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God Bless You Rachelle. My grandmother got lost one day while driving home from the store. My mother immediately quit her job, moved in with my grandmother and took care of her for 8 years. I would go there on the weekends and relieve my mother so that she could go to church and get out the house. It is a lot but my mother refused to place her mother in a facility. Just know you are a blessing to your mother.
Lost my mom in 2010 and I took care of her alone. She lost her memory one day and didn't know anything it was the hardest thing ever. I had a sister who was a nurse of 35 years and she baled. So god bless you and your family. Moms are everything and God has you. Will have you in my prayers LOTS OF LOVE TO YOU FROM THE CABARRUS COUNTY IN HARRISBUG. Here if you need anything truly from the heart.
My dad has end stage cancer. So i know its hard to be a caregiver. But take it day by day. All the best for your family!
We understand you can't post videos as often as before, but we are still here to support you. Take care of your family!!!! Love you Border Hammer!
no explanation needed.you take care of your girls & your mom & hubby! family first. .
My grandma had a stroke just past the age of 65, due to blood pressure that was out of control (then low, then high). She refused to take her meds to stabilize it and so she suffered a pretty bad stroke that left her paralyzed on the right side. After having a bad PT specialist she fell and broke her knee (he wanted her to walk with just one crutch, which wasn't enough support for her). My granddad cared for her at home for over 15 years in her wheelchair, until he had a massive coronary (he had a heart condition). It was around the clock care, during the day, but also the night. Wishing you lots of strength!
It's a blessing to be able to take care of your mother! My mother passed in march of 2014 from Pancreatic Cancer. I took care of her and I wouldn't have traded it for ANYTHING! I know it's adjustment...oh but God! Love u lots doll!!! 😘😘😘
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I understand where you coming from my mom pass jan 2014 from breast cancer
my mommy passed May 31st she had a stroke two years ago and could not eat walk or talk I REFUSED to put her in a home so I stopped working full time brought her home and turned her downstairs into a bedroom, although I miss her like crazy, I know she did not want to live her life that way
Beyond having a broken sprit and heart, I lost my Mom to pancreatic cancer one year and 2 days ago. My Mommie was my best friend, I missed her immensely crying just typing this...she went through soon much in this life but I know without any doubt our Lord and Savior welcomed her to paradise, she fulfilled her purpose on earth with her love and kindness to people. My condolences to you Alex, if I could hug you I would but our Mom are not suffering any longer from that silent undetectable illness. I have never felt such agony in my whole life, but grieving counseling does help, prayers for strength and comfort has helped. I did the best nursing my Mom it was difficult but I would do all over and sooooo much more if I could. xo
I lost my mom 3 years ago to Pancreatic Cancer. It was so fast I still feel even now like my mind is reeling. Watching her transition was painful. Being a caregiver is hard. I was working too but the stress and anxiety I developed...wooo.. just alot.
One more thing, don't ever think you have to re-invent the wheel; find out about and take advantage of any and every resource that might be available to you and your mom. Doing that was my saving grace a many of time...blessings
You are so right, there is only one borderhammer!!!!!! Always remember, your YT family will be here supporting you in whatever you choose to do. xoxoxoxoxoxoxo
Oh. How sweet of you to care for your mother! The Creator will bless you and you will grow in ways you never expected and your children! I hope you incorporate your mom in the videos, we want to see where you get your good looks from!
Girl you do you! I am not in your shoes but I am wearing a pair of my own. I have an 80 year old mother and although she lives independently and she can do a good majority of things by herself, I still have to manage other aspects of her life. God, family, work in that order! Take care and many blessings.
It's a blessing to be a blessing to your mother. I pray for strength for you and your family.
youre an angel for taking care of your mother! lots of people would just result to a nursing home
Apply for ALL the resources available to her because you can't do it alone. You'll be so spent and that's just not a good thing. Medi-cal actually has a bathing nurse that comes as well as the regular nurse that makes visists. I don't know what state you're in, but I'm in California, but every state has these resources that she has earned and has the right to take advantage of, which in turn will help you a whole lot. Also, sign her up for-home health care services this is where they also bath her, give her, her meds, clean her room/ apt., run errands,m take her shopping.etc I will be saying a prayer for you and your family. God bless you
Being a caregiver is hard work. I've been taking care of my mother for a little over a year. She had a stroke 2 months before my wedding and moved in with is 12 days before the wedding. I have no siblings and our family is 500 miles away. It's just me, hubby and momma. Thank God for hubby because besides him, I have no support. Just make sure you take it one day at a time...God bless.
You honor your mother by caring for her. I lost my mother over 20 years ago to pancreatic cancer. Stay well and blessed!
God bless you for stepping in and making sure your Mom is taken care of. We love you and will be right here when you have time to post. As you stated getting your family settled is more important right now in your life.
Beautiful person with a beautiful spirit. Bless you for taking care of your mother.
Caregiving is challenging. Make sure you take breaks and do some things for you. Seek wise council if you need. God bless you! I will be praying for you.
Awww, I'm so sorry about your Mom. Sounds like maybe she had a stroke. My grandmother had a Stroke back in 2013 & never fully recovered. She can't speak, walk, or feed herself. For someone who has always been an outgoing person to be going through something like this, I can't even imagine what they go through. So be strong my Sister! You only have 1 Mom! Take care of her. Sending Love & prayers your way.
Family first!! I'm caring for my 80 plus year old mother. And I too learned more about my mother and family that I didn't know thought my mom. The bible say that it is a honor to care for your parents. So your honored my sister. It is life changing and God has graced you to embrace the change that your going through with caring for your mother. I pray that God send good positive people your way. That they give you the love and support that you may need during your time of caring for your mom. And when you things get a little tough which they will because that's just life. Don't try to do this on your own talk to God talk to family your spouse and then go back into taking care of mom. That way your strength will be renewed. We're here for you were not going anywhere where. We'll will wait for your notifications and as we wait we send prayers your way. Enjoy your mom!!! And enjoy your life. Don't allow nothing to steal your joy. God bless you my beautiful bless Sister. God Peace & Blessings to you and your family.
Family first, no explanation needed, be sure take care of yourself as well..
It's a privilege and a blessing to be in a position to take care of your mother. Don't do too much, and be sure to take care of yourself. I cared for my father when he became disabled and it was a lot. So take care of you too.
"Just go with it because you just wasting energy and it's just happening anyway..." Truest words I needed to hear at this moment. No need to resist and make it harder.
Thanks for sharing. Your genuineness makes us really feel like family. Take care of your family & we'll be here praying y'all along. I look forward to seeing you next time.
It's commendable that you are taking care of your mother & your husband is welcoming her into your home as well. It's also a blessing that you are able to do that because many people are not in the position to do so. Then you have some who are & choose not to. Praying for you & your family during this transition.
Family always comes first. Continued success and Blessings
If you find you need help, please think about looking for a nursing student at the closest nursing school. They are usually available for crazy hours and respite care. Plus they can be paid cash and are reasonable! Good luck! I lost my mom this year and I would give anything to be able to take care of her.
awww take it 1 day at a time. Take care of the family. Yea I missed u last Week but I figured life happened and u will post when u can. I will always be here waiting just because i love your personality. stay blessed
So great that you are taking care of your mother.
I understand girl. I am not going anywhere. Whenever you post I'm here for it. Family first.
So natural and genuine. One of my favourite vloggers. I hope your mum settles in well. Wish you all the best :) x
My mother and I took care of my grandmother until she passed in 2010. I truly understand, especially with a family of your own. God bless.
Bless you for keeping your family as your priority!
YOU are not only beautiful on the outside but also on the inside!! God Bless you HE is your strength and I sooo admire you! BTW when or if you have time would you please do a tutorial on your bun hun!!!!
It is a blessing for you to be able take care of your mom. My mom is disabled as well and I am the sole person that sees about her. God bless you! I love your videos and I will support your UA-cam channel. -E.
praying for you and the family. I had to take care of my parents years ago. now my husband is ill. We never know were life will lead us. I have been watching you for years and I love your channel. Stay positive and take care of you. hugs .
Yes, we have to take care of our parents, make sure they're good!! I do the same for my mom, she's not disabled but i'm there for her whenever she needs me .... it's an honor. So yeah!! Family 1st.
Knowing what you are about to go through, my mom lived with me through her brief battle with colon cancer and I have taken care of many other family members. I pray your strength in God that he helps you through everything. Just remember to take some time for yourself to get centered and get your energy right, believe me I know it's easier said then done, but try, it will really help. Blessings to you and your family.
Life happens. We totally understand. Don't worry girl, we will still be here. Say hi to Mama! Take care.
It is wonderful that you are using time and energy to care for your mother! I look forward to you uploading when you can!
I remember when your dad passed a few years ago and my heart went out to you. You are such a darling. You have a fan for life!🙌🏾
Take care of yourself! I've been taking care of my mom since the spring. She had several strokes and a heart attack last year and I'm the sole care giver. I moved her from our hometown to where I live. My family wasn't helping and her health was declining quickly, so I thought it would be better for her with me. It's A LOT and financially, mentally and physically draining. PLEASE make sure to take time to take care of yourself. There should be some public services available in your area for your mom. She should be able to have a nurse a few hours a week to help you out.
Home/family comes first. Thats right, we have to take care of our parents. And yes you are missed when you're unable to post. Love you Chanta
Welcome to the "sandwich generation" Rachelle. I was care-giver in turn for my dad, grandmother and mother. It's definitely not easy. Please don't believe that you must do it all. Ask for help. Research with your local senior services for assistance that your mom is entitled to through government agencies and other organizations (ex 'Meals on Wheels'). Check out 'respite care' (they didn't have that back in the day, but it's a greatly needed service now), and find out if there is help in making your home more accessible to your mother's needs. I've been on both sides of the divide on that issue (spent a couple of months in a rehab nursing home due to a broken ankle because my home is not disability accessible). When you need a break, be honest about it with your family, and schedule them anyway, now before folks get settled with YOU doing it all. And finally (this is something I had to do myself), when your mom's medical needs become more than you can manage, be open to nursing home care. So now would be a good time to check out the facilities in your area. God bless you Rachelle as you move into this new phase of your life.
"Honor thy father and mother." You go, girl.
We as women can do amazing things, and then fact that you are taking care of your mom says a lot about you....AMAZING
Your honesty is what makes you so likable. Always take care of your family first and if your subscribers are loyal they will be here when you return.
It's a blessing to be able to take care of a parent. I totally understand!!
Your mom comes first. This may not be the most favorable circumstance, but it's a blessing to have her in your life. Use this time to share with, learn from, and love on one another. Until the we see you again, be a blessing and be blessed.
Trust me...you will be abundantly blessed for taking care of your mom!
I'm glad you have the privilege of caring for Mom. I loss my Mom at 19. Blessings to you and your family.
YES girl life will redirect you! Love your energy and motivation to the 40 plus ladies. Will miss you. Hope to see another video in the future. If not, that's okay too. Take care of you and the family.
God bless you, taking care of mom, great daughter.
Bless your heart sweetie. Take care of your family. Love your videos and your attitude. Peace and blessing.
I wish yall luck. Oddly I was expecting you to say you're pregnant by the title.
I have taken care of my Mom for 13 years.. my entire adult life. She has numerous serious medical issues. She passed away August last year. I know exactly what you are going through and my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
You don't have to apologize. God, family, country is our motto. Take care of yours Sunshine. We will be patiently awaiting your return. BTW...that top is tooooo cute!
How amazing are you Lady..🤗...You didn't have to come & share with us but you did.. We love & appreciate you.. You are a genuine, kind, funny & loving person..Thanks for being our best friend in our heads.. lol Peace love and light to you and your family.. We'll miss you but we'll be rite here when u come back .. 💕
Blessings to you & yours. Thank you for being the nature black woman that drew me to your channel. The opportunity for you to reconnect with your mother in a new way is precious don't worry we'll still be here. Much love
I've been a sole caregiver, I know the challenges, and you're right, family comes first. There will also be blessings. Thank you for all you do.
Will miss you for a bit. Come back whenever you are ready. Hugs
God bless you for taking up the honor of caring for your mother.
OMG! I feel you on this. My mother-in-law (MIL) has Alzheimer's and we just put her in a memory care facility. We had to relocate her from Maryland to Ohio...the back and forth chile was tough. We tried to keep her in home as long was we could. We had arranged for her to have 24/7 in home care but that was EXPENSIVE as hell so we had to move her closer to us and put her in a memory care facility. I admire you taking your mom in. Our home is not conducive to having my MIL live with us. We have stairs...our bathroom is not adequately equipped with grab bars, etc. She's 84 years old and her mobility is not what it used to be (she uses a cane and sometimes a wheel chair). Then with her Alzheimer's it's like having a child....she gets confused a lot. Like you change is hard for me as well. I recently read a book called Who Moved My Cheese. It's a quick read and a great book, I highly recommend it.
I'm praying for you. I will look for your videos whenever you can put them up. You have inspired me in so many ways. Your videos are so funny and informative..and you are just so down to earth. Anyway, family does come first so take this time to do what you have to do.
I will keep you and your family lifted in prayer.
Be well
Stephanie
Thanks for communicating with us, I love you! Take care & bless you!
You take of your mother you don't owe us an apology. God is going to bless you sweetie. You are a beautiful person inside and out. Love you 😘
Take your time, mom first always!! I'm glad you're taken good care of her! You know your crazy ass gone be missed lol, but you go on and handle your business! We here the one ones that love you ain't going nowhere! Love you, Mrs, Rachelle take care.
Taking care of family is a challenge, but as Alex Danielle said, oh but God. It's a process and prayers of strength and perseverance. Change is a process too. We miss you, but we understand. Be Blessed.
Blessings to you and your family.
Taking care of mom is very honorable. Some real grown woman stuff. You are such an inspiration on YT, but yeah life happens. Hopefully you'll continue whenever you can. Handle your business & we'll be here. Meanwhile, wishing you the best in all things! Miss you already too! 💕👍🏾
More people are taking care of loved ones at home- post (if possible) some adventures with her and life hacks on taking care of her and bonding.
"I really don't like being the center of attention" You're a true Virgo😉
Girl, praise God for you. Parents are so important. I had to help with my dad. Keep it up. You will be blessed. We appreciate you.
Rachelle, you do you right now. You are not letting anyone down. I want to say I have been watching you since I was an little bitty UA-camr. I believe we even spoke a few times in passing. I think you are such a genuine, honest, and real person. You have inspired me in many aspects of my own channel....one was trying to be as cool as you in your style videos. If you feel the universe pulling you in a different direction, go with it. Either way, you still have left your mark in the world.
i lost my dad to pancreatic cancer. man what I wouldn't give to be able to take care of him. prayers for your strength and patience during this time
God is your strength and he will never give you more than you can bare. I take care of my mother too and sometimes your emotions will be a roller coaster but at the end it is a blessing to be a blessing to someone else. Keep God first and everything will work out IJN.
You are so amazing for being that type of blessing to your mother. My mind is coming to terms with my parents aging and I plan to be there for them all the way, they did it for us. God bless you sister! Praying for you all.
That's a really good thing you are doing for your mom, u will feel good at the end.
Family will always come first. Some of us have been there or will one day have to become the caregiver for our parents. They did the same when we were at a younger age. Don't forget to take care of yourself as well
We will miss you too! You are very talented and what you share is informative and honest. My mom had a stroke and unfortunately, she passed away last year, after being in a nursing home for over four years so, I applaud you for stepping up and taking care of your mom!!! You have to cherish the time you have with her because when she's gone...she's gone (physically). May God bless and keep you and your family! I wish you well and say hello when you can.
Family first! Thank you for all the great videos. We'll be here if/when you return.
We are so blessed and fortunate to have in our world!! Take care of yourself and your family
I took care of both of my parents until the end. It's hard. I won't lie, and I was going to work full time, but I wouldn't it any other way. Enjoy this time with your mom. It will grow you so much in your patience. Just embrace it and like you said, be positive. ALWAYS have an outlet. Whether it's UA-cam or a dance class or SOMETHING. I feel like there's so much I could say, but I'll just say it really is a beautiful thing, but it's not for the faint of heart.
We love you, BorderHammer!! Thank you for being YOU and inspiring us over the years. Many blessings to you and your family.
Walk live and shine in your purpose! You are the star of your family, continue to be blessed!
I am taking care of my mom and it is a journey, Pray, Pray and Pray. God will become your air.
Many blessings to you and your family. I'm a primary care giver to my mother (98% me) and have been doing so for over 2 yrs - continual prayer and patience (some days can honestly be hard, but I so appreciate my mother all the more). It's wonderful you have the ability to have her with you and have the help and support of your family. Take it 1 day at a time. :) Much success!
family first. nothing wrong with that.
Girl, take care of your momma! When the time comes, I know I'm gonna do the same with my parents... I'm praying for your strength!
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Thinking of you today. Hope all is well lady.
Hello let me first say you were one of the first people I watched on UA-cam. You have totally inspired me as a 40+ fabulous woman! I thank you for your time and inspirations, tips, tricks, and just your smiles. THANK YOU... go balance that life chile! Hope all is well with moms, I can only imagine that challenge but know you youtube family is praying with you..... with tears in my eyes...... until next time. Your presence will be missed
Take 1 thing 1 day at a time! Life happens, love and blessings to you and your family!
Yes, life certainly WILL redirect us! Family first, but, remember that you MUST also take care of yourself, so that you can be available to take care of others. Miss you already 😥
family comes first..God bless you all..it warms my heart to hear you stepped up to have your mom at home..most people just put older parents in nursing homes..you look gorgeous by the way...I'll sign up for sure...my two cents..Breath but actually Breath!!!!
I absolutely love your personality. I'm 20 years old and just appreciate your energy and your videos. God bless you and your family. Continue to do what's best for you and taking care of your family. Peace and balance.
You crossed my mind today and I wanted to say you are missed! Blessings to you and your family.
I'm new to your channel, but you taking care of your Mom and family made me a subscriber within the first 2 mins! That's really special
Taking care of your mother is so wonderful... God bless you. Family definitely comes first. And anyone who doesn't understand that, has issues.. Peace and Love... Take care.😊👌🏾
I just love you! such a breath of fresh air. please know that I'll be praying for you & your family. You only get one mom, so do what you have to do. Wish you all the best...hope to see you again soon.
Praying for you, your mother and your family. Taking care of a person is difficult, but such a blessing.
It can be a lot being the main caregiver for someone so don't be ashamed or hesitant to reach out to others if you feeling stressed and overwhelmed with the job & never ending responsibility. Your such a "friend in my head". Wishing you & your fam the best 😊