25 Signs to Know if She's a Keeper | She's a Keeper IF... Traits of a High Value Woman! HVW
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- 25 Signs to Know if She's a Keeper | She's a Keeper IF... In this dating advice, I will give you 25 signs to know if she’s a keeper. You may want to know if she’s a keeper either on first dates, online dating, or somewhere in the dating process. Take heed to these dating tips for men and be sure to watch the whole video.
Keep in mind that most women aren't going to have all of these traits, but that doesn't mean she's not a keeper. She's a keeper if she has some of the traits I am going to mention in this video, the more qualities she has the less you'll have to wonder if she's a keeper!
I want you to know how to identify girlfriend material as well as how do you know she’s a keeper. Understand women so that you can be able to tell if she’s a keeper or not and avoid wasting time. If she's a keeper then she's also a high value woman and high value women have more choices.
If you know she's a keeper then you'll want to make sure you're the best man for her, which is why you'll want to invest in (your guessed it) my WakeUP2Luv program: WakeUP2Luv - GET WOMEN! members.wingmam.com/get-women/
The good news is that even if she's a keeper and you aren't able to keep her, you'll have improved yourself and your value as a man in both your own eyes and other women's eyes so it'll be that much easier to find another keeper -- and keep her! ;)
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How do you know if she's a keeper? She's a keeper if she has several of the traits! Hope my "lock down" and "urn" jokes don't offend! If they do, this channel may not be appropriate for your delicate disposition. Big hug. xo AJ p.s. *WakeUP2Luv link in video notes!*
Suffice to say delicate dispositions dont belong here lol lol.
WingmamTV I had to smile from ear to ear when you said lock her down lol. I get you. Great list thanks.
@D T Awareness is the first step to change, start where you are and work toward where you want to be. It's not a race, go at your own pace. Don't give up! :)
I love your advice and I love you! Hugs back
Max Lee
Anna the True 🦄
My mother once gave me the most important piece of advice on women that I have ever heard. She said, "Don't marry a women who doesn't love you as much as you love her". Thanks, Mom.
your mom is 100 percent correct
Good advice
So you are saying...... that you married your mother?
Korrekt?
So true
Oh Yeah :)
1. She's kind to servers, cashiers, service industry workers (especially if they make a mistake)
2. She owns up to her own mistakes. (Bonus: She tries to make it up to you!)
3. She doesn't freak out when you make a mistake. (Bonus: If it's your second time making the same mistake)
4. She encourages you to follow your passions and hobbies. (Bonus: She sacrifices her time with you for you to do that)
5. She has a full life with friends and hobbies. (Bonus: She doesn't rely on you for all her happiness)
6. She encourages you to spend time with "good" friends/family. (Bonus: She shows up with you even when she ain't really into it)
7. She doesn't try to move too quickly.
8. She lifts your spirits when you're down
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9. She's your biggest cheerleader when you win in life.
10. She loves the way you're a man. (Bonus: She sees your "masculine-based flaws" as cute quirks)
11. She's generous with her attention and affection but isn't needy or clingy.
12. She looks for peaceful resolution and wants to understand your side.
13. She's feminine but not a feminazi (Red flag: If she says "patriarchy" ditch and run away!)
14. You have compatible long term goals. (Bonus: She's willing to compromise and not abandon her goals for the relationship)
15. You have compatible beliefs and values in the important things. (Example: Togetherness, Independence, Sex, Money, Children)
16. She defends your honor (Bonus: She doesn't dish about your problems to her friends)
17. She shows her love for you in the way you need it. (Using the 5 love languages: Physical affection/touch. Quality time, acts of service, gifts, words of affirmation.
(Bonus: She expresses her love in your love language when it's different than hers)
18. She doesn't use sex as a weapon and doesn't withhold affection to punish you (Bonus: She rewards your "good behavior" with sexual favors)
19. She looks for ways to praise you.
20. She's got your back - she's your BFF.
21. She doesn't play games. She treats you with respect.
22. You laugh a lot together.
23. You can spend a lot of time together without feeling bored or claustrophobic.
24. She's stable and has her life in order and has her priorities straight. (She has room to add value to her life, not to fix her life!)
25. You've got shared chemistry and connection. (Physically, sexually, emotionally, intellectually, etc)
15 of these are the opposite of red flags she's emotionally fu*ked up
And she would have to be a widow or an android...
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@@whateveritiz2010 that yet cuzzin Melted?
😂😂😂😂 is she even human
She described my mom. My dad hit jackpot, and I was blessed with such a wonderful woman as a mother and great example of a wife. They are both 68 and have been married since age 18, so 50years of marriage!
Sounds like your parents hit the lottery. That’s worth more than money.
you are one lucky son Bradley Smith.
Same with my parents!!
Awesome
It’s also cool that you recognize these traits. 😎
For me the best sign that things are still ok after many years and many kids, is that you look forward to going home after work.
Idk why this has so few likes.
So good dude!
I really like the sound of that
That is so true.
The truth 100%
My wife of 25 years told me when we first met that she can't stand oprah winfrey,I knew she was a keeper
There are a BUNCH of us who can't stand Oprah... her true colors are now all the way out, but it was obvious to some of us way back when...
Oprah, and a bunch of other “figures” that the media tells you that you should love, is awful.
Bottom line, if someone is willing to question or go against the status quo, this is a good sign in my book.
Nice one! Yep, an excellent sign!
Yes... I don't watch Oprah, but I did see Oprah on South park and she's clearly really weird, and endorses auto-biographies written by talking towels that always get high...!
😅😅😅
My wife probably started with less than half of these qualities, me, even fewer. We supported each other for 37 years till she passed. We both gave each other space to grow and had 20+ of these qualities at the end.
Thanks for the reinforcement of my beliefs.
Sense of humor is #1
My wife died a little over 2 years ago....I would say kindness would be number 1
Finally a positive comment. Too many negatives on the net. Sorry to hear of your loss.
Dude dont post sad shit online im sensitive tf I'm about to cry and shit mad annoying
You have to love them which factors into the determination to stay.
I've been Married for fifteen years. I've noticed in my generation especially that as a woman, from early childhood on we were trained to expect happily ever after. It wasn't until i met his mother and other sister in laws that i realized i had no realistic role models for women growing up and that most of what i was taught to expect was actually ABUSIVE in my relationship. In work, i knew to emulate the most successful and when it occurred to me to applythat mindset to my marriage, not only did our fighting almost completely vanish, but i noticed that he reciprocated fiercely, and our love that was always SOLID was now PASSIONATE. his priority became me and mine became him when before it was always 'what about me?'. The first few years figuring one another out are difficult for any couple. But when our priorities are in order and our ability to grow and learn is valued by both our partner and ourselves, a kind of solidarity that when held as dearly as all the reasons you fell in love in the first place, means any obstacle you encounter won't stand a snowball's chance!
I met my current girlfriend at work without having any expectations. She has all of these qualities - which is hard to believe. I saw how she was and treated others, how caring, selfless and just a good person altogether. And... she is absolutely gorgeous!!! I mean she gets hit on all the time. She’s truly the girl of my dreams ( i say girl but we’re not so young anymore. We’re grown adults). When I asked her out very forward and blatantly ( we laugh about it now how this guy has some balls! Lol ) the chemistry was absolutely incredible! I am going to keep her and marry her. I know how most women in this world are basically broken but good ones still exist. Im glad I found mine. :)
(Offshore Asset Protection Trust) 🔐 + you can bend the knee to propose to her like I seen done IRL but never bend the knee to her (kiss her @$$) you keep the apex possition.
Are you guys still together??
@@_Martine_ Yes! We are engaged and planning our wedding. After 3 years our friendship and chemistry is amazing! She does everything to help me - if we need to get dirty in the mud she’ll jump in there without hesitation. She is a true partner and has my back 100%. Very selfless and generous in every way. I never thought a woman could love me this much. Of course I treat her just the same. We are extremely affectionate towards each other even after over 3 years. When we are together at the gym we are surrounded by people and we don’t even notice anyone is there. We live in our own world and always have a great time together. Thanks for asking. 😊
1. Kind to service industry workers
2. She owns up to her mistakes
3. She doesn't freak out, when you make a mistake
4. She encourages you to follow your passion and hobbies
5. She has a full life with friends and hobbies
6. She encourages you to spend time with good friends and family
7. She doesn't try to move too quickly
8. She lifts your spirits when you're down
10. She loves the way you're a man
11. She's generous with affection and time but isn't needy or clingy
12. She looks for peaceful resolution and wants to understand your side
13. She's feminine but not a feminazi
14. You both have compatible long term goals, where one or more willing to compromise
15. You have compatible beliefs and values- sex, money, children, independence, togetherness
16. She defends your honour
17. She shows her love for you in the away you need it
18. She doesn't use sex as a weapon or withhold affection to punish you
19. She looks for ways to praise you
20. She's got your back - she's your bff
21. She doesn't play games. She treats you with respect
22. You laugh a lot together
23. You can spend a lot of time together without feeling pushed or bored
24. She's stable and has her life in order and get priorities straight
25. You've got shared chemistry and connection
0 for 25.
Sign 26, she's not divorced with 3 kids living in a big house with an unrealistic sense of entitlement.
I think she covered that one in this video, lol. ua-cam.com/video/sQe0IBI-yL0/v-deo.html
That's basically a big ass red flag broski
Van you do one for the ladies
Sorry about what your going through man.
Just broke up with one who was married o to wealth. Never again.
I've never found a woman with these qualities, but my dog has most of them. Good enough...
Look overseas where the people have more character and integrity.
@@Nowhere888 Like acceptance of animal cruelty, corruption/nepotistic hiring practices, closed-mindedness, lack of creativity, lack of philanthropy and donating to charity no matter how rich they are because they only care about their own family and in-group members, refusal to do their part to conserve the ecosystem, refusal to donate blood or bone marrow or a kidney (unless it's a family member), murdering two consenting adults just because they happen to be of the same gender, etc.
@@moondog7694 You'll find the right man!
Sonny Dey ... Hahaha! Funny shit!
Does your dog have a pussy?
Honestly, it’s is actually great for women to watch.
I got out of a long term relationship earlier this year, and kind of learned to work on myself in the meantime.
I don’t like short terms flings or hookups, so I’d rather improve myself until I’m fully ready.
God bless you Robin! :)
You're wiser than most people of either sex then.
I suspect you're a libra
@@fatimamoja7864 yes😂
Wish more women followed your example. Kudos for you, just know us men love women who focus on self-development! So keep up the good work!!!
part of why i miss my fiancee. she fit so much of what you said, and her passing was such a hard hit. she was so imperfectly perfect, and i loved her for that.
I am sorry for your loss. My hope is that the gratitude of knowing her has made you a better person. It is painful but true that it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.
So sorry man...you had a unicorn
I miss my finance too! 🤗
#1 I remember getting my first date with a really pretty girl and at dinner she asked why I thanked the waiter, he is just a waiter. Needless to say that date was shorter than planned and the last one. I immediately envisioned what she would be saying to me in 3 months.
Really? How old was this person? That sounds like an immature high school brat
@@bonnienedza55 The woman was a 31 and I was 40 at the time, 30 years ago. She was a fashion designer and had been a well known model before aging out. The tone of voice with which she dismissed him rang warning bells and any benefit of the doubt was lost so thoughts of seeing her again evaporated. I was in the music industry but also owned an elegant fashion store that featured less established new designers and she had attended a charity fashion show we sponsored. I liked her leather jacket designs and was taken by her beauty. Apparently, she realized she blew it so she sent a dozen white carnations to my office. I responded politely but did not continue any contact with her.
I did not start dating until I was well established at 23 so I was a little more selective than my cohorts in HS or college, already having successful businesses and had already visited 2 dozen countries so I had experience with a range of cultures and customs for social interaction. I was very easy going without demands on anyone but I did not waste time with people who were aggressive, pushy or entitled. I famously kicked a top star out of my recording studio because he was aggressive to one of the female staff, midway through his album. The incident created a stir in the press but he promises to ruin me and his trying to finish it in his own studio failed and never had any success again, after 3 straight gold albums we did for him. I currently live in a country where manners mean a lot, so dating is a lot less a minefield than back in the US.
@@RulosMagicos Well, I met many keepers but had no interest in marriage. Not having more kids, there was not a compelling reason. I had a series of long term girlfriends, even now, going on 6 years with a very attractive fit woman who is feminine, highly educated and cultured, fit, active, a lawyer, yoga instructor and partner in a company I created around her, and 35yo . All was perfect until recently her biological clock started ringing and now she wants children which she insisted she did not want them for the last 5 years.
@@stanspb763 what country do you live in? I want to go there.
@@amandamcfarland8554 looks like an eastern european country : romania ,moldavia,
Sign #26: She has a sunny disposition and is not displaying any symptoms of coronavirus.
lol lol lol
...and if we were fiends, I would definitely 'lock you down" ;-)
@@jarodorla6949 I love your avatar image!
blood donors needed to save lives but my gf said it's not my problem, she told me not to do it. she's like this in other instances too.. she doesn't like to help people. now my buddies are saying she's a selfish narcissist. thoughts? red flag?
& is willing to swap fluids...
Thank you Anna.! You’ve just reminded me in 25 ways that I am in love with a Unicorn and that she is indeed a keeper!
They do exist everyone!!
I'm so blessed my girl is a Unicorn
So far.
I met a narcissist woman having most of the points mentioned. She was so clever in pretending, so decisive that It was impossible for me to discover until we hooked. Then all the sudden she dropped the mask and stripped from all the qualities mentioned like a tree in fall when loosing leaves and at the end, remain a naked tree that’s un-recognizable. Best advice, don’t rush it and the time will drop all the face masks
I had a husband like that
Same here but with my ex boyfriend.
It's called Pathological Covert Narcopath aka Jezebel Spirit...
Meet the mother, and study her long and HARD... What ever she's like more than likely she is or will be...
Same here. I was with a covert malignant narc for a long time. An abosolutely wonderfull guy vs possesed maniac. They should teach about emotional abuse at high school.
How long did it take for her to drop her mask?
One thing I learned is, never get with someone that has more problems or baggage than you.
Word
Perfect 👌
Good advice!
Yup...
No actually the saying is, “Let’s unpack each other’s baggage/suitcase.” Everyone has baggage and some more than others. One has to see if that baggage is worth living with in terms of the good qualities outweighing the bad. That’s being real because all people are broken in some form or another.
My girlfriend one punched an asshole because he talked bad of me. She screamed at him, she was so brave. She still is, my Supergirl
Ooooooooh that's awesome
I hope that was while you weren't around to punch him yourself...otherwise, ya might just be a beta and she might just have an alpha on the side when she isn't busy protecting you.
I would only look for one trait. To only tell me "its gonna be ok." Not try to solve my issue. Just assure me she's listening and has my back. Still looking.....
That’s a really great expectation! There are a lot of people who have been traumatized and are codependent. Women like that will try to fix your problems and then resent you for it. She won’t even realize she’s doing it. Been there...done that.
I met my wife when I was homeless, been married now 31 years. We've had our ups and downs but still together. The first time I asked her out she told me that she doesn't date men. But I still got her to be with me.
At least you know she didn't date you for your house
Now thats a keeper dude...dont you ever mess up bud
I dated a woman that was homeless. It was nice because at the end of the date, I could drop her off anywhere.
@@esotericman6369 🤦😂
@@esotericman6369 😂😂😂
"Can someone love me better?"
Have to disagree on this one. Because the answer is always "yes" even if your current partner is the unicorn. I'm of the belief that this kind of thinking is toxic to relationships. If you're constantly thinking that there is someone better, you will not commit to the current relationship because your eye is constantly wandering looking for that "better" partner. And chances are, you WILL find that person, but then realize that it was an illusion because you filled in the knowledge gaps about this new person with cotton candy and unicorn farts. Your current real person partner with known real flaws can never compete with the unrealistically built-up, imaginary "better" person so you end up spending your life chasing "better" when "great partner" was 5 partners back.
"Can someone else love her better?"
Also disagree with this one. The answer should ALWAYS be "yes". To answer "no" is the height of arrogance. The answer of "yes" will spark the competitiveness in you to improve yourself to love her even better. The question should not spark insecurity, but rather keep you on your toes to want to love her better instead of becoming too comfortable and complacent.
Yes , you turned what he said on its head .
I know many men who have fallen in love with a girl , and the question is almost never “ Can someone love ME better ?”
In his mind ...
But “ Can someone else be better for HER than me ?
Can someone love HER better ?”
It’s a noble question , born of true love and caring , and hard-headed practicality .
He knows his capabilities., his assets , and wonders if he should make her settle for him , when she deserves more .
Don’t say it is a lack of confidence.... many of these men are strong as steel ...
If anything , it is an over abundance of strength , determination and discipline...
An overblown sense of decency .
To coldly look at one you would love with all your heart , spend your days and nights with ... and ask yourself
“ No matter what is good for me , what is best for HER ?”
Then have the iron will and determination to bite your tongue , stand fast , and look away , while she goes with someone else .
Watch everything you want in life walk away .
To serve honor rather than selfishness...
To be the decent human being .
It is a personal way for a man to perform The Birkenhead Drill ... self sacrifice for the love of others ... and especially ... the one .
You can disagree with these men .
Say they should take what they can get , and try to make it work ... get in there and win her ... he knows he probably could ... almost assuredly....
Yes , it is absolutely fatal to a relationship... because anything that might bring her closer to him , will be seen by him as a test of his will and determination .
To be shut down without her knowing .
But don’t dismiss them , or deride their bravery ... their decision isn’t cowardice ... it’s courage on a level most people can’t even comprehend .
It’s mercy in its truest form ... I will not hurt you , by action or inaction .
Your well-being is my only concern .
“ Go my love ... and be happy ...
Give me not another thought .
I give you up so your life can be joyous ...
even at the expense of my own .
I will not even hint at my sacrifice , you will never know ...
But I did love you so ...
I will swiftly fade from your thoughts ,
nor will I disturb your memory .
But you will always be in mine .
Farewell , my love . “
Some men are made of sterner stuff than others , wise to the ways of the world , they decide to do the right thing ... no matter how much it hurts .
The person who you created in your head doesn't exist. Unless your relationship is extremely terrible abuse etc, the grass is hardly ever greener on the other side. No one is perfect and all relationships have their problems even with people you normally get along well with. If you have a person you get along with for the most parts and you guys come together and stick it out, that's something good in itself, even that is rare.
@@sleazybtd LMAO,...if you're having to compete, you can never 'win' her. Just like her happiness, her loyalty comes from within HER (her character dictates this, not others, especially not friends and family,...but her), and most often (not always by any means) whether she cheats/leaves/etc,...will have NOTHING to do with her guys behaviors what so ever. I don't think these women she speaks of,...exist. Not to say you wouldn't find one with one or so of these qualities, but anymore than that? LOLOLOL....that's just a Unicorn.
I agree - too negative.
I'm happy that I married a mature man who makes me understand the aspects I need to improve, he makes me want to be a better person
Curious, where did you meet him? I have trouble finding women that don't seem like 30-something 10 year olds, so would love to know where to find mentally stable, mentally mature women these days.
We met in Costa Rica, that's where I'm from. Pérez Zeledón, the town I grew up in, is known for having lots of beautiful women but lack of man, actually I married an italian, never had a serious relationship with man from my country
"he makes me want to be a better person
" - who can want more than that :)
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
When was 29, bronzed, fit and with a solid career, I developed pneumonia from working in a heavy snowstorm. It was a struggle to recover. I had a circle of about 12 woman I knew, but not really too connected with. Of the 12, most of them would say things like "give me a call when you feel better" or "That's too bad."
One of them made me sleep on her couch, made me go to sleep early, made me chicken soup and got me well. We got married six weeks later. Been together 34 years. She lets me take adventure hikes in the West and be myself. These women are out there.
Seriously standards are that low? This is a list how to be a decent human being not potential partner
You have no idea how many low value people is walking out there this days. 1 out of 10 or 20, as you say, are a decent human being.
TRUTH
@@con2mms2000 Having this kind of opinion about humanity dose not makes you stand out from the " low level majority". no offense intended.
Exactly!!!
JNSSS I hear that shit!!! But there are still so few out there!!! Good luck if u fall into this category I have never found a man yet capable of most of these qualities I can honestly say I am all of that naturally I am an Empath compassion person so I attract major frauds parading like they are all that but a few months in their true selves come out and I find I fell into a shithole AGAIN!!!
Here’s one: She gives you power of attorney.
Well done
It's nice to imagine someone with these qualities. I'm inspired to adopt these qualities as much as I can.
We 🦄 are out there 😌 As high valuable Women ,kind , respectful, atractive, taking care of themselves , also physically don't want to go for less, that's why It's difficult to meet a compatible partner with decent equal qualities
@@NG290584 I would like to believe that 🦄are real. I wonder if there is a way I we could communicate privately. Can or should I post my email or phone number address here?
Well, my girl told me once one thing that kinda melted me. "you make me want to be better" and holeee shiet, those words kind of hit in the right spot you know.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.
I am on my third marriage now for almost 23 years and it's solid. Girl you are seriously right on the money!
lol I have done 2 cant imagine a third but fair play to you
@@marksallai2289 yep 👍🏾
Going down this list, I know I married a great one!!! She hits pretty much every single one! When I married her I knew balls to bones she was the one.
As woman I will say , it is really difficult to be intimate with an inconsiderate partner. It’s not like I do it on purpose, but hiding with my hurt and having sex with a man so he doesn’t feel rejected is emotionally painful and plain wrong.
As a man that didn't treat women great in my life at times, I CAN see your point.
Yeet him out of your life. He is a waste of everything
@@mikehunt8563 I totally agree Mike. Woman don't get an automatic pass with me. What gave you that idea.
My wife ticks all those boxes! 😍 So glad because I have been pretty careful about settling down with the wrong woman.
Here’s how a friend of mine identified the keeper he’s now married: one evening a couple of years ago, after working out, he remembered he had to pick something up, so he quickly grabbed his car keys but not his wallet. When he did a rolling stop at a stop sign, a cop pulled him over. When the cop found out he didn’t have a drivers license, he arrested him. He was taken to jail and his car was impounded. He went before the magistrate at about 2:30am and was released on his own recognizance. Thinking about who to call to come get him at the county jail at 3am, he thought, if I call one of my co-workers everyone at work will know I got arrested; if I call one of my friends or relatives, everyone will be laughing about this forever. Then he remembered this girl he had only dated about three times, who he really liked, and was kind of outside of his social circle. They didn’t really know each other that well, but he decided to call her and said, hey, I just got out of jail and I was wondering if you wouldn’t mind coming to pick me up. She said, sure I’ll be there in about 45 minutes.....never asked one word about why he had been put in jail. As she was driving him home at 4 in the morning (it was a work day for both of them), he got to thinking, you know, this is the kind of woman who would make a really good wife. After a few more dates, he asked her to marry him. Picking him up at the jail at 4 in the morning without even asking why he was in jail elevated her above all the other women he knew and had ever known.
@@turn-n-burn1421 i agree with that. somebody does something nice for you once.... great! the real deal comes out when she's there for you everytime you need her.
Why? It's no secret they prefer bad boys.
She is just naive. Poor people learn the hard way, in time, to not trust anyone, and learn to ask the right questions and demonstrate the right to know, in opposite to taking others' words at face value.
celestialfix that was pretty out of line for that cop to do. Usually, they would give a ticket. How do I know? Because it happened to me. What state was this in?
Driving without your license on you is a jail-able offense? Jeeze. Hey, what if your friend was a rapist?
It's easier to stay single......women can take care of themselves without a man......im happy by myself.....especially now with all that is going on......glad I'm alone.....this is great!
And that's ok if that's what you prefer. Relationships aren't mandatory. Happiness is an inside job! (Everyone who's single and lonely loathes that phrase lol)
@John Smith
You’re lie to yourself, I ask why you’re watching this video?
@@erickjohnson7703 I find these videos entertaining.....run along now....go bother somebody else.
@@YourWingmam Hello my fellow Vancouverite, while it's true men and women don't need each other for their personal happiness, yet they complete one another in many ways. Aside from sexual satisfaction us men need a woman's presence and support at some point in our lives and vice versa.
Women need men when they hit the wall. Good luck with those cats
There was a girl like that in my life and I loved that she held me accountable for everything that I did wrong because I know she had my best interest behind it, but I'm too emotionally damaged from my previous toxic relationship and I cannot trust anyone right now because I'm 100% focused on my career and myself.
Agreed. I'm at a place where I will not allow others into my little World because I tend to get off track. Then, I won't and they won't be investing in a relationship with different values.
I am woman and been working on myself for a while and now a lot more! I aspire to be the best version of myself. Setting healthy boundaries and having healthier communication. I believe a relationship should be team work and not out of being needy. Though this is for men, I just found your page and like your content. I aspire to be a great wife, friend and mother!
Glad to hear that, thank you for sharing ❤
Hi ❤❤
Are you free Saturday night?😊
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Only simps and silly men believe in "nice women". MGTOW is the way to go!
Good points.. the only problem with this is that there are no women like that who are available. I'm searching for decades and couldn't find one yet.
Unicorns are real. NAWALT
No one is perfect..........
Your'e more likely to find when you're not looking...............
@@DJSonicScotland that's a myth
Hey Anna! Thank you for all the value you bring with your videos. I am a new watcher and have been blown away. I am about to turn 35, recently divorced after 12 years of marriage, and a father to an awesome son. Your videos are helping me get out of a rut I have been in for the last 2 months. Much love and stay healthy out there! Josh
I just broke up with a woman I had been dating a while. The final straw: being rude to a server for no reason. The guy was awesome, and she was super rude. Dumped her after dinner.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
Thank you so much for this video. It's clarified alot in this relationship I'm in. Sounds like we're in a very healthy position and boundaries.
Deeply appreciate it!
"When she understands that men and women are different". OMG, I want a woman like that.
Thats only happen when shes older lol
@@shakirghazali2890 🤣🤣
That story begins "Once upon a time...."
A lot of men don’t understand this either.
@@ReneeCaraway Actually women like that exist at every age, although they are somewhat few in my experience.
Awesome advice. Single for 12 years, dated several long enough to see the red flags- but yes it is very hard to find most of these even when seeing them in yourself. Its has been surprisingly disappointing. it’s obvious you really have a deeper understanding more than anyone I’ve heard on the subject. Amazing good job. Thanks so much. Great to discover there is a woman out there who understands these dynamics so well. 👍👍👍
This is a great list... very practical, healthy and well delivered! Thanks Anna!
By watching just a few of your videos, you've helped me realize exactly what I have before me in this moment. Thank you so much for your insight and keep up the good work! I'll definitely be recommending your videos from here on out.
Read through the comments; Easy to see who's been put through Hell already.
al fresco oh how can you tell ;)
The woman she is describing,...LOL,....does NOT exist.
@@walterhicks5520 Thank you, my thoughts exactly.
al fresco everyone at least twice! Every man I mean!
Lol! I know. Ive never seen men so hurt! But for the longest time I didn't even know men did have feelings because my dad was always mad and mean. I thought men were macho all the time. I looked at nice men as being weak. But now I know its vise versa.
Spot on lady! Great info, great list!
You're really great at this, I agree with everything you have said in your last two videos I have watched. I am glad that someone like you is doing this for a living.
I agree with all of these and practice them. Bottom line when she loves herself she will love you.
Way to go Wingmam! You hit a homerun on this one! Very nice to hear a lady that stands up for men.
You missed the most important one... SHE HAS A GOOD RELATIONSHIP WITH HER MOTHER AND FATHER. Freud was right... it's always about one's mother.
This all day - my wife was always distant to her parents and now we are married shows she’s ignorant and doesn’t care about anyone but herself
She did mention it
Mh... I have seen woman treating man really badly and having a good relationship with their parents who just tell them that all they do is right.
There is diferent cases. Some people lost on of their parents in childhood, or grew up with grandparents... That doesnt immediatly make a woman bad. Its more about what she does with it.
Your theory only makes sense if all parents are good people. Reality is, not all parents are good people and make it impossible to have a good relationship with. But either way, you shouldn’t hate your parents.
@@Arkane117 you didnt read my response carefully. It said have a GOOD relationship with her mother and father. Clearly, not everyone does.
Wow, scored 💯. I didn’t realize how good I have it! I think I owe someone a hug, warm frothy coffee, and a listening heart in the morning. Tusind tak.
I'm really thoroughly enjoying your videos, which I just happened to stumble across.
They're very good because you're a very good communicator. Regardless of whether you're "right" or "wrong", you get what you're trying to say across clearly and straightforwardly.
Thanks. Best wishes.
Thanks for your content! I'll show this one to my daughters when they're a bit older
i've dated tons of women. i had to rack my brain to think of one with atleast three of these traits. my mind's still blank.
Start dating from a better pool, not the trash can.
😂😂😂 same here
@@lesleykramer7207 LMAO,...there is no 'better pool'. It's all a cess pool these days, if ever it wasn't.
Take a break. Declutter your mind. So you can have a clearer perspective on what a healthy relationship is.
Wytchfinde straight fax people be like stop dating the wrong people everyone is the wrong person nowadays
I read that book before I got married and I love that book. Was married for 23 years the first time and stayed until our son was out of school then I left because he was with other women three all told. Now I am married to a great man who loves me for me and I love him for him it's out there you just have to take your time. 🙏❤
I am a mid 60's male ,I agree with your points I could write this kind of material but I do not have the time so thank you for taking the time. I learned it all the hard way back in the day. I see the most delightful lady she is a widow who swears she will never put herself through another marriage I have known her plutonically for a few years but times change and she has needs that I am happy to fullfill, her grown sons and I get on well ,I consider myself lucky.
Thanks for more good advice . Love your personality !
Anna's seems to be looking to sociopathic personalities to avoid. Dr. Phil wrote a whole book called "Life Code" that helps you spot sociopaths. My sister is a sociopath and she always yells and insults waitresses which is to opposite of tip number one. My recommendation is to hire a private investigator and have a comprehensive background check and surveillance done like the wealthy have done for years.
yeah you're on to something. wtf do wealthy people have their partners investigated? that seems to be the trend nowadays.
BINGO! ALL 25 of those 'keeper signs' can be faked (and not only in short term settings) or misinterpreted. Don't get me wrong, dig this persons positivism and enthusiasm to help, so not knocking her, but this list is suspect in real time.
This is a great list, I found myself reversing those on myself as I tend to do with things, goose & gander and all that...;)
It’s never too late for some personal development
When I was in college, I once had a woman college professor who had these characteristics. She was one of those uncommon women, who knew how to treat people with respect, and was kind. Women such as this are worth their weight in gold.
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
Wow. This is like -- a dream list!
This is terrific! Its great to see the focus on long term lasting relationships as the goal! So many coaches seem to create an un-intentioned , unseemly game out of dating rather foster love for a lifetime! Used to be a little critical thinking you may have been going that way. Love this!
Exactly! It's a game I'm not going to play and no way will I dedicate that much mindshare. She does a good deal on this channel, though she's helping many guys who don't seem to have a lot of experience dating.
Hey you are really truly amazing. You seem so down to earth, and while I don’t like everything you say, I feel it is all something I should be hearing. Your kind and loving, yet no no frills attitude is what makes it easy to keep listening and keep learning :)
That was so great! Very informative and eye opening. Thank you.
I love how the comments, have essentially turned this into a MGTOW channel 😂
I come here strictly for comments. They're (sadly) hilarious. It doesn't appear most men here are buying what this woman is selling. And the minority of thirsty bootlickers just add to comedic value.
So much material to go on.
facts!
@@jaysmith3448 haha
Lol
This could go both ways in a relationship.
Men should be the same way also. Girlfriend. Wife. Companion.
Most definitely!
WOW! I love your viewpoints! I'm a woman and you get US! I'm a FAN of what you have to say about male/female relationships.
I often was invited in for coffee by a couple together 50+ years. What I saw was they were both accepting of each other as imperfect human beings and that is why I felt they were together so long. Thank you you Anna for your efforts to help other people [men]
It took years, but I finally found someone with these qualities! She even wrote her own lyrics to a song and sang it to me for my birthday!
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
@@YourWingmam you're welcome, but she decided she didn't want a relationship 2 months later. 2 weeks after that, friends sent me screenshots of her on a dating site looking for a relationship! I dodged a bullet! Lol.
Oooo, you hit this one on the head.
Thank you
Hands down I’m using this list. It’s the best I’ve seen. Thank you so much for your work!
I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏
I also value a woman who is able to tell me what I NEED to hear, vs what I want to hear. That kind of goes with Respect, where she is genuinely trying to help you be a better you.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏
I’m so excited to watch!! I hope you’re doing well ❤️❤️
Annoyingly PollyANNA in this time of crisis lol :)
@@YourWingmam Lol I totally understand, hopefully it passes quickly :)
I am 68 years old. In my entire life I have known 1 couple with a happy marriage. I have known many couples living lives of quiet desperation, and just as many in open continuous conflict.
We all end up with friends, family and relationships that are reflections of ourselves. Any person you despise, hate or run from is you unable to work through that inner difficulty within yourself.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤
I Believe it is "Traditionally" common courtesy for a guy to pick up the tab after a pre arrange dinner date. She may reciprocate buy buying lunch later on
How so they say that their equal 50 50
they say its 50 50 .... but women still expect men to b gentleman n pay for everything. ... wen modern women of today expect the men to cook n clean .... n women wants to wear pants in relationship
Just know that the New York Times found that 1/3rd of women polled stated they have dated guys exclusively for a free meal, especially at expensive restaurants. Most stated to be seen by other affluent men, or just to try some new restaurant or entree they didn't want to budget for.
1) If she is smart and pretty like you. 2) Kindness, loyalty and humor are at the top of the list.
I love the self check at the end👏
A definitely good sum up of vital qualities of a real keeper.
You are a good coach Anna Jorgensen!
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
Sign 27 she has toilet paper and she's willing to share with you when you run out
Dennis Boland😂😂😂
I don't have a square to spare.
@@BillFromTheHill100 Lol ! Seinfeld.
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You may be looking for "the Van Life" channel. :-)
If she doesn’t mind being around you and your quirks. Then it’s a go.
Wow, I am impressed with how comprehensive and sound your values and thinking is so straightforward, it's awesome. 😁
I believe, you are so right about these points.
You're very good...Much respect.
My parents (married almost 70) were my example. My mother taught me very early on, 'affirmation' was one of the most important things in a good relationship, even if the man didn't know or think he needed it...it IS important.
Nice pic and nice smile
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I sit with a open gob listening to your video,s,love them...…...1- I love polite people,doesnt cost anything, 6- i hate negative people it drags me down,and the words you where looking for anna as "green flag" :), ,also like you say these woman are hard to find,22- laughter is my biggest thing anna i love to make people smile.....keep up the good work and stay safe
Green flag!! Check. Thanks, and thanks for watching and commenting! :))
Scorpio woman I think ... One that has personally succeeded in her life. Thank you Anna. You are simply wonderful! I really appreciate your school.
The last questions are gold 🥇!
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!
It’s weird how this content creator acknowledges how toxic most women are yet encourages men to take the biggest risk they can face.
She's making money putting out this feel good crap,, bottom line, life is tuff , women are unrealistic.
We can apply this to foreign women and leave
bokudensuduharagmail don’t you need radioactivity for a nuclear family?
Shaun Hensley Could not have put it better myself. Thank you Shaun!
I think this is for the guys who are choosing to take the risk, there are toxic women and men out there but if someone chooses to date they should at least be well equipped with the right information to weed out anyone toxic as best they can. Also, I would agree that the majority of dating advice from women is pretty bad but I think her stuff is pretty decent. Is there any points in this video your disagree with?
A job interview is easy compared to the dating interview.
Hahaha,That 2nd Clam made Me Laugh & somebody those Tips !!
Glad you enjoyed watching ❤ 🙏
I've learned to love being alone. No chains holding me down. Nobody to criticize me never jealous or fearful. I'm free.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏
Thanks for this video! And from a woman...that means alot! 😊❤
Thanks for the list. Gives me things to reflect upon in my own behaviour too.
I really like you. You keep it real. I am an older person, 3 failed long term relationships, your words has been an eye opener. Thank you.
My pleasure ❤️
Fantastic Video, and great questions at the end!
Wingmam is great! Love her no bullshit.
I’m here to challenge my views for my own kids, so I can advise them. I’ve been married for decades.
If I compare the woman I almost married vs the one I did, they’re almost on par on this list. The other woman failed in one key area: she didn’t have my back and her life was chaotic. The more I saw over, the bigger her mess.
Now, my wife fails on the following.
1-waiting staff: if their attitude is bad, my wife will let them know without going berserk. She will he matter-of-fact
5-life of her own: my wife is an engineer and an introvert. She loves fiddling with things and reading books.
8-lifts my spirits when I’m down: my wife shows great care and makes sure I have peace and quiet. That works for me
16-she’s got your back: my wife won’t defend me if I don’t deserve it. She will raise it only if it’s relevant.
We 🦄 are out there 😌 As high valuable Women ,kind , respectful,mature ,funny, atractive, taking care of themselves , also physically don't want to go for less, that's why It's difficult to meet a compatible partner with decent equal qualities.
Never play games ,be honest ,stay true yourself at all cost no matter what 🤞🏻💞
Yes! Please share this with other women as a guideline!! :))
@@YourWingmam Feels almost like a mission 😊🏆
So thankful for these videos!
An ex i haven't heard from in 14 years, just send me a link to this one, told me 90% of these things I have, and that he should have treated you better. People often don't see these things about others, before it is too late.
So this should be taught in school.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏