Do Girlfriend Allowances Enable Transactional Relationships ? || Thought Digest Ep04

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  • Опубліковано 16 гру 2024

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  • @marie-clairemangue6396
    @marie-clairemangue6396 8 місяців тому +49

    Mpho just casually comes on here and speaks facts

  • @CaiahM
    @CaiahM 8 місяців тому +170

    😭my feelings are still hurt that Mpho didn’t tell me I had lipgloss on my chin the whole time.
    Boooo 🥫🥫😂

    • @MammiDearest
      @MammiDearest 8 місяців тому +39

      I’m sorryyyyy 😭😭😭

    • @thandi_khesa
      @thandi_khesa 8 місяців тому +9

      😂 the amount of times I wiped my chin, she did you dirty girl. You better come with a very challenging game for her to loose next week. Love y'all ❤

    • @CaiahM
      @CaiahM 8 місяців тому +4

      @@thandi_khesa😂Say LESS !!

    • @thandomagubane4193
      @thandomagubane4193 8 місяців тому +5

      I lowkey thought you got hurt

    • @Hope.B2
      @Hope.B2 8 місяців тому +13

      I did not notice it till you brought it up Caiah😂😂

  • @thandi_khesa
    @thandi_khesa 8 місяців тому +91

    You guys are sure you're under 25 mara, you're always making me questions my life choices as a 27 Y/O😂😭 you're wise babies, one thing about women of God...they have maximum wisdom.I love you guys so much and I look foward to another episode of thought digest every week❤

    • @tshephanglegotlwane1498
      @tshephanglegotlwane1498 8 місяців тому +7

      something about these babies i tell you, ma2K surely had something we missed in our up bringing.

  • @Thokozane_Raidar24
    @Thokozane_Raidar24 8 місяців тому +32

    Nah Caiah is very smart no leave her alone she's the type

  • @lindyzindela
    @lindyzindela 8 місяців тому +81

    Accepting money from a man, will automatically make me feel like I owe them so I never accept it😭✋️

    • @CaiahM
      @CaiahM 8 місяців тому +7

      I hear this yoh😭

    • @nontobekoprecious4895
      @nontobekoprecious4895 5 місяців тому

      that's exactly, how i would feel aswell, but this podcast has really opened by eyes!!

    • @patikwakwa
      @patikwakwa 3 місяці тому

      Girl you took the words right out of my mouth! Also on some occasions (not all, depending what kind of person you are dating), it opens the doors for the relationship to be transactional, so if he gives you money there is that unspoken energy that whatever I want to do she must accept it or be down with it because I gave her money. Nasty work I tell you

  • @genuinejay7696
    @genuinejay7696 8 місяців тому +58

    This ladies are young but have so much wisdom ❤

  • @yonelamabaxa9833
    @yonelamabaxa9833 8 місяців тому +19

    💸💸💸💸
    Literally live for these every Monday. Thato really did a thing with putting y’all two! Lalelani , y’all have a regular degular and a loyal supporter over here!! Stay shining ❤️❤️❤️

  • @OlebogengMosime
    @OlebogengMosime 8 місяців тому +10

    Mpho and Caiah you give us so much light

  • @rethabile4127
    @rethabile4127 8 місяців тому +77

    No because Mpho carrying a pad and lip therapy in her bag is SOOO real😭😭😭

    • @CaiahM
      @CaiahM 8 місяців тому +5

      😂😂no no no guys that CANNOT be the standard

    • @lizwimasango6991
      @lizwimasango6991 8 місяців тому +1

      Yes yes, I tried to be a girly girl and I couldn't

  • @sanelisiwenyathi7053
    @sanelisiwenyathi7053 8 місяців тому +14

    Mummy dearest should 100% do more UA-cam if wants to she will be able to held it. Caiah please hype her as much she hypes you ❤

  • @AndiswaVilakazi1
    @AndiswaVilakazi1 8 місяців тому +35

    No Clicks should partner up with Caiah

    • @CaiahM
      @CaiahM 8 місяців тому +2

      🥹YOH LETS SPEAK IT INTO EXISTENCE

  • @ndumiii
    @ndumiii 8 місяців тому +28

    We could be “Digesters❤”😂😂 because the digestion be so reallll over here🌚🤭.
    Or ‘Thinker Dees’. Not sure why ke but sounds cool in my head😂

  • @akhanisopangisa3549
    @akhanisopangisa3549 8 місяців тому +5

    Caiah your recent “discovery” on money in relationships 🙌 honestly that’s a full topic on its own …valuable food for thought 👌

    • @CaiahM
      @CaiahM 8 місяців тому

      🤔perhaps we’ll revisit it in future ?

  • @Walubita_Charity
    @Walubita_Charity 8 місяців тому +38

    I literally listened to the podcast on Spotify and still came to watch it on here😂😂I have to see the chefs that are cooking

    • @MammiDearest
      @MammiDearest 8 місяців тому +6

      Wabona wena you are a star ❤️❤️❤️

  • @Zunotzeus
    @Zunotzeus 8 місяців тому +19

    As gents let’s admit this podcast puts you on real game😭

    • @CaiahM
      @CaiahM 8 місяців тому

      😂😂fr ? How so ?

    • @Zunotzeus
      @Zunotzeus 8 місяців тому +3

      @@CaiahM yk when yo homies give you that “this is what it means when she does this” advice? Y’all actually tell us Wagwan in her complex mind😭

    • @zulumichaeljackson
      @zulumichaeljackson 8 місяців тому

      Real😂😂

  • @Kganya_Makola
    @Kganya_Makola 8 місяців тому +23

    And most of us are not depressed, we just dont have the amounts of money that makes us feel comfortable💸💸💰💰💰💰

    • @CaiahM
      @CaiahM 8 місяців тому +2

      I COMPLETELY AGREE

  • @maija-lisadavid1154
    @maija-lisadavid1154 8 місяців тому +6

    Mpho makes me so proud…she’s always speaking facts

  • @noxolombutuma1915
    @noxolombutuma1915 8 місяців тому +8

    Girl when u said every relationship is transactional😩😩😩 I became aware of it when I started out University. I totally agree🤧

  • @lesegoboroto4023
    @lesegoboroto4023 8 місяців тому +14

    Caiah's nails are sooo cute omg !!😍😍

    • @CaiahM
      @CaiahM 8 місяців тому +1

      🥺🥺twenkuu very mucchh

  • @thisisNoluthando.M
    @thisisNoluthando.M 6 місяців тому +3

    One thing about Mpho? She will speak FACTS!❤❤

  • @lydiangobeni9117
    @lydiangobeni9117 8 місяців тому +20

    Definitely we want thought digest t shirts for Mondays 😅❤

  • @ThatoMakhalemele-jj8ed
    @ThatoMakhalemele-jj8ed 8 місяців тому +28

    Waiting patiently😭thought digest is legit my fave right now ❤

    • @lydiangobeni9117
      @lydiangobeni9117 8 місяців тому +1

      I literally waited all day for this notification 😂🎉❤

  • @SphumiSiwisa
    @SphumiSiwisa 8 місяців тому +9

    Caiah's outro❤🔥🔥

  • @eddysweets
    @eddysweets 8 місяців тому +15

    Guys thank you for your education podcast, i just referred my colleague at private hospital you guys talked about since she was complaining aboud her period taking longer than 2 weeks

    • @eddysweets
      @eddysweets 8 місяців тому +2

      I also told her to watch and subscribe to your channel

  • @AndiswaVilakazi1
    @AndiswaVilakazi1 8 місяців тому +8

    Thank you so much for showing woman at a different good lens than what is usually shown and put on top especially negatively , mpst importantly the thought process because we relate a lot

  • @NosiphoHlekiso
    @NosiphoHlekiso 8 місяців тому +7

    This podcast is the best thing that has ever happened to me

  • @neomnisi5611
    @neomnisi5611 8 місяців тому +8

    Throughly enjoying this podcast, such wisdom filled conversations

  • @YangaKhetsekile
    @YangaKhetsekile 8 місяців тому +9

    Caiah and mommy Dearest please I love it here ❤️🤭

  • @LeboMokwena23
    @LeboMokwena23 8 місяців тому +9

    Happiness is a state of mind😊 "Only money that I want" - I Maleven's voice

    • @CaiahM
      @CaiahM 8 місяців тому +1

      😭happiness really is a state of mind

  • @Nelafyed
    @Nelafyed 6 місяців тому +5

    Hygiene hacks: putting a portable pack of Sta-Soft in your closet is scent lifesaver.

  • @hlamilegodi3220
    @hlamilegodi3220 8 місяців тому +7

    💵 💵 very educational all the time yeah money is a foundation in a relationship what's most important is having a man who knows manly roles he has to play like being able to support for his family ❤

  • @qaqambaRafu
    @qaqambaRafu 8 місяців тому +14

    our name should be "THE DIGESTERSS"😭🎀

  • @Keora28
    @Keora28 8 місяців тому +8

    Might as well call this Masterchef cause y’all are always cooking🍲

  • @tatendaac
    @tatendaac 8 місяців тому +25

    Loved the episode! Love you both💕Mpho, maybe try not to cut off Caiah. I’ve picked up on that for the past few episodes. Seems like you cut her off a lot before she finishes her point. But other than that you’re both doing great💋

  • @Lerato_rrato
    @Lerato_rrato 8 місяців тому +123

    Mpho and Caiah podcast really build up a womens mind🥹 Hope you'll got your note books to take notes❤ cause wow these women are so Genuine and unique🌸

    • @moreke10
      @moreke10 8 місяців тому +1

      even us men🔥🤟

    • @Lerato_rrato
      @Lerato_rrato 8 місяців тому

      Shout out❤

  • @thailand_Devil
    @thailand_Devil 4 місяці тому +1

    Mpho nd caiah you guys are so wise like most girls can rely on you based on life choices eyy❤

  • @paballomakwetla3564
    @paballomakwetla3564 8 місяців тому +5

    we are THOUGHTERS 😍

  • @liisaimmanuel
    @liisaimmanuel 8 місяців тому +6

    Such interesting conversations💜💜

  • @ItsRauha
    @ItsRauha 8 місяців тому +7

    Love love this Podcast.❤

  • @ndjamoo
    @ndjamoo 8 місяців тому +54

    Our name should be the DIGESTIVE SYSTEM 😂😂

    • @CaiahM
      @CaiahM 8 місяців тому +12

      😂😂now I KNOW you’re lying

    • @thandi_khesa
      @thandi_khesa 8 місяців тому +5

      Not digestive system hle chomi😭😂😂

    • @nthabisengpearl5499
      @nthabisengpearl5499 8 місяців тому +3

      😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

    • @GracefulYvonne
      @GracefulYvonne 7 місяців тому

      Bathong 😂😂😂

    • @Nelafyed
      @Nelafyed 6 місяців тому

      😂😂😂😂😂

  • @bukhomntumni
    @bukhomntumni 2 місяці тому

    Standing on Benzac is so real🙏🏿😭I feel so validated!

  • @lindiweQueenFoko
    @lindiweQueenFoko 7 місяців тому +1

    So much wisdom gosh,y'all make so much sense together❤

  • @evrol-bionnekhomo2717
    @evrol-bionnekhomo2717 8 місяців тому +7

    “The Thought Digesters!”😙

  • @naanhuleamu9909
    @naanhuleamu9909 8 місяців тому +3

    💸💸💸💸💳You two lovely ladies are so insightful! I loved every minute of this, and yes I'd rather be rich and unhappy than being poor and happy😂.
    Love you guys❤!

    • @CaiahM
      @CaiahM 8 місяців тому

      😂❤️glad we’re on the same page!

  • @Thomasma-s9n
    @Thomasma-s9n 8 місяців тому +34

    Fan base name: digesters

  • @becomingnursecwe
    @becomingnursecwe 8 місяців тому +2

    every episode makes me love Mammi even more

  • @eddysweets
    @eddysweets 8 місяців тому +9

    Im hare already for the Queens

  • @mbalimngunii
    @mbalimngunii 8 місяців тому +2

    Another banger ! Thank you💸💸💰

  • @leonasmart22
    @leonasmart22 8 місяців тому +7

    Ohhhh Caiah mentioning all my faves....Niko ,Aj and ofcourse Tumii❤❤❤

    • @CaiahM
      @CaiahM 8 місяців тому +1

      YESSSSSSSS THE YT KINGS AND QUEENS

  • @ndumiii
    @ndumiii 8 місяців тому +1

    Omw, I’m late to the party but I’m tuned in now that’s all that matters 🥰

  • @amahlebuthelezi6965
    @amahlebuthelezi6965 8 місяців тому +29

    Nice episode but Mammi the way you keep on interrupting Caiah😭😭 Please allow her to speak more. Please work on it sisi and please ask her back questions if she has asked you. (This is not an invitation for hate)💸💸💸

    • @lebogangshantel6269
      @lebogangshantel6269 8 місяців тому

      I totally agree

    • @BrawnsWithNosihle
      @BrawnsWithNosihle 8 місяців тому +1

      Exactly what I’ve been thinking.. I love these two ladies but Mammi, please give her a chance to speak

  • @Ms._seraphic
    @Ms._seraphic 8 місяців тому +5

    Love this 😂❤especially the way Mpho is soo relatable 😅😊

  • @Sego.rm7
    @Sego.rm7 8 місяців тому +10

    Notification gang.🤭

  • @LethokuhleJuly
    @LethokuhleJuly 8 місяців тому +3

    We need a merch to rock on Mondays as we watch thought digest😭🤍pls

  • @Remza-Luv
    @Remza-Luv 8 місяців тому +7

    I don't think love is conditional, love is a natural thing that we're born with. From a Christian perspective we Naturally love people. We meet you and I love you cause you are my fathers child, I don't have a reason to love you therefore that's the unconditional part of love.
    Now, relationships and association, on the other hand, have nothing to do with love but its rather a transaction. It's preferences, deal breakers, values, and principles. If you think about it when people break up its not that they stopped loving each other. They just stopped meeting the principles and values that you want for yourself. They are no longer the quality of human you want to spend your life with. You can't tolerate and withstand certain characteristics and traits that the person possesses. For example if we got married and we were both Christian and then suddenly I believe in a different God and you don't believe in that, it's a deal breaker, you divorce me because now I no longer align with your principles and you can't compromise yourself in that manner. You dont stop loving me. We just stop being compatible and walking in the same journey.
    So perhaps we should be cognizant of separating Love and Preferences etc.
    This is just my perspective...
    ❤❤❤love you ladies soo much, though your podcast is legit a girls best friend

    • @Remza-Luv
      @Remza-Luv 8 місяців тому +1

      Adding to this for example when you're asked "what type/kind of husband or wife do you want?" , the response is not "I want a partner that I love" no, the response is usually based of character, principles, values, goals, looks etc...

  • @user-MC9508
    @user-MC9508 8 місяців тому +6

    You can never go wrong with vaseline❤. Also,alum water helps with breakouts.

    • @CaiahM
      @CaiahM 8 місяців тому +1

      What’s alum water ?🤔

    • @user-MC9508
      @user-MC9508 8 місяців тому

      It's a salt type of chemical in powder form. Mix it with water,spray it after you wash your face, and leave it overnight.

    • @user-MC9508
      @user-MC9508 8 місяців тому

      My bad,I described alum, cos you can buy it as a powder and make your own alum water.

  • @chegenelius
    @chegenelius 8 місяців тому +5

    You are both glowing 💯😘
    Much love from 🇰🇪🙂

  • @ntombifuthichombo5544
    @ntombifuthichombo5544 8 місяців тому +2

    I think "Thee Digesters" would be a lovely name for us Thee Lovely fans of this amazing Pod❤❤❤

  • @Nelafyed
    @Nelafyed 6 місяців тому +1

    All my handbags are small in size and what I keep in them is lip gloss, Powerbank, tissue, earpods, sanitizer and my phone cable.

  • @jessy-kay7092
    @jessy-kay7092 8 місяців тому +2

    Beautiful episode👌🏾

  • @Nelafyed
    @Nelafyed 6 місяців тому

    I lowkey underestimated uu both as individual UA-camrs and this podcast removed that perception 🥺🙏🏾. Literally gonna start binging on both yoll's channels - TODAY

  • @akhanisopangisa3549
    @akhanisopangisa3549 8 місяців тому +2

    Than see him everyday but we’re hungry 😭😂Mpho! Lol mna I hear you

  • @KhanyiMarez
    @KhanyiMarez 8 місяців тому +8

    Digest Squad!!!!

  • @YangaKhetsekile
    @YangaKhetsekile 8 місяців тому +4

    Here for Mommy dearest pleaseeeeee🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷

  • @Nelafyed
    @Nelafyed 6 місяців тому +1

    Garnier roll on is my fighter 👏🏾🔥

  • @micklaston2733
    @micklaston2733 8 місяців тому +3

    Please make sense ....if love Is given from your parents..it's conditional 😢.... Two each their own 🎉

  • @SadeRulumeni
    @SadeRulumeni 8 місяців тому +7

    May I please hear your thoughts on the movie Acrimony because wow, what a movie 😭😭I'd like to hear what yall have to say.

  • @Phindu_M
    @Phindu_M 8 місяців тому +3

    love this podcast 😍

  • @Mamgcina30
    @Mamgcina30 8 місяців тому +3

    Some advice what about dating an unemployed hun thats doesnt want you anymore because she wants to solely be dependant on you financially but your the sole provider back home

  • @thandi_khesa
    @thandi_khesa 8 місяців тому +10

    Ey mina I'd rather be rich and sad bafethu, life revolves around money. What will I do in this life without money? Aowa
    But I don't wanna be sad keh to be clear on that so I'd rather be rich and happy if that's also an option 😂

    • @CaiahM
      @CaiahM 8 місяців тому +4

      😂😂my exact sentiments

  • @daisydaisy5296
    @daisydaisy5296 8 місяців тому +2

    I know this is not related but I need a plug ya Caiah's watch😍😍 I was looking at it the whole time

    • @CaiahM
      @CaiahM 8 місяців тому

      American Swiss🥺❤️

  • @abigail07.25
    @abigail07.25 8 місяців тому +2

    Lovely conversation ladies!!🔥👑

  • @busisiwediamond7
    @busisiwediamond7 8 місяців тому +2

    ❤Love you guys ke sana

  • @kealeboga_k
    @kealeboga_k 8 місяців тому

    Going 50/50 or 80/20 just made be in my feelinga cause sometimes as a woman that i am, i want to do something for my guy too but can't do 100% alone
    Love & Enjoy What You Guys Are Doing.
    God Bless.❤💸💸💸💸💸💸💸💸

  • @user-pearly.ray_
    @user-pearly.ray_ 8 місяців тому +2

    46:46 word.✊🏼

  • @amoreBusi
    @amoreBusi 8 місяців тому +2

    I love it here ❤️👌....

  • @buhleshezi5222
    @buhleshezi5222 8 місяців тому +3

    Ya’ll are so pretty ❤❤❤

  • @Remza-Luv
    @Remza-Luv 8 місяців тому +3

    😂😂😂😂i agree Mpho, theres no such thing as a broke woman ❤

  • @mbokie1807
    @mbokie1807 8 місяців тому +6

    SMART LADIES ☝️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @billionaireclub3372
    @billionaireclub3372 8 місяців тому +7

    I hope we have guys watching this podcast, boys Y'all better wake up having a feminine woman is very expensive. So y'all better not be lazy.

    • @CaiahM
      @CaiahM 8 місяців тому +1

      😭feminine women really are expensive

  • @thandomagubane4193
    @thandomagubane4193 8 місяців тому +2

    Love you guys. Biggest inspiration ever.💸💷💶💵💴💳🤭❤️

  • @phodisosehere9712
    @phodisosehere9712 8 місяців тому +3

    Love you guys so much💵💵💶

  • @itskay6328
    @itskay6328 8 місяців тому +2

    I love it here💰💰💰💰💰🤑🤑🤑🤑

  • @Thokozane_Raidar24
    @Thokozane_Raidar24 8 місяців тому +5

    Caiah is very smart and very open minded...I just wish the girl next to her can think the same...the allowance topic

    • @cleviiie
      @cleviiie 8 місяців тому +4

      Cool, girlie but that’s her opinion. If you do not agree with her that’s fine. We all think differently and have different perspectives and opinions. No need for shade

    • @Thokozane_Raidar24
      @Thokozane_Raidar24 8 місяців тому

      @cleviiie opinions are like ass hol*s everybody has them , but in this situation it is used as a escape word...I personally still believe In love and I will forever will and if you are going to influence other females to think that Allowance is a must and say it's just your opinion on a Public platform...it's totally wrong some opinions are should be bottled up

  • @Tumikekanaa
    @Tumikekanaa 8 місяців тому +5

    The digestives 😂

    • @CaiahM
      @CaiahM 8 місяців тому +1

      😂😂even YOU are laughing at that name

    • @Nelafyed
      @Nelafyed 6 місяців тому

      ​@@CaiahM😂😂😂😂😂

  • @palesazulu5158
    @palesazulu5158 7 місяців тому +1

    😅yesss Caiah, Nara Smith vibes

  • @keabetsoemqwati3837
    @keabetsoemqwati3837 7 місяців тому

    🤑🤑🤑Can't find the money emoji mara you gets mos🤣🤣
    I agreed with you guys in everything, akena le opinion🤣

  • @gontsemothibe9911
    @gontsemothibe9911 8 місяців тому +6

    It is sad Mpho, giving your manz money is sad my girl 🤣🤣

    • @CaiahM
      @CaiahM 8 місяців тому +2

      Terribly sad 😭

  • @RRRoyaltiess
    @RRRoyaltiess 8 місяців тому +1

    Thought-digesters!💞

  • @tracygorata8297
    @tracygorata8297 8 місяців тому +4

    Why can't i download???😢😢😢😢

  • @kaboskreations2000
    @kaboskreations2000 8 місяців тому +5

    💵💵💵💵
    I absolutely love them

  • @Angelina.b_
    @Angelina.b_ 8 місяців тому +4

    I loved ❤this
    It’s eye opening for a teen like me
    💵

  • @yenkosithulamthembu
    @yenkosithulamthembu 8 місяців тому +14

    DIGESTERS!!!💕💕💕💕💕💕😍

  • @Xoliswa_ngwenyah
    @Xoliswa_ngwenyah 8 місяців тому +5

    Baking soda for armpits. Make a paste and rub it on your armpits overnight ❤

    • @thandi_khesa
      @thandi_khesa 8 місяців тому +1

      What does it do chomi, is is for the odour or the hyperpigmentation?

    • @Xoliswa_ngwenyah
      @Xoliswa_ngwenyah 8 місяців тому

      @@thandi_khesa for odour.

  • @Tunes_by_Tee
    @Tunes_by_Tee 6 місяців тому +1

    I think if you can love God unconditionally then you can love your neighbor unconditionally.

  • @mrmanq9517
    @mrmanq9517 Місяць тому

    NEVER let a woman make you pay to keep her. Never let a woman convince you that she has more value than you as a MAN: 🔥
    1. She cannot change your life, you can change hers. Financially and give her guidance and emotional security
    2. Her existence is a lie. Make up, fake hair and a borrowed lifestyle. She dates the boss and thinks she's in charge. She dates the rich guy and acts rich herself
    3. Look beneath the surface and see just what a mess her life and finances are. They are in constant competition, envious of each other and have a fake sisterhood
    4. A woman will never reach her full potential or true happiness without guidance of a wise man. Under guidance she can be the most AMAZING person on Earth. Left to her own devices or without a father figure, happiness is a goal to far. Logic will always trump emotion. Why men MUST lead
    Ladies: Learn to cater to a man before asking him for things and watch the respect from the right man rise. The way you treat yourself will inspire him to do for you. You must go 1st
    Gents: Save yourself gents. Always put yourself above the woman. Self improve at ALL COST 😉😂

  • @TeeTonui
    @TeeTonui 3 місяці тому

    What's the name of the intro song..helllppppp!!😢

  • @DineoNkadimeng-p5f
    @DineoNkadimeng-p5f 8 місяців тому +8

    mpho not to come for you or anything, i think you should learn how to listen & please dont go off topic
    Love y’all tho💋

  • @Tunes_by_Tee
    @Tunes_by_Tee 6 місяців тому

    You could call your audience the thinkers. They think and digest their thoughts

  • @Thokozane_Raidar24
    @Thokozane_Raidar24 8 місяців тому +1

    Mpho I have a very good friend of mine he has a lot of money...and he is very single and a Nigeria what do you say...he is very willing to give his woman money cabanga akanandaba