man a big hero 🙌.
Hi Jess i think that size does not matter but also there is a top that we don't speak about which is how does a man recover form being told that their members are not big enough?
Long as you can make a woman climax and engage on getting her aroused size doesn’t matter, some women can handle the big dog and others can’t, I’ve been doing weight hanging for 6 months now and have gained 1/2 an inch, I started off with 2lbs now up to 6 1/2 lbs, trying to reach 9 or a little over and the results are permanent so far and I haven’t done it in 3 weeks now and I’m still that same size I’ve gained
@@travisharrell3065 for my own experiment like some women already have nice breasts but be wanting them a little bigger or a guy wanting to get muscles so they lift weights after all the penis itself is something like a muscle
It’s does work but it takes consistently (everyday) with (weight). I started it and stoped cause off how much time it consumed. Plus I got over 7 inches and I’m not gunna risk making it smaller or damaging my shi. Honestly if U over 7 inches I wouldn’t risk messing yo shi up lmao. If u under dat… honestly I would say fuck it and just do it cause U got nun too lose fr fr 😂💯🎒
You all saying size matters During my undergraduate as a sociology student I went out with the social work for field work researching on divorce Out of 100% of couples we couselled were actually complaining of the big size and some complain of consistent sex and some complained of both consistentbsex and big size.... To my understanding women who had series of relationships or sex who complained of sizes There some I know who usually complain of his size to me, he could not have a relationship bcuz of the size. By the time he had a couple of relationships and have sex he said that size doesn't matter is how you use and last long using it.. He said the lady he had relationship with didn't complain about the size but he was able to use it very well 😂 and last long without any herbs but lots of water and being enemy of anything sugar... I have seen a lady saying size doesn't matter is how you use it some have big size and doesn't know how to use and some with big size before it gets hard you already using like 30mins to get it hard.. .. In a nutshell size doesnt matter Use it well and stay away from sugar
I'm not talking about the frequency of having sex rather the main point of having a partner. And the quality of sex is what maintains the relationship in long term.
Technique is paramount above all else. I know many people don't want to believe that but knowing what you're doing with your partner and PAYING ATTENTION to visual and sound notes and acting on them accordingly is better than size.
Brooo, don't pay attention to the sound notes... that gender can pretend just to deceive & hype you that you doing an awesome job... but on the contrary, you aren't...😂😂😂
Size does matter in some instances. If the lady is Big or has a big lower body, then that takes more inches off . So an average size may not be enough to please her and go in totally
Size will always matter. Why are women just not up front with it. Also women are having more partners than in the past. They have all told me that size matters. You can be too big or too small. So stop saying it does not matter period. Also women just like men are larger and smaller. Get in where you fit in. These women are not being honest so it's painful to watch. She can like him all she wants but if it's too small, she always cheats with a larger dude.
Wooow Jessi, more education these days for this is another level of your program and is too deep although we are learning so much from you as far as this program is concerned. Bravo sist
I agree, and I think the question is being made in the wrong way. The question should be whether women prefer bigger with good performance or smaller with good performance?
As a man I don’t really think size matters cuz (as the say it’s not the car it’s about the driver in the car.) but some women have made it hard on guys.
The video is from a woman's view. To simps that is all that matters. To me the words of a woman doesn't matter that much, they don't want to hurt weak men, like a good loving mom would do. I am good with women all my life, women don't understand themself, there are a only a view men that do understand women. To me as a heterosexual man size does matter. Cuz it matters To ME. I am very proud to show it when he is needed. I have no eréctile dysfunctions cuz there is no shame for my member. God is freedom, I don't have to use it all, but I can. And often at the end I have to, just saying. With a small one there is no choice. Many women enjoy it to be dominated by a big one. Without respect their is no love and often no orgasms. If you want kids a big one helps as well. I had girls praying on their knees. Saying things like ...'he is so beautiful and hard!' What matters as well, he has to be hard like steal, for a big one you have to be very fit cardiovascular. To filling it up with blood and keep it for hours. But there are lesbians without a dig at all who are loved by women. Simps listen to women, men explain. Women hate that kinda men, that's why they allways return to men. If a woman is absolutly true to you, without the fiar of hurting you, she respects and trusts you. Desde Sudamérica
Wow! "You always comes back to together " 💝 I love it! So true... If it wasn't the case then you wouldn't needed a partner!!! Keep up the good work Jess....
It doesn't matter if the man is making 200,000 a year or more but if your broke and small that can end a relationship quick there is some women that will break up with you if you are to small no matter how good they felt about you
Size does matter,especially to women,but I don't know why you all keep lying about it.Any man who has insecurities about their member,most often than not it stems from their past partners. But all in all,yes are stuck with what you are born with.
This is a great video. When I was kid in Haiti, folks used to talk about using cocoa butter or grease cocoa to make it bigger by rubbing it and pulling it. I don't know how true that was.
It doesn't, you have to understand who drives this narrative. It's the adult industry and women who have slept around a lot to the point that they need herbs or other remedies to narrow their v canals as the muscles in there get tired or become relaxed from a lot of action with men of different sizes and as such they need bigger members to even feel the penetration. Unfortunately we are in a world where these are the people who are more vocal and drive the narrative. The porn stars and women who live a promiscuous life. But for any woman who hasn't experienced a lot of action with many men of different sizes, it doesn't matter.
If size do matter because of certain sex positions, then I think when it gets to some point in the woman's life when she can't do that style again, the man will be right to go outside for someone who can do it perfectly
Never ever, I have heard behind closed doors a woman mentioned that size doesn't matter...They all said they preferred it big. not shorter than 6....at least 7.....I remember once 2 girl friends talking and one was saying how her boyfriend was big and she felt everything inside and was satisfied. I also noticed on tv women will say size doesn't matter but privately, they would prefer a big one....
Having a big tool for the job is one factor and knowing how to use that tool effectively for the job is another whole different factor The point is don't worry about the size use the hammer and hit the nail exactly where and how you should hit it into it's objective educative 🙌
This video is very educative. I wish man who are planning to add on their penal length to an abnormal size should consider how they eat, what exercise do they do, performance in bed not only bigger member thinking it satisfy their women. I personally thing minimum size is better.
Pls, who is JESS? I watched U being in Ghana and speaking "TWI". I always find it difficult staying away from Ur voice to be precise Ur accent. I wonder who U are!!!! Be blessed JESS. U are WONDERFUL with SUPERB Program. AYEEKOOO JESS!!!
I’ve gained 2.5” in real life over a 25 year period. Just focusing on growth off and on for 6 months at a time. Perhaps a total of 4 years combined. Just know everything is possible. Also these women are being nice. Knowing what to do with an average penis and knowing what to do with a large penis brings about very different results. The results most of us are looking for.
What’s up fellas? To answer the question “How?” I stimulated the growth. First you have to believe. That’s the only way anything is personally possible. There are some anomalies where you can be surprised into a believer but generally speaking you have to believe. At night I would massage then I would fall asleep with a held stretch. I learned about supplements that increased blood flow as well as testosterone boosting properties. I also did the prp. Jelqing and pumping. There are also some topical rubs that enhance the appearance but it all comes with consistency. It was a lot of work but it really is possible and we’re still just learning how to build tissue up to expand our phallus. Not all pumps work. Not all supplements and not all jelqing/massaging techniques work. Through a lot of trial and error I got to my goal size but I’m still studying so I can help other men.
I think the saying “size doesn’t matter” is too vague. I’m not claiming to be an expert, but size does matter. I’ve had conversations with several women who’ve encountered men with micro-penises. I asked them to elaborate and they showed me their pinky finger. I just don’t see how that can pleasure any woman. As far as average penises go with 5 inches or less I just think the positions are limited. But in the grand scheme of things I think having a jumbo penis isn’t necessary and you shouldn’t stress over not having one. One more thing. I know way too many women who are in relationships with men who can no liver get an erection. These men are within the ages of 40 and up. That’s the real issue.
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Thank you darling there's some one who tells me in my inbox about stock wells investment
Be a ware family . Love u Jess
Hello Jessica am onesmus from Kenya am 24years of age and you have been a very great inspiration in my life since I knew you last year ,I have learned alot when it comes to marriage and dating life you have made me a void alot of mistakes people of my age do, thumps up on you
Thank you beautiful lady
I understand if you don't have the length, girth can make up for it. You guys didn't discuss this. Girth can be improved and there are many surgeries/procedures to increase girth. After all, 90% of the nerves are outside the vagina, not in it. Length without girth is not very useful. Girth with an average length is all that is needed. In the Philippines, men insert beads in the shaft of their penises to increase the girth and increase the pleasure of the woman. Filipino women swear by it.
Penis exercise is a myth ,if you got it you got it if you don't have it you don't, genetic lol I'm 10 inch I can prove it.
Size matters to men because women always talk about how they want a man with girth and/or length. So, of course, it would ultimately matter to men because men want to be able to please a woman in the bedroom. If all women said "Size doesnt matter" then this topic wouldn't even be on the radar for men.
Many women will always look for a way to play on a man's insecurities. Height, money, penis size.
@@c.conga11 yeah. They have to set your ceiling for your confidence
I sat with my girlfriend once and together we measured my genital it was 7 inches, & most of the time when having sex she gets cramps by her belly button & on her side but still she says she enjoys it, so the thing is yes big penis can cause pain and uncomfort to your lady. So we had a convo about our sex life and she just wants me to take it easy even though the sex is sweet & enjoyable. 😊
@@AKEnt. does that cause a woman to have hysterectomy surgery well one of the reasons
What matters most is what you do with it
That's so true.. Guys be content with what you've got. Impressing a woman isn't worth it but ya health matters first.
would u rather have a 3" over 6"?
Words of wisdom good sir.
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Here in Kenya and from my community, this is a topic which is never talked about in public but this is a message which many Men needs to hear. Especially when it's coming from Women. This video is a worthy one.
I thank God for what He gave me as a Man. Perfect.
😂😂Kenya hwaongelei hizi vitu
It isn’t discussed because most men are packing😂
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Size is differently interpreted by each woman. I’m perfectly average and have been too big for some and too small for others. Some of these women out here have some giant caverns.
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You should not have much of an issue with a virgin
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All in all. It was a fun and educating watch. Thank you Jess, for the value you bring to the table with each and every video.
I’m 44yrs of age with good experience with close to 10 women, and having an average 6” inches member. From experience is how to use it which means how hard you can hit and stamina and how long you can go. I used to be a bit insecure about my size but women makes me realize it’s not basically about the size, the good advantage I have is my body size 6 foot 1, good looking to at least most women, the strength with my member and I can stay longer and always come back quicker for another round. So satisfaction is also key. Very educational and informative, really interesting
Actually, it's much more complex than that. At the end of the day it boils down to blood chemistral
connection, of course there are many other variables and permutations. Size doesn't really matter.
@@saragora3331 off course it is important for a woman to like you and want to be with you around you that’s quite obvious. But hey mate it doesn’t sustain a relationship when intimate satisfaction is not present.
@raiff kingsley That's my point. I agree with you on this one. What I wanted to highlight, thrusting in a big penis, on its own, is unlikely to make her happy. There is a host of other factors that must be present to make her satisfied. Even getting her to climax sometimes is not enough.
6 inches is above average.
I think 5-5.5 inches is average lol.
Size does matter when there’s no emotions involved and it’s just sex but once you connect with someone it doesn’t because for a woman it’s all about how you can stimulate her mind and less about her physical.
Funny thing i never thought about it like that. But you have an excellent point the more I replay it in my hard.
Amen, so incredibly true! This is by far, the most accurate and in depth true to life comment ever! I am, thankfully, living this right now, finally! I am, also thankfully, above average in length and girth, but matters none! My lovely wife tells me all the time, I rock her world not because of the size of my penis ( she can't take it all and she's had 4 kids ), but because of the endless depth of our love and the truly emotional connection we share! That is truly what gives her endless, breathtaking and mind blowing orgasms over and over everyday. The intimate pleasure we share is truly indescribable. I've never experienced this before in all of my life. It is truly incredible! I sincerely hope more couples share this very same connection.
This is the true assessment I thought they were going to touch on. From experience, I believe this to be true. In love, size matters least to women. Not in love, size can mean everything to her.
Most intelligent response I’ve heard if someone is into you that wont be the focal point its whole body and mind experience excellent comment
Just an excuse to have had large "big guys" body count before settling for the Beta male.
The determination of weather or not size matters is an individual thing and not a universal thing. I have had dozens of conversations with women at different stages of their lives about size and weather or not it matters. Older women whom have had their lifetime of exploration usually don’t want womb brooms because they have grown to learn that the pleasurability of such is usually decreased by the pain involved in that engagement. Younger inexperienced women however are usually enthused by the larger sizes and after time realize that it’s unhealthy and less pleasurable. Small is definitely not what women want but usually a “nice” size as they like to term it. Usually around the median size is what women find most exciting.
Thank you for your teachings they help us a lot keep on keeping on
About to hit a million subscribers. Congratulations Jess, you're awesome.
You’re right Adult films screwed up reality. Me personally as a man growing up watching pornography , it messed me up mentally. I look at it as a curse in some way but I have a 5 inch without girth and growing up was difficult being a black man. And till this day I’m still messed up even after having kids with two different females. What messed me up as a young kid/ young adult was the judgement, females had a way getting and that’s when they talked about penis sizes. And knowing that I was the total opposite of what a girl wanted I distant myself from the world. That’s when I realized that I had a third eye 👁️. I realized how people act from standing outside the box and a lot of people are the same especially most females. But hey that what make humans human. Me on the other hand smh 🤦🏾♂️ I’m still building my confidence but it’s not to deal with females but it’s to deal with life itself because life is hard when going without medication to help with mental health issues but I’m still here… God I need you
Life is hard bro, find what makes you happy, be around those who have great energy and joyful spirit. Listen to your favorite songs. Try to find things that make you laugh. We all are going to die someday and we’re only getting older. Enjoy your life within reason. Hope this helps
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Hey Jessica, you are really raising the bar with deep topics... keep it up!
Thank you very enlightening. People should not compare their sizes and not feel less as a man because of what God has given you
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I agree ,size isn't everything but it does matters.
Omg😭... Im scared AF...
100%! And most women I've talked to admit this to me as they know I'm not gong to shame them for it, why should we judge women for feeling it more with bigger ones.
Loved Lily´s explanation on this issue, and totally agree, having even asked a lot of female friends throughout the years they all say the same, although I have to say, it is not always the size of the sausage but the size of the bun is important too....
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You are right, the size of the cookie 🍪, also matters.....
I quite agree with you ladies. Again I think what makes for a great sexual pleasure is how much both partners loves and want themselves. I mean, the connection between both parties.
Women all over social media have been saying the bigger the better, how is this a men's issue? And they shame men for having small ones
Am from KENYA nation I appreciate your work sister
God bless you
Don't know if size matters, but it definitely makes a difference.
Our Doctor and Jessica 🙌😊 continue educating us
I really appreciate everything said here, Jessica you're doing a great job, I've been following your videos for some time now and I find them interesting and educative, thanks for helping us in this area's of life.
You're so welcome!
This is my second time listening to the Dr. and am liking her already. Thanks Dr. for the information. Keep it up Jess. From Zambia 🙌
The pump works just that it does not stay longer permanently but you can get a good size for the period.
Do what you feel people want to hear ! Stay strong on your content .
Wow! So educating. Bravo!! 👏
I wish all men who have lil member get these into their heads.
Hey, love your channel. Great topic: Penis size.
I agree you and with your guest completely. I had fun watching your channel. Thank you.
I do have a different perspective though, I'm more into being faithful, protector, long lasting/enduring, and honorable within relationships. Now days, I know most people are caught up in the difference of men/women or are selfish in their needs; they think are not getting the rightful things from their partner. Porn and other vice things cause people to think their lacking in some way in relationships.
When married couples are true to each other through real love, they don't see color, physical flaws, sizes of penises/breasts, or potential greener pastures. People looking for certain "covered" physical attributes are pretty shallow in my book.
A player, men/women, will play if they are allowed to play. Who wants to be played in a relationship? Not me.
How can you commit to someone when their perspective is about themself?
This is very educative, thank you Jessica, we miss you in Ghana
As serious as this discussion is for me (from a male perspective), it made me laugh several times. Looking at their face expressions, and their gestures to put across what they have in mind. I had to contain myself from laughing out loud, lest I might wake up my wife sleeping in the other room! Thank you ladies.
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Mama Jessica, you know the best food to cook for the boys 🙌🏾
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~This video helped a lot. I've always been self concious about myself especially b/c of how society and adult films have portrayed things to be. I'm 45 with a member of 19.05 cm which is 7 1/2 inches, on a real good day it's a little more. I use to think I had to walk in the room with 8 or above. My experience with women has always been positive. No one ever_ talked down on me. I've always been told I was the perfect size and I know how to use it. But in my head I was always doubting myself smh. After this video I feel a little more confident. Us men need positive information like this. Thank you.~
Glad to be of help
Samething I said bro
But women that claims size matters are the ones that cap they watch to many porn that companys pays for their best performer surgery to get a bigger size for the camera and them women fantasize off that ..when in reality u can be average size like 5 or 6 and an average woman will say u to big
@asacowherd4860 sorry, I'm apologizing for the people that did you that way.
I m a little overweight but I use to be a runner. And have enough stamina. While I lose wait. Bettering my health and still can last. 30 minutes. Looking to keep it that way.
7.5 is amazing. Most guys would drram to have that. Dont worry bro. Youre doing fine.
Size doesn't matter as much as people think it does cos there are other factors that also matters, your skill, your core strength, self-discipline, diet and overall health. There are also exercises that I know and have prescribed to people that helps increase penile strength, length and overall bed performance, the exercises require consistency but they are worth it in the long run
What are the exercises?
What are the exercises?
Hie, can you kindly share those exercises
share these excercises please.
Hahaaa,gv them the tips
I’m a man but de guest nailed the reality of men member…… Penile length doesn’t matter to a long term relationship being marriage or casual relationship.
Lot of good women Much more care about romantic in bed then sexual intimacy.
Especially, marriage doesn’t require sexual intimacy all time but all in all depends on de woman
I was close to 8" and for some unknown reason I shrunk to a little over 6." Even so, I have gotten overwhelming compliments of my sexual performance from women that I have been with. At one point a girlfriend told her cousin about me and the cousin was very interested in getting her share of the experience. I have never, ever received a negative comment. Not even from a woman who preferred a little bigger size
If you are between 4"-6", you are good. Most important thing is that you need to master that Kegel Pelvic muscle. This will prevent u from having PE. You are in control when you want to come. 5min, 10mins, 30mins, to 60mins. Up to you.
@Troy Truong - re: "PE" = for us speed readers ... "PE" stands for "premature ejaculation." (too swift a conclusion) Wish in high school, I did not have to attend "PE" (physical education) !!
Every woman knows that size matters (3inches mentioned as average is certainly small ; 4.5-6 more like average) but it is not as important as performance . In other words , the best combination would be size and performance , obviously .
Jessica conveniently speaks about men with size without performance and men who are painfully humongous . She conveniently skips the man who is deliciously large and can perform , on top of that .
THIS IS THE MOST HONEST CONVERSATION OF WOMEN I'VE EVER SEEN , 👁️ THEY ARE VERY REAL DOWN TO EARTH 🌍 PEOPLE AND SPEAK FROM MIND BODY AND SOUL ✌🏿👍🏿👊🏿😌👁️🌍
All women care about is money or the shape of your body and how confident you’re. If you don’t have money, just be cute or have a good looking body. But just be yourself , not worth struggling for women.
To meet and be with the wrong woman can cause you to develop such belief which my point clearly is, ALL WOMEN ARE NOT THE SAME. No matter how many negatives you experience in life or with a woman, you still cannot use all those negative experiences to generalize anything. There is still something positive to experience. Good women exists!!!
@@dimitriebarrett2934 obviously he’s referring to the average American woman…everyone knows ALL women aren’t the same.
@@Underratedcommentator Thanks for your response to my comment and even though I already expressed my thought, I still must apologize for misunderstanding the point that he was really making or rather what he was really referring to. Thank you and my apology.
I have never watched your channel , less did I no I have lose alot. Very educative channel. Keep it up
Truly excellent and down to earth informative and realistic video. You knocked it out of the park-seriously! Thanks!
Depends on the woman. I heard many women say size matters
The Kama Sutra talks about sexual unions. It mentions about 3 types of wimen and 3 types of men and it makes sense. Apart from the sentimental aspect, the compatibility of these union is certainly of importance to consider. Conventional medicine and social engineering takes a simplistic outlook.
I worked in a pregnancy prevention clinic and have had multiple conversations with young women and I've drown a few conclusions when it comes to women and sex. I've learned that what women think they want is not what they really want. For example, short term wise she wants the ruff, rugged lean man where is penis is appealing to the eye. She wants the lean abs, flat rectus abdominus that shows more of the man's penis. Many women who crave men like these are caught up in the media and/or they watch a lot of porn. They see a lot of lean men who's penis standout in porn. Long term wise or when a woman matures, she starts to realize that asthetics is now a plus and not a requirement. I am not saying she doesn't want a man that doesn't take care of himself. I am saying that a woman who understands her emotions know that how a man makes her feel is what makes him sexually attractive (attraction is chemical and not physical). An immature woman is more into social acceptance and she will even put up with abuse for social acceptance.Women need to also understand that some men are growers and some are showers. A shower can show more than a grower and when the grower is erected he is longer and thicker than the shower. Women need to also understand that their thickness plays a part in how deep a man can go inside them. A man can be 8 inches and your lower body is so thick you are only getting 4 inches of him in certain positions. Women need to understand that a man can be 9 inches and based on his lower body's anatomy he seems shorter than he is. Some neb pubic area appears convexed and some concaved. The concaved pubic area will make a man look shorter, but if you measure him you will see that is pubic structure creates an illusion. Some men have fatty tissue in and around the pubic area. Some men have fat around the waist and upper thighs. All these things plays a part in how big a man APPEARS to be, NOT HOW HE LOOKS BUT HOW HE APPEARS.
You're right bc I'm about 2" bigger than average. She is thick and it does get in the way, but when she was thinner it went alot further. I wouldn't ever tell her that but I know it and you've confirmed it. Luv and peace.
Great input
I think the key phrase is here: “If We are being Honest with ourselves”… Mentally speaking, just of the thought of it, just by fantasizing of it, Women get arose on the bigger size. Men know it, period. Some gentlemen have lost their relationship just because their small size AND their lack of art on how to use it. Both large, wide or small must know how dance well; however, the smaller you are, the better your dance craft must be done, facts from the streets playa. Now, if we are into mature relationship, nothing related with playing games on the streets (Size “doesn’t matter”) that is what some women believe by their experience. Just make sure you get deep pockets too🎉😂
I must say... This is the FIRST TIME i have seen a video address the full spectrum of this topic.
I Commend yall alot for this.
ALL OVER the internet... All of these 'Sex Specialists' and 'Sex Gurus' have been so biased about things.
The go to statement is ALWAYS... Size does not matter... Size does not matter. Yet I've been in so much situations where I've seen that it matters and women have told me that it matters!
I acknowledge how yall mentioned that it does not Necessarily matter... But at the same time... She acknowledged that there are women whose mental construct and vice and preferences may want a large member to "fill them up"... Because that's their excitement and thing.
There are women who just like a big Penis! And it matters to them that they have a large Penis as the thicker or more lengthy member may stimulate THAT particular person More!
And it's such an easy question to answer... Because as long as there are different size of vagina canals from all the Billions of women in the earth... Then there will always be some women that need a LARGER than normal Penis to satisfy That particular person. So... Size Matters! Is that so difficult to reason?? Lol.
Specialists have been avoiding to mention that for what reason??....I'll never know.
Its as if they are trying to make all Men feel good by making it sound as if it doesn't matter.
I don't care about how the info makes persons feel. I want the Facts. And the facts are that... A large Penis may not matter for some... But it matters for others.
Im glad this lady was honest about that. The consensus was still leaning on the side that it "Doesn't matter"... I sensed that was the general direction being leaned towards... But atleast I saw that she entertained the pure blunt reality that size can very well matter according to the Person. Because it's just subjective.
That little acknowledgement was good enough for me... Because it's really rare to come upon a video that acknowledges where it matters at all.
Apologies for the essay... I'm just appreciative that the video was atleast somewhat on the fair and honest side.
She also properly explained the size issue in the context of short term vs long term.
If it's short term... U don't mind the excitement of having your stomach dug-up a bit by a large Penis for the sake of vice or being inquisitive or wild. It doesn't matter if it's painful or not.. Because it's a one time adventure. And adventures are to experience things that are not commonly experienced! (In this case a huge Penis)
But for a long term relationship... U have more to consider...because u have to ensure the person have traits for a Life partner... So u have to weigh and consider those other aspects over just the thrill of a large Penis. So it's not that women rather a small Penis. It's..... Because they have to consider other important issues in choosing a life partner... It's obviously sensible to stick with someone who MIGHT have a smaller than wanted penis because he has other traits that neutralize that. Traits that are necessary for long term relationships. It's that simple to understand. I've never found it too difficult to grasp.
The great thing about diversity is that... When u think about this topic on a really large scale... What is truly a large or small Penis??
Yes the terms and values of measurements come from surveys etc. But there are women who you will be to small for... Regardless of your size... And there will be women who you will be too large for or just right for with that same size!
So that's the next thing. It's about finding someone who is very properly satisfied with what your package is. That mixed with being lucky to have a partner that you're very mentally and emotionally connecting with... Is the sweet spot.
Once more... Sorry for the essay.
Thumbs up on this video.
Be content with what you have and LEARN HOW TO USE IT. Most men I’ve discussed this with erroneously think sex starts in the bedroom. That’s just wrong. Women take much longer to be ready for sex so how you treat her from the beginning of the day leading to the real act matters. It’s also important how a man affects her woman emotionally; show affection, touch her, compliment her and talk a bit “naughty” etc. after this is done, the woman will be all wet and ready by the time the actual sex begins. Take time to caress her and engage in foreplay instead of just jumping on her like a jumpstart battery.
Your correct
@@egwudikedenis2055 Thanks.
This video was worth it.
Thank you the two amazing brown skin ladies ❤❤🇨🇲
Thanks so much you two refreshingly attractive ladies. Am distraught in my situation. I did a surgery and my prostate were removed, resulting in my very short penis. Erectile dysfunction is there to some extent. My wife says she no longer enjoys sex with me and has eyes for younger guys. At 71years, is it possible for me to work on and get a bigger penis OR is too late?? I very much want your replies. Thanks.
I work in the medical field. And see penis all the time and the doctor 👩⚕️ is right. About the average size. I concur with her. Unfortunately people not in this field won’t know or believe it to be true. Thank you Jessica for discussing this topic. I hope it helps someone.
So what's the average size?
Do u see them hard? How could u possibly know then. Theres a recent metastudy by some stanford mfers saying that the average is 6 inches
Hi, I am 5 1/2 inches in length and 4 1/2 inches in girth. Is this considered a little
@@mikec5104 is that girth accurate?
Well, the flaccid penile length is different from the erect penile length. A flaccid could be 3-4 and you see it erect to about 6-7 inches. People on sickbed don’t stand totally erect as they would on a healthier day.
It doesn't matter if you sexually satisfy a woman or not she'll just find something else to complain about
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Lol yes
best and most truthful comment on here.
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His your size big ?
Just found you on UA-cam about two days ago. If I ever need a voice over I would definitely send you an email. With topic like these I would be watching you for a long time. Even a 72 year can learn Jessica
From my experience the only reason guys care about size is because women make a big deal out of it. A lot of women aren't really vocal in bed explaining what they need from less than average sized guys. Now to be honest I'm 7 inches, and I had chic in a group conversation say that was small to her lol smh.
That chick was ran through for sure.
Maybe itd bc of your girth the length is more than enough so it's your circumference that lacks
@@loosecannonkishiko5857 , the problem is that was never mentioned in the conversation lol. The lady just said anything under 9 inch is small to her and she can't mess with it. A lot of women like to pit a lot of the blame in men but many of them ain't doing their part either to stay tight down there.
@Marcquis Jones - re: "Now to be honest..." Are you not "honest" all the time, or only when using that meaningless phrase?
@@jonesmarcquis 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣bruh said do the are not doing their part to stay tight down there...🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣HAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHANANANANA I STILL WEEPING OVER HERE
In Uganda one singer said women are funny,a small thing and a big thing all make her cry.But all in all it depends on on how you prepare your partner,age,and her preference.i know 2 ladies who told me they die for men with big whoopers,and another a half sister of mine divorced because the man was huge.But thanks u Jesca for your content 👍.
I say, rather have the size and don't need it then to need it and don't have it. Like Jessica said you don't need to put all in. For a man size does matter for our Ego and it boost our masculinity confidence.
It's always a matter of preference
Size does and doesn't matter almost at the same time, but there are other factors like the shape and girth. Almost every women says that" size doesn't matter but not all women are telling the truth. Today's women will start with what they can handle and then gradually increase. Lots of men have grown tired of being a women's starting point just to be left behind for a man who has something more.
Size wahala !!!... I am good with my 5.5'... you want more, Gerrout!!!
What a great lesson i learned from this video. It's just a confirmation of what i have been trying to tell a friend. You guys on fire ❤❤❤❤❤
I would think that it matters so much in this day and time to certain women. With all due respect I think it has to do with the way a woman anatomy works and is working. And I do think somewhat of a body count because you end up with different sizes so size can matter depending. My opinion from a males perspective sorry if I'm wrong I'm please no offense intended
This video was really interesting. Size doesn't matter at all. Penile size is a genetical factor so NO need going against GOD to make it above 17cm when full erect. But working on your health and energy management, hitting the right spots at the right time will make a man a big hero 🙌.
Wow...this is all new to me...I've never had to worry about something like this because i never tend to get into that
Hi Jess i think that size does not matter but also there is a top that we don't speak about which is how does a man recover form being told that their members are not big enough?
Long as you can make a woman climax and engage on getting her aroused size doesn’t matter, some women can handle the big dog and others can’t, I’ve been doing weight hanging for 6 months now and have gained 1/2 an inch, I started off with 2lbs now up to 6 1/2 lbs, trying to reach 9 or a little over and the results are permanent so far and I haven’t done it in 3 weeks now and I’m still that same size I’ve gained
Weight hanging? Hanging a weight of 6lb on the penis for some time in a day for 6 good months. Wow, that is something.
@@oscardonkor6745 it worked
If size doesn't matter then why are you doing this
@@travisharrell3065 for my own experiment like some women already have nice breasts but be wanting them a little bigger or a guy wanting to get muscles so they lift weights after all the penis itself is something like a muscle
It’s does work but it takes consistently (everyday) with (weight). I started it and stoped cause off how much time it consumed. Plus I got over 7 inches and I’m not gunna risk making it smaller or damaging my shi. Honestly if U over 7 inches I wouldn’t risk messing yo shi up lmao. If u under dat… honestly I would say fuck it and just do it cause U got nun too lose fr fr 😂💯🎒
Size especially length makes it easier to explore more sex positions.
You all saying size matters
During my undergraduate as a sociology student I went out with the social work for field work researching on divorce
Out of 100% of couples we couselled were actually complaining of the big size and some complain of consistent sex and some complained of both consistentbsex and big size....
To my understanding women who had series of relationships or sex who complained of sizes
There some I know who usually complain of his size to me, he could not have a relationship bcuz of the size.
By the time he had a couple of relationships and have sex he said that size doesn't matter is how you use and last long using it..
He said the lady he had relationship with didn't complain about the size but he was able to use it very well 😂 and last long without any herbs but lots of water and being enemy of anything sugar...
I have seen a lady saying size doesn't matter is how you use it some have big size and doesn't know how to use and some with big size before it gets hard you already using like 30mins to get it hard.. ..
In a nutshell size doesnt matter
Use it well and stay away from sugar
Fulfilling relationship is not all about sex,but it must consist of the package of companionship and caring for each other etc.
Sex is about 70% of fulfilling relationship
@@benajaatchie2586 it varies for each individual.
I'm not talking about the frequency of having sex rather the main point of having a partner. And the quality of sex is what maintains the relationship in long term.
@@benajaatchie2586 agreed
Technique is paramount above all else. I know many people don't want to believe that but knowing what you're doing with your partner and PAYING ATTENTION to visual and sound notes and acting on them accordingly is better than size.
Wisdom.
Brooo, don't pay attention to the sound notes... that gender can pretend just to deceive & hype you that you doing an awesome job... but on the contrary, you aren't...😂😂😂
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Very honest discussion and helpful.
Size does matter in some instances. If the lady is Big or has a big lower body, then that takes more inches off . So an average size may not be enough to please her and go in totally
Wow this dual shouldn't stop its nice how both of you bring your excitement to the screen. APRN you are a natural, thanks Jessica
This is the billion dollar question. Here in the US it matters.
Jessica has really inspire us always to have more senses of humanity status
Size will always matter. Why are women just not up front with it. Also women are having more partners than in the past. They have all told me that size matters. You can be too big or too small.
So stop saying it does not matter period.
Also women just like men are larger and smaller. Get in where you fit in.
These women are not being honest so it's painful to watch. She can like him all she wants but if it's too small, she always cheats with a larger dude.
Wooow Jessi, more education these days for this is another level of your program and is too deep although we are learning so much from you as far as this program is concerned. Bravo sist
If size does not matter, people would have been teaching how to use any size and not how to grow it. In ten women, 7 prefer a bigger size.
I agree, and I think the question is being made in the wrong way. The question should be whether women prefer bigger with good performance or smaller with good performance?
As a man I don’t really think size matters cuz (as the say it’s not the car it’s about the driver in the car.) but some women have made it hard on guys.
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Thank you so much for this educational discussion , Jessica you are doing a great job
The video is from a woman's view.
To simps that is all that matters. To me the words of a woman doesn't matter that much, they don't want to hurt weak men, like a good loving mom would do. I am good with women all my life, women don't understand themself, there are a only a view men that do understand women.
To me as a heterosexual man size does matter.
Cuz it matters To ME.
I am very proud to show it when he is needed. I have no eréctile dysfunctions cuz there is no shame for my member.
God is freedom, I don't have to use it all, but I can. And often at the end I have to, just saying.
With a small one there is no choice.
Many women enjoy it to be dominated by a big one.
Without respect their is no love and often no orgasms. If you want kids a big one helps as well.
I had girls praying on their knees.
Saying things like ...'he is so beautiful and hard!' What matters as well, he has to be hard like steal, for a big one you have to be very fit cardiovascular. To filling it up with blood and keep it for hours.
But there are lesbians without a dig at all who are loved by women.
Simps listen to women, men explain. Women hate that kinda men, that's why they allways return to men. If a woman is absolutly true to you, without the fiar of hurting you, she respects and trusts you.
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Wow! "You always comes back to together " 💝 I love it! So true... If it wasn't the case then you wouldn't needed a partner!!! Keep up the good work Jess....
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It doesn't matter if the man is making 200,000 a year or more but if your broke and small that can end a relationship quick there is some women that will break up with you if you are to small no matter how good they felt about you
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Size does matter,especially to women,but I don't know why you all keep lying about it.Any man who has insecurities about their member,most often than not it stems from their past partners. But all in all,yes are stuck with what you are born with.
Both men and women know that penile size matters greatly, especially as it relates to girth, therefore let no one deceive anyone!
It does matter. You are correct. Honesty would be of more help than BS studies being referred to.
It doesn't! You just have to hit the right spots when in coitus
@@Kelsbyname you wrong bro. I have a female friend who really really opens up to me in those things…trust me size really really matters
@@Kelsbyname bro I tell you. Size really matter
This is a great video. When I was kid in Haiti, folks used to talk about using cocoa butter or grease cocoa to make it bigger by rubbing it and pulling it. I don't know how true that was.
It doesn't, you have to understand who drives this narrative. It's the adult industry and women who have slept around a lot to the point that they need herbs or other remedies to narrow their v canals as the muscles in there get tired or become relaxed from a lot of action with men of different sizes and as such they need bigger members to even feel the penetration.
Unfortunately we are in a world where these are the people who are more vocal and drive the narrative. The porn stars and women who live a promiscuous life.
But for any woman who hasn't experienced a lot of action with many men of different sizes, it doesn't matter.
Well,I gotta love this comment right here...well said,very well said.
If size do matter because of certain sex positions, then I think when it gets to some point in the woman's life when she can't do that style again, the man will be right to go outside for someone who can do it perfectly
Never ever, I have heard behind closed doors a woman mentioned that size doesn't matter...They all said they preferred it big. not shorter than 6....at least 7.....I remember once 2 girl friends talking and one was saying how her boyfriend was big and she felt everything inside and was satisfied. I also noticed on tv women will say size doesn't matter but privately, they would prefer a big one....
I will definitely share. people should just be happy with what they have and strive to be skillful with it
I truly appreciate the ones you guys teach is so much good with great learning
Having a big tool for the job is one factor and knowing how to use that tool effectively for the job is another whole different factor
The point is don't worry about the size use the hammer and hit the nail exactly where and how you should hit it into it's objective educative 🙌
Good thing
What you need a college degree to go in and out of a woman now?
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The pump does work I know that I've used it and it added just over half an inch to me.
What pump?
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This video is very educative. I wish man who are planning to add on their penal length to an abnormal size should consider how they eat, what exercise do they do, performance in bed not only bigger member thinking it satisfy their women. I personally thing minimum size is better.
If the size is small then it literally landed into a bigger hole. If it fits well that means it lands in the perfect size.
Size doesn’t matter, what matters is, how well you can perform.
This gotta get to a million views
I love this content it more knowledgeable thanx jess
Pls, who is JESS? I watched U being in Ghana and speaking "TWI". I always find it difficult staying away from Ur voice to be precise Ur accent. I wonder who U are!!!! Be blessed JESS. U are WONDERFUL with SUPERB Program. AYEEKOOO JESS!!!
I’ve gained 2.5” in real life over a 25 year period. Just focusing on growth off and on for 6 months at a time. Perhaps a total of 4 years combined. Just know everything is possible. Also these women are being nice. Knowing what to do with an average penis and knowing what to do with a large penis brings about very different results. The results most of us are looking for.
How that possible mate
How and what methods did u use
Jelquing and stretching
What’s up fellas? To answer the question “How?” I stimulated the growth. First you have to believe. That’s the only way anything is personally possible. There are some anomalies where you can be surprised into a believer but generally speaking you have to believe. At night I would massage then I would fall asleep with a held stretch. I learned about supplements that increased blood flow as well as testosterone boosting properties. I also did the prp. Jelqing and pumping. There are also some topical rubs that enhance the appearance but it all comes with consistency. It was a lot of work but it really is possible and we’re still just learning how to build tissue up to expand our phallus. Not all pumps work. Not all supplements and not all jelqing/massaging techniques work. Through a lot of trial and error I got to my goal size but I’m still studying so I can help other men.
I believe you
I don’t want little I don’t want big.Thank you Jesica you are a celebrity more than some celebrities.
I think the saying “size doesn’t matter” is too vague. I’m not claiming to be an expert, but size does matter. I’ve had conversations with several women who’ve encountered men with micro-penises. I asked them to elaborate and they showed me their pinky finger. I just don’t see how that can pleasure any woman.
As far as average penises go with 5 inches or less I just think the positions are limited. But in the grand scheme of things I think having a jumbo penis isn’t necessary and you shouldn’t stress over not having one.
One more thing. I know way too many women who are in relationships with men who can no liver get an erection. These men are within the ages of 40 and up. That’s the real issue.
Thank you so much ladies. They say if you want to know about a woman, you should definitely ask a "woman".
Thank you very much for such an educational discussion. It has really cleared a lot of misconceptions in my head.
Thank you once again.😇
Who got educated from this nonsense ? Oh just you. Don't be naive