YOU'RE NOT LAZY: Why Understanding "Laziness" is Your Superpower

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  • Опубліковано 2 сер 2024
  • What if I told you that you’re NOT lazy? Maybe you struggle with getting stuff done…but is laziness really the problem? Today, we’re diving into why understanding “laziness” is your superpower! And it will probably change your life.
    If you’re trying to learn how to stop being lazy, how to stop procrastinating, and how to be productive….I hope this video helps you to maybe look at things a little bit differently and dig deeper.
    Hope you enjoy! ❤️
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    CHAPTERS:
    0:00 You’re Not Lazy
    0:41 Laziness might not be what you think
    1:46 Reason #1
    5:50 Reason #2
    8:19 Reason #3
    9:41 What if I AM just lazy…what then?
    11:11 The whole point
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 149

  • @salmaahmar5761
    @salmaahmar5761 Рік тому +117

    I totally agree with the idea that laziness sometimes is just your intuition telling you something , a sign that you are not in alignement with what you do

  • @ellebelle86
    @ellebelle86 Рік тому +9

    This video made me understand what two years of therapy couldn't. I'm not lazy, I'm not living in alignment with my values. Time to get my life back in line with what matters to me! 🙂

  • @felixpaniagua6018
    @felixpaniagua6018 Рік тому +16

    Lack of energy and some minerals in the body make me feel lazy, but when I'm 100% I'm willing to do everything

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  Рік тому +2

      True, health has a huge impact 🙌

  • @shreyasimhadri3863
    @shreyasimhadri3863 Рік тому +18

    I felt how much you care about spreading this message. You are an extremely intelligent, insightful and beautiful woman that I admire and I am so glad you posted this! I have never thought about my “laziness” in this way before. Definitely something to think about. I got my period today and I had all these things to do in my busy, busy life and I just had to choose to drop it all and go home and eat in my bed and go to sleep early. This video made me understand how I might just need to do less sometimes.

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  Рік тому +3

      Aww thank you so much! So glad you enjoyed it! I also got my period today and am currently writing this reply from my bathtub lol…so same!! 💖

  • @Ladybug_0912
    @Ladybug_0912 Рік тому +29

    Thanks Jillz, this video is right on time. I had many work achievements this year and I was also super disciplined in my workout routine, but it's November and my body knows it! haha.
    This weekend I stayed at home: cooking, reading, watching nice movies, without judging myself about "being lazy" and I'm starting to feel better. I always love your insights ❣️🏆

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  Рік тому +3

      So glad this video resonated with you! I think November and december our bodies love to slow down and do those fun fall holiday things 💕

  • @kennacraven
    @kennacraven Рік тому +20

    Been following you since 6k and this might be one of your best. I love what you are doing for women and am always impressed with the quality of content you produce

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  Рік тому +1

      Omg thank you so much. You have no idea how much your support means to me!! I put so much thought into this video lol so I’m glad you like it! 💕

  • @whywhy2873
    @whywhy2873 Рік тому +15

    This is something I was struggling with this week due to new challenges I am facing. This video was well explained and helpful :)

  • @estaciondealmas
    @estaciondealmas 9 місяців тому

    You are so right and you make me cry because that was my old version and she really deserves love..... thank you so much

  • @JyoSco007
    @JyoSco007 Рік тому +5

    I love your attire now. The colour is so pretty. You look perfect 👌

  • @sarrehm
    @sarrehm 8 місяців тому

    Sometimes it can also be self worth issues! I realized that in my entire life I’ve only been able to be semi-successful at anything I tried. It’s because of very deep rooted self worth issues even though I’ve always been very confident on the outside.
    I’ve learned that until I take time to completely address and change this, I will never be able to be fully successful in anything I do.
    Also it could be medical issues sometimes! it’s something to look into as well! (Could be nutrient deficiencies or other things) it’s always a good idea to mention to the doctor that you feel your slower than others- I wish I had done this when I noticed it in university
    :( many years after graduating I learned that I have so many medical issues that were leading to low energy :(
    Loving your videos ❤️🌷 can’t wait to watch more

  • @jasminlatifa5516
    @jasminlatifa5516 Рік тому

    I love this whole new perspective on laziness, thank you Jillz you are the best!

  • @princessbisous2439
    @princessbisous2439 Рік тому +1

    I needed this video, thank you so much ! You are wonderful ❤️

  • @KSStephany
    @KSStephany Рік тому

    Thanks you for doing this type of videos, I love to see you, I like it, it feels good.

  • @scarlettstark
    @scarlettstark Рік тому +1

    Thank you so much for understanding me♥️♥️

  • @sundaymorning9666
    @sundaymorning9666 Рік тому +1

    The timing of this was impeccable, I almost started feeling shitty about quitting school again but it’s true I think my intuition guides everything I do

  • @kaitlinroth7555
    @kaitlinroth7555 Рік тому

    you're a lovely speaker :) thank you for sharing with us.

  • @honeyjam9593
    @honeyjam9593 Рік тому +1

    Thank you 🫶 I’m gonna go in on some journaling and reflection about this topic. Honestly, I’m probably exhausted, after studying for 5 years straight already while dealing with a disability..

  • @taniyadulanjali6993
    @taniyadulanjali6993 Рік тому

    Thank you ❤️

  • @Nicoleliestsogerne
    @Nicoleliestsogerne Рік тому +8

    Oh thank you so much, this is perfect timing, Jillz!

  • @haleydaye7246
    @haleydaye7246 2 місяці тому

    Such good points! The last two really resonated for me!

  • @beyzaerbil9503
    @beyzaerbil9503 Рік тому +3

    1.30 - 1.31 The way you said it feels so compassionate I didn't realize I need to hear this. This week has been so terrible I blame myself for being lazy for a whole week. I am going to work on this. Thank you. I love your videos. I wish you all the best.💖💖✨✨Also I have been following you since 7k or 8k something. And every week I am waiting for your videos with excitement. You helped me a lot.

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  Рік тому

      Awww omg thank you so much for your support. It means so much 💕💕💕

  • @jeanettekoontz
    @jeanettekoontz Рік тому

    Thank you Goddess!

  • @tilaw6397
    @tilaw6397 Рік тому +1

    Jills you are amazing. I really love your perspective, your understanding & the way you convey it. Very insightful, thank you!

  • @shivamasija
    @shivamasija Рік тому +1

    Right video on right time of my life. Needed this. Thank you soo much 💚💚❤❤

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  Рік тому +1

      You’re very welcome ❤️❤️

  • @tiffanyboyd6161
    @tiffanyboyd6161 Рік тому

    Super interesting! Very good info Jillz.

  • @Ana-ro7km
    @Ana-ro7km Рік тому +1

    Such a great video Jillz! 🍁🍂 I found a lot of value in your message. 🧡

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  Рік тому +1

      I'm so happy it was helpful!! 💖

  • @bethkendall1521
    @bethkendall1521 Рік тому +1

    Loved this video ! Really helpful ! ☺️thank you Jillz! Hope you’re well 💕💕

  • @bpattontx
    @bpattontx Рік тому +4

    I've watched it twice this morning! Thank you Jillz! ❤❤

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  Рік тому

      Glad you liked it!! You’re very welcome! 🥰

  • @Janicesaheed
    @Janicesaheed Рік тому

    This video is honestly amazing!!

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  Рік тому

      Ahh thank you!!! Glad you liked it! 💜💜

  • @imadina31
    @imadina31 Рік тому +2

    I really appreciate this quality content 🥰

  • @ROARobinson
    @ROARobinson Рік тому

    This set up is beautiful! Wow 😻 beautiful light suits you! So lovely 🥰

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  Рік тому

      Ah thank you!! I really love my living room! The windows let in such amazing light 🥰

  • @rsler63
    @rsler63 Рік тому

    Very good information. This helps with my problem of laziness.

  • @sparklingsun5223
    @sparklingsun5223 Рік тому

    you have such an inviting and comforting demeanor, thank you so much for your valuable insights

  • @linnysheff
    @linnysheff Рік тому +2

    Thank you for the video!

  • @marthamaria3715
    @marthamaria3715 Рік тому

    This is incredible. Thank you. It was an answer to something I've been unable to attain for as long as I can remember. Thank you.

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  Рік тому

      Ahh yay so glad you liked it!! 💕

  • @bluesash10
    @bluesash10 Рік тому +3

    I never heard this before. It's so helpful. You are right; it's not a one size fits all. This can help me make some changes that can be conducive to me getting things done or finding a way to delegate them. Thanks so much, Jills!

  • @milicagosic
    @milicagosic Рік тому +1

    my god 🤩 that brown cushion!!!! 🤎🤎

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  Рік тому +1

      haha i know, i love it too!! 🥰

  • @viktoriasawall
    @viktoriasawall Рік тому +1

    Your work is of such an importance...thank you and I am wishing you enough energy to continue. This is a key to world peace...balanced femininity!

  • @Anna-Maria79
    @Anna-Maria79 Рік тому

    Thank you! ❤️

  • @AF-gb1jw
    @AF-gb1jw Рік тому

    Great video! Very different from others I’ve seen on this topic and far more helpful. Thank you! (P.S. Love the top!)

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  Рік тому

      Thank you!!! So glad you found it helpful ❤️

  • @carlavel4436
    @carlavel4436 Рік тому

    Love this video!

  • @jillchris1857
    @jillchris1857 Рік тому

    Quality video, so useful!

  • @official_anusha4994
    @official_anusha4994 Рік тому

    OMG LOA really works!!! I really needed thisss!!! God bless you!!! UR AMAZING HONESTLY😍😍😍😍😘😘

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  Рік тому

      Haha thank you!!! Glad it’s what you needed 😘😘

  • @anushreesharma4282
    @anushreesharma4282 Рік тому

    Thankgod i saw you while casually swiping a usual day. You videos are amazing and they so relatable i mean when you said because of fear we may procrastinate ut clicked me yes this is the reason why i postpone certain things. Thanks Jilz keep up the good work 😊☺

  • @pavilova29
    @pavilova29 Рік тому

    Love the change of the background! So luxurious 😍😍😍

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  Рік тому +1

      Maybe I’ll film here more often! It’s very cozy! 🙌

  • @abigailjensen3850
    @abigailjensen3850 Рік тому +2

    Awesome insights

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  Рік тому

      Thank you….glad it was helpful!! 🥰

  • @sheynasishitharen2070
    @sheynasishitharen2070 Рік тому

    THANK YOU! I realllyyyy needed this. It’s 5am here and I’ve decided to go back to sleep instead of going to the gym. I’m so emotionally & physically tired. 😢

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  Рік тому

      Haha gotta listen to what your body needs 🙌

  • @bmsharma3824
    @bmsharma3824 Рік тому +4

    So needed this at this very moment. I have been struggling with this habit of putting things off for later, important things but I am very far from being lazy now I am starting to realise that it was just/is just the fear or lack of confidence. Also it is aggravated by the fear of being like my father, who has been a couch potato for all our childhood and I built this fear of being/becoming like him which I am clearly not.

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  Рік тому +1

      Fear is such a big thing that holds us back. But self awareness is a massive step in the right direction 💕💕

    • @bmsharma3824
      @bmsharma3824 Рік тому

      @@JillzGuerin yes so true. I also read some comments after having written mine. It seems like it was perfect timing for many people out there who needed this. I suppose your 6th sense guided you to this much needed content. Also beautiful top ! Looking amazing !

    • @bmsharma3824
      @bmsharma3824 Рік тому

      @@JillzGuerin 💞💞💞

  • @dbuckalew2728
    @dbuckalew2728 Рік тому

    You’re fantastic! 🤗

  • @jiejoudom5521
    @jiejoudom5521 Рік тому +2

    life is funny cuz while you're precasting on dropping a video I'm here waiting for a new video lol. btw I needed this video I'm used to not doing things and sit with the pain and regret.

  • @TheWellNourishedHomemaker
    @TheWellNourishedHomemaker Рік тому

    Very much enjoy your content ❤

  • @TraderJazz
    @TraderJazz Рік тому

    Brilliant 💚😄

  • @ineshamdoun601
    @ineshamdoun601 Рік тому +4

    This video was much needed, thank you 💗

  • @sallyahmed6477
    @sallyahmed6477 Рік тому

    I love your outfits and ur videos ❤

  • @lovellytshotshi345
    @lovellytshotshi345 Рік тому

    6:38 OKAY YOU GAVE ME CHILLS 😶😶The reason I'm watching this video is because I've been putting off work on my project or doing very little when I need to do So much more. I'm currently doing my final project for my interior design degree and I dream of having my own company in the future and the fact that you said This is the universe's way of telling me I'm doing exactly what I need to be doing. Thank you Jillz for being my messenger today, really needed to hear that and now if you'll excuse me, I have work to do 😍🌹

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  Рік тому +1

      Wow I’m so happy this resonated with you so much!!! Signs from the universe! 💜💜💜

  • @anastasijapilnikova5732
    @anastasijapilnikova5732 Рік тому

    THANK YOU! I liked The Whole Video but The Last Sentence is The Deepest Essence: "Start Digging Deeper"...Digging Deeper is totally Draining & it Requires Tremendous Resources: that's The Key to Understanding Laziness: Lack & Scarcity of Resources of Various Kind 🤝🙌💓💞🥰🙏

  • @blabebreaker
    @blabebreaker Рік тому

    Give me a new perspective on my laziness. Will think on it and work accordingly thanks

  • @Rantiyya
    @Rantiyya Рік тому

    This video will going viral . mindblown 🤯

  • @sanaznh4490
    @sanaznh4490 Рік тому +1

    guess what, today I categorized my laziness, and turns out you are right!
    not doing the laundry -----> exhausted after school
    not doing chemistry lectures-------->negative thoughts about how I hate chemistry and it's boring!
    not writing my group project paragraph ---------> fear of being judged by my teammates who are native english speakers/writers

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  Рік тому

      it provides so much more clarity when we realize the deeper reasons why we put things off 😊

  • @levisimon5237
    @levisimon5237 Рік тому

    Great video 💕💕🔥🔥

  • @nadjacalore2660
    @nadjacalore2660 Рік тому

    Hello „Sister“🌸l really like your style and l absolutely agree with this content😊

  • @sharonqui74
    @sharonqui74 Рік тому

    Hahahahahaha I died with “ this was a waste of my time “ hahahahaha . You’re amazing girl !

  • @maysaraali5772
    @maysaraali5772 Рік тому +1

    Oh my god Jillz ❤so ture! I HATE running lol tried all my life.

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  Рік тому

      Hahaha I’m a pretty bad runner too 😅

  • @askhj9204
    @askhj9204 Рік тому

    Oh my God I love your hairs

  • @salsal3235
    @salsal3235 Рік тому

    I've been struggling for the past few days to start sketching and I thought I was being lazy and delay it to the next day and it continued until it came into my mind an interesting idea of what I'm gonna sketch and I started right away ....
    It wasn't procrastinating, it wasn't find the passion 🙂

  • @alexandrag7106
    @alexandrag7106 Рік тому

    I love your content! Wondering.. where did you get your ottoman from? I love the feeling it gives to your space.

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  Рік тому +1

      We actually bought it from the previous owners of our house because we loved it so much haha! But it's from restoration hardware many years ago.

  • @assiaslife2110
    @assiaslife2110 Рік тому

    ❤️🙏👌 kiss from Moscow! I enjoy watching your videos

  • @luciathefemininewoman
    @luciathefemininewoman Рік тому

    Well thought out video topic. Also, may I ask where you got your top from?

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  Рік тому

      Thank you! It’s from astr the label! It’s linked in the description box 🥰

  • @Bastenrocken
    @Bastenrocken Рік тому +2

    Could you please do a tutorial on that gorgeous hair? :)

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  Рік тому +1

      Haha ok I’ll try to do that! 🥰

  • @gladysmi
    @gladysmi Рік тому

    How do you come up with the exact topic I need to hear about at the right time? Gorgeous outfit btw

  • @Irene.Shalom
    @Irene.Shalom Рік тому +1

    Absolutely true!! I've been trying to word this out in my head in a clear way for so long and despite knowing instinctually that it was something more, something different than just being a 'lazy bum'...I couldn't clearly work out what those underlying issues were. They all apply to me personally (and I think everyone in some degree), all 4 of them....and I thank you so much for clearing this up for me! Will put this under consideration and work on it in therapy 💖

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  Рік тому

      So glad this resonated with you so much!!! ❤️❤️

  • @luciathefemininewoman
    @luciathefemininewoman Рік тому

    Summary of laziness is your superpower
    1. Fear is root of our laziness. Therefore, look into why you feel fearful of something.
    2. What you are doing is not “aligned with you” because of this it’s the real reason why you’re not doing the work or project.
    3. Exhaustion as you mention we humans are not build to be workaholics it’s not healthy and needs to be changed. We need to be in the state of being relaxed to do our work or projects over having a productive mind.
    Overall, I think identifying why you’re lazy isn’t necessarily bad it’s your intuition telling you that we humans have our instincts biologically as humans, and we should use that to our advantage, and do what we’re meant to do than what we don’t want to do. Also, refrain from watching those “how to stop procrastinating” and “ways to stop procrastinating” type of videos. It’s time we dive deep into laziness like Sherlock. 🧐

  • @MariaM-qq6kv
    @MariaM-qq6kv Рік тому

    Hairstyle Tutorial pls.

  • @mgpatricia757
    @mgpatricia757 Рік тому +1

    Great video. What a pretty dress! Where did you get it?

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  Рік тому +1

      Thank you! It’s a top from astr the label! I linked it in the description box! 🥰

    • @mgpatricia757
      @mgpatricia757 Рік тому

      @@JillzGuerin Awesome. Thanks for sharing!

  • @mysjogrensjourney
    @mysjogrensjourney Рік тому

    So true! ! P.s. you look like you’ve just walked out of a pre-Raphaelite painting!!😍❤️💚

  • @Radiowali
    @Radiowali Рік тому +1

    Omg ur looking awesome in that attire..plz share link of it

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  Рік тому +1

      Thank you!! It’s in the description box! 🥰

  • @richardalventoza6424
    @richardalventoza6424 Рік тому

    I worked all of my life in factory. And now I'm sixty years old and I tell you I spend my time to read and learn English and Spanish I'm not exactly lazy .but I don't like work because I started to work when I was seventeen now it's finish for me .I don't know how many years I stayin alive ? .I clean my home and I'm cooking that all .the rest of my time it dedicates to looking for God his word and culture .God designed our brain to use it I remember my poor mother going to work in factory and she didn't have time to do nothing my Dad too. it's horrible I love them and they miss because they died. each person choose this way and I'm not criticise people different than me .but I love my life now . discovering all things around me I learn English-language on my own.
    that the true life .I wait the moment of resurrection I'll see my mum and my dad I love them because they gave me all things I needed. sometime I see their picture on the wall and I cry .I'm not lazy but I use my time and I have a balanced life .
    I'm so glad to listen to you young woman maybe next time I'm RICHARD and I'm French.

  • @nataliedube1665
    @nataliedube1665 Рік тому

    I have been feeling extremely stuck and lazy lately. My current job isn’t getting me anywhere so I have three other side jobs that don’t provide much income either. I’m afraid to move on because I don’t know what to do next. I also don’t know what the next steps are and I’m tired of feeling this way.

  • @Janicesaheed
    @Janicesaheed Рік тому

    Okay wow the job example is literally me

  • @fridayys97
    @fridayys97 Рік тому

    Ma ACTUALLY wanting an interior design company but being stuck at a job I hate…🤣🙊

  • @mehrinoznurmatova383
    @mehrinoznurmatova383 Рік тому +1

    💜💜

  • @thepointlesswords290
    @thepointlesswords290 Рік тому +1

    👏👏👏👍👍

  • @sihembouaoud8226
    @sihembouaoud8226 Рік тому

    I usually feel lazy because of my throbbing headaches

    • @JillzGuerin
      @JillzGuerin  Рік тому +1

      That’ll def do it. Quality health is so important. I learned that the hard way lol. Hope it gets better!

  • @cc1380
    @cc1380 Рік тому

    I like you

  • @elviebarsaga8868
    @elviebarsaga8868 Рік тому

    🤎🤎🤎✨

  • @leblanccafe
    @leblanccafe Рік тому

    Talk about pregnancy