This made me tear up and really thankful for my boyfriend. I've been in toxic relationships and it's amazing when you find someone who doesn't drag you down in any way. Wait for that person and don't settle for less.
Also, make sure that you're being that person too. I like to think I'm a good person in a healthy relationship but I've slipped up on a lot of these 12 things before, and so has she. But we talk it out and assume the best of each other
Most of these naturally occur if you're in a relationship with your best friend. Friendships that evolve into romantic commitments appear to be the healthiest relationships imo.
Ryder Sonthestorm idk the relationship I ended up having with one of my closest friends was a very toxic one. We were on and off for about 4/5 years, but we’re on good terms now and she’s in a new relationship and I’m getting married in June.
the relationship i had with my best friend was bad because we lost attraction over time. being best friends doesn’t mean it’s going to be healthy. i’ve had much healthier relationships with people i met as potential partners initially.
Totally agree, my best friend became my girlfriend and we're having the best relationship we can have, I think the secret is to keep being best friends, no matter if you're in a relationship now, it is just an extra that makes both of you happier.
I think if the 2 friends are emotionally healthy and suitable for marriage/partnership it’s a great prospect. Some people can be great friends but not cut out for marriage.
1. you communicate openly 2. you argue sometimes 3. keep relationship problems private 4. don’t hold grudges 5. realistic expectations, commitment and open communication 6. time and space for yourself 7. trust each other 8. enjoy spending time togehter 9. you are friends 10. you make decisions togehter 11. you get intimate 12. you make each other better
My girlfriend and I are have all of these. However, sometimes trust falters and insecurities arise on my part. I take those situations to think about how I can improve myself
Kobi Conner I’m going through the exact same thing, identical actually. Whenever things happen that expose my insecurities and trust issues I try to take the situation to improve how I think and what I should do to handle it better. hope ur doing well my man
weneden same here mate but not proud about it. What I mean is I am proud to admit it but not proud or happy to be in it. Am still just trying my hardest and best to make it work. Energy is fading fast though
My husband and I have been glued at the hip since we were kids! We've been though everything together from struggling through a long distance relationship to life threatening illnesses... I can't stress enough how important it is to Talk to your partner, trust and love them! And always remember to be silly from time to time... We just celebrated our 14th aniversery together ... and we've never forgotten to tell each other "I love you" every single day 😊
Anyone else realise their parents literally do NONE of these. --------edit : kind of concerning that 2 THOUSAND people relate to this are y’all ok lmaooooo anyways I hope everything works out in your families I will be praying for us
Think of it like this. When you grow up in a way that makes you hate almost everything about your childhood, it makes being an adult so much easier and more enjoyable because you have the foresight to make the active choices to ensure your life never goes back there. :)
Something that I love about this video is that the two people in the couple are drawn in a way that makes them gender neutral. I just think that it’s a really nice detail.
12 signs you’re in a healthy relationship 1. Transparency 2. Argue 3. Keep relationship details private 4. Don’t hold grudges 5. Realistic expectations 6. Have space 7. Trust each other 8. Enjoy spending time together 9. You’re friends 10. Make decisions together 11. Get intimate 12. You make each other better
What do you do if they dont want to grow and be the best them they can be, but get aggressive and see any criticism as an insult? Because you should "love them as they are", even though they clearly have some things to work on that are affecting you
Psych2Go Hi, i just wanted to know how do i actually go out with someone. Like, i don't wanna see anything cliché like "will you go on a date with me". I wanna know how people actually ask someone out on a date and then become a relationship
After 2 different abusive relationships I'm so happy to be in a healthy, long-term relationship. I can come to him with anything and he supports me in every way. ♥️
Funny, I also had 2 different abusive relationships and now I'm in a healthy one :) (I am not saying abusive relationships are funny, just that the consequense is)
One year ago I was in a relationship that barely met 3 of those points. Now I‘m in a fresh relationship (2,5 months) that meets almost all points. I love it.
The best of life for both of you! I've been there about 3 years ago, and I'm still teared apart from who i am, but I'm working on fixing it with help, and your comment has gave me happiness and hope. Thank you, i wish you nothing less than the best!
people are going to hate me for saying this but i envy people who live surrounded by terrible people. I think I deserve that more rather than this good life. i constantly try to make myself suffer.
If they’re toxic, they’re not true friends. I had to cut myself away from a big group of toxic people that I use to call friends but I feel a lot lighter ever since I cut them off. You will too when you’re ready. :)
My boyfriend and I haven't argued yet. We disagree but not argue. Five months now. Should I start an argument?😂 Edit. I can't believe you guys thought I was serious this was a joke. Also he turned out to be cheating.
I saved this video in my watch later section a long time ago. I was in an unhealthy relationship at the time and I was scared to watch it because I didn’t want to admit it. I’m with a new partner now and we check all the boxes. It’s the healthiest maturest loving relationship I’ve had ever and I’m glad to finally be happy.
I have vitiligo since i was a 6 years old girl. That affected so much and i had no selfsteem. One day (on christmas) i said that i wish i could find finally a boyfriend (as a joke). Later that night i met the guy that now is my best friend and boyfriend. He made me look myself through his eyes and i started to loving myself, he's been with me in so many difficult and beautiful moments. We travel, we do plans together, we play videogames but also he goes out with his friend ans so do i. We love an trust each other and i think he is the best person i could find ever!
JustAlpha it's like when you have blotches of different colored skin all around your body lol. That's the best way I can explain it, but if you're interested you can look it up yourself
I've been crying for the past 5 minutes /pos I've finally found someone that isn't going to abuse me. I'm finally In a healthy relationship. I feel like I'm dreaming. Thank you for opening my eyes to this.
So I met this new guy. We cried on our first date. We laughed and we had a great conversation. But we are not physical there for each other. But he loves me and I love him. And I wanna be with him. But I’m scared that he’ll hurt me because I’m not available physically for him. We both are gay and I’m a bottom and so is he. But our emotions are so strong and it’s beautiful.
@@niknik5380 shhh 🤫 not everyone believes in the fantasy world of heaven and hell and that a big man creator is just looking over the world letting bad things happen while he’s up in the heavens chillaxing. Makes no sense.
@@dianalove539 God isn't just chilling in Heaven letting bad things go down. We all sin, that's why bad things happen and we can't just erase that sin.
*Personally, Trust is a huge thing for me with relationships. I've always dealt with people not trusting me due to my very open and somewhat flirty personality.*
You'll find the one, I'm sure. I have a flirt personality. Sometimes I don't even notice I'm being flirty until someone points it out. I don't mean anything by it, that's just part of my personality. I found someone despite that though. We have a great relationship, going on three years! There are moments where we argue but we talk about it and that just makes us stronger. I can say with confidence that i trust him and he trust me. So don't be discourage, you'll have someone by your side. It will probably happen when you least expect it.
It can definitely be a struggle at times, I am the same and since it's my personality, i dont realise if my actions are flirty or not. Now i have found someone that after trial and error and communication, knows that's just who I am. And he has learned to trust me. I want him and only him and it makes me really happy that he trusts me to be myself, cause I dont know how to act any other way and i wouldnt want to, I want to be who I am
Getsomevagisilfordat I feel like in west world dating is more scary because of Feminist propaganda (falsely gigantic rates of rape) and female privilige of believing them about rape accusation before trial even begins. False accusation can deal a lot of damage to man even if trial find that it is false. So both men and women are more afraid.
Gleb Strelets 100% this is gonna offend some people but there’s too many snowflakes ❄️ out there. If it does, cry more 👌 I’m blunt & brutally honest, nothing less. When I invest in someone I invest fully and whole heartedly. I live with my soul and love with my heart. I’ll do anything for my significant other without expectation, just because. I know my type is rare. I’m the furthest from a simp 💯 Now. These days too many simps which are everywhere are investing in these princess syndrome socially conditioned Kardashian thots who bring little to nothing to the table while giving them all the attention. I could go from many angles and say a lot. There are also those rare women out there instead of little girls who are the majority, you just have to know where and what to look for. Unfortunately with social media and being an influencer (I own several businesses to say the least) I know what’s fucking good. Very rarely are people using what they have for positivity. “Success” is subjective for the most part besides logistics etc. It’s how you react to certain things and what you do with them. Some people are literally addicted to negativity though and don’t have the same heart as you. So, you gotta love yourself enough to do things your future self will thank you for and appreciate what you have before time makes you appreciate what you had. The whole, my cup is overflowing so it can help others statement. Not dogma, not ego, not living in fear. Just real, love and abundance. That’s a minimal bit of what I wish was trending 🔥🤷♂️
Psych2Go my opinion, I appreciate you so far. I would break down each I guess, synapses, category, word, quote, thought (thot lol) etc into specific variations or tailored to a specific subject but also broad. Meaning the whole social engineering trend, fuck it. Each person is a different universe within themselves so each “reaction” will be different. Butt. If we’re talking the undeniable root, core, basis of things and then multiplied upon. Just maybe it’ll spread some positive vibes. You uplift people with unbiased facts 💯 respek 🔥
Psych2Go tangible meaning, one video idea could be What is loyalty, where does it come from? What does it actually mean? Your comments section would most likely have everyone’s opinions on loyalty or at least a better direction of what they’re looking for
Sorry to be, mean but That’s not intimacy, that’s just fucked up. Why can’t people love each other without being fucked up? I doubt it’s love if that’s involved.
We are a bit more close than the regular couple it seems many friends and co-workers just won't believe how much we really want to spend time together, how little we disagree, how much we do for each other and how absolutely unselfish we both are in our relationship. I only want what's best for him and vice versa. Of course we argue at times but those are usually just moments of miscommunication and won't last for more than ten minutes. We are truly each other's best friends, and have been for over ten years! And we can comfortably do our own stuff while sitting right next to each other. I am so thankful for our love!
Wow 10 years! You should make a video or a blog or something about your relationship to help others who are in a unhealthy relationship to learn them (and also me) about what's healthy so we don't make the same mistakes over and over again
I completely agree. This art style is the best. It's cute, simple, and doesn't give the characters ethnicity so that you can see yourself in any of them. :)
Watching this video made me realize... how lucky I am. We share just so much together, I know I can trust him anytime and I know I can tell him anything and he will understand me. I'm so grateful I was able to find the best person in the world for me. I love my boyfriend, and I hope I can stay with him for all my life. And you guys are amazing for doing these videos, keep up the good work
Irieru yeah, I'm truly lucky aswell i realized. My boyfriend is amazing, it's in his nature to never be angry and eveb if he was upset, he would just go to his room and do nothing. We soon have our one year anniversary and we never argued once. I can tell him anything and he understands. I can trust him completely. He is disgusted of the thought of cheating. I love him so much and he knows. Not to mention, he's very poetic; i feel like in a shakespeare play. Hehe.
I felt pretty confident about the relationship I'm in right now, I was sure it's a healthy one, but seeing this made me even more confident and I thank you for this and all the other videos :)
I never had a relationship but i am still happy that the expectation i have for one arent completely off. I often feel like everyone else wants to find a good looking partner and their personality comes only second.
Not only that. While usually men wants a good looking woman, women want man who is rich. Even though the man and woman has earned enough for themselves
I'm glad to say that after all my unsuccessful tries with love I've finally found a good one. Because of all my past relationships I found it hard to believe that I would ever find someone right for me and who would treat me right, make me happy, etc. If anyone who's reading this also has that belief, dont worry. I understand your reasoning for thinking that. But just know that eventually you will find someone good for you, it may not be soon, or someone you expect, but it will happen, trust me, I know. It took me 7 failed relationships within 2 years to finally find the right one. I'm happy now and I hope everyone reading this also finds someone who makes them happy or already has someone who makes them happy.
I'm a lucky individual. All the boxes are ticked. Our 5 core factors are: 1. Communication 2. Respect - Note: This isn't submissiveness, rather we have factors about each other we admire 3. Integrity - We are who we are around each other, and don't do things to jeapordize the relationship 4. Honesty 5. Trust Yep, can't complain
My boyfriend and I are working on how we “fight” it’s more we just take things too personally. Currently we are having a hard time because money but we are more just stressed. I want to push him to be his own independent person, get hobbies and to hang with his friends because I’m pushing myself to do the same and I don’t want him to feel like he’s wasting his 20’s and I’m scared I’m gunna waste mine too
My boyfriend and I have many of these in our relationship. But we never argue. And let me tell you this really turned into a problem! I always used to think we where perfect because we never got angry at each other about anything but I now realize I just never talked about what bothered me and kept everything bottled up in order to maintain harmony. It left many important things unsaid and is putting our relationship in danger now, because I feel like I made way too many compromises.
“Fixing is not the same as supporting.” What a great line. My boyfriend has accused me of trying to fix him before, which is not what I’m trying to do. I like myself better when I’m with him, and I know he likes himself better when he’s with me. Next time he says something like that, I’ll use this line :-)
My boyfriend and I do so many things of what you said in this video, for the first time I feel great being in a relationship that has no abuse , dominant , neglect etc. Thank you for making these type of videos and keep it up!
As someone who got the score of 11/12, (because we don't argue and come across more agreements), this made me feel so confident in my relationship. Thank you so much for this.
I'm so blessed to have a boyfriend that works as hard as me to keep our relationship happy and healthy ;;w;; I know a lot of people don't get this kind of happiness and fulfillment from their relationships unlike me and my boyfriend and that makes me upset that it can't be so. I just hope that everybody can experience what it's like to be loved and to love someone who is willing to work hard on their relationship.
I'm in a really happy and healthy open relationship with my current partner (open relationship because I'm asexual and not at all jealous, being able to love more than one is absolutely fine and wonderful). Everything on here we match up........... except fighting. We don't really fight, more just talk about different opinions for a while. One year going strong, I love them so much
Not true. You also have relationsships with friends and family, and even though this video didn't aim for those kinds of relationships, most of the listed things are also important there. You may be single, but you can still have fucked up friendships and so on.
Me and my boyfriend’s 4 year anniversary is tomorrow and I’m proud to say that we’re still happy and healthy 😊 the key is communicating, you should be able to talk about anything to your partner even if it’s about them!
Trash Can Gaming many people in toxic relationship refuse to see how bad their partners are to them, and think they're perfect, while they are actually abusers.
Nope you can’t say my boyfriend or girlfriend is perfect because when he or she makes mistakes you are very disappointed and that isn’t good for a relationship accepting mistakes or marks your boyfriend or girlfriend has or does is one way to get a strong and good relationship !
Transparency.....yes Argue.....yes Relationship details private....yes Don't hold grudges.....yes Realistic expectations....yes Space own self.....yes Trust each other......yes Enjoy time together.....yes We are friends......yes Decide together.....yes Intimacy......yes Make each other better......yes Oh really?We are in healthy relationship❤️May god bless us❤️🙏
I am beyond lucky to have a relationship with my husband that exhibits these traits. He is my favorite person in the whole world. I hope everyone out there can find a person who loves them just the way they are. Everyone deserves love. I wish you all luck, friends ❤️
Me and my boyfriend have grown so much closer this last year from having our first arguments, to needing space or a cuddle sesh. Watching this really makes me feel happy to know that our relationship is healthy.
I agree that being friends is a big part, for me atleast. I've just started to meet a guy. We started out being friends, we hanged out and were just talking and became friends. We got comfortable with each other. We argued about stuff and laughed together. And later on it just happend naturally that we kissed and were intimate with each other. No one had so say anything haha. For me this happend because I was singel for almost a year to find myself and to be the person I wanted to be. And I hade patience to actully get to know a guy who was genuine intrested in me as I was in him. So my tip to you guys is not to run after a relationships. Rather focus all the energy on yourself and enjoy life, on the way you will find relationships that will be much better than the once you force.
We tick most of those. From the start we promised to be kind and respectful to each other and we always have been. Neither of is perfect but we are right for each other.
one of my closest friends and i are working to turn our once toxic relationship into something healthy for us both. it’s a long road with a lot of ups and downs but after watching the episode on being toxic and this episode i can see we’ve made a lot of progress together and that gives me resolve to keep working at it together
I'm lucky to have a healthy relationship even when I'm dealing with trust issues because of what happened to my parents. Thanks for my partner who always there for me 😌
Im happy to say I am in a relationship that follows these things. Sometimes we stray from it during arguments but it always ends up with one of use apologizing and learning from it.
I love that this made me feel secure about my relationship. We have problems, like any other relationship, but we can communicate and let them go. I love her so much!
@@dom5102 We're not, but I think it was for the best, honestly. She ended the relationship and after that and a lot of therapy, I realised it wasn't a healthy relationship. I hope you can communicate and stay with the person you love. ✨✨✨
I am in a relatively new relationship. But I can see it is a good one as we already practice a lot of these 12 points, on our own initiative and desire to learn from the past relationships to make this one the last romantic relationship for both of us. This video makes me very happy. I will thank her for sending it to me.
I'm proud to say, all of them. After having a toxic relationship. My new relationship does do all of the above and that made me smile, it made feel proud. It also made me see, we're doing it right.
It’s incredibly satisfying to watch this video and know I have all of these quality’s with my partner and it’s amazing. There’s nothing better than being with someone who accepts you for you.
I ve always been attracted to psychologie and stuff like this,but because of this channel I now understand a lot more, and I'm now totally sure on what I want to do in the future. Thank you
Flip well, I was 20 at the time, a freshman in college. I guess I wanted to explore more (in every aspect). We were together for almost 4 years and I guess it wasn't what I wanted at the time. I know that with time the relationship morphs into something different from what it was at the beginning but that's not what I wanted. I didn't want to settle down that young. I wanted the butterflies in my stomach, I wanted to know myself without him, I wanted to figure out what I wanted in life... that stuff. We ended i great terms tho
Awesome Squad wow that is honestly awesome. I hope you all the best, and when you start growing as individuals, don’t grow apart from each other, because that is the most common thing of why young couples break up! :) in those times, remember that communication and space is KEY.❤️
We are absolutely friends. Despite our age, we still love arcading in the mall, playing video games at home and watching animes. So yeah, I guess we are pretty much in the right track base on these signs.
I am single like a pringle and I always say I don't need a boyfriend.. * whispers * but secrertly I'd like to have an healthy relationship with someone I truly love
You're better off than many other people who are currently in a relationship, and just to be single like a Pringle. You'll find that somebody, they usually come when you're focusing on yourself.
For the first time in my life I can say that I, indeed, am in a healthy relationship. Honestly proud of my self (and my partner who has the patience to be with me, while making me feel like I'm no problem to handle at all)
me & my boyfriend have been together for 7 years.. we love each other so much and try everything to make it work. communication is key, not holding grudges is key, independence is key, and trust is key!
Thank you for letting me know who my gf really was. Also thank you for letting me know what I have to change about myself and who I am. So keep making videos because I like them and watch them every day and I’m sure other people do to.
I‘m happy that you‘re in a good LDR :D I happen to be in one as well :) while LDRs take more effort (« are harder ») than « normal » relationships, in the end, I personally find LDRs to be the most satisfying and eye-opening, because you get to know this person as who they are, not what they appear to be, because of the anount you talk with each other :) for example, I have been talking with my boyfriend that lives in a different country than me for about a year now and although we have never seen each other in person, through the many many many video calls and talks over skype and texts, I’ve come to know him better than if I would have met him where I currently live ^^ some people might find that strange, however I think of it as almost a way of being able to really know who it is I might spend my life with and if that might work :) in my personal opinion, I think that couples that have dated for a while (like 1 year and more) should try LD for a year, just to see if it work ;D haha, just an idea ;) I hope that anyone who has read this has a great day :D you’re amazing ^^ and you can do anything you want! :D
1. you communicate openly 2. you argue instead of just bottling it up 3.you keep relationship details private 4. you dont hold grudges 5. you have realistic expectations 6. you take time and space for yourself 7. you trust each other 8. you enjoy spending time together 9. you're friends 10. you make decisions together
I've never been in a healthy relationship. Even though finding a healthy relationship is number one on my bucket list, the reality is, I believe I'll always be alone and lonely till the day I die. I had a adverse childhood, which I believe gave me severe attachment and trust issues with others.
1) you communicate honestly and assertively; everything is laid out on the table 2) you air your grievances in real time; you argue effectively you apologize 3) you keep relationship problems public on social media 4) you let things go after talking things out 5) you have realistic expectations: commitment, open communication, compromise 6) you take time and space to yourself 7) you trust each other 8) you enjoy spending time together 9) you’re friends 10) you make decisions together 11) sex, love language, and courtship 12) you love the other for who they are, not who you want them to be
We talk openly, we argue and apologize, we're happily public, we don't pressurize each other, we have our own freedom in limits, we enjoy every moment together, we were and are always first best friends then lovers, we decide together, we're attracted to each other same as earlier till now and forever, we help each other every time needed....guys....we're school time lovers, together since 6 years 😍😍😍...I'm just too happy to say this!!! ❤
This made me tear up and really thankful for my boyfriend. I've been in toxic relationships and it's amazing when you find someone who doesn't drag you down in any way. Wait for that person and don't settle for less.
Nicole R i feel the same way! so important to have someone holding your hand as you go instead of trying to hold you back
You beat me to that comment! I was in tears just thinking about how happy I am to have my fiancé and to share so many of those qualities with her.
Awe congrats
Also, make sure that you're being that person too. I like to think I'm a good person in a healthy relationship but I've slipped up on a lot of these 12 things before, and so has she. But we talk it out and assume the best of each other
Nicole R I felt this one . I’ve been in way to many being an empath we just attract the wrong souls.
Most of these naturally occur if you're in a relationship with your best friend. Friendships that evolve into romantic commitments appear to be the healthiest relationships imo.
Ryder Sonthestorm idk the relationship I ended up having with one of my closest friends was a very toxic one. We were on and off for about 4/5 years, but we’re on good terms now and she’s in a new relationship and I’m getting married in June.
the relationship i had with my best friend was bad because we lost attraction over time. being best friends doesn’t mean it’s going to be healthy. i’ve had much healthier relationships with people i met as potential partners initially.
Ryder Sonthestorm I started out friends with my significant other and we’ve been together for nearly 7 years. I’m so happy (:
Totally agree, my best friend became my girlfriend and we're having the best relationship we can have, I think the secret is to keep being best friends, no matter if you're in a relationship now, it is just an extra that makes both of you happier.
I think if the 2 friends are emotionally healthy and suitable for marriage/partnership it’s a great prospect. Some people can be great friends but not cut out for marriage.
I'm proud to say that I'm happy/proud to be in a healthy and sweet realationship❤😊
A fellow Army! Happy to see you're doing good in life
Same here :))))
Maria V. Lopez you mentioned proud twice in the same sentence lol
Maria V. Lopez so happy for you!
Same 😇🙌💯
1. you communicate openly
2. you argue sometimes
3. keep relationship problems private
4. don’t hold grudges
5. realistic expectations, commitment and open communication
6. time and space for yourself
7. trust each other
8. enjoy spending time togehter
9. you are friends
10. you make decisions togehter
11. you get intimate
12. you make each other better
thank you your a beauty
My girlfriend and I are have all of these. However, sometimes trust falters and insecurities arise on my part. I take those situations to think about how I can improve myself
That's good man, keep it up (✿^‿^)
Kobi Conner I’m going through the exact same thing, identical actually. Whenever things happen that expose my insecurities and trust issues I try to take the situation to improve how I think and what I should do to handle it better. hope ur doing well my man
@@joshan5716 I'm great, bro. Thanks for asking
You're amazing by doing this
@@maisamarques6877 thanks
I am proud to say that I am not in a relationship
We are proud of you too.
A relationship about boy/girl or a family relationship?
weneden same here mate but not proud about it. What I mean is I am proud to admit it but not proud or happy to be in it. Am still just trying my hardest and best to make it work. Energy is fading fast though
Psych2Go thank you! You guys have an amazing channel and I always love to watch all your videos as soon as I can!
princess flaming Firegirl ?
My husband and I have been glued at the hip since we were kids! We've been though everything together from struggling through a long distance relationship to life threatening illnesses... I can't stress enough how important it is to Talk to your partner, trust and love them! And always remember to be silly from time to time... We just celebrated our 14th aniversery together ... and we've never forgotten to tell each other "I love you" every single day 😊
Ha.Ha. I've seen "better" trolls than you! 😝
HAHAHAHA 😂 I told you that I've seen better trolls than you!!
Hive five Animehayato 🤚
r/incels
@@broadwayzjm5257 exactly
Marrying your siamese twin? Weird flex but ok.
When you are single but still enjoy the video
Yeah it can be relationships of all forms :)
I feel you...
I just have a relationship with myself
I have a really bad taste, I know
so pigmented that’s me
Keep to these steps and you'll find your perfect mate. :)
Anyone else realise their parents literally do NONE of these. --------edit : kind of concerning that 2 THOUSAND people relate to this are y’all ok lmaooooo anyways I hope everything works out in your families I will be praying for us
Perfect Storms except arguing
Think of it like this. When you grow up in a way that makes you hate almost everything about your childhood, it makes being an adult so much easier and more enjoyable because you have the foresight to make the active choices to ensure your life never goes back there. :)
Russian Bot 441 that’s a really nice way to put it, I just wish it didn’t have to be this way, you know?
Janka Husvetyova I was going to mention that, but it just hits too close to home 🥺
Preach sis 🙏
Something that I love about this video is that the two people in the couple are drawn in a way that makes them gender neutral. I just think that it’s a really nice detail.
cringe
I agree! It's a really easy way to make it inclusive.
Chazefez Dude, I say about being gender neutral and accepting during pride month, and you think it’s cringey? I applaud you, I really do.
Shut up
knowledgeis read the comment above you.
12 signs you’re in a healthy relationship
1. Transparency
2. Argue
3. Keep relationship details private
4. Don’t hold grudges
5. Realistic expectations
6. Have space
7. Trust each other
8. Enjoy spending time together
9. You’re friends
10. Make decisions together
11. Get intimate
12. You make each other better
At the end my now ex wife figured out how to make pointless dramatic battle out of all of them. It was morbidly entertaining to say the least.
Goals!!
That's the dream relationship😊
I refuse to waste my time arguing ever again...so I guess that means I’m saying no to relationships
1, 2, 3, 4, 5, but no other....Failed
What do you do if they dont want to grow and be the best them they can be, but get aggressive and see any criticism as an insult? Because you should "love them as they are", even though they clearly have some things to work on that are affecting you
If I keep clicking on these videos, I'll never get any work done. xP
lol. Great. :0
I'm just waiting for my laptop to recharge never hurts spend your time learning like you have
Psych2Go Hi, i just wanted to know how do i actually go out with someone. Like, i don't wanna see anything cliché like "will you go on a date with me". I wanna know how people actually ask someone out on a date and then become a relationship
Same, except I just gotta go shower. But ughhh I keep seeing more catching titles on the "suggested"
665 + my like :0
After 2 different abusive relationships I'm so happy to be in a healthy, long-term relationship. I can come to him with anything and he supports me in every way. ♥️
I'm so happy for you!!!
Hailey yayyy 💗
😀❤
Funny, I also had 2 different abusive relationships and now I'm in a healthy one :)
(I am not saying abusive relationships are funny, just that the consequense is)
Awesome!
It took me two failed relationships to understand this. I healed and I have found happiness within myself first and now I can give it to my partner.
thats so true, first you have to love yourself before you can love someone else
I hope yall are doing ok stay safe in your relationship and always try to feel loved
One year ago I was in a relationship that barely met 3 of those points. Now I‘m in a fresh relationship (2,5 months) that meets almost all points. I love it.
Good luck for you!
The best of life for both of you! I've been there about 3 years ago, and I'm still teared apart from who i am, but I'm working on fixing it with help, and your comment has gave me happiness and hope. Thank you, i wish you nothing less than the best!
I wish you badddd luckk👿💀
Me too
SarrySammy ❤️❤️❤️
I envy people who have a healthy relationship. Living life being tormented by toxic friends isnt living at all
No this is Patrick hey, you wanna talk about it?
Nah im good
people are going to hate me for saying this but i envy people who live surrounded by terrible people. I think I deserve that more rather than this good life. i constantly try to make myself suffer.
No this is Patrick Try talking to new people then
If they’re toxic, they’re not true friends. I had to cut myself away from a big group of toxic people that I use to call friends but I feel a lot lighter ever since I cut them off. You will too when you’re ready. :)
13: They are capable of flatulence in your presence.
Doe 😆😆😆😆😆😆😆🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆🤣😆🤣😆🤣😆🤣😆😆😆😆😆😆🤣🤣🤣 YESSSSSS!!!!!!
Doe 😂 EXACTLY! Burps too😄 Bonus points if you rate/score them as they come.
Shout Silence oh my goodness yes!!!! Definitely burps and rating them too!!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
My boyfriend farts like no ones business. He announces it afterwards too
Alyssa Walker 🤣🤣🤣🤣
who here is in an actual healthy relationship!??
viviana ✋✋✋✋
TVDEdits that’s good , i’m glad !
viviana me
I am
I am!☺
My boyfriend and I haven't argued yet. We disagree but not argue. Five months now. Should I start an argument?😂
Edit. I can't believe you guys thought I was serious this was a joke. Also he turned out to be cheating.
//SuperAsh4U//, that’s stupid as hell
That’s what the video meant... disagreements. Not arguments, they definitely mis- worded.
@@MyOwnWrld999 maybe she's being sarcastic?
My boyfriend and I have never argued either, we've been together almost 10 years...
@@MyOwnWrld999 you must be fun in parties
I saved this video in my watch later section a long time ago. I was in an unhealthy relationship at the time and I was scared to watch it because I didn’t want to admit it.
I’m with a new partner now and we check all the boxes. It’s the healthiest maturest loving relationship I’ve had ever and I’m glad to finally be happy.
I may not be in a relationship, but I do take these notes with friendship wise
Punah T that’s so true! I was thinking the same!!!! 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗 which is why the healthiest relationships start as friendships!!!
YOU GET INTIMATE.
Same
I have vitiligo since i was a 6 years old girl. That affected so much and i had no selfsteem. One day (on christmas) i said that i wish i could find finally a boyfriend (as a joke). Later that night i met the guy that now is my best friend and boyfriend. He made me look myself through his eyes and i started to loving myself, he's been with me in so many difficult and beautiful moments. We travel, we do plans together, we play videogames but also he goes out with his friend ans so do i. We love an trust each other and i think he is the best person i could find ever!
@Sejal S N What's vitiligo?
Maru Alfonsin 👏 aye!
JustAlpha it's like when you have blotches of different colored skin all around your body lol. That's the best way I can explain it, but if you're interested you can look it up yourself
@@spooks2170 Like camo? Hm. I'll just look it up to avoid annoying you.
Good Luck and God Bless !
I really appreciate the fact that you guys address the negatives too rather than just filling it with nothing but only the positive
Zooer balance is key!
I've been crying for the past 5 minutes /pos
I've finally found someone that isn't going to abuse me. I'm finally In a healthy relationship. I feel like I'm dreaming. Thank you for opening my eyes to this.
So I met this new guy. We cried on our first date. We laughed and we had a great conversation. But we are not physical there for each other. But he loves me and I love him. And I wanna be with him. But I’m scared that he’ll hurt me because I’m not available physically for him. We both are gay and I’m a bottom and so is he. But our emotions are so strong and it’s beautiful.
Don't be afradi to live and take risks at something new. Life is weird and thats the thrill of it. Hope you are great now after 10 months. 😘😘💕
no offense but i was choked when you're saying "we both are gay"
btw ur story is beautiful ^^
If I may...what does I'm a bottom and so is he mean?
@@niknik5380 shhh 🤫 not everyone believes in the fantasy world of heaven and hell and that a big man creator is just looking over the world letting bad things happen while he’s up in the heavens chillaxing. Makes no sense.
@@dianalove539 God isn't just chilling in Heaven letting bad things go down. We all sin, that's why bad things happen and we can't just erase that sin.
*Personally, Trust is a huge thing for me with relationships. I've always dealt with people not trusting me due to my very open and somewhat flirty personality.*
LunarStellar
Well yeah if youre flirty...
You'll find the one, I'm sure. I have a flirt personality. Sometimes I don't even notice I'm being flirty until someone points it out. I don't mean anything by it, that's just part of my personality. I found someone despite that though. We have a great relationship, going on three years! There are moments where we argue but we talk about it and that just makes us stronger. I can say with confidence that i trust him and he trust me. So don't be discourage, you'll have someone by your side. It will probably happen when you least expect it.
Well, if you flirt with many people at once, once cant trust you to stay loyal and commited can they? Flirt only with the one you like.
I'm an enfp so people think I'm flirting when I'm being myself and friendly. People take a while to understand but once they figure it out we're fine.
It can definitely be a struggle at times, I am the same and since it's my personality, i dont realise if my actions are flirty or not. Now i have found someone that after trial and error and communication, knows that's just who I am. And he has learned to trust me. I want him and only him and it makes me really happy that he trusts me to be myself, cause I dont know how to act any other way and i wouldnt want to, I want to be who I am
Sigh. In a world full of people out for themselves I can’t wait until morals, values and loyalty trend again 💯
We can make that trend. Our community is quite big. Let's make that happen. You guys just have to suggest the topic ideas.
Getsomevagisilfordat I feel like in west world dating is more scary because of Feminist propaganda (falsely gigantic rates of rape) and female privilige of believing them about rape accusation before trial even begins. False accusation can deal a lot of damage to man even if trial find that it is false. So both men and women are more afraid.
Gleb Strelets 100% this is gonna offend some people but there’s too many snowflakes ❄️ out there. If it does, cry more 👌 I’m blunt & brutally honest, nothing less. When I invest in someone I invest fully and whole heartedly. I live with my soul and love with my heart. I’ll do anything for my significant other without expectation, just because. I know my type is rare. I’m the furthest from a simp 💯 Now. These days too many simps which are everywhere are investing in these princess syndrome socially conditioned Kardashian thots who bring little to nothing to the table while giving them all the attention. I could go from many angles and say a lot. There are also those rare women out there instead of little girls who are the majority, you just have to know where and what to look for. Unfortunately with social media and being an influencer (I own several businesses to say the least) I know what’s fucking good. Very rarely are people using what they have for positivity. “Success” is subjective for the most part besides logistics etc. It’s how you react to certain things and what you do with them. Some people are literally addicted to negativity though and don’t have the same heart as you. So, you gotta love yourself enough to do things your future self will thank you for and appreciate what you have before time makes you appreciate what you had. The whole, my cup is overflowing so it can help others statement. Not dogma, not ego, not living in fear. Just real, love and abundance. That’s a minimal bit of what I wish was trending 🔥🤷♂️
Psych2Go my opinion, I appreciate you so far. I would break down each I guess, synapses, category, word, quote, thought (thot lol) etc into specific variations or tailored to a specific subject but also broad. Meaning the whole social engineering trend, fuck it.
Each person is a different universe within themselves so each “reaction” will be different. Butt. If we’re talking the undeniable root, core, basis of things and then multiplied upon. Just maybe it’ll spread some positive vibes. You uplift people with unbiased facts 💯 respek 🔥
Psych2Go tangible meaning, one video idea could be What is loyalty, where does it come from? What does it actually mean? Your comments section would most likely have everyone’s opinions on loyalty or at least a better direction of what they’re looking for
11. You get intamate.
"Okay, what the heck are you going to draw here?"
Toongeek45 honestly same XD
Sorry to be, mean but
That’s not intimacy, that’s just fucked up. Why can’t people love each other without being fucked up? I doubt it’s love if that’s involved.
But they said that’s not just sex
@@sgracem2863 Still crying in ace
@Elliot Rodger hey elliot
I'm proud to say that I have a healthy relationship, I love him and I'm so happy with him❤️
sandy y’all still together?
Lucky u
i’m 17 and me and my bf do all of these. we were best friends before dating and still are. i’m so grateful to have him.
Same here
Same:)
We are a bit more close than the regular couple it seems many friends and co-workers just won't believe how much we really want to spend time together, how little we disagree, how much we do for each other and how absolutely unselfish we both are in our relationship. I only want what's best for him and vice versa. Of course we argue at times but those are usually just moments of miscommunication and won't last for more than ten minutes. We are truly each other's best friends, and have been for over ten years! And we can comfortably do our own stuff while sitting right next to each other. I am so thankful for our love!
Wow 10 years! You should make a video or a blog or something about your relationship to help others who are in a unhealthy relationship to learn them (and also me) about what's healthy so we don't make the same mistakes over and over again
You’re so lucky, that’s such a great feeling
Are you married? :)
same with me and my boyfriend!
Great! Bless you
this was probably my favorite art style! these were very helpful tips.
Danielle Thanks! Joy has been with us for a very long time, and is incredibly talented :)
I really like this art style too :3 it's cute
I completely agree. This art style is the best. It's cute, simple, and doesn't give the characters ethnicity so that you can see yourself in any of them. :)
Definitely! 👍
Watching this video made me realize... how lucky I am. We share just so much together, I know I can trust him anytime and I know I can tell him anything and he will understand me. I'm so grateful I was able to find the best person in the world for me.
I love my boyfriend, and I hope I can stay with him for all my life. And you guys are amazing for doing these videos, keep up the good work
Irieru you are really in love
Irieru yeah, I'm truly lucky aswell i realized.
My boyfriend is amazing, it's in his nature to never be angry and eveb if he was upset, he would just go to his room and do nothing. We soon have our one year anniversary and we never argued once.
I can tell him anything and he understands. I can trust him completely. He is disgusted of the thought of cheating.
I love him so much and he knows.
Not to mention, he's very poetic; i feel like in a shakespeare play. Hehe.
Im so happy for you 👍
Irieru i feel the same with my girlfriend, we are both very open and trust each other to the fullest
I felt pretty confident about the relationship I'm in right now, I was sure it's a healthy one, but seeing this made me even more confident and I thank you for this and all the other videos :)
If all this is true, this just told me that I am in the first healthy relationship I have ever had, thank you.
I never had a relationship but i am still happy that the expectation i have for one arent completely off. I often feel like everyone else wants to find a good looking partner and their personality comes only second.
As people get older, that is less true. But of course, everyone is different.
Not only that. While usually men wants a good looking woman, women want man who is rich. Even though the man and woman has earned enough for themselves
I'm glad to say that after all my unsuccessful tries with love I've finally found a good one. Because of all my past relationships I found it hard to believe that I would ever find someone right for me and who would treat me right, make me happy, etc. If anyone who's reading this also has that belief, dont worry. I understand your reasoning for thinking that. But just know that eventually you will find someone good for you, it may not be soon, or someone you expect, but it will happen, trust me, I know. It took me 7 failed relationships within 2 years to finally find the right one. I'm happy now and I hope everyone reading this also finds someone who makes them happy or already has someone who makes them happy.
Same pinch .. I had 4 before
It took me 16 failed frienships in 5 years before I found a true friend in university and she's a super close best friend of mine
Just1More Wallflower thank you!!!!
Thanks man!
This hits home
I'm a lucky individual. All the boxes are ticked. Our 5 core factors are:
1. Communication
2. Respect - Note: This isn't submissiveness, rather we have factors about each other we admire
3. Integrity - We are who we are around each other, and don't do things to jeapordize the relationship
4. Honesty
5. Trust
Yep, can't complain
My boyfriend and I are working on how we “fight” it’s more we just take things too personally. Currently we are having a hard time because money but we are more just stressed. I want to push him to be his own independent person, get hobbies and to hang with his friends because I’m pushing myself to do the same and I don’t want him to feel like he’s wasting his 20’s and I’m scared I’m gunna waste mine too
My boyfriend and I have many of these in our relationship. But we never argue. And let me tell you this really turned into a problem! I always used to think we where perfect because we never got angry at each other about anything but I now realize I just never talked about what bothered me and kept everything bottled up in order to maintain harmony. It left many important things unsaid and is putting our relationship in danger now, because I feel like I made way too many compromises.
“Fixing is not the same as supporting.”
What a great line. My boyfriend has accused me of trying to fix him before, which is not what I’m trying to do. I like myself better when I’m with him, and I know he likes himself better when he’s with me. Next time he says something like that, I’ll use this line :-)
My boyfriend and I do so many things of what you said in this video, for the first time I feel great being in a relationship that has no abuse , dominant , neglect etc. Thank you for making these type of videos and keep it up!
I wonder out of 1000 couples, how many can reach this "ideal" state
We argue sometimes but we always get it fixed the same day
As someone who got the score of 11/12, (because we don't argue and come across more agreements), this made me feel so confident in my relationship. Thank you so much for this.
This actually made me quite happy because I’m getting married in June and the majority of this was true.😊
x.babyxogirl.x
Congratulations!! :)
Congratulations !
What is not true?
Congratulations!
Wishing you guys nothing but the best
I'm so blessed to have a boyfriend that works as hard as me to keep our relationship happy and healthy ;;w;; I know a lot of people don't get this kind of happiness and fulfillment from their relationships unlike me and my boyfriend and that makes me upset that it can't be so. I just hope that everybody can experience what it's like to be loved and to love someone who is willing to work hard on their relationship.
Well, It should be both sides...
Happy to finally be in a healthy relationship, going on 4 yrs strong ❤️
I'm in a really happy and healthy open relationship with my current partner (open relationship because I'm asexual and not at all jealous, being able to love more than one is absolutely fine and wonderful). Everything on here we match up........... except fighting. We don't really fight, more just talk about different opinions for a while.
One year going strong, I love them so much
So grateful to be in a healthy relationship ❤️
Can't be in an unhealthy relationship if you're not in a relationship
WeSmart
Haààaaaaaa like this one!
So true man, soooo true.
but you cant be in a healthy relationship if youre not in a relationship either....
Not true. You also have relationsships with friends and family, and even though this video didn't aim for those kinds of relationships, most of the listed things are also important there. You may be single, but you can still have fucked up friendships and so on.
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Me and my boyfriend’s 4 year anniversary is tomorrow and I’m proud to say that we’re still happy and healthy 😊 the key is communicating, you should be able to talk about anything to your partner even if it’s about them!
well technically there is the perfect partner: the one that YOU see as perfect
Trash Can Gaming many people in toxic relationship refuse to see how bad their partners are to them, and think they're perfect, while they are actually abusers.
When you’re in love you don’t see them as perfect, you see their flaws and accept that they have them.
No one is perfect, and when you love someone you are aware of their flaws but what makes them great makes them perfect for YOU despite those flaws.
i agree!! my gf is perfect for me, we are soulmates ❤
Nope you can’t say my boyfriend or girlfriend is perfect because when he or she makes mistakes you are very disappointed and that isn’t good for a relationship accepting mistakes or marks your boyfriend or girlfriend has or does is one way to get a strong and good relationship !
Transparency.....yes
Argue.....yes
Relationship details private....yes
Don't hold grudges.....yes
Realistic expectations....yes
Space own self.....yes
Trust each other......yes
Enjoy time together.....yes
We are friends......yes
Decide together.....yes
Intimacy......yes
Make each other better......yes
Oh really?We are in healthy relationship❤️May god bless us❤️🙏
I am beyond lucky to have a relationship with my husband that exhibits these traits. He is my favorite person in the whole world.
I hope everyone out there can find a person who loves them just the way they are. Everyone deserves love. I wish you all luck, friends ❤️
Me and my boyfriend have grown so much closer this last year from having our first arguments, to needing space or a cuddle sesh. Watching this really makes me feel happy to know that our relationship is healthy.
My boyfriend and I check off all these things. I should send this to him.
He is a simp
I agree that being friends is a big part, for me atleast. I've just started to meet a guy. We started out being friends, we hanged out and were just talking and became friends. We got comfortable with each other. We argued about stuff and laughed together. And later on it just happend naturally that we kissed and were intimate with each other. No one had so say anything haha.
For me this happend because I was singel for almost a year to find myself and to be the person I wanted to be. And I hade patience to actully get to know a guy who was genuine intrested in me as I was in him. So my tip to you guys is not to run after a relationships. Rather focus all the energy on yourself and enjoy life, on the way you will find relationships that will be much better than the once you force.
We tick most of those. From the start we promised to be kind and respectful to each other and we always have been. Neither of is perfect but we are right for each other.
one of my closest friends and i are working to turn our once toxic relationship into something healthy for us both. it’s a long road with a lot of ups and downs but after watching the episode on being toxic and this episode i can see we’ve made a lot of progress together and that gives me resolve to keep working at it together
I am actually glad to see and learn what a good relationship feels like. I need that in my life.
I'm lucky to have a healthy relationship even when I'm dealing with trust issues because of what happened to my parents. Thanks for my partner who always there for me 😌
This makes me feel good about my relationship. It’s nice to know I’m actually getting this one right.
started from an unhealthy relationship 2yrs ago. now we've thicked all of these healthy relationship signs!!! love sure can change everything💕
Im happy to say I am in a relationship that follows these things. Sometimes we stray from it during arguments but it always ends up with one of use apologizing and learning from it.
I love that this made me feel secure about my relationship. We have problems, like any other relationship, but we can communicate and let them go. I love her so much!
i’m currently going through the same exact thing. are you guys still together ?
@@dom5102 We're not, but I think it was for the best, honestly. She ended the relationship and after that and a lot of therapy, I realised it wasn't a healthy relationship. I hope you can communicate and stay with the person you love. ✨✨✨
I am in a relatively new relationship. But I can see it is a good one as we already practice a lot of these 12 points, on our own initiative and desire to learn from the past relationships to make this one the last romantic relationship for both of us. This video makes me very happy. I will thank her for sending it to me.
I'm proud to say, all of them. After having a toxic relationship. My new relationship does do all of the above and that made me smile, it made feel proud. It also made me see, we're doing it right.
My husband and i are hooked at the hip and neither of us would have any other way! We have been married for 34years. Must be doing things right.
It’s incredibly satisfying to watch this video and know I have all of these quality’s with my partner and it’s amazing. There’s nothing better than being with someone who accepts you for you.
I ve always been attracted to psychologie and stuff like this,but because of this channel I now understand a lot more, and I'm now totally sure on what I want to do in the future. Thank you
bee boi didn't consider that I can be not English so not having a PERFECT English?
Are you french ? Because you write psychology in the French way
Nady 22 & in dutch
You guys are so inspirational
No, you are the inspirational one. Thanks for watching.
My ex and I were exactly like this! We're still best friends to this day ❤
Why is it your ex tho?
Flip well, I was 20 at the time, a freshman in college. I guess I wanted to explore more (in every aspect). We were together for almost 4 years and I guess it wasn't what I wanted at the time. I know that with time the relationship morphs into something different from what it was at the beginning but that's not what I wanted. I didn't want to settle down that young. I wanted the butterflies in my stomach, I wanted to know myself without him, I wanted to figure out what I wanted in life... that stuff. We ended i great terms tho
same, my ex is an amazing friend and we are very supportive of eachother
@@larouge9395 Your story made me sad :c
@@squeezytuna isnt it the best? ❤
I'm only 14 but me and my girlfriend do all of these things . We've been together almost a year so far and hope to be with her for many more .
Awesome Squad wow that is honestly awesome. I hope you all the best, and when you start growing as individuals, don’t grow apart from each other, because that is the most common thing of why young couples break up! :) in those times, remember that communication and space is KEY.❤️
Monika Žukauskaitė wow thank you so much
Just got out of an unhealthy relationship. I'm so happy seeing these comments about their healthy relationships. It gives me hope.
I’m going to use this advice for a platonic relationship as well 🤷♀️ it works well for both
Except for sex
Me and my boyfriend do all of these things everyday, I'm so proud of that...
You argue everyday?
@@jadew6795 what the... No ahahah
We are absolutely friends. Despite our age, we still love arcading in the mall, playing video games at home and watching animes. So yeah, I guess we are pretty much in the right track base on these signs.
I feel so happy. My partner and I check all of these boxes. I’m grateful for finding this person, my person.
This really made me think about my boyfriend, and I think that I really love him, and I am so happy for this relationship we have.
This pained me seeing this, it really solidified how unhealthy my past relationships have been when I realized we had almost none of these traits.
I am single like a pringle and I always say I don't need a boyfriend..
* whispers * but secrertly I'd like to have an healthy relationship with someone I truly love
You're better off than many other people who are currently in a relationship, and just to be single like a Pringle. You'll find that somebody, they usually come when you're focusing on yourself.
That’s nice
I wish everyone will have a healthy happy relationship ❤
The best thing about this is I can actually say that I can tick every one of these boxes and that makes me so happy I wanna cry rn 😅😭🥰
For the first time in my life I can say that I, indeed, am in a healthy relationship. Honestly proud of my self (and my partner who has the patience to be with me, while making me feel like I'm no problem to handle at all)
i really like THIS art style and the voice ;(
When you realise that you practice these 12 signs but your partner does not.
Get out of that girl
That was me with my ex. Please don't, i know what that means... Hope you left him...
i feel devastated, we're no longer toghether.
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when you realise cat ladies can only blame others and see no responsibility on their part
12/12
I guess im so lucky with my boyfriend. We are in a relationship for 5 years now.
One of the best ways to get into a healthy relationship is to first right a wish list of musts with qualities and beliefs the person must have.
Why
@@caribaez5711 Here is the answer ua-cam.com/video/zczdarNWtQg/v-deo.html
I love your feedback
me & my boyfriend have been together for 7 years.. we love each other so much and try everything to make it work. communication is key, not holding grudges is key, independence is key, and trust is key!
I watch these videos a single pringle
*I'm learning*
The Color Red I used too as well! It helped me start my first few relationships. In one I’m happy with right now!
Thank you for letting me know who my gf really was. Also thank you for letting me know what I have to change about myself and who I am. So keep making videos because I like them and watch them every day and I’m sure other people do to.
I'm in a good long distance relationship! :D
Pensexual13 •w• Im also in a long distance relationship And it can be hard so its good to see people that enjoy it !! :3
Pensexual13 •w• *Oof I'm in no relationship* My best friend is my crush but she's straight and I really want a girlfriend
kk Saya yeah, its really hard. Especially since I live on the other side of the world..
gay girl sorry for you, i hope one day you will find your perfect girl!
I‘m happy that you‘re in a good LDR :D I happen to be in one as well :) while LDRs take more effort (« are harder ») than « normal » relationships, in the end, I personally find LDRs to be the most satisfying and eye-opening, because you get to know this person as who they are, not what they appear to be, because of the anount you talk with each other :) for example, I have been talking with my boyfriend that lives in a different country than me for about a year now and although we have never seen each other in person, through the many many many video calls and talks over skype and texts, I’ve come to know him better than if I would have met him where I currently live ^^ some people might find that strange, however I think of it as almost a way of being able to really know who it is I might spend my life with and if that might work :) in my personal opinion, I think that couples that have dated for a while (like 1 year and more) should try LD for a year, just to see if it work ;D haha, just an idea ;)
I hope that anyone who has read this has a great day :D you’re amazing ^^ and you can do anything you want! :D
1. you communicate openly
2. you argue instead of just bottling it up
3.you keep relationship details private
4. you dont hold grudges
5. you have realistic expectations
6. you take time and space for yourself
7. you trust each other
8. you enjoy spending time together
9. you're friends
10. you make decisions together
We are best friends. We don’t argue though, we have discussions sometimes but we’ve never yelled at each other.
This is beautiful to hear Im a self aware vulnerable narcissist who wants to change this helps thank you psych2go
I've never been in a healthy relationship. Even though finding a healthy relationship is number one on my bucket list, the reality is, I believe I'll always be alone and lonely till the day I die. I had a adverse childhood, which I believe gave me severe attachment and trust issues with others.
I have the same. Work on your posititivty and Selflove then you will attract people you can have a healthy relationship with 🖤
Daniel C omg I’m the same but keep in mind there’s someone out there for everyone ! Stay positive
I love how calming and comforting your videos are. Especially the likely voices and the pace that gives us time to think. Thank you 😊
1) you communicate honestly and assertively; everything is laid out on the table
2) you air your grievances in real time; you argue effectively you apologize
3) you keep relationship problems public on social media
4) you let things go after talking things out
5) you have realistic expectations: commitment, open communication, compromise
6) you take time and space to yourself
7) you trust each other
8) you enjoy spending time together
9) you’re friends
10) you make decisions together
11) sex, love language, and courtship
12) you love the other for who they are, not who you want them to be
We talk openly, we argue and apologize, we're happily public, we don't pressurize each other, we have our own freedom in limits, we enjoy every moment together, we were and are always first best friends then lovers, we decide together, we're attracted to each other same as earlier till now and forever, we help each other every time needed....guys....we're school time lovers, together since 6 years 😍😍😍...I'm just too happy to say this!!! ❤