The Thai Girlfriend Scam 💰 Pattaya Edition 2023 🇹🇭

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  • The Thai Girlfriend Scam 💰 Pattaya Edition 2023 🇹🇭
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  • @thaitalkwithdan
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  • @markperuzzi5055
    @markperuzzi5055 Рік тому +47

    Don't get involved with any of them just pay as you go when you're out there

  • @mynameisstilljafo4063
    @mynameisstilljafo4063 Рік тому +99

    It never ceases to amaze me the skill - and the patience - these gals have in playing their game. Some of them are like sleeper agents. being able to go months or even years before they spring the trap.
    But yeah, Tommy should listen to Dan's advice here. She's playing the long game. She might genuinely enjoy your company, but she's still about the business. Kudos to him for having his guard up enough not to get taken for a rinsing.

    • @ubiquitousdiabolus
      @ubiquitousdiabolus Рік тому +9

      When you grow up in a poor rural village, there isn’t much to do other than socialize. Everything moves slowly so these girls learn patience.

    • @ameliaplumringlets4388
      @ameliaplumringlets4388 Рік тому +3

      Edit these stories. While the running commentary is amusing, there are too many boring irrelevant details from narcissistic mongers who can't write. Edit!

    • @Fredthedog
      @Fredthedog Рік тому +2

      Yes long game for sure!!!

    • @grahammurray7426
      @grahammurray7426 Рік тому

      They ain't clever or smart. They are dealing with complete numptys lots of them have never even had a girlfriend. Easy pickings. I had a bar for years some of the things that happened would sound un true if it wasn't happening in thailand

    • @silly_hammy1
      @silly_hammy1 Рік тому

      ​@@ameliaplumringlets4388🤣🤣🤣

  • @Hrangue
    @Hrangue Рік тому +34

    I met a similar character in a gogo... 30, beautiful, top notch English, well traveled, dumped by a long time boyfriend, lost her business (interests) and just wanted to sort out her life. It didn't matter how many lies she told, my few truths were enough.
    1. Your happiness is on you. You can't look for somebody to make you happy.
    2. I'm not here to save you, I'm here to save me.
    3. I'm not bringing anybody back, nor having any kids or marriage in the US.
    After many hours on the phone, she was done. She realized that all roads to the long game were closed and she couldn't pretend anymore.

    • @Dutchy695
      @Dutchy695 Рік тому +2

    • @vipinbaichoo9003
      @vipinbaichoo9003 Рік тому +2

      Great advice for everyone buddy 😊

    • @miahconnell23
      @miahconnell23 10 місяців тому +1

      So, you got it all sussed out just via a couple hours on the phone ? Did she get mad upon the realization that the paths and modalities she would’ve steered towards were a “no go” ? Or did she maintain politeness and appreciate your candor ?

    • @Hrangue
      @Hrangue 10 місяців тому

      ​@@miahconnell23 She was mostly polite, but I could tell when she had enough. She told me, "you have a very strong personality." I just called her bluff on everything. (ie. A guy tried to barfine you and you didn't go because of me? You should've gone with him. Get your money. You want a Gucci bag? Good luck with that. You don't want kids? I do.)
      They expect guys to lie, but the truth doesn't need an answer. We still had some amazing convos. For the right target, she was a very dangerous woman. I just wasn't phased by her crying in-person or on the phone or how beautiful she was. I was phased by her intelligence and that's why we resonated. She was too smart to be in a gogo. I'm sure she told a bunch of lies and I could feel her plight in doing so, but as they say, "Once a bargirl..."

    • @miahconnell23
      @miahconnell23 10 місяців тому +1

      @@Hrangue sounds like you effectively looked out for your own safety, so good on ya’ for that, mate. I was curious if she expressed anger or dismay, because as a new-bie to dating, or whatever ya wanna call “looking for a long-term partner,” I can’t help but notice I keeping making girls angry. 😂 I’m reticent to “hook up” because I don’t wanna send the wrong signals. I’m sure I will have a physical relationship again someday if/when signs & clues tell me: “this is a good woman for you.” But in the meantime, girls’ egos get hurt when I say “no,” and when I don’t express thirst like a thirsty guy. Also, not texting back quick enough or often enough. This also seems to invoke a little anger. Thing is, I don’t do either of those things in a manipulative or contrived way: I just have a lot going on, and last time I got serious it was with a super smart-yet dangerous-girl, and only luck, chance, & happenstance saved me. Your response is enlightening, so I must thank you for taking the time to type it. 🙌

  • @TheRealFeechLaManna
    @TheRealFeechLaManna Рік тому +49

    I will never understand why anyone would keep contact with the girls after leaving Thailand. Just ditch the Thai sim-card, block on social media, and call it a nice memory!

    • @bighoss9705
      @bighoss9705 Рік тому +11

      Because they love to suffer 😅

    • @Tasmin280i
      @Tasmin280i 8 місяців тому +6

      If only it were that simple 😕

  • @neilyounan3241
    @neilyounan3241 Рік тому +38

    The trap has been set again 😂 Run Forest Run 🏃‍♂️

  • @vadikos_thai
    @vadikos_thai Рік тому +39

    Tommy it's just a long game she plays. Get rid of her or play as a customer_only. I had the same story and I'm happy it's over now. The far you get the harder it will be in the future.

    • @hecticdaddy8639
      @hecticdaddy8639 Рік тому +4

      thats my plan next trip, play as a freebie customer. should be cheap holiday with all the fun 😁

  • @patsvegas8983
    @patsvegas8983 Рік тому +13

    The reason why bar girls hide their face when a farang walks down places like the 6 vlogging, isn't because "they shy" or "bring shame on family in Isaan". It's because they have a boyfriend/sponsor somewhere outside of Thailand who is sending them money who is probably back home watching UA-cam videos on Thailand. They are fishers of men and its not catch and release, its catch and fleece. Steer clear mate, that's your best option.

  • @ilhacopa6575
    @ilhacopa6575 Рік тому +19

    These stories are fantastic! Just came back from a first time in Thailand (2 months) and these stories clear up a lot of things now 😂😂😂 I came out with little to no damage, but everything falls into place now! Great stories!! 😄

  • @aaaces01
    @aaaces01 Рік тому +22

    Hey Tommy, hope you are doing well. This lady had 3 Big Red Flags. Her un-completed home needs money, her loan needs money and she didn't take the Morning After Pill. The last one tells you all you need to know about the difference between what a woman says and what a woman does.
    Keep going at your peril.

  • @euromazing1
    @euromazing1 Рік тому +21

    I tested her….and she’s definitely different! Oh and she’s a stunner too🤦‍♂️
    P.S ….Need more screaming goats bro!!!

  • @mrsweeves7035
    @mrsweeves7035 Рік тому +15

    Make a fake FB account then connect to her, pretend to be visiting soon🤣🤣🤣 Then you'll know for sure.

  • @DiscoDrew
    @DiscoDrew Рік тому +21

    This story sounds VERY familiar.
    Run Tommy, RUN!

  • @BornSurvivor-xs7ee
    @BornSurvivor-xs7ee Рік тому +17

    She is playing the long game mate
    I have seen this done to my friends
    Be very very careful here

  • @scottmax4192
    @scottmax4192 Рік тому +11

    They can’t scam you if you don’t get involved. Let them know from the start that she is a bar girl to you, not a girlfriend. Tell her you want a different girl everyday.

  • @brianvesta
    @brianvesta Рік тому +40

    At 39 years old she has probably been doing this for the last 20 years...The fact she is almost 40 is a big turn off like a old 1980's London taxi .....

    • @picadosinferno
      @picadosinferno Рік тому +7

      She's trying to get her retirement and this fool is probably it.

    • @MichaelMitchell-ks5it
      @MichaelMitchell-ks5it Рік тому

      That us why need to have real local girl working G❤il
      I Want to have baby with my thai lady maybe since i am emp😮Ty nester
      I think good but it siunds like
      Lonly chap
      My
      Advise to him go into it full force.if you love her go full intib

    • @MichaelMitchell-ks5it
      @MichaelMitchell-ks5it Рік тому +2

      ​@@picadosinferno
      I am tired of games i want for real lady now
      Tired of being alone want ling term lady this time

    • @miahconnell23
      @miahconnell23 10 місяців тому

      @@MichaelMitchell-ks5it understandable.

    • @Mydamian55
      @Mydamian55 7 місяців тому

      Tommy old chap. YOU KNOW IT. YOU did say its a bargirl. In the UK you would call her a h**ker. And THAT she is all the way. Ever been to one in the UK and still chatting with that one? I:ll giess not. So keep chattong with her BUT ALWAYS keep in mind that she's a h**ker. No more no less. Pay her for her service what you want but don't fool your self that she feels something for you.

  • @davehood1514
    @davehood1514 Рік тому +9

    Best story I heard about something similar, an American guy met Thia girl, fell for her, went back to her village met her family (including brother) eventually proposed to her, paid for the biggest house to be build from them in her village, got married in the village big party, he paid for the lot, late on his wedding night the brother told him to fu@k off back to American 😳 the brother was her Thia husband, the village marriage is a sham
    And by the way thanks for the house 🏡

  • @PLATINUMSWORDS
    @PLATINUMSWORDS Рік тому +18

    "She worked at a bar" That was his first and main mistake. Use your brains fellas.

  • @balicrimechannel8143
    @balicrimechannel8143 Рік тому +17

    Tommy, as the old saying goes 'Never say never'. If you continue to see her, you will eventually end up doing every single thing on that list of things you say you'll never do. There's a couple of little things you say about her in your email that show that she's already got her talons into you emotionally and that's dangerous. If you're smart you'll walk away now.

  • @allangreenley9901
    @allangreenley9901 Рік тому +15

    Dan great story again as u say they are wanting big big money now no little bhatt . They going for a big hit . I was talking to a uk guy that was in relationship with one bar girl got serious with her. Long story she got 50000 bhatt out of him and disapeared after he gave her it.

  • @anonglakmoonwicha2726
    @anonglakmoonwicha2726 Рік тому +16

    'Only gone with 3 customers this year!' 🤣 'Had a falang boyfriend before ever working as a bargirl' 🤣 Brilliant! She has a script-writer!

  • @edwinneill988
    @edwinneill988 Рік тому +17

    Congratulations m8 on 12000 subscribers love it

    • @senianns9522
      @senianns9522 Рік тому +5

      If Dan has helped just 20% of these subscribers and viewers then that certainly is a better counselling service than most Embassies offer!!

    • @bighoss9705
      @bighoss9705 Рік тому

      ​@@senianns9522unfortunately the guys continue to be simps with the ladies here even knowing that they are being swindled. Go figure. But it makes for comedy entertainment and enjoyment for people like me 😂

  • @afdsvicosa
    @afdsvicosa Рік тому +20

    Why bother with sex workers??? So many single girls outside of pattaya and the tourist spots.

    • @hecticdaddy8639
      @hecticdaddy8639 Рік тому +2

      suits my wants in life. no commitment

    • @sorry9388
      @sorry9388 Рік тому +5

      For me in my 60s it’s hard to meet a girl in their 20s or early 30s unless they’re in the trade.

    • @marksallai2289
      @marksallai2289 Рік тому

      Yes it is hard now mate shocking but even western women in there 50s are picky@@sorry9388

    • @muziktrkr
      @muziktrkr 9 місяців тому +2

      Meeting women who are making their own money running a shop or have a job with a pension are the best to meet, as long as they’re unattached. So many are in bad relationships looking for “knight in shining armor”.

  • @thomascartmell3125
    @thomascartmell3125 Рік тому +24

    My friend is falling for the very same trap. Unfortunately he has already started sending money for her sick Dad. The difference is he hasn't even met the girl yet, he met her on Thai friendly. He is good mate and I feel helpless. Block her Tommy

    • @dmitriikurilov3662
      @dmitriikurilov3662 Рік тому +7

      Oh, I remember a girl on Thai Friendly who wanted money from me even before we met "because she had no money to pay her rent" 😂
      I blocked her for good and moved on with other girls.
      Honestly, some girls believe that we are completely stupid 😂🤣😂

    • @thomascartmell3125
      @thomascartmell3125 Рік тому +2

      That's what I'm worried about. My mate is 59 retiring next year, just divorced after 32 years of marriage he wears his heart on his sleeve . She is 37 and after 3 long weeks of talking he is traveling to Thailand to meet her family and son. I hope to god it works out for him 😬 exspesially because I recommended he try Thai friendly to him. I did this because I did it just for practice if I'm been honest, practice chatting to Thais before he travelled there

    • @dmitriikurilov3662
      @dmitriikurilov3662 Рік тому +1

      ​ @thomascartmell3125 I am afraid that 90% of profiles on Thai Friendly belong to prostitutes and con women seeking an opportunity to take advantage of gullible farangs.

    • @satindersingh-qj7hl
      @satindersingh-qj7hl Рік тому +2

      Wtf more money than sense 🤣🤣🤦

    • @manstarbig
      @manstarbig Рік тому

      There's alot od sharks and your friend shark bait....these girls are experts in grooming lonely guys and cleaning out their money slap your friend in the face and wake him up..before he loses all his money

  • @athitaya6898
    @athitaya6898 Рік тому +15

    IF, this girl was a Govt employee why did she take out a bank loan? As a Govt employee she has access to low interest Govt loans. These positions are highly sought after due to the benefits eg monthly pension and generous end of service payout. Not the sort of jobs people walk away from.

    • @hecticdaddy8639
      @hecticdaddy8639 Рік тому

      again i think its bollocks, she walked away because she split with her proper boyfriend and could not manage everything with the loan she had on her head too apparently

    • @John-rr9nq
      @John-rr9nq Рік тому +1

      She had probably maxed out her credit already with government loans
      It’s a huge problem in Thailand and the Bangkok Post covered it a few years ago (Huge debts accumulated by low payed government employees)

  • @hanglee5586
    @hanglee5586 Рік тому +11

    It’s the sane scam game in the Philippines 🇵🇭 lol 😂

  • @JorgelShmorgel
    @JorgelShmorgel Рік тому +25

    You need to understand that these girls (usually) have many customers. Some customers will just buy her drinks and maybe tip, some customers only do short time with her, some customers will do long time (one night) and she will have customers like you who will meet her for longer periods of time when they are in Pattaya. Chances are that she has one or two sponsors right now who are giving her a weekly or monthly salary. I have noticed with these girls that sponsors come and go so they are always open for new sponsors.
    She probably makes more than enough cash from her daily work and sponsors, and she likes you enough so that's why she isn't charging anything per day. In the end you will pay for hotels, transportation, food, drinks and entrance fees when you visit her. Since she is 39, she's probably also open for a nice farang to marry her. She understand that there are different men out there and she will use different tactics on them respectively. You are the "I am not going to give you a salary but whenever I come to Pattaya I will meet you" type and that is fine for her. If you understand and accept this, you can still enjoy meeting her in Pattaya. But unless you want to marry her and take her away from the bars, I would not take this relationship too seriously.

    • @rrb634
      @rrb634 Рік тому

      Sure enough she will start thinking why can't i get extra money from the lover boy as well? How come he get to FU me for free

  • @earthcitizen8537
    @earthcitizen8537 Рік тому +6

    There is also the baby scam where a girl will say they had to return to their village to give birth. They send photos of them holding the baby to the guy. I heard this scam was exposed when two guys discovered the exact same photo was sent them both claiming the child was theirs. It may or may not be true but it is worth bearing in mind. Always wear protection.

  • @paulmjprinz
    @paulmjprinz Рік тому +10

    Thr way this dude defends her red flags and bad history is actually comical.

  • @말랑말랑해요-m8u
    @말랑말랑해요-m8u Рік тому +7

    another helpful opening stroy, cheers mate

  • @notyohit
    @notyohit 2 місяці тому +3

    39yo bar girl in Pattaya who has worked there for 10yrs. 🤦‍♂ Worse idea ever. They will act in whatever way they think impresses you. Those girls have such higher body counts than you can even imagine. I talk to them all the time, and it's surprising! Some of the attractive ones average 5 customers per day.. not per year! lol. That's not 100s.. thats like 10s of thousands by the time she's 40. Completely distorts a women's ability to ever have a working real relationship.

  • @hecticdaddy8639
    @hecticdaddy8639 Рік тому +34

    Thanks for the advice Dan, Honestly thats the only long term conclusion I keep coming up to. I never trust anyone at the best of times and I 100% don't with her. She does know the score ive stressed it to her so many times now, she will get nothing out of me other than smiles and time, and she seems good with that. I know most of what she says is bullshit, I'm not that typical guy to get deceived by any means. Just struggling to figure this one out, i will revisit if we are still talking when im back next, but i can promise you and everyone else here she will not get 1 baht from me, you'll probably get a follow up story with a true conclusion lol

    • @senianns9522
      @senianns9522 Рік тому +9

      She's not your girl, its just 'your turn'!!

    • @anthonydavis1352
      @anthonydavis1352 Рік тому +3

      If you go back she will get cash from you, that’s if you see her again that is for sure, and it’s ok if you can pay enjoy.

    • @anthonywells6085
      @anthonywells6085 Рік тому +3

      Hey cheap Charlie. If you want to dance you have to pay the piano player.

    • @bartoszmaks1427
      @bartoszmaks1427 Рік тому +8

      Next time you meet her she will say that the bank is trying to reposes her nearly finished house and if you don’t help her she will loose a lot of money. Then you will crack and pay.

    • @christiansantiago7935
      @christiansantiago7935 Рік тому +2

      Just have fun! You're only going to be there for a relatively short time, so go crazy. Don't make promises or any of that nonsense. Just have a great time 😀

  • @tonicreal4853
    @tonicreal4853 Рік тому +12

    Should be shown on flights to Bangkok. Save guys life savings

    • @thewill-d3g
      @thewill-d3g 8 місяців тому +1

      Right after the emergency safety procedures

  • @Nttmf
    @Nttmf Рік тому +10

    Tommy, think about it this way. Think about your hard earned cash to buy a flight, hotel rental, food etc. Then, always remember a bar girl is a bar girl. They’re hundreds of thousands of them. Enjoy your time and move onto the next bar. Forget their BS, don’t get involved mate. Also, think of it this way. If you invested in a business and it went wrong, is a girl gonna send you money every month?

  • @internationalfranchisealli5547
    @internationalfranchisealli5547 Рік тому +35

    Oh man oh man..... when oh when will these guys ever learn. I can't even feel sorry for Farangs anymore. Blimey.WAKE UP PEOPLE

    • @underworldringside
      @underworldringside Рік тому

      UK

    • @Joe-mz6dc
      @Joe-mz6dc Рік тому

      Dude did you learn anything about the past few years? Millions and millions of people voluntarily allowed the government to inject them with God only knows what substance. Most people are pathetically stupid and that's just a fact of life.

  • @rosannaking7111
    @rosannaking7111 Рік тому +3

    Omg! Common!... I could understand if the girl was 18 or 19, but you stated that she's 39. No way bruh!. She's a pro. She's eventually gonna get you, big time!

  • @TonyKeepingItClean
    @TonyKeepingItClean Рік тому +9

    Thomas, I think you already know what’s happening. Some of these chicks are quite brilliant at getting what they want. You have got away lightly so far, and it sounds like you had a great time. If it were me, I’d stop while all the memories are happy ones. Good luck sir.

  • @theguynextdoor4978
    @theguynextdoor4978 Рік тому +13

    He should never be ok with her being a bar girl long term. He can be ok with the conditions temporarily, but they are usually not wifey material. A sweet ladyboy in Bangkok even told me: You're a very smart man. You save yourself lots of trouble by not going long term with women, and that she saw farangs cry while getting wasted after falling into the same trap time, and time again. History repeats itself.

    • @hecticdaddy8639
      @hecticdaddy8639 Рік тому +3

      oh dont get me wrong if i was looking for serious gf/wife etc then hookers are not the way to go, but im not, zero interest in a proper relationship for atleast the next 10 year

    • @howdo1govern995
      @howdo1govern995 Рік тому +5

      Was that before or after he booted you're back door in? 🤣🤣🚪🚪

    • @theguynextdoor4978
      @theguynextdoor4978 Рік тому +4

      @@howdo1govern995 LOL-
      In all seriousness.
      It was actually a very friendly barista in Starbucks. This was in 2012. She had a local partner, and we were just on friendly terms. If they are decent human beings, I don't care about gender or orientation. She even told me the same as most guys are saying here. Don't go for anything long-term with any of these women, or people in the bar industry.

    • @theguynextdoor4978
      @theguynextdoor4978 Рік тому +2

      @@hecticdaddy8639 I'm also not looking for serious stuff now after a hard divorce. This is why I also said short-term. Short-term as in arrangements where it's no long-term emotional investment.

  • @BiffBurns
    @BiffBurns Рік тому +3

    Great show Dan! Lot's of imformation. As alway's stay cool,kind and generous!

  • @davidsonrither6052
    @davidsonrither6052 Рік тому +5

    Congratulations Dan on reaching 12k subscribers 👌🏾👍🏾

  • @Sarcastro_78
    @Sarcastro_78 Рік тому +4

    The biggest, a huge, gigantic and monumental red flag was her saying she was disappointed not being pregnant. If that was never something they discussed or planned and she just said she hoped she was pregnant that is a walk away and never talk to that woman again.

  • @andrewvillarubia5454
    @andrewvillarubia5454 Рік тому +4

    When in Thailand never stay with same girl more than a day

  • @lessthanzero3373
    @lessthanzero3373 Рік тому +4

    Valuable advice you gave! Thanks 🙏

  • @ma96782
    @ma96782 Рік тому +10

    Angle = The long game

  • @gscranage4594
    @gscranage4594 Рік тому +2

    Well done Dan. These guys need your help!

  • @neburno
    @neburno Рік тому +2

    Exactly happened to me in Pataya, good thing I had a very nice experience for free, after she was searching for me in all social media

  • @andrewvillarubia5454
    @andrewvillarubia5454 Рік тому +3

    They all are very street wise very intelligent always a step in front

  • @АртурЯкубенко-ъ8е

    Those cutaways 😂😂😂

  • @Globaltravel9934
    @Globaltravel9934 3 місяці тому +1

    I was scammed with a few other guys just like this!! Stay away from a girl name Kathy in pattaya

  • @captureitlive
    @captureitlive Рік тому +6

    The stories are kind of empty, unless you start exposing their photos . Of course you'd have to move to a neighboring country , but Thai women , especially on the dating sites , automatically share your photos online and create false stories , 80%

  • @neilyounan3241
    @neilyounan3241 Рік тому +9

    It’s always the opposite , their photos are super super filtered I’m always disappointed when I meet them in person 😢

    • @jonhobson3592
      @jonhobson3592 Рік тому +4

      Very often yes true , but I was lucky , my gf looked better in real life 😅

    • @allangreenley9901
      @allangreenley9901 Рік тому +3

      I've had that problem meet them photos look amazing but in real time meeting totally different look . As u said filtered photos .. 👌

    • @neilyounan3241
      @neilyounan3241 Рік тому +3

      @@jonhobson3592 You were very very lucky 🍀next time it happens I will just get up and walk away and leave her standing there because it’s really becoming very annoying being tricked

    • @allangreenley9901
      @allangreenley9901 Рік тому +2

      @@jonhobson3592 that's great then better than photo I think some take bad photos but as u say better in real life meeting.. But most are opposite to photos

    • @stevenc5227
      @stevenc5227 Рік тому

      Reminds me of little Britain herro my name ting tong, you must be mr dudwee🤣🤣🤣@@allangreenley9901

  • @nikkimclay5474
    @nikkimclay5474 Рік тому +6

    12 k Dan 👏👏👏👏👍😎

  • @anthonyc92107
    @anthonyc92107 Рік тому +2

    She's playing the long game! I agree with you Dan. She is looking for a BIG payday! Run Forrest (Tommy), run as fast as you can! 😢

  • @drad5107
    @drad5107 Рік тому +2

    Lol, love the added humour vidz, what a crack up!

  • @stevemorris3751
    @stevemorris3751 3 місяці тому

    Good man Dan another great video I’ll be in Chiangmai in another few months

  • @Mranfunnee
    @Mranfunnee Рік тому +5

    These edits you do are Funny as, Dan 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @austinpowers1999
    @austinpowers1999 Рік тому +2

    Passport Bros are leaving the frying pan and jumping into the fire.

  • @gord8743
    @gord8743 Рік тому +2

    This bar girl will be playing numerous guys at the same time so “ multi tasking the farangs”….on the long rinse….don’t be a chump!!
    Well said and spot on as usual with your answer here. Good your a Utd fan too!! 🤔😉🇬🇧😎👺👺

  • @senianns9522
    @senianns9522 Рік тому +9

    " TOMMY CAN YOU HEAR ME"?

    • @hecticdaddy8639
      @hecticdaddy8639 Рік тому

      ? i dont get this lol

    • @John-rr9nq
      @John-rr9nq Рік тому +2

      @@hecticdaddy8639
      The rock band the who had a album and movie called Tommy
      Deaf dumb and blind kid sure played a mean pinball 😁

    • @Trace-l7k
      @Trace-l7k Рік тому

      @@hecticdaddy8639you must be a baby

  • @luvcakes2069
    @luvcakes2069 7 місяців тому +1

    While these men are lovestruck and trying to rationalize and make sense of the whole thing, their 'girlfriend' has already moved on with 5 other men and living her best life.

  • @oDANNYz
    @oDANNYz Рік тому +1

    Great vid Dan, love the extra vids added.

  • @Carboneye7
    @Carboneye7 10 місяців тому +1

    This is a systemic problem a poisoned dynamic between men and women.
    A man nowadays may be better off single until that once in a lifetime super special person comes around.

  • @simontemplar5506
    @simontemplar5506 5 місяців тому

    I really like your channel Dan! I also knew a Thai woman who seemed completely crazy about me, but at the same time she was crazy controlling! I'm a pretty cute guy and I'm into fitness! I understand your beautiful English accent, but Would it be nice to be able to choose the language of our choice in text when you speak to reach as many people as possible? thanks Dan

  • @michaelmichael8147
    @michaelmichael8147 5 місяців тому

    Big fan of your channel. Glad I found it.

  • @laisonalbarado
    @laisonalbarado Рік тому +2

    You can’t even talk about yourself without reading it from a card, really.
    THATS FUNNY

  • @tka1528
    @tka1528 Рік тому +2

    This story sounds excatly like a Thai woman I been chatting with online from Thaifriendly, 300k in debt and going bankrupt. She told me she moved to Pattyaya for work, I told her she needs to work more to pay off her debt because she started to hint about giving her money. I wonder if it's the same person?

  • @russellblake659
    @russellblake659 Рік тому +2

    It's the same in Turkey but it's happens mainly to older women . The really sad thing is it's seems to be mainly Turkish business men that do it to the women. The women lose all there money hundreds of thousands and turn to alcohol and death.
    The problem with all this is it also makes a un livable situation for everyone else as it's not healthy to live amongst sad depressed people.

  • @RomanVarl
    @RomanVarl Рік тому +4

    A professional long-run angler ))

  • @BambinoAmericano
    @BambinoAmericano Рік тому +6

    He was going unprotected with a bar girl? 😮

    • @AlexofCharmCity
      @AlexofCharmCity Рік тому

      Yup, Death wish

    • @BambinoAmericano
      @BambinoAmericano Рік тому +1

      @@AlexofCharmCity I was having those discussions on a Line group of “experienced” Pattaya freaks who claimed that taking a girl from Beach Road is not safe with respect to STDs. It seems however that Beach Road girls rightfully don’t accept unprotected. Whereas bar grils are often (very) drunk when they go, as well as her customer, and there seems to be more flexibility when it comes to protection. Be very careful guys, what was a moment of fun can become the worst nightmare of your life. Respect yourself and the others.

  • @jasonwhitman8365
    @jasonwhitman8365 Рік тому +3

    🙏 Preach the gospel

  • @MichaelMitchell-ks5it
    @MichaelMitchell-ks5it Рік тому +2

    I am glad he found nice lady

  • @gordonleakey6830
    @gordonleakey6830 5 місяців тому

    Done I will have a duty of a story coming for you soon.Thailand was something.I never thought I've ever seen before.I am from canada

  • @onlyme2030
    @onlyme2030 Рік тому +3

    The way to beat the long con is simple, keep taking the freebies and see how long before she does a runner, eventually she’ll realise you are on the take too. She’ll run and you’ll have had lots of fun!

  • @kennyboyz1
    @kennyboyz1 Рік тому +3

    Dude, she is way past her prime to be the best girl at her bar. She's trying to get you for more money. You lucky you didn't get her pregnant.

    • @brianvesta
      @brianvesta Рік тому +1

      That bar must be full of granny's..... Some of these guys love old bangers.....🤮

  • @Mranfunnee
    @Mranfunnee Рік тому +2

    When you think you are not one of those guys and you know more than them you are already in their web 🕸🕷….they have the ‘Play book’ with each and every type of Farang, and they know the moves before you do…. They will make you their Greatest Concerto 🎻

  • @mikehuge577
    @mikehuge577 10 місяців тому +1

    Cant add anything to your comment you said it all. Great video.

  • @davidglanville6216
    @davidglanville6216 Рік тому +2

    Love your videos and info

  • @scandicdream
    @scandicdream 2 місяці тому

    Oh, these guys, first timers…Always so understanding, so “depth full “, and so hard with the rules and demands….works out well for them, doesn’t it, always 😂😂😂😂

  • @chuey1313
    @chuey1313 Рік тому +4

    In P4PLand 10 years now. Believe nothing it's all an illusion. Hit it & Quit it...Risnse & Repeat. Neeexxt

  • @karlthecabbie
    @karlthecabbie Рік тому +1

    I got involved in something very simular ,, get out of it shes playing the long game ,before she gets your heart and she strikes .
    These girls are the best at fishing thell cast out a bait then wait for years before they strike ...good luck m8 your nit aline its easy enough to fall for their lies...😢

  • @paulcallaghan9585
    @paulcallaghan9585 Рік тому +1

    She's just filling her calendar for the year knowing she'll get paid & move on to the next & 100% theres others in her calendar

  • @Rio-mn1cw
    @Rio-mn1cw Рік тому +1

    Guys just tell the girl that you are also a butterfly!!! They will understand stand what you mean, just play the game as they play you

  • @Concernedpilgrim1881
    @Concernedpilgrim1881 8 місяців тому +1

    So a story. A friend went to Philippines. And met woman decided to marry her over a few trips. Brought her to America. He was renovating a house when it finished she took his dog and had the police evict him divorced him. I. The divorce she got the house and the dog. Then sold the house for half its value and moved back to the Philippines Geez. There you have it. This happened in Portland Oregon.

  • @gordonleakey6830
    @gordonleakey6830 5 місяців тому

    I look forward to part two tommy

  • @dextercool
    @dextercool Рік тому +2

    And this is a girl he shed a tear for? What black magic do these girls do? You couldn't make it up! "what is her angle?" Isn't it blindingly obvious?

  • @anniephan1044
    @anniephan1044 11 місяців тому +1

    Thai and phil girls are the same! Be careful guy!😮

  • @rg2613
    @rg2613 9 місяців тому

    This girl is good. She's very patient. playing the long game. It's no different than someone going to school for 4 years and not getting paid in exchange for a better future. What is several months to a year of playing this game?

  • @alan.s5773
    @alan.s5773 Рік тому +1

    The short game is to get $ from you. The long game is to get you to bring her to the UK or USA to live. Then soon she will dump you for someone with more $.

  • @martincoleman8755
    @martincoleman8755 7 місяців тому

    Listening to this and other videos just makes me think I am living it now.

  • @jarrodwilson2382
    @jarrodwilson2382 5 місяців тому +1

    Thanks to the brave people that send there stories in to dan about Thailand yes they made silly mistakes at least there story is being told so others can be aware of honeytraps some people are quick to judge before they jusge have they had toxic girlfriends have they had friends that told them there girlfriend are toxic an still kept seeing them lust love make you do silly stupid things

  • @gordonleakey6830
    @gordonleakey6830 5 місяців тому +1

    Mt thoughts Tommie If you're really confused and you're not sure what to do. I'm pretty sure you can probably hire a private detective. Somebody just to watch and then it'll give you some closure of what's really going on. I've had the same situation a little different but I don't see being a bad idea. It's always good to know you're 8. Hope that helps because it sounds like she's going for the big fish.

  • @johnr1348
    @johnr1348 Рік тому

    I know it's easier to see from the outside but yeah....run! She Is A Professional!

  • @mattykay7852
    @mattykay7852 Рік тому +5

    Just don’t trust anyone
    Simple ?

  • @liamharding5704
    @liamharding5704 Рік тому +4

    Ah Tommy ,,go to her, she loves u and she doesnt lie to u, plus she knows u are a true gent who wont send money wont pay for her albeit u gave her 10k coz u felt sorry for her plus she knows u are one in a million albeit u frequent down in soi 6 a lot... u are a true diamond in the rough,, she truly loves u

    • @bighoss9705
      @bighoss9705 Рік тому

      Yes indeed! She's a keeper! 😅😅😅

  • @travelnutlivelife5797
    @travelnutlivelife5797 Рік тому

    Yeah 100% agree wit you mate you’re emailer is being hustled with classic long game. Heard it all before ..Fatting up the lamb before the slaughter is what she’s doing , so don’t fall for it , get rid of this scammer mate. "Trust me" you’ll regret it if you don’t.

  • @guyvandercruycen2830
    @guyvandercruycen2830 5 місяців тому

    When you're in Pattaya sometimes i think wow they world misses out on lots of good actresses. Jub jub 😂😂

  • @raymondwebb2029
    @raymondwebb2029 7 місяців тому

    Boy some of these blokes are on another planet

  • @MichaelMitchell-ks5it
    @MichaelMitchell-ks5it Рік тому +2

    Thanks!

    • @MichaelMitchell-ks5it
      @MichaelMitchell-ks5it Рік тому +2

      Dan I hope to meet up with you at my Hilton hotel bar in Pattaya beach on November 7 if free to meet election day USA. I am hoping to meet with Thailand bound Peter I have not seen him online much lately . I want to meet both of you two at my Hilton hotel rooftop bar in afternoon if election day November 7 about 3-4 pm if free to meet me Michael us navy man from 7 th fleet ship
      Orient express afs4. Uss white plains ship

    • @MichaelMitchell-ks5it
      @MichaelMitchell-ks5it Рік тому +1

      I am glad malee still is waiting for me I think an kooksie an pim maybe waiting for me
      But good thing to know malee is not bar girl or free lancer to my knowledge?

    • @MichaelMitchell-ks5it
      @MichaelMitchell-ks5it Рік тому

      She is coming out with movie now did you know that Dan
      The new movie is called Pattaya dreams or sweet pattaya dreams?

    • @MichaelMitchell-ks5it
      @MichaelMitchell-ks5it Рік тому

      Dan I hope my super thanks helps . I am getting down to my end of my money this month .I am glad I got lots of other you tubers online to give me info about mybskl
      Future trips to pattaya

    • @thaitalkwithdan
      @thaitalkwithdan  Рік тому +1

      Thanks Michael 👍

  • @anthonynorth-iw5ih
    @anthonynorth-iw5ih Рік тому

    Totally agree mate.

  • @cfcrowley8494
    @cfcrowley8494 Рік тому +1

    She is twice an addict, 1st to the One Eyed Snake, 2nd to money and who knows what else. Run run run away oh oh oh run run run away!