This is not OK.!! It needs to STOP.!!
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- Опубліковано 12 лип 2023
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Thank you M! ❤ every word you said means so much to me mama. Sending so much love to your family ❤
Lots of Love to You and Abby ❤️
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Birth stories are the most painful yet the most beautiful life story. I'm scared to give birth in the future but still i'm willing to experience it.
Love you Miriam. .. So nice to hear this. You are so understanding. I wish every women has this mindset like you
Just like u said for many many i found it difficult to use the washroom. My c-section stitches opened up and i had infection. During that time, i had a legal case to attend. I took my two month old along, with the open wound, breasts leaking , non -stop crying baby. My mind was so disturbed then. God gave me strength to go through those harrowing times. And yes, like they say there is a silver lining at the end of the black cloud. I passed the phase. Women need to be really strong and if u cant support other women, no problem, please don't pull them down.
Highly agreed
I was just thinking about these things how ppl just talk shit abt Mals but she is being so real that ppl can actual see how we go through pregnancy.
her videos have helped me so much & when I was watching her birth story wic got posted today it as soooo amazing & without my knowledge I was in tears.
it's just the way others see it only when they get to experience, they will knw the pain also she is trying to help & show how things actually work during this journey & wat we need to be prepared for.
thank u so much for talking abt this, it was actually bothering me alot as well, when we can talk good abt someone we don't have rights to talk bad abt them as well.
yess yesss completely with you!!!!!
We need more people to come forward and speak the truth, so that understanding the pain or atleast trying to grasp how painful Postpartum is gets normalised. Respect you and love your videos. Thanks for being so genuine❤
Yes absolutely i agree with you marium...it's really difficult...even I have undergone c sec now 2 months it's too too difficult to manage some stuff which depends on us ..but still we get up in such a pain to feed child...waking up ..
I'm unmarried...I don't have mother...your videos are really helping me a lot for future tbh..i really wish I get an understanding husband like Deepak anna... posting really helps the girls like me
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So so well said, everyones journey is different, people should stop being judgemental❤❤
You're so real! I really love your videos, love listening to you! ❤❤❤
Hello Miriam. I could completely relate to what you were sharing. I'm a mom of 1 year old twin babies. And they were very preterm babies. God's grace everything is fine now and they're doing good. And when I was undergoing a lot of postpartum depression I came across a bunch of people (women) saying oh u didn't take good care that's why this happened you didn't listen to elders and didn't have proper food and so your babies weight was very less. Seriously that was the most difficult days in my life. Hope atleast woman to understand and support other women and not criticize. Love all your videos.. Keep going.. Happy motherhood😊😊
I am so proud that I follow a woman like you! Keep sharing.
love this so much... we've been brainwashed so much by society/culture/religion/patriarchy, whatever you want to call it into believing motherhood is the most beautiful thing in the world without any flaws. I think that's how they keep us willing and wanting to have kids.
Not saying motherhood isn't beautiful, but I wish people spoke more honestly and openly about how hard it was too... I hate that we gaslight women for speaking the truth and just being open with their struggles. Never stop sharing Miriam! We need more people with empathy in this world!
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Can hear in your voice how much you've had, but all strength to you and wish you all of 3 good health ❤ and may your kiddo always be a happy healthy baby
I fully agree! The journey of motherhood is not for the weak, women should speak out more on the difficulties of it…. My mother had not with all of us, and now my father believes it is nothing for women to ‘complain’ about
It's so true. Thank you for addressing it
She is already going through a lot, and the comment section is just more painful to go through. It's sad
I completly understand this phase i have beenn through sis. God Bless you
So true...Thanks miriam for sharing these...
10 months postpartum... Still it's not easy... It feels good when someone says its difficult... Coz initially I thought it's only me all others enjoys motherhood... That engrossed breast... Baby nursing all the time.. mood swings... It's so difficult... Can relate...#i was just surviving...so true.. lately m able to embrace it...not coz all the pain is gone but coz all these have become a part of my routine
Well! That you addressed this issue..#brave miriam
Amidst being a busy new mom you took time to stand up for another soul. That’s commendable !!
And every word you said is so relatable to all mommies out there. God bless you and your family !! ❤
Thank you so much!! ❤️
Kudos to you coming out to support another woman ❤️ I’m 6months PP and very well understand the difficulties. Much love to you and you lil one Miriam.
I can totally relate this 😢 am now experiencing 3 months postpartum and entered into 4th now…. Having flat nipples and breastfeeding will actually crack your nipples 😭 happily accepting the pain with my baby girl ❤️
Very very well said....I m in tears...
This is so true Miriam. My son is 6 months now. Thanks for this video❤ I definitely feel much better.
I so so so agree to each and every word you've said... Even I have delivered my daughter just a month ago and I'm also going through postpartum depression.
Love you Miriam....i can totally relate to it!
Iam happy for u sista. Nd for the little princess too🎉. Nd I hope that sarcastic people may get broad minded, bcz they talk jzt rubbish nd don't even bother how the person feels about their comments..
Lots of lv ❤from Andhra pradesh
You are awesome to confront those insensitive people ❤
Postpartum is difficult period. She is so true about everything. Clogged milk duct, pain in stitches, breastfeeding, latching, haemorrhoids😢 its ok to talk about it.
Useful video .its better to raise voice for the women who r helpless n alone .thank you for being honest n straight forward from the heart .❤m really fan of ur videos .U r blessed to have supportive husband n brothers in ur difficult times .
Thank you ❤ for talking about postpartum… Really this will help out lots of women. Each and every pregnancy is a different experience everyone should respect that .
Completely agree with u dear
Thank you so much for taking stand for her..she had done this impossible thing all alone without her partner..dont know when women will take stand for another woman..❤❤
No one can understand the pain till they gotrough. Just passing the comments is easier than experiencing the situations
I am unmarried and I am afraid sometimes or excited sometimes to experience all these feelings!!
Absolutely... I can relate it same hear running 4 month postpartum I think postpartum is more difficult then whole period of pregnancy.
Such a beautiful video. Lots of love to Miriam and Mals ❤
Heloo sister you're my inspiration. Im also gone throw my labour it was very painful even i dont have strength to cry and talk also . Even i should sit for a while i need support of my mom or dad to take care of me .we can't exaplain this struggles in one vedio you have to talk about this topic akka . Lots of love form Chennai ❤
Glad you shared it! ❤
When We All Are Happy There Comes People With Their Big Noses With Their Big Opinion's They Won't Help Us In Miniscule Level But Fill Us With Their Negativity... Nice Miriam You Shared Your Thought... Love Love Lots Of Love...🎉🎉🎉
Im so happy u told it!
I totally agree with you, i keep seeing may comment on malvika's Post and its sad to say few women are like this. Come on, if you can't do something good just don't go to do something sad :'( 😢
Hi sis ... Thank you so much for this video ... I am in my 6th month of post partum and what you spoke in this video is damn true 😢😢😢 postpartum is the worst part of life ... Nd nobody understands it thou...hardest truth 😪
Thank You for this Beautiful insight and experience . Hair is looking Beautiful . Thank you for the Flying Kiss. I caught it
The thing is now a days we are speaking out. Earlier days people were not and they may not have that space too. That is the only difference. As we are speaking out loud that doesn't mean we are bad or we are not loving our child. Even though we have pain or stress becoz of sleepless nights we are loving and caring baby from heart. That's the beauty of motherhood❤
This is so beautiful ❤. Miriam you are a very beautiful soul. When you said lets stand up for each other i started tearing up. This video made me very emotional. I don't have a kid yet and i had a miscarriage last year and this is how i felt. It was very difficult when people started blaming me for it and didn't even care about my physical and mental health. More power to us women in this society ❤
Hi dear, After my delivery my mom didn’t take care of me.. she doesn’t want any responsibility so she let me to go to my inlaws house 7th day of c-section delivery. 4days were admitted in hospital only 3days i stayed with my mom those days were like hell. she never took care of my baby at night also, because she want me to go from her house. I suffered a lot. it was like hell. so i came here to my husband’s house. somehow i’m blessed with good Inlaws. my MIL took care of me so well at that time. now my son is 1year. my mother haven’t come to visit me yet. she stopped talking to me in phone calls also its been 1year now. she doesn’t even know how my baby will be, not even seen him yet. even some mothers are like this.. now i hate her so much…
Sooooo true mam...it's really hard to spend that time ...and it is difficultttttttttt to be in postpartum
Thank you Miriam! I am two months postpartum. Had to undergo emergency c section as baby's movements reduced. After surgery, my milk supply didn't start for about a week and she had latching issues, had to use formula for her.Her birth weight reduced and everyone started complaining me that i didn't eat well and i am not feeding her properly. Till now I have a hard time breastfeeding her and couldn't even talk loud about it. It's a breath of fresh air to listen and to be able to relate to your words. Thanks again! ❤
Love from Rajamundry Andhra Pradesh akka❣️Stay Safe
Well said. Postpartum is not so easy I am 3months postpartum I always complain waking up late night breast feeding my boy that doesn’t mean I don’t really care him it is the pain we are going through. Please do care and understand postpartum women
My son is now around 8 yrs old..and I still see my post partam as dark days..I didn't know then this was the reason..but now I know..I still remember me trying to feed the baby and had very little milk.He would be crying and I wudnt know what to do...
I love how you stand up for all the women proud of you akka❤
Yes loved it
Vry vry true nt at all eg postpartum..... All d very best stay strong dear❤❤❤❤❤ lots of vshes n luv to u😊
U r a queen for a reason ❤
A very positive and real talk akka ✨
I absolutely agree! I’m not someone who is going through pregnancy but your experiences and now Malvika’s experiences are getting me mentally prepared for when I do plan to get pregnant. I will go in with a more prepared mindset which I think will be a great help.
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You have nailed it
U are right ,dear. Women can be extremely rude. Sometimes men are more understanding.
When i had my two kids, my own family members made such rude remarks. Oh! U have become so fat! See your baby, its so thin. U are not feeding properly. It was a week after my delivery. How can i lose weight which i gained over 9 months in a week or how can i transfer all my weight to my child and make it ''fat'' for them? Is being chubby healthy? Some people killed me with their suggestions, advice. Dont see ur baby , its a bad nazar for the child, itseems! Can a mother be a bad omen to the child. Many many such illogical things they used to say. During postpartum , u know how weak we will be , physically and emotionally. I used to cry a lot and almost went into depression. During my second postpartum time, I decided enough is enough. I will take charge of the situation and not let anyone or any comment hurt me. I kind of put a block in my mind amd my kids were my priority. Every mother knows the best for her child.
So nice of you… women supporting women ❤ if every woman does that world be will beautiful ❤ not always blame men
Ur actually true, I had c section my baby girl has a newborn doesn't know how to latch . My breast got engorged literally I was not able to sit straight. I got operation for milk clogged had high fever . But now she is one year 2months I still continue breastfeeding. Breastfeeding is painful but everything is worth when v c our baby😊 😊😊
Omg finally someone said this!!! That's it. Even this was bothering me so much... I am 2 months post partum and i. Had a normal delivery yess it was painful and after was easy I healed quickly but but it's difficult breastfeeding sleepless nights anxiety everything literally everything... But I love watching it I love seeing what they have to share bcoz y not... People just feel need the understand that appreciating someone or even telling one kind word would be enuf..
Otherwise just don't comment or ignore if it doesn't relate to you thats it. Period.
I'm 29, married for 2 years. Not planning for a baby now. But this story is scary.
Yes Miriam I agree with you.. my name is Susana I'm 24 years old I have a 11month baby. I got married in 21 years to the person whom I loved their parents where also good to me.. after some months like approx 3months after marriage my father in law forced me to go to work staying at my mom home ... I got broke their and then y did he married me to his son if I wanted to stay in my mom home later due to self respect I got a 9 to 6 job after two months I got to know I was 3months pregnant.. then too i didn't have any help I had to go to work till my 8 months and i switched to work from home till now.. it was very hard traveling working handling house chores and pregnancy vomits till i gave birth to my son... They didn't even come to take care of me or asked wheather I'm ok . Till now m handling my baby alone handling house chores without help... Some times I get frustrated too but no one to understand that not even my husband...though he loved me for 3 years and got married because I said your parents did this to me but he supports them . But I'm staying for my son and I want to give my best. So I started a small UA-cam channel now let's see if i could make it ... For new mom's out there who is reading my comment ...you are doing your best... Don't worry about anything I know it's frustrating but take care of yourself first and your child don't worry what others say ... This phase will pass soon and you can proudly say we did it!! Thanks Miriam I never comment but i thought to share this... Virtual hugs and prayers to you and your family ✨❤️ love you
Hi dear, stay strong❤ subscribed to yur channel already ❤ God Bless
Nice information❤
I agree with everything said. Child birth is so normalized. So are periods and any female related issues like endometriosis. Just because everyone has periods or a lot of people have kids doesn’t mean the experience isn’t crazy painful for a lot of them. I have always thought it’s crazy how child birth is just expected from a woman with no complaints when women have died birthing children, faced life altering complications and many other post partum traumas. It’s absolutely vile to judge other women just because you’ve had the fortune of a smooth pregnancy.
I can feel it miriam..have gone through postpartum for 2 yrs.
proud of your brothers🥰
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Amazing things happen only when a woman helps another women❤
I also agree with u dear..I also had c-section . BY profession I'm a dancer. My daughter has turned 1 yr old but still I'm struggling with postpartum n pain. After 8 months itself people started asking me when are u gonna dance again ,when r u gonna perform its been long time after ur delivery etc....plus u hv become fat coz u r not practicing performing etc...including women's started these things knowing its difficult to recover after surgery... these things bothered me so badly that I started loosing my confidence...then I found a way to tackle that😅 whoever asks me these kind of things without caring or knowing abt my condition n situation ,I started telling them OK fine u take care of my baby i'l do everything u say 😊 mouth shut 🤐 😅 it's so pathetic to c how ppl look into such things in an easy way both who knows n dnt kno... so let them coz they only kno to blabber rather than taking care of it... N u ,easy dear dnt let all those things bother u coz u r also recovering mentally n physically so just concentrate on that n ofcourse ur baby ❤❤
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Frankly, I've no hope pepl will ever stop this disgusting behaviour
They've got mobiles in their hands nd nobody to call them out for such hate.
Sad to see even females don't understand or at least try to understand
It's really true... Thanks for addressing and educating many people.. people are very judgemental..Untill and unless someone opens up and tell these only other people who didn't experience it can learn...we need to stand up for each other 🙏
This is so correct. Thanks so much for bringing a light to all those stupid comments of pathetic women targeting malvika..
Awesome awesome awesome
Hey A BIG HUG to you and other UA-camr ( I'm sorry I did not get her name clearly). 🤗🤗 You are the only UA-camr I saw for a long time talk about these openly and supporting women.
Personally the women who talk bad about another woman are as I think is very uneducated authodox sick minded people. I'm sorry to say that way but that is the truth. Stay strong the women who suffer from virtual blackslahses and my head bows to women like Miram for supporting other openly.
If you don't like then unsubscribe that channel no need to watch and insult.
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This video almost made me cry, C Section is so painful along with that breastfeeding for me was so painful, and I din have anyone with me after the 3rd month I started doing my household my husband wasn't so supportive because he had to work people degraded me because they think pregnancy is not a big deal it's every women has to go through. After watching this video i feel so much better.
All a woman needs is mental support at the end even physically she will get through but mental support is biggest at this time of pregnancy and postpartum.
Miriam, I truly appreciate you for making this video. Somebody had to say it and you did it. Kudos to you👏❤️
Its a shame when women attack women and i think every existing person in this world should know the experience of a woman after a child birth or during the child birth .. i hope people understand its not easy .. women before didn't say much so people don't understand now .. and everyone has a different body and different mental health and its all different for a different person .. some people really need to understand ..
The most worst and best part is postpartum because the depression ,society talks ,guilty anxiety sleepless nights stiches pain in all between seeing our little one ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Akka please post about breast feeding and formula feeding
Formula feeding mothers are feeling so guilty bcos of the society talks
This is so true.. it saddens to see other mama’s don’t understand each body ,pregnancy journey is so different. People forget they have an option to skip a video if they are not interested instead of saying something hurtful. Some UA-camrs make life so much easier for a lot of us since this is where we come looking for answers/solutions. Big hugs to you for saying it so beautifully!!
But as a wife, it's hard to accept the closeness brother(husband) - his sister relationship
Why. That's a you problem. Why are you sexualising a sibling relationship.
Get well soon
I dont know y people are so judgmental
Really.!! It’s very sad
@@miriamjamessebastianwhat you said is absolutely right Miriam..lots of love.. i stayed strong and take it easy in my twin pregnancy even though there are many hard situation just because I watched vedios of many twin mother's and motivated my self to be strong.
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Akka I'm crying right now....my baby turned 2 years old .this vedio just make me to remember those days when I cried at 2am even though I have people to help me . clogged milk duct for straight two days and doctors gave me antibiotics.because of c section I can't able change my pads by myself and crying in a bathroom. I used to keep thinking that I'm not good enough till now .the guilt is real .I had the nausea until my 10th month.i used to eat a lott because I walked with a fear of lack of breast milk.eventually I became fat that made me to hate my body 🥲.I keep on searching the old version of me.i didn't find that dancer version of me,but I tried to love the New version of Ranjana. postpartum is not a joke .but it's not like I hate my daughter.she is the most beautiful thing that is ever happened in my whole life 🤍. so respect every mothers.people used to say "u are not only person who gave birth"please stop saying this.being a mom isn't easy ,but in the eyes of your child nobody can do it better than you 🤍
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