When I was growing up, I was mocked by my father whenever I acted like a girl, "you just think that because you're a girl" and laughing about it. If I got emotional and cried, he would accuse me of doing it on purpose to manipulate, and say "You're just like your mother!" I wanted his respect, and the only way to get It was to act like a man. I'm in my 30s and just now embracing my femininity. It's really difficult.
Same sweetheart. My father would do the same and spoil my brothers and tend to restraint me, just to make sure I won’t be the “type of women@ he hates, a woman who’s asking for gifts, or attention. He would tell me not to talk, he would humiliate me in front of people. I’m 33, have put boundaries and distance with him. Best move I’ve ever made. Focus on what makes you happy. And most of all: what people say, or the way they act usually tell more about them than it does about you. ❤ i send you my energy, you’ll heal.
SAME! I grew up with five older brothers and also went to school in a very toxic and backwards area, and anything remotely feminine (i.e. every topic/hobby I liked and was interested in) was mocked and ridiculed. My mom was mentally checked out and I had no positive female role models, so that didn't help either. I'm so thankful for the internet and being able to find channels and content like this. It feels like a big mental hug.
How we can increase our feminine energy: 1. Have a creative outlet Dancing, cooking, drawing 2. How can I soften, how can I be gentle, soften your voice, relax, 3. Get yourself organized for the week (Tidy up your house, ) 4. Intuitive movement (yoga, stretching, dancing, go for a walk) 5. Feel your feelings (awareness) 6. Get outside every day (get fresh air, be in Nature) 7. Make time for play (laugh, play board games) don't take life too serious 8. Stop spending time with things you dislike ( for example hobby, if you don't like yoga, don't do it 9. Phone free day once a while 10. Let yourself receive
Nothing takes me out of my feminine energy faster than someone trying to pull something over on me. When I get angry, I am full on masculine. So, it seems that, for me, staying in feminine energy has a lot to do with setting up boundaries against toxic people.
@@AudreySeyboldYes, I am so very tired of squashing my feminine, but there are so very few safe men out there that, more often than not, it has to be done. And the men seem utterly clueless as to what it takes to connect with a high quality woman. They seem to want the woman to meet all their criteria, while being oblivious as to what they need to work on themselves. Even things as simple to improve as their appearance, or their manners, go neglected.
What I've noticed is that if you're a feminine/empathic woman then alot of times wimpy,toxic, narcissistic 'men' are attracted to you and want to control you because it makes them feel more of a man,even though they are poor excuses for men.Tell them you disagree with something they say or tell them 'no' so they don't think you're a pushover and look up Narcissistic abuse channels on UA-cam.Run from any man you have a bad feeling about. I don't want any woman to go through what I've been through.
“Stop wasting time on things you don’t care about.” Me immediately knowing that spending time on my phone does not relax me, refresh me, or give me joy, but I’ve felt like I’m stuck in a rut…I appreciate that.
My mum was a super feminine (gentle, caring, creative) person, but sadly she was a victim of domestic violence all through my childhood and ended up with health issues and passed away at 60. I think this made me fear femininity, I am 42 now and so competitive and dominant I’m not even sure I can change now. These qualities have been consistently rewarded/affirmed in my career too. This advice feels SO alien to me, but I’m still going to try. I envy women who are just comfortable in their femininity, they always seem so contented and relaxed. Good luck to everyone going on this journey
@CL I am sure that your intuition is absolutely right. Unfortunately, in very few cases is the magnetic female energy accepted in the male-dominated world. It is interpreted as weak, not rational and available, which in all cases has no positive outcome. It is a pity but the patriarchy unfortunately still works like that.
@@alexandervanlohen4229 weakness is not sth that women say about themselves... it is the view of this misogynist world... if a man would be able to feel the pain of giving birth, they would change their male-dominant perspective... the same happens with "rational mind" vs "no rational mind" binary male thinking...
@@JillzGuerin There's a problem with your Number 3. You contradict yourself because you're trying to NOT tell women that the masculine balance should be the men. It sounds fake to teach women to practice Femininity alone which is practically either impossible or useless. Like you said, Feminine Energy needs the Masculine to be balanced. Teach your viewers to get masculine men like myself that brings out the best of their Feminine. Good luck
I structured my closet to separate my work clothes from my more feminine clothes. I think this will go a long way toward helping me bring out my feminine energy at the right times.
i just noticed how, since i finished university and started working full time, i shifted from full feminine energy into masculine. thanks to this video i remembered how joyful i felt in my feminine energy before. making lots of changes in my life and definitely, taking everything less serious from now on :3
"Feeling your feelings" mean letting your feeling pass through and be seen and heard by YOU, not necessarily everyone around you. Dumping your emotions on others isn't the goal. The goal is to be aware of your feelings- not afraid or stifling.
My mother has been in her masculine energy since I was born because she had no choice and takes pride in being financially wealthy. She supports me and my husband and children financially in this economy so I can stay home and raise my kids but she judges my light feminine energy and the things I value. She rolls her eyes and scoffs at videos like this and it always makes me think of the Little Women quote that is something like “Just because my dreams are different then yours, doesn’t make them unimportant.” It is hard to stay soft and feminine though when I feel she goes out of her way to upset me or pull me into my masculine energy.
Modelling is a great way to embrace feminine energy because it helps to champion the feminine side in people in a powerful way which is also intuitive and positive as well.
Hi Jillz, thanks for sharing awesome tips. I started my path to reinventing myself a year ago, I'm now living healthier, confident, stronger, making 6 figures, having leisure to enjoy family & friends. I feel happier and living my life for myself. This is to encourage someone "you can start anytime to have a reset it's worth it! I'm striving to continue growing cus it's a journey.
@FLORA Floxy Change your mindset, read self-help books, expand knowledge, budget and don't spend on impulse, save, take your finances seriously, eat healthy, exercise your body, meditate; the list goes on... I hope it is useful to you.
@@lunamoon448 I learnt to be frugal, minimal on spending, saving and paying myself first through Investing, made Plans, growing passive income, Read a lot of books on finance, followed my plan consistently.
Thank you for reminding us that we can still live a happy and fulfilling life just by relaxing and being open to small changes in our routine! Thanks to you I feel a lot more calm and hopeful for the present and the future me. 💕💕
@About Stella That's between her and her psychologist. Not you. And not everyone wants to accept and believe the liberal gender agenda being pushed on everyone. If you're happy with that, that's your business, and if others are not, that's their business.
The make up is pretty, your hair is pretty, but what makes it a perfect look is the smile By the way I'm a woman, straight, so people won't get the wrong idea because most ladies out there are jealous as hell! I'm all about girl power. When we support each other, everybody benefits. Have a great day!!!
Wow, I forgot about the power of feminine energy, so happy I found you. Thank you for reminding me of this and helping me to bring back the flowey, creative feelings that I really needed ❤️ I have provided for so long and am not the most gracious receiver, again, thank you!
The tips that you share in this video is giving me so much LIFE! I have been on my “feminine energy” journey for about a year now and it feels simply amazing! You are indeed gifted. Keep spreading love.
Lately I’ve been realizing that I am deeply sensitive. Growing up my mom had been taught that sensitivity is a weakness, and that rubbed off on me, but I finally know that sensitivity leads to EMPATHY & KINDNESS!! Strength looks different in everyone
Love the bright colors. Are you a fan of Lili Pulitzer - the designer? Her spring line this year is my fave!!! A bit more electric. Still bright. Have had so much fun this summer and gotten compliments in her dresses.
I literally just found out about feminine and masculine energy today and you're videos are blowing my mind. I didn't realise that I have been living with almost 0 feminine energy and that needs to change! Thank you
This video was illuminating to me, because it showed me how feminine my husband is, even though he is outwardly appearing as very masculine. He is athletic, muscular, and very handy. But he is also an artist, doesn’t like making plans, and relies on me a lot for planning. I am a Capricorn, so I am very grounded, pragmatic, and I am a planner. I think that because I am a planner, things get done, and it kind of drives My Husband, crazy, because it is very different to how he lives.
I am thinking back in my life and for my entire life, I have mostly used my masculine energy (Whenever I would show my more sensitive side, I was often bullied for it and called a crybaby) and I come from a family of strong/tough women (my maternal grandmother, my mom, my sisters and now my two nieces). As a teenager, guys didn’t want to be around me because I was too clingy, I came on too strong and I did most of the chasing around. At work, I have started to go into my more feminine side (A lot of older people say that being a teacher is a woman’s job and they also say that being a classical musician especially one that plays an instrument is more a man’s job ) but I have three male colleagues who have a lot of respect for me because they see that I know what I’m talking about and I thank those colleagues for treating me like an equal.🥰❤️
Thank You! Totally Amazing How You Represent Cancerian Energy in a Perfect Mode! It's Truly Inspiring ~ Expressing Cancerian Treasures~ So Exactly & Living from Your True Sincere Pure Energy 🥰 It's not so easy for Others to Embrace Your Powers but Portraing them, Flowing Them , Pouring Them so Harmoniously, Sharing it in such a Balanced Way... Congratulations 👏 for Your Efforts of Knowing Yourself! I have Read that this has not come to You Easily yet...It's the Masterpiece that You are Creating & Sharing Daily! Thank You 💓💞🥰🙏⚖️⏳🧭💎🫀🐬🧠♋💡🙏🙌🤝👏😻🌻🫒🏵️🌹💐🕊️🌈👑🔋💃🕺🥰
Fortunately, I have the chance to watch your amazing videos after long period of hard time that I stuck in masculine energy. Thanks a lot for your energy, efforts and lots of valuable contents you’ve brought to us 💕
I'm finding more and more that sometimes the expressed "duality" of Divine Feminine and (versus?) the Divine Masculine only tends to polarize all of us and limit our gender expression - where we are ALL ONE already. Glad I found your channel! Stawberries for thought.
i reaally felt the one with changing the job.. it was kinda really sucking life out of me and not fullfilling, hope to find something that fits better to me
Hi :) I wanted to reach out and say how much your videos have helped me. I didn’t realize how much I was out of touch with myself and feminine energy. Learning about this has helped ease my anxiety as well. I really enjoy your videos ❤
Feel your feelings. So simple yet WOW. Big question: If there's no one to "receive" from (maybe you're married to a narcissist), do you just give to yourself?
Yes you can definitely give to yourself, but you can also receive from friends, from the random person holding the door open for you, from family, from nature, etc. Receiving can be everywhere if you allow yourself to stay open 💕
Lovely video as always! I’m wondering if you would do a video in more detail about the luteal/menstruation phase - how to deal with PMS, hormone imbalance advice, general tips on how to look after ourselves as we want to retreat inwards and can have low mood, and also how this phase is used ‘against us’ as women - too emotional etc. but also how this can actually be a time where if we honour it properly we are intuitive, ‘focused’, deeply reflective, not feeling a need to ‘do’ all the time. So in a way we can see it as an inward retreat into the ‘dark feminine’ :)) Xx
thanks for these advices, I guess all other video creators always link feminity with being sassy and money related issues. I guess in this era being feminine should be put apart from money receiving because as much as you let someone pay for you, you let them see you as property that they can buy with a purse or meal. However, receiving is good especially if someone show their love through acts of service❤
Gracias Jillz. Tus recomendaciones me han servido un poco más para saber cómo reconetarme conmigo misma y que nuevas cosas pueden aportar al crecimiento de mi espíritu y mi agradecimiento al merecer ya que sentía como que estaba un poco desviada.
Not doing things I dislike is a big one for me and my husband wholeheartedly supports this. None of us likes to cook so we pay for meal deliveries. Same with cleaning the house -- we get someone to come do the heavier cleaning every few weeks and it becomes easier to maintain in the meantime. For us, spending that money is so worth it because we can spend our time doing other things that we find more valuable and/or enjoyable. And it makes me feel less resentful too, if I'm being honest, because I don't think it's a woman's job to have to do everything around the house -- even if the man works more (which my husband does).
Thank you, for this wonderful video! You help me so much with my feminine, I can't thank you enough. Loads of Love ❤️❤️ P.S. Your outfit is very beautiful
Dear Jillz, I am amazed that you have created a channel about feminine energy...there is a lot about self improvement ,selfcare and so on but for women to be reminded of the power of our feminine energy ( as a soft skill almost that's so underrated) is amazing! Intuitively I always long for time in nature , gentle daily structures to allow time for creativity and calmness. It made me aware of how this is connected to femininity. ( Used to think that's more about beauty, seduction and so on) there is a whole lot more to it and it makes sense and feels good ! Due to overemphasis on masculine energy and belittling femininity,I 'm guessing a lot of issues in society came up as well... It's definitely a fascinating subject.( Having 3 daughters ,I 'm glad you reminded us in a beautiful way of the return to more balance) * bless you and thanks :)
I only discovered you on here and really - thank you for this quality content! There’s so many things that I realized I want to change for my self to feel more content ❤
I'm so lucky that I found you! This video helped me to understand everything about femenine energy. Thank you so much for sharing this amazing information. I wish you well!
I'm a young single man who really loves females and there feminine energy and smiling at me in public very beautiful with them selfs and to me makes me smile too! And your video inspires my most favorite energy! To be like a true female is to have and do and say and feel loved and beautiful without relying on someone to tell you unless they see you shine! And I can too no matter my sex is. It makes me wanna be around females and there energy of fun and laughter! I can can be a female too! 🥰 because females to me is like im in heaven vs males are like being in he'll 😅so you can say I'm transgender but straight 😁👍
I'm 5'7, which is tall for girls in my country and i have broad shoulders, so growing up i was ashamed of myself and had this mindset that if im so ugly and fat i shouldnt act like a girl since everyone will be grossed out by me, so i started to act manly, and pretended that i had a idgaf attitude, always acting really masculine around my friends, stopped socialising since it would crush me if anyone called me fat or ugly (mostly every guy i talked to called me that so yeah :">) mind you i was like 10 or 11. Im 18 now, im a bit more confident than before but still talk loudly and act manly (i really dont want to), but now im trying to embrace my feminine energy cuz my height and broad shoulders dont define who i am :)
GREAT VIDEO JILLZ!!!!! IT'S A TOTALLY AWESOME VIDEO!!!! I AGREE WITH YOU 100%. I NEED MORE FEMININE ENERGY IN MY LIFE. THANKS FOR SHARING. I LEARNED SO MUCH.
Jillz, 1 really intriguing question for you.. How do you view the females who dominated the war field eg : Ruby Bradley, Queen of Jhansi... They dont appear to me 'soft' at all... were they too much in their masculine ?? Or were they well balanced.. Looking at this grt women in masculine fields really intrigues me...and it completely shatters my understanding of masculine / feminine energies
I would say that these females are more in touch with their masculine but that’s not a bad thing. They seem to be also be more connected to their “dark” feminine energy (I have a video on this if you want to learn more about that). But they may have been very feminine in other areas of their life. Just like sometimes women need to step into their masculine energy more for certain careers (ex: corporate finance, police officer) and some men need to tap more into their feminine energy for certain careers (ex: artist, therapist). Hope that was helpful! ❤️
@@lu-themadpillow2985 I think they should be appreciated just as much even though not everyone wants to.They are okay .They dont need much,they just need respect
New subscriber here and I love your content. Have you thought about making a card deck with all of your tips? I think many women would love it and I would too!
i feel more connected with my feminity when I am with another women... my crazy friends bring me again to my female perspective of life, they are just great... however when they start a family they forget about themselves and their friends which is not good at all. I just dont know if it is sth that women have learnt (forgetting themselves) or the way nurturing feels...
When I was growing up, I was mocked by my father whenever I acted like a girl, "you just think that because you're a girl" and laughing about it. If I got emotional and cried, he would accuse me of doing it on purpose to manipulate, and say "You're just like your mother!" I wanted his respect, and the only way to get It was to act like a man. I'm in my 30s and just now embracing my femininity. It's really difficult.
Same sweetheart. My father would do the same and spoil my brothers and tend to restraint me, just to make sure I won’t be the “type of women@ he hates, a woman who’s asking for gifts, or attention. He would tell me not to talk, he would humiliate me in front of people. I’m 33, have put boundaries and distance with him. Best move I’ve ever made. Focus on what makes you happy. And most of all: what people say, or the way they act usually tell more about them than it does about you. ❤ i send you my energy, you’ll heal.
SAME! I grew up with five older brothers and also went to school in a very toxic and backwards area, and anything remotely feminine (i.e. every topic/hobby I liked and was interested in) was mocked and ridiculed. My mom was mentally checked out and I had no positive female role models, so that didn't help either. I'm so thankful for the internet and being able to find channels and content like this. It feels like a big mental hug.
I feel like, even if we don't get this directly from our family, girls get this message from society and media from a really early age.
I feel this, we’ll get there ❤
My grandma did the same
How we can increase our feminine energy:
1. Have a creative outlet
Dancing, cooking, drawing
2. How can I soften, how can I be gentle, soften your voice, relax,
3. Get yourself organized for the week
(Tidy up your house, )
4. Intuitive movement (yoga, stretching, dancing, go for a walk)
5. Feel your feelings (awareness)
6. Get outside every day (get fresh air, be in Nature)
7. Make time for play (laugh, play board games) don't take life too serious
8. Stop spending time with things you dislike ( for example hobby, if you don't like yoga, don't do it
9. Phone free day once a while
10. Let yourself receive
🙏🏻🙏🏻😘😘😘🧚♀️🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷 thank you so much my dear~💯!
Love this
lol l
Thn you ✌️
11. Pick good female friends...
Nothing takes me out of my feminine energy faster than someone trying to pull something over on me. When I get angry, I am full on masculine. So, it seems that, for me, staying in feminine energy has a lot to do with setting up boundaries against toxic people.
That makes sense since it’s almost impossible to stay in our feminine when we feel unsafe. Good on you for creating boundaries! ❤️
That’s it! I really don’t feel safe or even understand that and when someone’s yelling at me I’m full on masculine. I’m tired of squashing my feminine
@@AudreySeyboldYes, I am so very tired of squashing my feminine, but there are so very few safe men out there that, more often than not, it has to be done. And the men seem utterly clueless as to what it takes to connect with a high quality woman. They seem to want the woman to meet all their criteria, while being oblivious as to what they need to work on themselves. Even things as simple to improve as their appearance, or their manners, go neglected.
What I've noticed is that if you're a feminine/empathic woman then alot of times wimpy,toxic, narcissistic 'men' are attracted to you and want to control you because it makes them feel more of a man,even though they are poor excuses for men.Tell them you disagree with something they say or tell them 'no' so they don't think you're a pushover and look up Narcissistic abuse channels on UA-cam.Run from any man you have a bad feeling about. I don't want any woman to go through what I've been through.
Amen
“Stop wasting time on things you don’t care about.” Me immediately knowing that spending time on my phone does not relax me, refresh me, or give me joy, but I’ve felt like I’m stuck in a rut…I appreciate that.
My mum was a super feminine (gentle, caring, creative) person, but sadly she was a victim of domestic violence all through my childhood and ended up with health issues and passed away at 60.
I think this made me fear femininity, I am 42 now and so competitive and dominant I’m not even sure I can change now. These qualities have been consistently rewarded/affirmed in my career too.
This advice feels SO alien to me, but I’m still going to try. I envy women who are just comfortable in their femininity, they always seem so contented and relaxed. Good luck to everyone going on this journey
Make sure to watch my video called ‘how to heal your feminine energy’ if you haven’t seen it! It’s an older video but it may help you! 💕💕
@CL I am sure that your intuition is absolutely right. Unfortunately, in very few cases is the magnetic female energy accepted in the male-dominated world. It is interpreted as weak, not rational and available, which in all cases has no positive outcome. It is a pity but the patriarchy unfortunately still works like that.
Oh, lm so sorry to hear that about your mum she sounds like she was a beautiful beautiful lady 🙏✨
@@lg2573 Thank you x
@@alexandervanlohen4229 weakness is not sth that women say about themselves... it is the view of this misogynist world... if a man would be able to feel the pain of giving birth, they would change their male-dominant perspective... the same happens with "rational mind" vs "no rational mind" binary male thinking...
"Soft, gentle, free, joyful". I'll remind myself those words when I start feeling disconnected. Thank you so much Jillz. You're amazing ❣️💋
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@@JillzGuerin There's a problem with your Number 3. You contradict yourself because you're trying to NOT tell women that the masculine balance should be the men. It sounds fake to teach women to practice Femininity alone which is practically either impossible or useless. Like you said, Feminine Energy needs the Masculine to be balanced. Teach your viewers to get masculine men like myself that brings out the best of their Feminine. Good luck
I structured my closet to separate my work clothes from my more feminine clothes. I think this will go a long way toward helping me bring out my feminine energy at the right times.
I used to do that too when I worked in an office and it was so helpful!! 💕💕
that how i always naturally felt to do
That’s actually really smart
oooh i love this!
i just noticed how, since i finished university and started working full time, i shifted from full feminine energy into masculine. thanks to this video i remembered how joyful i felt in my feminine energy before. making lots of changes in my life and definitely, taking everything less serious from now on :3
"Feeling your feelings" mean letting your feeling pass through and be seen and heard by YOU, not necessarily everyone around you. Dumping your emotions on others isn't the goal. The goal is to be aware of your feelings- not afraid or stifling.
My mother has been in her masculine energy since I was born because she had no choice and takes pride in being financially wealthy. She supports me and my husband and children financially in this economy so I can stay home and raise my kids but she judges my light feminine energy and the things I value. She rolls her eyes and scoffs at videos like this and it always makes me think of the Little Women quote that is something like “Just because my dreams are different then yours, doesn’t make them unimportant.” It is hard to stay soft and feminine though when I feel she goes out of her way to upset me or pull me into my masculine energy.
Modelling is a great way to embrace feminine energy because it helps to champion the feminine side in people in a powerful way which is also intuitive and positive as well.
Hi Jillz, thanks for sharing awesome tips. I started my path to reinventing myself a year ago, I'm now living healthier, confident, stronger, making 6 figures, having leisure to enjoy family & friends. I feel happier and living my life for myself. This is to encourage someone "you can start anytime to have a reset it's worth it! I'm striving to continue growing cus it's a journey.
That is so amazing!! Thank you for sharing your story. I really hope it inspires another lady out there to start taking action♥♥♥
@FLORA Floxy Change your mindset, read self-help books, expand knowledge, budget and don't spend on impulse, save, take your finances seriously, eat healthy, exercise your body, meditate; the list goes on... I hope it is useful to you.
How did you grow to 6 Figure? I'm honestly trying to work on my personal finance this year.
Congratulations to you Juliet keep it going.
@@lunamoon448 I learnt to be frugal, minimal on spending, saving and paying myself first through Investing, made Plans, growing passive income, Read a lot of books on finance, followed my plan consistently.
This girl is so grounded and in touch with herself- I love it
Thank you for reminding us that we can still live a happy and fulfilling life just by relaxing and being open to small changes in our routine! Thanks to you I feel a lot more calm and hopeful for the present and the future me. 💕💕
Ah so glad!! 💕💕
Thanks , I needed this . Yesterday I was with my psychologist and she told me that I need to learn how to receive and focus in feminine energy
Glad you enjoyed it! 😘
@About Stella That's between her and her psychologist. Not you. And not everyone wants to accept and believe the liberal gender agenda being pushed on everyone. If you're happy with that, that's your business, and if others are not, that's their business.
The make up is pretty, your hair is pretty, but what makes it a perfect look is the smile
By the way I'm a woman, straight, so people won't get the wrong idea because most ladies out there are jealous as hell! I'm all about girl power. When we support each other, everybody benefits. Have a great day!!!
Wow, I forgot about the power of feminine energy, so happy I found you. Thank you for reminding me of this and helping me to bring back the flowey, creative feelings that I really needed ❤️ I have provided for so long and am not the most gracious receiver, again, thank you!
❤️❤️
The tips that you share in this video is giving me so much LIFE! I have been on my “feminine energy” journey for about a year now and it feels simply amazing! You are indeed gifted. Keep spreading love.
Ah yay I’m so glad you enjoyed it!!! ❤️❤️
Lately I’ve been realizing that I am deeply sensitive. Growing up my mom had been taught that sensitivity is a weakness, and that rubbed off on me, but I finally know that sensitivity leads to EMPATHY & KINDNESS!! Strength looks different in everyone
Love the bright colors. Are you a fan of Lili Pulitzer - the designer? Her spring line this year is my fave!!! A bit more electric. Still bright. Have had so much fun this summer and gotten compliments in her dresses.
I've been loving your feminine energy videos! Thank you so much for doing these! I can feel myself healing
Aw thank you! That makes me so happy 💕
I literally just found out about feminine and masculine energy today and you're videos are blowing my mind. I didn't realise that I have been living with almost 0 feminine energy and that needs to change! Thank you
Omg well I’m so happy you’re here!! Coming back to your feminine side is such a rewarding journey 💕
This video was illuminating to me, because it showed me how feminine my husband is, even though he is outwardly appearing as very masculine. He is athletic, muscular, and very handy. But he is also an artist, doesn’t like making plans, and relies on me a lot for planning. I am a Capricorn, so I am very grounded, pragmatic, and I am a planner. I think that because I am a planner, things get done, and it kind of drives My Husband, crazy, because it is very different to how he lives.
I am thinking back in my life and for my entire life, I have mostly used my masculine energy (Whenever I would show my more sensitive side, I was often bullied for it and called a crybaby) and I come from a family of strong/tough women (my maternal grandmother, my mom, my sisters and now my two nieces). As a teenager, guys didn’t want to be around me because I was too clingy, I came on too strong and I did most of the chasing around. At work, I have started to go into my more feminine side (A lot of older people say that being a teacher is a woman’s job and they also say that being a classical musician especially one that plays an instrument is more a man’s job ) but I have three male colleagues who have a lot of respect for me because they see that I know what I’m talking about and I thank those colleagues for treating me like an equal.🥰❤️
Thank You! Totally Amazing How You Represent Cancerian Energy in a Perfect Mode! It's Truly Inspiring ~ Expressing Cancerian Treasures~ So Exactly & Living from Your True Sincere Pure Energy 🥰 It's not so easy for Others to Embrace Your Powers but Portraing them, Flowing Them , Pouring Them so Harmoniously, Sharing it in such a Balanced Way... Congratulations 👏 for Your Efforts of Knowing Yourself! I have Read that this has not come to You Easily yet...It's the Masterpiece that You are Creating & Sharing Daily! Thank You 💓💞🥰🙏⚖️⏳🧭💎🫀🐬🧠♋💡🙏🙌🤝👏😻🌻🫒🏵️🌹💐🕊️🌈👑🔋💃🕺🥰
"How can I soften, how can I be gentle" - this! Thank you
Bingewatching your channel, and receiving so much joy from it. Your work is appreciated!🌸
Aw so glad!! 💕
Same!!
Fortunately, I have the chance to watch your amazing videos after long period of hard time that I stuck in masculine energy. Thanks a lot for your energy, efforts and lots of valuable contents you’ve brought to us 💕
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I'm finding more and more that sometimes the expressed "duality" of Divine Feminine and (versus?) the Divine Masculine only tends to polarize all of us and limit our gender expression - where we are ALL ONE already. Glad I found your channel! Stawberries for thought.
i reaally felt the one with changing the job.. it was kinda really sucking life out of me and not fullfilling, hope to find something that fits better to me
Hi :) I wanted to reach out and say how much your videos have helped me. I didn’t realize how much I was out of touch with myself and feminine energy. Learning about this has helped ease my anxiety as well. I really enjoy your videos ❤
Feel your feelings. So simple yet WOW.
Big question: If there's no one to "receive" from (maybe you're married to a narcissist), do you just give to yourself?
Yes you can definitely give to yourself, but you can also receive from friends, from the random person holding the door open for you, from family, from nature, etc. Receiving can be everywhere if you allow yourself to stay open 💕
Lovely video as always! I’m wondering if you would do a video in more detail about the luteal/menstruation phase - how to deal with PMS, hormone imbalance advice, general tips on how to look after ourselves as we want to retreat inwards and can have low mood, and also how this phase is used ‘against us’ as women - too emotional etc. but also how this can actually be a time where if we honour it properly we are intuitive, ‘focused’, deeply reflective, not feeling a need to ‘do’ all the time. So in a way we can see it as an inward retreat into the ‘dark feminine’ :)) Xx
Thank you!! This is a great idea...I’m definitely adding this one to the list 💜
Thank you so much! Your videos really help in this world that praises hustle culture so much ! Love from Switzerland
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thanks for these advices, I guess all other video creators always link feminity with being sassy and money related issues. I guess in this era being feminine should be put apart from money receiving because as much as you let someone pay for you, you let them see you as property that they can buy with a purse or meal. However, receiving is good especially if someone show their love through acts of service❤
Gracias Jillz. Tus recomendaciones me han servido un poco más para saber cómo reconetarme conmigo misma y que nuevas cosas pueden aportar al crecimiento de mi espíritu y mi agradecimiento al merecer ya que sentía como que estaba un poco desviada.
Yo encontré su canal recientemente (hace como dos semanas) y me ha ayudado bastante🥰❤️
I Love her. She's the best! Thank you for these wonderful advices
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You should make a video of your beautiful outfits! I love all your dresses, they are all very feminine and soft
Ah thank you!! My last video was a spring clothing haul (in case you missed it) but I’m hoping to do more! I love fashion 😊💕
SO glad you mentioned Play! PLAYING outside again, like a kid, changed my life 🥰🥰
Also lost 100 lbs through "Fun" exercise 😆🙈
Great video! Thanks. Much needed in a world who is constantly trying to turn women into men.
Glad you enjoyed!!
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More I focus on my feminine energy the more I allow myself to be free and soft🤍~🤍!
I practice it everyday🙏🏻!
Not doing things I dislike is a big one for me and my husband wholeheartedly supports this. None of us likes to cook so we pay for meal deliveries. Same with cleaning the house -- we get someone to come do the heavier cleaning every few weeks and it becomes easier to maintain in the meantime. For us, spending that money is so worth it because we can spend our time doing other things that we find more valuable and/or enjoyable. And it makes me feel less resentful too, if I'm being honest, because I don't think it's a woman's job to have to do everything around the house -- even if the man works more (which my husband does).
Thanks for this! I need to focus on being, not doing. Thanks for the reminder to make time for play, for enjoyment.😄
A reminder we all need sometimes 🥰🥰
Exactly the energy I was energetically looking to match, found you and you found me, thanksss 😘😘💫💫💫 everything feels so flowyy
Thank you, for this wonderful video! You help me so much with my feminine, I can't thank you enough. Loads of Love ❤️❤️
P.S. Your outfit is very beautiful
Thank you!!!! 💕💕
Dear Jillz, I am amazed that you have created a channel about feminine energy...there is a lot about self improvement ,selfcare and so on but for women to be reminded of the power of our feminine energy ( as a soft skill almost that's so underrated) is amazing!
Intuitively I always long for time in nature , gentle daily structures to allow time for creativity and calmness. It made me aware of how this is connected to femininity. ( Used to think that's more about beauty, seduction and so on) there is a whole lot more to it and it makes sense and feels good ! Due to overemphasis on masculine energy and belittling femininity,I 'm guessing a lot of issues in society came up as well...
It's definitely a fascinating subject.( Having 3 daughters ,I 'm glad you reminded us in a beautiful way of the return to more balance) * bless you and thanks :)
I love that you put #3 in here Jillz. It so often gets overlooked. Bravo. Btw, you look/feel sooo radiant. ❤
Thank you!!! And yes it does often get so overlooked 😊
I only discovered you on here and really - thank you for this quality content! There’s so many things that I realized I want to change for my self to feel more content ❤
the best video about feminine energy on you tube ever👏👏👏
Aw yay! Glad you liked it! ❤️
love it, seems like i have a natural instinct for doing all of this.
Love being feminine ❣️ fementy for makes me love kindness 💓 enjoyment
I'm so lucky that I found you! This video helped me to understand everything about femenine energy. Thank you so much for sharing this amazing information. I wish you well!
Love that you simply called them feminine habits
Thank you I need this so much.. I feel stuck in my masculine energy as a single mom
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Amazing tips, for some impossible because of hard work/immigration/debts/health issues etc
I'm a young single man who really loves females and there feminine energy and smiling at me in public very beautiful with them selfs and to me makes me smile too! And your video inspires my most favorite energy! To be like a true female is to have and do and say and feel loved and beautiful without relying on someone to tell you unless they see you shine! And I can too no matter my sex is. It makes me wanna be around females and there energy of fun and laughter! I can can be a female too! 🥰 because females to me is like im in heaven vs males are like being in he'll 😅so you can say I'm transgender but straight 😁👍
You are so amazing... But i hv one request that u should made video to the point, exactly points that we can apply in our life
beautiful and informative Jillz, always makes me so happy to see more content about connecting with the divine feminine
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Love this
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Thanks for this wonderful tips.
You're great!!
just wow!!!!! speechless!!! and grateful ❣❣❣❣❣❣❣❣❣
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I'm 5'7, which is tall for girls in my country and i have broad shoulders, so growing up i was ashamed of myself and had this mindset that if im so ugly and fat i shouldnt act like a girl since everyone will be grossed out by me, so i started to act manly, and pretended that i had a idgaf attitude, always acting really masculine around my friends, stopped socialising since it would crush me if anyone called me fat or ugly (mostly every guy i talked to called me that so yeah :">) mind you i was like 10 or 11.
Im 18 now, im a bit more confident than before but still talk loudly and act manly (i really dont want to), but now im trying to embrace my feminine energy cuz my height and broad shoulders dont define who i am :)
Your best video yet Jillz!!
Ah thank you!! ❤️
this video is amazing thanks so much i see myself quite a lot in this description of how be more in touch with your feminine energy
GREAT VIDEO JILLZ!!!!! IT'S A TOTALLY AWESOME VIDEO!!!! I AGREE WITH YOU 100%. I NEED MORE FEMININE ENERGY IN MY LIFE. THANKS FOR SHARING. I LEARNED SO MUCH.
This is soooo incredibly helpful, thank you!
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Jillz, 1 really intriguing question for you.. How do you view the females who dominated the war field eg : Ruby Bradley, Queen of Jhansi... They dont appear to me 'soft' at all... were they too much in their masculine ?? Or were they well balanced.. Looking at this grt women in masculine fields really intrigues me...and it completely shatters my understanding of masculine / feminine energies
I would say that these females are more in touch with their masculine but that’s not a bad thing. They seem to be also be more connected to their “dark” feminine energy (I have a video on this if you want to learn more about that). But they may have been very feminine in other areas of their life. Just like sometimes women need to step into their masculine energy more for certain careers (ex: corporate finance, police officer) and some men need to tap more into their feminine energy for certain careers (ex: artist, therapist). Hope that was helpful! ❤️
Also, they were great, but that doesn`t mean most women would be happy to trade places with them.
@@JillzGuerin wow that makes so much sense.. thanks for the clarity Jillz !! ❤
@@lu-themadpillow2985 I think they should be appreciated just as much even though not everyone wants to.They are okay .They dont need much,they just need respect
New subscriber here and I love your content. Have you thought about making a card deck with all of your tips? I think many women would love it and I would too!
Thank you Jillz
i feel more connected with my feminity when I am with another women... my crazy friends bring me again to my female perspective of life, they are just great... however when they start a family they forget about themselves and their friends which is not good at all. I just dont know if it is sth that women have learnt (forgetting themselves) or the way nurturing feels...
*phone free days* YES I do this often on Sundays and spend time in nature with my dog.
Love that 💕💕 Nature and animals make everyone better
Everything* lol
Your videos and these comments are making me realize things about myself 😭
These tips are so incredibly helpful thank you! Also, you look so beautiful 💕
I loved your video. To optimize the visual quality, I think you could try raising the camera about 6 inches. keep up the great work!
You have no idea how much I needed to see your video. thank you for sharing with us💖
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Thank you so much ❤
youre now my new favorite person on the internet
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Thank You Beautiful Lady for sharing this. ❤
Please make a video on your hair care. You have such lovely hair.
Ok I’ll add this to the list 💕
God bless you , go ahead with your goals, may god be with you 😊😊
I love what you’re saying. Thank you for sharing your truth.❤
Thank you for these helpful reminders! 💕♥️💕
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be Feminine is letting go of the ego and being grateful
Oh Jillz, so soft and so beautiful as always 🤍 love your energy
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hair style tutorial pls, love this style
You are a breath of fresh air Jillz! Loved this! xoxo
🤗Great message) You pointed all the necessary points that resonated with me😍
This movie is great. Sending you much love ❤
Really nice tips and great transition to your other video. You got me.
Haha 🥰🥰 happy to have you here!
Thank you so much for this video, it gives me hope💓💐
thank you. this helps me understand more about myself.. wish u all the best❤️
So glad ❤️
Thank You so much for this videos, im gratfull that your helping us to be more feminine 💗
I needed to hear this message. Thank you!
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Thanks for that energy I feel so happy can;t explain i feel different after watching this
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This video helps me figure out the qualities that I should look in a girl. Thanks ❤️
Glad it was helpful! 😊
Wow great video! Makes so much sense. 💜
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I love your videos and i learn so much things from you💗
Thank you!!! So glad ❤️❤️
Awesome.
Amazing video, thanks Jillz!❤🔥 I have to ask where did you get your earrings organizer? 💖