U know what u expressed the truth in most beautiful and simplistic manner. At times we need such sentences to understand the crux in a simple nutshell ❤️
A quote I learnt 40 years ago: "Love is like an elusive butterfly (hard to catch), and when you're not watching ,you find this butterfly landing on your shoulder "
... But when i'm not watching it's becauze i don't care anymore - and then i eat the butterfly - bottom line is if you love something let it go and if it comes back it was meant to be that is the stupidest f****** s*** that I've ever heard and I've heard a lot of dumb s*** if you love something you hold on tight and don't let it go because regrets a motherfuker trust me I know - and sadness is a mother f***** to it's what makes you depressed and hate yourself for loving someone who doesn't love you when you're a person such as myself you very rarely let someone in your heart and when you do it's because they earned that spot in your heart so the day that they start acting different start treating you like you're nothing it affects you a lot more then anyone else could ever affect you and then you feel stupid because you let that person in your heart just so they could f****** hurt me and destroy me - then they top it off with some 2020 Facebook meme saying I love myself more than I love you okay what the f*** are you babbling about b**** if you love someone you go hang out with them you be with them you fuking make love eat food together do things together simple as that been working since Adam and Eve and what that b**** do she started listening to some snakes who told her blah blah blah blah blah because women at the end of the day are more naive then men and they listen the b******* and all they're going to get from that is to not be with me and the ruin the little family that we have all because she wanted to listen to the snake instead of loving the man who she knows 100% has her back let me tell you a secret there's not a lot of guys out there who 100% are down for you 100% willing to take care of you and 100% have the means to take care of you ILWU Local 13 I'm not an entrepreneur I'm not a rap star I'm not writing a book are opening up a business I'm going to be part of a union which means job security don't women like that since I was with her she has helped kill the demon in me by I would say 50% but since she started treating me like I ain't worth s*** that demon has gotten bigger that's why I love her because real love is hard to find or bitches be slipping acting stupid and listening to women or friends they don't have a man who loves them wants to marry them and take care of them so deep down in there subliminal conscious they're just a bunch of jealous b****** period End of story
Same thing with me & I have found no one. It is just that way. Some people are meant to live alone. God can see way in the future if a relationship will work out or not & if it's not gonna work out then we are destined to live alone whether we like it or not
What I have finally learned is that self love is the most beautiful gift you can give to yourself. I no longer chase. What belongs to me will find it’s way to me. In the mean time I am focusing on myself and my goals. I feel liberated.
What about people out there that have been told their entire life they’re not good enough.. how can you correct 30 or 40 years of feeling that way? I see a lot online about people who struggle with that and yet they’re happily married this to me all game playing and total confusion.
True love just happens. You don't have to constantly wave your arms around and be fanatical on UA-cam. This guy is obviously lacking. Anyone would run a mile from him.
Jaime Ares that’s very true. It’s not entirely true regarding, “find yourself.” However, what happens if they leave you and you haven’t found yourself ? You essentially have two anchors weighing you down now... create your own happiness first from within
@@johnraina4828 I'm sure that's not what she said or meant. You misread and misunderstand her comment. She refers to detaching from the outcome and not stressing it, NOT saying she got lazy. Comprehension is important.
Make yourself so positive and blissful and so full of love , that your aura and being looks irresistibly beautiful to whoever looks at you ) you will not only attract people but whatever it is that you want this way )
I feel no one deserves to be in a relationship with a narcissist they are terrible people that feel entitled thank God for my friend who referred me to an hacker and i was able to hack my partner's phone, all i did was to share his phone number with (geniustracker) without touching his phone and see all the proofs i needed for a divorce and even terrible things they had planned contact him to help he is a genius. You can text/call +1 (415) 323-6758 or reach him on WhatsApp +1 (724) 330-3252 and also write to Via Gmail (geniustracker701) thank me later...
♥️♥️♥️ If you love someone, let them go and if they come back they are yours. If they don't, they never were. Let go, let God. We attract exactly where we are at. ♥️♥️♥️
@@Wuletegiorgis23 the thing is that when u value yourself and start doing important things other than relationships u become a different person...By the time the one that u chased once starts coming back to u or not u r already with someone else
Chasing implies lack, chasing implies resistance... stop chasing it ! Focus on being yourself, things are coming to you, you must become aware of your worthiness
Erika K yea well I have witnessed people that don’t Chase it never get it for example my guy friend doesn’t chase it and he never gets a girl no sex or relationship for 9 years. So what about that some people are single and get old then no one comes to them like him he will be 40 no girls chase him when he’s not chasing so if he’s not chasing then why he gets no one almost 10 years?
I pray for everyone reading this to feel the deepest form of love that you deserve. May your heart overflow with love that you radiate in your natural high state.❤ Thank you Aaron.🙏🏼
Thank you so much for such positive vibes in the hardest times I am going through 💙 God bless you with good health, happiness and prosperity 😇 Stay safe 🙂
The same with job interviews 😂 when you want it more, the worse it goes, when you don’t try too hard the easy going and enjoying is, your true colors shine
Translation of video: "The more you want something, is the less you are bound to get it. The less you want something, is the more you are bound to receive it."
THIS VIDEO LITERALLY CHANGED MY LIFE! I was so desperate just a few minutes ago! I was crying and feeling miserable! But after listening to your video I realized that I am worthy whole and complete! Thank you from the bottom of my heart!
From my experience, don’t ask for attention, don’t waste time on social medias, don’t chase love, or you will attract players and losers, do everything natural, just focus on yourself and love will eventually come to you unexpectedly.
I don't think so moonriver / I've done what you've preached - but like the bait you put on the end of a fishing hook - it either works or doesn't - and in my own case - the game is long over at 67yrs
No, I like a gal so many times and no guts to show any feelings for her....until months or years later discovered she already has a b/f.....so even I don't chase her , the person I like will be grabbed by the other guy......Is this video logical?
the formula is basically... Set an intention, meditate, relax, find your identity, believe it to your core, don’t listen to negativity, be humble,take actioj(believe it’s gonna work for you), let go... and than it comes, that’s with eveurhting in life, this dimension is ran by certain factors. Start with meditation and keep working towards ur goals, be THE PERSON you “want” to be. Time is a construct , a perception
Been single for half a year. Not chasing. Just working on myself, following my bliss/ passion 🥰, & most importantly Making sure my shadows are brought to the light before the next one 🤣✨💫
That will work! Don't forget to be in a good shape. Soul is as important as shape. I was in the same situation and the good shape was the initial approach ... elevated in a jackpot!!! It is going to come when you are least looking for...
@@katrinathehurricane6342 LESS is More its true..i really stopped caring i deactivated my messenger and ignored him and hes like crazy wanting me and shower me with his text 24/7
Create energy that is formless and free. Create energy that serves you. “Empty your mind, be formless, shapeless, like water. If you put water into a cup, it becomes the cup. You put water into a bottle and it becomes the bottle. You put it in a teapot it becomes the teapot. Now, water can flow or it can crash. Be water my friend.” - Bruce Lee
anytime you chase something you drain your energy and it eludes you. when you raise your vibration, you magnetize yourself for your desires and the right partner and also success will just gravitate towards you literally like magic.
Very inspiring Aaron! Thank you! This reminds me of Will Smith quote "Don't chase people. Be yourself, do your own thing and work hard. The right people - the ones who really belong in your life - will come to you. And stay." - Will Smith
The synchronicity of this video... Exactly what I wanted to hear.. I'm so focused on chasing that when I find I only find relationships that I don't want.
I feel no one deserves to be in a relationship with a narcissist they are terrible people that feel entitled thank God for my friend who referred me to an hacker and i was able to hack my partner's phone, all i did was to share his phone number with (geniustracker) without touching his phone and see all the proofs i needed for a divorce and even terrible things they had planned contact him to help he is a genius. You can text/call +1 (415) 323-6758 or reach him on WhatsApp +1 (724) 330-3252 and also write to Via Gmail (geniustracker701) thank me later...
Something I always use to say is they ALWAYS want you back once you stop caring. Bc they know you don’t need them and once you don’t care how they feel about you is when they want you
Because people like that are egoistic and they want validation of their personal worth...Once you dont give attention to them then it will become a challenge to them to get that attention back, same as those narcissistic IG account who wanted to be followed, they'll follow you and if they follow you back then they will unfollow you.
It's true! I accepted being alone for 2 years and started listening to manifesting videos and believing it already exists, I just attracted someone over the weekend who wants a relationship. Our energy is key and powerful!
@@BlackDogWalking I feel no one deserves to be in a relationship with a narcissist they are terrible people that feel entitled thank God for my friend who referred me to an hacker and i was able to hack my partner's phone, all i did was to share his phone number with (geniustracker) without touching his phone and see all the proofs i needed for a divorce and even terrible things they had planned contact him to help he is a genius. You can text/call +1 (415) 323-6758 or reach him on WhatsApp +1 (724) 330-3252 and also write to Via Gmail (geniustracker701) thank me later...
@@plantmama7442 I feel no one deserves to be in a relationship with a narcissist they are terrible people that feel entitled thank God for my friend who referred me to an hacker and i was able to hack my partner's phone, all i did was to share his phone number with (geniustracker) without touching his phone and see all the proofs i needed for a divorce and even terrible things they had planned contact him to help he is a genius. You can text/call +1 (415) 323-6758 or reach him on WhatsApp +1 (724) 330-3252 and also write to Via Gmail (geniustracker701) thank me later...
Everything you said sums up the last 6 years of my life. I’ve always been chasing something to make me whole and to change me. But after watching your video, I don’t need to chase and I can change myself. I am worthy and people will see the worth in me as I do. Thank you so much!!!
I usually avoid these videos, but after feeling down about my love life for so long I gave it a shot. I’m exactly what you’ve just explained in this video, I let a girl dictate my mood and habits by chasing her, time to stop and focus on me, thanks brother 🤙🏻
@@mokhan8cfk Chasing means putting yourself and your Worth first! Above all else. Know thyself is NOT giving your power away to others!! So chase your own needs and wants in life first!! It's not selfish but self Love.
I was like this before I know who can he:lp you out text he now. He can solve your problems:: don't waste your time here: you can get ex back::+:1:9:7:2:5:3:4:8:3:9:9 whatzzp me
Everytime I put it out there that I like a girl straight up, it worked in my favour. everytime I don’t put it out there, there’s no chance. You just have to put the thought out there and then don’t chase. Let her know you like her, then don’t do anything to chase. Just be a good person and be happy with your own energy and she will see that. That’s the attraction. “I like you, but I won’t chase you, but I’ve got your attention because You know i like you!” It’s like a master psychological plan. It always worked.
you kinda have to do small things for her, like randomly hug her from behind or simple gestures like gazing at her with your head resting on your hand as if you were daydreaming and when she looks just fake it and "snap out" of the dream haha . its such a good way of hinting to her thoughts. she will begin to connect with you on a mind level rather than words all the time
Today I am 11 years breast cancer free....I had changed and become better both mentally and......wow!!!! Today I really needed to hear this!!!!! Thank you Aaron!
..... for the past 20 mins i have just been cryin my eyes out ... my boyfriend justvdissapeared on me ... on newcyears eve ...yesterday .... all i been doin was cryin ... suddenly ..how i dunno ...stumbled upon ur video .... realised ...o mi god ...i been chasin too hard ... not the star of my own movie ... gonna start workin on it rite now ...new year ...new day ..new me ...thank u so much ...ur an angel
Exactly how I have been feeling. Exactly how I have been going about my relationship. Always putting him first. Always putting him on a pedestal. Always feeling like I am nothing without him. It all makes so much sense. Putting this into full effect ASAP! it's time I start loving myself. It's time I get to my core. Thank you sooooooooo much for this ... i really, really, reallllllllllly needed this. thank you !!😌
Janice Oliphant Janice Oliphant thank you this is beautiful! “Where you are”. Not when we lose 10 pounds, not when we have a different career, just here, just now.
I feel no one deserves to be in a relationship with a narcissist they are terrible people that feel entitled thank God for my friend who referred me to an hacker and i was able to hack my partner's phone, all i did was to share his phone number with (geniustracker) without touching his phone and see all the proofs i needed for a divorce and even terrible things they had planned contact him to help he is a genius. You can text/call +1 (415) 323-6758 or reach him on WhatsApp +1 (724) 330-3252 and also write to Via Gmail (geniustracker701) thank me later...
Really made me realize how I’ve never not chased someone of value to me…. Ouch. I’m worth receiving the effort, or rather the desire to have around too. It’s taking everything in me to accept that. I put my entire heart and soul into my relationships in every way possible whether emotionally, physically, financially, etc. yet have not once received reciprocated efforts. I have value. I don’t mind if someone cannot reciprocate so long as they show respect in general towards my efforts by acknowledging them. I hope I can work on my self esteem and just finally…see myself the way I see those I love wholly. I need to become the first person I care and love. I’m sure then I can give more genuine love and gratitude to a much deeper extent when I am happier and more fulfilled.
I’m already in beautiful relationship but I like to watch videos like this that help me grow as a person. I couldn’t agree more with this. Relationships should be two people who already love themselves coming together to enjoy and love each other’s presence. Some people go into relationships for the wrong reasons and don’t fully love themselves and expect the other people to help them feel that for them and end up draining their partner.
Love yourself first and set your mind on your life goals, stay positive, raise your vibrations with meditations, visualise in what you want to the universe and then you'll manifest your dreams on finding your soul mate.
I know this is an older video, BUT, it spoke to me SO personally that I took pages and pages of notes!!!!! THIS is what I needed to hear, and THIS is what I will act upon to get back to my own core and be the star of my OWN life!!! Thank you, Aaron!!!! xoxo
When YOU are at your CORE (/in the Blissful, Perfect Vortex.. BEING all that you ALREADY become), YOU are the STAR of your own movie! YOU have the very powerful GRAVITY and VERY attractive energy! YOU are already whole & complete, YOU are as Amazing as anyone (remember there is no "other", ALL is one) you perceive as Amazing. All the awesome "people" you Lovvveee are YOURSELF, actually. Wow, such a profound ENLIGHTENMENT ⚡
For me over the years I've noticed that every time I was emotionally unavailable (happy with being single and deep down still trying to get over someone), I would attract people left and right, like literally guys randomly approaching me or having crushes on me. The more I wanted something the less anything worked out...always feels better to be in a peaceful neutral state
What I have learned is try loving yourself for a change . The type of love that you want, try giving it to yourself for a change. Be a priority for a change.. Don't chase.. The right one will come at the right time, Focus on you
*Damn, I knew it!* *If you expect good things such as love to come into your life, it won't happen.* *If you stop expecting good things, good things will come into your life*
everything he says is true, and I can confirm that by my personal experiences. BUT don't forget one big important point here: as long as you're watching this video "out of desperation", it won't get you anywhere. calm your desires down, then watch this brilliant video again more carefully. so... if you are watching it in order to learn the "hack" for finding a relationship, you are wasting your time. there is no hack. actually, you know the hack from the back of your mind. just shut your neediness down temporarily and try to practice Aaron's ideas. and to Aaron, I want to say thank you for radiating your sincere love and original ideas.
I stopped chasing relationships after my last one ended early this year. I made a list of my ideal partner, put it away, and decided to not focus on relationships at all. Someone I had not spoken to in almost a decade and didn’t think I would speak to ever again (we parted on very bad terms), reached out to me a couple of months ago. I don’t hold grudges, so I agreed to meet him for coffee. I had absolutely no romantic feelings towards him. As of today, we have been a couple for one week and I couldn’t be happier. He meets every single quality I have on my “ideal partner” list.
Agnes of Aurora I wish you the best of luck thank you for sharing that with us. It gives me hope I feel like sometimes I will never find the right person I guess I just got to be patient.
The guy I was dating ended our 3 1/2 month relationship yesterday and I’m realising that I was chasing when I thought I wasn’t. I have a lot to reflect on. Thank you for this video 🙏🏽
I’m so extremely guilty of this and I’m cringing at myself cause this has been my problem for years 😅😅😅 thank you for the tough love. I will become the star I’ve meant to be. 🖤
Yes, this is true. Few years ago I got out of a failed relationship and that made me sad. Not only sad, it made me wanna be alone- alone like, single. I started to feel better and better being single and, for sure, did not want anyone in my life. I was just looking after myself and doing my things. Then, after a long time, somehow, one day, I thought 'Now I might be ready to start a new relationship. Who knows? Maybe someone good will someday pop out someplace. We will see!'- and continued my normal, daily life without giving it much thought. Without anyone in mind, without searching... nothing. It was like a switch. Not long after, I met the most amazing person- and now we are together for a year. And it's been a great year and, as things go, it will be many many more to come. So I just set my mind in a different direction, as first I set it on 'I wanna be single, definitely'- and I was. I felt good about being single, nobody chased me, all went quite smooth. Same for when I clicked in the other direction. You know, there is a saying: don't push your luck. And it is true. it is true for me. Once you have a certain mind setting, mind frame... just go on with your life and let the Universe do its job.
Absolutely well said! I Love my own company and I’m so happy alone after years of a Toxic relationship. I’m FREE!! I ended it now honouring me my spirit taking care of my well being. Absolutely not interested in chasing anyone! Soul searching and loving myself! Feels so good 💓enjoying getting to know myself 💓I’m so Grateful for my HIGH VIBE TRIBE Thank you for your amazing videos! So Grateful for you!! Peace and Love 💕🙏😇💓🥰
Desperation works against you. However you should know what kind of partner you desire and let it be known once you find them. If its true, it will be reciprocated without force in time.
This is very apropos to me. Broke up with my Ex 3 months ago and I keep chasing her psychologically. My mind is on her 24/7. I need to let go. Been suffering and not living life. Thank you Aaron.
heyyyy everyone here is my complete the past I mentioned in the video! for best results listen for 21 days :) ua-cam.com/video/LGiJ51B0HGU/v-deo.html
Thank you so much Aaron, it makes a lot of sense.
Love you Aaron!
Very very well explained! So true! :-) Love and Peace from Switzerland! :-)
Omg 😍 u got me!!TY ❤️💙
I already using this brilliant video.
Don’t chase a butterfly. Take care of your garden, butterflies will come.
but what if i want a flower....?
Yo that was deeeeeep
Wonderful analogy, thank you!!
U know what u expressed the truth in most beautiful and simplistic manner. At times we need such sentences to understand the crux in a simple nutshell ❤️
Great analogy 👏👏👏👏
May the person whose reading this find their true love within next 30 days.
Amen!
Thank you
Thank god is quarantine and I am not getting out of home
Amen!!
Thank you so much
A quote I learnt 40 years ago: "Love is like an elusive butterfly (hard to catch), and when you're not watching ,you find this butterfly landing on your shoulder "
Wow
Beautiful
You look so much like jorginho of Chelsea football club
... But when i'm not watching it's becauze i don't care anymore - and then i eat the butterfly - bottom line is if you love something let it go and if it comes back it was meant to be that is the stupidest f****** s*** that I've ever heard and I've heard a lot of dumb s*** if you love something you hold on tight and don't let it go because regrets a motherfuker trust me I know - and sadness is a mother f***** to it's what makes you depressed and hate yourself for loving someone who doesn't love you when you're a person such as myself you very rarely let someone in your heart and when you do it's because they earned that spot in your heart so the day that they start acting different start treating you like you're nothing it affects you a lot more then anyone else could ever affect you and then you feel stupid because you let that person in your heart just so they could f****** hurt me and destroy me - then they top it off with some 2020 Facebook meme saying I love myself more than I love you okay what the f*** are you babbling about b**** if you love someone you go hang out with them you be with them you fuking make love eat food together do things together simple as that been working since Adam and Eve and what that b**** do she started listening to some snakes who told her blah blah blah blah blah because women at the end of the day are more naive then men and they listen the b******* and all they're going to get from that is to not be with me and the ruin the little family that we have all because she wanted to listen to the snake instead of loving the man who she knows 100% has her back let me tell you a secret there's not a lot of guys out there who 100% are down for you 100% willing to take care of you and 100% have the means to take care of you ILWU Local 13 I'm not an entrepreneur I'm not a rap star I'm not writing a book are opening up a business I'm going to be part of a union which means job security don't women like that since I was with her she has helped kill the demon in me by I would say 50% but since she started treating me like I ain't worth s*** that demon has gotten bigger that's why I love her because real love is hard to find or bitches be slipping acting stupid and listening to women or friends they don't have a man who loves them wants to marry them and take care of them so deep down in there subliminal conscious they're just a bunch of jealous b****** period End of story
@@tylerdurden7397 dude you need to chill lmao this was supposed to be a sweet message
I don't chase, I attract! What belongs to me will simply find me!!!
I try to stop but nothing comes my way
Same thing with me & I have found no one. It is just that way. Some people are meant to live alone. God can see way in the future if a relationship will work out or not & if it's not gonna work out then we are destined to live alone whether we like it or not
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@@michaelbrenton4380 that's the loser mentality.
@@MementoMori1001I think so too
Treat them like a celebrity, and they will treat you like a fan
tyronnezx 😂😂👍👍
Damn! Good point!
tyronnezx Well fucking said!
Good one!!!!!
tyronnezx nice way of putting it
If you are reading this..I know you are hurting, but you will heal.
thank you .
this guy sure beat that dead horse
Thank you
Tyvm🤘👍
Waiting 7 years for this already but thx
"Any time you're chasing someone else, it means that someone else is running."
Dat realization doe.
ikrr
Yh
N X yes it’s fucin frightening
It happened with me many time..
But im fast as fuck boy.
What I have finally learned is that self love is the most beautiful gift you can give to yourself. I no longer chase. What belongs to me will find it’s way to me. In the mean time I am focusing on myself and my goals. I feel liberated.
Best comment here! ♥️♥️♥️🔥🔥🔥
The healing balm self love so true x
What if it never finds you? Staying in your home with high self esteem wont get you love
@@deimosok2003 if you truly love yourself, you don't care. it's not about being in a relationship. it's about giving love to all human beings
@@huansonnig7198 how is that gonna help you find a partner if you stay at home most of the time?
”chasing implies you are not good enough already.....” Wow. That was deep.
I think he also mentioned that “if your chasing the other person is running” or something like that
Right
Chasing means you’re needy
What about people out there that have been told their entire life they’re not good enough.. how can you correct 30 or 40 years of feeling that way? I see a lot online about people who struggle with that and yet they’re happily married this to me all game playing and total confusion.
True love just happens. You don't have to constantly wave your arms around and be fanatical on UA-cam. This guy is obviously lacking. Anyone would run a mile from him.
omg I need this guy to appear in my room every morning with his whiteboard like a personal conscience
Hahaha like the second it turns 7am he just magical appears in the room and goes "okay so then"
That would be great. I would learn a lot.
😂😂😂😂😂 trueee
Sameee
Aww 😉
"You must first find yourself before someone can actually find you." ❤️
Nice quote!
Well said!
You must first learn to love yourself before you can love someone else.
@Jaime Ares stop being so negative
Jaime Ares that’s very true. It’s not entirely true regarding, “find yourself.” However, what happens if they leave you and you haven’t found yourself ? You essentially have two anchors weighing you down now... create your own happiness first from within
"if you are chasing someone, that means they are running away from you". what a line...
To everyone who feels they aren't worthy... " U're amazing " 😎
You are amazing too
Why.. Thank you sir🤗💋🤣
I like pancakes Don’t!
gando
Thanks you. you are also amazing.
Yess, use this affirmation : I don't chase, I attract. What belongs to me will simply find me
Ase
Oosss
Awesome!!! Thank you
doesn't work for real, you gotta make efforts and take actions
That applies for women, for men no. Men needs to find AND approach women, if not he will be forever alone
Got the man of my dreams after letting it all go and doing whatever's good for me it's crazyy how it worked out
If you stop doing what you did to get him his soon gone
Megan can you please explain was it a specific person or did you manifest a new person into your life ?
@@johnraina4828 I'm sure that's not what she said or meant. You misread and misunderstand her comment. She refers to detaching from the outcome and not stressing it, NOT saying she got lazy. Comprehension is important.
@@SR77736 I'm sure that's what she said and meant.. Now stfu
It has happened to me many times.
If you are reading this, the pain is only temporary. You will feel different soon. You are amazing! Let it go!
Anyone feeling lonely and drawn to these videos?
Good luck to everyone! I know I certainly need it.
not lonely, but drawn to these videos to see how the other half live.
Gregory Albert hi give us a update please
msboo13 still the same unfortunately 😂
Thanks for this i was crying
Hi buddy
Make yourself so positive and blissful and so full of love , that your aura and being looks irresistibly beautiful to whoever looks at you ) you will not only attract people but whatever it is that you want this way )
much love bro !
@@AaronDoughty44 I'm happy to see you spread so much light Aaron ))
How do i go about doing that
Interesting, Never thought about it. I'm gonna try it. Thanks for the idea!.
I been doing this lately I have everyone saying hello lol
Let it go,if it comes back its yours,if it doesnt,it never was. Thanks Aaron!
Psychopats and sociopaths also like to come back if they feel they didn't destoy you enough ;)
I feel no one deserves to be in a relationship with a narcissist they are terrible people that feel entitled thank God for my friend who referred me to an hacker and i was able to hack my partner's phone, all i did was to share his phone number with (geniustracker) without touching his phone and see all the proofs i needed for a divorce and even terrible things they had planned contact him to help he is a genius. You can text/call +1 (415) 323-6758 or reach him on WhatsApp +1 (724) 330-3252 and also write to Via Gmail (geniustracker701) thank me later...
TonyB Buonaiuto if it comes back I will reject the person
I say hurl. If you blow chunks and she comes back she's yours. If you spew and she bolts it was never meant to be
True GOD bless you
14:09 "any emotion you want to feel already exists inside of you"
♥️♥️♥️ If you love someone, let them go and if they come back they are yours. If they don't, they never were. Let go, let God. We attract exactly where we are at. ♥️♥️♥️
It’s not easy as we say it 😀 that’s the problem
its a matter of acceptance...
What if the other person think the same and he's waiting for you to go to them
What now?
@@aymanardo1322 God will bring you together.
@@Wuletegiorgis23 the thing is that when u value yourself and start doing important things other than relationships u become a different person...By the time the one that u chased once starts coming back to u or not u r already with someone else
I know you're hurting, I know life is hard, I know you're going through a heartbreak. Trust that things will work out and you will become better.
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Thank you 🙏 you kind soul 😃
Thank you
Thank you for your nice message
Thank you
Jeez it hurts
Chasing implies lack, chasing implies resistance... stop chasing it !
Focus on being yourself, things are coming to you, you must become aware of your worthiness
appreciate you Erika !
@@AaronDoughty44 :) :) :)
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@@Master-n-Teachvirgo8557 sending the best energies your way !
Erika K yea well I have witnessed people that don’t Chase it never get it for example my guy friend doesn’t chase it and he never gets a girl no sex or relationship for 9 years. So what about that some people are single and get old then no one comes to them like him he will be 40 no girls chase him when he’s not chasing so if he’s not chasing then why he gets no one almost 10 years?
Instead of looking for the right person, be the right person ❤
I pray for everyone reading this to feel the deepest form of love that you deserve. May your heart overflow with love that you radiate in your natural high state.❤ Thank you Aaron.🙏🏼
Ameen
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111likes🙏thank you🙏
Thank you so much for such positive vibes in the hardest times I am going through 💙 God bless you with good health, happiness and prosperity 😇 Stay safe 🙂
Such a beautiful ur I miss you
The same with job interviews 😂 when you want it more, the worse it goes, when you don’t try too hard the easy going and enjoying is, your true colors shine
True
When you care less things fall into place dosnt mean you can't give it 100% but when u let the outcome go things naturally happen for the better
I disagree completely
Dude, I just read this, I am laughing so hard:))
That’s what happened 4 years ago 😂😂😂it was totally wired
Translation of video: "The more you want something, is the less you are bound to get it. The less you want something, is the more you are bound to receive it."
Yeah that's only works if u referring to a girl but wrong if u are referring to your goals
Exams marks ?😂😂😂
It means act like it's already yours and feel that!
its the same thing with money
So how do I stop wanting love? I feel like, that's a human need.
As an old man in his 60's I'm glad I discovered you. This is true. I became independent from everyone recently and now they are seeking me out.
"You are NOT the Star 🌟 of your own Movie 😎 if you always try to be the Cameo of someone else's"
This changed my perspective 🔥
Anyone who is reading..you are awesome whole and complete..let the true love find you..you are worthy..keep loving yourself ❤️
I hope she looks as good as you
YOU should FIND YOURSELF ❤ BEFORE SOMEBODY FINDS YOU! 100%🙏👌 BLESSINGS ✨
yasss!
Aaron Doughty how about yes that seems y’know g@y
They say that love comes to you when you least expect it. If it's meant to happen it will.
Don’t save her. She don’t wanna be saved.
Charles Victoria What that’s mean??
Mc Aki song by j cole
“I can’t save her, if she don’t wanna be saved” - JID Hereditary
"Captain Save a Hoe"
Hip-Hop classic by E-40
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THIS VIDEO LITERALLY CHANGED MY LIFE! I was so desperate just a few minutes ago! I was crying and feeling miserable! But after listening to your video I realized that I am worthy whole and complete! Thank you from the bottom of my heart!
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Yeah . Yesterday I chasing my crush unnecessarily and this video found me today
“Chasing relationship is why you’re in relationshit or situationship!” 💯💯💯💯💯
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From my experience, don’t ask for attention, don’t waste time on social medias, don’t chase love, or you will attract players and losers, do everything natural, just focus on yourself and love will eventually come to you unexpectedly.
I don't think so moonriver / I've done what you've preached - but like the bait you put on the end of a fishing hook - it either works or doesn't - and in my own case - the game is long over at 67yrs
No, I like a gal so many times and no guts to show any feelings for her....until months or years later discovered she already has a b/f.....so even I don't chase her , the person I like will be grabbed by the other guy......Is this video logical?
I dont think this is always true ... some people spend their whole lives doing just that and ends up being alone.
the formula is basically... Set an intention, meditate, relax, find your identity, believe it to your core, don’t listen to negativity, be humble,take actioj(believe it’s gonna work for you), let go... and than it comes, that’s with eveurhting in life, this dimension is ran by certain factors. Start with meditation and keep working towards ur goals, be THE PERSON you “want” to be. Time is a construct , a perception
Been single for half a year. Not chasing. Just working on myself, following my bliss/ passion 🥰, & most importantly Making sure my shadows are brought to the light before the next one 🤣✨💫
much love Savanna!
Savanna. .
Me too!!💛💛💛
That will work! Don't forget to be in a good shape. Soul is as important as shape. I was in the same situation and the good shape was the initial approach ... elevated in a jackpot!!! It is going to come when you are least looking for...
😀
Dude, You are like an elder brother that everybody needs today, This video was an eye opener.
Completely true
Damn.!! "Any emotion you want to feel already exists inside of you" ❤️😌
That's wat I Don't understand
True
I stopped caring and here he is calling me twice a day
can relate😂
@@Sakginz true! :)
Thats awesome
@@katrinathehurricane6342 LESS is More its true..i really stopped caring i deactivated my messenger and ignored him and hes like crazy wanting me and shower me with his text 24/7
gemima hapuch show him This Video 🤣
Create energy that is formless and free. Create energy that serves you.
“Empty your mind, be formless, shapeless, like water. If you put water into a cup, it becomes the cup. You put water into a bottle and it becomes the bottle. You put it in a teapot it becomes the teapot. Now, water can flow or it can crash. Be water my friend.” - Bruce Lee
Well it becomes tea actually, but whatever... 👍🏻🎶☀️🎶
appreciate you bro !
Well said! 🤑
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Realize that you are a whole person and everything will come to you.
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Amen
This is the new mantra of my life. "Stop chasing. Be the star of your own movie"
anytime you chase something you drain your energy and it eludes you. when you raise your vibration, you magnetize yourself for your desires and the right partner and also success will just gravitate towards you literally like magic.
True because these days people there not putting GOD in there relationship,I mean GOD first before you do anything
@@asinsasina7935 you just changed the concept 180°😂😂
Hope it true. I know its millennial to comment this but u look hooooot
Very inspiring Aaron!
Thank you!
This reminds me of Will Smith quote
"Don't chase people. Be yourself, do your own thing and work hard. The right people - the ones who really belong in your life - will come to you. And stay."
- Will Smith
Speaking of Will Smith, I've met him which is pretty cool.
The synchronicity of this video... Exactly what I wanted to hear.. I'm so focused on chasing that when I find I only find relationships that I don't want.
I am the same..... I came on UA-cam looking to find a distraction and boom, here's this video, right at the top of my feed....
Me too
I feel no one deserves to be in a relationship with a narcissist they are terrible people that feel entitled thank God for my friend who referred me to an hacker and i was able to hack my partner's phone, all i did was to share his phone number with (geniustracker) without touching his phone and see all the proofs i needed for a divorce and even terrible things they had planned contact him to help he is a genius. You can text/call +1 (415) 323-6758 or reach him on WhatsApp +1 (724) 330-3252 and also write to Via Gmail (geniustracker701) thank me later...
To anyone reading this you r amazing as well
Whatsaap him"**
Sum it up= Everyone wants to feel needed** If you feel needy = YOU will receive NOTHING!! Makes perfect sense...
Something I always use to say is they ALWAYS want you back once you stop caring. Bc they know you don’t need them and once you don’t care how they feel about you is when they want you
What’s ek the point then... when you don’t want anyone anymore and people start wanting you 🤷🏽♀️
Because people like that are egoistic and they want validation of their personal worth...Once you dont give attention to them then it will become a challenge to them to get that attention back, same as those narcissistic IG account who wanted to be followed, they'll follow you and if they follow you back then they will unfollow you.
So play games? So immature
@@virginia3926 yes. Play that game. Life is a game, your work is a game. Play it!
My mom used to say treat them like dirt and they will love you for it. She was so right
That’s true. When u stop thinking about that one person (letting go), they started to text you.
Yes . Damn true. Love yourself is the key
Never happened to me. o.O On the other side if I dont think of this person I was anyway not interested anymore.
It's true! I accepted being alone for 2 years and started listening to manifesting videos and believing it already exists, I just attracted someone over the weekend who wants a relationship. Our energy is key and powerful!
Happy to hear this. Manifestations works .
After 2 years is it still flowing?
The more I tried to chase my family members to love me the more they rejected me and avoided me, thanks for the advice
Well, if they did that, just know that they're very bad family members
Wachana nao 😂😂
@@akaims1738 Thanks Kwani hapa kuna wakenya
@@taehan_ True
😂😂😂si unajua KAruri,hatukosi,tuko wengi
Niko ohio anyway
This is exactly what happened to me. after I was over my ex, he wanted me back, I said nah...
so true ...
Baby Girl yaasss! 👏🏼
are you sure he wasn't a woman? no offense deary, a man would never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb.
@@BlackDogWalking I feel no one deserves to be in a relationship with a narcissist they are terrible people that feel entitled thank God for my friend who referred me to an hacker and i was able to hack my partner's phone, all i did was to share his phone number with (geniustracker) without touching his phone and see all the proofs i needed for a divorce and even terrible things they had planned contact him to help he is a genius. You can text/call +1 (415) 323-6758 or reach him on WhatsApp +1 (724) 330-3252 and also write to Via Gmail (geniustracker701) thank me later...
@@plantmama7442 I feel no one deserves to be in a relationship with a narcissist they are terrible people that feel entitled thank God for my friend who referred me to an hacker and i was able to hack my partner's phone, all i did was to share his phone number with (geniustracker) without touching his phone and see all the proofs i needed for a divorce and even terrible things they had planned contact him to help he is a genius. You can text/call +1 (415) 323-6758 or reach him on WhatsApp +1 (724) 330-3252 and also write to Via Gmail (geniustracker701) thank me later...
Good for you!
Keep God first. Love yourself and be positive. Be wise.
Well said best comment
@Thanos You're a disrespectful person dude.
@Thanos how?
@Thanos the thing is, he hasn't a hole as you do ma frend
@Thanos no?
Everything you said sums up the last 6 years of my life. I’ve always been chasing something to make me whole and to change me. But after watching your video, I don’t need to chase and I can change myself. I am worthy and people will see the worth in me as I do. Thank you so much!!!
11:45 starts to explain what to do to stop chasing
Hahaha finallyyy
Thank you. I'm sort of tired watching other people telling me stop doing something I already know I shouldn't do.
omg life save god bless you
True hero 🙌 Thank you ❤ May the universe bless with abundance.
Appreciate you
I usually avoid these videos, but after feeling down about my love life for so long I gave it a shot. I’m exactly what you’ve just explained in this video, I let a girl dictate my mood and habits by chasing her, time to stop and focus on me, thanks brother 🤙🏻
I too let someone dictate my mood, so much that I had to take ibuprofen because of the hurt.
Same here
She’s cheating
I completely agree C-h-a-s-e no one other than yourself! The only Person you should be chasing is yourself!
Chase: Completely having a scarce energy
Perfect 👏🏻😊
Eatmoverest you missed the point. Chasing yourself means the real you is running away from you. Stop chasing.
@@mokhan8cfk Chasing means putting yourself and your Worth first! Above all else. Know thyself is NOT giving your power away to others!! So chase your own needs and wants in life first!! It's not selfish but self Love.
"The person u should chase is yourself"
Yea but how?? I became used to chasing ppl that i don't know how to chase myself anymore
I don't even want them to chase me, I just want to focus on myself. insha'Allah
Seek the Kingdom of God and righteousness and everything you seek shall be given unto you 🙏🏻💙
Correct
Amen Sister
Can i get an A ❤👄
Absolutely! It literally happened in my life ❤️
Amen 🙏
Three things: 1. Love this video 2. I gotta put the “stop it!” On a loop! 3. Someone who doesn’t want me until I don’t want them doesn’t deserve me
I was like this before I know who can he:lp you out text he now. He can solve your problems:: don't waste your time here: you can get ex back::+:1:9:7:2:5:3:4:8:3:9:9 whatzzp me
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Everytime I put it out there that I like a girl straight up, it worked in my favour. everytime I don’t put it out there, there’s no chance. You just have to put the thought out there and then don’t chase. Let her know you like her, then don’t do anything to chase. Just be a good person and be happy with your own energy and she will see that. That’s the attraction.
“I like you, but I won’t chase you, but I’ve got your attention because You know i like you!” It’s like a master psychological plan. It always worked.
how to let her knows you like her without doing something special for her?
you kinda have to do small things for her, like randomly hug her from behind or simple gestures like gazing at her with your head resting on your hand as if you were daydreaming and when she looks just fake it and "snap out" of the dream haha . its such a good way of hinting to her thoughts. she will begin to connect with you on a mind level rather than words all the time
@@589supra great，any other small things？
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Guys need to chase! Lol
Today I am 11 years breast cancer free....I had changed and become better both mentally and......wow!!!! Today I really needed to hear this!!!!! Thank you Aaron!
This video popped up randomly on my feed but it’s exactly what I needed to hear! Thank you universe & thank you Aaron! ✨
Praise God not the universe he made.. Blessings
Its power of search engine..😀
Same
The same thing happened to me . I didn't expect this video. Thank you angel 💜😭
@@sreetina3358 great video huh
when Aaron said "Tom and Jerry was a great show, but stop watching the reruns", i felt that
..... for the past 20 mins i have just been cryin my eyes out ... my boyfriend justvdissapeared on me ... on newcyears eve ...yesterday .... all i been doin was cryin ... suddenly ..how i dunno ...stumbled upon ur video .... realised ...o mi god ...i been chasin too hard ... not the star of my own movie ... gonna start workin on it rite now ...new year ...new day ..new me ...thank u so much ...ur an angel
You’re ... welcome... I ... guess ??..
You go girl
Ava Bharucha update please
Less of the ... on almost every word sentence, irs hard to read
Same!
Exactly how I have been feeling. Exactly how I have been going about my relationship. Always putting him first. Always putting him on a pedestal. Always feeling like I am nothing without him. It all makes so much sense. Putting this into full effect ASAP! it's time I start loving myself. It's time I get to my core. Thank you sooooooooo much for this ... i really, really, reallllllllllly needed this. thank you !!😌
You lose your power when you chase. Know that you are worth someone meeting you where you are. xx
Love Gabrielle xx YES!!!
Janice Oliphant Janice Oliphant thank you this is beautiful! “Where you are”. Not when we lose 10 pounds, not when we have a different career, just here, just now.
I feel no one deserves to be in a relationship with a narcissist they are terrible people that feel entitled thank God for my friend who referred me to an hacker and i was able to hack my partner's phone, all i did was to share his phone number with (geniustracker) without touching his phone and see all the proofs i needed for a divorce and even terrible things they had planned contact him to help he is a genius. You can text/call +1 (415) 323-6758 or reach him on WhatsApp +1 (724) 330-3252 and also write to Via Gmail (geniustracker701) thank me later...
This comment is gold!
If you are here, it's because you need healing, don't worry, I see healing coming your way right now
Hello I know of someone who helped me restore back my ex and he can also be of great help to you too as he did mine too
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I found my soul mate two years ago and we are still going strong!! I wasn’t looking for it but it found me
Really made me realize how I’ve never not chased someone of value to me…. Ouch. I’m worth receiving the effort, or rather the desire to have around too. It’s taking everything in me to accept that. I put my entire heart and soul into my relationships in every way possible whether emotionally, physically, financially, etc. yet have not once received reciprocated efforts. I have value. I don’t mind if someone cannot reciprocate so long as they show respect in general towards my efforts by acknowledging them. I hope I can work on my self esteem and just finally…see myself the way I see those I love wholly. I need to become the first person I care and love. I’m sure then I can give more genuine love and gratitude to a much deeper extent when I am happier and more fulfilled.
I’m already in beautiful relationship but I like to watch videos like this that help me grow as a person. I couldn’t agree more with this. Relationships should be two people who already love themselves coming together to enjoy and love each other’s presence. Some people go into relationships for the wrong reasons and don’t fully love themselves and expect the other people to help them feel that for them and end up draining their partner.
That's disgusting, how do you have a relationship
He is so lucky person that you got him
I'm jealous this is bullshit
Love yourself first and set your mind on your life goals, stay positive, raise your vibrations with meditations, visualise in what you want to the universe and then you'll manifest your dreams on finding your soul mate.
Let me introduce you to the same person who helped me with restoring my relationship without having any evil side effects. He is a genius.
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Please don't try to "manifest" love. That's bs
You don’t need anyone other than Christ
love him or hate him, hes spitting facts here
Love him
I know this is an older video, BUT, it spoke to me SO personally that I took pages and pages of notes!!!!! THIS is what I needed to hear, and THIS is what I will act upon to get back to my own core and be the star of my OWN life!!! Thank you, Aaron!!!! xoxo
When YOU are at your CORE (/in the Blissful, Perfect Vortex.. BEING all that you ALREADY become), YOU are the STAR of your own movie! YOU have the very powerful GRAVITY and VERY attractive energy! YOU are already whole & complete, YOU are as Amazing as anyone (remember there is no "other", ALL is one) you perceive as Amazing. All the awesome "people" you Lovvveee are YOURSELF, actually.
Wow, such a profound ENLIGHTENMENT ⚡
When I was single no one was attracted towerd me , but when i was in relationship every one want me in there life 😂😂
Same. Situation. With mine.
Why are people like that?
For me over the years I've noticed that every time I was emotionally unavailable (happy with being single and deep down still trying to get over someone), I would attract people left and right, like literally guys randomly approaching me or having crushes on me. The more I wanted something the less anything worked out...always feels better to be in a peaceful neutral state
Don’t put your eggs in a broken basket is probably the best relationship advice I’ve ever heard
😂
What I have learned is try loving yourself for a change . The type of love that you want, try giving it to yourself for a change. Be a priority for a change.. Don't chase.. The right one will come at the right time, Focus on you
*Damn, I knew it!*
*If you expect good things such as love to come into your life, it won't happen.*
*If you stop expecting good things, good things will come into your life*
For the light of the Lady
You right. I want good things to come my way.
I'm going to stop chasing
@@corbinwilliams8814 anything good happened?
everything he says is true, and I can confirm that by my personal experiences. BUT don't forget one big important point here: as long as you're watching this video "out of desperation", it won't get you anywhere. calm your desires down, then watch this brilliant video again more carefully. so... if you are watching it in order to learn the "hack" for finding a relationship, you are wasting your time. there is no hack. actually, you know the hack from the back of your mind. just shut your neediness down temporarily and try to practice Aaron's ideas.
and to Aaron, I want to say thank you for radiating your sincere love and original ideas.
I stopped chasing relationships after my last one ended early this year. I made a list of my ideal partner, put it away, and decided to not focus on relationships at all. Someone I had not spoken to in almost a decade and didn’t think I would speak to ever again (we parted on very bad terms), reached out to me a couple of months ago. I don’t hold grudges, so I agreed to meet him for coffee. I had absolutely no romantic feelings towards him. As of today, we have been a couple for one week and I couldn’t be happier. He meets every single quality I have on my “ideal partner” list.
One week
I hope all goes well for you and your man 😊
Agnes of Aurora I wish you the best of luck thank you for sharing that with us. It gives me hope I feel like sometimes I will never find the right person I guess I just got to be patient.
I made that list years ago. Got my heart broken recently after the guy chased me (I didn't start it but ended up really liking him, too bad for me).
This is a good idea! I'm going to try this out
The guy I was dating ended our 3 1/2 month relationship yesterday and I’m realising that I was chasing when I thought I wasn’t. I have a lot to reflect on. Thank you for this video 🙏🏽
“Tom and Jerry was a great show but it’s over, stop watching the reruns!”
Amazing metaphor
Haha
I'm Jerry. My cat's name is Tom. He runs from me. Someone gave him to me. I treat him good but he is a scaredy cat. Lol.
LOL
Aaron your so right. You have to be the love you want to Attract. It must be natural and always present. In Love & Light.
Divine Pioneer
yasss!
I stopped chasing Love and relationships 3 years ago. I am alone but happy.
I pray everyone get their love who complete their life 🙏 blessings to all ❤❤❤
I’m so extremely guilty of this and I’m cringing at myself cause this has been my problem for years 😅😅😅 thank you for the tough love. I will become the star I’ve meant to be. 🖤
Be the star of your own movie 🌟
Yes, this is true. Few years ago I got out of a failed relationship and that made me sad. Not only sad, it made me wanna be alone- alone like, single. I started to feel better and better being single and, for sure, did not want anyone in my life. I was just looking after myself and doing my things. Then, after a long time, somehow, one day, I thought 'Now I might be ready to start a new relationship. Who knows? Maybe someone good will someday pop out someplace. We will see!'- and continued my normal, daily life without giving it much thought. Without anyone in mind, without searching... nothing. It was like a switch. Not long after, I met the most amazing person- and now we are together for a year. And it's been a great year and, as things go, it will be many many more to come. So I just set my mind in a different direction, as first I set it on 'I wanna be single, definitely'- and I was. I felt good about being single, nobody chased me, all went quite smooth. Same for when I clicked in the other direction. You know, there is a saying: don't push your luck. And it is true. it is true for me. Once you have a certain mind setting, mind frame... just go on with your life and let the Universe do its job.
Now, I'm in the stage that I wanna be alone-alone, single-single right now. And I'm really liking it too. THank you for sharing! :D
Absolutely well said! I Love my own company and I’m so happy alone after years of a Toxic relationship. I’m FREE!! I ended it now honouring me my spirit taking care of my well being. Absolutely not interested in chasing anyone! Soul searching and loving myself! Feels so good 💓enjoying getting to know myself 💓I’m so Grateful for my HIGH VIBE TRIBE
Thank you for your amazing videos! So Grateful for you!! Peace and Love 💕🙏😇💓🥰
Letting go is the key to everything it seems especially letting go of negative core beliefs ...
i never chased relationships & i haven't been single since i was 23. (43 now) so you're preaching to the choir here.
Desperation works against you. However you should know what kind of partner you desire and let it be known once you find them. If its true, it will be reciprocated without force in time.
Ronda Callahan Rose In short he was a narc
@@RondaRose-jo4cd don't give money, financially help men or buy men anything unless it's on their card. Most narcs Are men.
I pray you get the exact love your soul needs
I felt like God is talking to me through you. Love you brother:)
This is very apropos to me. Broke up with my Ex 3 months ago and I keep chasing her psychologically. My mind is on her 24/7. I need to let go. Been suffering and not living life. Thank you Aaron.
There really is only one thing to do. Fuck all of her friends
Same bruh
You must 1st find yourself before anyone can find you...powerful AD.