When I was in that red pill nonsense… Hearing the whole high value man thing kinda did some damage to me. I wasted my 20s, and didn’t really start living until I was in my 30s now. I hang around folks that simply have fun. Folks I met through my best friend. It baffled me because of how simply it all was. I felt that because of all the things I’ve said and believed in all those years, I didn’t deserve any of this. I don’t have to conform to society, I forgot about that. I never did. That’s why I label myself as a “punk”. I was lost. As long as I believe in God and Christ as my savior, so what about what everyone else thinks.
Some “Friends” want to see you play in traffic just so they can talk about it. Getting pregnant as a single person by accident is different than planning a catastrophe. She needs better friends and a role model.
I appreciate your respectful and kind tone toward this woman. Your tone in general is always just wanting to see people win in Christ, and not just blaming for the fun of it. Thanks for that. It's a welcome respite from hateful finger pointers.
I just want to include that if you ‘heal’ your trauma, you’re not going to hang around them. You will see their trauma as bondage. You will try to help them at first, but after a while you’ll give it to God. Also, the toxic people don’t typically leave. They usually stay and make you a target. So be careful.
Its important to surround yourself with people that REALLY want to help you grow. Too many podcasters are inexperience, insecure, and just want attention . I've stop listening to a lot of these podcast. The Shumake Way , Tony Gaskin , and many other inspiring as well as educational podcasts I've began to listen to now.
We don’t - trauma is very complex and when people are repeatedly traumatized they become desensitized to red flags and TRULY believe it’s just normal stuff. Not making excuses but a lot of people are just fools of their trauma. That’s it that’s all
What people call red flags aren’t red flags. Some people are mean spirited and just mean. It’s not a red flag it’s who they are. Everyine isn’t nice or wants to be
every time I feel like im ready to mingle... here goes the awful people trying me, and I go back in hiding. .. and that could last for years before I get back to mingling
He speaking truth again life is not based on what kind of car you drive or job you have that's what wrong with the people in the world they need to stop being so materialistic it's not all about if able to live that kinda life style good for you and I learned that you can't please everybody if anything you need to make yourself happy and please yourself especially if that person can't please you or make you happy
Your daughters have a great teacher in you. That is so important coming from someone that didnt get the teachings of my father due to my mothers hate for him. I learned alot the hard way, until he gave me guidance later as an adult. Its a beautiful thing to know some girls have a great father to speak wisdom to them as they grow. Blessings, Shumake 🙏
Powerful & much needed message! The devil had front row access to God and he knows that God is good and all powerful. So much so that he wanted to be just like God. That’s why he doesn’t want anyone to follow and to surrender their lives to God. I can tell you this: God, Jesus & The Holy Spirit transformed my entire life! I am so very thankful for Jesus’ healing power! Give your life to God and I promise you through God’s promises that you will never be the same again!
People like her can't be trusted! If they're willing to be deceitful towards their OWN children and any man willing to take care of her family, they will screw you over the first opportunity they get. These creatures are selfish and don't care who they hurt, including their children! I hear people say things like, well, her life is messy, but she's a good person. Who do you think created the mess? How many times can you blame a baby daddy, and why do you continue to have more children. She showed you who she is. There are decent people who like to help others, but be careful not to get yourself in a mess.The females in this video were so proud to come up with an evil plan. That's not right! You will reap what you sow!
If they give their life to Christ. They will not be problem free but God will not allow the devil to abuse , wipe them up like a mop all over the floor . God will be their protection and their help. They have to see Jesus in us. They need to see a difference in the MOG or WOG.
I’m seeing the clips of the prior video of the woman talking to the baby daddy and the friends - how RATCHET! Y u c k! I thank the Lord my father was an overall good man and my mother conservative in certain ways. Otherwise I could have strayed faaaar down a ho ho ho path. Oh Lord !
I haven’t ever heard a guy told me a baby isn’t his because I never got pregnant after my son, I didn’t play them games I was not having more children until I was going to marry or not at all. My children are 12 years apart and I am now married with a 15 and 3 y old. I knew back then most then men were fun but not husband material.
@@doll.ov.poetrii4682 that's Cognitive bias. How do you know? Have you counted/ weighted someone else's red flags compared to yours? We enjoy pointing fingers because we don't reflect. You might find you're the actual problem on reflection.
@@namendalancome5947It’s not about pointing fingers, it’s about choosing what’s right for oneself. I agree that we all have a red flag and baggage but that doesn’t mean that we allow ourselves to accept the worst ones. It’s about self worth
She is going to be abused by a lot of these young guys who are not ready to be fathers to care for a child will make him angry and violent to be forced to take responsibility.
That's what I thought She's 19; where are her parents? She should be in college having the time of her life, preparing for a bright future. I'm 35 and I haven't had my 1st child yet
This is why you don't have sex before marriage. As men we are sex addicts and could put up with a lot of nonsense for it. So you need to ask for yourself if this is a woman you would put up with if there was no sex in the picture. And women need to ask themselves if this guy would stick around if there was no sex . But nope they'll use it as a method of control
If you are a sex addict (women can be that too) you need to seriously get help if you want to be in a serious monogamous relationship. That will only cause havoc in your life and that’s not normal. Even if you don’t want to be in a relationship, sexual immorality leads to a whole bunch for both parties as we see
Men and women are equal before God. If you are refering to Biblical roles for men and women within marriage, both are still equal but are given different responsibilities. Men are called by God to love and protect and fend for their wives and kids women are called to submit to their husbands, nurture their children and build their homes with love and grace. Both have to fear God almighty and fulfill their juties for HIS Glory.
@@Moratuoa12 Ephesians 5:23 says "For a husband has authority over his wife just as Christ has authority over the church; and Christ is himself the Savior of the church, his body." Husbands and wives are equal in value to TMH but they aren't equal in marriage. A husband has loving dominion over his wife and he's the head of the relationship; that's what scripture says. A husband and wife under the kingdom of TMH are not PARTNERS, they indeed are not equal in marriage since the fall of man in Genesis that was caused by Eve.
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“Don’t gain the world and lose your soul. Wisdom (morals) is better than silver and gold”.
Hallelujah and Amen!
But is it though ❓
😂🙃😘
“Get a new man and tell ‘em it’s his” 😳💀🤣 Lord this is not funny. The level of toxicity and irresponsibility is at an all time high
Unfortunately it's been going on for eons. That's why DNA testing needs to be mandatory
And prolly the first ninja knew she was on some BS why he rejected the pregnancy.
@@GNIKOFFICIAL1 oops I thought it was two different girls but he mentions that she had an abortion
When I was in that red pill nonsense…
Hearing the whole high value man thing kinda did some damage to me. I wasted my 20s, and didn’t really start living until I was in my 30s now.
I hang around folks that simply have fun. Folks I met through my best friend. It baffled me because of how simply it all was. I felt that because of all the things I’ve said and believed in all those years, I didn’t deserve any of this.
I don’t have to conform to society, I forgot about that. I never did. That’s why I label myself as a “punk”.
I was lost. As long as I believe in God and Christ as my savior, so what about what everyone else thinks.
I'm glad you got away from that rhetoric, brother. We all have value in Christ ❤🙏🏽
I really appreciate that you have grown from this. I wish you the best
Glory to God young man. God bless you stay encouraged. Stay on the God path.
Some “Friends” want to see you play in traffic just so they can talk about it. Getting pregnant as a single person by accident is different than planning a catastrophe. She needs better friends and a role model.
I appreciate your respectful and kind tone toward this woman. Your tone in general is always just wanting to see people win in Christ, and not just blaming for the fun of it. Thanks for that. It's a welcome respite from hateful finger pointers.
I just want to include that if you ‘heal’ your trauma, you’re not going to hang around them. You will see their trauma as bondage. You will try to help them at first, but after a while you’ll give it to God. Also, the toxic people don’t typically leave. They usually stay and make you a target. So be careful.
Well said!
Man I respect u . I started bible study because of u .thank u 😊
As long as I got Jesus my rock, I dont need no one else. 💯
Its important to surround yourself with people that REALLY want to help you grow. Too many podcasters are inexperience, insecure, and just want attention . I've stop listening to a lot of these podcast. The Shumake Way , Tony Gaskin , and many other inspiring as well as educational podcasts I've began to listen to now.
Stop ignoring red flags , sometimes we can sign yourself up to be hurt.
We don’t - trauma is very complex and when people are repeatedly traumatized they become desensitized to red flags and TRULY believe it’s just normal stuff. Not making excuses but a lot of people are just fools of their trauma. That’s it that’s all
Ever thought that maybe she's the flag
Men and women ignore red flags.
Man you're English is terrible 😅
What people call red flags aren’t red flags. Some people are mean spirited and just mean. It’s not a red flag it’s who they are. Everyine isn’t nice or wants to be
every time I feel like im ready to mingle... here goes the awful people trying me, and I go back in hiding. .. and that could last for years before I get back to mingling
You get out and mingle!!!!! 🎉🎉🎉NO EXCUSES
You get out and mingle!!!!! 🎉🎉🎉NO EXCUSES
@@ckantrel1977 no doubt no doubt, but it definitely does make a person not want to try anymore... ooo maybe I should move! I'll look into that!
I'm 6am fasting, ends at 6pm. ❤
He speaking truth again life is not based on what kind of car you drive or job you have that's what wrong with the people in the world they need to stop being so materialistic it's not all about if able to live that kinda life style good for you and I learned that you can't please everybody if anything you need to make yourself happy and please yourself especially if that person can't please you or make you happy
And you got to remember beauty is beyond skin deep
Your daughters have a great teacher in you. That is so important coming from someone that didnt get the teachings of my father due to my mothers hate for him. I learned alot the hard way, until he gave me guidance later as an adult. Its a beautiful thing to know some girls have a great father to speak wisdom to them as they grow.
Blessings, Shumake 🙏
Now you have it too 🎉🎉❤
I'm gracefully broken, but I have the Lord to mold me and heal 💪🏾 My wounds 😭❤ 🙌🏾🤲🏾🤗
Faith without,,,,though beautifully written
Powerful & much needed message! The devil had front row access to God and he knows that God is good and all powerful. So much so that he wanted to be just like God. That’s why he doesn’t want anyone to follow and to surrender their lives to God. I can tell you this:
God, Jesus & The Holy Spirit transformed my entire life! I am so very thankful for Jesus’ healing power! Give your life to God and I promise you through God’s promises that you will never be the same again!
Do not trick another guy to believe he is the father. Those type of games are not to played with.
This video should have way more likes! He speaking facts 💯
Thats dem young girls who do stuff like that
1 cor. 15:33❤ bad company, corrupts good morals.
People like her can't be trusted! If they're willing to be deceitful towards their OWN children and any man willing to take care of her family, they will screw you over the first opportunity they get. These creatures are selfish and don't care who they hurt, including their children!
I hear people say things like, well, her life is messy, but she's a good person. Who do you think created the mess? How many times can you blame a baby daddy, and why do you continue to have more children. She showed you who she is. There are decent people who like to help others, but be careful not to get yourself in a mess.The females in this video were so proud to come up with an evil plan. That's not right! You will reap what you sow!
Crying listening to you preach thank you 🙏🏽
Thank you for sharing this!!! ❤❤❤ Amen
Excellent truly appreciate your perspective and the Bible verses to confirm what your sharing. I pray God continues to use you, such a blessing.
BIG AMEN!
This video serves as a reminder to have the relationship with God. Once I was reminded I felt better.
❤Psalms 18:17-19 thanks for sharing!
Amen
Peace ✌🏾🕊️ and blessings 💞
Thank you 🙏🏾 I needed this soooo badly. I received the message
You hit the 🔨 on the head!! You know exactly what’s going on…..💯💯💯 🗣️ 🗣️🗣️🗣️.
You are so awesome
so true i love your channel and words of wisdom
Love your videos as always Shumake!
That 11th to 12th minute 🤯😮💨
Good video.
If they give their life to Christ. They will not be problem free but God will not allow the devil to abuse , wipe them up like a mop all over the floor . God will be their protection and their help. They have to see Jesus in us. They need to see a difference in the MOG or WOG.
Thank you for this video it brought me
to tears
You're mad because you had a blessing with a curse. That was a BAR!!
Exactly
Yup 💯
I’m seeing the clips of the prior video of the woman talking to the baby daddy and the friends - how RATCHET! Y u c k! I thank the Lord my father was an overall good man and my mother conservative in certain ways. Otherwise I could have strayed faaaar down a ho ho ho path. Oh Lord !
Thank You!!!
🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼. Turn to God.
I'm not a Christian but I think you're spot on. Spirit is the only answer.
I needed this 🥺
Amen 🙏🏿 The word > anything else.
I haven’t ever heard a guy told me a baby isn’t his because I never got pregnant after my son, I didn’t play them games I was not having more children until I was going to marry or not at all. My children are 12 years apart and I am now married with a 15 and 3 y old. I knew back then most then men were fun but not husband material.
Spiritual cleansing ❤ and restoration 🙌🏾🤲🏾
Shumake, you’re my favorite online cousin.
Brother,
You are much appreciated. Most High God bless you and your family in Yehoshua’s name.
This was clean, clear, and made me think about the twisted road of life I walked to get here.
Everyone has red flags! Nobody is perfect!
Some absolutely have WAY more than others though...
@@doll.ov.poetrii4682 that's Cognitive bias. How do you know? Have you counted/ weighted someone else's red flags compared to yours? We enjoy pointing fingers because we don't reflect. You might find you're the actual problem on reflection.
@@namendalancome5947It’s not about pointing fingers, it’s about choosing what’s right for oneself. I agree that we all have a red flag and baggage but that doesn’t mean that we allow ourselves to accept the worst ones. It’s about self worth
She is going to be abused by a lot of these young guys who are not ready to be fathers to care for a child will make him angry and violent to be forced to take responsibility.
Where are the mom's or dads? For these young girls? Are there any real good role models out here anymore? Its pathetic
That's what I thought She's 19; where are her parents? She should be in college having the time of her life, preparing for a bright future. I'm 35 and I haven't had my 1st child yet
💯💯💯
The Preferences Why do I want sing Pink’s Stupid Girls?
Powerful message!
@10:05 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
8:35 Yo, why is you reading me?💀
This is why you don't have sex before marriage.
As men we are sex addicts and could put up with a lot of nonsense for it. So you need to ask for yourself if this is a woman you would put up with if there was no sex in the picture. And women need to ask themselves if this guy would stick around if there was no sex . But nope they'll use it as a method of control
If you are a sex addict (women can be that too) you need to seriously get help if you want to be in a serious monogamous relationship. That will only cause havoc in your life and that’s not normal. Even if you don’t want to be in a relationship, sexual immorality leads to a whole bunch for both parties as we see
@@kaylabean3693 not real sex addict in a clinical term, but the fact most men will stick it in anything that even entertains their advances lol
I feel like this is staged for clout coz🤷🏾♀️
How do you feel about the bible positioning women as beneath men?
Men and women are equal before God. If you are refering to Biblical roles for men and women within marriage, both are still equal but are given different responsibilities. Men are called by God to love and protect and fend for their wives and kids women are called to submit to their husbands, nurture their children and build their homes with love and grace. Both have to fear God almighty and fulfill their juties for HIS Glory.
@@Moratuoa12 Ephesians 5:23 says "For a husband has authority over his wife just as Christ has authority over the church; and Christ is himself the Savior of the church, his body." Husbands and wives are equal in value to TMH but they aren't equal in marriage. A husband has loving dominion over his wife and he's the head of the relationship; that's what scripture says. A husband and wife under the kingdom of TMH are not PARTNERS, they indeed are not equal in marriage since the fall of man in Genesis that was caused by Eve.
U shouldn't be looking at it from that prospective it's just that men are supposed to be leaders
This young lady had little guidance from her parents, she will select men and friends that feel familiar. 😩
He sounds like poverty 😢😢
Please specify it’s the black community. It’s sad what we do to each other. Call it out
Wt girls do the same.
Why? It's been called out repeatedly.
We allllll know BP are the only ones who have Wi-Fi, & bad parents that breed awful adults. 😊
@@endersoncassio6014and in India 🫣Pretty much anyone this is not just a one race thing
This chick…