I feel like being married is 1. A God thing, 2. a calling, not everyone is called to it, 3. An image of the Jesus and the bride. However a lot of us are trying to do it without the creator of marriage and without the being it represents. The moment we look at what the original idea of what marriage is, first we wouldn’t be entertaining of things, being using marriage loosely and you would actually know it’s hard, yet a beautiful thing, a sanctifying, holy process and the most sacred and intimate thing God has ever created. And to reach the level of intimacy that we all crave it needs to honour the one who created it❤
This is marriage through the Christian lenses, beautiful, and yet I don't think marriage is a calling. It can never be a calling but a commitment. The apostle Paul's words on marriage give a vague idea of what it is.
As a 28year old (1 year married) woman l would fully agree with you guys never do wife role whilst you still a girlfriend, what worked for me more was keeping my virginity till marriage,that made me realise who was in my life to stay and it created a lot of respect for me,ukuzogcina guys is everything ❤set boundaries for yourself don’t just be a loose somebody
This podcast is the best production out of Rampedi media ❤for the girliess.....the hosts are top notch and very wise and mature!!!! Cherry on top is they are Spiritual!!!!!!c'mon mahn 🔥
Long topic for today is 🔥 I've been there for 4years, guy introduced m to his family in a matter of 2months. Asked m to pray for us daily. Soulties almost killed m Koz I became so connected to em that I could feel when he's being unfaithful, sexual activite. I was literally on that relationship alone Nd fighting battles. I was in my first year in university. 5years later still not finished WD my studies Nd lost bursary...I went back to Christ let em go Nd gathering Lil pieces again. God is good all the time
I had a boyfriend who wanted to have kids first then marry me after, hearing that it’s being marriage baited, makes me sad. Men really do what you guys have mentioned. I’m glad that I got out of the relationship because of the principles I live by, no man that loves me would bait me♥️really love y’all sooo much and continue spreading the word of God and his wisdom through your topics
It’s true ! No man that loves you would bait you . I’m glad that you made the decision that aligned with your principles ! Thank you for watching ! We’re happy to have you🫶🏽
I truly believe its important to wait for the right time to get married. Don't jump into marriage because of a time frame. If you are not ready - don't do it. I promise you. It will save you from unnecessarily.
33:14 Rewatching this episode, particularly at the part where they talk about marriage baiting because I just realized I was love bombed and a victim of marriage baiting. I literally couldn't understand why I'm still sad about a month-long talking stage that didn't work until I remembered uba the guy had painted a picture too perfect for me to want to get rid of. Guy had me thinking I lost out on a really good guy and he is the prize. I'm still trying to get back to knowing my worth. This is actually really recent you guys, I feel like crying and cussing everytime I think about him. I'm just venting y'all, don't even know if this makes sense. Please pray for me😭. Men are ruthless!
I really appreciate your conversations ladies. You ladies are stars, I love you you are bringing God and the Gospel to us using this platform . Keep shinning ❤
I am learning a lot from you guys even my vocalbary is improving. Yhoo! Talking about marriage baiting, I was once married baited and I knew that It was a red flag and he was too good to be true. He told me that he is looking for something that is serious because he wants to get married. His actions said otherwise and so, I removed myself from that equation from the get go. I haven't seen a doctor since I was born, I just hate anything that has to do with hospital. Now that you have mentioned it, I feel like I need to do better. Thank you so much for this incredible podcast. I so wish you could post twice a week. ❤❤
I'm so glad yall highlighted the poor state our medical facilities are in...I got turned away from both S.H.Joseph hospital and UJ clinic to get something as basic as my first HIV test.(M23)
That’s ridiculous ! Health care should be accessible to EVERYONE. It’s a basic need. No matter who you are. No one should be refused medical care. I’m so sorry that happened to you
Is it me or was the main topic a bit shorter? Arg I just love you guys. I have no long detailed message this time, I've just got mega love for you guys. Also made sure not to skip any ads 😊
I honestly subscribed to this channel for you guys'❤so much wisdom from you ladies..I really hope and pray that God blesses and enlarges you guy's territory..this is definitely what a girl needs every week. Keep up the good work🙏
I genuinely have enjoyed your conversations🥰🥰❤ I do think they will help a lot of young people to have a better perspective and go against the norms that we continue to see in society. Bringing a lot more purpose and intention to more people, in a society that lacks purpose and intention. You guys are doing great!! Well done❤
Even though staying in a relationship for longer than 5-6 years without marriage is a major red flag, let's not forget that there are exceptions to it. For example high school sweethearts😭sana I can't expect that man to marry me while we're both students. Like kanjani
I'm taking this as a sign to go to the gynae😭I've been postponing it for so long. And recently my body has been telling me that I need to go😭but I'm so scared. First thing I'm doing tomorrow morning, is to make an appointment at Marie stopes
I stopped going to the gynae because…..pregnant women are prioritized! Ka nako yeo I have been diagnosed with PCOS. I was just tired so gynae will skip me please!!!!!
i def. feel like mammi is misunderstood, saying this because i was one of the people that didnt like her because of seeing her on other people's videos, but i think now that im seeing her personal POV and getting to know her, i LOVEEEEE her🥹
Stephanie ike said this (paraphrasing) "everything or every role we play we are there to serve, so for example marriage, the both of us are there to serve each other more than to get something from it, so if you do anything marriage included and you are there for that thing to fulfill you YOU MISSED THE POINT
We gave a disclaimer in ep1, that most of what we say is based of our own experiences up until this point in our lives, if our views and opinions change we will let our audience know. And because of the fact that what we say is experienced based, our opinions will mostly be feminine and cater to women. If you or anyone else thinks differently you are more than welcome to interact in the comment section and tell us your views ❤️
@MammiDearest I hear hence am saying understand every other part of it but reason I commented only on this episode is simply because you guys spoke on marriage...and you have no experience there...or rather I don't think any of you has over 3 to 5 years in a relationship???...I might be wrong
This podcast is a girl’s best friend…it’s a friend I never thought I needed 😢❤
exactly what i was feeling throughout the episode😭
Period ❤❤😎
Ah guys ! That’s exactly what we were hoping for !😭🥺
Right?😢❤
These ladies are so relatable it’s craze🥹 Defs here to stay 🫶
I feel like being married is 1. A God thing, 2. a calling, not everyone is called to it, 3. An image of the Jesus and the bride. However a lot of us are trying to do it without the creator of marriage and without the being it represents. The moment we look at what the original idea of what marriage is, first we wouldn’t be entertaining of things, being using marriage loosely and you would actually know it’s hard, yet a beautiful thing, a sanctifying, holy process and the most sacred and intimate thing God has ever created. And to reach the level of intimacy that we all crave it needs to honour the one who created it❤
No one could have said it better !
Amen
This is marriage through the Christian lenses, beautiful, and yet I don't think marriage is a calling. It can never be a calling but a commitment. The apostle Paul's words on marriage give a vague idea of what it is.
@@alterego4832 I hear you❤️ I just thought about it in the same sense that not everyone is called to be a pastor typa vibe
what a mouthful 👏👏
As a 28year old (1 year married) woman l would fully agree with you guys never do wife role whilst you still a girlfriend, what worked for me more was keeping my virginity till marriage,that made me realise who was in my life to stay and it created a lot of respect for me,ukuzogcina guys is everything ❤set boundaries for yourself don’t just be a loose somebody
Moment of silence for those who haven't found this channel..missing out😭❤love tou guys
Mpho & Caiah eat up EVERY EPISODE 😭❤️
I can't believe you guys are in your early 20s. So much wisdom, maturity, and big sister ntoz👌🏽 I'll plug my 18 year old niece with you podcast❤
Yesss plug everybodyyyy💃🏾💃🏾
Mammie dearests growth is INSANE GIRRRLLLLLLL!!! You the girl you think you are. ❤
I agree with you bruh I love her she's matured❣❣❣
This podcast is the best production out of Rampedi media ❤for the girliess.....the hosts are top notch and very wise and mature!!!! Cherry on top is they are Spiritual!!!!!!c'mon mahn 🔥
Long topic for today is 🔥 I've been there for 4years, guy introduced m to his family in a matter of 2months. Asked m to pray for us daily. Soulties almost killed m Koz I became so connected to em that I could feel when he's being unfaithful, sexual activite. I was literally on that relationship alone Nd fighting battles. I was in my first year in university. 5years later still not finished WD my studies Nd lost bursary...I went back to Christ let em go Nd gathering Lil pieces again. God is good all the time
I need these girls to drop an episode daily
😂😂let’s start a petition to Rampedi Media !
@@CaiahM 😂I’ll start!
Nah this podcast keeps getting better each week,this was tew good👌
Yaayy !! 🥺💃🏾 I’m glad you think so !
Glad you think so🥺❤️
I had a boyfriend who wanted to have kids first then marry me after, hearing that it’s being marriage baited, makes me sad. Men really do what you guys have mentioned. I’m glad that I got out of the relationship because of the principles I live by, no man that loves me would bait me♥️really love y’all sooo much and continue spreading the word of God and his wisdom through your topics
It’s true ! No man that loves you would bait you .
I’m glad that you made the decision that aligned with your principles !
Thank you for watching ! We’re happy to have you🫶🏽
I don't think I'd ever get tired of listening to you, great work❤
Thank you 🥺❤️
"" People feel like marriage is a big commitment but they don't think kids are a big commitment ""
Mammie u cooked 👏👏👏👏❤️
Caiah is so relatable. I want 15 kids but everyone is judging me😭
I want a netball team 😭😭
They mustn’t judge us chomi😭 WE CAN DO THIS
I'm a guy but I'm loving this podcast 😍
Fr !? 💃🏾 music to my earssss
I truly believe its important to wait for the right time to get married. Don't jump into marriage because of a time frame. If you are not ready - don't do it. I promise you. It will save you from unnecessarily.
33:14 Rewatching this episode, particularly at the part where they talk about marriage baiting because I just realized I was love bombed and a victim of marriage baiting. I literally couldn't understand why I'm still sad about a month-long talking stage that didn't work until I remembered uba the guy had painted a picture too perfect for me to want to get rid of. Guy had me thinking I lost out on a really good guy and he is the prize. I'm still trying to get back to knowing my worth. This is actually really recent you guys, I feel like crying and cussing everytime I think about him. I'm just venting y'all, don't even know if this makes sense. Please pray for me😭. Men are ruthless!
I love how structured and effortless the conversation is.....
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You see our hard work 🥺❤️
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I really appreciate your conversations ladies. You ladies are stars, I love you you are bringing God and the Gospel to us using this platform . Keep shinning ❤
💃🏾🥹thank you so much!
Go monate mo Thought Digest with Caiah and Mpho hle ❤️ loved all the segments we dived into
I think I love you guys !!!! 🥺❤️❤️ Pleaseeee also keep the Godly topics coming I love how Spiritually wise you guys are 🙏🏾
We’ll definitely discuss more spiritual topics in the coming weeks !💃🏾
I am learning a lot from you guys even my vocalbary is improving.
Yhoo! Talking about marriage baiting, I was once married baited and I knew that It was a red flag and he was too good to be true. He told me that he is looking for something that is serious because he wants to get married. His actions said otherwise and so, I removed myself from that equation from the get go. I haven't seen a doctor since I was born, I just hate anything that has to do with hospital. Now that you have mentioned it, I feel like I need to do better.
Thank you so much for this incredible podcast. I so wish you could post twice a week. ❤❤
Please do see a gynae ❤️ and I’m glad you removed yourself from that toxic relationship
Mpho be getting deep and i love it cause i genuinely relate so much❤
I'm so glad yall highlighted the poor state our medical facilities are in...I got turned away from both S.H.Joseph hospital and UJ clinic to get something as basic as my first HIV test.(M23)
That’s ridiculous !
Health care should be accessible to EVERYONE. It’s a basic need. No matter who you are. No one should be refused medical care.
I’m so sorry that happened to you
Is it me or was the main topic a bit shorter? Arg I just love you guys. I have no long detailed message this time, I've just got mega love for you guys. Also made sure not to skip any ads 😊
Didn’t skip any ads ?😭🤝🏾you’re a real one yoh ! Luv u loads
You guys,wow... I always look forward. Love love😊
I love this. Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom with us all❤
Already can't wait for the next episode of thought digest.. Love you ladies ❤
I could listen to y’all all day
This podcast is so informative 😭💕
I honestly subscribed to this channel for you guys'❤so much wisdom from you ladies..I really hope and pray that God blesses and enlarges you guy's territory..this is definitely what a girl needs every week. Keep up the good work🙏
I genuinely have enjoyed your conversations🥰🥰❤
I do think they will help a lot of young people to have a better perspective and go against the norms that we continue to see in society. Bringing a lot more purpose and intention to more people, in a society that lacks purpose and intention.
You guys are doing great!! Well done❤
Even though staying in a relationship for longer than 5-6 years without marriage is a major red flag, let's not forget that there are exceptions to it. For example high school sweethearts😭sana I can't expect that man to marry me while we're both students. Like kanjani
You guys are cooking and I'm in the pot and I love it over here❤
You ladies are all we needed🥰🥰
I am glad i found this podcast..The gems these ladies are dropping...Wisdom galore! thank you.
Every episode have a life lesson
Thank you so much girls for this kind of wisdom and maturity we love you ❤❤❤
ahhh you guys eat every single ep goshh😩❤❤❤🔥
Love this 😭❤️💐🔥👏
Y'all deserve your flowers 💐 ❤
I really needed this 🥰
Watching this from the West Coast...lm loving this Thatoo
Cant say how much ive learned in just 3 episode 💘💓
Love this it’s very educating 😊❤
I love Mpho so much argh 🥺😻.
What a relatable episode 😢 i kept saying mmmh exactly the entire episode. Loved this so much❤ virtual hugs to you guys🫂❤️
Virtual hugsssss🫂 ❤️
Absolutely LOVED this episode ladies 🌸💖
So glad you did 💕🥺
I'm taking this as a sign to go to the gynae😭I've been postponing it for so long. And recently my body has been telling me that I need to go😭but I'm so scared.
First thing I'm doing tomorrow morning, is to make an appointment at Marie stopes
He was a very handsome pharmacist 🤣
He honestly was 😂😂I’ma go back to Dischem just for him
U guys are doing tooo muchh❤❤❤😊😊😊
Love this ❤
Beautiful episode ❣
Yoh a podcast I didn’t know I needed 😢
Eish these ads though...but i stick it out because i love Thato and Rampedi media
❤❤🙌✨️Thank you so much ladies
i love being here!!!
I enjoy this podcast alot these girls are doing the most❤❤love lots girls
Love the color co-ordination
I love the podcast❤
You guys are cooking❤❤
soo informative vakwetu❤❤❤
Powerful ladies❤ more of God in your lives
My new favorite podcast ❤
Anyone who know the song on intro and outro
Can you please talk about Gender based violence😢. .
I stopped going to the gynae because…..pregnant women are prioritized! Ka nako yeo I have been diagnosed with PCOS. I was just tired so gynae will skip me please!!!!!
I LOVED THIS
I don’t know why most females don’t have good experiences with female gynaecologists. We go to them thinking we’ll feel seen and heard meanwhile no!🥺
Dude ! Tell me about it !
If there’s any place we should be seen and heard, it should be with a gynaecologist. But no 💔
I think we need two podcast a week please guys
Ive never been to the gynecologist i should go
Definitely ❤️
i def. feel like mammi is misunderstood, saying this because i was one of the people that didnt like her because of seeing her on other people's videos, but i think now that im seeing her personal POV and getting to know her, i LOVEEEEE her🥹
Stephanie ike said this (paraphrasing) "everything or every role we play we are there to serve, so for example marriage, the both of us are there to serve each other more than to get something from it, so if you do anything marriage included and you are there for that thing to fulfill you YOU MISSED THE POINT
Oof ! Powerful
I just confirmed what Mammie was saying about not washing chicken and its surprisingly true.
Every time i come here i am abused.😂
But on a serious note, I am loving every episode .
What ever Caiah said about idolizing marriage yoh I felt that🥹
Honestly this podcast has show that delulu is definitely not the solulu 😔💕
😭it really isn’t bandla
Mammie dearest hit home
U guys are so relatable ❤
🥺mission accomplished !💃🏾
❤ Mondays are for girly chill
Where can i find a Mary stope? I wanna go
sin is tiring. I feel attacked because I am in a longterm relationship.
I feel like a drug addict. Can't get out of it. Knowing it's wrong, but it just feels good 😢😢
You just need to go to God and talk to HIM. Cry to HIM. Trust me, HE wants to hear from you. 🤍
WASH YOUR CHICKEN!!!!! INFACT BOIL IT, HAHHAHAHA
I'm empowered ❤
26:01 So embarrassed at my big age I haven't seen one 😭.
Ohhh also it’s possible to be married and not living a life of purity😉
You Spitting 😭❤
YEEESSSSS SO TRUE
Best podcasts ❤ may God bless you content in Jesus name.
they are preaching
Hauu we didn't drop an emoji this time? 😭
😭😭 I can’t believe some guy made Caiah pay a bill😭
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭I CANT BELIEVE IT EITHER . NEVER AGAIN
love you ladies 🧡"I rather do drugs I agree 🤣"
Definitely here for the feminine hygiene education💐🤍
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Stop making life time decisions for someone who has not made life time commitment to you
Thank God for medical aid chile
This podcast??😔❤️a girl’s best friend
And that is just my opinion and don't take in a bad way , am not against you hence am always tuned in
We gave a disclaimer in ep1, that most of what we say is based of our own experiences up until this point in our lives, if our views and opinions change we will let our audience know. And because of the fact that what we say is experienced based, our opinions will mostly be feminine and cater to women. If you or anyone else thinks differently you are more than welcome to interact in the comment section and tell us your views ❤️
@MammiDearest I hear hence am saying understand every other part of it but reason I commented only on this episode is simply because you guys spoke on marriage...and you have no experience there...or rather I don't think any of you has over 3 to 5 years in a relationship???...I might be wrong
@@Thokozane_Raidar24 I reiterate, if our views and opinions change we will inform our audience ❤️
Thank you for watching, appreciate it ❤️🙏
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19:26 We don't have money guys 😭
You saying the letter has not been sent NO!! The letter is not even thought off or written. A man knows first jump when he will marry you.
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