10 Common But Avoidable Mistakes Men Make In Bed

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  • @JessicaOS
    @JessicaOS  Рік тому +29

    Kindly note that I will never give you a phone number to contact me on. Please beware of fake Jessica OS accounts looking to scam you. The only way to have any direct conversation with me is via my Patreon account. Www.patreon.com/jessicaos . Stay safe guys!

    • @paulophilip7948
      @paulophilip7948 Рік тому +2

      Oops, just when I tot l had won big with a personal contact from Jess. So the person that contacted me was a scam artist.🤕🤔

    • @fambaassumani2253
      @fambaassumani2253 Рік тому

      Sorry. It was just simple slip of tongue on the other side of views. Be blessed

    • @aubrienmkandawire4253
      @aubrienmkandawire4253 Рік тому

      I just enjoy your take on different romantic/relationship advises..We will never satisfy women at all.

    • @sigma_z
      @sigma_z Рік тому

      What about from biological men who identifies as Jessica OS?. 🤣🤣🤣
      I identify as Elon Musk but Banks never give me my billions... For some reason... I show them my passport, but tell them I identify as Elon Musk. And then when they reject me, I tell them that I now identify as Jeff Besos... But still, no billions... 😪

  • @taysharkz1
    @taysharkz1 Рік тому +45

    I understand and you're right about about this. However, someone needs to male a video that explains to women that they shouldn't be so difficult. I only heard one woman in my life that made a video telling women to learn to go off the mans flow sometimes. It honestly gets boring doing everything for a woman. Woman need to learn to do things for us as well.

    • @montlee1990
      @montlee1990 Рік тому +4

      Agreed and were less complicated well tell what we need they’ll just play mental gymnastics

    • @wallacelambert9308
      @wallacelambert9308 Рік тому +7

      💯 she even started this video with a straight up insult to men. Seems every sex tip video is all about what MEN should know and what MEN should do right. Love you ladies but trust me, you could learn a thing or two also. Stop putting all of the responsibility to know everything and do everything just right on us men. You want a good love life? Put some of your own effort into learning something about your man as well. Aren't there two people involved in sex? It's not all up to the man

    • @rhymzyoronni3660
      @rhymzyoronni3660 Рік тому +3

      @@wallacelambert9308you are on point but our gender need to start speaking up

    • @wallacelambert9308
      @wallacelambert9308 Рік тому +1

      @@rhymzyoronni3660 that's just what I'm doing bro

  • @Rumbu_P
    @Rumbu_P Рік тому +16

    I like how you talking about something sensual and still kept it clean.
    I came to learn after my uni that sex with a woman isn't about the sex itself (as a youngster, we all thought is about power & heavy lifting)...since the day I learned that, that knowledge has been invaluable & I have kept myself for the 'it girl', cause I can't go through that stress for someone unworthy; all those procedures - care, attention, planning...all those good stuffs.
    Thank you, Jess.

  • @fegursonokwori8193
    @fegursonokwori8193 Рік тому +5

    This is the best UA-cam channel I've seen. So detailed, concise. It has improved me a lot. Thanks Jessica

  • @charlesouma2803
    @charlesouma2803 Рік тому +7

    No doubt. This is the greatest video of all time! Watching from Kenya🇰🇪

  • @michaelparrison1766
    @michaelparrison1766 Рік тому +1

    Very Valuable Information, Thanks 👍

  • @sokibobmanuel8150
    @sokibobmanuel8150 Рік тому +4

    Thank's Jessica, I'm most impressed by your lectures today.
    These errors are really common in me but trust me, I will make an improvement starting from now.
    Thanks

  • @iamefodanyo
    @iamefodanyo Рік тому +9

    @JessicaOs you deserve a million plus subs or millions. You're one of my UA-cam idols. I'm learning a lot & will apply them too 😊

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  Рік тому +3

      Awww thanks

    • @iamefodanyo
      @iamefodanyo Рік тому

      @@JessicaOS welcome Ma'am 🙏🏽

    • @luisluigi950
      @luisluigi950 Рік тому

      ​@@JessicaOS I wanted to comment about mourning it ain't true about mourning men should mourn

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  Рік тому

      @@luisluigi950 ok

  • @dmsthemastermind8563
    @dmsthemastermind8563 Рік тому +9

    One of the things I love about you Jessica is your fluency and articulation, can I know what helped you in this act and how someone can replicate that ?

  • @deanpilatemarevesa7459
    @deanpilatemarevesa7459 Рік тому +2

    been following you fo more than a year now, though I have to confess that I let one lady have her way with me, for study purposes though. u r absolutely on point, always!!! keep them coming!

  • @tanksmakau7672
    @tanksmakau7672 Рік тому +3

    Many thanks. You've reshaped me about so many things about relationships.

  • @Trailblazer100
    @Trailblazer100 Рік тому +1

    Gotta give it to you Jessica…….. I’ve heard these things before. This is THE RAW TRUTH💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥✌🏾

  • @blessedjoe3486
    @blessedjoe3486 Рік тому +3

    You are doing a great job. Something we cannot get from any other source because people will rather avoid them than courting bad name. Thank you so much.

  • @kurtlee41
    @kurtlee41 Рік тому +2

    This lady is a true professional in this department!
    She's a great teacher! students listen. I remember when I was trash, an now I am a commaditty needed.

  • @Nibitor9353
    @Nibitor9353 2 місяці тому

    Great channel! I really appreciate your honesty and your no-nonsense approach!

  • @yerojalloh6750
    @yerojalloh6750 Рік тому +5

    Jessica, u never disappoint me. Your advises are always on point. Thanks 👍

  • @symlexbrn5396
    @symlexbrn5396 Рік тому +15

    Some women are shy to open up, and don't want to talk about intimacy no matter what you do, some don't want to be touched all over, they just want the main meal straight, this will confuse men especially when they've learnt everything they could do.

  • @aklikpe
    @aklikpe Рік тому +5

    Jessica is always on point, this mistakes are very deep and many people are skeptical to touch it. But you have dissect it to the lowest level for our consumption. Thanks very much.

  • @philipjnrbuck3623
    @philipjnrbuck3623 Рік тому +2

    Thank you, Jessica

  • @ShogoMakishimaxx
    @ShogoMakishimaxx Рік тому +3

    She's completely right! My boyfriend does all of these.

  • @izunduchristophernwokocha8376

    Beautifully true. Every word every expression. Thanks J

  • @SINGH-lg9ty
    @SINGH-lg9ty Рік тому +1

    AMAZING VIDEO THANK YOU

  • @calebcadainoo
    @calebcadainoo Рік тому +2

    Totally agreee

  • @iceweatherz
    @iceweatherz Рік тому

    Congrats on A million subscribers... U are totally theeee best Jessica!!!🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @josephatrwaichi7572
    @josephatrwaichi7572 Рік тому +2

    Jessica.. I just love the way you explain things...very helpful. Much love from Tanzania 🇹🇿.

  • @oghenetegaisrael2889
    @oghenetegaisrael2889 Рік тому

    Many thanks for sharing 👍.

  • @morrisisalambo2796
    @morrisisalambo2796 Рік тому +2

    very articulate indeed keep it up

  • @emmanuelsalako7370
    @emmanuelsalako7370 Рік тому +1

    Lovely outfit Jessica, 2023 is really making you look good, I dear to say black is your colour, the hair style is a nice touch, keep up the great work

  • @morrislarneyosah149
    @morrislarneyosah149 Рік тому +11

    I have learnt and my love life will never be the same 🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @ccartagena2262
    @ccartagena2262 Рік тому

    Thank you for insight.

  • @austinevick
    @austinevick Рік тому +2

    Great tips. Thanks Jessica

  • @saxman3336
    @saxman3336 Рік тому

    Good advice.

  • @npzwane9331
    @npzwane9331 Рік тому +11

    The simple thing to avoid this problem is not to have sex before marriage. And once married only have sex with your spouse. By so doing there will be no comparison between the performance of the present partner and the previous

    • @TimothyNyota
      @TimothyNyota Рік тому +1

      best advice ever

    • @mobydick5046
      @mobydick5046 Рік тому +2

      Never get into a lifelong commitment without practice and experience. Play the field long enough and then use your experience to choose and marry the right girl, if such is available.

    • @waltonwilson2149
      @waltonwilson2149 Рік тому +1

      God's way is always best.

    • @goodman4093
      @goodman4093 Рік тому +1

      The best comment so far.

  • @d.bcooper2271
    @d.bcooper2271 Рік тому +34

    The most frequently expressed complaint women have about men is that men don't listen. Either man completely ignores her when she speaks or he listens for few beats, assesses what bothering her and then he proudly puts on his mr fix-it hat and offer her a solution to make her feel better. No matter how many times she tells him that he's not listening, he doesn't get it and he keeps doing the same thing. She wants empathy. He thinks she wants solutions.

    • @rodneyglenn7704
      @rodneyglenn7704 Рік тому

      Ps and I'm not listening these modern women hit a real nerve

    • @graciegracie
      @graciegracie Рік тому +4

      Feelers vs. thinkers

    • @joneschilufya867
      @joneschilufya867 Рік тому +3

      Men want to listen but the problem most of the things that they are complaining about is what the man is not doing; in other words women are all about themselves. I can't seat there listening to her complaining abt things I'm not doing when she's not doing anything for me either.

    • @yurisebastiao1872
      @yurisebastiao1872 Рік тому +2

      Men are from Mars and women are from Venus

  • @abdullahiadan2898
    @abdullahiadan2898 Рік тому +3

    Thank you Jessica. The video is great and quite informative ❤

  • @thehealthbodyfitness
    @thehealthbodyfitness Рік тому +1

    Great information Jessica ❤❤❤

  • @studiogibi1340
    @studiogibi1340 Рік тому

    Thank you so much JoS

  • @thandorosenthaljanuary4547
    @thandorosenthaljanuary4547 Рік тому +1

    Exactly! #1 is crucial! I always say foreplay starts when you open the door for her as you go out on a date

  • @lamarambrose242genius-thel2
    @lamarambrose242genius-thel2 Рік тому +9

    I respect this advice. I knew a lot of it but there were a few tips I definitely received.
    Much thanks, very detailed and realistic.

  • @AgnesChea-eh4gk
    @AgnesChea-eh4gk 10 місяців тому

    No words to describe you 💯

  • @EzraBufford
    @EzraBufford Рік тому

    You are awesome in wisdom.

  • @estherssentongo9843
    @estherssentongo9843 Рік тому

    Thank you so much Jessica

  • @normansindana4366
    @normansindana4366 Рік тому

    Finish the game well 🎉🎉🎉

  • @pemsyblackgold4812
    @pemsyblackgold4812 Рік тому +2

    Thanks for sharing Jessica 😘

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  Рік тому +1

      Always welcome

    • @agentmax266
      @agentmax266 Рік тому

      @@JessicaOS I needed help how to deal with girl that recently had break up she is my crush 👀 ??

  • @grahamturner1290
    @grahamturner1290 Рік тому +3

    Hope 2023 has started well for you! ❤️

  • @mrfosu5914
    @mrfosu5914 Рік тому +1

    This info sounds like it's well researched. Thank Jess

  • @darrenhill6914
    @darrenhill6914 Рік тому

    I enjoy your upfront and honest conversation that everybody should have, thanks

  • @Nwannebuike
    @Nwannebuike Рік тому +2

    Knowledge is the power to perform magic. You're on point Jessica, kposaaa for you.

  • @musaa.olarray6456
    @musaa.olarray6456 Рік тому +1

    Top topic, very educative, thanks

  • @ocheroronald1628
    @ocheroronald1628 Рік тому +2

    First to comment 🥰. Thank you Jessica ❤️. Watching from Nairobi Kenya

  • @ottobismarkamanya98
    @ottobismarkamanya98 Рік тому +2

    Thanks so much jessica for this priceless info...Am ashamed, but I have learnt a lot🙏

  • @Musicpark05
    @Musicpark05 Рік тому

    Very good one Jenny

  • @madukaaustin9931
    @madukaaustin9931 Рік тому +1

    You are almost going to a million subscribers, am happy to be among this awesome family. well done Jessica Os.👋👋👋👋👋💛

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  Рік тому +5

      Thank you so much!!

    • @ClaudeLordPwadam
      @ClaudeLordPwadam Рік тому

      LET KEEP SHARING, LIKING HER VIDEO. VERY IMPORTANT. I CANT WAIT TO SEE JSO HITTING MILLION

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  Рік тому +1

      @@ClaudeLordPwadam appreciate you

  • @AustinBlings-rz4tj
    @AustinBlings-rz4tj Рік тому

    I enjoy watching your vy🤗❤️

  • @harimolukune2395
    @harimolukune2395 Рік тому +1

    Thanks Jessica your informative videos are working magic in my marriage much appreciated..G.B.U

  • @kennethyoung4892
    @kennethyoung4892 Рік тому

    As always excellent content 👌

  • @directorsampro
    @directorsampro Рік тому +1

    😊😊I like this content, I would like to know what kind of camera 📷 you use please 🙏🙏!?

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  Рік тому +1

      Check my video description. The list of my gear I use is all there

    • @directorsampro
      @directorsampro Рік тому

      @@JessicaOS wow this is really great 😊 and keep it up the grad hard work

  • @casbarfrancis6942
    @casbarfrancis6942 Рік тому

    Thank you so so much Jessie, great advice, lovely ❤️..
    Francis 4rm South Africa 🌍

  • @paulcampbell8886
    @paulcampbell8886 Рік тому

    Good morning Jessica. I love your content. Wish I knew this 40 years ago. Bless up yuhself everytime Oriented woman. Yeah man 👏🇯🇲💐🇺🇸😎

  • @thembakhumalo3113
    @thembakhumalo3113 Рік тому

    Sharp-shootimg Jessica 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿...unmasking all the heroes. You're a star...

  • @Sonyahenry268
    @Sonyahenry268 8 місяців тому

    Facts

  • @jabulanigodfreyngobeni9990
    @jabulanigodfreyngobeni9990 Рік тому +1

    Thank you so much for the insight info, definitely gonna do that

    • @fambaassumani2253
      @fambaassumani2253 Рік тому

      You will die quickly if you want to make your woman more satisfied. After bed satisfaction she will bring up other needs. Nothing can satisfy a woman

  • @sundayokpanachi4480
    @sundayokpanachi4480 Рік тому

    Hi jissica how are doing' I really love this.

  • @user-em8zo5ct2r
    @user-em8zo5ct2r Рік тому +1

    you absolutely right✌

  • @nkosingiphilengcobo2110
    @nkosingiphilengcobo2110 Рік тому +1

    Hi Jessica, I'm always with everyday watching your videos and you've made me a new man Thank you ❤️❤️💯💯💯💯

  • @formicapple2
    @formicapple2 Рік тому +6

    Many thanks. I wish I had that knowledge 35 years ago when my wife and I were married. My incompetence led to the last 30 years of a wife who eventually refused any form of intimacy or affection. We are good friends and house mates though.

    • @emmanuelighorodje7269
      @emmanuelighorodje7269 Рік тому +6

      She was definitely cheating on you

    • @Gravitti85
      @Gravitti85 Рік тому

      So you havent smashed in the last 30yrs?

    • @formicapple2
      @formicapple2 Рік тому

      @@emmanuelighorodje7269 absolutely not. I know for sure.

    • @formicapple2
      @formicapple2 Рік тому +4

      @@Gravitti85 no. I’ve learned to be celibate within my marriage. Marriage is sacred. I would never go outside my marriage for sex. Instead I’ve learnt that sex is not the only aspect of marriage.

    • @mobydick5046
      @mobydick5046 Рік тому +2

      @@formicapple2 Celibate in marriage? Are you insane? You are torturing her!

  • @jamesearl1228
    @jamesearl1228 Рік тому

    Love the advice

  • @bajanlandscapes
    @bajanlandscapes Рік тому

    Factually good ...Greetings Jessica🙏👑

  • @TinaThom
    @TinaThom Рік тому +1

    New lesson 👍

  • @contehalimamy4872
    @contehalimamy4872 Рік тому +1

    Third to comment. Thanks for the video Jessica

  • @sbonisoskhosana5590
    @sbonisoskhosana5590 Рік тому +1

    Those with ears have heard.Amen 🙏 🇿🇦

  • @michaeljewell53
    @michaeljewell53 Рік тому

    Thanks Jessica,all very important stuff,I enjoyed advice 💯 x

  • @dreamerthetruthmatters619
    @dreamerthetruthmatters619 Рік тому

    One of the best videos 📼 ever beautiful, Jessica. I must admit that this is the best 👍 2️⃣ 0️⃣ 2️⃣ 3️⃣ VIDEO 📼. I saw a few things in here that I had overlooked before.
    Thanks, Jessica more ❤from the USA.

  • @larrysmith120
    @larrysmith120 Рік тому

    Hi Jessica real talk

  • @kennethamadu5019
    @kennethamadu5019 Рік тому

    Jessy, you nailed as you always do👌🏾

  • @inspirewisdom
    @inspirewisdom Рік тому +1

    Usually the men that go into score a goal are the men with brute strength and they see "this the chance to put the ball in the net" . They do it based on Nigerian Parlance "The Gra Gra Way"

  • @litha8denga318
    @litha8denga318 Рік тому

    Thanks a lot very helpful

  • @emenuelmiller4110
    @emenuelmiller4110 Рік тому

    So true I love this message speak thanks you are so Wis

  • @juniormaononga99
    @juniormaononga99 Рік тому

    Jes you're just wow🤗

  • @salxonico
    @salxonico Рік тому

    Thx....
    So if "intercourse" is an art, what is a quickie?
    Love making is the art, which starts BEFORE intercourse.

  • @luckyhmasasa4720
    @luckyhmasasa4720 Рік тому

    💯💯💯💯💯🌹💥💥🔥I have nothing to say, but I love it, because you're talking the truth

  • @bennyh6461
    @bennyh6461 Рік тому

    Must watch ❤❤

  • @sigma_z
    @sigma_z Рік тому +7

    Someone told me that if you have to ask if a girl is enjoying it or for feedback then you've already lost the girl because the girl will see this as someone who's weak and inexperienced.
    Which is a vicious circle because you can't get good at something unless you have experience and if you don't get feedback then you can't get better, yet women's minds are wired to not want a man who's not good in bed.
    It doesn't make any sense. But then again, we're talking about women's logic here. 😂

  • @juanlewandowski1628
    @juanlewandowski1628 Рік тому

    very nice topic u have dealt on well done

  • @abdulkabia8486
    @abdulkabia8486 Рік тому

    Hi Jessica.Thank you for offering us valuable tips to keep our relationship.I have this girl that only responds to me with her pictures but has fails to reply my text when I send her love emoji and make love advance to her.What does it.She sends picture of her to me if I choose to ignore her.When I want to come near her she looks away or spends a short time when I call her to talk to her.Before now she would call me .Is she shy or what

    • @mobydick5046
      @mobydick5046 Рік тому

      She is doing a psychological experiment on you. Move on!

  • @MarkKaranjaM4K
    @MarkKaranjaM4K Рік тому +1

    Target locked...proceed with full intent...save time, I've got places to be and money to make😎

  • @kaliditv7022
    @kaliditv7022 Рік тому

    All way from Nairobi ,Kenya. From 150k subscribers to 916k ...love your coaching. Hillary speaking..

  • @alfredsimbo2991
    @alfredsimbo2991 Рік тому

    noted

  • @paulophilip7948
    @paulophilip7948 Рік тому +7

    Modern women require too much. Our mothers, grandmothers did not ask these things. Today's environment put much pressure on men to deliver things society put on men's shoulders to keep a home.
    After going through all the day's stress of bringing in the bread. It would be a bit asking too much for him to face more stress at home because Alice in wonderland has gigantic fantasies that needs to be fulfilled.
    The least she should do is happily spread those legs apart and let him come off. On the weekends, when work is a bit reduced, he can slow down and put in the work on her body.
    Anyways, thanks for a great vlog Jess, this information is handy. And I will try to keep these pointers in mind to satisfy my partner more.

  • @sylvanusfinney4202
    @sylvanusfinney4202 Рік тому

    Jessica is my favourite......

  • @fredericktsanu
    @fredericktsanu Рік тому +3

    Nr 9 Women should remember that men have to erect before having sex and it is sometimes difficult to stay in that energy without being distracted by some actions of the woman. that is why men rush sometimes. Ask men first about how they feel too men are not puppets ok

  • @emmanuelumaru8173
    @emmanuelumaru8173 Рік тому

    Thanks for sharing this video, I find it interesting and helpful

  • @7Fields16
    @7Fields16 Рік тому

    You are gorgeous, amazing and energetic. Thanks for the Lesson.

  • @samuelebute8041
    @samuelebute8041 Рік тому

    Your English is superb, gush making me trip for u

  • @champinehibbert1362
    @champinehibbert1362 Рік тому

    Real talk me sister 💯

  • @onebin4894
    @onebin4894 Рік тому +1

    Jessica Os
    trying some of these thing will work but some of these ladies are crazy 🤪 🤪
    what more can I do???? just learn to live with it.
    just make sure you're metal stronger than she in confidence to accept her choices
    that is my take on this topic thank you a lot.

  • @AfroStudio942
    @AfroStudio942 Рік тому

    Ali.. South Sudan
    Perfect Jessica.

  • @uafyoung
    @uafyoung Рік тому +1

    VERY FUNNY...SHE SAID "FORGETING TO BREATH" BASE ON E DEY SWEET LOL..... GOD ABEG LOL

  • @samadopeyemi9684
    @samadopeyemi9684 Рік тому

    Mehn you always hit 🔥❤️

  • @margaretsarpong8213
    @margaretsarpong8213 Рік тому

    Very true haha haha thank you