A new life in France | Where did it all go wrong?

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  • Moving to France post Brexit, then you have to watch this!!!
    In this video, I answer our subscribers questions about the trials and tribulations of moving to France after Brexit. But despite all the woes, it has definitely been worth it.
    We left the UK to live in rural France in 2023.
    And we did so with the help of channel 4's tv show A Place in the Sun which is due to air sometime this year...kind of a catchy lyric isn't it? well watch to the end.
    We decided that we had had enough of living in England, the UK, sold everything, cashed in our pensions and moved with our two children to the Charente region of rural France.
    Well that was nine months ago and in that time we have dealt with some issues believe you me. Condemned electrics that we had to sort, a condemned log burner, a condemned chimney, a leaking roof, a none conforming boss tank, and trip to the A&E (Emergency room) when our puppy scratched our sons eye and he needed stitches.
    We have put our two children into the French school system, have started to renovate our house, we have finished the attic and almost finished the bathroom.
    This video begins at the very start, when we were in England. We explain about the post brexit visa process and much much more. Our channel has over 250 videos which pretty much documents everyday of our lives for the past 18 months. Our videos are educational, informative but most of all fun.
    Oh, and to put everything out there, I was medically retired from the Police due to being diagnosed to complex PTSD due to psychological trauma within the military and Policing. My videos also talk about mental health, anxiety, catastrophising and mens mental health in general. I had done a video on this too
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 69

  • @Anyone4music
    @Anyone4music 3 місяці тому +3

    You seem to have undergone a close shave van Gogh moment.

  • @JoepMeijer
    @JoepMeijer 3 місяці тому +1

    That wasn't a near miss. It was a near hit.
    You are lucky you missed it.

  • @stephennguyen3041
    @stephennguyen3041 3 місяці тому +2

    Roll Intro Rob and Lisa, Your French accent is very good. Have you thought of get a bicycle for Robbie to ride around the yard? Bugger all. laterzzz

    • @Escapetofrance-Charente
      @Escapetofrance-Charente  3 місяці тому

      Hi Stephen, thanks for the comment, it cost you bugger all lol
      Robbie has a bike but it’s been too wet for him to use. Hopefully the weather will pick up very soon and he can ride it
      Laterzzz

  • @midnightteapot5633
    @midnightteapot5633 3 місяці тому +1

    Passenger at Eastbourne station ,"Why are you speaking French?. Captain Mainwaring , "Because were British"!

  • @Jean-MarcBordeaux
    @Jean-MarcBordeaux 3 місяці тому +2

    Nice Video again shame about the footage , So many expats in the Dordogne. Youn look a day over 40 Rob woundt say you was 50, The French life is making you relax to much. The favourite chicken loves you hanging around at the weeding. Do you have your red and white card for the Dessertery . Another good French word is enfant méchant meaning naughty child. Merci

    • @Escapetofrance-Charente
      @Escapetofrance-Charente  3 місяці тому +1

      Hey Jean-Marc
      Thanks for the kind words mate. I think the hair and beard dye helps, but shhh dont tell anybody lol
      Don’t have a card for the dechetterie yet, we’ve been told we are getting them but it’s not yet in force
      Enfant merchant - love it
      Merci et a plus tard

    • @Jean-MarcBordeaux
      @Jean-MarcBordeaux 3 місяці тому +2

      @@Escapetofrance-Charente Thank you for the reply, you can get your red and white card now and apply for it by post, II got mine in 2 weeks, I have dropped you an email,

    • @Escapetofrance-Charente
      @Escapetofrance-Charente  3 місяці тому

      @@Jean-MarcBordeaux brilliant Jean-Marc. I’ve just replied 👍🇫🇷

  • @philiprowlands-e9p
    @philiprowlands-e9p 3 місяці тому +1

    Hey Rob. The weeding. Just paint it military, madness style, you know it makes sense (not)!😜 Now where have I heard that before. lol.
    Question: How much was the notaries fee for your property?
    Taff & Diane.

    • @Escapetofrance-Charente
      @Escapetofrance-Charente  3 місяці тому +1

      Hey Taff and Diane
      Yeah, I should just paint it……or a carefully placed L2 might do the trick lol
      Notaires charge a percentage of the sale price of the house. Notaires differ in charges but I think we paid 7%
      Hope that helps mate

  • @asg2833
    @asg2833 3 місяці тому +1

    What do you think about the political situation in France? Are you worried?

    • @Escapetofrance-Charente
      @Escapetofrance-Charente  3 місяці тому +2

      Nope, I’ve not watched the news since 2021….. see my video entitled PTSD and me. It’s just UA-cam and Netflix that we watch

  • @daseteam
    @daseteam 3 місяці тому +1

    Hi Rob. Tell us about the children´s bilingualism.

    • @Escapetofrance-Charente
      @Escapetofrance-Charente  3 місяці тому +1

      Will do. I’ll mention it on Fridays video. Thanks for the suggestion 🇫🇷👍

  • @loco4pack
    @loco4pack 3 місяці тому +1

    That is quite the interesting coincidence that you had to move to France to see that house and it would be so close to where you live now. Strange how things like that happen. How how I hate weeding, it is just a tedious job. You have to start somewhere when trying to charm someone. So getting a bit of a laugh from her is a good first step for sure. How long will Ben and his wife be staying? I will be exciting to have them visit I'm sure. Good video as always my friend. Laterz!

    • @Escapetofrance-Charente
      @Escapetofrance-Charente  3 місяці тому

      Hi Gary
      Massive coincidence about Dave’s house isn’t it. It was great to see it finally
      I’m still weeding and will do more today. It’s awful and I hate it
      Ben and Cath are over for 10 days I believe. We are all very excited about them coming over
      Have a great day buddy
      Laterzzz

  • @jamesclark1603
    @jamesclark1603 3 місяці тому +1

    Still here son. #OG click click

  • @cathmcadam8811
    @cathmcadam8811 3 місяці тому +2

    What happened to your ear?

    • @Escapetofrance-Charente
      @Escapetofrance-Charente  3 місяці тому

      The lawn mower lift fell down and smashed into my head. But thanks for asking lol

  • @Catherine-j7j
    @Catherine-j7j 3 місяці тому +1

    Hi Rob. Just going to your weed problem one of the other channels (not sure which) said to mix 1 part salt and 3 parts boiling water. Spray on the weeds and within a few days they die off. I have done it and they haven’t grown back in that area. The thing you must be careful of is not getting on your plants or in the veggie garden as I believe nothing will grow there again.

  • @marilynharper759
    @marilynharper759 3 місяці тому +1

    I missed the ear injury entirely..even went back through the video and still didn’t see it!! Age and poor eyesight! But….show me weeds in a manicured area and I’m on it! That’s how my driveway looks even after new stone down. Weeds and grass where they shouldn’t be! I’m begging my husband for a bulldozer to come in and dig the darn things out! Another great video Rob! Laterzzz

  • @CathyGreen-i1b
    @CathyGreen-i1b 3 місяці тому +1

    Hi Rob, the shovel weeding method has brought a lot of soil to the surface. 😢 Great for little weed seeds to germinate. 😢 Google the vinegar weedkiller recipe. That might slow them down for a while. 😊

  • @Alaskalad
    @Alaskalad 3 місяці тому +1

    Does your family still own the house your father had?

    • @Escapetofrance-Charente
      @Escapetofrance-Charente  3 місяці тому +2

      No John. Why do you ask?

    • @Alaskalad
      @Alaskalad 3 місяці тому +1

      @@Escapetofrance-Charente Thought it could be a project for you

    • @ajinfrance
      @ajinfrance 3 місяці тому +2

      @@Alaskalad it's not his dads house its a friends house. 👍👍

    • @Alaskalad
      @Alaskalad 3 місяці тому +1

      @@ajinfrance Assumed when he said his late dad owned, that it came back into the family, sorry my fault

    • @Escapetofrance-Charente
      @Escapetofrance-Charente  3 місяці тому +2

      Mates Dad John, not late Dad. Must be my accent lol

  • @elizabethcazan4049
    @elizabethcazan4049 3 місяці тому +1

    Yes industrial strength vinegar and adding salt is optional. Works every time!! Get yourself a pump sprayer with a wand and zap them all!
    I loved watching the little dinosaur stay right with you doing its part as you turned over the weeds!! Seems u have a 3rd best mate?!!
    Big hugs to you all 🤗
    Elizabeth in Arizona

    • @Escapetofrance-Charente
      @Escapetofrance-Charente  3 місяці тому

      Hey Elizabeth
      We do actually have some industrial white vinegar. Once all the weeds are up…… and then coming back I’ll give that a go
      Who’d have thought that my 3rd best mate would have been a mini 🦖
      Laterzzz

  • @ajinfrance
    @ajinfrance 3 місяці тому +1

    Go on then, what happened to your ear?
    After the Marie, the commendant of the Decheterie is the one you need to keep on side. If you have any contraband then I suggest you wait for some drama or a newbie turn up down the other end of the dump, when they run over launch your contraband into the Tout venant or similar.
    Shame you didnt get any more useable footage of the house, looks amazing.
    Laterz
    AJ

    • @Escapetofrance-Charente
      @Escapetofrance-Charente  3 місяці тому

      Thanks Andy, the autoportee leve handle fell and smacked the left side of my ear. My fault as it wasn’t secure. Didn’t flinch, didn’t swear Incase I was being watched
      Great advice about the decheterie
      Gutted about the lost footage 🇫🇷👍

  • @cathmcadam8811
    @cathmcadam8811 3 місяці тому +2

    I love the way the chicken is helping

  • @darrenwardle8828
    @darrenwardle8828 3 місяці тому +1

    Another very funny and enjoyable episode as always Rob. The déchetterie lady might be warming to u a bit now mate 😉 now ur french is almost fluent. Thanks again for keeping us entertained, keep up the good work, laterzzzzz 👍

    • @Escapetofrance-Charente
      @Escapetofrance-Charente  3 місяці тому +1

      Thanks Darren
      Picture grot bags and you’ll know what I mean
      My French is far from fluent mate but I’m trying really hard
      Thanks for the comment and for watching
      Laterzzz

  • @christinaplaisted9563
    @christinaplaisted9563 3 місяці тому +1

    Evening ive missed one will check it out later had what i would call first day of summer no rain , and spent the day at Avebury stone circle , I loved the way the lone chicken was checking out what you were doing , picking or pecking out bugs and odd worm i guess ,so your picking up the french , I think part of learning the language is having the confidence to try it out , and hope you dont sound silly thats what i worry about 😊,wow your friends dads house was really out in the middle of nowhere ❤❤

    • @Escapetofrance-Charente
      @Escapetofrance-Charente  3 місяці тому

      Hey Christina
      Summer is deffo on its way. The forecast for next week looks amazing here
      My French is getting better and what goes in my favour is that I don’t mind looking silly. It makes people laugh and acts as an ice breaker
      Yeah Dave’s house is way off the beaten track for sure. Nearly lost the car there forever lol
      Laterzzz

  • @alberthameijer9037
    @alberthameijer9037 3 місяці тому +1

    boiling water destroys the weed and also the roots of it........

    • @Escapetofrance-Charente
      @Escapetofrance-Charente  3 місяці тому

      I've tried that too Albertha. Its makes them worse. This is just grass that's growing lol

  • @thomasinaegan2227
    @thomasinaegan2227 3 місяці тому +1

    Leave a comment 😂 you know I love a comment
    Whey hey hey 🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @marklippitt8224
    @marklippitt8224 3 місяці тому

    Good morning Robbie and Lisa,
    Hope you and the kids are keeping well.
    I wont make ya repeat yourself by asking about your ear as i know what happened from the comments, Bloody hell what you like, that could've been nasty, but definitely sounds like something that would happen to me😂 glad youre ok though!
    That house is just a dream, i would love to live there, would feel like there was just me in the world, absolute heaven ♥️
    Shame about the footage mate but youve still put together a brilliant video so dont beat yourself up about it. Give yourself the credit you deserve 😊
    Those weeds would drive me absolutely insane, but i have seen on another channel called chateau life, hes got gravel and he uses a natural weed killer which seems to work really well, sorry I don't know what it consists of😂 if it was something you and Lisa was interested in👍
    Sounds like youve won the lady over at the tip 😂 that would set my anxiety soaring if i had to do it, just cant be doinf witth difficult people 🤦
    Thank you for making my day
    Have a great day see you tomorrow
    Take care ❤

    • @Escapetofrance-Charente
      @Escapetofrance-Charente  3 місяці тому +1

      Awww mate it bloody hurt but because I was in public I didn’t want to let anyone know I was in absolute agony.
      It’ll never happen again believe me lol
      So pleased that me and grot bags are Bezzies now lol
      Yeah it’s lovely to live here. We are so blessed and we always count our lucky stars every day.
      Thanks for you lovely kind words as always mate.
      Have a great day
      Robbie and Lisa

    • @marklippitt8224
      @marklippitt8224 3 місяці тому +1

      Sorry mate I wrote a reply and never hit send 😂
      That's awful, but well done for composing yourself lol But please be careful that sounds like it really could've been serious, We can't be having anything happen to you, I'd be lost without your videos 🤦😂
      Grot bags 🤣🤣 you crack me up,! I used to watch that as a kid 😂
      Hope you've all had a great day 😊
      Laterzzzzz

    • @Escapetofrance-Charente
      @Escapetofrance-Charente  3 місяці тому +1

      @@marklippitt8224 Thanks mate, I’ll be very careful don’t worry
      I do that all the time, write a reply and forget to press send lol
      Have a great day
      Rob

  • @johnhanson5565
    @johnhanson5565 3 місяці тому +1

    Well in there with the Charm Offensive.

  • @JackieStevens-c1x
    @JackieStevens-c1x 3 місяці тому +1

    I'm right impressed at your French translations😁 so - what's happened to your ear😀

    • @Escapetofrance-Charente
      @Escapetofrance-Charente  3 місяці тому

      Hi Jackie
      Thank you, I try really hard with my French
      My ear? I was jacking up the lawn mower (didn’t film it) it slipped and fell onto my ear. It was bloody painful and thanks for asking lol

    • @JackieStevens-c1x
      @JackieStevens-c1x 3 місяці тому +1

      Omg that could have been really nasty, be careful next time😂

    • @Escapetofrance-Charente
      @Escapetofrance-Charente  3 місяці тому

      @@JackieStevens-c1x I will do for sure thanks

  • @dianesmith5254
    @dianesmith5254 3 місяці тому +1

    Vinegar, kills weeds., or diluted bleach.👍

    • @Escapetofrance-Charente
      @Escapetofrance-Charente  3 місяці тому

      It doesn't Diane. I've tried it many times. It makes them worse lol

    • @dianesmith5254
      @dianesmith5254 3 місяці тому +1

      @@Escapetofrance-Charente you must have very fertile gravel /soil 🤪

    • @Escapetofrance-Charente
      @Escapetofrance-Charente  3 місяці тому +1

      @@dianesmith5254 Couldn’t agree with you more. I don’t think the rain helps as it dilutes the solution very quickly
      Have a good day and thanks for the comment 👍🇫🇷

  • @miriammuskal5402
    @miriammuskal5402 3 місяці тому +1

    Beautiful property

  • @Anyone4music
    @Anyone4music 3 місяці тому +1

    Picnic Chicken !

  • @kathyeyesopen4078
    @kathyeyesopen4078 3 місяці тому +1

    Hi Rob. We have a driveway with white stones. My husband mixes a solution 4 parts white vinegar to 1part water, 1 ounce dish soap. They will turn brown and easy to pull out. To be honest tho, we’ve given up on getting rid of weeds, too time consuming 😅. Shame about the lost footage. Hope you can do it again sometime. Be well❤❤❤

    • @Escapetofrance-Charente
      @Escapetofrance-Charente  3 місяці тому +1

      Thanks Kathy, yeah gutted about the footage, but if that’s I’ve got to worry about in life then I’m doing ok 👍
      The weeds, or should I say grass is relentless. I hate doing it
      Take care
      Laterzzz
      👍🇫🇷

  • @CynthiaEvans-i2f
    @CynthiaEvans-i2f 3 місяці тому +1