Deeper Conversations About Taboo Topics at Work | Dethra Giles | TEDxSpringHillCollege

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  • @SakinahIman
    @SakinahIman 5 років тому +6

    I was HOOKED the entire time, this woman is an incredibly brilliant and engaging speaker.

    • @Dugiles
      @Dugiles 5 років тому

      Thank you Queen. What a great compliment. I am honored!

  • @imWillJ
    @imWillJ 5 років тому +37

    Proverbs 20: 15 "Gold there is, and rubies in abundance, but lips that speak knowledge are a rare jewel."

  • @marycklinn23
    @marycklinn23 5 років тому +13

    Think about what others dont. Pay attention to what people dont. And Make good things happen for people that need it. CHARITY, MERCY, and Openmindedness.

  • @artchemist4460
    @artchemist4460 5 років тому +1

    I appreciate this message, and I hope people practice what she preaches. It's time people learn to get along and listen to each other.

  • @bunnybeehoneybee
    @bunnybeehoneybee 5 років тому +2

    Great talk!! This made me reevaluate how I engage with people, so thank you

    • @Dugiles
      @Dugiles 5 років тому

      This is probably one of the best compliments I could have gotten. My goal is to make us all, even me, rethink how we engage with each other. Thank you so much for saying this. I am honored.

  • @brianpat7087
    @brianpat7087 5 років тому +4

    👏 bravo this speech deserve an standing ovation!

  • @scottmesh
    @scottmesh 11 місяців тому

    Beautiful talk Dethra. Great message. Great delivery. Let's all just get along. And, lets be curious not judgemental. Or, as David Marquet says - curious, not compelling.

  • @pceionthemove4066
    @pceionthemove4066 4 роки тому +1

    Powerful and Valuable!

  • @kbindc38
    @kbindc38 2 роки тому

    Awesome, thought provoking, and full of valuable insight, tools, and tactics

  • @penielekpekurede8946
    @penielekpekurede8946 5 років тому +2

    This is the most excellent talk I've ever seen...

  • @danielgiles4971
    @danielgiles4971 3 роки тому

    This talk is amazing. It should have over a million views by now.

  • @bombardier0543
    @bombardier0543 5 років тому +2

    There are multiple frames that you need to understand an organisation:
    -Structural: roles, responsibilities, ...
    -HR: harmony btwn needs of organisation & people
    -Political: individuals & groups interested
    -Cultural: culture, language, tradition, events *_edit: Symbolical, not cultural frame_
    This seems obvious but if a project manager don't know these frames,
    the communication will be compromised and the project will be most likely to fail.
    That's what we have been taught in 214 Project Management

  • @garrygballard8914
    @garrygballard8914 5 років тому +4

    Love her, excellent perspective. 👍✌

  • @umidk5558
    @umidk5558 5 років тому +7

    Welcome to another episode of LET'S ARGUE!

  • @fatimanjie4710
    @fatimanjie4710 5 років тому +3

    Beautiful..❤❤

  • @FixedFace
    @FixedFace 5 років тому +19

    yeah, lets talk about race religion & politics at work, what a swell idea!
    (i couldn’t make it past the first 30 seconds though)

    • @brendarua01
      @brendarua01 5 років тому +3

      Pity you

    • @kellyv6075
      @kellyv6075 5 років тому +2

      That comments only on you, rather that the video.

    • @fionafiona1146
      @fionafiona1146 5 років тому

      If you don't talk about it, it might be a problem if you act upon it.

  • @Whosaids0
    @Whosaids0 5 років тому +1

    Saved the day.

  • @TeamTrumpUSA
    @TeamTrumpUSA 5 років тому

    "If we shadows have offended, Think but this, and all is idle; Think you have but slumbered here, While this vision did appear; And this weak and idle theme, Gentles, do not reprehend. If you pardon, we will mend." (Shakespeare - A Midsummer Night's Dream)

  • @phuk8865
    @phuk8865 5 років тому +14

    What's the point? You're at work to work, not to sit in a circle and listen to everyone express their feelings about topics that have nothing to deal with work. Work isnt a high school cafeteria. Do the work and go home. Want to have deep conversations? Go out and do that on your own time.

    • @tmiles9747
      @tmiles9747 5 років тому +3

      I get her point. I get your point too. I wanted to add that networking is limited when people don't understand or maybe appreciate difference. But let me get back to work 👩🏽‍💻

    • @crystalo8603
      @crystalo8603 5 років тому +1

      Go back and watch again. You’ll see the reason why it’s important to have dialogue like this at work.

    • @jacobbrod8231
      @jacobbrod8231 5 років тому +4

      Lunch and break is my time. Also I can talk and work at the same time without it hurting my work. Preventing people from talking also hurts moral and encourages incompetence.

    • @kellyv6075
      @kellyv6075 5 років тому +3

      It's not just "feelings". It's people. It's society. It's belief systems. It's EVERYTHING relevant.

    • @catapatata
      @catapatata 5 років тому +2

      Work is our life too.

  • @zkara8692
    @zkara8692 5 років тому +2

    Thanks

  • @tmiles9747
    @tmiles9747 5 років тому +6

    👏🏼👏🏾👏👏🏿👏🏻👏🏽

  • @joycalories
    @joycalories 5 років тому +4

    Awesome job!

  • @patriciamint9402
    @patriciamint9402 5 років тому +1

    Right!

  • @Madhra2k24
    @Madhra2k24 5 років тому +3

    Lovely ... 😘

  • @driftingabstract4076
    @driftingabstract4076 5 років тому

    In short companies should encourage employees to drink together. Alcohol is a good tool for breaking down walls. I live in Utah, the Mormon community here is overwhelming. I was raised in the LDS church but do not concider myself as a Mormon. It's difficult working around so many judgmental Christians. I always feel I'm being judged and have to filter my conversations as well as portray myself as a different person than I really am.

  • @zagrath132
    @zagrath132 5 років тому +23

    I hate it when people say "like if you agree "
    Like if you agree

    • @najrenchelf2751
      @najrenchelf2751 5 років тому

      Zagrath 13, I knew it - even before I saw that I could extend the comment! 😂
      But yes, I will like - because I agree!

    • @joseeliaschacon6326
      @joseeliaschacon6326 5 років тому

      why?

    • @danamcalister7971
      @danamcalister7971 5 років тому

      Zagrath 13 I hate Indian givers........
      .....no, I take that back.

  • @mvstatuscreator1239
    @mvstatuscreator1239 5 років тому +2

    its helpful for my channel tedx

  • @Americandream2
    @Americandream2 5 років тому +1

    God is love

    • @Dugiles
      @Dugiles 3 роки тому

      He's also DOPE!

  • @ChaimaDZ
    @ChaimaDZ 5 років тому +2

    Afraid and incompetent = impolite
    👌 someone had to say it

  • @daemonbyte
    @daemonbyte 5 років тому +1

    We talk politics in work frequently. Maybe it's just a European thing.

  • @paulm2844
    @paulm2844 5 років тому +1

    When anyone else saw her shirt, did their mind go to "bong hits for Jesus"? I know it's totally unrelated, but seriously, anyone else?

  • @mrmann69
    @mrmann69 5 років тому +2

    8:28 Didn't your mom teach you to think before you talk back when you were four years old?

  • @zehrabebeyim7719
    @zehrabebeyim7719 5 років тому

    Altyazı koysanız bizde izleyebilsek fena olmaz

  • @happykimberly7
    @happykimberly7 5 років тому

    Simply awesome. Thank you for the lesson ❤ #7/11

  • @HilariousReveal
    @HilariousReveal 5 років тому +2

    I thought her shirt said "Goo is dope"

    • @happyemoji6553
      @happyemoji6553 5 років тому

      HilariousReveal I thought it said “good is dope” I would never click on it if I saw the word “god”

  • @brendarua01
    @brendarua01 5 років тому +1

    I see so much ignorance around me. That's not a value judgement, just an observation. This can be fixed easily. Just open your mind, meet people, read. You might or might not change your view on something, but you'll be informed improve your understanding.

  • @Quantum_Nebula
    @Quantum_Nebula 5 років тому

    I told my manager that we can solve world hunger and overpopulation with cannibalism... HR didn't agree, neither did my manager. 😒

  • @moontakeen
    @moontakeen 5 років тому +3

    It's too late people don't believe no mo

  • @dylanfierro4872
    @dylanfierro4872 5 років тому

    Diversity, like usual among neo-Stalinists, means everyone thinks and talks the same.

  • @HomunculusBonk
    @HomunculusBonk 5 років тому +5

    This is BS, at least in Europa

    • @kellyv6075
      @kellyv6075 5 років тому

      Maybe europa doesn't exist?

    • @kaytee789
      @kaytee789 5 років тому

      Europa never existed, its s myth

    • @terrythompsonjr
      @terrythompsonjr 5 років тому

      Sir De wit this is definitely more of an American concept but it would be nice for other places to have the desire to talk about those things as well

  • @umidk5558
    @umidk5558 5 років тому +2

    Oof