How long should great sex last? - APRN

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  • Worried that you're not man enough? Do you actually know if your woman is secretly bothered? How long are other men going for and how long should great sex last?
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    00:00 - Intro
    01:34 - How would you define sex
    03:27 - Unfair pressure on men to perform
    04:14 - What makes sex satisfying?
    07:13 - What do women want when it comes to sex?
    08:55 - The ideal duration
    11:55 - What if women feel unsatisfied or men have premature ejaculation?
    13:24 - Men & Sex toys
    14:45 - Wrap up

КОМЕНТАРІ • 204

  • @samueltetteh7779
    @samueltetteh7779 Рік тому +17

    The professionalism from both ends really helped achieved the target of this video. Well Done Jessica

  • @michaeljewell53
    @michaeljewell53 Рік тому +17

    Fascinating subject Jess, thank you for the constant variety of subjects and your willingness to keep things helpful and interesting,you are the best of the best UA-camrs💯 x

  • @KennedyMuhatia
    @KennedyMuhatia Рік тому +6

    I love the calmness and confidence in these two ladies

  • @tanksmakau7672
    @tanksmakau7672 Рік тому +85

    For me, there's no time limit. What matters is satisfaction on both sides.

  • @uniquemolau
    @uniquemolau Рік тому +10

    I always find your videos helpful Jessica, keep it up.❤️

  • @jawansherrod4581
    @jawansherrod4581 Рік тому +4

    This whole conversation & video is maturity growth

  • @CarlosRamirez-xx6jz
    @CarlosRamirez-xx6jz Рік тому +28

    I really liked this awesome conversation between women who know what they are talking about.
    * 3 to 7 minutes sex action *
    It's normal. 👍👍
    Nice advice !! 👌

  • @lawrencelogan5100
    @lawrencelogan5100 11 місяців тому

    Yea! Jessica back online. So happy to see you doing you, Much ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ (thank you for you doing what you do, love your show)

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  11 місяців тому +1

      Thank you so much!!

  • @roymoore8891
    @roymoore8891 Рік тому

    Great Subject. Very good & educational discussion. 👍

  • @geranopozzys7184
    @geranopozzys7184 Рік тому

    Great videos 🔥🔥🔥 really helpful 💯 keep it up with such videos

  • @mayowababatunde8717
    @mayowababatunde8717 Рік тому +1

    Great video,I love every conversation.

  • @michaelnelson9814
    @michaelnelson9814 Рік тому

    That was some great info Jess!!!

  • @Accuface2000
    @Accuface2000 Рік тому +14

    As long as a woman is into you, she will do anything. You can be skillful, doing foreplay and all the right things, if she is not into you, it won't keep her. That's why you find some women in abusive relationships, doing some humiliating stuff in the bedroom.

    • @frankogbes33
      @frankogbes33 Рік тому

      You lie. This is beyond English. All ladies love the pleasure that comes from sex and they want it for a longer period of time. Girls will always go for guyz who can make them enjoy sex more and will adjust, do what it takes to keep that person

  • @williamking5621
    @williamking5621 Рік тому +1

    Thanks so much with that information i feel so good that you all explain that.

  • @nwachukwuohameje8570
    @nwachukwuohameje8570 3 місяці тому

    ❤❤❤ to the two of you on how you communicated this topic.

  • @dpecosta
    @dpecosta 10 місяців тому

    Hi Jess, this my first time and I enjoyed your topic. Thank you

  • @raston_
    @raston_ Рік тому +4

    Nice convo 💯
    When u study most primates, birds & even insects in our animal kingdom, it's all about MULTIPLE QUICKIES.. Sex is not meant to last long in a moment but can be enjoyed in several or multiple short moments in the day.
    MINDSET or REASON for the act also plays a big factor in lasting quite longer or just getting it done in a minute

  • @prostd7281
    @prostd7281 Рік тому +2

    I just came to find this channel i really love all you talking about girls. Jessica may God bless, you keep sharing those informations with us because we as boys we really need to put on our mind all you're saying one thing is like men doesn't take her time to give pleasure to her partner , we have to take our time to make our girfriend, housband, whatever feels good during that period no need to hurry up because the girl is yours so, the game is your guys
    Jessica thanks a lot again me as a man really need it

  • @emmanuelagbafor2027
    @emmanuelagbafor2027 Рік тому +2

    Very educative conversation

  • @agyeimaxwell.
    @agyeimaxwell. Рік тому +3

    Keep up the good work 🤜♥️💥

  • @seanpatrick7497
    @seanpatrick7497 Рік тому +8

    Great information. As a lifelong minuteman, I've always made sure to make the foreplay to be the main focus of the session. This makes for a happy wife. 😊

  • @cyrustbangalee3474
    @cyrustbangalee3474 Рік тому

    Well done Jess

  • @petermusyoka6479
    @petermusyoka6479 Рік тому +5

    Such a nice discussion
    As for me,find what your spouse wants and do exactly that...Ultimately,what matters is quality and not the quantity!

  • @orvillebrown9848
    @orvillebrown9848 Рік тому +2

    Lady respect great conversation

  • @johnarthur4274
    @johnarthur4274 10 місяців тому

    Rev John Arthur from Trinidad and Tobago very good program

  • @geoffreymalimo3312
    @geoffreymalimo3312 Рік тому +1

    The vibe is always to awesome

  • @antonykj1838
    @antonykj1838 9 місяців тому

    Good presentation pointable. Lilly you said it sex is not a competition go ahead 👍

  • @ivorthomas468
    @ivorthomas468 Рік тому

    Very informative.

  • @skyhighgroup4483
    @skyhighgroup4483 5 місяців тому +1

    We As Men feels Guilty...leaving Our Women unsatisfied...Every Man feels that Pressure, as for me, whether its a Quickie or Marathon.. I always make Sure to leave that Romantic Battle Field like a King am supposed to be.

  • @aaronayemantey1143
    @aaronayemantey1143 Рік тому +1

    My take home from this session is ..... Everyone is different ,,✌️...thank you luv 💕

  • @chrispaulssemakula8948
    @chrispaulssemakula8948 Рік тому +1

    That's great and educative

  • @Habbexity
    @Habbexity Рік тому +5

    I love Ur show great Jessica

  • @Kryss89
    @Kryss89 Рік тому +7

    Men don’t give themselves the pressure of wanting to last long. Women put the pressure on us

    • @Nicebello_
      @Nicebello_ Рік тому

      This is the issue ! 💀😑

  • @nixonmacelus4448
    @nixonmacelus4448 Рік тому +1

    Always good debate

  • @dwayne4576
    @dwayne4576 25 днів тому

    Great content

  • @josephwachira-jz4bt
    @josephwachira-jz4bt Рік тому

    Great conversation, keep it up ladies ❤❤❤👍👍

  • @Robson-gd7hp
    @Robson-gd7hp 10 місяців тому

    Well done girls...very helpful

  • @hakimislam6218
    @hakimislam6218 Рік тому +4

    This topic can be very subjective, depending on each individual's sexual desire, as well as their level of maturity. The best sex is when it's organic and you didn't plan it!

  • @MickyTubbs1985
    @MickyTubbs1985 Рік тому +3

    Realistically the answer is simply, ' till what has gone up( DESIRE)has come down provided that time is NOT relevant and Consequential.😉

  • @adogbejiemmanuel9865
    @adogbejiemmanuel9865 10 місяців тому

    I absolutely love this Lilly lady u both absolutely blow me away

  • @konshuslivin693
    @konshuslivin693 Рік тому +3

    Hi Jessica Oz. This platform is really interesting and am locked on here from the island of Trinidad and Tobago
    How can i get a package or bottle of joy mode? Blessings love!

  • @abimbolaowolabi4985
    @abimbolaowolabi4985 Рік тому +4

    I think the duration of sex for men should be how long it takes to make a woman come, followed by the man coming. That way both partners are satisfied.

    • @demolaabdul2422
      @demolaabdul2422 7 місяців тому +1

      you nailed it.. Agreed 💯.. Have always been counting this way...

  • @jermaineallen6266
    @jermaineallen6266 10 місяців тому

    I agree the same way people love people for multiple reasons for that reason they change when something is missing .Same senario with sex position is what changes stuff and how confortable we are with a person .
    Great sex is often experience with someone you love .

  • @ajm_star
    @ajm_star Рік тому +8

    Satisfy Her, lead her there, take control, get her there at the right time and let her wonder how did you do that.
    You're welcome

    • @sigma_z
      @sigma_z Рік тому +3

      Time is always right if you're a real man that she finds absolutely undeniably attractive

    • @Koyasi78
      @Koyasi78 4 місяці тому

      Bruh, I had one lady ask me (during) "where did you learn how to do this?"
      Blood was elsewhere at the time so I said something silly like reading is fundamental. But that's exactly where I learned those things.

  • @kennethyoung4892
    @kennethyoung4892 Рік тому +1

    Good content

  • @evertonthomas3883
    @evertonthomas3883 Рік тому

    Wishing her the best😊😊😊.

  • @piecepatrick2056
    @piecepatrick2056 Рік тому +1

    Experience have a lot to do with it especially when two Experience meets each others it catches fire

  • @piecepatrick2056
    @piecepatrick2056 Рік тому +2

    Younger men are in a hurry most older men takes their time they drive the car with care

  • @mrmoe110
    @mrmoe110 Рік тому +4

    They may have been disappointed but I've never had a woman complain that I didn't last long enough. But I have had instances where I last forever. I just can't "bust" no matter what. Women definitely don't like that.

  • @zamushodge4590
    @zamushodge4590 Рік тому +1

    It's always a wright way to do and find out

  • @Cool12_782
    @Cool12_782 11 місяців тому

    Good talk

  • @josephnyapokoto3015
    @josephnyapokoto3015 Рік тому

    Hie Jessica! Do you know of all these things out of experience? Aah........, it's astounding!!!

  • @etimspeed
    @etimspeed Рік тому +8

    At first, I thought it was u showing us your younger version.
    Then secondly, why us men under so much pressure always and in everythn? Penis does not have a battery to make it last longer. Men under pressure to pay bills and also under pressure to keep penis up for 30 mins. All at the same time.

  • @adebisiolawuyi2618
    @adebisiolawuyi2618 Рік тому

    Hi, is Joymode only available in the United States?

  • @sianscorp5509
    @sianscorp5509 7 місяців тому

    Hi Jess. You have pretty eyes. They stand out in nearly all your videos 🙂👌

  • @totobibioo7251
    @totobibioo7251 Рік тому

    For both parties to reach “nirvana” , first you must comfortably find each other and be in tune. The time factor is essential however be open to the wonderful world of sex.

  • @Abelson-vo5ly
    @Abelson-vo5ly Рік тому +2

    Can we organize an Oscar for her please?

  • @StunninMedia
    @StunninMedia Рік тому

    Please Jessica, are there some KPIs that needs to be seen in order to rate a romantic relationship successful?

  • @user-qd9xs1hb3q
    @user-qd9xs1hb3q 11 місяців тому

    Time is necessary in such moment Cuz if you don't last long again it might lead to a serious problem in your relationship cuz we men are always under the impression of satisfying our sex counterparts than just satisfying yourself as a man.
    That's my honest opinion towards this conversation under discussion.

  • @mogale_wa_bahwaduba
    @mogale_wa_bahwaduba Рік тому +2

    In my personal experience duration doesn't matter that much, so is the penis size. It depends on the couple connection & preferences.

  • @morrismwenda9138
    @morrismwenda9138 Рік тому +1

    Vipromac can help❤
    Jess its more mental than physical

  • @Hardman11
    @Hardman11 10 місяців тому

    And depending, if you not have s for long time it will be less 5 minutes but if you doing at least 3 times a week, you can be last 40 minutes.

  • @earleneworrell
    @earleneworrell Рік тому +1

    Sorry William J I hear you.

  • @palmypalms2387
    @palmypalms2387 11 місяців тому

    I've had ladies who doesn't get satisfied with just a few minutes,but would require a whole lot of efforts .They didn't even want a stop.

  • @amosbanpil5956
    @amosbanpil5956 Рік тому +1

    You're just special!

  • @user-jt9sf9iz6k
    @user-jt9sf9iz6k Рік тому +13

    When it comes to sex and duration, it varies. Some women would prefer several quickies in one night to one or two marathons in one night. However, it important to know what your man is capable of and you condition each other for sexual satisfaction each time.

  • @ismaelabekaassan8355
    @ismaelabekaassan8355 Рік тому

    For me the true is Ajagrajah power man he makes away very well no matter what is going on with power ajagrajah

  • @amaradavid001
    @amaradavid001 Рік тому +1

    Are we saying 3 To 7 Minutes Including Event Fore Play. Please Answer. To Me Normal Sex Including Fore Play Should Last For 30 Minutes

  • @martinyeboah5526
    @martinyeboah5526 Рік тому +1

    The best sex is subjective from those involved

  • @FruNgang-by3eo
    @FruNgang-by3eo Рік тому +2

    Young Men hope you heard
    THERE IS NOTHING TO PROOF

  • @henrymudenda1375
    @henrymudenda1375 Рік тому

    How are you Jess? How can I have eyes like yours?

  • @casino8603
    @casino8603 Рік тому +2

    It differs from partner to partner

  • @LRD113
    @LRD113 Рік тому +9

    Really good 👍 a lots of young men need to listen to real women, and not look at some sex channels and believe that is real life 👍😊

  • @alphansobrown3623
    @alphansobrown3623 Рік тому +1

    Until one player gets knock out cold .

  • @MrCape_Studios
    @MrCape_Studios Рік тому +2

    She should always swing by.... 😂😂❤❤❤

  • @ibrookajamupalmer
    @ibrookajamupalmer 11 місяців тому +1

    Some women demand more than others

  • @zarrzarr9989
    @zarrzarr9989 Рік тому +1

    connection between a man and women intimacy

  • @kelvinmallory8143
    @kelvinmallory8143 Рік тому +6

    I've Been In Battle ( The Bed ) With A Lot Of Women ( & Yes I Use A Rubber Everytime ) & A Majority Of Them Said That I Was Good &/Or Made Their Legs Trimble

  • @albertzoombandlouis4491
    @albertzoombandlouis4491 Рік тому +3

    We go for at least a half hour or so, because im sampling everything along the way. My timing is based on how
    Close she is
    To the finish
    Line. Crossing
    The finish
    Line together
    is the best! The
    Journey is
    Sometimes
    Better than the
    Destination. I
    Though we
    Said it was
    Gonna be a
    Quickie!! 😂😂

  • @Koyasi78
    @Koyasi78 4 місяці тому

    Talk to a soldier who has been in a fire fight. They will typically have a story of how long it took (a few minutes or less) and because of the intensity of the experience how long that time actually felt (forever). When the mind is consumed in an intense experience time literally slows down. You can recreate that in sex through foreplay. And foreplay can last for days of done right.
    My lady asked me to never stop playing with her. So foreplay is actually all the time.

  • @michaeloteng-ampoe4441
    @michaeloteng-ampoe4441 Рік тому

    Jesss, is your guest a sister ? She resembles you. ❤

  • @mavusodoug7774
    @mavusodoug7774 Рік тому +1

    Oh what a piece of...uhm, help me with the right term...Inspiration, eye opener. Uhm I read in men's health magazine in the early 2000s that on average sex should be 17 minutes...mhh🤭

  • @kerripendragon4888
    @kerripendragon4888 Рік тому +9

    Generally, younger men between 17 to 36 usually perform better and longer [ 15 to 45 minutes a round] than men in their 40s, 50s. Also , exercise, diet and stress levels affect males alot.

    • @christagedesign273
      @christagedesign273 Рік тому +2

      You are right but there are some exceptional men even in their 50s you will see something,also fitness matters

    • @mkstudioskimeu6981
      @mkstudioskimeu6981 Рік тому

      Fitness and diet plus message

    • @detornam
      @detornam Рік тому

      45 minutes of constant intercourse will be boring. Who wants to be having coition for 45 minutes?

    • @raston_
      @raston_ Рік тому

      It all depends on the individual's MINDSET at the moment

  • @patrickedugyamfi4157
    @patrickedugyamfi4157 Рік тому

    Is it normal for 15 to 30 minutes, and some time I last more. Thanks

  • @omarsallah3858
    @omarsallah3858 Рік тому +1

    Foreplay counts a lot in my point of view.

  • @TheChallenger1000
    @TheChallenger1000 Рік тому

    I don't know. I can't finish in 3 to 7 minutes. I have to beat it out for at least an hour straight. If not, I'm not satisfied at all.

  • @wayvalgraham3452
    @wayvalgraham3452 7 місяців тому

    I agree with the toys trust me, the toys can be use before actual intercourse begins it helps to heat up the moment but then again it comes down to what both are looking for and the moment

  • @LowQualityMeme12
    @LowQualityMeme12 Рік тому

    Jesse I’m a video and graphic designer and I would like to work with you

  • @celesteredding1550
    @celesteredding1550 Рік тому +3

    With "great" sex it's an individual couple intimate moment. There isn't a timetable.

    • @circleofblessing9580
      @circleofblessing9580 Рік тому

      Let me guess, you are the daughter of Sokrates??? Your amount of knowledge is mind boggling 😅

  • @2slicvillian
    @2slicvillian Рік тому +2

    An hour if done right and men it is possible to last an hour

    • @amels4620
      @amels4620 Рік тому

      1st round at 30 minutes is sufficient but you must get that foreplay in.

  • @nortonmwaura6123
    @nortonmwaura6123 Рік тому +2

    Well there's no length of time a man should last, it all depends with a woman through experience if a woman is lose a man can even stay in there for 2-3 good hrs and if a woman is tight gripped a man can last for 15-40 mins ...most of them last 10mins cuz of its grip tightness and hot ...😊

    • @seanpatrick7497
      @seanpatrick7497 Рік тому

      2-3 hours of pumping and grinding? Not sure if there are many women looking for that kind of a workout. 😏

  • @efosahawkins8077
    @efosahawkins8077 11 місяців тому

    I think Lilly and Jess has some resemblance, I almost thought they were family ❤

  • @YJnrHaLa
    @YJnrHaLa Рік тому +2

    Come on 24hours in a day and 3-7 mins... Oh well... But it don't cut it for me. We both got to climax or something, just don't leave a partner hanging. I'll feel like I'm losing a chip or setting free a wild cat. That's a dangerous risk. The toys might help but that's lifeless and not an option for me as a partner. The feelings attached to intercourse is irreplaceable. I'm not married yet but I believe it's for two people's companionship

  • @nicholasbuyoya4290
    @nicholasbuyoya4290 Рік тому

    Wish it came in a can or bottle it’s too much tedious 😤

  • @disandestiny3655
    @disandestiny3655 Рік тому

    Toys no no it makes nerves even rougher to become sensitive

  • @dtlaking333
    @dtlaking333 Рік тому +1

    3-5 minutes not including 4 play

  • @rodneysessoms8804
    @rodneysessoms8804 Рік тому +2

    30-45 minutes

  • @MDkafeeluddin-cs1tg
    @MDkafeeluddin-cs1tg Рік тому +1

    Jessica this question is for men i think

  • @benender7021
    @benender7021 Рік тому

    The thing is for you to know how great sex is u need that distance long so u can put in all the right energy

  • @johannesengland8864
    @johannesengland8864 Рік тому

    Thankfully to see such conversation
    But I have a problem with sex toys for women's to be using it. It totally a completion.
    Reason be as long as two partners are having intimacy (sex) then the one happens to reach his/her clamax without the other, especially the man then the woman decided to use a sex toy please herself that's totally wrong.
    I don't buy the idea.
    If you can come up again with that same topic to clear up the air that will be fine.
    Once again thanks to you guy's for reaching out with this knowledge.