Thankyou so much for your videos are on point 👉 you literally have saved the better version of myself and specifically my life! After being married 10 years I realized he was the cheater he was the narcissist in our relationship all this years waking up for one day to change .
I know this silence throughout my childhood. They only always "praised" how "well behaved" I was, but never have known why. 😞 And even today, I hardly talk, for all when there is a group of People, I hardly know. Then all say, I am not "social enough", not knowing, that I am too scared to speak, because back at my "family", I got yelled at, when I only asked for a glass of water. And I was "too sensitive" when I cried (I was there 3 - 4). I stopped then, showing any feelings. Thank you for your videos.
The family court system is NOT made in a way that protects the victim but instead it protects the abuser and makes the victim and her children be forced to live in unsafety.
Found that out in court last month. I spent 4 months preparing my evidence to prove my need for a restraining order, only to have the judge grant a continuance to the perpetrator of violence because he was not ready to present his 1000s and 1000s of hours of evidence against me. I've wracked my brain to figure out what he might have against me, and I've concluded that he will be showing the court how he is so wonderful, that I should be grateful to him for abusing me.
This is absolutely true. The courts did not believe me or my kids. The shit judge I had was completely on my narc ex husbands side. He is a monster and so is the stupid judge I got stuck with.
But it's worth it...once u get rid of him...waited till my kid was 18...to divorce the narc....so that the process won't damage the child ...now a free woman
Perhaps this may comfort "You are fully known fully loved created in the Heart of Father God. Your Eternal True LIfe Story is written by the Lover Creator and Comforter of Your Heart. You were knit together - in Father's heart of LOVE - His Beautiful Daughter and Son - His Beloved. He knows yout heart intimately. He meets you and I where we are at. Sending us what we need in His quiet gentle ways We are at the end of the Journey we were given to walk brought to a necessary Heart Rescue Place where we see the Truth of our True Identity - our True Life in "I AM Your Life"💖🌟🕊. The false identity of the fallen world voices fades away. We are awakened to our True Life Identity in the heart of Father God. We are in Him - finally seeing who we truly are ... free to be who I am in - I AM You have an eternal destiny His Precious Heart. Every heartache and tear is fully known redeemed and restored. You are valued because in you He planted His Life. In His Sight you are called His Beloved Daughter His Son If God be for you His Dear Heart who can be against you". He heals the brokenhearted And binds up their wounds.Psalm 147 3 Who comforts us in all our affliction so that we will be able to comfort those who are in any affliction with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God 2 Corinthians 1 4
You are such a bad ass to have survived this long and to still be learning and searching for something, anything that might help you find freedom again. You are a miracle. If you were so unimportant, weak, (or whatever he claims) then why does he CB put so much effort into destroying you? Because you are a special, sweet, powerful, intelligent, funny, inspiring woman and if this fact is discovered his whole game is over. I am sorry this is happening to us and I pray that we turn together in the direction of our own happiness and never look back. Praise Jesus. I love you and we are not alone. Share your story because it will help someone who needs to hear it. Thank you so much for sharing. God bless us all. Danish Sir, May you be blessed and favored in this life and for eternity.✝️💜🪶🫶🏽🌈😌
It's so good to be understood, even if only through a video. Years of this has turned me into someone I don't even recognize and he reminds me of that constantly. I'm mentally exhausted, confused and stuck. I miss who I was. Most women can't just leave if they have nothing to fall back on or are threatened. People don't get that. It's so lonely and painful.
Yes, and in some ways it gets worse for the victim. Like not being able to protect the children from the abuser cause the court allows him unsupervised visitation with them=very unsafe for the children and untold anxiety and fear of the mom. 😢😢😢😢😢
I was married to a narc for 9.5 years. The best advice I can give is leave asap. The second is don’t let them push your buttons and use silence, laughter and say no as weapons against the evil person. The 3 things they hate. Silence gives them nothing. Laughter takes away their power. Saying no will make the 2 year old in them come out and the tantrums begin and then, of course, go back into laughter at their tantrums. Play the game and they will leave you and find a better victim. Then you don’t have to worry since they left you.
Become a loner like me and don’t care what society thinks. They’re that impressed with their efforts that made you look the fool that they’ll press on like they did with you and try it with people more immuned to their charms
I am proud of myself being abuse by covert narc for 42 years sitll energetic and hopefull and i am getting my freedom back soon ,i pray for all you beautiful ladies , you deserve all the best ❤
this is the perfect description of me after being married to the person I have for 40 years. I'm exhausted from babysitting, my 4 children are grown up, I'm not looking to continue being his mommy and emotional punching bag, it's over for him. I don't have much money and will have to live very low income, but I'm done .
This is exactly what I needed to hear today. My husband started with his petty belittling comments last night and it started a brief argument. I was so exhausted today and I'm just done even interacting with this goof. I knew he was going to do this because I was in a good mood yesterday. It's like clockwork. I'd love to see more on about the transfer of energy with narcissists. It was a short argument and I couldn't believe how exhausted I am. There seems to be a strong spiritual element involved in all this.
He can't bear to see your joy because he has none. He steals your soul because his is empty. I had one. Finally left and he was so shocked. Did not go back. Took years to find me again.
You accurately described my mother, who had major depression most of my life. She never really recovered before she died at 84. My father was a covert narcissist. It all makes sense now.
Wow. That's exactly what he did. Painted himself as the victim so I did everything to make him feel better. However, he got angry at me when I was sad and told everyone that I would cry over nothing and that I am sensitive and crazy. So nobody wanted to meet me anymore and I was afraid to talk.
Trust me they usually self sabotage anyway by denying whats yours and now you have a good reason to cut contact and ask for the settlement you needed. Just let God handle them. Usually demons are best handled by almighty God . God will do the right thing and set you free❤.... love you God and love your justice. Praise the Lord
This described my first marriage to a "t". I never complained, just kept doing the best I could until I couldn't do it anymore. I could never understand why he didn't respond the way "experts" said a husband should repond to the love and support i gave him. now I understand that narcissists are not "normal" and don't have basic human capacity for lave and care for another.
He once actually told me that since I stay with him, he must not be that bad. So I let him know how I really feel about how bad he treats me. I left him FOREVER.
After divorce I thought it was over .....but he dragged me and drowned me into ( still ) 5 years of legal battle for custody . After all this struggle, all my money for the court system, kids are devoured and I feel like I'm done.
I've just discovered your channel. I am blown away how you explain the finest of detail and personality traits of Narcissism, it is as if you knew my Husband personally. He passed away 3 months ago, unexpectedly, and it took his passing for me to take the time and dig into why he was the way he was. I now know without a shadow of a doubt he was 100% a Covert Narcissist. This content is helping to heal me and understand what I went through and endured for almost 20 years and HE DID try to make it all my fault. THANK YOU SO MUCH for helping us understand this mental illness, I am NOT crazy and I CAN be myself again.
You just perfectly described one of the many traumas of growing up with a narcissistic parent. Yes, even as an adult at work, when an administrator would attack, gaslight or implemented the "mobbing meetings" I would get the freeze response. Horrible parents who "discipline " their children with beatings, withholding food, shelter or affection have a special place for them when they pass. Thanks again for helping us heal ❤
I have listened to a lot, a lot of narcissism videos. This one really touched me in a way most others have not. You are able to so eloquently and truthfully elucidate the internal experience of the victim of narcissistic abuse. Thank you, I feel understood and validated through your video. God bless you 🙏
Yes this video describes the demonic mental anguish of living with a monster...you worded the internal experience of what it feels like on a daily basis when you have no way out..
While watching this video, I learned that I think my husband is a narcissist and I'm being abused without noticing, it hurts and shatters me knowing that I'm desperate and losing my values, I'm angry at myself why I let this happen. thank you for the awareness, it really shocked me, now I have to work on how I put myself back to me.
It's the classic, "Sympathy For The Devil" situation. Most people will ask the victim questions which only serve to further victimize the victim, and people blame everything on the victim ... instead of asking if there is anything that they can do to help the victim. Almost no-one ever says helpful things to the victim. But, rather, people will spend all of their energy and resources in feeling sorry for the narcissist, because the narcissist is so very well skilled at playing the victim, and garnering sympathy from other people.
Sir, you understand so well. Thank you so much. If I know the judges understand narcissists 1/4 of what yourselves understand, I will leave him tomorrow morning.
we are really surprise how u explain all the truth step by step each and everything is practicle and real and I have experienced. Waiting for every episode of you as a drama series ❤❤❤
Forgive and let them go and the compassion of your Maker, Yahuah is His name, will give you peace if you seek Him with all your heart and being and strength. Then love your neighbor, and find Hope, and Love, and Freedom in following His way which leads to life.
This channel is the channel that opened my eyes. There are better channels than this channel on UA-cam that talks about narcissistic abuse, but I am not a person who forgets the one who lifted me up when no one was there for me. Thank you Danish for all what you have given ❤
Thank you for seeing me 😢❤ it helps to hear someone else say these things and know they’re completely valid and appropriate responses and reactions to these situations. I know I’m not crazy; I know what parts of my behavior actually me and what are just reactions or symptoms of my environment or situations.
You were spot-on. But Jesus Christ rescued me. I am not divorced but I live most of the year away from him in a different place. God has placed me in a place where I am fruitful. Yes, he isolated me, but God gave me other families. I am grateful each day.
Charlie Brown tried over and over and over again to be nice to Lucy. Lucy is a monster that is normalized and accepted and everyone laughs at Charlie Brown 😢 I am done ❤ Thank you Danish ❤
I'm a narcissist abuse survivor who was married to a narcissistic abuse and pedophile abuser's victim. Wow! All you talk about is so true. We were married for 17 years, divorces for 13 years now, and we get along well as a blended family unit. We get together weekly. It's a small victory considering the amount of varied abuse on both sides. It is sad we can't fully reconcile as we all desire our return to solitary solace after a pleasant contact and activity.
When he told me to stay in my room. I said I’m already in my room 21 hours a day the past 2-3 years. Really. The other hours I came out of my room To get a drink, fix dinner, or wash dishes, or make coffee. Or feed the cats, or get a drink, really ?. 24. Hours. I’m stuck in my room 21 hours. . .. embezzles finances. .. I’m out of it today.! I was a size 4 . Exercise everyday. . I’m choose to LET GO. Today. And now the courts give him access to my house, noise!??? 24/7. No stop.., I couldn’t make a decision. I could sleep..
I got reprimended for snoring, sneezing, asking simple questions, I had to stay silent, no food if we had to go to town, he would wake me up at 2 am unless I stayed up to avoid him. I got use to sleeping in the dining room chair. Was tired all the time
Yes, my ex (thank You Jesus he is ex) got me to this point and then threw our kids and I to the curb after 20 years of devotion to him. It was the best thing that happened to us!! Free yourselves, stay strong, life is much better without them. Fight for your RIGHTS if you divorce!!!
Danish thank you. You have described my unhappy life and present desperate misery and entrapment like no one else. You were so precise. I think you were inspired by the Lord with this message and your depth of understanding. Thank you.
It's so sad. I had friends who would do that. I call them married single women. It's better to walk away and take a divorce. That way you can get your needs met and you don't need to endure the toxicity either. Most important thing is to NOT fear them. They will always try that. But to also remember they are just scared lil children inside. There's no need to fear someone like that
I got out September 2024. Each day hourly was is a challenge.! I’m still challenged daily with some form of his abuse. My eyes are tired filled with/ tears.. daily from his attacks …. 😅😊😢🎉😂❤
I am married to a narc. I feel trapped. What I find evil is when he says evil things while I am getting my coffee. Most people don't understand at that time of morning things that are said to you, information that take into your subconscious is critically important that it is POSITIVE! He said something harmful to me, critical, degrading then he does the teenage, "I am sorry" and my response is "not acceptable."
My 26 year old marriage finally came to an end after my narcissistic husband started testosterone injections. I would love to see a video about narcissists and the effects of TRT. Thank you Danish. Sometimes it feels like you are the only one who truly understands.
Do you see society blaming and shaming victims of kidnapping??? No! They applaud them for surviving and escaping and they feel empathy for them. So why don't they do the same with victims of narcissistic abuse?? It is the SAME thing- these victims have been kidnapped by these con artists who made them believe they were entering a legitimate, normal, loving marriage, but instead they were essentially kidnapped.
I resonate with all you are saying , in my case it’s my manager. I feel so exhausted, sad, helpless. Nothing I say is right. Anything thoughtful it’s always critique on how I could’ve done it better. It’s mentally exhausting and emotional. My manager actually creeps me out, has these dark almost black like eyes
Then the mother gets a job like a secretary to pay for the apartment to raise their child by herself. Much of her time is spent on working 9 to 5 and she also has been treated wrong so she loses the will or ability to replace him and is alone the rest of life.
More often than not the female comes out in these scenarios the victim, not just your content Danish but every one’s. I moved out on my wife after40years. It’s school holidays and I’ve brought our grandson home for a visit. What depressing mess Our assets are all intertwined at least the kids have grown up. It’s one piece of advice you’ve given that’s worked out for me, don’t just cut them off go back and confirm these behaviours it helps me confirm I’m not the one that’s lost my mind.
🤚🏻Sir please make a video on Atul Subhash Case wherein a Narc Wife, her family and Judge provoked a man to commit suicide. This case in in media right now. How cruel n greedy those people r who filed fake cases n tortured him for money, laughed at him and provoked him to take such step. In India lakhs of innocent men r commiting suicide every year due to such Narc wives.
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Thankyou so much for your videos are on point 👉 you literally have saved the better version of myself and specifically my life! After being married 10 years I realized he was the cheater he was the narcissist in our relationship all this years waking up for one day to change .
I'm sorry you grew in a narcissistic family.....there's no joy..... Always a silence that whispers fear.....
I know this silence throughout my childhood. They only always "praised" how "well behaved" I was, but never have known why. 😞 And even today, I hardly talk, for all when there is a group of People, I hardly know. Then all say, I am not "social enough", not knowing, that I am too scared to speak, because back at my "family", I got yelled at, when I only asked for a glass of water. And I was "too sensitive" when I cried (I was there 3 - 4). I stopped then, showing any feelings. Thank you for your videos.
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People blame the victim instead of the demon.
Very true!
narcs do that human beings dont.
@iriswilmink8229 Exactly
The first tell-tale sign of a bad person is that they talk bad about another person, who has done them no personal harm.
Totally!!! I’m the one everybody said is wrong 😢😢😢People trust the covert Narc n not me
The family court system is NOT made in a way that protects the victim but instead it protects the abuser and makes the victim and her children be forced to live in unsafety.
Found that out in court last month. I spent 4 months preparing my evidence to prove my need for a restraining order, only to have the judge grant a continuance to the perpetrator of violence because he was not ready to present his 1000s and 1000s of hours of evidence against me. I've wracked my brain to figure out what he might have against me, and I've concluded that he will be showing the court how he is so wonderful, that I should be grateful to him for abusing me.
That is 100 true I tought im the only on went through that aparently evry narcasist survivor deals with that :(
This is absolutely true. The courts did not believe me or my kids. The shit judge I had was completely on my narc ex husbands side. He is a monster and so is the stupid judge I got stuck with.
Same, I was threatened with prison. Big hugs ladies ❤
But it's worth it...once u get rid of him...waited till my kid was 18...to divorce the narc....so that the process won't damage the child ...now a free woman
Behind the smile, hides the pain...
U have to pretend and go with the flow to avoid further problems..
This is me. I am 70 years old with very little money and nowhere to go. I see my future really as just existing in this emotional void.
Stay strong. 🙏🏾🕊😇
You're not alone! 😢
There’s more of us than you realize.
🤗💕
Perhaps this may comfort
"You are fully known fully loved created in the Heart of Father God. Your Eternal True LIfe Story is written by the Lover Creator and Comforter of Your Heart. You were knit together - in Father's heart of LOVE - His Beautiful Daughter and Son - His Beloved.
He knows yout heart intimately. He meets you and I where we are at. Sending us what we need in His quiet gentle ways
We are at the end of the Journey we were given to walk brought to a necessary Heart Rescue Place where we see the Truth of our True Identity - our True Life in "I AM Your Life"💖🌟🕊. The false identity of the fallen world voices fades away. We are awakened to our True Life Identity in the heart of Father God. We are in Him - finally seeing who we truly are ... free to be who I am in - I AM You have an eternal destiny His Precious Heart. Every heartache and tear is fully known redeemed and restored. You are valued because in you He planted His Life. In His Sight you are called His Beloved Daughter His Son
If God be for you His Dear Heart who can be against you".
He heals the brokenhearted
And binds up their wounds.Psalm 147 3
Who comforts us in all our affliction so that we will be able to comfort those who are in any affliction with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God 2 Corinthians 1 4
You are such a bad ass to have survived this long and to still be learning and searching for something, anything that might help you find freedom again. You are a miracle. If you were so unimportant, weak, (or whatever he claims) then why does he CB put so much effort into destroying you? Because you are a special, sweet, powerful, intelligent, funny, inspiring woman and if this fact is discovered his whole game is over. I am sorry this is happening to us and I pray that we turn together in the direction of our own happiness and never look back. Praise Jesus. I love you and we are not alone. Share your story because it will help someone who needs to hear it. Thank you so much for sharing. God bless us all. Danish Sir, May you be blessed and favored in this life and for eternity.✝️💜🪶🫶🏽🌈😌
It's so good to be understood, even if only through a video. Years of this has turned me into someone I don't even recognize and he reminds me of that constantly. I'm mentally exhausted, confused and stuck. I miss who I was. Most women can't just leave if they have nothing to fall back on or are threatened. People don't get that. It's so lonely and painful.
Yes, and in some ways it gets worse for the victim. Like not being able to protect the children from the abuser cause the court allows him unsupervised visitation with them=very unsafe for the children and untold anxiety and fear of the mom. 😢😢😢😢😢
And good 4 u for being able to still voice your experience while in the midst of it. I'm with you there. Stuck is the word for it.
He will destroy everything we have just to make sure I won’t get any thing.
I was married to a narc for 9.5 years. The best advice I can give is leave asap. The second is don’t let them push your buttons and use silence, laughter and say no as weapons against the evil person. The 3 things they hate. Silence gives them nothing. Laughter takes away their power. Saying no will make the 2 year old in them come out and the tantrums begin and then, of course, go back into laughter at their tantrums. Play the game and they will leave you and find a better victim. Then you don’t have to worry since they left you.
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Even after leaving a narc i struggle to cope up .this society doesn't understand.
they do them do it on purpose most are narcs
@iriswilmink8229 I bet the percentage is so much bigger than they say
Society is a faceless entity. And because society is faceless, it has no shame.
Society backs them.
Become a loner like me and don’t care what society thinks. They’re that impressed with their efforts that made you look the fool that they’ll press on like they did with you and try it with people more immuned to their charms
I am proud of myself being abuse by covert narc for 42 years sitll energetic and hopefull and i am getting my freedom back soon ,i pray for all you beautiful ladies , you deserve all the best ❤
Same with me it's all so surreal and it's no longer a battle it's a war they are evil and twisted!! 😢😢
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this is the perfect description of me after being married to the person I have for 40 years. I'm exhausted from babysitting, my 4 children are grown up, I'm not looking to continue being his mommy and emotional punching bag, it's over for him. I don't have much money and will have to live very low income, but I'm done .
it will be worth it to be free. i too spent 40 with a mean person. i am low income after the divorce. but i’m FREE and HAPPY .. go for it
You'll be far richer away from him, even in poverty because you will restore your peace and freedom. ❤
This is exactly what I needed to hear today. My husband started with his petty belittling comments last night and it started a brief argument. I was so exhausted today and I'm just done even interacting with this goof. I knew he was going to do this because I was in a good mood yesterday. It's like clockwork.
I'd love to see more on about the transfer of energy with narcissists. It was a short argument and I couldn't believe how exhausted I am. There seems to be a strong spiritual element involved in all this.
Don't respond Grey Rock him he won't get his fule .
Pray for protection 🙏 it works .
Out smart him.
I left my X 20 yrs of my life as a slave ..
He can't bear to see your joy because he has none. He steals your soul because his is empty. I had one. Finally left and he was so shocked. Did not go back. Took years to find me again.
@@barbarastrayhorn4667 lm still placing myself back together..
Strange My comment has gone..
If you dont depend financially, just leave quietly.
Play along.. and get away..
You accurately described my mother, who had major depression most of my life. She never really recovered before she died at 84. My father was a covert narcissist. It all makes sense now.
Wow. That's exactly what he did. Painted himself as the victim so I did everything to make him feel better. However, he got angry at me when I was sad and told everyone that I would cry over nothing and that I am sensitive and crazy. So nobody wanted to meet me anymore and I was afraid to talk.
Same happened with me now he broke the relationship
So true n really related to your situation 😢
Thank you for talking about this. I've been living this nightmare for far too long. ❤
Trust me they usually self sabotage anyway by denying whats yours and now you have a good reason to cut contact and ask for the settlement you needed. Just let God handle them. Usually demons are best handled by almighty God . God will do the right thing and set you free❤.... love you God and love your justice. Praise the Lord
🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟💯✔️💖🌹Danish, thank you for this incredible understanding of how the victims of abuse become silent and silenced!
This described my first marriage to a "t". I never complained, just kept doing the best I could until I couldn't do it anymore. I could never understand why he didn't respond the way "experts" said a husband should repond to the love and support i gave him. now I understand that narcissists are not "normal" and don't have basic human capacity for lave and care for another.
yes its totally me.totally burnout.now everyone blame me .i dont like to give any kind of explanation to anyone.i m totally tired
Same! No energy even to try to explain anymore ... but I hear you! I really do! ❤🩹
He once actually told me that since I stay with him, he must not be that bad. So I let him know how I really feel about how bad he treats me. I left him FOREVER.
Thank you Danish.this is 100%correct in my life.
After divorce I thought it was over .....but he dragged me and drowned me into ( still ) 5 years of legal battle for custody . After all this struggle, all my money for the court system, kids are devoured and I feel like I'm done.
What a pig. 5 years of legal battle stress - there should be a time limit set of 12 months to sort matters, but of course lawyers would then miss out.
And your children are the new victims. !
I've just discovered your channel. I am blown away how you explain the finest of detail and personality traits of Narcissism, it is as if you knew my Husband personally. He passed away 3 months ago, unexpectedly, and it took his passing for me to take the time and dig into why he was the way he was. I now know without a shadow of a doubt he was 100% a Covert Narcissist. This content is helping to heal me and understand what I went through and endured for almost 20 years and HE DID try to make it all my fault. THANK YOU SO MUCH for helping us understand this mental illness, I am NOT crazy and I CAN be myself again.
You just perfectly described one of the many traumas of growing up with a narcissistic parent. Yes, even as an adult at work, when an administrator would attack, gaslight or implemented the "mobbing meetings" I would get the freeze response. Horrible parents who "discipline " their children with beatings, withholding food, shelter or affection have a special place for them when they pass. Thanks again for helping us heal ❤
I have listened to a lot, a lot of narcissism videos. This one really touched me in a way most others have not. You are able to so eloquently and truthfully elucidate the internal experience of the victim of narcissistic abuse. Thank you, I feel understood and validated through your video. God bless you 🙏
Yes this video describes the demonic mental anguish of living with a monster...you worded the internal experience of what it feels like on a daily basis when you have no way out..
While watching this video, I learned that I think my husband is a narcissist and I'm being abused without noticing, it hurts and shatters me knowing that I'm desperate and losing my values, I'm angry at myself why I let this happen. thank you for the awareness, it really shocked me, now I have to work on how I put myself back to me.
Stonewalling, stubbornness, gaslighting, word salad ... .all the order of the day.😢
Oh but you whe. You wake up!!!! 😂😂😂😂
It's the classic, "Sympathy For The Devil" situation. Most people will ask the victim questions which only serve to further victimize the victim, and people blame everything on the victim ... instead of asking if there is anything that they can do to help the victim. Almost no-one ever says helpful things to the victim. But, rather, people will spend all of their energy and resources in feeling sorry for the narcissist, because the narcissist is so very well skilled at playing the victim, and garnering sympathy from other people.
Sir, you understand so well. Thank you so much. If I know the judges understand narcissists 1/4 of what yourselves understand, I will leave him tomorrow morning.
Exactly Dear 🎯You are a genius 👍
Thank you so much 😀
I'm 43yrs old, I have turned silent & this surprised me
You are spot on as usual.
He always said Smile. Wow. I never realized.
Thank you from the bottom of my heart for making me feel truly seen and understood 🙏❤️
Expectation leads to disappointment
I am weeks away from divorce. Thank you I wasn’t crazy.
How are you doing it?
@ good
Yes. I did that after the first two narcs. Not the third. I walked away. Not knowing anything about narcs.
we are really surprise how u explain all the truth step by step each and everything is practicle and real and I have experienced. Waiting for every episode of you as a drama series ❤❤❤
This is me, too. I'm 70 years old. I am numb. Exhausted. Caste down, like a sheep. I give up.
never give up .. even as hard as it is .. take the huge step and break the mold . there is a peaceful life ahead 🙏🏼
Don’t give up…… bounce back become a wonderful person day by day do something you enjoy each day a small thing and so on
never give up just ignore or give them their shit back and never give them ur go)o(dness them dont deserve
You’re just done 😊 I completely understand you dear. You’re done, I’m done. No more
Don’t pick up that phone 😊❤
Forgive and let them go and the compassion of your Maker, Yahuah is His name, will give you peace if you seek Him with all your heart and being and strength. Then love your neighbor, and find Hope, and Love, and Freedom in following His way which leads to life.
This channel is the channel that opened my eyes. There are better channels than this channel on UA-cam that talks about narcissistic abuse, but I am not a person who forgets the one who lifted me up when no one was there for me. Thank you Danish for all what you have given ❤
Thank you for this. It made me cry because I feel this way. I'm so sad all the time.
Your talks give me hope.
Thankyou
100 percent true.
Word to word so true
Thanks Danish. You are the reason for me to escape narcissistic abuse of 9years
Thank you for seeing me 😢❤ it helps to hear someone else say these things and know they’re completely valid and appropriate responses and reactions to these situations. I know I’m not crazy; I know what parts of my behavior actually me and what are just reactions or symptoms of my environment or situations.
Thank you.
You were spot-on. But Jesus Christ rescued me. I am not divorced but I live most of the year away from him in a different place. God has placed me in a place where I am fruitful. Yes, he isolated me, but God gave me other families. I am grateful each day.
These things happen to men too.
Amen 👍🏼
True but not very often. Most of the time the woman is the abuser.
@@angieblake3424I don’t think that is what you meant to type …. Was it? 🤔
@@clairecarscallen sorry, typo. Meant woman is the abused most of the time. My bad.
@@angieblake3424Thought so! 😬
Your typo really negated your whole point!
You described my "marriage" perfectly. Hopefully, I will be divorced soon😊
Charlie Brown tried over and over and over again to be nice to Lucy. Lucy is a monster that is normalized and accepted and everyone laughs at Charlie Brown 😢
I am done ❤
Thank you Danish ❤
I'm a narcissist abuse survivor who was married to a narcissistic abuse and pedophile abuser's victim. Wow! All you talk about is so true. We were married for 17 years, divorces for 13 years now, and we get along well as a blended family unit. We get together weekly. It's a small victory considering the amount of varied abuse on both sides. It is sad we can't fully reconcile as we all desire our return to solitary solace after a pleasant contact and activity.
When he told me to stay in my room. I said I’m already in my room 21 hours a day the past 2-3 years. Really. The other hours I came out of my room
To get a drink, fix dinner, or wash dishes, or make coffee. Or feed the cats, or get a drink, really ?. 24. Hours. I’m stuck in my room 21 hours. . .. embezzles finances. .. I’m out of it today.!
I was a size 4 . Exercise everyday. .
I’m choose to LET GO.
Today. And now the courts give him access to my house, noise!??? 24/7. No stop.., I couldn’t make a decision. I could sleep..
I got reprimended for snoring, sneezing, asking simple questions, I had to stay silent, no food if we had to go to town, he would wake me up at 2 am unless I stayed up to avoid him. I got use to sleeping in the dining room chair. Was tired all the time
So there scared and living in survival mode consistently that’s a nightmare.
Yes, my ex (thank You Jesus he is ex) got me to this point and then threw our kids and I to the curb after 20 years of devotion to him. It was the best thing that happened to us!!
Free yourselves, stay strong, life is much better without them. Fight for your RIGHTS if you divorce!!!
Absolutely. Here's to freedom....Amen🙏🙏🙏
I feel I am a silent narc survivor 😢
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I must say that the roles can be reversed and the wife can be the narcissist. The husband becomes the silent one because of the abuse.
Really u have a very knowledge , practical knowledge ❤❤❤
Danish thank you. You have described my unhappy life and present desperate misery and entrapment like no one else. You were so precise. I think you were inspired by the Lord with this message and your depth of understanding. Thank you.
You spoke right to my soul, again thank you for what you’re doing, the only person who can speak the truth word for word.
It's so sad. I had friends who would do that. I call them married single women. It's better to walk away and take a divorce. That way you can get your needs met and you don't need to endure the toxicity either. Most important thing is to NOT fear them. They will always try that. But to also remember they are just scared lil children inside. There's no need to fear someone like that
Well said.
If you have the money I guess you can do that
Thank you🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏❤
Always welcome
Very very true. Thanks.
That narc is having n number of affairs freely and I'm thinking 1000 times if I say hi to someone. They're life destructor.
This is my life and he’s correct 😢
Wow, terrific! So true a roommate, flatmate 😥
Sir very TRUE you are grest
I always had to think about how was going word things.Before I said anything.
I got out September 2024. Each day hourly was is a challenge.! I’m still challenged daily with some form of his abuse. My eyes are tired filled with/ tears.. daily from his attacks …. 😅😊😢🎉😂❤
Thank u brother , for being sooo sensitive
Thanks!
I am married to a narc. I feel trapped. What I find evil is when he says evil things while I am getting my coffee. Most people don't understand at that time of morning things that are said to you, information that take into your subconscious is critically important that it is POSITIVE! He said something harmful to me, critical, degrading then he does the teenage, "I am sorry" and my response is "not acceptable."
You've been living in my head!!😮😮
Get your fight on,people.
Spot on Danish, everything you said resonated with me. Thank you 🙏 God bless you ❤
Praying and trusting God...
This. was my life. Well said.
You nailed it.
My 26 year old marriage finally came to an end after my narcissistic husband started testosterone injections. I would love to see a video about narcissists and the effects of TRT. Thank you Danish. Sometimes it feels like you are the only one who truly understands.
Tiredness.
Do you see society blaming and shaming victims of kidnapping??? No! They applaud them for surviving and escaping and they feel empathy for them. So why don't they do the same with victims of narcissistic abuse?? It is the SAME thing- these victims have been kidnapped by these con artists who made them believe they were entering a legitimate, normal, loving marriage, but instead they were essentially kidnapped.
narcs kidnapped my child and do every sadist cruel rotten sahit aga8inst us ongoingly so nope
I resonate with all you are saying , in my case it’s my manager. I feel so exhausted, sad, helpless. Nothing I say is right.
Anything thoughtful it’s always critique on how I could’ve done it better. It’s mentally exhausting and emotional. My manager actually creeps me out, has these dark almost black like eyes
You should report to management about manager. Every time whatever happened report and report
Help her with her finances. Help her increase her ability to make money so she has a choice.
You are a blessing from God.
Hit the nail on the head! So true!!
You've been so helpful thank you
Then the mother gets a job like a secretary to pay for the apartment to raise their child by herself. Much of her time is spent on working 9 to 5 and she also has been treated wrong so she loses the will or ability to replace him and is alone the rest of life.
Thank you,Danish!
Just feeling like opening cards of my life step by step.
Every change begins with a spark.be a spark atleat we can do it I hope❤❤
Thank u for this video
I am a male in the us AND WENT THROUGH THIS AND AM NOW LEARNING. WHY DO U ASSUME A MALE CAN BE THE PERPETRATOR??
But men have money to leave and the courts treat you better than they do women.
You are my saviour
More often than not the female comes out in these scenarios the victim, not just your content Danish but every one’s.
I moved out on my wife after40years. It’s school holidays and I’ve brought our grandson home for a visit. What depressing mess
Our assets are all intertwined at least the kids have grown up. It’s one piece of advice you’ve given that’s worked out for me, don’t just cut them off go back and confirm these behaviours it helps me confirm I’m not the one that’s lost my mind.
🤚🏻Sir please make a video on Atul Subhash Case wherein a Narc Wife, her family and Judge provoked a man to commit suicide. This case in in media right now. How cruel n greedy those people r who filed fake cases n tortured him for money, laughed at him and provoked him to take such step. In India lakhs of innocent men r commiting suicide every year due to such Narc wives.
Love this one! ❤
Ty for this great truthful video.the whole thing so maybe someone will help me get out . 😢
We become souless
Lifeless.totaaly our life is wasted becoz of husband.nobody is going to help others.we are alone in our journey.but keep trying not to get under their thumbs.just believe in god.😊
I've gained weight too.
Wow exactly how i feel
6:00 😔😪