Dissing a Co-Worker
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- Опубліковано 16 жов 2024
- The plaintiff says she loaned her co-worker some money, but the defendant became hostile and aggressive when the plaintiff asked for repayment. Bottom line, she wants her money back, so she’s suing. The defendant says the plaintiff started assigning hard tasks to her at work, so she complained to HR and the plaintiff got suspended. She claims that’s why she’s being sued.
Case: 31-264
People just suck. I lived with my supervisor for like a year. We had no issues. I left owing her a couple hundred bucks and paid it a couple weeks later. To this day we are friends and I greatly appreciated her opening her home to me, why can’t people just have common decency.
Nothing good will ever come her way. She took complete advantage of her supervisor. Lowdown heifer...
way to go
Especially owing another individual, your other bills can wait but pay the person.
Yes in your case that's a true blessing.... maturity at its best
consciousness wouldn't allow it.
Wow, this lady telling all your business throughout the office and national TV. STOP entrusting people in the work place
I can attest to this from seeing it in various offices and being on the receiving end of this type of behavior.....say nothing to your colleagues about life outside of work.....
Exactly
@@EyeofRa41081 exactly
When are people gonna learn🤦♂️
I've had co-workers who only talk about their personal life, and nothing else. One was a real hypochondriac about every health issue. When she wasn't bemoaning her migraines, she was bragging about her house, her husband, her kids, her salary, her vacations, her new car, her connections, etc. etc. Then she would spread rumors in the workplace. I was so happy when she retired and moved out of state.
This whole situation is so messy!! This is why you keep your work relationships with co workers professional and that's it!
You can't totally be friends with coworkers, you just don't lend or ask for money.
I agree
IKR !?!?!?!? this wasn't messy this was the cold AND nuclear war....
Co workers are just that co workers. Not friends or family unless they can prove that their parents are siblings of my parents. Sometimes that doesn't count. Lol
@@GeorgiaWhisper Yes!!!
People always say “I never had a problem with paying the money back”. You wouldn’t be here if you didn’t have a problem with paying, you would’ve just paid it back if you had no problem lol 🤷🏾♂️
“I never had a problem paying back the money.”
They forget “it’s just i dont want to and I wont unless I’m forced to.”
Uh huh, suuuure you were gonna pay them back. That'll happen right after hell freezes over.
Some people are just so selfish!
Thank you exactly 💯
Facts
Exactly 👍!
Grown woman taking advantage of a young lady. Tragic.
She’s got kids around her age but needs to borrow from her
mmhmmm right exactly...smh
Right she need to be ashamed of herself she took advantage of her she working and broke need to go find the children father for money not her supervisor!
I was going to make the same comment. SMH she’s young enough to be her daughter.
She should spend more time brushing up on her pronunciation ie: “eggsedra eggsedra” etc….
I like how the defendant was like " you look like a fool" at the end, trying to save face... but honestly, the defendant made a fool of herself. She seems like an opportunist who thought a friendship with the plaintiff would get her favors of getting out of the parts of her job she doesn't like to do.
😂 i was thinking that. She’s saying you look like a fool while she looks like a 🤡
Right?! She started talking about "She gave all these other people these easy jobs and I was stuck cleaning?" as if being friends with a supervisor means you get the easy gigs.
Fuck all y’all y’all don’t know me
@Fribee83 YES !!!
They both needs to learn; when a person shows you who they are, believe them.
???? Really??? what if they're good actors??? I wouldn't lend ANYONE money that I just met or someone that was under me at a work place. If you can't get a loan on your OWN to fix/buy a car then you need to take a look at yourself and ask yourself why you're in the pickle you're in. I have ALWAYS put money aside for that ultimate rainy day because it always arrives and money is always needed.
The first time
I definitely agree
@@CharisToTheWheelerthe most important part of that advice.
They do needs to learn
That defendant has been a user for a very long time, and the plaintiff was her prey.
They both are users. They both tried to get what they wanted out of their younger counterparts.
Easy lick. But thankfully the young one isn’t a dummy.
"sHe sLePt with PeOpLe".... . You still took her money 🙄it was all ok while you got that money. "I nEVeR diSPuTeD" but you never paid her either 🙄🙄
I love the way you wrote what she was saying 👌 💯 ! Extremely accurate .
The Defendant was trying to throw the Plaintiff under any mode of transportation to HR.
Bus, train, car, boat...all of them!
😂 anything with an “axle” 😂😂😂
@@jomaro8 Yes girl! Smh.
@@KPbouj I gotta use that 🤣😉
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When you're friends with the supv and she tells you insider info and you suck as a person so you use it against her instead of paying what you owe.
This defendant is a pitty person and she will use any advantage she can to seek and get revenge!
revenge is the key word. You can tell a messy revengefull woman from a mile away. She didn't want to pay her back ,,,, period.
Revenge? She needs physical exercise besides working
As a supervisor, she shouldn’t have ever loaned out the money. The defendant is just mad that she has to pay the money back. Lawd, this keeps getting juicier. The plaintiff was dating her son. This is just messy.
Super messy!
Ikr
I always love how the one's who owes money always say, "I never said I wasn't going to pay." But you didn't. 😆
exactly! The defendant is the fool and was never her friend
Right 😂😂😂
Rather owe you than cheat you out of it is what those usually say
@@sheilae.9670 defendant is a strange animal
my favorite was at the end when she says “well you still look like a fool” haha um ma’am pretty sure you’re the foolish one here!
This is exactly why you should never lend any money to anyone. Never befriend your co workers keep boundaries at all times don't discuss your business personal or financial period. Let them go out get their own.
That’s low af. She’s so ungrateful.
I agree
I met my best friend at work and we have been good friends since. But id agree that generally speaking its not good practice to befriend ppl at work.
I had a friend for many years. We loaned each other money on many occasions and NEVER had any problems. She joined religion and slowly distant herself from me which was OK. I am not a religious person, just a person that lives by the Golden Rule, and I don't judge others. I cannot tell you what Jesus is going to do because I do not know.
Exactly, and some coworkers are lowkey pocket watching you to see what you money you are making compared to them and are sizing you up to perhaps take advantage of you or simply sh*t on you somehow. Learned my lesson long ago. I trust no one there. I work, get my money and leave.
2:04 do not befriend coworkers! Just make your money and dip🏃🏾♀️
And dip FAST!
Thankyou sis
Strongly agree
Omg you don’t need her to make you look bad 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️ you did that alllll by yourself.
The judge was so over this and Douglas was like..she cannot be serious???
If anyone asks me for anything more than $20 and they're not part of my immediate family, it's usually no. Unless there is a horrible emergency and they're asking everyone and not just me.... oh and the defendant doesn't need ANY help looking bad. 🙄
Not even $20.00, for most will never pay back, friend or not.
Same. And I don't expect it back.
@@Jessica.Rachel That part. Neither do I... it's too stressful.
Exactly
If you do give them that or more promissory note will always work out in your favor and if it gets to where you need to sue just cut ties once your money comes back to you
Defendant: I never disputed I owed the money
Me: then why haven't paid?
When will y'all learn not to engage with coworkers beyond the scope of your job requirements? As a supervisor, you should not be loaning your subordinates money or providing them favors, friend or no friend. You should also not befriend or borrow money from your supervisor because if things don't go well, they can make your job difficult or cause you to be terminated. They are both in unprofessional. Both of them should get terminated.
THIS!!!! The people that I work with are not my friends and all communications stop at exactly 3:30pm when I clock out. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Lots of ppl end of friends with coworkers and everything is fine. You’re just seeing the times when it didn’t go well and thinking it’s like that all the time but it isn’t. I’ve been friends with all my supervisors and hung outside of work. If anything happened outside of work that was negative I left it there and we moved on and we’re professional. Ppl can do that but it’s hard when someone is a drama Queen and petty like this lady!
@@mamathemeat I am well aware that people can befriend coworkers/ supervisors and even date them without it affecting their job or creating a hostile work environment. The possibility of things going wrong still remains. I’d rather avoid it altogether.
@@Nevaeh1 well yeah there’s always a possibility things can go wrong with anything in life :) fair enough - your choice. I loved being friends with ppl I saw everyday and laughing and enjoying life
@@mamathemeat For those friendships to work, it requires healthy boundaries, effective communication, and the ability to separate your friendships from your work relationships. Some people are incapable of doing that. They’re not even capable of having healthy friendships with people they don’t work with.
Sometimes I think the workplace is just a bigger High School. That's why people want to work from home!
Absolutely
Didn't want your son dating her and told him not to...they're grown so she's right she cannot stop them from talking. But she had control over what was happening in her house. You let her come and stay over and got yourself a ride to work. Good day ma'am.
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Whenever I wasn’t home at work most of the time she would still go after I asked her not to
They always REFUSE to pay and then in court they pretend they are happy about being forced to pay.
Exactly
Pretending? Not I never didn’t want to pay her so stfu
Or they are countersuing for harassment because the other person is asking for repayment.
The defendant is a liar and her reaction to being found out was immature. The judge and hopefully most people don’t buy her stories, but she will continue to lie.
Lady how do you have a 13 year old child who already failed his grade and has to go to summer school in order to get promoted and he is just allowed to miss days and you let it happen? No child of mine is allowed to just lay out of school!
Mine were homeschooled! Perfect attendance...lol!
19 and 26 is a BIG age difference mentally. I’m 26 and I would never entertain a ‘boy’ who’s 19! Why would you want to date someone who can even drink legally… girl 😫.
EMBARRASSING!
This was the part that stood out for me. I’m disgusted
For real, that's a baby to me lol
Right! He out of high school and you almost out of college. Hell no. That’s a big difference. She’s pitiful herself.
@@chadiasika253 🙄 as long as he’s of age, them dating should be no concern to you.
The defendant is a user. It's like running around in circles with her.
The Defendant is a great example of why you should not make friends at work.... especially on different levels!
Added: Oh no-- everybody should know it's too dangerous to hang out with a co-workers son....I don't care how good he looks...erm, I mean how nice of a guy he is.
Also added: in all my working years, I've only made 2 friends from work-- 1 male and 1 female. I got very lucky with them.
Yes why be cold at work just aim4peace literally be kind all well be fine 1 is there most of the day
This being said sometimes they die and feel far but could say dont get close to anyone then which isn't realistic so ya
Really this case was the lady never paid
The defendant is too old to be talking about doing something for clout. Ma’am pay that lady. And the plaintiff hopefully learned you can buy friendship start saying NOOOOO
She looks like one of them old lady’s that’s on live all the time. Old ratchet chick
I actually believe what they BOTH said about each other. But you can tell the defendant is ignorant and childish
Not the defendant trying to say a cash app transfer before the loan was given was for the car loan 🤦🏽♀️ you gotta lie better than that!
Right!!! “I think it was in April...” 😂😂
Defendant:
"she just wanted me to make me look bad"
Nooo lady, you did that all by yourself
Douglas facial expressions are cracking me up 😂😂😂😂
You can tell the plaintiff is an honest kind hearted young lady. Shame on the old lady trying to take advantage of her. I hope everything is going well with the plaintiff. I would love a supervisor like her. The defendant would throw her mama under the bus. Trifling
Yep, I remember when I worked at a daycare and my coworker’s car broke down and her and her young daughter had to take the bus to and from work. Me and the coworker were cool, we hung out etc so I didn’t see anything wrong with dropping her and her daughter off after work (she gave gas money). I lived 3 mins away from the job, she lived 20mins away. I got off at 3:30, she got off at 5. I would take her baby with me when I got off so she could finish working. This was the routine for about 2 months, until I ended up quitting the job after my boss wrote me up for taking an extra day off after my mom graduated from college (they wouldn’t give me a raise or a vacation in the 3 years I worked there, NEVER took a day off). After I quit, I still offered to drop her and her daughter off. She stopped talking to me instead.
I’ll never be that nice again.
Dang I’m sorry. You were more than kind - I don’t understand why you were treated this way. It makes no sense.
Sorry that happened
No good deed goes unpunished. Hope that the plaintiff heeds Judge M's words.
If someone or co-worker loan me 2400, I would be overly grateful and pay it back; however, her attitude is that the plaintiff has extra money she is entitled to regardless
This is why you set boundaries at work. Keep your personal and professional life separate, this case is so messy! The defendant is airing all their dirty laundry on national because she defaulted on the loan…messy…smh!🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
Can we get an “Officer Macintosh Cam”? Everytime they cut over to him, his face say exactly what we’re all thinking! 😂
Lol.. no no no she doesn’t look like the fool lady!!! You do!! Carrying on like that🤥… trying to make HER look bad for loaning you money for a car when you were in need!!! Wow!!! Some people🤔. The judge saw right through your non-sense, tryna make her look bad to HR… come in now?!?!?!
The plaintiff used the worst judgment ever. Most companies caution managers of that type of behavior. Working for the federal government outlines very strict policies on your employee/management relations. Even then, people still get into trouble. The defendant was a trifling old, bitter woman. I found in my career, some older people have a hard time listening to younger managers, even if they are qualified. Now that I am the older woman in my office, I act as a mentor rather than a combatant with my younger coworkers regardless of title. It is not easy, but the rewards have outweighed the mishaps. It also helps to have a good reputation from jump so that your integrity can never be called into question.
I'm 26 and there ain't no WAY I'd even be near a 19 year old.
My bf is a year and a half younger than me and that felt huge to me. 🤣
Yet the society is ok with fathers dating youngest daughters age. 🙄
@@kimmie2679 no they aren’t 😂
I love Douglas' expressions....
Once she said the plaintiff told her who the plaintiff was sexual with...I knew the defendant was trash.
The defendant is too old to be this pitiful.😒
A clue to the way Ms. White's mind works -- at least twice she said "She bought me a car", not "She lent me the money to buy a car". That's a quite different story.
I never lend money to anybody. And it makes me a selfish and happy person. 😂
Doesn't make you selfish. Makes you smart! Even family will F you over!
Lol girl she had an attitude because she didn’t get her money back! And you should be more professional.
I don’t believe that the plaintiff did anything the defendant accused her of except help her ungrateful ass. Her job was hanging on by thread, so she tried to get the plaintiff fired to take the heat off of her.
@@Nevaeh1
You make a good point. She was awful this poor girl tried to help someone much older than her and got nothing in return but a big ass ungrateful heifer.
When ppl need money the person is a saint. Now it’s time to collect the person is the devil.
For any loan over $5, get a promisory note signed by witnesses with a schedule for repayment.
Nah. Maybe $50 n up. Anything under that I won't expect it back & I will let them know don't make it habit asking for money.
I just loan NOTHING to being with, it's not with the headache for me!!
This why I don't rock with people in my office. I don't talk to them about my business. I got a best friend and she has been rocking with me for 26 years.
I remember when I worked at a specific Cellphone Place (I was maybe there at least 1 Week when this happened) & 2 of my Co-workers asked me to go places with them (different times). One asked if I wanted to ride with her to grab Lunch & the other asked if we could exchange numbers then start hanging out to eat or whatever. I was like "that's nice of you but we don't know each other & I rather leave Work Relationships at Work". Talk about salty.. they started acting funny afterwards. Oh well. The ones who did hang out always were into it over he say/she say.
Sounds like my days at Verizon 🤣🤣🤣
It's hard to connect with mature people
Yup
Neither of these folks have any boundaries…
Lady, as soon as you said don't talk to her, that's all the "permission" he needed!! Of course they got together!!
I will never understand how some people can just use and abuse nice people. I couldn't sleep knowing I never paid someone back.
Chile, I'm not loaning NO ONE $2500!
Amazes me how people don’t have all these stipulations when they are taking the money from you but have so much to say when it’s time to pay it back. I won’t loan anybody money, IF I give any money I don’t expect it back you can have it! I don’t loan money I’ll miss, people are snakes and always have a story
Douglas' face after the defendant said her son and the plaintiff had relations 😯
Imagine being a whole grown ass lady out here owing money to this young girl. Pay your debts and get your act together!
Victory, for this young lady..”Respuchia” knew exactly what she was doing by taking advantage of her “co-worker”. She asked for money every chance she could..”she was like a virgin with a “sugar-daddy”..just couldn’t hold in her new found fortune, and had to tell everyone…when the young lady began seeing her son she took that as an “at home ATM”..Thankfully, Judge saw right through her “ghetto mess”. She’s at least in her 40’s..time to grow..especially when you show your face on a National Platform !
Not Respucha!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
You should talk take a look in mirror
@@sweetdreamsclan8009 you must be the defendant
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Defendant: “she too old to date my son” aren’t you too old to be taken advantage of her money and fame in her character on national TV of things that doesn’t have anything to do with the loan
THUMBS UP from the Plaintiff at the end... haha classic
I cannot help but wonder what the defendant thought would happen when she ran to HR? She had to have known she would have to spill it on herself, there was no way around implicating herself.
I am with JM, a good lesson in why fraternizing in the workplace is frowned upon.
Defendant showing her true colors here. As a grown woman why didn't you tell her you're not interested in office gossip.Smh
Doug is hilarious and always throwing shade. LOL! The defendant is 'still' complaining.
At the end, there was a winner and a fool. Justice served. 👍🏻
Never loan a co-worker money for they never want to pay back, since they do that to their own family members.
I don't think I'd want to work with Diana Ross she enjoys drama
For real. Messy-Messy.
No friends in the work place.. PERIOD. Can’t even put friends on to your job either. It’s unfortunate.
Yes! Hell, I don't even have Friends anymore. Drama-free & jealous-free (I know that's not a word lol).
That older one was outta pocket for asking her for money !!!!who does that
I met my best friends at work, and we're coming up on 11 years of friendship in 2023. So it's not unheard-of, and you can build lasting friendships. You gotta pick the right people. The defendant is just a user. Gotta have eyes wide open
What does her attitude have to do with paying her back !?
That defendant should be ashamed of herself... but yet she's absolutely not! 🤦🏿♂️🤦🏿♂️🤦🏿♂️🤦🏿♂️
The Defendant is a GOD AWFUL LIAR, if you gon lie then at least try to be good at it. She's someone who you DON'T ever want around you.
I agree her energy Stinks
Do not loan money to anyone on the job, not even a penny. For you all see the pettiness of the Defendant, when she is loaned money, and is needing to pay back, she went running and making up stories about her supervisor. Never be friends with your supervisor that way. Money makes people crazy when they have to pay it all back. And defendant did not like the fact that Plaintiff was dating her son. The defendant has issues, talking about her problems at home and about the loan and running to HR to brag about her issues that she cannot deal with. Bum
This is why you need to be careful about who you befriend.
Man, how many poor excuses could the lady come up with to NOT pay back her loan?
🤦🏾♀️ this is why I prefer working from home. I’ve dated men that worked for the same company it was a mess. All of the women at the job that he dated before me caused a huge problem even though no one knew it was me he was dating. Rumors began to be spread and we ended up no longer dating. We are still somewhat friends today. But I will never do that again
The defendant wasn't going to pay no more money.... defendant is a USER
Plaintiff must be a Virgo. She had her ducks in a row but it was her reaction towards the defendant at the end that did it for me. Lol
As husband & wife, the judge's personalities are such a great match! ❤️
This is off topic, but I just have to ask. Does anyone ever notice how when people stress their words, they go up in pitch? And make the word longer than it actually is? It kind of sounds like they are singing. An example of this is when the supervisor was explaining why she loaned the $100, she put emphasis on the words "help me."
It's annoying too. 👍👍👍
I've known women like the defendant. At the end she who she really is started to come to the surface. This is why less and less ppl do less for b others nowadays.
I love watching Douglas’ reactions 😂
I’m laughing at the bailiffs face when the defendant brought up her dating her son 😂😂😂
Dear Ms. White,
What did you do for the Plaintiff? I mean, she gave you rides, loaned you $2500 for a car, another $100 to fix it & gave your son $100 to encourage him in school.
She sounds like a horrible person!!
What did you do for her , to help her when she needed it?
Who else was there to give you rides to work , lend you money , encourage your sons?
If she’s a fool , it’s only because she wasted so much on an ungrateful woman.
The defendant is a typical user. SHAME
Good morning all. Even in 2022, people still have not learned about (not lending) money.
This is what keeps the courts full and judges rich.
She said no one really wins!! Haha actually she lost pay the lady.
How convenient for the defendant to air out all the business , like just fall out and keep it pushing, no need to air out ppl business smh
The defendant is too old to act like this. I bet that's a messy place to work.
She said she wanted it for clout! But it's her money she sounds crazy
Not this B saying she bought her a car, no she did not!
What a clown the defendant is. How you gonna say you shouldn't be borrowing money from her....but still take the money.
"You look like a fool " with the hand gesture 😂 . What a nonsensical piece of work ...
I learned my lesson having "friends" at work & won't ever make that mistake again. I don't even have coworkers as "friends" in social media. If someone from work friend requests me I just leave them hanging in the requests list 😆
Damn so the plaintiff was just giving that cash out 😂
You can tell the kind of person the defendant is from the beginning.
Even if money is owed I would not be letting her in my home regardless of how old my son is if in fact it's true.