12 Times The Golden Girls Nailed Grief & Loss

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  • @theatreracer8591
    @theatreracer8591 3 дні тому +26

    When my younger brother passed unexpectedly two years ago, I used Dorothy's line in his eulogy. "I never wanted to give the eulogy at my kid brother's funeral."
    I now find that entire episode too difficult to watch. 😢

    • @StayGoldenGirls
      @StayGoldenGirls  3 дні тому +4

      It is indeed a very difficult episode to watch and I can understand why you used that line because it does sum up the painful sentiment. Thank you for sharing. I am sorry about your brother.

  • @feverspell
    @feverspell 3 дні тому +24

    My father died this past July, so when Blanche says, "I'm nobody's little girl anymore", that hurts in a way I never thought it would. My mother died three years ago in March, so it's just me and my younger sister now.

    • @StayGoldenGirls
      @StayGoldenGirls  3 дні тому +3

      I am sorry to hear about your father and mother. When my mother died I certainly felt like the orphan Dorothy describes and can imagine how Blanche's words rang truer for you last year. Thank you for sharing.

    • @SNOWQueen87-v1g
      @SNOWQueen87-v1g 2 дні тому +3

      My condolences I lost my mom 3 years ago I know what you're going through.

    • @motherlove202
      @motherlove202 2 дні тому +2

      I sympathize with you. This upcoming Sunday will mark 10 years since my mother passed away and I didn't know my dad. I had that same feeling that Blanche had in that scene combined with the "orphan" feeling that Dorothy had

    • @StayGoldenGirls
      @StayGoldenGirls  День тому +1

      Thank you for sharing

    • @StayGoldenGirls
      @StayGoldenGirls  День тому +1

      Time passing after a loss is so surreal. Because it's not possible in our minds this much time.jad passed and yet it has. And it's not right or fair and when it hurts it hurts just the same all over again. I'm so sorry. Thank you for sharing

  • @AnthonyAndrews0128
    @AnthonyAndrews0128 3 дні тому +7

    The power of a great show. How many comedies can have you in tears of laughter one minute and tears of sadness the next. I haven't forgotten there were poignant moments in the show, but when you see them showcased like this, that's when they hit home. One of the best shows ever but that scene with Rose and 'Charlie' gets me every time.

    • @StayGoldenGirls
      @StayGoldenGirls  2 дні тому +1

      The Charlie scene is very motional I. I agree there is something to seeing a bunch collected and put together in this way. Thank you for sharing and watching.

  • @Auron12786
    @Auron12786 День тому +6

    Rose’s last birthday in St. Olaf was one of the best scenes. It was funny, heartwarming, and tearjerking all at the same time. This despite or maybe because of how simple it was

  • @kartavianmacrath7219
    @kartavianmacrath7219 3 дні тому +14

    I both adore and bawl like a baby when the Scene with Rose lighting her own candles, but when she jumps and looks at the empty chair and says, "I know, shut up Rose and blow out your candles..." This was a great video, definitely a video of tears.

    • @StayGoldenGirls
      @StayGoldenGirls  3 дні тому +1

      Thank you so much for sharing, it is a very emotional scene.

  • @katinacarson-hunwi7297
    @katinacarson-hunwi7297 3 дні тому +7

    I’m still fortunate that I have both of my parents and my 2 siblings. But every time I watch any of these episodes, I bawl my eyes out 😭.

    • @StayGoldenGirls
      @StayGoldenGirls  3 дні тому +2

      That's understandable they are very emotional, raw episodes that mirror real experience

  • @keeshiabrie
    @keeshiabrie 3 дні тому +13

    Happy to see a new upload!

  • @kymburriss4260
    @kymburriss4260 2 дні тому +7

    I lost my dad in 2002, my husband in 2008, and my mom in 2015..... all of these episodes were hard to watch without crying 😢

    • @StayGoldenGirls
      @StayGoldenGirls  2 дні тому +1

      It is a very emotional and raw things, I am sorry to hear about all your loss that is a lot to bear.

    • @yeahnoonecaresifyouarefirst
      @yeahnoonecaresifyouarefirst 18 годин тому

      I'm so sorry...... I'm thankful the scenes were cut off before I had time to feel anything ❤

  • @arirenzi-surprenant
    @arirenzi-surprenant 2 дні тому +5

    This show is amazing. So many of these episodes were so beautifully written

  • @Barbara-lu2sj
    @Barbara-lu2sj 2 дні тому +4

    My father died in 2008 and my mother in 2020. When she passed, I said to my sister, "we're orphans now." Every time I see the "Heart Attack" episode and hear Dorothy say those words, I'm reminded of that comment to my sister and saddened all over again.

    • @StayGoldenGirls
      @StayGoldenGirls  2 дні тому +1

      I appreciate you sharing. I am sorry to hear about both of your parents, it is deeply painful losing your parents.

    • @yeahnoonecaresifyouarefirst
      @yeahnoonecaresifyouarefirst 18 годин тому

      I'm so sorry for your loss

  • @phoebecara4361
    @phoebecara4361 3 дні тому +6

    Thank you for the new vid ❤

  • @positive___soul
    @positive___soul 3 дні тому +23

    The episode with Rose leaving Saint Olaf for Miami really hits home 😢

    • @StayGoldenGirls
      @StayGoldenGirls  3 дні тому +4

      I feel you on that.

    • @AJBeals1212
      @AJBeals1212 2 дні тому +3

      That one made me cry.

    • @Artfanbookfan25
      @Artfanbookfan25 2 дні тому +1

      Sophia's reaction to losing her son is hardest for me. She held it in until the end in order to be strong and to show disdain for her daughter-in-law and for her son's habits, but her stoicism failed at last, and she simply broke down. 😢

    • @StayGoldenGirls
      @StayGoldenGirls  День тому +1

      It is super emotional

    • @StayGoldenGirls
      @StayGoldenGirls  День тому +1

      My baby is gone is one of the most brutal scenes in the whole show. Just gut wrenching

  • @JayYoung-ro3vu
    @JayYoung-ro3vu 3 дні тому +8

    In case I didnt say it then, I'll say it now: I'm deeply sorry for your loss. 💔😭
    "Nobody's Little Girl Anymore" & "Orphan" get me especially since I'm the last of the family.

    • @StayGoldenGirls
      @StayGoldenGirls  3 дні тому +3

      I am sorry to hear you are the last of your family, it is hard to be the last and carrying the memories of all before you. I appreciate you sharing

  • @sarahbrown5373
    @sarahbrown5373 День тому +2

    This is perfect! It ended beautifully

  • @virg0_lem0nade
    @virg0_lem0nade День тому +2

    oh man the "i get the rose" scene makes me cry every time... the entire show must have been really hard for Betty to film as her first "big project" after her husband (and love of her life) Allen had died...

  • @betsy032785
    @betsy032785 2 дні тому +4

    When Blanche said I am nobody’s little girl anymore 😭 because my dad died in 2004 and my mom died in 2014 . So I know exactly how that feels

  • @Artfanbookfan25
    @Artfanbookfan25 2 дні тому +4

    Remember the poignant moment when Rose asked: "What if there's only one of us left?"
    Someone once pointed out something I never noticed before: when the camera pans out, and you look from left to right, they're sitting in the order that they died: Estelle (Sophia), Bea (Dorothy), Rue (Blanche) and Betty (Rose). It's both sad and creepy. God rest your souls, Girls. ❤
    On a lighter note, I'm finally going to buy my first GG T-shirt later this month. 😊

    • @StayGoldenGirls
      @StayGoldenGirls  День тому +1

      Yes indeed! It couldn't have known at the time but you were totally right that's how it ended up happening.
      What shirt are you getting?

    • @Artfanbookfan25
      @Artfanbookfan25 День тому +1

      @@StayGoldenGirls One with them smiling with the Stay Golden sign. 😁

    • @StayGoldenGirls
      @StayGoldenGirls  23 години тому +1

      ❤️❤️❤️🥰

    • @Artfanbookfan25
      @Artfanbookfan25 23 години тому

      @StayGoldenGirls At first I wanted the "Eat Dirt and Die, Trash!" one. 🤣

    • @yeahnoonecaresifyouarefirst
      @yeahnoonecaresifyouarefirst 18 годин тому

      Where can I get merch?

  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. 3 дні тому +7

    ‘Bird Imitations’ will never be the same again 😂

  • @AlanSloan88
    @AlanSloan88 2 дні тому +5

    I shed a tear everytime I watch Sophia say My baby's gone as she finally accepts Phil's death and hugs his widow, "Big Sally".
    Courtney, I feel your pain from losing your Mother. Grief will slowly evolve into sweet memories of Mom through the years.

    • @StayGoldenGirls
      @StayGoldenGirls  2 дні тому +1

      Thank you for sharing. That is a very emotional scene, yes.

  • @JamesAdair9530
    @JamesAdair9530 3 дні тому +5

    i've lost two of my older brothers and my dad...grief and loss is a god awful thing that destroys us mentally,i dont know why im still here tho there's gotta be a reason,and watching this show talking about grief and loss just hits home hard

    • @StayGoldenGirls
      @StayGoldenGirls  3 дні тому +2

      I appreciate you sharing. It is terrible and painful and never goes away. The reminders and "anniversaries" are particularly hard. I have no doubt youre doing the best you can.

    • @yeahnoonecaresifyouarefirst
      @yeahnoonecaresifyouarefirst 18 годин тому

      I'm so sorry

  • @adamzaydenband2260
    @adamzaydenband2260 2 дні тому +4

    These hit really hard in the feels one way or another

  • @khanyisantanda
    @khanyisantanda 3 дні тому +3

    Where have you been I've missed you❤❤

    • @StayGoldenGirls
      @StayGoldenGirls  3 дні тому +3

      If you check out the gospel of the golden girls video and the last ones out in dec 2024 it provides updates.

  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. 3 дні тому +3

    Happy New Year 🎉
    Also, can’t wait to weep internally and celebrate the icons ❤

  • @robinwagner3293
    @robinwagner3293 2 дні тому +3

    I'm so sorry.

  • @arthurj.downeyjr_2013
    @arthurj.downeyjr_2013 3 дні тому +2

    ❤👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

  • @bretalleman9352
    @bretalleman9352 День тому

    ure back yea

    • @StayGoldenGirls
      @StayGoldenGirls  День тому

      I put out a few videos in 2024 and There is also one in December that came out. And of course the one from Tuesday. So some Tuff here and there.

  • @quietstorm7684
    @quietstorm7684 3 дні тому +2

    Happy New Year 💛💐

  • @WolfstarGaming1
    @WolfstarGaming1 2 дні тому +5

    Stop it I'm not crying you're crying.

  • @eliranpinhasov5940
    @eliranpinhasov5940 3 дні тому +2

    🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @JGordonAuthor
    @JGordonAuthor 2 дні тому +4

    Today, 17 years ago, I lost you, 25 is too young, and it doesn’t get easier, we just learn to coexist. I miss you, i wish you were here. Blanche wanting to hug George hit me like a brick avalanche. ❤️‍🩹💔

    • @StayGoldenGirls
      @StayGoldenGirls  День тому +1

      I'm sorry for your loss. It no doubt felt like it was just yesterday in some ways too. It's surreal. How the heck can time pass? It's not right. It's not possible and yet it comes. Grief and loss are so hard. Thank you for sharing

    • @virg0_lem0nade
      @virg0_lem0nade День тому +2

      oh sweetheart i wish you all the love and all the healing in the world ❤‍🩹

    • @StayGoldenGirls
      @StayGoldenGirls  23 години тому

      ❤️❤️❤️

    • @yeahnoonecaresifyouarefirst
      @yeahnoonecaresifyouarefirst 18 годин тому

      Seeing that message hit me so hard