Fitting Into Korean Society in Seoul. Is It Really Possible?

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  • Fitting Into Korean Society in Seoul. Is It Really Possible?
    Living in South Korea has been a ride. I love it here...all the good and the bad, has helped me to learn more about myself and to grow to be a more cultured individual. In South Korea, some foreigners think it is not possible to be fully incorporated into Korean society. For me, I think I am completely immersed into Korean society and culture, so I have a hard time understanding how if a person is living in a country, they can't fully participate in that country's society.
    Korean culture involves dating, eating, and all facets of living, being that if you are participating in these tenets, then you are participating in Korean society, In this video, I explore how foreigners living in Korea are already participating in Korean society just by living in South Korea. South Korean society is not a secret organization that must be secreted into, but is everything that you do during your life in South Korea!
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 39

  • @francoismarc3
    @francoismarc3  2 місяці тому +9

    If you are living abroad do you feel ostracized in any way from the general population? I may not be Korean, but I feel like I am completely involved in Korean society!

  • @blackbelt2000
    @blackbelt2000 2 місяці тому +10

    Bro, you accepted Korea with all its flaws. You are Korean to me.
    I went back and read that person's comment. Being an immigrant is hard in any country. Maybe he found it hard because he didn't want to assimilate.

    • @francoismarc3
      @francoismarc3  2 місяці тому +1

      Yooo, thanks for this comment:) I'm doing my best to survive wherever I go, bro haha. I'll have to wait for his reply to see what the deeper story is, but I think we started a great conversation to make us think:)

  • @wrldtrvlr4vr
    @wrldtrvlr4vr 2 місяці тому +4

    I don't think so. Even Korean Americans find it hard to be fully accepted in Korea. But it depends on what your expectations are. Fully integrated and fully accepted are two separate issues.

    • @francoismarc3
      @francoismarc3  2 місяці тому +1

      I also think it comes down to expectations. When I came to Korea, I expected to work, eat, and socialize with whoever I could and travel. Beyond that, I didn't expect much. In this way, I feel as if I fully participate in Korean society to the level of my expectations and for what my visa allows me to do. I am accepted as a person here, which is all I can ask for. Thus, my inquiry was with the comment made in a previous video about how he, as a man from Europe, did not think he was allowed to participate fully in Korean society. I think our expectations were different. Thanks for the comment!

  • @kiwioppaz
    @kiwioppaz 2 місяці тому +4

    Korean isn't just a nationality, it's more an ethnicity plus nationality

    • @francoismarc3
      @francoismarc3  2 місяці тому

      Hey! Can you expound on your premise than 'Korean' is more of an ethnicity plus a nationality?? This is interesting!

  • @skatingcanuck9837
    @skatingcanuck9837 Місяць тому +3

    Francois you have raised so many interesting issues here. Great content!
    1) Do you need to be a native?
    White and non-white Canadians love to ask me about my ethnicity to a nosy extent. White people are called "Canadian", but at the end of the day they are also immigrants. The only people who aren't immigrants in my country are Indigenous peoples (or at least they are the first peoples).
    2) Looking different is not necessarily a disadvantage. Milk it!
    I remember seeing online that a gyopo (member of the Korean diaspora) actually had a hard time finding a job teaching english in Korea. That schools would choose a white or black American over her because they seemed more "American". When I have travelled solo looking different has always led to people coming up to me helping me (that they would not do to locals). The gentleman on the Han river would not have approached you if you looked Korean. I say enjoy the advantages of standing out.

    • @francoismarc3
      @francoismarc3  Місяць тому

      I do enjoy the advantages of standing out as well, which is why I stay in Asia hahah. I'm actually making a video about the topic later
      Point number one was spot on. This is why I always say European-Americans if I am comparing 'Real' Americans to others. I wish we didn't have the prefixes...
      Your comments are always so well thought out! I really appreciate the value you add to the content!!:)

  • @7oclock239
    @7oclock239 2 місяці тому +3

    I think it's up to my mind. If I feel not accepted, I won't be fully accepted anywhere intheworld. If I feel and act like accepted, I am fitting in the society. I will be accepted. I believe so.

    • @francoismarc3
      @francoismarc3  2 місяці тому

      I was thinking this same thing today! If I feel accepted, then I can be accepted. If I don't feel accepted, then I won't. This is logical thinking and I respect this opinion!! Thank you for adding a positive message to this content:)

  • @wooreetea
    @wooreetea 2 місяці тому +4

    I agree with your ending comments. As an international person you can fully participate in Korean society, but you will not be considered Korean.
    Which is different to most western countries which have had a history of immigration.
    In time, once Korean society gets comfortable with immigrants, they too will start to accept “others” as Korean. With its declining and aging population this is going to be inevitable.
    Therefore keep up the good work of promoting diversity in Korean society.

    • @francoismarc3
      @francoismarc3  2 місяці тому +1

      My sentiments exactly. As time goes own, Koreans will, and have in small degrees, begin to consider "foreigners" as Koreans. As the older generation phases out and the population declines, maybe Korea will have no choice but to change their minds on this matter. Thanks for this constructive comment, my friend!

  • @jinlee863
    @jinlee863 Місяць тому +1

    In the past, there was discrimination, not discrimination, because there were no foreigners, but now there are more foreigners and Korea seems to be becoming a multiracial country.

    • @francoismarc3
      @francoismarc3  Місяць тому +1

      I can definitely understand that. Maybe Korea has opened up to quickly for everyone to become fully acquainted with globalization and immigration from many countries. This was a wonderfully constructive comment. Thank you so much.

  • @ItzSKYVlogs
    @ItzSKYVlogs 2 місяці тому +1

    Yooo great video France! I really liked this one.. I didn’t fall asleep at all. Hahahaha

    • @francoismarc3
      @francoismarc3  2 місяці тому

      Yoooo, SKY Monies!!! Appreciate you pimping for not sleeping during the torture hahaha You a real one lol

  • @Jeonyggo
    @Jeonyggo 2 місяці тому +1

    한강 날씨 정말 좋았다!!😝👍🏻🌿

    • @francoismarc3
      @francoismarc3  2 місяці тому +1

      맞자!!! 그때 날씨가 너무 좋았어!!!

  • @bbbha1966
    @bbbha1966 Місяць тому +1

    New Phrase "Foreigner Privilege"

  • @BrianCatalano
    @BrianCatalano 2 місяці тому +1

    There seems to be some difference between participation and acceptance...
    In Korea it sounds like participating in the culture is fairly easy but being accepted into the culture seems like a more novel adjustment (because it's both a new feature to the society and a relatively rare one) but since Koreans are more generally polite that it's possible to be accepted if you're fully participating.
    Whereas, in America immigrants also can fully participate but it depends on where they immigrated from as to how quickly they get accepted (sadly).
    Yet, in places like in England, immigrants are accepted faster than they participate in English culture--which is a massive problem in and of itself.
    The ideal ratio should be something like, the more you participate the more you are accepted... on a 1:1 scale.

    • @francoismarc3
      @francoismarc3  2 місяці тому +1

      Woah, there is so much to unpack and discuss here. It seems like there is a fine line between being accepted by Koreans and participating in their society. I know I didn't do this topic justice, but hours are needed to discuss in detail. I like your 1:1 ratio. This reply has given me food for thought and perhaps a research assignment...Thanks a lot hahaha:)

  • @user-hh4ym3tz1w
    @user-hh4ym3tz1w 2 місяці тому +3

    인터뷰 하는 사람이 누군지 멋지네요

    • @francoismarc3
      @francoismarc3  2 місяці тому

      ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ 저는? ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ

  • @hanarum1234
    @hanarum1234 Місяць тому +1

    If you are able to vote for the country. Then, 100% of participants

    • @francoismarc3
      @francoismarc3  Місяць тому

      Oooooooo, I like this logic! I didn't think of that!

  • @4456cccfr
    @4456cccfr 2 місяці тому +3

    Seoul is nice city.
    Pls,Come back to Mongolia,This summer go to Choibalsan city in Mongolia.Because it is really beatiful.

    • @francoismarc3
      @francoismarc3  2 місяці тому

      Seoul is a very nice city:) I will come back to Mongolia this summer to the Ara Festival!!!

  • @dl4703
    @dl4703 2 місяці тому +1

    There goes the neighborhood

    • @francoismarc3
      @francoismarc3  2 місяці тому

      Lol Foreigners!

    • @dl4703
      @dl4703 2 місяці тому

      @@francoismarc3 pretty sure no country wants ghetto boy ruining their peace and quiet

  • @minikim-xh3jy
    @minikim-xh3jy 23 дні тому

    노래방에서 추가시간을 얻은건
    외국인이라서 그렇다기보단
    노래방주인을 잘만나면
    한국인이라도 추가시간을 줍니다 ㅋㅋ

    • @francoismarc3
      @francoismarc3  18 днів тому

      ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ thank you so much for the comment!!:)

  • @NikosDelight
    @NikosDelight 2 місяці тому +1

    Can you say Mongolia ?

    • @francoismarc3
      @francoismarc3  2 місяці тому +1

      Hahahah can't wait for this summer there! It's gonna be a blast!!!

  • @HomoLamarckiens
    @HomoLamarckiens Місяць тому +1

    United States of America (also Japan, United Kingdom, etc.) is blessed GEOPOLITICALLY being surrounded by sea and isolated from neighboring hostile countries.
    Whereas Korea (also Vietnam, Finland, Baltic States, Poland, etc.) has been constantly invaded and threatened by its neighboring superpowers such as China, Japan, Russia for several thousands of years throughout its history. Korea has incessantly been invaded by foreign enermies outside.
    The Korean ppalli ppalli culture clearly shows the alerntness of the Korean people, with which our forefathers successfully kept its territory, identity, and sovereignty.
    If ready to sacrifice yourself for the sovereignty and prosperity of Korea, then you will be acknowledged and accepted as a proud Korean citizen.

    • @francoismarc3
      @francoismarc3  Місяць тому

      Thanks for this comment! I'll consider the information carefully and add it to future content:)