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When women get drafted for the 1 st time it’s gonna get real!
Never going to happen in the US.
@@edaboodie6346Oh yes hun dad's a general in the Army and it's gonna happen.
@@Lynniekdr These chicks including you darlin can't even make sense anymore. Dear God I hope their not drafted.. the US is fvcked.. not really
@@LynniekdrSo are you in favor of women possibly getting drafted or not?
Gonna love it😂
If the only way to be the man of my house and come home to peace is to stay single, then so be it. I've worked too hard for my good and decent life to ever let a 3rd wave womanist anywhere near it.
As a young English woman I say fair enough you be happy! The average woman in the UK dude stay away from them 😂
I think I'we heard about some dude doing exactly that,
He used to support His wife and also her kids.
She found "better man" and left the dude with her kids from a previous relationship.
So the dude desided no more, supported their and her children in to their own lifes and begun to work and live for himself.
Now he has a bigger house, more happier life, vacations abroad and sex when he wants, thou he pays from the sex, but lacks idle expenses on the sex, like child support and wifey expenses.
@@felixchaus There are men I've talked to about this. Going to a legal brothel a couple of times a year. It may be expensive per visit but penciled out over a years time? Eh, not so bad vs. the BS a man puts up with in divorce and alimony.
Yeah, no kidding just for fun. I compared my expenses from a couple years ago back when I so pros for all the sex. I wanted versus what my expenses look like now with a live-in girlfriend, who functionally speaking is indistinguishable from a wife and wow I was saving so much money on paying for pussy when desired at point of sale instead of putting up with all the relationship expenses. From reduced rent, lower utilities, not having to feed an extra mouth not giving Cole rides saving on beauty products not having to worry about gifts no dates and other women purchases. It was cheaper to buy sex even though I did it with higher end call girls at 400 and hour on average than it is to have a girlfriend who lives with you even if she strictly speaking does have a job and brings a second income. And the sex was better too.
Sorry, don't even want a 2nd wave feminist. That is when they started adding more s**t to complain about that had nothing to do with equality of the sexes. 3rd wave feminism + they have everything 1st wave feminism ever wanted but they have to keep adding more to complain about just to keep it going.
3:40 EXACTLY, I was telling my brother how it’s stupid and harmful that it’s normalized to say things like “men are scum” and he said it’s valid because women were historically more oppressed, but, how does normalizing toxic, harmful, demonizing and dehumanizing statements help anyone?? How does treating men and women differently help anyone at all?
You better school your bro up before he finds out the hard way. Good luck.
they werent oppressed. tired of that lie
To say that it's valid for women to oppress men because women were oppressed means, as well, it would be valid for black people to make chattel slaves of white people for the next couple of hundred years.
But as Maya Angelou said, "When you know better, you do better." If we know now that oppression is wrong, nobody should be doing it to anyone anymore. There is nothing righteous about retribution...eventually retribution always evokes counter-retribution.
I like how you said "queen" the way I interpret it when other women call themselves queens. They think they're better than everyone else and want people to serve them, but don't do anything to earn it
@dougholmes1388 Prestige without Practice, Proof, or Parentage.
Half are pigs, so there's that.
Yeah, the "happy wife, happy life" trope has definately run its course. Men are supposed to laugh and play the Homer Simpson part while the girlfriend/wife holds her pussy as some trophy we have to work for daily for just to have the privilege of looking at it. That was then, this is now.
FUCK YEAH. This is just how men are feeling right now. Cloe you really get it. Keep on fighting the good fight, you have my respect and my support.
When my wife and I decided to just pull the plug on our marriage and only be married on paper until my stepdaughter graduates from High School in a few years, she was talking in terms like she expected me to just... rush off and get a new girlfriend. Like I'm not able to make do without that in my life. Yeah, I'm in no hurry, and I'm not hunting. I'm working on building friendships back after the damage to my friendships that making a pretzel out of myself did.
As for double standards, the two of them were the ones allowed to be overwhelmed, and ruled by their catastrophic anxiety, but how dare I be any kind of overwhelmed or anxious about anything. Honestly, _both_ of them drove our family into the ground with their double standards. I respect that they have their traumas, but I don't respect them using their traumas as weapons against someone who had no hand in the trauma... especially not when it is to the point of trying to traumatize me.
Dump both of them asap!!!! Be free my man be free!!
How do you want to live when the people who tell you they love you change their minds?
This video is reposted from a month ago, so that’s why the old Patreon ad is there 😂
old or new, your videos are amazing as always 💚
If i wasnt already married and had to deal with the current dating scene id be completely done
You probably are in your 20’s for saying that fallacy...
Tru Racer? Do you think being young gives you an edge, an advantage? NO... age, wisdom gives you more than what you currently have.
I am an engineer, a racer... was one... as much as I could... even as a woman I am better now than when I was younger. As for being a man... look at Fernando Alonso, the most extreme sport in the world and the guy at 42 is kicking ass lol... only cheating gives an Amish looking Dutch the edge, but that is cheating plus Adrian Newey’s ingenuity
@RebeccaCampbell1969 actually I'm 40 just saying if I wasn't married for almost 20 years so I was single or younger I'd end everything rather than have to deal with the current dating scene
what is Rebecca on about lol ? I immediately knew what you were talking about and is saying . I felt the same and said to myself, I feel bad for the younger generation whose having to date at this time and age . If I wasn’t married , I’d call it quits too . I can only imagine what it’s like dating right now.
I feel you here to be honest. I'm just over the midpoint of 30, married for 10 years now. If I ended up single for some reason, I'd just likely be single after that. This shit's getting scary. I am content to just sit back in my own little bubble; and leave the rest of the insanity outside of it.
@@stormblind1654 exactly
As a mother of 3 teenage daughters and a son I've never enjoyed the company of women. Their vacuous conversations about handbags, the endless bitching and insincerity bores me to tears. Men's conversations are more interesting, intelligent, sincere and to the point. I tried to be a cat lady once with three cats, but the cats buggered of over time. Love your content.
Dogs are better... real dogs, those who can give you emotional support feedback.
Considering we, women, lie... scheme... betray... and everything else... and still the conversations you heard from women were that pathetic... GEEZ! 😂
Women talk in projection mode, and in logical fallacy mode... that’s all. Even talking about work it is not about it but about their fake status and interactions with other people... and when women speak about their success, they lie too.
I am guilty of that, but not as bad as those alpha queens... or the pseudo ones
It's kinda funny, one of my best friends is a woman, and she once told me that she enjoys talking to me the most out of her friends, because it feels like we can have a deeper and more thoughtful conversation.
Being that your a single mother and don't have any strong females bonds and all male friends is a major red flag and stereotypical.
Imagine putting down the whole of your gender to be a pick me:(. I do to like the difference in conversation with men as it is a different perspective but I don’t need to call my whole gender dumb, which you basically did. Must be lonely being the only intelligent woman in the world. You said all woman are bitchy but you are on here being rude to us all. No hate. Hope you have a lovely day❤
Ah yes obligatory women 'not like other women'. Yes honey we know how boring and shallow women are sure sure.
A confident woman can accept that most men have it more difficult that they do.
A man's nature is to trudge through difficulty at his own expense. He just wants appreciation and respect from his partner and children.
But the feminist woman has her identity based in being a victim. So how can she accept that men have ot harder while still holding up her precious victim identity.
Now men are like: your constant demonization of us has made us pull back...men see many women as oppressive and dangerous.
One of my brothers’ married a Vietnamese woman .. she is smart and saw bad things happen to family members when she lived in vietnam many years prior to meeting my brother … they’ve been happily married for over 13 years and I have never seen my brother so happy even now .. his first wife a typical western woman from california who was having an affair for quite some time while they were married …
A lot of young women live in a fantasy world and aren’t quite aware of real life and how it works.
We should all be equal. Fighting for our own rights should also involve fighting for the rights of others, including men.
I have two brothers, I’m married and most of my family are men. Their safety, mental health and every other aspect is as important as everyone else’s.
I can’t turn my back on men and I never will. However, like anyone, if a line is crossed I will bring it up.
Thank you.
Sanest take I have ever seen on a Roma comment section
Me and my wife swapped shoes for a week. She worked in the green houses and did all the farm work, i stayed home cleaned and cooked. it only took 3 days for her to lose her mind asking how i do it and i just sit and laugh
I’m a guy who cleaned houses to get through school because I’m a neat freak and it was super-easy money. If I can clean your whole house in 2 hours bi-weekly, wtf are you doing with all that ‘cleaning’ time??😉
@@whatifschrodingersboxwasacofin you know I said the exact same thing because she made it out like it was a lot of work. When I'd come home the house would still be messy, when she came home it was spotless. And my work days are 16 hour days. It only took me 3 hours to make the house spotless
20 year downward spiral over two relationships lead me to severe depression which caused the second one to end. I worked FT and provided over 95% of the income to only get tossed aside when I felt my worst. Still working to provide the only income at that point. Even at my worst, I still went to work. At this point in my life, This is my D and I'm okay playing with my own ding a ling to avoid the BS. Keep up the good work! I still hope to love again. Patience is more important than ever now.
Thank you chloe....wish there were more channels like yours👍👍
I heard a lady say that women are more easily influenced and more prone to group think. She was arguing against women voting. Kind of an interesting thought that coincides with the woman stating that feminism is not for women and takes away the individual. Kind of wild.
The women who attack Roma or any Men's rights advocate have no idea they keep proving the points being made and embarrass themselves
If Bella Porch can confidently say this ain't Build-A-B****, we can say this ain't Build-A-Bro either. Let's not say you have to be this or else you're not a real man/woman.
There needs to be more like you, keep up the good work.
It benefits women to stay ignorant. How do you convince an addict to stop when their addiction both pays them and they refuse to look long term and the high right now is sooooo good
Thank you Chloe. We need and love you. Looking forward to your street interviews. ready to laugh my ass off
"Pay for me", "treat me like a queen", "must make 100k", treat them INVISIBLE, never help, never approach. Not worth it.
It’s funny because I’m 37 and HATE….no…. despise women my own age or younger. I literally have to date 5 years older or more to find women who appreciate an old fashioned male mindset. I was raised by my grandfather. The gen where the man walks on the road side of the sidewalk, holds/opens doors, works hard and protects their partner. Women in their 30s or under dont get it.
Right on my man thats the ideals most of us were raised on
I'm 53 and most women my age (that are single) don't get it. I am just tired of being a life support system for a paycheck.
You are looking in all the wrong places for women.
If you are fishing in a lake 1 click from Chernobyl then what are you expecting to find?
I was watching the YT where the guy is sitting on an old beat up car, and asking women if they wanted to go out sometime. They just insulted or laughed at him.
Then....
He shrugged his shoulders and went over to his Ferrari and went to get in. These "women" almost fell over themselves trying to take back what they said. He just told them he didn't date gold-diggers.
My Wife was interested in me when I was driving my old 1984 Renault, and she had a 1968 Chevelle Convertible. She had no idea what I did, or how much I made. We fell in love together, and had 29 years of a very happy marriage. My World stopped in 2022 when she passed from cancer. I have no interest in any new relationship today. I'll just live out my days until I see her again.
I love you Carolyn.
You said everything i have been feeling since my last 2 of 3 serious relationships including the first when i was super super young, i have autism and be cheated on 2 out of the 3 times i tried to be 💯 with my significant other. The only time that i wasn't cheated on was before i was 18 in my first real relationship. 😢
I hope you and your family are doing awesome as the sun and moon shine bright for not breaking my heart the way i had to feel after your love that my young brian couldn't process at the time Lorelei❤😢❤
Thank You for doing this. As a man that lives with 4 women I deal with this all the time. I was told by one of my roommates that she washes dishes by hand (and by wash she means let soak for a few hour then rinse) because she didn't know how to use the dishwasher. But when I offed to show her the basics of just loading it, She yelled "I don't need you to mansplain a dishwasher to me you misogynistic pig." My other female roommates later said I was wrong for trying to help and should just let her be her.
Being medically disabled and still fighting for financial assistance I can't afford to get out so I stuck spending most of my day in my room hiding, until they "Need a Man to fix something" or kill a spider (LOL)
Today, I saw a women in the self checkout ahead of me, he paper bag ripped and her groceries spilled everywhere, I used to naturally help, I didn't today and I didn't care.
That's just being an arsehole
Same bro. I have this thing where I have a habit of opening the door for anyone that’s walking next to or behind me. One day I was like, “why am I doing this? Why should I be a gentleman when there are no ladies”?
@@astromurray8447 it feels weird doesn't it?
and once you can't provide either thay will leave you. i just got divorced this year from a what i thought was a happy marriage. with that being said i suffered a spinal injury and can't work or do the do anymore and was made fun of relentlessly, i was made to feel less than human. and the sad thing is i still loved her unconditionally until the end.
Drafting women will be the greatest boost to the anti-war movement EVER!
I try to treat my wife as equally as I can but it's always in the back of my mind, "What was she doing while you were bleeding out on the streets of Baghdad? Visiting the zoo and then sleeping." But on the other side of that coin, I signed up to do that and she did her damned best to support me when I really needed it. Keep a balance in your relationships, not a tally, and you'll live better!
Live life generously and without expecting things in return. Don’t keep a tally.
The 2 best pieces of advice I ever got. If both partners are giving, both partners are getting.
Sounds like you’re doing well. Congrats. 👍
@@whatifschrodingersboxwasacofin nailed it! The "give for love not give hoping to get" and the "don't keep a tally" really resonated with me at the height of my PTSD. It's been 16 years since Iraq and I've gotten WAY better than I used to be. Thank you!
@@whatifschrodingersboxwasacofin just edited my original comment to better express what I was trying to say with your help. Thanks again!
This is so true. Honestly, I don't think there is anything wrong with guys going out to war, or putting in long hours to help their wives, as long as the women realize the sacrifices that their spouse is making, and are willing to sacrifice as well.
As an older USA guy with money I solved the "Modern Woman" problem by going to the other side of the planet. I've been with my Filipina for years now and life has never been better. Imagine if you will a world where a Woman thinks the welfare of her Man is actually important. Welcome to the world I live in.
So I’ve avoided dating since high school. For reference that’s about 15 years now. I’ve done this because of the many reasons Roma has addressed in her videos. So Roma, how do I pursue my wants, needs, and happiness while navigating this minefield of double standards and feminism?
You give them a chance and get to know them.. If the attraction is there and you enjoy each other's company you can worry about your fears then.
All you need to do is have personal boundaries and enforce them respectfully. She will hopefully have boundaries of her own that she enforces as well. Then off you go! It may work out.. it may not.. You aren't chained to them. If it's not what you need and want then leave her.
You may want to steer clear of the whole men vs women weirdness thats all over social media as well.. Your view of women as individuals is unrealistic and quite toxic.
Remember.. You are meant to like women and want a healthy relationship with one. Show interested in what she says and thinks and always be polite and respectful.
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I have no idea why a man would ever want to be with a woman who hates men and vice versa.. So don't be that defensive, scared guy who makes excuses.
Good luck.
Don't over think it.. Just get going with it 👍
@@mattyhollywood9016That is the most retarded, most ignorant bullshit I have read since Lynnie denied the possibility of a draft. The most clueless fuckwits just mosey on over to Roma's and start telling men what their problems are and what to do about them. Fuck off, asshole!
Go overseas ✈️
@@mattyhollywood9016 tbh i heard people now matter of the years they had with their girlfriend maybe 10 or more and they still get cheated on when getting married or end up with different person
The first thing you have to do is block any asshole who has "Hollywood" in his username.
There is no easy answer. These days you have to worry about every interaction you have with a woman. Anything that leads to marriage is definitely a dicey proposition. Yet, like you say, you have needs to meet. You need a relationship. At some point, you may feel you don't have a choice but to pursue one. All you can do then is take steps to mitigate risks.
I would prefer to date immigrants from Latin America, Asia, Africa or the Middle East. This is by no means sufficient: those places are chock full of shitty women, too. So please don't think it's a panacea. It's not. But it's a better start than white, American-born women. Those are pretty much categorically compromised and not to be trusted with anything remotely resembling a marriage contract. Black, Asian and Whasian American-born women aren't any better from what I can see. I mean, look at Chanel Miller: she's the very picture of affluent, mixed race entitlement and it is _ugly._ I have no opinion on Latin or Hispanic women.
Certainly look for a woman with a good relationship with her father, but not with a father who loves her too much, as many fathers do. Some fathers basically just want to fuck their own daughters; that's an extremely unhealthy dynamic for you to get caught up with. Look for one with a strong dad who gave her plenty of shit growing up. You don't want to be stuck trying to break in a wild horse when it's time to race.
On that note, make sure that if there's any trace of simp left inside you that you murder him in cold blood. Similarly, don't be Captain Save a Ho. I think that horse race analogy is a good one. Many men want a horse they can rescue because they're not confident they can ride one competitively, but a horse race is not a horse hospital. Seek a woman fit for marriage. That doesn't mean perfect-- far from it. It does mean not spoiled, immature, irresponsible, self- centered, clueless about men, oblivious to how the world works.
Definitely avoid a woman who has a significant presence on social media. You can't compete with that. An actual male 10, like a celebrity or CEO of a mega corp, wouldn't be able to compete with that. Those women are, as it were, already married to the best man in town: endless validation from total strangers.
This one can be tough up front but may reward you handsomely on the backside: don't factor in looks. At all. Ugly is a gold mine for quality. Nobody's looking there. You can find a great bargain in some ugly women (of course, some ugly women are also hideous people, so no panaceas here, either). However, there are a lot of sad women who've gotten passed over just because they're not the most attractive but who are still some of the best prospects for marriage a man can hope to find. That's faint praise, mind you.
Some women will use dramatic techniques to try to pressure you into compromising your boundaries. Dump them mercilessly. They don't give up and the trouble they'll cause you will never end. They mean to dominate you. I guess in the horse analogy that's your horse trying to ride _you._
Every day, listen to Roma, Pearl, and Paul Elam. Just a few minutes every day is plenty but stick to it. After a year of this, you'll be much better prepared to see through all this noxious, self-loathing and self- defeating programming we're subjected to day in an day out, and this means you'll be able more willing and able to protect _yourself._ Of course, don't stop listening to them after a year. You sound pretty red-pilled already but you'll need people like this to stay in your corner as you begin to try to navigate the sick sad world of dating.
There must be myriad little tells and pointers and guidelines but that's all I can think of right now, except this last thing:
Start preparing now, even before you've met anyone, to get divorced. Read up, get educated, learn as much as you can, maybe even have a few meetings with divorce lawyers to see if they have any tips for you.
Absolutely LOVE your content!!! Keep preaching TRUTH!!!!
So thankful for each video I have been able to watch,I truly appreciate seeing things in a different light,you don't just show vice versa,but a 360, respect, teaching me so much,that I will be passing on to mine 100 % thankful Hun Xxx, 😘
You are a very beautiful straight forward girl any man on this earth would be lucky to have a girl like you keep speaking the truth girl
“They fall on their backs, so that they can land on their feet……..
You did a great job on this video, thank you.
Thank you for this! You are so on point with your opinions and points of view.
feminist:im pro choice
woman:i dont want an abortion
feminist:not that choice
That doesn’t even make sense. You could have done a lot better than that lol.
it makes perfect sense. sorry you arent smart enough to understand.@@tylerk.7947
Ah yes, because feminists with children don't exist, right? 😒
@@tylerk.7947 makes perfect sense. unless your reading comprehension is low. feminists say PRO CHOICE...but if a woman says her choice is to not get an abortion. feminists say that's the wrong choice, because now she's PRO LIFE. so what part of that didn't you understand ??? lol
Nobody to get an abortion, m0ron.
I for one thank you for your activism for us. THANK YOU.
I believe that all people deserve to be treated fairly. Why is it so hard for these radical feminists to understand that we dont hate women. We dont think of them in these ways. Maybe some men do. And those men are bad. But the majority do actually care about womens issues and want to help. Rape, sexual harassment, feeling unsafe, misogyny, are all issues we want to get rid of. But men have issues too. And a true feminist should want to help it. We just want to live together in harmony. And i think with enough determination we will one day.
I don't hate women, I just don't care bout their issues... at least in the west where there are none. I care bout the one that do have issues
We need to stop thinking this is 1950. Back then women were worthy of good treatment. But now?!
@@martincoronado9232 Um... No lol. Women do deserve to be treated right? Thats not at all the point of any of this. We want fair treatment of MEN! not the bad treatment of women. A gender war solves nothing. Woman and Man have to work together and get along. And they both are deserving of love and respect.
@@Carterx_Gaming let me rephrase that. We need to stop thinking that this is 1950 because we are not dealing with the women of the 1950s. We are dealing with women of the 2020s. The women of today or not nicer although we were sold onto the fact that all women are nice and sweet, but they truly have been anything but that. I will truly say that I am not talking about having a war, because the idea of war is men being just as mean to women as women are mean to men. It just means men walk away, and say adios to it all.
@@martincoronado9232 But right there is the problem "we were sold on the idea that all women are sweet and nice". WOMEN ARE NOT A MONOLITH! THEY CAN MAKE THEIR OWN CHOICES AND MISTAKES! Some women are absolute assholes who are mean to men just cause they can, Some women are sweet and nice and to themselve, Some women are nice and genuine but dont take shit from people and know how to speak their minds, some women do this and some do that. So you can't judge half of the entire population, 4 billion people on this planet 170 million give or take in America. Its not fair to say "just give up on women because most of them suck" bc thats not true. If we can acknowledge that women are capable of making their own decisions and having their own personalities. Then we can acknowledge that some women are going to be insufferable, and some are going to be incredible people. You are right its not the 50s anymore. So don't treat women like its the 50s and don't treat men like it either. Times have changed and now we see that men and women are people with autonomy and they deserve respect. And if they are bad people you cut them out of your life and let them be miserable.
All great points and very very true.
Much love. ❤️🖤❤️
I’m not sure who she was but the blonde woman about half way through hit the nail on the head. Feminist do not have female best interest in mind anymore and it has become more of a control mechanism. That was a woman worth something, protect her at all costs.
Can't wait to see the next video I really enjoy the way you stand up for men's rights and can not thank you enough
I am really glad I found this channel. I been sending links of this vids to my son whom I finally got back from my second ex. I really hope these are helping him...
I can't wait for these interviews!!!
That one lady was sauced but speaking mad truth
Afternoon Chloe, think this is one of yohr best vids to date, hitting the nail on the head with the double standards and the reality is. Great discussion points thoughout the comments section, lookkng forward to you out@about vids too. Health@Happiness 2U
You speak truth keep up the good work. You help a whole bunch ❤❤❤
i am 32 and have lost hope of finding a woman or having kids.
somebody told you you were no good and you believed it! now go pick yourself up, face your difficulties and PRAY for strength wisdom and healing everywhere in your still very young life! you are about to totally accept God in your life so come back and tell everyone next year how well you've done!
@@gkauto1959 I have prayed to God my whole life. Been Praying(since I was young) to help me find a good woman and only two women have gone my way and both ended in extreme heart break. Been waiting 17 years for God to answer my prayers. Starting to loose hope
@@gkauto1959 and of course I pray for strength and all that other stuff.
@@gkauto1959 it's just funny. That's all anyone ever suggests to me is to pray. And it's frustrating because I have been praying for 17 years, since I was a kid and my number 1 most wanted prayer hasn't been answered. And that is a good women to start a family with
Where do you like to fish?
Thank you so much for all you do. 💓
its kind of sad, i used to be a hopeless romantic thinking my love life would be like a movie. it was the one thing in life i wanted to experience more than anything. unfortunately I don't think its meant to be, I've been a lonely by choice for the most part for the majority of my life and don't see that changing especially with women like this as my options.
this might be weird but if you guys would tell me some of your falling in love stories that would be nice, get a little closer to knowing what its like.
Ive been on and off dating online (or rather attempting too..) for like the past 10 years im 33 and its nigh impossible to get even the least amount of effort in an online conversation.. im very average in terms of looks and above average in terms of intelligence and the level of entitlement and insanity of women's standards is insane.. for the most part men want someone who looks decent (AKA not eating oneself into an early grave or requires larger hallways in buildings O.O!) and is nice.. thats about it.. meanwhile most men have to meet a laundry list of requirements to even earn that tiny amount of effort.. it certinally seems like most women (in online dating atleast) even unconciously believe themselves to be far above the average and for the average man to be far beneath them.. and lets be clear here im not messaging supermodels here xD!
stay away from online dating for sure broski
Great Points and video
One thing I have noted of people with a victim mentality these days is its usually just an excuse for them to awful people. This is especially true if they know they'll get away with it.
We need to bring back consequences for bad behavior. And maybe the code duello.
A great reason to avoid people with a victim mentality because they lack accountability and responsibility for their actions/inactions
It's LOOOOONG about time women begin to provide for men. I'm sick n tired of destroying my health for them.
The old adage is true “If it weren’t for double standards, women would have none”.
Thank you for all your help.
I love your videos, thank you!!!
I’m 32 been single, emotionally unavailable since like 19. Haven’t even kissed a women since then. Long story short the topanga to my Corey did some fuck shit and just fucked me up permanently. I was done with women on the spot and that rings true even all these years later. I find most women are gorgeous but a vast majority of them aren’t worth the trouble imo. Now I have an awesome women shooting her shot, I don’t even know what to do. It’s my friends sister. She’s pretty, she’s awesome, a lot like Roma coincidentally, one of the guys, I’ve enjoyed spending time with her for my whole life. We’ve known each other since we were like 13. The phrase if it ain’t broke don’t fix it comes to mind cause I don’t need a women. I’m probably autistic I’m just very content in being alone, I’m immune to loneliness me and the boys joke all the time. I can’t decide whether to let her down gently or try at a relationship with her. It’s not like Im Waiting for someone better. They’re not gonna come. She deserves a guy who is gonna treat her right , and I will. It’s sink or swim now and i don’t even know what I’m leaning towards. Just the two of us are hanging out tonight and idk if I’m leading her on. I wanna be in love with her , but how you do start that from the place where I am. I’m just taking day by day at the moment. I don’t claim lgbtq or anything but I’m as close as asexual as a humane can get.
Ace people can still be in relationships, you need someone who doesn't care, loves you for who you are and not based on jobs e.c.t. I partially relate as I know I'm demisexual and I just don't like dating, don't experience sexual attraction till I know someone a lot. When it's a relationship people often force themselves into things, e.g kissing more even if its not their love language. I would say learn hers before you walk off. It could be similar to yours, she might not see sex as an essential or kissing, she could see those as an essential, but you'll never know unless you ask, and then if it doesn't align with you, then that can allow you to let her down gently.
As it sounds like you maybe love her so if it doesn't align you can say
"Hey, I do care about you, but because I have different ways of showing love that do not align with what you personally need in a relationship, I can't do this, it wouldn't be right for me or for you."
Short, sweet and respectful
@@guineapig5858 thanks for the advice🙏
@@troyrussell177 I hope it goes well for you.
Shes not worth your time though if she lashes out or starts ghosting you for no reason.
Already had a bro have that happen, and I'm still trying to convince him she had no excuse to ghost him.
If its then tough to stay in touch she should tell you and not back chat.
Well stated, thank you.
EXCELLENT WORK. THANK YOU.
Thank you Roma! Your awesomeness is without limits. Thank you for standing up for us men and doing what you do. As a man, I appreciate what you're doing so much. Let me tell you, I got married to who I thought was an amazing woman, who I've known since the age of 16, I'm 34 now. We lived together for 5 years and in 2021 we got married. At the beginning of this year, she said she wants a divorce because she's not happy and I'm not making enough money even though I was working 2 jobs. WTF TO THAT. Do vows mean nothing? We stood there in front of 150 people at our wedding and promised each other for better or worse, sickness and health, FOR RICHER OR POORER... Anyway, thank you for pointing out the truth Roma. You're a beautiful soul, much love and appreciation from my side.
welp therein lies her problem. she's already hit the wall and doesn't know it. In a couple years she'll come crawling back after she gets tired of being traded from Chad and Tyrone. She'll be crying and appologetic to what a horrible mistake she made.
It's just crocodile tears designed to get you to capitulate, she still won't be happy and will still be searching. But settling for you, because your good and it's a secure life, even if it's not to her expectations.
Turn around and walk away at that point. See to your own happiness, and sanity.
@nadjasunflower1387 Amen to that🫶 I wish I can just find a good wholesome person to share this life with through all the hills and valley's, who can actually see past the materialism and see what's really important.
Thank you for being a voice of so much needed common sense which isn't common anymore at all, Keep it up , Love from the Netherlands
Thank you so much Roma, lots of love!
Love listening to you
And super stoked to see the bee vid I interviews.
I love you Chloe🖤 You're a HERO for guys like me. I've been single most of my life and all I've gotten from women is the friendzone or to be completely hated. I've been called every name in the book more than once just because one after another thought I wasn't good enough to be with.
Right on that's why I've been single for quite a while. My guitars have new strings on them though and I'm about ready to refurbish my bass guitar. I'm not opposed to being in another relationship but the last two relationships I was in cost me over a decade and a half of my life. Being subservient exactly like you're describing and I'm done. I've been single for around 5 years now and I have to say I'm the more happy than I have ever been. Not saying I won't ever date again. But exactly what you're describing is why I'm single.
I just woke up from a nap and it dreamt that you and me were having coffee and talking about yourfavoritemartian (youtuber) and politics
If I knew 60 (I am 74)years ago what I know now, I would be MGTOW. All my relationships were not based on her loving me, but what I could do for her.
Watched this on international mens day. I have found what may be a genuine, real woman and I'm going to make myself better with hope of us meeting 1/2 way. You helped get me here Cloe.
As a man who has spent his whole life single and alone, I can say i fall squarely into the "I don't give a damn" camp when it comes to what women think of me and my opinions. I have watched women that i would have given anything to date pick guys who complain every time they have to take their girl out on a date, forget her birthday, have to constantly be told to buy their girlfriend things like flowers and chocolates for special occasions and complain constantly how depressing their lives are even though they've got someone to share their life with. I know a guy that, after 8 freaking years of dating, never knows what to get his girl for Christmas. I know a very pretty young woman who's engaged to a man and is constantly complaining that she is having bill trouble. Why doesn't her fiance help out? Because he keep racking up three and four hundred dollar toll bills because he's too fat and lazy to drive in city traffic like everyone else.
If women want good men, then they need to stop looking at the guy who ignores them and could care less whether they are there or not and start looking at all those poor guys they keep around that they dumped into the Friend Zone and left there to rot. I guarantee you almost every woman who complains about her bad boyfriend or suffers from being ignored has that one male friend that has been hopelessly devoted to them since the day they met and they will NEVER give that man a chance.
That being the case, i find it hard to sympathize with their problems. Right now, if there was a sweet nice single girl who was my friend and she told me she had secretly been in love with me, I would be the happiest guy on the face of the darned planet. I cannot and refuse to have sympathy for someone who constantly makes the wrong choice. Most women of this generation are going to die single and alone? Good. About time they got a taste of what it feels like to be a man for once.
Thanks for these videos. It is really refreshing to see a female call out this behavior. Mutual respect is important. It should never be a one way street. The expectations some women have of men, without having anything to offer themselves, is baffling to me. But there are men out there who will jump right in and that doesn't do the rest of us any favors! It took me many years and some toxic relationships to learn what I actually needed in a woman.
One a side note, guys, self reflect a little too. Look at your past relationships, what about yourself needs some tuning? Maybe you have some anger issues or are a little selfish? Maybe you need to work on how you treat others or speak to them? Basically, we are all flawed, but you must be willing to look inward and strive to become a better version of yourself. Especially if you expect more out of the partner you seek. Put the energy out that you want to receive.
Lastly, and perhaps most importantly, do yourselves a favor and look past the surface when choosing a partner. You will be much happier in the long run if you do. There are plenty of fantastic women out there, you just need to pay attention!
Cheers
Excellent job
women hang out at the finish line and fuck the winners.
its not like we aren't aware that we're in the race to begin with, but we sure as hell aren't in a rush to finish when we're met with "why didn't you finish sooner??"
I didn’t know we were allowed to say these things. I’ve been muttering them under my breath for years. Chivalry died with womens’ rights (yay for womens’ rights!). They’re mutually exclusive concepts.
Careful what you wish for.
Absolutely true that keeping keeping on you rock😂
UA-cam must hate you because every notification I get for your channel says uploaded removed video.
keep rocking!
Thanks for what you do Roma.
Thank you
Well said.
One minor correction: the majority of women live in their own fishbowl; the majority of men live in their own shark tank.
one correction. we, men, live in ONE shark tank where we all compete. you are correct about women.
@@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp Well said
I CAN'T WAIT
Best video in awhile!
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 well said
I deal with this trash all the time in college.
One conversation I heard 2 peopel have, I will never forget.
Person 1 (a girl): I am really struggling today, because I'm in a bit of pain because I'm on my period
Person 2 (a transgender girl who used to be a man): I'm on my mental period.
Now there is so much that last sentence says about person 2:
I do not consider your pain
I will never feel your pain, but I want my mental issues to be on your level of pain.
I'm considering my feelings before yours
You rock the truth so hard!
Hearing modern woman boast their new found standards and expectations of men is like hearing a homeless person enter a restaurant a make demands about what should be on the menu.
i can't wait for it to come out
Mutual respect is the key. I think when you dismiss someone's feelings, based on their gender, you're on shaky ground.
Thank you Roma
One thing that I’ve noticed that makes omniscient. Women is hard, physical manual labor. Because how often do you see entitled women who work in a physically demanding job
You are a brutally honest and fiesty. I like that. I totally agree with your videos. Many men get a raw deal. Stay true to yourself and others. Long may you reign 🫶 Thank you.
Looking forward to seeing your street interviews
😂😂😂 the cross eye killed me. Lol
Tthththank you Chloe!!❤🎉😂😮❤😂🎉
That last woman was on the money. That guy was savage.
i love your mindset