10 Common But Avoidable Mistakes Men Make In Bed

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  • @JessicaOS
    @JessicaOS  Рік тому +29

    Kindly note that I will never give you a phone number to contact me on. Please beware of fake Jessica OS accounts looking to scam you. The only way to have any direct conversation with me is via my Patreon account. Www.patreon.com/jessicaos . Stay safe guys!

    • @paulophilip7948
      @paulophilip7948 Рік тому +2

      Oops, just when I tot l had won big with a personal contact from Jess. So the person that contacted me was a scam artist.🤕🤔

    • @fambaassumani2253
      @fambaassumani2253 Рік тому

      Sorry. It was just simple slip of tongue on the other side of views. Be blessed

    • @aubrienmkandawire4253
      @aubrienmkandawire4253 Рік тому

      I just enjoy your take on different romantic/relationship advises..We will never satisfy women at all.

    • @sigma_z
      @sigma_z Рік тому

      What about from biological men who identifies as Jessica OS?. 🤣🤣🤣
      I identify as Elon Musk but Banks never give me my billions... For some reason... I show them my passport, but tell them I identify as Elon Musk. And then when they reject me, I tell them that I now identify as Jeff Besos... But still, no billions... 😪

  • @taysharkz1
    @taysharkz1 Рік тому +44

    I understand and you're right about about this. However, someone needs to male a video that explains to women that they shouldn't be so difficult. I only heard one woman in my life that made a video telling women to learn to go off the mans flow sometimes. It honestly gets boring doing everything for a woman. Woman need to learn to do things for us as well.

    • @montlee1990
      @montlee1990 Рік тому +4

      Agreed and were less complicated well tell what we need they’ll just play mental gymnastics

    • @wallacelambert9308
      @wallacelambert9308 Рік тому +7

      💯 she even started this video with a straight up insult to men. Seems every sex tip video is all about what MEN should know and what MEN should do right. Love you ladies but trust me, you could learn a thing or two also. Stop putting all of the responsibility to know everything and do everything just right on us men. You want a good love life? Put some of your own effort into learning something about your man as well. Aren't there two people involved in sex? It's not all up to the man

    • @rhymzyoronni3660
      @rhymzyoronni3660 Рік тому +3

      @@wallacelambert9308you are on point but our gender need to start speaking up

    • @wallacelambert9308
      @wallacelambert9308 Рік тому +1

      @@rhymzyoronni3660 that's just what I'm doing bro

  • @samadopeyemi9684
    @samadopeyemi9684 Рік тому

    Mehn you always hit 🔥❤️

  • @tonyonyia7357
    @tonyonyia7357 Рік тому +1

    Why is sex all about women? Always mounting pressure on the men pls this sex thing should be balanced

  • @symlexbrn5396
    @symlexbrn5396 Рік тому +15

    Some women are shy to open up, and don't want to talk about intimacy no matter what you do, some don't want to be touched all over, they just want the main meal straight, this will confuse men especially when they've learnt everything they could do.

  • @burzeeburzee5679
    @burzeeburzee5679 Рік тому +6

    Hey guys are you not tired of getting to know women. Even the God self can't satisfy them... we are tired they should rather learn how to satisfy us too. Hit like button if you agree.

  • @npzwane9331
    @npzwane9331 Рік тому +11

    The simple thing to avoid this problem is not to have sex before marriage. And once married only have sex with your spouse. By so doing there will be no comparison between the performance of the present partner and the previous

    • @TimothyNyota
      @TimothyNyota Рік тому +1

      best advice ever

    • @mobydick5046
      @mobydick5046 Рік тому +2

      Never get into a lifelong commitment without practice and experience. Play the field long enough and then use your experience to choose and marry the right girl, if such is available.

    • @waltonwilson2149
      @waltonwilson2149 Рік тому +1

      God's way is always best.

    • @goodman4093
      @goodman4093 Рік тому +1

      The best comment so far.

  • @fredericktsanu
    @fredericktsanu Рік тому +3

    Nr 9 Women should remember that men have to erect before having sex and it is sometimes difficult to stay in that energy without being distracted by some actions of the woman. that is why men rush sometimes. Ask men first about how they feel too men are not puppets ok

  • @patrickrumbu2902
    @patrickrumbu2902 Рік тому +16

    I like how you talking about something sensual and still kept it clean.
    I came to learn after my uni that sex with a woman isn't about the sex itself (as a youngster, we all thought is about power & heavy lifting)...since the day I learned that, that knowledge has been invaluable & I have kept myself for the 'it girl', cause I can't go through that stress for someone unworthy; all those procedures - care, attention, planning...all those good stuffs.
    Thank you, Jess.

  • @Arnieshines
    @Arnieshines Рік тому +2

    Jst like we are told by u ladies that we should be patient and cook u first, it's important u also know that men actually go through a painful process in this image ur already aroused and I take minutes and minutes telling u to first arouse me, how would u feel ladies... That's what we feel, truth is u take longer we take seconds to turn on, so it should be 50,50 mens Desire is getting straight in, so let's make it fair, at times I should cook u and bare the pain, at times u should let go and bare the pain thats a win win, let's start thinking about men's desires too ladies

  • @iamefodanyo
    @iamefodanyo Рік тому +9

    @JessicaOs you deserve a million plus subs or millions. You're one of my UA-cam idols. I'm learning a lot & will apply them too 😊

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  Рік тому +3

      Awww thanks

    • @iamefodanyo
      @iamefodanyo Рік тому

      @@JessicaOS welcome Ma'am 🙏🏽

    • @luisluigi950
      @luisluigi950 Рік тому

      ​@@JessicaOS I wanted to comment about mourning it ain't true about mourning men should mourn

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  Рік тому

      @@luisluigi950 ok

  • @d.bcooper2271
    @d.bcooper2271 Рік тому +34

    The most frequently expressed complaint women have about men is that men don't listen. Either man completely ignores her when she speaks or he listens for few beats, assesses what bothering her and then he proudly puts on his mr fix-it hat and offer her a solution to make her feel better. No matter how many times she tells him that he's not listening, he doesn't get it and he keeps doing the same thing. She wants empathy. He thinks she wants solutions.

    • @rodneyglenn7704
      @rodneyglenn7704 Рік тому

      Ps and I'm not listening these modern women hit a real nerve

    • @graciegracie
      @graciegracie Рік тому +4

      Feelers vs. thinkers

    • @joneschilufya867
      @joneschilufya867 Рік тому +3

      Men want to listen but the problem most of the things that they are complaining about is what the man is not doing; in other words women are all about themselves. I can't seat there listening to her complaining abt things I'm not doing when she's not doing anything for me either.

    • @yurisebastiao1872
      @yurisebastiao1872 Рік тому +2

      Men are from Mars and women are from Venus

  • @charlesouma2803
    @charlesouma2803 Рік тому +7

    No doubt. This is the greatest video of all time! Watching from Kenya🇰🇪

  • @paulophilip7948
    @paulophilip7948 Рік тому +7

    Modern women require too much. Our mothers, grandmothers did not ask these things. Today's environment put much pressure on men to deliver things society put on men's shoulders to keep a home.
    After going through all the day's stress of bringing in the bread. It would be a bit asking too much for him to face more stress at home because Alice in wonderland has gigantic fantasies that needs to be fulfilled.
    The least she should do is happily spread those legs apart and let him come off. On the weekends, when work is a bit reduced, he can slow down and put in the work on her body.
    Anyways, thanks for a great vlog Jess, this information is handy. And I will try to keep these pointers in mind to satisfy my partner more.

  • @dmsthemastermind8563
    @dmsthemastermind8563 Рік тому +9

    One of the things I love about you Jessica is your fluency and articulation, can I know what helped you in this act and how someone can replicate that ?

  • @ShogoMakishimaxx
    @ShogoMakishimaxx Рік тому +3

    She's completely right! My boyfriend does all of these.

  • @sokibobmanuel8150
    @sokibobmanuel8150 Рік тому +4

    Thank's Jessica, I'm most impressed by your lectures today.
    These errors are really common in me but trust me, I will make an improvement starting from now.
    Thanks

  • @fegursonokwori8193
    @fegursonokwori8193 Рік тому +5

    This is the best UA-cam channel I've seen. So detailed, concise. It has improved me a lot. Thanks Jessica

  • @yerojalloh6750
    @yerojalloh6750 Рік тому +5

    Jessica, u never disappoint me. Your advises are always on point. Thanks 👍

  • @sigma_z
    @sigma_z Рік тому +7

    Someone told me that if you have to ask if a girl is enjoying it or for feedback then you've already lost the girl because the girl will see this as someone who's weak and inexperienced.
    Which is a vicious circle because you can't get good at something unless you have experience and if you don't get feedback then you can't get better, yet women's minds are wired to not want a man who's not good in bed.
    It doesn't make any sense. But then again, we're talking about women's logic here. 😂

  • @AbuBright-pb8qy
    @AbuBright-pb8qy Рік тому +1

    Funny enough all the things you list are same thing most men would want from a woman, including me.. sex is a team work, that requires equal input from both parties.

  • @ochaijonathan1440
    @ochaijonathan1440 Рік тому +1

    This video is very interesting and educative, but what do you do when a woman is completely not informative about herself? she does not know what turns her on or what part is better to be touched, she is completely unwilling to try more or put more effort into her sexuality, shy away from foreplay. I mean completely seems to be always absent-minded- u know stiff and unresponsive. Because in this perfect scenario, the guy makes good effort and have tried to talk and get a better view from the lady but there is no proper response. Like what does he do at this point

  • @calebcadainoo
    @calebcadainoo Рік тому +2

    Totally agreee

  • @normansindana4366
    @normansindana4366 Рік тому +1

    Tenderness, Love, Patience and the journey of partner and self discovery.
    Flirting during the day.
    Communication, Love and affection long before and just preparation for her specially talk through it.
    Neck, belly shoulder, butt plays have really pushed the experience higher and more romantic. Secret fantasies opened up a new dimensions when she relaxes and opens up during the act.
    🎉🎉🎉🎉
    It takes both pleasuring to make it worth remembering, talking about even the next day

  • @aklikpe
    @aklikpe Рік тому +5

    Jessica is always on point, this mistakes are very deep and many people are skeptical to touch it. But you have dissect it to the lowest level for our consumption. Thanks very much.

  • @paulnyame7632
    @paulnyame7632 Рік тому +1

    If you still take your time and she does not still tell you she did enjoy what do you
    do?

  • @uafyoung
    @uafyoung Рік тому +1

    VERY FUNNY...SHE SAID "FORGETING TO BREATH" BASE ON E DEY SWEET LOL..... GOD ABEG LOL

  • @tanksmakau7672
    @tanksmakau7672 Рік тому +3

    Many thanks. You've reshaped me about so many things about relationships.

  • @deanpilatemarevesa7459
    @deanpilatemarevesa7459 Рік тому +2

    been following you fo more than a year now, though I have to confess that I let one lady have her way with me, for study purposes though. u r absolutely on point, always!!! keep them coming!

  • @johnjennings9693
    @johnjennings9693 Рік тому +5

    Do all this then they ghost you and block you,

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  Рік тому +1

      😅😅😅 then they weren't for you in the first place

    • @godsona9053
      @godsona9053 Рік тому +4

      Women will tell you what they want. Do it and they lose interest. They don't want peace.

    • @josepheneasare3687
      @josepheneasare3687 Рік тому +1

      😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂,,u caught my attention dude 😂😂😂😃😄.

  • @Trailblazer100
    @Trailblazer100 Рік тому +1

    Gotta give it to you Jessica…….. I’ve heard these things before. This is THE RAW TRUTH💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥✌🏾

  • @MarkKaranjaM4K
    @MarkKaranjaM4K Рік тому +1

    Target locked...proceed with full intent...save time, I've got places to be and money to make😎

  • @michaelparrison1766
    @michaelparrison1766 Рік тому +1

    Very Valuable Information, Thanks 👍

  • @blessedjoe3486
    @blessedjoe3486 Рік тому +3

    You are doing a great job. Something we cannot get from any other source because people will rather avoid them than courting bad name. Thank you so much.

  • @ocheroronald1628
    @ocheroronald1628 Рік тому +2

    First to comment 🥰. Thank you Jessica ❤️. Watching from Nairobi Kenya

  • @kurtlee41
    @kurtlee41 Рік тому +2

    This lady is a true professional in this department!
    She's a great teacher! students listen. I remember when I was trash, an now I am a commaditty needed.

  • @morrislarneyosah149
    @morrislarneyosah149 Рік тому +11

    I have learnt and my love life will never be the same 🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @harimolukune2395
    @harimolukune2395 Рік тому +1

    Thanks Jessica your informative videos are working magic in my marriage much appreciated..G.B.U

  • @josephatrwaichi7572
    @josephatrwaichi7572 Рік тому +2

    Jessica.. I just love the way you explain things...very helpful. Much love from Tanzania 🇹🇿.

  • @formicapple2
    @formicapple2 Рік тому +6

    Many thanks. I wish I had that knowledge 35 years ago when my wife and I were married. My incompetence led to the last 30 years of a wife who eventually refused any form of intimacy or affection. We are good friends and house mates though.

    • @emmanuelighorodje7269
      @emmanuelighorodje7269 Рік тому +6

      She was definitely cheating on you

    • @Gravitti85
      @Gravitti85 Рік тому

      So you havent smashed in the last 30yrs?

    • @formicapple2
      @formicapple2 Рік тому

      @@emmanuelighorodje7269 absolutely not. I know for sure.

    • @formicapple2
      @formicapple2 Рік тому +4

      @@Gravitti85 no. I’ve learned to be celibate within my marriage. Marriage is sacred. I would never go outside my marriage for sex. Instead I’ve learnt that sex is not the only aspect of marriage.

    • @mobydick5046
      @mobydick5046 Рік тому +2

      @@formicapple2 Celibate in marriage? Are you insane? You are torturing her!

  • @grahamturner1290
    @grahamturner1290 Рік тому +3

    Hope 2023 has started well for you! ❤️

  • @BudoReflex
    @BudoReflex Рік тому +1

    Put it in, enjoy the bioelectrical buzz, kiss deeply. The more you listen to women the less you will understand.

  • @Nwannebuike
    @Nwannebuike Рік тому +2

    Knowledge is the power to perform magic. You're on point Jessica, kposaaa for you.

  • @morrisisalambo2796
    @morrisisalambo2796 Рік тому +2

    very articulate indeed keep it up

  • @thandorosenthaljanuary4547
    @thandorosenthaljanuary4547 Рік тому +1

    Exactly! #1 is crucial! I always say foreplay starts when you open the door for her as you go out on a date

  • @richmayor4027
    @richmayor4027 Рік тому

    I have a question for you, popular question of the day. Do u think a woman should accept money from another man?

  • @inspirewisdom
    @inspirewisdom Рік тому +1

    Usually the men that go into score a goal are the men with brute strength and they see "this the chance to put the ball in the net" . They do it based on Nigerian Parlance "The Gra Gra Way"

  • @ottobismarkamanya98
    @ottobismarkamanya98 Рік тому +2

    Thanks so much jessica for this priceless info...Am ashamed, but I have learnt a lot🙏

  • @EmmanuelKwao-kw5yv
    @EmmanuelKwao-kw5yv 5 місяців тому

    No get mistake again for bed
    I love my Mrs Jessica in lovely
    Wife l give you big respect you
    Forever more my life no get mistake
    People your give me bad no happ
    This place is good in true topic
    No get mistake my all lovely honey
    In Mrs Jessica Os 🤜🌳💯🇬🇭🥒👍💚👌🌏🌳🤛

  • @philipjnrbuck3623
    @philipjnrbuck3623 Рік тому +2

    Thank you, Jessica

  • @abdullahiadan2898
    @abdullahiadan2898 Рік тому +3

    Thank you Jessica. The video is great and quite informative ❤

  • @emmanuelsalako7370
    @emmanuelsalako7370 Рік тому +1

    Lovely outfit Jessica, 2023 is really making you look good, I dear to say black is your colour, the hair style is a nice touch, keep up the great work

  • @womancaretaker
    @womancaretaker Рік тому +1

    My channel is Woman Care Taker

  • @SINGH-lg9ty
    @SINGH-lg9ty Рік тому +1

    AMAZING VIDEO THANK YOU

  • @directorsampro
    @directorsampro Рік тому +1

    😊😊I like this content, I would like to know what kind of camera 📷 you use please 🙏🙏!?

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  Рік тому +1

      Check my video description. The list of my gear I use is all there

    • @directorsampro
      @directorsampro Рік тому

      @@JessicaOS wow this is really great 😊 and keep it up the grad hard work

  • @sbonisoskhosana5590
    @sbonisoskhosana5590 Рік тому +1

    Those with ears have heard.Amen 🙏 🇿🇦

  • @Nibitor9353
    @Nibitor9353 25 днів тому

    Great channel! I really appreciate your honesty and your no-nonsense approach!

  • @JohnDoe-pt7tg
    @JohnDoe-pt7tg Рік тому

    sounds like a lot of work and I also have to conquer the world and be successful whilst also learning how to pleasure women?

  • @austinevick
    @austinevick Рік тому +2

    Great tips. Thanks Jessica

  • @RankinMarquisHebrewIsraelites

    Women need stop throwing salt on men that they know not a homosexual but out of thier own Hatred & Jealously

  • @contehalimamy4872
    @contehalimamy4872 Рік тому +1

    Third to comment. Thanks for the video Jessica

  • @nkosingiphilengcobo2110
    @nkosingiphilengcobo2110 Рік тому +1

    Hi Jessica, I'm always with everyday watching your videos and you've made me a new man Thank you ❤️❤️💯💯💯💯

  • @thembakhumalo3113
    @thembakhumalo3113 Рік тому

    Sharp-shootimg Jessica 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿...unmasking all the heroes. You're a star...

  • @sundayokpanachi4480
    @sundayokpanachi4480 Рік тому

    Hi jissica how are doing' I really love this.

  • @AustinBlings-rz4tj
    @AustinBlings-rz4tj Рік тому

    I enjoy watching your vy🤗❤️

  • @rhymzyoronni3660
    @rhymzyoronni3660 Рік тому

    i’ve always loved your content but this one is one sided

  • @thehealthbodyfitness
    @thehealthbodyfitness Рік тому +1

    Great information Jessica ❤❤❤

  • @paulcampbell8886
    @paulcampbell8886 Рік тому

    Good morning Jessica. I love your content. Wish I knew this 40 years ago. Bless up yuhself everytime Oriented woman. Yeah man 👏🇯🇲💐🇺🇸😎

  • @tylebglover7481
    @tylebglover7481 Рік тому

    It's all Control... chemistry is chemistry...control is control...break the control and have the way....i dont listen to a female when I know what to do....SLOW DOWN is the only response.....then?..some take control back and break him....that's my issue.

  • @musaa.olarray6456
    @musaa.olarray6456 Рік тому +1

    Top topic, very educative, thanks

  • @salxonico
    @salxonico Рік тому

    Thx....
    So if "intercourse" is an art, what is a quickie?
    Love making is the art, which starts BEFORE intercourse.

  • @djkoboko3688
    @djkoboko3688 Рік тому

    Do you suffer from premature ejaculation? Hit me up

  • @teachersikhumbuzomoyo5419
    @teachersikhumbuzomoyo5419 Рік тому

    My jess my bombshell teach we real ignorant for sure💪😍 as guys

  • @luckyhmasasa4720
    @luckyhmasasa4720 Рік тому

    💯💯💯💯💯🌹💥💥🔥I have nothing to say, but I love it, because you're talking the truth

  • @fombohfrankline9182
    @fombohfrankline9182 Рік тому +1

    😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 number 9 is always us the men.

  • @EzraBufford
    @EzraBufford Рік тому

    You are awesome in wisdom.

  • @abdallahattoumani7663
    @abdallahattoumani7663 Рік тому

    Girlfriend is forbidding. But you urge people to do so very bad girl

  • @dreamerthetruthmatters619
    @dreamerthetruthmatters619 Рік тому

    One of the best videos 📼 ever beautiful, Jessica. I must admit that this is the best 👍 2️⃣ 0️⃣ 2️⃣ 3️⃣ VIDEO 📼. I saw a few things in here that I had overlooked before.
    Thanks, Jessica more ❤from the USA.

  • @casbarfrancis6942
    @casbarfrancis6942 Рік тому

    Thank you so so much Jessie, great advice, lovely ❤️..
    Francis 4rm South Africa 🌍

  • @iceweatherz
    @iceweatherz Рік тому

    Congrats on A million subscribers... U are totally theeee best Jessica!!!🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @kaliditv7022
    @kaliditv7022 Рік тому

    All way from Nairobi ,Kenya. From 150k subscribers to 916k ...love your coaching. Hillary speaking..

  • @ccartagena2262
    @ccartagena2262 Рік тому

    What if the man is observant of his partner and studies her thresholds. But not receive feedback to tweak or enhance. How can you pull feedback out without making it seem ego driven . Even though it’s not just want a healthy sexual experience with partner.

  • @normansindana4366
    @normansindana4366 Рік тому

    Finish the game well 🎉🎉🎉

  • @ralphbohner6166
    @ralphbohner6166 Рік тому

    My problem with watching videos like so is that it seems as if you're helping but your delivery is too stale. Have some fun with it. Because it seems you're talking at them.

  • @madukaaustin9931
    @madukaaustin9931 Рік тому +1

    You are almost going to a million subscribers, am happy to be among this awesome family. well done Jessica Os.👋👋👋👋👋💛

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  Рік тому +5

      Thank you so much!!

    • @ClaudeLordPwadam
      @ClaudeLordPwadam Рік тому

      LET KEEP SHARING, LIKING HER VIDEO. VERY IMPORTANT. I CANT WAIT TO SEE JSO HITTING MILLION

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  Рік тому +1

      @@ClaudeLordPwadam appreciate you

  • @oscarshake5765
    @oscarshake5765 Рік тому

    Women emotions are electrifying so there's a long way to go before one enters the bedroom

  • @mrfosu5914
    @mrfosu5914 Рік тому +1

    This info sounds like it's well researched. Thank Jess

  • @user-em8zo5ct2r
    @user-em8zo5ct2r Рік тому +1

    you absolutely right✌

  • @TinaThom
    @TinaThom Рік тому +1

    New lesson 👍

  • @izunduchristophernwokocha8376

    Beautifully true. Every word every expression. Thanks J

  • @AgnesChea-eh4gk
    @AgnesChea-eh4gk 9 місяців тому

    No words to describe you 💯

  • @osmanm.conteh1401
    @osmanm.conteh1401 Рік тому

    It's enjoyable but again other women hardly respond to questions even if you ask her she will not say anything

  • @marymburuku6024
    @marymburuku6024 Рік тому

    My first day ever listen to this..... Iam a sad woman.... About it.... 😢

  • @darkest_magnum
    @darkest_magnum Рік тому

    It's hard for most men to read women.
    I'll take your tips into consideration.
    I want to be a good husband. I want my wife to love me not out of pity. But cos I measure up to it.

  • @larrysmith120
    @larrysmith120 Рік тому

    Hi Jessica real talk

  • @jabulanigodfreyngobeni9990
    @jabulanigodfreyngobeni9990 Рік тому +1

    Thank you so much for the insight info, definitely gonna do that

    • @fambaassumani2253
      @fambaassumani2253 Рік тому

      You will die quickly if you want to make your woman more satisfied. After bed satisfaction she will bring up other needs. Nothing can satisfy a woman

  • @julietmungania8755
    @julietmungania8755 Рік тому

    This is great,I need a male version of your content..

  • @Leergreen
    @Leergreen Рік тому

    It's never easy... Every day is different. I always want to sense a woman feeling the love making through a love making synchrony...
    What was that about telling other people and "Laughing at you?"

  • @Myworld-of2lk
    @Myworld-of2lk Рік тому

    Hmmm Yooo laa

  • @tshepomaieane6458
    @tshepomaieane6458 Рік тому

    How do you know if she is lying after asking about feedback