My mother abandoned me when I was 19 days old and my grandmother took me and raised me. She was in her 50’s. She took the role of mother. And raised me really well. I am a professional with good morals because of her. Hoda will raised her daughters really well. Idiots have nothing to say to her.
Circumstances are a little different but the endgame is the same you were raised by a woman in her 50s... My mother did the same however she didn't necessarily want this to be something she felt obligated to do it was the connection to her grandchild it wasn't even about the mom is the reason she raised my nephew... she felt as if as my mom said why should this child suffer for the mistakes of their parents... Circumstances were different
The person that did that went out of their way to be mean and age shame her, without knowing her story. What a miserable life that person must live. Enjoy your children Hoda.
TV is so bad for you!! So sad that humans get easily influenced by idols, but they dont really care about anyone, at the end of the day its a job they get pay and enjoy being the 1%.
My grandma had my mom at 42, my mom had me at 38. I didn’t have much time with my grandmother, I was 10 when she passed, but the time I did have was valuable and still remember her well. My mother is in her 60s and hasn’t slowed down a bit. When they became mothers they were both established, successful women who knew themselves and raised their children with grace, wisdom and stability… and people think that’s cruel? How about the 70 year old men fathering children??? Women are always going to be judged if you have your kid at 22 or 52. I mean seriously a whole letter? It’s her life! Those kids are loved! Leave them alone!
Better to be an older parent who is established and healed then a younger parent who passes unresolved trauma onto their kids. People should mind their own business.
I got pregnant at 43--very unexpected. Everyone had an opinion about it. Not all of us are on the same clock so people should really just learn to mind their own business and keep their mouths shut.
So true and how wonderful for you I know a woman who got unexpectedly pregnant at 53 - she thought it was menopause. Had a healthy baby boy and he keeps her young.
@@babydooll84 I was pregnant at 44 and didn't look older than any pregnant woman 10 years younger than I was. I had my first at 24 and my third at 44. And I didn't become a grandmother until I was 62. Eat your heart out lady, people are living their own lives and nobody cares what you think about it. Live your own life well and you won't be so opinionated about others.
My own sister told me that when I was on my 40’s and my husband and I were going through infertility treatments with IVF. It shattered me to hear those words. I also had my sister in law tell me that I “didn’t need a child.” Both of those people had children….so I never could wrap my head or heart around them speaking those things to me. Words cut like a knife….I wish people would be mindful of that. I never did get my dream of being a Mommy, but I am so thrilled for Hoda and those baby girls…..they were meant to be hers. ♥️
You know, you don’t have to carry a baby to be a mommy. You may not be able to birth him/her through your body but you can experience a rebirth in your heart ❤️-one that’ll allow you to experience the limitless joy of being a mother. That child doesn’t have to have your blood to have your smile, your laugh, your love of food, music, or theater. All these things can be inherited through nurture. So don’t let the biology of nature stop you from living your best life. You have the love and compassion that any child would be extremely blessed to have. It’s never too late for God to give you your heart’s desires. I pray that your latter days are better than your former days. It sounds like you deserve it!👍🏾
@Karen, I'm sorry for the hurt your sister and sister-in-law inflicted upon you. I hope that you will enjoy your lot in life, whether that includes children or not. God bless you 🙏🏽
She opened her home to a child that needed a loving home. I think it is awesome that older people adopt. They are wiser and more settled. This is a good thing ❤
People forget about the kids who don’t get to be adopted into loving homes. That is not the better alternative. We need more people like Hoda in the world ❤
My great-grandmother had my grandmother at age 50 and had two more children after that. My grandmother had her children late in life too. My late mother and I wouldn’t have existed if older women didn’t have children. I say go go girl, Hoda. And Hoda don’t let anyone tell you that you are a bad mother and not worthy of having children at your age, you are a wonderful mother. You and your kids are lucky to have each other.
Yes, she gave birth naturally to all of her children, and their was no such thing as IVF when she gave birth, and neither there was no such thing as IVF in the 1970s when I was born. You can still get pregnant if you are peri-menopausal, or in early stages of menopause.
Exactly, there are no guarantees in life. It’s not like the girls will be caring for their parents in their old age, either. Having parents with money is also a bonus.
Congratulations on raising two happy little girls. Age is only a number. And you can be a Mom at any age. My mother passed when she was only 36. My aunt and uncle were in their late 60's and they took me in to raise. They became my Mom and Dad!
Completely agree! My aunt died when she was ~30 from breast cancer, and had 2 young kids at the time! You never know what will happen in love and none of our lives are the same, nor should they be, we each have our own journeys in life and if they work for us and we’re not hurting anyone, what’s the issue?
I was adopted at age 5. My mother was 50 and and my dad was 55. I had a wonderful childhood in a big family and I treasure it. My mother passed in 2011 and my dad in 2014. They were 87 and 94 . I had them a good long time and so thankful for it.
I changed careers at 52, got my masters degree at age 59, and adopted my baby granddaughter at age 62. Let people live their lives as it feels right to them. Please.
LOL! Mary, you surpassed me by 4 years. We adopted our 5th child after all the others were adults (long story-foster care). She was 19 months, I was 58 and my husband 61. I knew I was not alone, but I feel happy hearing from another 'long experienced' mother. You know something? They STILL grow up too fast!!
My granddaughter-daughter is now 10 and the joy of our lives though now we are looking at raising a teenager in our 70s. I’ve learned of many grandparents adopting their grandchildren and saving them from a less than wonderful life. One thing about being an older mother after raising four to adulthood: nothing fazes me!
Hoda deserves to enjoy every aspect of being a mother. I am so upset and speechless over that letter. This person does not know how badly Hoda wanted these beautiful children :) Hoda should be celebrated not shamed!!!
That’s just grotesque. She’s has every right to be a mother no matter her age. What’s important is that her children are being raised by a mother that loves them so incredibly much. I think Hoda is an inspiration to older women wanting children. It’s the love that matters.
There is no ‘right’ to be a mother at any age. People are doing IVF, are killing embryos in the process of IVF, are hiring other woman’s wombs for surrogacy. It’s disgusting. No matter what your age is, if you can’t conceive on your own, then stop it. You can’t always get what you want. That’s just life. We have all become like Mengele experimenting and messing with lives.
What is wrong with people some moms maybe shouldn’t have children at that age but Hoda has the means and especially the love to be a mother. Hoda you are a special person who is living your best life with your family. You are healthy, energetic, and have the biggest heart of love to give her children. Thank you for having your family let haters hate but you are just perfect for these marvelous girls.
Why shouldn’t women be able to be moms when older. I think they make better moms because they tend to be wiser, have more patience and have more life experience.
What mothers shouldn’t have children at that age? And why? There IS no why! Research from the the best universities in the world know that being a mother at “this age” is ALWAYS a better outcome for the children than younger mothers. You are woefully mistaken to think such a thing.
Usually it's more to do with the health problems that children can inherit because of an older mother. And seeing as Hoda's daughter has already been hospitalized, seems those worries are warranted
I'm expecting with my 1st kid at 38 with my husband. I had people tell me to start thinking about freezing my eggs and to start worrying if I can't have children naturally after trying for a year. There's too much generalization out there. Families have evolved over the years. People need to stop placing their depictions of what family looks like on others and just live your life. When I need advice...I'll ask for it.
@@Xane_Dragon I suppose each parent is different. I focus more on the fun and satisfaction side of parenting. Of course I worry about my children and grandchildren but the love and the warmth and the happiness definitely outweighs the worries. For me anyway.
Meanwhile, on the other end of things, I'm a 40-year-old woman who still gets asked "why didn't you have kids/why don't you have kids?" Like it's anyone's business or like there is something wrong with me. I don't think I'll have kids, but I also don't think I should have to explain anything to anyone. Maybe people can just try to mind their own business.
That’s so rude too. I think it’s great when women who don’t want kids know this about themselves and choose it, instead of having them because they feel pressured to. There is absolutely nothing wrong with your choice.
You can never win in life. If you had only daughter's they will hate, only son's they will hate, taller, fatter, older than your spouse they will hate. Why didn't you have more kids, why so many. People will always judge for no damn reason in this world. Live for yourself.
This story is so motivating. So many women have struggles with when is the right time and you hit the nail on it. The time is right when you are ready. Mother's come in all shapes, sizes, colors and age. Loving someone and showing them a lifetime of what love is, has no expiration and no end. Just beautiful! Blessingsto Hoda and her beautiful family.
She adopted the kids and is beyond commendable for doing so. Good for her and the kids. Motherhood can happen at any age, young or old and as long as there is love there is no better or worse way.
Exactly and she adopted them but they are blasting her like this? Imagine she tried to give birth to some. They would blast her even more. Some just need to shut up.
Don't let disrespectful and rude people shame you for adopting 2 precious daughters. These people don't even need to be mentioned! You don't owe any explanations. These sweet sweet little girls know just how loved and valued they are. You all are Family. God gifted you with such beautiful gifts and they in return we're gifted as well. God Bless you!
When I was a child, I lost a step parent who was 26. Had a grandparent live close to 100-he was still physically Independant and even started his last business venture at around 90. Had a great grand mother have her last child at 48 and lived to watch her grow to adulthood and have children of her own. Point being, age shouldn’t be the catalyst, but having the wisdom and means to raising children should be the objective.
You are a deserving, blessed momma. Those two beautiful little girls have the best momma they could ever have... You wear that momma hat better than anyone... Go Live Your Life to the Fullest! I applaud you!
Thank you. Thank you to any woman willing to be a mother in this society, under unusual circumstances. Whether that be later age, being single, unexpected pregnancy or infertility - you are making our future world. You are appreciated.
To receive a letter like that to her actual home would magnify the hurt and incite justifiable fear, in case she is not safe in her own home with her children. Just despicable.
I was 17 turning 18 when I had my first baby. I’m now 38 and I am a better mother today than I was at 18.. I’m sorry but I disagree with age you become a better human being some people anyways.. good on you for living your life and having children when your financial stable enough and your ready no one has the right to judge you. This persons life obviously sucks so they are taking there issues out on you. Don’t worry mumma keep shining bright xx
Love is ageless. Let love win and conquer. Step over and leave behind someone's negative words and show them they are wrong by knowing these girls are yours. The future is beautiful.
I’m very happy for Hoda that she’s able to be a mom to two beautiful girls. I just think society really puts a lot of pressure and standards on women to have children, at a certain age I feel that’s really a decision a woman should make. It’s her body her choice if she wants to be a mom or not but it doesn’t matter if they’re biological or they’re adopted but giving them love and support is really all that matters. In my life I am slowly approaching 40 but I am very glad to have a beautiful niece to call my daughter and I’m very content with that. I just feel that people need to shut their mouth and mind the business that pays them. ❤❤❤
You have given two beautiful children the life they were supposed to have. Don't let the devil put thoughts in your head or use other people to bring you down. LOVE is what makes a FAMILY! PRAYING FOR YOU AND YOURS!!!
Don't let that get to you. Maturity is vital to a good parenting style. I can promise you that the people who say such things lack it. It's not like you are 80 years old adopting toddlers. That might be an issue but you are far from that and have plenty of time, energy, and love for them. No worries. Enjoy it.
My husband’s mother had him at 40 and she’s now 75 and thriving with no medical issues. My mother had me at 26 and she died at 56. There’s no guarantee in life and other people shouldn’t dictate how you live your life. Let her be a mother to those girls and stop age shaming her.
Hoda You are the only person that seem like you understand and experience my journey of being childless. To bring a life in this world and value very highly it has to have the right atmosphere and environment to nurture a well rounded intellectual human being. With that being said I had so many in my mid 30s talking me out of conception. And after I realize my husband hadn’t finished growinlg up I wasn’t going to bring a child in this world to compete. The desire still has not gone away. Tomorrow I will be 65 April 25. Thanks for your story. That individual’s comment might’ve been uncomfortable but it doesn’t take away the joy that you have running around in your home those beautiful babies. I celebrate you. I’ve watched too many parents conceive and celebrate their birth but really don’t have the time that it needs to grow up a productive human. Continued blessings
I've always wanted kids, always. I decided not to because of a genetic disorder I have that I had a high percentage of passing it on. Plus, I was single and could not afford to adopt. Plus, I went through breast cancer in 2016. I have heard stupid remarks from my friends when we hear about someone who had a baby in their 40's and I think I read someone about in their 50's. They said, how selfish it is because if they die, then they give that responsibility of taking care of their kid to someone else. That is the first negative thing to run through their mind. Or, I will hear one of them who has 2 children, I can never have another kid in my 40's because I don't have the energy as when I was young. These negative, hurtful remarks are cruel, thoughtless, and unempathetic. You think women who have kids later in life whether through birth or adoption or surrogacy, don't know it will take lots of work? You know what I call it? A MIRACLE!!! Screw that person who wrote that disgusting letter to you. My heart felt stabbed for you. I know HIlary Swank is pregnant at 49 (not sure if she gave birth yet). That is was unexpected for her and a beautiful surprise. She even said, when she was a little girl, she would have dreams that she had twin daughters. Of course, as the years went on she never thought this would happen. And it did, and she is pregnant with Twins. I am so happy you have 2 beautiful daughers, I am envious of you ( in a good way). Thank you for being open
Thats horrible someone would say such a nasty thing to her. She will give those children a great life and she may not get a lot of time but she will get the best time. Shame in the person that sent her that very insensitive hurtful letter.
What a beautiful way for Koda to show incredible vulnerability. God bless her for the care she is giving them. The happy, healthy home I am sure she provides. Shame on people. Just shame on them. 💔
God bless you Hoda ! Reams of peer reviewed research prove that women your age make THE best mothers and have THE happiest children! You have done this exactly right!! What blessed & fortunate children you have given the world!
There are trade-offs. My beloved mama was 40 when she had me, 16 when she had my sister. While I am glad that I had her as a mom during a more mature phase of her life, losing my mom at age 35 was devastating. I’m thankful I had her for 35 years, I know a lot of people lose parents at a much younger age and I feel awful for them. But all of my friends still have their moms. Every time I see women who are 60 and their mom is still alive, I feel a seething sense of jealousy, to be honest. There’s a lot of regrets and things I wish I would have done if I’d known I was going to lose her so soon. Life is frickin hard. If you have at least one good parent, love the crap out of them while you have them because tomorrow isn’t guaranteed.
As someone who was adopted by older ppl in their 50s, they passed away in their 60s. It’s really hard to survive but I miss them all the time. Life is easier now that I’m older but it’s really hard. But she has money so it will be easier when she passes.
My parents adopted me when my mom was 40. This resonates with me a lot. I have the most caring mother….and Hoda is an amazing person/ mother. I’m happy for her. Obviously Someone is as projecting their problem onto her.
Hoda is an extraordinary woman with so much love to give. She such a great mom to her daughter thank you for being an great example to other future mothers please don't let this person's bitter word hurt you.
So many haters. Perhaps they should mind their own business! If something happened to my daughter and her husband, my husband and I will raise my 5 month old granddaughter. I’m about to be 60. I would change everything in a heartbeat to be there for her. You continue to be you!!!!!
It's probably the best age to have children. Like my brain just now finishing growing . I'm in my 30's and in 50's I believe I will be financially and mentally ready to adopt .it's definitely different if you are giving birth at that age ,the child could have medical issues. But adoption... Yesss! It's never to late !!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏
There should be laws put in place for ageism she was singled out and her privacy was invaded..My mom had me at 40 and people did her the same way ..I feel this kind of prejudice it stopping kids from happy loving homes .And look at the numbers they show that older people have a better success at fostering..💯
My mom had her seventh child at age forty one ..he is my brother and best friend in this world....please don't judge .My mom lived us all gave us great faith
My sister adopted an 8 month old boy in her 50's and her husband in his 60's. My nephew is almost 18 now. Wow I cant believe that anyone would have anything to say about anyone that would open their heart to a child. I had older parents too.
First, I would like to point out, this person knows where she lives. They took time to research her information and seek out her home address, her safety. This qualifies as being a threat and a lunatic in my book. Secondly, they talked about her kids, that is another safety issue. I know this had to hurt emotionally, but for me, if I were to get an anonymous letter in the mail, my first instinct would be to protect myself and my family, and I actually have gotten an anonymous letter in the mail that completely BASHED me, my husband, and our children. It was extremely threatening and scary! The person called us “white trash,” fat, and called our kids retarded. I promptly took that letter to the police station, but I’ve never heard anything from them about it.
She’s absolutely beautiful inside and out. And it’s a beautiful thing to see a mother actually wanna be a mother and love her kids regardless. I wish she was my mother.
There are so many parents who can't have children. They adopt and are better than some biological parents. We should be Honoring HODA and her husband for adopting these children, who might otherwise be lost in the systems. People should be kinder to those, who can't have children of their own but adopt. Some biological parents, shouldn't have children because they are not good. So if a couple or single woman, can adopt and give any child a better life, we should applaud them. How dare someone write such a terrible letter to Hoda,who is one .of the kindest persons,I have come to highly respect. whoever wrote that letter is mentally ill. probably gave her children away,or had abortions. Some people think children of their race,should be adopted by only people of. their race but children need love, regardless of their ethicenty. God Bless you Hoda and your husband and many blessings to those little girls and your family.
Age discrimination is rampant evetywhere. Every person is different & every family is different. Even doctors will discriminate against you. It hapoened to me in my 40’s. Who are They to judge me? Who are they to play God? I was stunned. I am so happy for Hoda.
I really wish people would think before they speak. I have been basically bullied because I have never been married or have any kids. I might add I am almost 40 years old. So I kinda understand how she feels.
1. She chose to have children at a mature age and has the means to provide for them and give them a good life. 2. She is likely healthier than women and parents half her age. 3. Love and joy seem to be a priority for her. 4. She actually seems to enjoy being a parent. 5. Reasons 1-4 make her just if not more qualified than 99% of the other parents out there. 6. And the icing on the cake, God seems to be a priority for her and will likely reflect in her parenting. 7. Her children are blessed to have her as she is for having them.
The person who wrote that hand-written letter and researched Hoda's home address revealed quite a bit about themselves. That person is obviously very unhappy and miserable and therefore, all they have to share with others is hate and cruelty. That letter had nothing to do with Hoda since she's obviously living her best life in a responsible, wise and loving way. I hope Hoda lives to be a hundred! 💯🥰
Your never too old to have or raise children. I was 20 and 22 when I has my children. At 45 I ended up getting full custody of my grandson from my youngest daughter and I worried that my husband and I were to old to do thus. Fast forward he's almost 9 and is the light of are life and a great kid that doesn't care that we're older. We are financially stable now that we're older plus we're more patient and we know what worked and didn't work with raising kids.
What's more concerning is that the person sent the letter to Hoda's home. The letter writer could be stalking her and should be investigated. Also, if a person has the financial means to take care of these two children (which Hoda does), it's no one's business.
Wow, that’s awful for people to do to her! I’ll bet her kids don’t feel that way, I’m sure they’re happy to have a good mum and will always love her the same regardless of age (which kids really have no perception of anyways) I’ve had people say negative stuff about me when I was a new young mum, tho my kids were (&are- tho they’re older now) my life! I guess my experience is similar to hers, but kinda opposite- like I had my kids really young, then I got really sick and prob wouldn’t have been able to have them if I had waited
Oh those people can f-off. I imagine she’s nothing short of a wonderful parent!! Look at this incredible women, full of love, financially and emotionally stable, happy with the beautiful life she’s built for herself; any child would thrive in the environment she’s built. And you know what, I bet she didn’t have that environment when she was 22. Some do, not hating on the young parents either. Some people are put together enough by their early 20s to properly guide and love their children. (Although let’s be honest, there are plenty that aren’t.) But anyway Hoda said it perfectly, everyone’s timeline is their timeline. Also, young people die too. And she’s 50 and takes great care of herself, let’s not act like she’s 85 and in hospice.
No one, of any age, is guaranteed tomorrow. Young parents have died by accident or murder, leaving their young children behind. Age is no reason not to have children.
My dad is the youngest of 12 and my grandma passed away when he was in his 30s and she had him late too like she probably should’ve been menopausal lol. My dad told me he use to go with his dad to pick up his retirement check….lol. My moms mom had her at a normal age even a bit on the younger side and she died when my mom was only 12, so you never really know. In my parents case the boy who had the elder mom spent more time with her then my mom got. People need to be careful what they say too. I know someone who made an incredibly rude remark about me when I was still in my early twenties, like one of the most cutting things you could ever say to a person and the person literally had the same exact thing happen to them later in life. It’s one thing to get angry when justified; it’s another thing when you just bully and say cruel things for no reason.
First off, adopting a child is admirable. More adoption needs to take place, especially with older kids that never get adopted. There's too many unloved, unwanted kids in the foster care system/ward of the state, etc. And they never asked to be born but they need loving homes too. Not just infants. Secondly, its better to be an older parent that actually has a job, house, car, money, established, etc., than a younger parent, passing down trauma and abuse and f***ing the kid up for life, living off tax payers money for public assistance! Third, why y'all ain't have that same energy when: • JLo • Janet Jackson • Jeannie Mai • Da Brat • Kenya Moore • Tamron Hall • Naomi Campbell • David Foster • Billy Joel • Mick Jagger - etc., was all having kids in their 40s and 50s? 🤔 Fourth, IDGAF what anyone has to say; having biological children that never once asked, nor chose, nor consented to being here, is beyond selfish! So kudos to her for adopting.
Don't let the world dictate how you live your life! No one says to a man, " oh you're too old to have kids!" They get a pat on the back! It's no one's business what you choose to do! You're either too young, too old, gay, single, too fat, divorced, too poor etc! There are no guarantees in life and you only get one chance! I was told by men that I couldn't raise my sons as a divorced mom. I gave birth to them what was I supposed to do with them? Guess what? I did raise all three of my sons by myself and they turned out to be wonderful husbands and wonderful fathers and are successful! Who knew? I can't stand when people try to tell you that you can't do something! That just motivates me to prove them wrong! When you have God in your life anything is possible! I'm sure they also said you couldn't run a Talk show as a single woman of a certain race and age after a certain man failed! There's much satisfaction in proving people wrong!! God bless ❤ Don't forget the world will tell you not to have too many kids because that's wrong too!
I commend Hoda and her ex husband for opening up their hearts to adopt. Giving these two children a better chance at life with love also, I lost my adopted mom recently. I’m now parentless the depth of deep sadness, emptiness, grief, and disconnection I feel is beyond deep.💔🌏😢 I’m having such a hard time, existing even in this world. My adopted mom was the mother I never had, more than the biological mother who birthed me, and has never even acknowledged me till this day.😥😔😢 People are and can be so cruel…💔
Oh my goodness, why is it ok for people to feel entitled to make comments to hurt others? Her decisions of making her family is so very personal. It is none of our business. If we cannot celebrate beautiful additions to a family. Please don’t say anything. Your hurtful opinion is invalid. I wish her the best and keep doing awesome!
How dare anyone criticize you or anyone for wanting to be a parent at any age! God gave you your daughters He alone will decide whats best for you and them! They are beautiful and loved ,they lack nothing, don't ever let your insecurities steal your joy at being a mommy. If you want to know if your too old ask your kids , they don't care truly, I had kids in my teens 20s and 40s and my daughter and I had kids 9 months apart. My kids are just happy I love them and celebrate life with them. For the letter writer watch out ,this will not go well for you
Pay no mind Hoda the world is full of jealous ignorant people.This world has become so unkind…Ungodly!”The timing is right when it’s right for you! Well said. I too am an older mom and I wouldn’t have it any other way.God bless you and your family.❤️🙏👏👏👏
It's no one business when you plan your family !! Never let anyone make you feel bad for your choices about your children You are blessed as well as your Children are blessed to have you !!
💯!!! My grandparents raised me RIGHT! They took care of me because my mother was young & completely dysfunctional. I will be a very proud older parent one day! Ppl suck for saying dumb things like that! 😆
How sad someone would be so miserable and mean to send her a letter trying to shame her for becoming a mom. Doesnt matter her age, being a mom was something she wanted and it's refreshing to see she was able to do so after what she'd been through. Now these two beautiful girls have a wonderful mom/family. We never know someone's story
My parents thought I was to old at 31 to have children, I didn't listen, I have 18,19,21 boys, I love them to death, don't listen to negativity, only listen to your heart, you will always be happy you did, age is just a number, it's the mind that keeps us young, more power to you, enjoy those girls because they do grow up fast😊
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My mother abandoned me when I was 19 days old and my grandmother took me and raised me. She was in her 50’s. She took the role of mother. And raised me really well. I am a professional with good morals because of her. Hoda will raised her daughters really well. Idiots have nothing to say to her.
@NoSaltJustPepperBae Amen. Kids who are raised by older adults seem to be more grounded and emotionally mature.
Same for me! Ppl are ignorant, they have no clue!
Circumstances are a little different but the endgame is the same you were raised by a woman in her 50s... My mother did the same however she didn't necessarily want this to be something she felt obligated to do it was the connection to her grandchild it wasn't even about the mom is the reason she raised my nephew... she felt as if as my mom said why should this child suffer for the mistakes of their parents...
Circumstances were different
@@EB-ok3io i agree I am one of them
The person that did that went out of their way to be mean and age shame her, without knowing her story. What a miserable life that person must live. Enjoy your children Hoda.
Waaayyy out of their way. Handwritten letter!
@@marybethschultz202 That’s a fact.
That person probably wasn't able to have a child so now they are hating on others that have that opportunity to do so.
She did not have to read it or even talk about it!!! It’s so annoying to even talk about it. She is way to old to care about nonsense
Had to be a magat.
Considering what we know of Hoda any child would be lucky to have her as a mother, at any age. She seems like such a loving, nurturing person
Exactly. She is also probably all the better because of her age.
TV is so bad for you!! So sad that humans get easily influenced by idols, but they dont really care about anyone, at the end of the day its a job they get pay and enjoy being the 1%.
My grandma had my mom at 42, my mom had me at 38. I didn’t have much time with my grandmother, I was 10 when she passed, but the time I did have was valuable and still remember her well. My mother is in her 60s and hasn’t slowed down a bit. When they became mothers they were both established, successful women who knew themselves and raised their children with grace, wisdom and stability… and people think that’s cruel? How about the 70 year old men fathering children??? Women are always going to be judged if you have your kid at 22 or 52. I mean seriously a whole letter? It’s her life! Those kids are loved! Leave them alone!
Better to be an older parent who is established and healed then a younger parent who passes unresolved trauma onto their kids. People should mind their own business.
Well said!
It’s not better to be an older parent or a younger parent, what a shameful comment.
Absolutely
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But you are absolutely correct!
They really should. Well stated
I got pregnant at 43--very unexpected. Everyone had an opinion about it. Not all of us are on the same clock so people should really just learn to mind their own business and keep their mouths shut.
So true and how wonderful for you I know a woman who got unexpectedly pregnant at 53 - she thought it was menopause. Had a healthy baby boy and he keeps her young.
More importantly keep people opinions out of your mind. They don't define you. You define you
It’s hard when you look old and have a huge belly though… Ofcourse ppl will look at you weird! That’s literally the age most women become grandmothers
@@babydooll84 I don't know Baby doll. You are the one who kinda looks old.
@@babydooll84 I was pregnant at 44 and didn't look older than any pregnant woman 10 years younger than I was. I had my first at 24 and my third at 44. And I didn't become a grandmother until I was 62. Eat your heart out lady, people are living their own lives and nobody cares what you think about it. Live your own life well and you won't be so opinionated about others.
I simply don’t understand why people cannot just be supportive and stop being so mean spirited. Those girls are blessed to have her as their mother.
Yes they are blessed
My own sister told me that when I was on my 40’s and my husband and I were going through infertility treatments with IVF. It shattered me to hear those words. I also had my sister in law tell me that I “didn’t need a child.” Both of those people had children….so I never could wrap my head or heart around them speaking those things to me. Words cut like a knife….I wish people would be mindful of that. I never did get my dream of being a Mommy, but I am so thrilled for Hoda and those baby girls…..they were meant to be hers. ♥️
You know, you don’t have to carry a baby to be a mommy. You may not be able to birth him/her through your body but you can experience a rebirth in your heart ❤️-one that’ll allow you to experience the limitless joy of being a mother. That child doesn’t have to have your blood to have your smile, your laugh, your love of food, music, or theater. All these things can be inherited through nurture. So don’t let the biology of nature stop you from living your best life. You have the love and compassion that any child would be extremely blessed to have. It’s never too late for God to give you your heart’s desires. I pray that your latter days are better than your former days. It sounds like you deserve it!👍🏾
@@shawnpreston1639 Thank you so much for your kind words. 🤍 God bless you for your comment and encouragement.
@@karengriffith2057 just adopt a kitten. That's baby enough 🙄
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@Karen, I'm sorry for the hurt your sister and sister-in-law inflicted upon you. I hope that you will enjoy your lot in life, whether that includes children or not. God bless you 🙏🏽
She opened her home to a child that needed a loving home. I think it is awesome that older people adopt. They are wiser and more settled. This is a good thing ❤
People forget about the kids who don’t get to be adopted into loving homes. That is not the better alternative. We need more people like Hoda in the world ❤
Some people can be so cruel! 😭 Every child, needs parents. Keep being amazing Hoda! ❤
My great-grandmother had my grandmother at age 50 and had two more children after that. My grandmother had her children late in life too. My late mother and I wouldn’t have existed if older women didn’t have children. I say go go girl, Hoda. And Hoda don’t let anyone tell you that you are a bad mother and not worthy of having children at your age, you are a wonderful mother. You and your kids are lucky to have each other.
How wonderful! My friend had a baby at 53 and she is very blessed.
My mom had her second kid at 48.
Did she give birth naturally
@@jenniferl1908 did she get pregnant naturally
Yes, she gave birth naturally to all of her children, and their was no such thing as IVF when she gave birth, and neither there was no such thing as IVF in the 1970s when I was born. You can still get pregnant if you are peri-menopausal, or in early stages of menopause.
Her age doesn't mean anything. Younger people are passing away everyday. Those girls are blessed to have her ❤
Absolutely!
she needs to stop
Do people not realize that? There’s no minimum age to be at risk of passing away. People are brainless
Exactly!
Exactly, there are no guarantees in life. It’s not like the girls will be caring for their parents in their old age, either. Having parents with money is also a bonus.
Congratulations on raising two happy little girls. Age is only a number. And you can be a Mom at any age. My mother passed when she was only 36. My aunt and uncle were in their late 60's and they took me in to raise. They became my Mom and Dad!
Exactly.
Completely agree! My aunt died when she was ~30 from breast cancer, and had 2 young kids at the time!
You never know what will happen in love and none of our lives are the same, nor should they be, we each have our own journeys in life and if they work for us and we’re not hurting anyone, what’s the issue?
I was adopted at age 5. My mother was 50 and and my dad was 55. I had a wonderful childhood in a big family and I treasure it. My mother passed in 2011 and my dad in 2014. They were 87 and 94 . I had them a good long time and so thankful for it.
I changed careers at 52, got my masters degree at age 59, and adopted my baby granddaughter at age 62. Let people live their lives as it feels right to them. Please.
You’re an inspiration!
LOL! Mary, you surpassed me by 4 years. We adopted our 5th child after all the others were adults (long story-foster care). She was 19 months, I was 58 and my husband 61. I knew I was not alone, but I feel happy hearing from another 'long experienced' mother. You know something? They STILL grow up too fast!!
My granddaughter-daughter is now 10 and the joy of our lives though now we are looking at raising a teenager in our 70s. I’ve learned of many grandparents adopting their grandchildren and saving them from a less than wonderful life. One thing about being an older mother after raising four to adulthood: nothing fazes me!
Hoda deserves to enjoy every aspect of being a mother. I am so upset and speechless over that letter. This person does not know how badly Hoda wanted these beautiful children :) Hoda should be celebrated not shamed!!!
that's right she has been working SO hard, all her life, to be able to provide for these little girls.
That’s just grotesque. She’s has every right to be a mother no matter her age. What’s important is that her children are being raised by a mother that loves them so incredibly much. I think Hoda is an inspiration to older women wanting children. It’s the love that matters.
There is no ‘right’ to be a mother at any age. People are doing IVF, are killing embryos in the process of IVF, are hiring other woman’s wombs for surrogacy. It’s disgusting.
No matter what your age is, if you can’t conceive on your own, then stop it. You can’t always get what you want. That’s just life. We have all become like Mengele experimenting and messing with lives.
It's so inhumane to say that to a stranger even family members 😢😢😢😢 terrible
What is wrong with people some moms maybe shouldn’t have children at that age but Hoda has the means and especially the love to be a mother. Hoda you are a special person who is living your best life with your family. You are healthy, energetic, and have the biggest heart of love to give her children. Thank you for having your family let haters hate but you are just perfect for these marvelous girls.
Why shouldn’t women be able to be moms when older. I think they make better moms because they tend to be wiser, have more patience and have more life experience.
What mothers shouldn’t have children at that age? And why? There IS no why! Research from the the best universities in the world know that being a mother at “this age” is ALWAYS a better outcome for the children than younger mothers. You are woefully mistaken to think such a thing.
Usually it's more to do with the health problems that children can inherit because of an older mother. And seeing as Hoda's daughter has already been hospitalized, seems those worries are warranted
I'm expecting with my 1st kid at 38 with my husband. I had people tell me to start thinking about freezing my eggs and to start worrying if I can't have children naturally after trying for a year. There's too much generalization out there. Families have evolved over the years. People need to stop placing their depictions of what family looks like on others and just live your life. When I need advice...I'll ask for it.
Congrats to you and your family! You’re about to have the best time ever!
This is absolutely not about you
@@kellifranklin9872 life long worries and trouble doesn't sound like fun to me
@@Xane_Dragon I suppose each parent is different. I focus more on the fun and satisfaction side of parenting. Of course I worry about my children and grandchildren but the love and the warmth and the happiness definitely outweighs the worries. For me anyway.
Meanwhile, on the other end of things, I'm a 40-year-old woman who still gets asked "why didn't you have kids/why don't you have kids?" Like it's anyone's business or like there is something wrong with me. I don't think I'll have kids, but I also don't think I should have to explain anything to anyone. Maybe people can just try to mind their own business.
Same. I had to answer those questions until I finally hit menopause 😂
That’s so rude too. I think it’s great when women who don’t want kids know this about themselves and choose it, instead of having them because they feel pressured to. There is absolutely nothing wrong with your choice.
You can never win in life. If you had only daughter's they will hate, only son's they will hate, taller, fatter, older than your spouse they will hate. Why didn't you have more kids, why so many. People will always judge for no damn reason in this world. Live for yourself.
God bless her. She adopted 2 beautiful girls and she's gonna be the best mom she can be. May she live a long healthy life with her daughters ❤️
This story is so motivating. So many women have struggles with when is the right time and you hit the nail on it. The time is right when you are ready. Mother's come in all shapes, sizes, colors and age. Loving someone and showing them a lifetime of what love is, has no expiration and no end. Just beautiful! Blessingsto Hoda and her beautiful family.
She adopted the kids and is beyond commendable for doing so. Good for her and the kids. Motherhood can happen at any age, young or old and as long as there is love there is no better or worse way.
Exactly and she adopted them but they are blasting her like this? Imagine she tried to give birth to some. They would blast her even more. Some just need to shut up.
I love seeing mom’s of all ages ❤ I’m 26 and it really helps relieve unnecessary pressure
You are a great mother to those two girls!!! THEY ARE LUCKY TO HAVE YOU AS THEIR MOM!!!!!!
Good for you!! Those kids are lucky to have you as their loving Mom!❤
Don't let disrespectful and rude people shame you for adopting 2 precious daughters. These people don't even need to be mentioned! You don't owe any explanations.
These sweet sweet little girls know just how loved and valued they are. You all are Family.
God gifted you with such beautiful gifts and they in return
we're gifted as well.
God Bless you!
When I was a child, I lost a step parent who was 26. Had a grandparent live close to 100-he was still physically Independant and even started his last business venture at around 90. Had a great grand mother have her last child at 48 and lived to watch her grow to adulthood and have children of her own. Point being, age shouldn’t be the catalyst, but having the wisdom and means to raising children should be the objective.
There is no set age to raise children. Enjoy being parents. Hoda has the heart and love to be a great mom.
You are a deserving, blessed momma. Those two beautiful little girls have the best momma they could ever have... You wear that momma hat better than anyone...
Go Live Your Life to the Fullest! I applaud you!
It’s a beautiful thing to intentionally be open to becoming a parent, the love that the child experiences is life changing and shouldn’t be challenged
Thank you. Thank you to any woman willing to be a mother in this society, under unusual circumstances. Whether that be later age, being single, unexpected pregnancy or infertility - you are making our future world. You are appreciated.
To receive a letter like that to her actual home would magnify the hurt and incite justifiable fear, in case she is not safe in her own home with her children. Just despicable.
My grandma raised me . She do such a wonderful job she was a caring loving kind women . I missed her so much .
Wow! Those little girls are blessed to have you as their mom!
I was 17 turning 18 when I had my first baby. I’m now 38 and I am a better mother today than I was at 18.. I’m sorry but I disagree with age you become a better human being some people anyways.. good on you for living your life and having children when your financial stable enough and your ready no one has the right to judge you. This persons life obviously sucks so they are taking there issues out on you. Don’t worry mumma keep shining bright xx
Were you sexually assaulted? 🥺
Love is ageless. Let love win and conquer. Step over and leave behind someone's negative words and show them they are wrong by knowing these girls are yours. The future is beautiful.
I’m very happy for Hoda that she’s able to be a mom to two beautiful girls. I just think society really puts a lot of pressure and standards on women to have children, at a certain age I feel that’s really a decision a woman should make. It’s her body her choice if she wants to be a mom or not but it doesn’t matter if they’re biological or they’re adopted but giving them love and support is really all that matters. In my life I am slowly approaching 40 but I am very glad to have a beautiful niece to call my daughter and I’m very content with that. I just feel that people need to shut their mouth and mind the business that pays them.
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Do what makes you happy, healthy, and what is right for you and no-one else.
You have given two beautiful children the life they were supposed to have. Don't let the devil put thoughts in your head or use other people to bring you down. LOVE is what makes a FAMILY! PRAYING FOR YOU AND YOURS!!!
Don't let that get to you. Maturity is vital to a good parenting style. I can promise you that the people who say such things lack it. It's not like you are 80 years old adopting toddlers. That might be an issue but you are far from that and have plenty of time, energy, and love for them. No worries. Enjoy it.
Well said.
My husband’s mother had him at 40 and she’s now 75 and thriving with no medical issues. My mother had me at 26 and she died at 56.
There’s no guarantee in life and other people shouldn’t dictate how you live your life. Let her be a mother to those girls and stop age shaming her.
Your kids would beg to differ!! You exude love for those kids!!!
Hoda You are the only person that seem like you understand and experience my journey of being childless. To bring a life in this world and value very highly it has to have the right atmosphere and environment to nurture a well rounded intellectual human being. With that being said I had so many in my mid 30s talking me out of conception. And after I realize my husband hadn’t finished growinlg up I wasn’t going to bring a child in this world to compete. The desire still has not gone away. Tomorrow I will be 65 April 25. Thanks for your story. That individual’s comment might’ve been uncomfortable but it doesn’t take away the joy that you have running around in your home those beautiful babies. I celebrate you. I’ve watched too many parents conceive and celebrate their birth but really don’t have the time that it needs to grow up a productive human. Continued blessings
I've always wanted kids, always. I decided not to because of a genetic disorder I have that I had a high percentage of passing it on. Plus, I was single and could not afford to adopt. Plus, I went through breast cancer in 2016. I have heard stupid remarks from my friends when we hear about someone who had a baby in their 40's and I think I read someone about in their 50's. They said, how selfish it is because if they die, then they give that responsibility of taking care of their kid to someone else. That is the first negative thing to run through their mind. Or, I will hear one of them who has 2 children, I can never have another kid in my 40's because I don't have the energy as when I was young. These negative, hurtful remarks are cruel, thoughtless, and unempathetic. You think women who have kids later in life whether through birth or adoption or surrogacy, don't know it will take lots of work?
You know what I call it? A MIRACLE!!! Screw that person who wrote that disgusting letter to you. My heart felt stabbed for you. I know HIlary Swank is pregnant at 49 (not sure if she gave birth yet). That is was unexpected for her and a beautiful surprise. She even said, when she was a little girl, she would have dreams that she had twin daughters. Of course, as the years went on she never thought this would happen. And it did, and she is pregnant with Twins.
I am so happy you have 2 beautiful daughers, I am envious of you ( in a good way). Thank you for being open
Thats horrible someone would say such a nasty thing to her. She will give those children a great life and she may not get a lot of time but she will get the best time. Shame in the person that sent her that very insensitive hurtful letter.
All the kids who need homes and you saved two babies and are giving them a great life. God bless adoptive parents no matter what age.
What a beautiful way for Koda to show incredible vulnerability. God bless her for the care she is giving them. The happy, healthy home I am sure she provides. Shame on people. Just shame on them. 💔
God bless you Hoda ! Reams of peer reviewed research prove that women your age make THE best mothers and have THE happiest children! You have done this exactly right!! What blessed & fortunate children you have given the world!
There are trade-offs. My beloved mama was 40 when she had me, 16 when she had my sister. While I am glad that I had her as a mom during a more mature phase of her life, losing my mom at age 35 was devastating. I’m thankful I had her for 35 years, I know a lot of people lose parents at a much younger age and I feel awful for them. But all of my friends still have their moms. Every time I see women who are 60 and their mom is still alive, I feel a seething sense of jealousy, to be honest. There’s a lot of regrets and things I wish I would have done if I’d known I was going to lose her so soon. Life is frickin hard. If you have at least one good parent, love the crap out of them while you have them because tomorrow isn’t guaranteed.
As someone who was adopted by older ppl in their 50s, they passed away in their 60s. It’s really hard to survive but I miss them all the time. Life is easier now that I’m older but it’s really hard. But she has money so it will be easier when she passes.
My parents adopted me when my mom was 40. This resonates with me a lot. I have the most caring mother….and Hoda is an amazing person/ mother. I’m happy for her. Obviously Someone is as projecting their problem onto her.
Hoda is an extraordinary woman with so much love to give. She such a great mom to her daughter thank you for being an great example to other future mothers please don't let this person's bitter word hurt you.
SHE IS OLD
So many haters. Perhaps they should mind their own business! If something happened to my daughter and her husband, my husband and I will raise my 5 month old granddaughter. I’m about to be 60. I would change everything in a heartbeat to be there for her. You continue to be you!!!!!
It's probably the best age to have children. Like my brain just now finishing growing . I'm in my 30's and in 50's I believe I will be financially and mentally ready to adopt
.it's definitely different if you are giving birth at that age ,the child could have medical issues.
But adoption... Yesss! It's never to late !!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏
There should be laws put in place for ageism she was singled out and her privacy was invaded..My mom had me at 40 and people did her the same way ..I feel this kind of prejudice it stopping kids from happy loving homes .And look at the numbers they show that older people have a better success at fostering..💯
The obsession that America has around a woman's age is RIDICULOUS.
Koda, don't give those ignorant people the power over your emotions. Being a mother is a beautiful gift 💗
My mom had her seventh child at age forty one ..he is my brother and best friend in this world....please don't judge .My mom lived us all gave us great faith
Your daughters were already in the world and needed a home. Bless hoda
exactly
My sister adopted an 8 month old boy in her 50's and her husband in his 60's. My nephew is almost 18 now. Wow I cant believe that anyone would have anything to say about anyone that would open their heart to a child. I had older parents too.
First, I would like to point out, this person knows where she lives. They took time to research her information and seek out her home address, her safety. This qualifies as being a threat and a lunatic in my book. Secondly, they talked about her kids, that is another safety issue. I know this had to hurt emotionally, but for me, if I were to get an anonymous letter in the mail, my first instinct would be to protect myself and my family, and I actually have gotten an anonymous letter in the mail that completely BASHED me, my husband, and our children. It was extremely threatening and scary! The person called us “white trash,” fat, and called our kids retarded. I promptly took that letter to the police station, but I’ve never heard anything from them about it.
I am 40 with 2 beautiful angels and I believe I have 2 more in me. We are all different and there is no formula to this thing okay people!!!
I worked as a teachers aid for a year long ago. The children with older mothers we're very smart.
She’s absolutely beautiful inside and out. And it’s a beautiful thing to see a mother actually wanna be a mother and love her kids regardless. I wish she was my mother.
There are so many parents who can't have children. They adopt and are better than some biological parents. We should be Honoring HODA and her husband for adopting these children, who might otherwise be lost in the systems.
People should be kinder to those, who can't have children of their own but adopt.
Some biological parents, shouldn't have children because they are not good.
So if a couple or single woman, can adopt and give any child a better life, we should applaud them.
How dare someone write such a terrible letter to Hoda,who is one .of the kindest persons,I have come to highly respect.
whoever wrote that letter is mentally ill.
probably gave her children away,or had abortions.
Some people think children of their race,should be adopted by only people of. their race but children need love, regardless of their ethicenty.
God Bless you Hoda and your husband and many blessings to those little girls and your family.
Age discrimination is rampant evetywhere. Every person is different & every family is different. Even doctors will discriminate against you. It hapoened to me in my 40’s. Who are They to judge me? Who are they to play God? I was stunned. I am so happy for Hoda.
I really wish people would think before they speak. I have been basically bullied because I have never been married or have any kids. I might add I am almost 40 years old. So I kinda understand how she feels.
Nothing wrong with with that. We are all different paths in life.
May God bless you and reward you in a very special way in Jesus name!❤
1. She chose to have children at a mature age and has the means to provide for them and give them a good life.
2. She is likely healthier than women and parents half her age.
3. Love and joy seem to be a priority for her.
4. She actually seems to enjoy being a parent.
5. Reasons 1-4 make her just if not more qualified than 99% of the other parents out there.
6. And the icing on the cake, God seems to be a priority for her and will likely reflect in her parenting.
7. Her children are blessed to have her as she is for having them.
Lots of women have Children late and some even later! You are the BEST MOM for your girls. Enjoy your life and pray the everyone else will as well.
Sending love and support to Hoda, that person that wrote you that letter sounds like a person who does or could not have children. 🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️
The person who wrote that hand-written letter and researched Hoda's home address revealed quite a bit about themselves. That person is obviously very unhappy and miserable and therefore, all they have to share with others is hate and cruelty. That letter had nothing to do with Hoda since she's obviously living her best life in a responsible, wise and loving way. I hope Hoda lives to be a hundred! 💯🥰
Your never too old to have or raise children. I was 20 and 22 when I has my children. At 45 I ended up getting full custody of my grandson from my youngest daughter and I worried that my husband and I were to old to do thus. Fast forward he's almost 9 and is the light of are life and a great kid that doesn't care that we're older. We are financially stable now that we're older plus we're more patient and we know what worked and didn't work with raising kids.
This is really ironic bc she didn’t bring her daughters into the world, she chose them having already been brought in.
What's more concerning is that the person sent the letter to Hoda's home. The letter writer could be stalking her and should be investigated. Also, if a person has the financial means to take care of these two children (which Hoda does), it's no one's business.
She’s a beautiful mom. Giving babies a wonderful life with two great parents.
Um, I think she is the only parent.
@@purselady7323 I think she shares custody with her ex husband.
I think it is great to be an older mom with wisdom and love!
And means
Wow, that’s awful for people to do to her!
I’ll bet her kids don’t feel that way, I’m sure they’re happy to have a good mum and will always love her the same regardless of age (which kids really have no perception of anyways)
I’ve had people say negative stuff about me when I was a new young mum, tho my kids were (&are- tho they’re older now) my life!
I guess my experience is similar to hers, but kinda opposite- like I had my kids really young, then I got really sick and prob wouldn’t have been able to have them if I had waited
Oh those people can f-off.
I imagine she’s nothing short of a wonderful parent!! Look at this incredible women, full of love, financially and emotionally stable, happy with the beautiful life she’s built for herself; any child would thrive in the environment she’s built. And you know what, I bet she didn’t have that environment when she was 22. Some do, not hating on the young parents either. Some people are put together enough by their early 20s to properly guide and love their children. (Although let’s be honest, there are plenty that aren’t.) But anyway Hoda said it perfectly, everyone’s timeline is their timeline.
Also, young people die too. And she’s 50 and takes great care of herself, let’s not act like she’s 85 and in hospice.
What I don't understand is why anyone has an opinion about someone wanting a child or not. it's no one's business.
Well I chose having cats over having kids
No one, of any age, is guaranteed tomorrow. Young parents have died by accident or murder, leaving their young children behind. Age is no reason not to have children.
My dad is the youngest of 12 and my grandma passed away when he was in his 30s and she had him late too like she probably should’ve been menopausal lol. My dad told me he use to go with his dad to pick up his retirement check….lol. My moms mom had her at a normal age even a bit on the younger side and she died when my mom was only 12, so you never really know. In my parents case the boy who had the elder mom spent more time with her then my mom got. People need to be careful what they say too. I know someone who made an incredibly rude remark about me when I was still in my early twenties, like one of the most cutting things you could ever say to a person and the person literally had the same exact thing happen to them later in life. It’s one thing to get angry when justified; it’s another thing when you just bully and say cruel things for no reason.
First off, adopting a child is admirable. More adoption needs to take place, especially with older kids that never get adopted. There's too many unloved, unwanted kids in the foster care system/ward of the state, etc. And they never asked to be born but they need loving homes too. Not just infants.
Secondly, its better to be an older parent that actually has a job, house, car, money, established, etc., than a younger parent, passing down trauma and abuse and f***ing the kid up for life, living off tax payers money for public assistance!
Third, why y'all ain't have that same energy when:
• JLo
• Janet Jackson
• Jeannie Mai
• Da Brat
• Kenya Moore
• Tamron Hall
• Naomi Campbell
• David Foster
• Billy Joel
• Mick Jagger
- etc., was all having kids in their 40s and 50s? 🤔
Fourth, IDGAF what anyone has to say; having biological children that never once asked, nor chose, nor consented to being here, is beyond selfish! So kudos to her for adopting.
Don't let the world dictate how you live your life! No one says to a man, " oh you're too old to have kids!" They get a pat on the back! It's no one's business what you choose to do! You're either too young, too old, gay, single, too fat, divorced, too poor etc! There are no guarantees in life and you only get one chance! I was told by men that I couldn't raise my sons as a divorced mom. I gave birth to them what was I supposed to do with them? Guess what? I did raise all three of my sons by myself and they turned out to be wonderful husbands and wonderful fathers and are successful! Who knew? I can't stand when people try to tell you that you can't do something! That just motivates me to prove them wrong! When you have God in your life anything is possible! I'm sure they also said you couldn't run a Talk show as a single woman of a certain race and age after a certain man failed! There's much satisfaction in proving people wrong!! God bless ❤ Don't forget the world will tell you not to have too many kids because that's wrong too!
Love is love. No one is in a position to judge love. Im happy for the love and joy they share.
I’m more shook over the fact that people even have ANYTHING negative to say/think about a situation like this.
I commend Hoda and her ex husband for opening up their hearts to adopt. Giving these two children a better chance at life with love also, I lost my adopted mom recently. I’m now parentless the depth of deep sadness, emptiness, grief, and disconnection I feel is beyond deep.💔🌏😢 I’m having such a hard time, existing even in this world. My adopted mom was the mother I never had, more than the biological mother who birthed me, and has never even acknowledged me till this day.😥😔😢 People are and can be so cruel…💔
I am so sorry for the loss of your wonderful mom, Michael. She obviously did a fantastic job - she raised a son who loved her dearly.
Had my first child at 22 and my forth and last one at 39. It’s nobody’s business to dictate my family planning to me. Age Gestapo!
Oh my goodness, why is it ok for people to feel entitled to make comments to hurt others? Her decisions of making her family is so very personal. It is none of our business. If we cannot celebrate beautiful additions to a family. Please don’t say anything. Your hurtful opinion is invalid. I wish her the best and keep doing awesome!
I had my son at 22 and financially, emotional, and mentally was not mature enough. We grow up together cause I had so much more to learn about life.
How dare anyone criticize you or anyone for wanting to be a parent at any age! God gave you your daughters He alone will decide whats best for you and them! They are beautiful and loved ,they lack nothing, don't ever let your insecurities steal your joy at being a mommy. If you want to know if your too old ask your kids , they don't care truly, I had kids in my teens 20s and 40s and my daughter and I had kids 9 months apart. My kids are just happy I love them and celebrate life with them. For the letter writer watch out ,this will not go well for you
Pay no mind Hoda the world is full of jealous ignorant people.This world has become so unkind…Ungodly!”The timing is right when it’s right for you! Well said. I too am an older mom and I wouldn’t have it any other way.God bless you and your family.❤️🙏👏👏👏
It's no one business when you plan your family !! Never let anyone make you feel bad for your choices about your children You are blessed as well as your Children are blessed to have you !!
Best wishes to you and your family... don't let haters take your happiness....
They look like a loving family ❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉
And yet no one cares if an older man has children, if he can take care of a child in his 50's then so can she.
💯!!! My grandparents raised me RIGHT! They took care of me because my mother was young & completely dysfunctional. I will be a very proud older parent one day! Ppl suck for saying dumb things like that! 😆
How sad someone would be so miserable and mean to send her a letter trying to shame her for becoming a mom. Doesnt matter her age, being a mom was something she wanted and it's refreshing to see she was able to do so after what she'd been through. Now these two beautiful girls have a wonderful mom/family. We never know someone's story
My parents thought I was to old at 31 to have children, I didn't listen, I have 18,19,21 boys, I love them to death, don't listen to negativity, only listen to your heart, you will always be happy you did, age is just a number, it's the mind that keeps us young, more power to you, enjoy those girls because they do grow up fast😊
They didn't want to be grandparents.