12 Difference Between Playing Hard to Get and Stringing You Along (And What to Do!) Dude asks, "Is she playing hard to get or is she stringing me along?" Here are 12 signs she's stringing you along vs hard to get! Never get strung along again, get your dream girl, here's how: members.wingmam.com/get-women/ 😍
If you know so much about female nature then why to you help men find women . men need a woman like a bicycle needs a fish! Let these poor men live a life without the hell that females bring to the table . your just giving them false hope and in my opinion that makes you worse that the women you talk about . I'm sure your a nice person but the only good your doing here is for yourself imo.
Ok, so I'll give you my number, and you can text me, when your ready to schedule me in. I am willing to label us as engaged. I'll buy a huge rock for your finger. But, it might take time, I might have to go to Africa and dig one myself cuz I cant afford too big of one right now. lol.
I agree with # 12 . And remember that for us, older folks , we had to actually call the girl on an old device called telephone to hear " no I won't be able to make it " followed by a dead silence. My advice to girls , don't volontarily give us a way to reach you if don't want to hear from us ( I apply this to myself as well, who wants the email of someone you don't want to be with ? )
I’ve always backed away if I girl didn’t seem that interested. I found it best to only go for those girls who were super interested or showed signs of having a crush. Less girls that way, but far more fun.
She is definitely stringing me along. She’s vague about what she does and where she is. Will not return messages timely. If a t all. The plans issue. She has yet to make plans with without waiting to the last minute. Wow. Something to think about. Thank you
I've watched many videos from women who are giving dating advice to men; and frankly, they were a huge waste of time. Anna, you're different. You're a straight shooter and I consider your advice and observations to be founded in wisdom and truth. Thanks, and I'll keep watching.
This women has some great, down to earth, advice on how to be a better human and how to spot a better partner. Some of the other content providers are fill their videos with shallow vapid nonsense like how dress up. 🙄
Mark Twain once said: "It is easier to fool people than to convince them they have been fooled." The best guarantee that you aren't being taken advantage of is to take your ego out of it. The ego has a way of warping things around desired outcomes rather than allowing the reality to set in for better OR worse.
I can't recall any woman asking me anything about myself or saying "I want to know you better." Not that I need or want attention, but basic civility and taking an interest in another person is socially constructive.
You can do that yourself pretend to be interested for a while then you get feedback or maybe find an interesting aspect about that person but if after a while nothing interesting happens move on
I would like to thank Anna Maria Jorgensen for helping me to see that 'an important friend' was not finding me so important to her. This kind of advice can be invaluable when it comes to how much energy one should put into a close relationship. Boy, am I glad to know I need not do that anymore!
Great advice .... Was talking with this one girl for the past 6 months. I realized she was just stringing me along..... 1. She was vague on her life. When I asked her how was her day, she just basically says go to work, eat, watch dramas, sleep. 2. Only talks about herself. Yes all she cares about is her health, her vacations, her work-related problems, how can I help her fix her work-related problems. 4. She takes one whole day to reply to my message when I can clearly see that she is "online". Then the next day she apologizes and says she was busy with work or something. 5. She always shows up only when she has huge problems and requiring me for my counsel. 7. Now there's a new pretty girl in our social circle who I've been chatting with and she now seems to make an effort to seek me out. 11. Never includes me for any one of her plans. Though she has tried to slip questions on my opinions on marriage into our conversations, as she may be thinking of it. That's a tricky one?
My take away is that a woman worth pursuing, is a woman that already values you and shows the signs mentioned here, you should not try to convince her but only speak through your actions. Thanks again for the video Anna, I've learned something again.
Thank you. I think she is stringing me along. Time to back off! Sometimes this seems so complicated. It's been 20 plus years since I dated ..I will be watching and hopefully learning from you Anna... Sincerely your student David
You're welcome! You'll definitely want to check out some of the videos in my playlist for Men Over 50: ua-cam.com/play/PLQ8Q-8-X18dnLFUxjSb09iUfozc8y-fpT.html
I always tell myself and my single friends that if you aren't a priority in their life, don't pursue it. You'll look like a lost puppy and will probably feel like one, too.
A very good advice for stubborn romantics. Just have to help em out, by drilling it into their brain. We get it, that you are "all about the feelings, passion and mood". But when you try, yet the train is still going to wreck, - know when to jump off of it. ;)
Watching this video has helped me realize even more than before, just how little the girls i went for in the past actually wanted something serious with me.
Interest goes both ways and so does respect. If a woman isn't showing you both, then move on. You don't have to jump at the first opportunity a woman makes herself available to go on a date. Make her wait on your timeline.
This is honestly the best dating video advice i have seen on youtube. I’m currently in this situation with a girl. 95% of these signs fall in the hard to get category.
This is the most important and interesting video you made so far and that's my opinion. Thank you for your doing the research to enlighten us. I definitely have to meet with you as I'm in Vancouver area. Corona virus is screwing everything else. Please stay quarantined and healthy as we need more of your advice. Good job.
Damn I wish I had seen this years ago, took so many Ls, realizing I was being strung along, but never knew why, this just opened my eyes and mind in a way that is hasn’t before, every point you mentioned resonated with me, this shows me you really really know what your talking about, got my sub!! Got led along for years, strung along as a reserve, and I never knew why, I still don’t fully get it, but this gave me way more insight I didn’t have before, THANKYOU!
Wish I would have seen this video months ago....I definitely see alot of these red flags from the woman I'm currently dating...unfortunate that it took this long for me to pull away. Thanks for the video...VERY helpful and you are spot on!
I've tripped over the play on Wing Man thing since the beginning. Anna opens a safe door to how people think. Which is a way bigger mission on how to getva good woman. Everyone including those in the best relationships could learn from Anna Jorgensen
It's simple. If a woman doesn't like you, you will know. Move along, nothing to see here. If a woman does like you, be her friend. If a woman is in love with you, you will DEFINITELY know. Those are the women you should go after instead of trying to convince the others because a woman in doubt will make your life a living hell!
Well it seems the new girl is both genuinely busy and genuinely interested. I'm very independent so busy is fine with me for the foreseeable. Thank you so much!!
Anna I love the inuendos in your videos so keep it up, aesthetically on point/ your hair, interesting enough this vid spoke volumes to me as I've encountered practically all experiences over the years & would have loved these poignant points back in the days.
Or just simply not caring. I’m 52 and I got married at 40 to a wonderful woman. But my single years in my 20s and 30s were a frustrating time with my dating life. That’s putting it lightly - it was a disaster!! I remember the girl I dated in college and she picked me up at the airport and she met a girlfriend of hers there. I walked up to her and had to stand there for ten minutes while she finished her conversation before she even looked at me!!!! Lol. I wanted her to jump in my arms!! Nope we broke up a week later.
Great video. It was tricky with the last woman I dated for a short while. Strong chemistry, but she resisted, which made me think low interest. Rescheduled plans, often last minute. Most of the time felt like an excuse rather than legitimate. Felt like she had no skin in the game (;-)) and she failed my tests. I developed an idea of who she was and then didn’t want to do anything further with her - too many red flags. I’ve experienced what burning desire feels like from a woman and it makes things so much easier. I’m hanging back from relationships for the moment as I’m taking some time for myself after some bad experiences. Mainly focussing on my own life but I do miss the sweet intimacy of being with someone.
If you think a girl is stringing out, then she is. Communicate as if it is gonna be a dud. If she likes you she will have to reverse and make an effort to see you.
Dating games. Once you get past the first date. It is a matter of flow. Getting to first date appears to determ stringing along . hard to get. Can be spotted from general actions. Unless thier are other parts involved. .Not one myself to get into that
Did not forget about your channel, always look. Way smart and intimidating to guys like me: succumbed to fear, lump in the throat, sweaty hands, and worse :)
I've never known such a great divide between the sexes as there is these days. I fear, or suspect that it has more to do with a certain, concerted effort of social engineering, implemented in multiple forms of media. I think society has been so dumbed down, that being straight up and having something to say is just too unbelievable, or just plain boring to people. A lot of people are too busy acting cool, aloof and unimpressed.
It is social engineering mate. To keep us apart, to. Keep us fighting each other rather than sharing and living each other. Hopefully one day people will wake up and realise what is going on before it's too late.
Even if it is , its only short term , sooner or later the tables turn and then the fun begin , the strength of the man is to be able to wait that out and not succumb
Certainly seems way more complicated than back in the daze. Your second paragraph, I agree. Concerted effort? Have a think about that one. Yep, the dynamic that Powerchord describes above has a universal usefulness for elites but really? Are elites not at each other attempting to get a bigger share of the turf?
It's all about keeping people from uniting ,once the bickering stops and people band together as a team or army then we can pay attention to the politicians robbing us blind of our money and our future ,instead they use our own stupidy to enslave us and chain us to our jobs
Had forgotten to take time to say thanks for your presentation. Good to hear the goings on in this boy girl world... And they wonder why they do not have a man
#12 is subjective. Girls will use you just to not be alone on a Friday night or to get taken to nice restaurants. You'll eventually reach a point where you've been on many "dates" and spent lots of money and you've haven't even gotten a first kiss.
If they string you or play you, drop the headache. There are many red flags 🚩. Look guys just be a straight shooter and look for a woman that doesn’t play games
What about women after being abused in every way in previous relatiinships . And is afraid due to tramua depressing and anixiety afraid of getting hurt and letting people in .
Great video. Very lucid and real. But being out there in the game for a while I do think it’s important to know that a woman’s words mean nothing if it never aligns with her actions. As guys the only thing that matters to us is action. We care not what a woman says because we know most women are not strong enough to be truthful about how they feel. Most women in America in 2022 are emotional roller coaster wrecks that should be avoided. Of course there are some exceptions but most of those have been married off. Lol
Could these also be signs that she is just confused? She’s just turned 20 and I’m 29. She showed positive signs but also negative ones. We weren’t officially dating we were just seeing each other for about 7 months on and off over the course of a year and a half while seeing other people. I was honest about seeing other people and she still had her ex in the picture so we were kind of at a stale mate where we didn’t progress the relationship. I had feeling for her and she displayed feeling to me. She was always the one to text first. When we were together she was always the one to go to hold my hand or stroke my arm or face and ask for kisses and she used to ring me when she was drunk to tell me she loves me! She was very demanding though and would always go through my phone to see what girls I was talking to even though we’d both made it clear that I didn’t want anything serious while her ex was still in the picture and I knew she both resented and loved him at the same time. He’s very muscular and I’m quite slim, she has told me a lot that I need to gain weight and in a way it was holding her back and tbf I’m fully chill with that because I do need to gain weight, but I guess she was still very physically attached to her ex. Anyways we had sex a few time’s but she always seemed on the fence, in my head I was willing to progress further if she really started to show that she chose me and was honest. But she ended up going on holiday with her ex and lied to me telling me that she went with her friend. I know we weren’t together and she didn’t have to tell me that she went with her ex, as I said I was openly dating other girls too but I was just pissed off that she chose to hide it and lie instead of telling me the truth as I wouldn’t of minded that much that she went with her ex. I didn’t find out for a month later until she slipped up and I felt betrayed, especially as she told me she loved me. I could no longer trust that she was an honest person so I cut all ties. She blew up my phone for a week straight afterwards but I ignored it all. Turns out her ex is now dating one of her best friends (they aren’t friends anymore). She showed signs of being a gold digger at times and was quite closed off emotionally because her mum died of cancer when she was a kid, but other times she was very loving, open and happy. Very hot and cold! In the end I chalked it off as her just using me and stringing me along but I’m not sure if she was just confused and hung up on an ex or not? Because there where times when I was younger when I really liked a girl who was in love with me but I couldn’t invest and was hot and cold because I still had feeling for an ex and it fizzled out!
How accurate are the things you say in this video because I am seeing someone who fits some of what you say and goes against others. If a woman has been hurt more than once and wants to take it slow does that exclude some of these things or do the same rules still apply?
It seems that with on-line date many women 60 + state they want a relationship when in fact all they desire is a meal at an upscale restaurant. This has been happening to me and my male friends for several years. When they talk about themselves all evening and want to make plans for the next date at another "of my favorite restaurants" RUN.
What does it mean when your recent ex that don't want to see you maybe replied to your text fast instead of like 10 or 30 minutes later. I said hi and 30 seconds later she said hi back. Thank you for great advice.
Nice job as usual , I had a long distance relationship & I hadn’t heard from her in awhile & became harder to get ahold Of I called her her daughter. She said I think we lost her this time she quit her job took her money out of the bank. Drove her car from OR. To San Fran where her car conked. She left it in an apt. Building parking lot. Got to the airport went to Morocco. Is put up there in a hotel because her visa has run & the government keeps her there & won’t let her back in the USA because of the COVID. Her daughter found out a lot of that from what people told her when she called around because she disappeared . Eventually called her to borrow $ because she was supposed to get one from a man & got ripped off. Don’t know if she sent it to her or not. Her daughter said she knew a lady who’s son was supposed to be staying in the same building but never I never heard back & never checked again & it’s been months. Wonder to try to contact the daughter again or drop it. Don’t expect anything just to know she’s ok or if she will have to come back at some point. Good Story No Matter What , Bob Rumba
Treat her too well, and she will friend zone you. Treat her too poorly, and she’ll think you’re an ass. Treat her with just the right amount of indifference, and she’ll love you. Women, you simply aren’t worth all of that. Play games, and only gamers will win with you, and you end up in the relationship you deserve.
Hey,thanks for the ongoing amazing videos.We have spoken before and I'm still following your advice.Thank you. I'm still really confused about this relationship as she still never asks me about myself,hardly ever takes the time to make plans,does not talk about a future between us,txts are very short albeit the txt are minimal and I certainly do not over txt and the relationship after 4 months seems not to be progressing in the way I would like. I still don't ask how she feels about me as I'm taught not too. She on the other hand has never yet cancelled on plans,she has put a pic of the both of us as her profile pic,"a lovely place I took her too,"is affectionate with me when I'm there and we are intimate. She has shit tested me about 3 times and I have always stood my ground the third time being the most intense. Our dates and times out have mostly been planned by myself and have been very thoughtfull and exciting. I just still dont know what to do and its breaking my heart. I'm sure shes not seeing anyone else and seems to have good standards in that way. Shes 51 years old but a very very young 51. Thank you.X
This is good advice to spot stringing along behaviour. Can you give your opinion on the reasons WHY women string men along. EDIT: What's the purpose, what's the plot, what's the sexual strategy, what's the mindset behind it. Knowing that would give greater insight and ability to spot it happening. Maybe start with a woman's definition of what "stringing along" means. Just so we are talking about the same thing. Nb. A woman's and man's definition of "stringing along" maybe different.
@R K Hi RK, thank you for your detailed and considered response. Its not that I didn't know the answer to my question. Infact my views match alot of what you say. But what I was after was a women's (honest) insight of why they do it; and specifically Wingmam's opinion of why she thinks other women do it.
Good video,but it can be more complicated than this and all.if she’s a dismissive or fearful avoidant,she can be very interested in you,but these people sometimes the more they’re interested in you,is the more their can run.also if they’re a twin flame they run until it’s time for union to occur.i talk to this woman through telepathy,and I also take on her emotions,if she’s sad all of a sudden I will also get sad for no reason.i see angel nos as well,and also dream about her sometimes.im trying to get her to do amino acid therapy.im going to do it soon.i may just move on soon.these situations are just to complicated and toxic
I fell for a lady really stringing me along. A work situation, went on one lunch date, She repeatedly accepted another date attempt and always cancelled last minute, oh she was busy..... After several times I pushed too hard and she said she couldn't go out but never said why. Years after that, she wouldn't even work with me when I needed her assistance on projects, yet would immediately respond to a co-worker asking for her help on the project. Bugs me to this day and sadly not the first time it happened.
I've learned i broke every rule... Im needy, clingy, too emotional...so I'm to blame for my lot...but she's still into me, I think, and I'm doing damage control...but between her two almost adult teenage boys and all her activities, I see her like every other weekend...I'm considering walking away. It's obvious she only needs me when she's home alone.
Women who build/maintain social circles. It's a comfort zone, especially having guys who are dependable around her. Here are two things I look for: (1) A handful, or more, of guy-friends (excluding co-workers, boy-friends/husbands of girlfriends/relatives) (2) She dates outside the group, even after a break-up. (where's my shot at the title?) The easiest thing to do is ask a friend to level with you, "Do you see me and her together? And why?" (Then, after you walk away, your friend starts mowing her lawn, the fun way.)
Anna, this was awesome. I had a girl cancel a lunch date on me the other day without an explanation until the next day she gave her excuse and apologized. At the same time, she was not ready to move forward due to ex boyfriend. It happens but only move forward but I wanted to get to know her
If she’s truly still hooked on her ex she did you a favour as you would’ve been the temporary rebound guy. Whatever you do, don’t be one her counsellor/shrink about her relationship unless you’re ok with the forever friend zone... edit: which might be ok if she’s got cute single girl friends❣️😉🙏
@@YourWingmam We had hit it off but once she mentioned about her ex boyfriend, I wouldn't want to be compared to him. You can go forward or backwards. You're 100 percent correct Anna ❣🙏🏻😊
Hi WingmanTV Yeh this one is rather slow with the replies even though you can see she's on and off line, but she'll send pictures sunning herself outside, I guess it's a no go yeh ?
Anna i see this video was a year ago. A Million expression of your body language and facial expressions says you were talking directly to someone. May be a year to late but stopped and said a small prayer for you for today.
Thanks for confirming that I have been seeing an alpha woman. shes not stringing me along. I guess shes trying to pretend that she doesn't care but its clear she likes me. So confusing when alpha women play hard to get. We talk about future dates or meeting family members. So yeah.
Ok so we both live in Texas right but, she lives in Houston I live in Austin she went to Chicago instead of coming to see me in Austin I don't understand
Well, if only you would have been available back in my late teens to early twenties. This would have been very helpful advice. Your coaching, I mean to say.... How about a story on the Alpha Nice Man. I'll voice my opinions, nicely and exact. Will not be taking advantage of, will go out of my way to help you if possible. Stand firm on correct decisions but open to listen to an idea. But it may not be noticable upon the the first few meetings.
I looked back and analyzed my encounter with someone that I spent time, money, and effort on for almost 9 months.. She failed 10 out of the 12 points that you discussed. No wonder I walked away and ended it 4 months ago.
Quite impressive that your eye colour changes from blue in one vid to brown in the next... Anyways, your vids are indeed helpful. Thank you! Carry on the good work! :)
The last Lady was a bit of both; showing up was not an issue, but didn't share anything about her life. Got to hear all about her sisters lives and what the nieces and nephews were up to. Other girls would sit me down with their big Photo Album and tell me their life stories, and ...all of their sisters' Wedding Photos.. hint hint. That is a Baseline to judge how interested she is I think.
Bale dude, Bale! I just baled last night. Wonderful lady. I am very melancholic at this point. She was upset to hear me say that I will not be pursuing her any more. I have been a wonderful friend and stuck with her through the last 6 months of a bad divorce. She voiced that she wanted me to wait for her. I have. She and I have not had any intimate contact. I was a perfect gentleman. She rusted me. One hug in 6 months. She is now legally divorced. She is now having many younger men showing up around her. I am 7 years older. Maybe that has made me of less value. This was not the case when she was going though the divorce. I was there for her. I was valuable, and she still sees value in me. I am not the problem. I am not being insensitive. What I am doing is not enabling her to continue a bad habit. The bad habit is expecting me to wait for her to learn to trust a man after her awful marriage, I don't blame her. But, I must move on. This saddens deeply.
12 Difference Between Playing Hard to Get and Stringing You Along (And What to Do!) Dude asks, "Is she playing hard to get or is she stringing me along?" Here are 12 signs she's stringing you along vs hard to get! Never get strung along again, get your dream girl, here's how: members.wingmam.com/get-women/ 😍
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If you know so much about female nature then why to you help men find women . men need a woman like a bicycle needs a fish! Let these poor men live a life without the hell that females bring to the table . your just giving them false hope and in my opinion that makes you worse that the women you talk about . I'm sure your a nice person but the only good your doing here is for yourself imo.
@@raulhernandez1454 simp game on point
Ok, so I'll give you my number, and you can text me, when your ready to schedule me in. I am willing to label us as engaged. I'll buy a huge rock for your finger. But, it might take time, I might have to go to Africa and dig one myself cuz I cant afford too big of one right now. lol.
I agree with # 12 . And remember that for us, older folks , we had to actually call the girl on an old device called telephone to hear " no I won't be able to make it " followed by a dead silence. My advice to girls , don't volontarily give us a way to reach you if don't want to hear from us ( I apply this to myself as well, who wants the email of someone you don't want to be with ? )
I’ve always backed away if I girl didn’t seem that interested. I found it best to only go for those girls who were super interested or showed signs of having a crush. Less girls that way, but far more fun.
Where the challenge in that
Hell ya! Good way to relate to women!
Yes wish I did this more when I was younger. Would have solved a lot of issues and wasted less time
@@Takeitlightly6 Do you want a "challenge" or do you want to get laid?
Agree
She is definitely stringing me along. She’s vague about what she does and where she is. Will not return messages timely. If a t all. The plans issue. She has yet to make plans with without waiting to the last minute. Wow. Something to think about. Thank you
I've watched many videos from women who are giving dating advice to men; and frankly, they were a huge waste of time. Anna, you're different. You're a straight shooter and I consider your advice and observations to be founded in wisdom and truth. Thanks, and I'll keep watching.
This women has some great, down to earth, advice on how to be a better human and how to spot a better partner.
Some of the other content providers are fill their videos with shallow vapid nonsense like how dress up. 🙄
Mark Twain once said: "It is easier to fool people than to convince them they have been fooled." The best guarantee that you aren't being taken advantage of is to take your ego out of it. The ego has a way of warping things around desired outcomes rather than allowing the reality to set in for better OR worse.
Most people don't even know what an ego really is, but yes, correct, Nathan :)
Very wise. Difficult to do but wise.
Very true. Even if you know the signs, the hardest part is often admitting to yourself that they have deceived you.
I can't recall any woman asking me anything about myself or saying "I want to know you better." Not that I need or want attention, but basic civility and taking an interest in another person is socially constructive.
Keep looking until you find one who is actually interested in you
I know exactly what you mean.
You can do that yourself pretend to be interested for a while then you get feedback or maybe find an interesting aspect about that person but if after a while nothing interesting happens move on
I would like to thank Anna Maria Jorgensen for helping me to see that 'an important friend' was not finding me so important to her. This kind of advice can be invaluable when it comes to how much energy one should put into a close relationship. Boy, am I glad to know I need not do that anymore!
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Great advice .... Was talking with this one girl for the past 6 months. I realized she was just stringing me along.....
1. She was vague on her life. When I asked her how was her day, she just basically says go to work, eat, watch dramas, sleep.
2. Only talks about herself. Yes all she cares about is her health, her vacations, her work-related problems, how can I help her fix her work-related problems.
4. She takes one whole day to reply to my message when I can clearly see that she is "online". Then the next day she apologizes and says she was busy with work or something.
5. She always shows up only when she has huge problems and requiring me for my counsel.
7. Now there's a new pretty girl in our social circle who I've been chatting with and she now seems to make an effort to seek me out.
11. Never includes me for any one of her plans. Though she has tried to slip questions on my opinions on marriage into our conversations, as she may be thinking of it. That's a tricky one?
Hey, guys. We need to play hard to get. It does work. It's a gamble but we need to go for it too.
For real bro....u gotta develop the mentality of "win some lose some...moving along"
It definitely works. But you really got to sell it
How I wish they will all try this move
Exactly, not always available.
wow I wish I had this information when I was 23. I would have avoided a lot of pain.
Dittos. Live n learn
My take away is that a woman worth pursuing, is a woman that already values you and shows the signs mentioned here, you should not try to convince her but only speak through your actions. Thanks again for the video Anna, I've learned something again.
I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏
Thank you. I think she is stringing me along. Time to back off! Sometimes this seems so complicated. It's been 20 plus years since I dated ..I will be watching and hopefully learning from you Anna... Sincerely your student David
You're welcome! You'll definitely want to check out some of the videos in my playlist for Men Over 50: ua-cam.com/play/PLQ8Q-8-X18dnLFUxjSb09iUfozc8y-fpT.html
I always tell myself and my single friends that if you aren't a priority in their life, don't pursue it. You'll look like a lost puppy and will probably feel like one, too.
i totally agree & do the same
FACTS!!
A very good advice for stubborn romantics. Just have to help em out, by drilling it into their brain. We get it, that you are "all about the feelings, passion and mood". But when you try, yet the train is still going to wreck, - know when to jump off of it. ;)
ppl who want to be in your life, will somehow let you know
"Texting is for arranging get-togethers not conversation" - this is GREAT advice and cuts down on A LOT of miscommunications.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏
@@YourWingmam A wise man once said, "Flattery can be a farce but kind words are sincerely cherished"
This is thirteen minutes and thirty-three seconds of quality content and I was able to "fit it in" to my schedule. 😉😁
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Watching this video has helped me realize even more than before, just how little the girls i went for in the past actually wanted something serious with me.
8 is my favorite one!
I’m a tech and she’s an advisor at a dealership. Her friends and my friends ACTUALLY says we should get together 😊
All your videos have been wonderfully helpful to me and my mindset with the current woman I am pursuing.
Thank you for your work.
You are so welcome ❤
Interest goes both ways and so does respect. If a woman isn't showing you both, then move on. You don't have to jump at the first opportunity a woman makes herself available to go on a date. Make her wait on your timeline.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.
This is honestly the best dating video advice i have seen on youtube. I’m currently in this situation with a girl. 95% of these signs fall in the hard to get category.
🙏 I hope she reaches the point of truly doing what is best.
I bail when I don't feel we're compatible. But for some reason regret bailing, and become jealous when she's with guys she's far more compatible with
Emotional tampon!!! Stringing you along ? is there a pun in there somewhere ?
Depends where you put it.
This is the most important and interesting video you made so far and that's my opinion. Thank you for your doing the research to enlighten us. I definitely have to meet with you as I'm in Vancouver area. Corona virus is screwing everything else. Please stay quarantined and healthy as we need more of your advice. Good job.
Damn I wish I had seen this years ago, took so many Ls, realizing I was being strung along, but never knew why, this just opened my eyes and mind in a way that is hasn’t before, every point you mentioned resonated with me, this shows me you really really know what your talking about, got my sub!! Got led along for years, strung along as a reserve, and I never knew why, I still don’t fully get it, but this gave me way more insight I didn’t have before, THANKYOU!
I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏
Wish I would have seen this video months ago....I definitely see alot of these red flags from the woman I'm currently dating...unfortunate that it took this long for me to pull away. Thanks for the video...VERY helpful and you are spot on!
Good advice; guys should listen even if they don't like what you're saying. The latest women in my case has struck out on #1, #2 and #10. She's gone.
I've tripped over the play on Wing Man thing since the beginning. Anna opens a safe door to how people think. Which is a way bigger mission on how to getva good woman.
Everyone including those in the best relationships could learn from Anna Jorgensen
It's simple. If a woman doesn't like you, you will know. Move along, nothing to see here. If a woman does like you, be her friend. If a woman is in love with you, you will DEFINITELY know. Those are the women you should go after instead of trying to convince the others because a woman in doubt will make your life a living hell!
Never try to convince a woman in doubt, so true
Well it seems the new girl is both genuinely busy and genuinely interested. I'm very independent so busy is fine with me for the foreseeable. Thank you so much!!
I'm too old to deal with either question. If she wants to hang out and she likes me cool. If not I'm going fishing in my spare time.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!
just deleted her contact...
Anna I love the inuendos in your videos so keep it up, aesthetically on point/ your hair, interesting enough this vid spoke volumes to me as I've encountered practically all experiences over the years & would have loved these poignant points back in the days.
Thank you, Jarod, and... live and learn, at least you’ll know what to look out for in future! 😉
Stringing me along, thanks for the info, Annal
Or just simply not caring. I’m 52 and I got married at 40 to a wonderful woman. But my single years in my 20s and 30s were a frustrating time with my dating life. That’s putting it lightly - it was a disaster!! I remember the girl I dated in college and she picked me up at the airport and she met a girlfriend of hers there. I walked up to her and had to stand there for ten minutes while she finished her conversation before she even looked at me!!!! Lol. I wanted her to jump in my arms!! Nope we broke up a week later.
Happy you found a wonderful lady! :)
Great video. It was tricky with the last woman I dated for a short while. Strong chemistry, but she resisted, which made me think low interest. Rescheduled plans, often last minute. Most of the time felt like an excuse rather than legitimate. Felt like she had no skin in the game (;-)) and she failed my tests. I developed an idea of who she was and then didn’t want to do anything further with her - too many red flags. I’ve experienced what burning desire feels like from a woman and it makes things so much easier. I’m hanging back from relationships for the moment as I’m taking some time for myself after some bad experiences. Mainly focussing on my own life but I do miss the sweet intimacy of being with someone.
I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and receive the woman who is truly best for you, the woman God has for you ❤ 🙏
@@YourWingmam Thank you Anna ❤️🙏
If you think a girl is stringing out, then she is. Communicate as if it is gonna be a dud. If she likes you she will have to reverse and make an effort to see you.
Exactly❣️✔️
After watching a few of your videos I really have a lot to think about now. Thanks.
Dating games. Once you get past the first date. It is a matter of flow. Getting to first date appears to determ stringing along . hard to get. Can be spotted from general actions. Unless thier are other parts involved. .Not one myself to get into that
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
Yeah she’s just stringing me along. Thanks for the video.
Better to know at least! 😬
WingmamTV that’s true
same here
Did not forget about your channel, always look. Way smart and intimidating to guys like me: succumbed to fear, lump in the throat, sweaty hands, and worse :)
I've never known such a great divide between the sexes as there is these days. I fear, or suspect that it has more to do with a certain, concerted effort of social engineering, implemented in multiple forms of media.
I think society has been so dumbed down, that being straight up and having something to say is just too unbelievable, or just plain boring to people. A lot of people are too busy acting cool, aloof and unimpressed.
It is social engineering mate. To keep us apart, to. Keep us fighting each other rather than sharing and living each other. Hopefully one day people will wake up and realise what is going on before it's too late.
Even if it is , its only short term , sooner or later the tables turn and then the fun begin , the strength of the man is to be able to wait that out and not succumb
"Idiocracy" was a prophecy.
Certainly seems way more complicated than back in the daze. Your second paragraph, I agree. Concerted effort? Have a think about that one. Yep, the dynamic that Powerchord describes above has a universal usefulness for elites but really? Are elites not at each other attempting to get a bigger share of the turf?
It's all about keeping people from uniting ,once the bickering stops and people band together as a team or army then we can pay attention to the politicians robbing us blind of our money and our future ,instead they use our own stupidy to enslave us and chain us to our jobs
Ouch that hurt, need to run...
Thanks wingmam this video open up my eyes, really big help
You're so good on relationships! This help me so much. Thank you!
Great advice! I thoroughly enjoy your advice even if some of them are hindsight lessons! Glad I found a consistent partner who has her act together.
Was once a victim of all this points you have raised but now I know better.
Had forgotten to take time to say thanks for your presentation. Good to hear the goings on in this boy girl world... And they wonder why they do not have a man
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This video almost resolved a blockage I have since 2018...!
In both cases, I simply stop chasing.
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#12 is subjective. Girls will use you just to not be alone on a Friday night or to get taken to nice restaurants. You'll eventually reach a point where you've been on many "dates" and spent lots of money and you've haven't even gotten a first kiss.
Shes the master of vagueness.
If they string you or play you, drop the headache. There are many red flags 🚩. Look guys just be a straight shooter and look for a woman that doesn’t play games
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Yep. Seen this very recently. Looks like I made the right decision by moving on.
What about women after being abused in every way in previous relatiinships . And is afraid due to tramua depressing and anixiety afraid of getting hurt and letting people in .
really helpful vids lady. i'm seperated and trying to untangle words actions and bullshiit is interesting
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Great video. Very lucid and real. But being out there in the game for a while I do think it’s important to know that a woman’s words mean nothing if it never aligns with her actions. As guys the only thing that matters to us is action. We care not what a woman says because we know most women are not strong enough to be truthful about how they feel. Most women in America in 2022 are emotional roller coaster wrecks that should be avoided. Of course there are some exceptions but most of those have been married off. Lol
Could these also be signs that she is just confused? She’s just turned 20 and I’m 29. She showed positive signs but also negative ones. We weren’t officially dating we were just seeing each other for about 7 months on and off over the course of a year and a half while seeing other people. I was honest about seeing other people and she still had her ex in the picture so we were kind of at a stale mate where we didn’t progress the relationship. I had feeling for her and she displayed feeling to me. She was always the one to text first. When we were together she was always the one to go to hold my hand or stroke my arm or face and ask for kisses and she used to ring me when she was drunk to tell me she loves me! She was very demanding though and would always go through my phone to see what girls I was talking to even though we’d both made it clear that I didn’t want anything serious while her ex was still in the picture and I knew she both resented and loved him at the same time. He’s very muscular and I’m quite slim, she has told me a lot that I need to gain weight and in a way it was holding her back and tbf I’m fully chill with that because I do need to gain weight, but I guess she was still very physically attached to her ex.
Anyways we had sex a few time’s but she always seemed on the fence, in my head I was willing to progress further if she really started to show that she chose me and was honest. But she ended up going on holiday with her ex and lied to me telling me that she went with her friend. I know we weren’t together and she didn’t have to tell me that she went with her ex, as I said I was openly dating other girls too but I was just pissed off that she chose to hide it and lie instead of telling me the truth as I wouldn’t of minded that much that she went with her ex.
I didn’t find out for a month later until she slipped up and I felt betrayed, especially as she told me she loved me. I could no longer trust that she was an honest person so I cut all ties. She blew up my phone for a week straight afterwards but I ignored it all. Turns out her ex is now dating one of her best friends (they aren’t friends anymore).
She showed signs of being a gold digger at times and was quite closed off emotionally because her mum died of cancer when she was a kid, but other times she was very loving, open and happy. Very hot and cold! In the end I chalked it off as her just using me and stringing me along but I’m not sure if she was just confused and hung up on an ex or not? Because there where times when I was younger when I really liked a girl who was in love with me but I couldn’t invest and was hot and cold because I still had feeling for an ex and it fizzled out!
Stringing me along long time. But it's complicated. Gone with the Wind.
How accurate are the things you say in this video because I am seeing someone who fits some of what you say and goes against others. If a woman has been hurt more than once and wants to take it slow does that exclude some of these things or do the same rules still apply?
It seems that with on-line date many women 60 + state they want a relationship when in fact all they desire is a meal at an upscale restaurant. This has been happening to me and my male friends for several years. When they talk about themselves all evening and want to make plans for the next date at another "of my favorite restaurants" RUN.
Thanks, now I made up my mind after watching this
I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏
What does it mean when your recent ex that don't want to see you maybe replied to your text fast instead of like 10 or 30 minutes later. I said hi and 30 seconds later she said hi back. Thank you for great advice.
If a women is reallly into you.she will make time to see you. Case close. Look for a patterns. If they continue move on.
Also if she is really into men. If she sees men as accessories, no man will interest her as a person.
Dude, good advice, everyone should be tought this
Nice job as usual , I had a long distance relationship & I hadn’t heard from her in awhile & became harder to get ahold
Of I called her her daughter. She said I think we lost her this time she quit her job took her money out of the bank. Drove her car from OR. To San Fran where her car conked. She left it in an apt. Building parking lot. Got to the airport went to Morocco. Is put up there in a hotel because her visa has run & the government keeps her there & won’t let her back in the USA because of the COVID. Her daughter found out a lot of that from what people told her when she called around because she disappeared . Eventually called her to borrow $ because she was supposed to get one from a man & got ripped off. Don’t know if she sent it to her or not. Her daughter said she knew a lady who’s son was supposed to be staying in the same building but never I never heard back & never checked again & it’s been months. Wonder to try to contact the daughter again or drop it. Don’t expect anything just to know she’s ok or if she will have to come back at some point.
Good Story No Matter What ,
Bob Rumba
Treat her too well, and she will friend zone you. Treat her too poorly, and she’ll think you’re an ass. Treat her with just the right amount of indifference, and she’ll love you.
Women, you simply aren’t worth all of that. Play games, and only gamers will win with you, and you end up in the relationship you deserve.
#6 “ I’m just a gigolo everywhere I go people always smile and saying”
Glad to hear that, thank you for your feedback!
Thank you once again for the interesting advice, I always take it. Things can be a minefield and you help to negotiate it !🙂👍
Glad you get value from my videos, Mark❣️👏😊
My Girl, does quite this PARTICULAR thing quite a bit, #6 suggestion.
Thanks, great observations to pay attention too🙂
Hey,thanks for the ongoing amazing videos.We have spoken before and I'm still following your advice.Thank you.
I'm still really confused about this relationship as she still never asks me about myself,hardly ever takes the time to make plans,does not talk about a future between us,txts are very short albeit the txt are minimal and I certainly do not over txt and the relationship after 4 months seems not to be progressing in the way I would like.
I still don't ask how she feels about me as I'm taught not too.
She on the other hand has never yet cancelled on plans,she has put a pic of the both of us as her profile pic,"a lovely place I took her too,"is affectionate with me when I'm there and we are intimate.
She has shit tested me about 3 times and I have always stood my ground the third time being the most intense.
Our dates and times out have mostly been planned by myself and have been very thoughtfull and exciting.
I just still dont know what to do and its breaking my heart.
I'm sure shes not seeing anyone else and seems to have good standards in that way.
Shes 51 years old but a very very young 51.
Thank you.X
That's confusing Doromasso. I see your post is a year old; interested to know how it has played out?
This is good advice to spot stringing along behaviour. Can you give your opinion on the reasons WHY women string men along.
EDIT: What's the purpose, what's the plot, what's the sexual strategy, what's the mindset behind it. Knowing that would give greater insight and ability to spot it happening.
Maybe start with a woman's definition of what "stringing along" means. Just so we are talking about the same thing. Nb. A woman's and man's definition of "stringing along" maybe different.
@R K Hi RK, thank you for your detailed and considered response. Its not that I didn't know the answer to my question. Infact my views match alot of what you say.
But what I was after was a women's (honest) insight of why they do it; and specifically Wingmam's opinion of why she thinks other women do it.
Good video,but it can be more complicated than this and all.if she’s a dismissive or fearful avoidant,she can be very interested in you,but these people sometimes the more they’re interested in you,is the more their can run.also if they’re a twin flame they run until it’s time for union to occur.i talk to this woman through telepathy,and I also take on her emotions,if she’s sad all of a sudden I will also get sad for no reason.i see angel nos as well,and also dream about her sometimes.im trying to get her to do amino acid therapy.im going to do it soon.i may just move on soon.these situations are just to complicated and toxic
So how does this apply to someone who is bipolar and has PTSD?
A good one is to see how many texts you get from her in relation to the ones you sent her.
This is exactly what I needed
Can you please make a video on the signs a close girl friend is having a crush/falling in love with you? Thank you!!
Noted
I fell for a lady really stringing me along. A work situation, went on one lunch date, She repeatedly accepted another date attempt and always cancelled last minute, oh she was busy..... After several times I pushed too hard and she said she couldn't go out but never said why. Years after that, she wouldn't even work with me when I needed her assistance on projects, yet would immediately respond to a co-worker asking for her help on the project. Bugs me to this day and sadly not the first time it happened.
I've learned i broke every rule... Im needy, clingy, too emotional...so I'm to blame for my lot...but she's still into me, I think, and I'm doing damage control...but between her two almost adult teenage boys and all her activities, I see her like every other weekend...I'm considering walking away. It's obvious she only needs me when she's home alone.
"If she's hot and cold vs. consistent"
Her: *consistently cold*
Women who build/maintain social circles. It's a comfort zone, especially having guys who are dependable around her. Here are two things I look for: (1) A handful, or more, of guy-friends (excluding co-workers, boy-friends/husbands of girlfriends/relatives) (2) She dates outside the group, even after a break-up. (where's my shot at the title?) The easiest thing to do is ask a friend to level with you, "Do you see me and her together? And why?" (Then, after you walk away, your friend starts mowing her lawn, the fun way.)
Ha! But yes,true! Be careful of friends’ motives! Great insights✔️
If they're "playing" hard to get, they're not being genuine. That tells you everything you need to know to move on. Who cares why they were "playing"?
In a way Yes, but some times it can be torcher if you really care about You.
Anna, this was awesome. I had a girl cancel a lunch date on me the other day without an explanation until the next day she gave her excuse and apologized. At the same time, she was not ready to move forward due to ex boyfriend. It happens but only move forward but I wanted to get to know her
If she’s truly still hooked on her ex she did you a favour as you would’ve been the temporary rebound guy.
Whatever you do, don’t be one her counsellor/shrink about her relationship unless you’re ok with the forever friend zone... edit: which might be ok if she’s got cute single girl friends❣️😉🙏
@@YourWingmam We had hit it off but once she mentioned about her ex boyfriend, I wouldn't want to be compared to him. You can go forward or backwards. You're 100 percent correct Anna ❣🙏🏻😊
Good call, John!
@@YourWingmam Thanks, it's just her chances spurning opportunities but to each their own
Hi WingmanTV
Yeh this one is rather slow with the replies even though you can see she's on and off line, but she'll send pictures sunning herself outside, I guess it's a no go yeh ?
A WOMAN ....is your best friend not just a sex buddy....love her respect her treat her special and give here space ...that is the best relationship
Robert Proietti - Ricci yes sir !!
Anna i see this video was a year ago. A Million expression of your body language and facial expressions says you were talking directly to someone. May be a year to late but stopped and said a small prayer for you for today.
Thanks for confirming that I have been seeing an alpha woman. shes not stringing me along. I guess shes trying to pretend that she doesn't care but its clear she likes me. So confusing when alpha women play hard to get. We talk about future dates or meeting family members. So yeah.
Ok so we both live in Texas right but, she lives in Houston I live in Austin she went to Chicago instead of coming to see me in Austin I don't understand
Well, if only you would have been available back in my late teens to early twenties. This would have been very helpful advice. Your coaching, I mean to say.... How about a story on the Alpha Nice Man. I'll voice my opinions, nicely and exact. Will not be taking advantage of, will go out of my way to help you if possible. Stand firm on correct decisions but open to listen to an idea. But it may not be noticable upon the the first few meetings.
Great points!
I looked back and analyzed my encounter with someone that I
spent time, money, and effort on for almost 9 months..
She failed 10 out of the 12 points that you discussed. No wonder I walked away and ended it 4 months ago.
Very detailed and informative
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
Your mostly spot on!!! and yet there is 10 dislikes. Female trolls???
Thank you Anna.
You're a world of hope.
- thank you.
Glad I could help 🙏
Yea at least your alive with those comments i love it
Quite impressive that your eye colour changes from blue in one vid to brown in the next...
Anyways, your vids are indeed helpful. Thank you! Carry on the good work! :)
I like spontaneous innuendos. Makes it even more real.
Great stuff Anna. I have to say the SAME applies to men! 😂😂
The last Lady was a bit of both; showing up was not an issue, but didn't share anything about her life. Got to hear all about her sisters lives and what the nieces and nephews were up to. Other girls would sit me down with their big Photo Album and tell me their life stories, and ...all of their sisters' Wedding Photos.. hint hint. That is a Baseline to judge how interested she is I think.
Thanks Again.
🗣 I Bailed like a good dude.
You are SO GOOD to listen to! Your advice is usually right on the mark... and your eyes are incredibly alluring.
Bale dude, Bale! I just baled last night. Wonderful lady. I am very melancholic at this point. She was upset to hear me say that I will not be pursuing her any more. I have been a wonderful friend and stuck with her through the last 6 months of a bad divorce. She voiced that she wanted me to wait for her. I have. She and I have not had any intimate contact. I was a perfect gentleman. She rusted me. One hug in 6 months. She is now legally divorced. She is now having many younger men showing up around her. I am 7 years older. Maybe that has made me of less value. This was not the case when she was going though the divorce. I was there for her. I was valuable, and she still sees value in me. I am not the problem. I am not being insensitive. What I am doing is not enabling her to continue a bad habit. The bad habit is expecting me to wait for her to learn to trust a man after her awful marriage, I don't blame her. But, I must move on. This saddens deeply.