Your Girlfriend isn't Affectionate

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  • Опубліковано 20 жов 2024

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  • @DatingLogic
    @DatingLogic  3 роки тому

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  • @DylanBegazo
    @DylanBegazo 5 років тому +29

    I’m not used to being the one looking for advice...
    The hardest thing for me is the mere fact I’m looking this video up... This is tough. I’m already doing everything in this video. But thanks for confirming I’m on the right track at the very least. Good video.

  • @megantablada
    @megantablada 4 роки тому +14

    Very true, my boyfriend asked me to show or initiate more physical affection, and I was quite confused because I didn’t really think I was that closed off. Then I realized I was never exposed to that many hugs, kisses, or cuddles growing up, and I have trouble letting myself get attached to many, or really trusting others. Thank you for this short video, it really opened my eyes and will help me become more secure in loving others :)

  • @olafgunnerson3988
    @olafgunnerson3988 5 років тому +12

    I totally whole heartedly agree male or female it's like dealing with an animal that's been abused the only thing that works is love understanding and care add to that patience and time and things do settle down they open up slowly

  • @hunterjr.5791
    @hunterjr.5791 10 років тому +15

    Man your the man at this your tips help so much I hope you get popular and get the respect that you need!

  • @jonate79
    @jonate79 6 років тому +33

    My girlfriend is a Capricorn and she is cold as ice no facial expression no happiness when we see each other if I mention it of course she gets giddy she'll text me she loves me how she feels.... but I don't know about this, I need a woman that is used to affection and that's been in great healthy relationships I'm tired of meeting women that's been in horrible relationships don't know how to act don't know how to respond to affection i don't understand it at all

    • @Begunend20
      @Begunend20 6 років тому +5

      I would lie if I told you that I'm not going through the same thing as you - Capricorn, says she is affectionate but isn't really. Troubled past relationship, myself being affectionate. Wears me out as well. Sometimes, much like your girl, late at night she'd tell me that she misses me and would want me to be with her. I got quite frustrated as I do not understand how she can be affectionate at times and then not at all.

    • @gserranox23x
      @gserranox23x 5 років тому +4

      Wow im dealing with the same problem, and she's also capricorn. When you mention that, i was like omg wow

    • @selinacrozier2142
      @selinacrozier2142 5 років тому +7

      As a Capricorn woman I can understand were you are coming from. I am also very cold and very unaffectionate towards my boyfriend and it’s just very hard and overwhelming for me to show affection. It doesn’t come easy to me at least. I can’t speak for all Capricorns. I was never in a bad relationship or anything like that I just grew up without a lot of affection and I’m just naturally cold towards others. I can understand your frustration because my boyfriend voices the same opinions but it’s just hard to express feelings when all your life you’ve kept them hidden and locked away. I hope that shed some light on the situation

    • @DecibleRhymez
      @DecibleRhymez Рік тому

      My girlfriend is a Capricorn, and she is the same way. Sometimes it’s tough, because I love receiving the affection I give her. It’s always an internal battle to try to not let it affect me too much. She says she wasn’t used to affection growing up and isn’t good with emotions/feelings. So she keeps them hidden and to herself. It’s tough man. Are all Capricorn women the same way?

    • @kartierkartierkarti
      @kartierkartierkarti Рік тому +1

      @@DecibleRhymez so we all got these Capricorn girlfriends who refuse to give us what we want huh? especially a person like me who constantly craves validation it’s hard for me to talk to her about how i’m feeling

  • @yusufdelrio2728
    @yusufdelrio2728 Рік тому +4

    Girl im seeing is not affectionate at all and its driving me crazy. I needed to see this video. She cant even say I miss you. She does talk about the future, with me in it so thats good. She said she is not ready to be too affectionate yet. I think its from her past and she wants to see if im consistant

  • @justsay1n692
    @justsay1n692 5 років тому +1

    Thank you for the best and most honest advise from à man to a man! You just explained it straight to my confused head where my priorties should be.
    Thank you sir! :)

  • @jillianroselovesfilmandchurros
    @jillianroselovesfilmandchurros 10 місяців тому +1

    loss of respect and loss of attraction are both causes for women to hold back affection

  • @BC-iz8gt
    @BC-iz8gt 2 роки тому +3

    A lot of times that doesn't work there just ruined

  • @vax9987
    @vax9987 Рік тому +2

    Thanks man

  • @YZFMANIAC08
    @YZFMANIAC08 5 років тому +16

    She isnt into you (anymore)

  • @Grace-zl5zv
    @Grace-zl5zv 6 років тому +7

    I gained her trust along time ago I listen massage flowers but I feel like I'm her therapist and there's only so much a person can take She believes that its about sex and what she does for me in bed She is happy to make food and tea etc as nice as that is it's not enough

    • @charltonhunt6135
      @charltonhunt6135 4 роки тому +4

      I know exactly what you mean. Having good qualities like making food is great but lack of affection makes it feel like something is lacking.

  • @bkstandard882
    @bkstandard882 17 днів тому

    It's because she doesn't like you. I personally don't trust any woman who is not affectionate. Id automatically assume she doesnt like me.

  • @linab4901
    @linab4901 7 років тому +3

    Sometimes I wish I were a man... I have the same problem but it seems that nothing changes it. With women at least you can try it with the emotional card.

    • @markappleton4955
      @markappleton4955 6 років тому +5

      Men aint got No cards to play. All we can do is change and adapt.

  • @tafariheron8931
    @tafariheron8931 6 років тому +1

    well said

  • @JJ-vp3bd
    @JJ-vp3bd 2 місяці тому

    Truth

  • @SkyPilot54
    @SkyPilot54 8 років тому +2

    Good stuff

    • @shannonfernandoo
      @shannonfernandoo 7 років тому

      Are уоu mаaааking thеsе mistakes with уour mаn? twitter.com/9bdd82b972cdc1346/status/804693412402241537 Yоur Girlfriend isn t AAffeсtionate

  • @EnglishblackrapAandR
    @EnglishblackrapAandR 2 роки тому +2

    Dude everything you're saying every guy on this hasalready tried that b******* what you just said.

  • @logomaneye
    @logomaneye 2 роки тому +2

    Do everything
    Get 0 effect
    Try no to kiss
    Get attention from 0-100 in 3 sec
    Start to show her more attention
    She drop the the bomb on me
    Start all over again 🤪

    • @JamesNames-yo3ou
      @JamesNames-yo3ou 5 місяців тому +1

      I think you're right, tho. I'm just gonna start loving on her and see where it gets me, cuz hugging and cuddling her and buying her crap isn't getting her to do the same to me in return.