🔴Understanding the Narcissist's Need to Watch You | Narcissism | NPD

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  • Опубліковано 23 жов 2024

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  • @NarcPedia
    @NarcPedia  2 місяці тому +1

    🔴Proof That the Narcissist Realizes You Were the Best Supply They Ever Had! 👇🏼
    ua-cam.com/video/pr_HWysTh1c/v-deo.htmlsi=pAt9V_Ndcf8zkF5i

  • @hibbertsh
    @hibbertsh 2 місяці тому +2

    He would stand and smile at me. I did not always return the gaze as I would feel uncomfortable... something was not right feeling.
    That's all in the past now... thankfully!

    • @NarcPedia
      @NarcPedia  2 місяці тому

      I'm glad to hear you've moved past that uncomfortable experience! Trusting your instincts is so important, and it's great that you've found a way to heal. Thank you for sharing your story!

  • @debbiegalica2992
    @debbiegalica2992 2 місяці тому +1

    I've experienced this.

    • @NarcPedia
      @NarcPedia  2 місяці тому

      I'm sorry to hear that you've had to go through similar experiences. It's important to connect and support each other. Thank you for sharing!

  • @SANDRA_OKOTIE
    @SANDRA_OKOTIE 2 місяці тому +1

    Yes i ve experienced this from my covert narcissist elder sister who has been obsessed with me all our lives . She even uses my own date of birth on all her documents , after i counter discarded her she tried to hoovered me back and was deep staring me with recless abandon . And i maintained my steeze and gave her the item she came to pick up from my house. She always stares at me all tru my life i never knew what it means. So glad ur video has helped to figure it out

    • @NarcPedia
      @NarcPedia  2 місяці тому

      I'm really glad to hear that the video helped you gain clarity about your experience with your sister. It can be incredibly challenging to navigate those dynamics, especially with family. Thank you for sharing your story, and I wish you continued strength on your healing journey!

  • @CS-iv8tk
    @CS-iv8tk 2 місяці тому +1

    It is wayyyy creepy. I remember when when I first met him at a party and in a group conversation this happened to me with him. Unfortunately, I married him

    • @NarcPedia
      @NarcPedia  2 місяці тому +2

      That does sound incredibly unsettling. It's unfortunate how often these red flags can be overlooked at first. Your experience is a powerful reminder of the importance of recognizing those signs early on. Thank you for sharing your story!

  • @ZoeBranning
    @ZoeBranning 24 дні тому +1

    They want you to fail !

    • @NarcPedia
      @NarcPedia  23 дні тому

      Absolutely, that’s a harsh reality of dealing with narcissists. Their need for control often translates into wanting to see others struggle. It’s important to recognize this and focus on our own growth and success. Thank you for highlighting such a crucial point!

  • @ebonyadams7060
    @ebonyadams7060 2 місяці тому +2

    I just kept it moving i wanted him to see that I wasn't afraid of him anymore i didn't speak a word to him
    I was more aware of the situation It is weird now I remember when my daughter told me that we were at church we had broke up I was just getting my life back on track while I was dressed sooo nice wearing my earrings my 3 piece pants suit my daughter tells me that he was looking right at me as I said I told her to let him look I wasn't going to fall for the bs again I began to realize my strength and knowledge of him was very intimidating to him
    I believe mine was obsessed 9:21

    • @NarcPedia
      @NarcPedia  2 місяці тому +2

      Thank you for sharing your experience! It’s empowering to hear how you reclaimed your strength and confidence. Recognizing that you’re no longer affected by their manipulation is a huge step forward. Keep embracing your journey!

    • @ebonyadams7060
      @ebonyadams7060 2 місяці тому +1

      @@NarcPedia ty

  • @RebeccaBauer-s8f
    @RebeccaBauer-s8f 2 місяці тому +2

    I’ve experienced this.

    • @NarcPedia
      @NarcPedia  2 місяці тому

      I'm sorry to hear that you've gone through similar experiences. It's important to know you're not alone, and sharing our stories can help us heal and grow. Thank you for connecting!

    • @RebeccaBauer-s8f
      @RebeccaBauer-s8f 2 місяці тому +1

      @@NarcPedia I knew absolutely nothing about narcissism until 18 years into the marriage. I just knew I was miserable. So I wondered about him watching me, but I didn’t really feel uncomfortable; I actually hoped it was a positive thing - that’s how naive I was. I hoped he was finally paying attention to me, but of course that wasn’t it. At the very beginning I thought it was an indication that he was proud of me or happy to be seen with me, but of course none of that was true. You can see why I was so horrified and traumatized when I began finding out the truth after our divorce. I’m still terribly trauma bonded, and still suffering quite a bit (7 months post divorce), but I’m thankful to not continuing to be abused by him directly every single day.