Let's be real, we not in Disneyland here. He/she broke up to be with some other person. Tried this in my 20s and all the time the "pause" or "need to find myself" was the code for " I want you as a backup option in case Chad/Tyrone pumps and dumps me". NEVER take an ex back, have self respect.
Taking back your ex is like heating up left over McDonald's 🍟 there's a reason why their your ex move forward with your life, there's better people out there 👍 SCG and thrivers 🙏🦋
I have been journaling, reflecting on the red flags, and talking to friends and family. It is crazy how they all tell me the same: stay the fuck away from that person. This guy put me in lies, manipulation, and betrayal. For a moment I thought my self-esteem was done. When I read UA-cam comments and hear other people’s experience, I feel grateful that this happened. I realize I can start again and make smarter decisions with who I invite into my life. Yes it’s hard, but I really do want better for myself. And I will do better for myself.
I listened to this a year ago almost to the day and I unfortunately went back after I walked away and gave things another chance. Well.....she ended it on new years eve! Never ever go back guys it's SCG is bang on with his advice
Better the devil you know ! SCG you have such a downer on getting back together! You never know how things will turn out with an ex or a new person. It's 50/50 but every situation is different, you could end up with someone much worse. I don't agree with never take an ex back, it depends on the situation. It's to much of a blanket statement (never take an ex back ) I was with my wife for 23 years and never ever thought we would split up. Who knows how long you will be together!
I've been giving my ex chances after chances when he cheated. Now he has left again,. It's been 7 months and he is trying to reconnect with me. Then a couple days ago I found out he has a secret fb account where he's adding random women to chat. I don't know why I still can't let go. I'm so emotionally attached . It hurts so much
Some dating coaches say that girls pool away to test you or breaking up is like an restart to relationship bcs you might became weak and needy. In that case is a bad idea get back together?
I think you're absolutely right telling that. No one is perfect in life. We all makes mistakes in one way or the other. From that situations we learn to make amends and corrections. We must feel for one another.period.
If it's a test, then possibly take them back if they only pull away a few days. Mine pulled away for 4 months and by that time I felt too resentful to let her back in.
Totally disagree - there are an infinite number of reasons why people split up - sometimes its nothing to do with the couple - therefore to say ‘never’ assumes that you know everything and always know the correct answer in such situations when fundamentally that’s impossible. A truly daft thing to say and lacking in emotional maturity.
Infinite reasons? What was the end result? Breaking up to be "better"? If that's the case you don't need that person anymore. Whatever the reason all the problems should be discussed/resolved within the relationship. If she/he goes to "resolve" the issues with other persons it means it doesn't deserve you. Point blank. No second try, discuss this at the beginning of the relationship so it won't be any "discussions" or regrets afterwards.
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Can you do a video on avoidant attachment style?
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1) Never be the same
2) You are settling
3) Rarely ends well
Let's be real, we not in Disneyland here. He/she broke up to be with some other person. Tried this in my 20s and all the time the "pause" or "need to find myself" was the code for " I want you as a backup option in case Chad/Tyrone pumps and dumps me". NEVER take an ex back, have self respect.
Well said
Another common excuse.... I need some space
"It's not you, it's me" excuse is also trendy.
Well said.
Totally agree,move on and never look back.
Taking back your ex is like heating up left over McDonald's 🍟 there's a reason why their your ex move forward with your life, there's better people out there 👍 SCG and thrivers 🙏🦋
and u know the funniest thing of all?
almost all modern vvamxn are mcdonald´s at best.
They get worst to worst if you take them back!
Yes it is true if it was meant to be it would had been..
I have been journaling, reflecting on the red flags, and talking to friends and family. It is crazy how they all tell me the same: stay the fuck away from that person. This guy put me in lies, manipulation, and betrayal.
For a moment I thought my self-esteem was done. When I read UA-cam comments and hear other people’s experience, I feel grateful that this happened. I realize I can start again and make smarter decisions with who I invite into my life. Yes it’s hard, but I really do want better for myself. And I will do better for myself.
You deserve better too 💯 keep working on that self-awareness
@@SCGSHOW thank you for always responding to your audience 😊
@@Starmajor391 💯💯
I listened to this a year ago almost to the day and I unfortunately went back after I walked away and gave things another chance. Well.....she ended it on new years eve! Never ever go back guys it's SCG is bang on with his advice
Brother, I warned you. But listen new year, new start. Stay strong
I'm really sorry, ugh. Currently trying to let go of my ex gf and feeling like I won't find better. 4 months out from the breakup
Better the devil you know !
SCG you have such a downer on getting back together!
You never know how things will turn out with an ex or a new person.
It's 50/50 but every situation is different, you could end up with someone much worse.
I don't agree with never take an ex back, it depends on the situation.
It's to much of a blanket statement (never take an ex back )
I was with my wife for 23 years and never ever thought we would split up.
Who knows how long you will be together!
Never take your ex back depends on how your relationship is. If it's a toxic relationship! Never take them back!
Absolutely correct,
I love your videos. You've helped me a lot.
Why does it have to be one way or the other?
Some people take them back, some don’t.
Just my opinion brother
Can you do a video about an avoidant attachment style ?
I've been giving my ex chances after chances when he cheated. Now he has left again,. It's been 7 months and he is trying to reconnect with me. Then a couple days ago I found out he has a secret fb account where he's adding random women to chat. I don't know why I still can't let go. I'm so emotionally attached . It hurts so much
You are so close to a breakthrough
Why take poop back,,🤐
@Peter Rock let him try restoring your senses too 😌
Some dating coaches say that girls pool away to test you or breaking up is like an restart to relationship bcs you might became weak and needy. In that case is a bad idea get back together?
Never go back
If they’re shit-testing you then leave them!
I think you're absolutely right telling that. No one is perfect in life. We all makes mistakes in one way or the other. From that situations we learn to make amends and corrections. We must feel for one another.period.
If it's a test, then possibly take them back if they only pull away a few days. Mine pulled away for 4 months and by that time I felt too resentful to let her back in.
Good informative videos, but the pushing of the DEI is a bit much.
Cheers brother
Great video mate, not so sure about recommending “psychics” though!
Thanks for Watching 👏
im keen as to take my ex back cause lonely and live alone
I'd much rather live alone than with someone who disrespected me.
Amen
Totally disagree - there are an infinite number of reasons why people split up - sometimes its nothing to do with the couple - therefore to say ‘never’ assumes that you know everything and always know the correct answer in such situations when fundamentally that’s impossible. A truly daft thing to say and lacking in emotional maturity.
Infinite reasons? What was the end result? Breaking up to be "better"? If that's the case you don't need that person anymore. Whatever the reason all the problems should be discussed/resolved within the relationship. If she/he goes to "resolve" the issues with other persons it means it doesn't deserve you. Point blank. No second try, discuss this at the beginning of the relationship so it won't be any "discussions" or regrets afterwards.