Why people only guilt trip & manipulate women? how to respond - unpopular opinions pt 1

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  • Опубліковано 30 вер 2024

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  • @ShwetaVijay
    @ShwetaVijay  Рік тому +12

    A few weeks ago I did an ask me anything q&a on Instagram and many questions were sent on why I work and travel despite having a toddler. I feel guilt trip is strapped on most women and it’s unfair. So I decided to share unpopular opinions here on my channel and address them. Pls leave your questions for my next q and a ( new community post or under this )

    • @prabh167
      @prabh167 Рік тому

      Don't feel guilty, for females definition changes with every bit of time. I wish i can do anything

  • @monikayadav6195
    @monikayadav6195 Рік тому +14

    It happens with me, my in laws always say that women has more physical and mental power to do household chores as well as office work and to take care of baby alone. But as man can not do all these things. I never agreed with them and always reply that these are excuses to avoiding work😅. But luckily my husband do not listen to them. He always shares house hold work with me😊

  • @mayukha24
    @mayukha24 Рік тому +8

    Well said!! Especially the bit about the "superwoman" manipulation.

  • @Chithrasp
    @Chithrasp Рік тому +3

    Ohh dang .. this topic is never ending. Thanks for making so many of us feel normal and productive❤❤❤❤❤. Much love to all the queens.

  • @chandanamanthi6878
    @chandanamanthi6878 Рік тому +2

    Love love you i am also depressed about the praising trend of multitasking women it will toll on my mental health to keep up their expectations

  • @9611-b7h
    @9611-b7h Рік тому +2

    So well said. This multitasking thing is always dumped on women only!!!

  • @theunbalancedlibran
    @theunbalancedlibran Рік тому +2

    Thanku for this 😊I have been on a guilt trip for years for my parents n given up so many opportunities n now I feel like a failure

  • @TheKatChat47
    @TheKatChat47 Рік тому +2

    Exactly ❤❤❤ there are many situations in my life where I felt this guilt.. And i still feel that too

  • @VirgoLunaKnight
    @VirgoLunaKnight Рік тому

    I just got out of a toxic relationship and was guilty for being selfish....i needed this today thank you

  • @paulamee8680
    @paulamee8680 Рік тому

    You are a gem dear sis always keep your chin up like this..lots of love to you and little nivi❤️

  • @betsyeffect
    @betsyeffect Рік тому

    Yes yes yes 🙌 ur 💯 right 👏 ❤

  • @prabh167
    @prabh167 Рік тому

    👏. You have knowledge but every woman can't do.

  • @monikabanger5780
    @monikabanger5780 Рік тому

    Well said... story of this era "superwoman"

  • @rogersampaio7450
    @rogersampaio7450 Рік тому

    Nice dress, the interior garment is amazing... What are you wearing in this video by the way?

  • @mbkamath3720
    @mbkamath3720 Рік тому

    This ground shattering truth just freed me..oh my god! Cant thank u enuf❤❤❤

  • @ssharma1412
    @ssharma1412 Рік тому

    ..👍😇

  • @chubanenjamir7741
    @chubanenjamir7741 Рік тому

    More power to you ❤

  • @shikhasharma8831
    @shikhasharma8831 Рік тому

    Oh I love her❤

  • @georachelk9812
    @georachelk9812 Рік тому +5

    As someone in my 20s as a daughter I always feel guilty when I am taking rest like I am wasting my time 🥲❤️‍🩹 I thought I am the only one and this is much needed 🫶

  • @sancharibakshi
    @sancharibakshi Рік тому

    very well said...

  • @deboleenasaha8817
    @deboleenasaha8817 Рік тому

    Are u experiencing postpartum hair loss?

  • @ArunaKumari-xi3ez
    @ArunaKumari-xi3ez Рік тому

    Shweta a lot of credit goes to ur husband for letting u move cross country to pursue ur passion while staying away from his child and also credit goes to ur mom who helps take care of ur child since the time she was born so kudos to them . Also a lot of women don’t have choice a lot of us have to travel in tubes to get to a 9-5 job come home have dinner ready at the table and contribute in everything . In ur case ur lucky u have so much help 🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @ShwetaVijay
      @ShwetaVijay  Рік тому +9

      No no I’m so sorry .. I chose to be here for work and it was my choice. My husband didn’t let me . I made a choice to be financially independent instead of hearing what do you do all day sitting at home. I was doing it all in London with zero help too. Mom only looks after her for the time I’m filming. Not otherwise because it’s unfair otherwise. The only fortunate thing out here is that I work from home but the workload is there. My point here is that be it a stay at home mom or working mom .. guilt we will always carry . We are talking about guilt here