Yes, it's okay to say no. I had a few girls asking me to buy them gold. I said no, if you want save for it, never asked me again. Now a simple dress or bikini, no problem but no designer shit. That for the rich farangs to ask them 😂😂😂
I wonder if this guy did any research before going to Thailand? Seriously expecting a bar girl to suddenly turn into the ideal girlfriend was very delusory, but with all the red flags why did he persist for so long?
A very good tale....And i have seen many of these backfire as you must understand and play by their culture too....As if you make a Thai or Asian "lose face"They really can become VERY violent and vindictive and will take revenge on at any and all times..You could be playing with "fire and consequences" you never thought would happen....Peace
he should have just walked away my last thail girlfriend robbed me l could have reported her to the police l never not worth the trouble everything go's in the safe now
I made a lot of rookie mistakes too but they were a lesson! There is only one bargirl I still have contact with. She never asks me for money so she doesn’t harm me. No she is not different because she goes with customers for money. I told her I don’t want to spend anymore money with other bargirls and that I want to do normal activities. Sad her English is not so good so she doesn’t understands me sometimes. Grts
A bar girl does'nt matter if you give 100,000 baht/month. She can still make 1000-2000 baht extra by going with others! Usually they have 2 or more guys sending them money. This was a free lesson. I even helped bar girls to write emails that sounds good and not only "my buffalo died and i need money", hahaha
The research is Extremely important but more than anything not being a man from the beginning could have helped him avoid a lot of the headaches he experienced.
This all comes down to one thing undeclared expectations. They're not married was there an expectation to be faithful and monogamous? Did he get engaged before all of this happened? You can't expect someone to follow the rules if they dont know what the rules are. Sleeping together a few times doesn't mean you'll follow the rules of a married couple. My suggestion, make a list of rules up front. Write them down and both agree. Otherwise you have nothing to complain about.
Don’t part with any cash it’s a game to these girls it’s her job , I love you , you so good looking any one can say these words but they are professional in what they do , they suck you up and spit you out
One - you are a customer. Two - learn to say no.
Yes, it's okay to say no. I had a few girls asking me to buy them gold. I said no, if you want save for it, never asked me again. Now a simple dress or bikini, no problem but no designer shit. That for the rich farangs to ask them 😂😂😂
@ericworst bar ladies not understand no.only yes to grab all your money & then say goodbye when your broke.on to the next victim
Any guy who gets involved with a bargirl deserves the show.😂
I wonder if this guy did any research before going to Thailand? Seriously expecting a bar girl to suddenly turn into the ideal girlfriend was very delusory, but with all the red flags why did he persist for so long?
Not 1 bit
Red flags 😢 some many omg
I don't think it's a real story tho
Didn't her name give her away??? "Ploy"!!! LOL
I still think standing up for yourself is a good thing. If he hadn't done so, that nightmare would have only dragged on.
A very good tale....And i have seen many of these backfire as you must understand and play by their culture too....As if you make a Thai or Asian "lose face"They really can become VERY violent and vindictive and will take revenge on at any and all times..You could be playing with "fire and consequences" you never thought would happen....Peace
Pattaya is not for the weak romantic types
Don't bother cleaning up honey, the door is opened. Leaving now is the best answer.
He wondered "should I change my locks?" YES!! Change the locks and then move to another condo ASAP.
He was lucky to escape the wrath of her family, it could have turned really nasty!
he should have just walked away my last thail girlfriend robbed me l could have reported her to the police l never not worth the trouble everything go's in the safe now
It's good he learnt to improve himself and move on. So many things to enjoy in Thailand and everywhere around the world.
Thanks for listening
In 'the hood' in the U.S. we have a term we say which goes like this: "trick azz mark, mark azz trick"
Lol!!!! 😂😅🤣
I LOVE these Super SIMP stories! Hilarious! 🤣😅😂
You touch the point, is not about Thailand, is the same all around the world.
this guy had no clue the entire family was in on it.
I got 2 week girl friend on my first visit and she murdered me , but I took it on the chin and my next holiday was brilliant, roll on December 🎉
The way you deal with situations like this, is you keep it to yourself, and do a moonlight flip...!😊
I’ve warned people about Thai girls about sweet talks in the past, but no one ever pay attention
I made a lot of rookie mistakes too but they were a lesson!
There is only one bargirl I still have contact with.
She never asks me for money so she doesn’t harm me.
No she is not different because she goes with customers for money.
I told her I don’t want to spend anymore money with other bargirls and that I want to do normal activities.
Sad her English is not so good so she doesn’t understands me sometimes.
Grts
A bar girl does'nt matter if you give 100,000 baht/month. She can still make 1000-2000 baht extra by going with others!
Usually they have 2 or more guys sending them money.
This was a free lesson.
I even helped bar girls to write emails that sounds good and not only "my buffalo died and i need money", hahaha
Good story
Nice bagground video of Soi Thonglor.
Shit happens in all countries not only Thailand
This dude, did
Absolutely NO research
Before going to Thailand
True. Not that uncommon though, or easily underestimated
The research is Extremely important but more than anything not being a man from the beginning could have helped him avoid a lot of the headaches he experienced.
This all comes down to one thing undeclared expectations. They're not married was there an expectation to be faithful and monogamous? Did he get engaged before all of this happened? You can't expect someone to follow the rules if they dont know what the rules are. Sleeping together a few times doesn't mean you'll follow the rules of a married couple. My suggestion, make a list of rules up front. Write them down and both agree. Otherwise you have nothing to complain about.
Don’t part with any cash it’s a game to these girls it’s her job , I love you , you so good looking any one can say these words but they are professional in what they do , they suck you up and spit you out
If you pay… she’s only going to fall in love with your wallet.
No problem. I am 70
This is an awful ploy for sure....
Hopefully this guy was renting the condo and moved ASAP.
Oooh oooh😂😂😂
Foreign guy busting his butt for money. Where. How.
well Ploy , never left the job . this guy .. gullible …. plus … he did the worse stupid thing … revenge ? for what ? rather than walk away .
heels over head not head over heels he was
What did he
Expect
A bar girl😂😂😂😂
He was desperate and stupid, the end 😂
Some. Dont learn😂
😂😂😂😂
Àsians are completly money mad.
Money is their GOD.