If a woman is being over the top disrespectful, she’s just going to be that way no matter how cool you do or don’t react. Don’t let them try to swindle you into thinking it’s because how you act or react. Just leave her and save yourself the years.
I have a disrespectful / mean girlfriend but we have a 1 and a half year old son that means the world to me … I don’t know what to do it’s a constant battle with her it’s like she resents everything I do and I just like to keep the peace but she says I ignore her and I never listen to her and she gets aggressive at times in front of the baby like breaking things , slamming doors , and hurting herself to prove a point and her manipulative behavior is just wrong it’s a non stop cycle
@@davidstaychillen2274 if she wasn’t like this before the baby. She may have postpartum depression. It can last for years unaddressed. Recommend therapy. If she doesn’t want to, then you have a choice you must make. If she was disrespectful before the baby then you shot yourself in the foot but it’s not the end of the world. Just remember, if you aren’t okay, you can’t do shit for your kid. And you don’t want your child learning and experiencing these traumas. It’s unacceptable. Good news is, there is a healthy way out.
If she grew up watching her mother disrespect and devalue the father in the household then it will be embedded in her psyche/nature to do the same to any men she comes across the rest of her life and adult life.
It doesn't matter or make any difference how much we like a women. It's how much a woman likes a man. Can love a woman it's no relationship if she has no attraction
If i only knew this info 18 years ago! I did not had a frame and my wife was so disrespectful for the last 2 years. Last mont i just walked away. Now divorce to follow. Thank you.
I just broke up with my ex as I've had enough. She has disrespected me by calling me names and accused me once of something I didn't do(being on a dating app). She had trauma from her previous exes and although I kept on reassuring her that I'm not like her ex by making her feel loved and safe. I tried to make things better for us but no matter what I do for her I always end up getting disrespected and I feel like I'm the one paying for all the shit that her previous exes have done to her.😢
I feel for you, man. I broke up with a girl who were cheating on me, but some time later she started messaging me, suggesting that we should try again. As soon as I asked her whether she is sorry for lying to me or not, she said that she doesn't understand why am I making such a big deal out of that, instead I should start "acting like a man and agree with her invitation to have a serious talk in person." I was shocked, to say the least. Naturally, I refused her wicked advances toward me and called her disrespect out, after which she straight out started calling me names and pointing to my weaknesses which I had made a mistake to open up about them, when we were in the honeymoon phase. Some girls are monsters under a beautiful disguise.
Same thing and we broke up same time 7 months ago. Walk away. Mine tried to come back. I miss her sometimes but better to move on. She will change at first but revert back to her old ways with time
The best thing you could do is just get away from a person like that I had somebody do that to me long ago when i was younger and then tried to project and act as if I was doing that to her. From the name calling, to the jokes that were actually nothing but disses, trying to downplay my accomplishments, and then getting upset because I wouldn't open up about traumatic experiences of my own life when I just didn't care to talk about them. It's hard to deal with somebody that's so morally superior to everybody else but then at the same time saying they have every problem under the rising Sun. It is not your job or anybody's job to wake up and constantly prove yourself to someone when you aren't doing anything. I've had to endure lectures about honesty and loyalty as my character gets craped on and attacked. Every time I joke about or say would be taking literally and then used as ammunition later and then after a while I just got sick of it. It's for this very reason that I predominantly keep to myself.
I was married for over 20 years and at 42 she suddenly unexpectedly passed away. I’m 45 now and finding myself back in the dating scene. Last time I was dating it was pagers and pay phones lol. What I knew with the wife was to make it work, when I got back in to dating that first one was a disaster. I did all the wrong stuff. I miss my wife but to succeed and be happy for this next part I need to continually adjust and get better in every facet. Thanks for the content.
Sorry to hear it bro, I'm in a similar situation. I think these types of channels get generalized as for players or guys looking to womanize, but that's not most guys intentions here. We're here to do better with women because they are brutal.
Every part in this video is absolute truth and solid advice. Have done all these things, letting emotions get to me when treated wrong by her, only giving her more power and making her feel more valuable about herself and eventually walking out of the home with child.
I’ve developed a zero tolerance for disrespect. I’ve been in some of the most stressful relationships you can imagine. Now that I’ve done the healing work, I value my peace way too much to accept disrespect.
@@nickislearning I feel the exact same way. I used to be very lenient towards a lot of people and in all honesty I don't mind jokes about how I spend a lifetime making them myself. But when somebody is actively being over the top disrespectful and some attempt to provoke somebody while calling them manipulative. It's time to call it quits. I've had to cut a lot of people out of my life because of this type of behavior. I've had people that I thought were close to me and people that I've helped for years attempt to assassinate my character at the drop of a dime. Always remember your peace is non-negotiable..
Man my Girlfriend starts to use me as a doormat, I‘m a non confrontational kind Guy and can control my emotions really well. People somehow mistake that for weakness sometimes tho and no idea how to correct it. My Girlfriend is on her period and the last days the disrespect got to a level i dont tolerate, in the moment i control myself and basically ignore it, maybe be a little more distant. I‘m not into arguing tho so no idea if i should confront her about it and just tell her or ignore her the next couple days. I think imma ignore her for a while hope it helps and if it doesnt i need to breakup. It pisses me off tho that people assume I‘m somebody to talk to that way just because i‘m a kind Guy. I‘m pretty Masculine got myself trough alot of shit and built a life for myself, aint noone talking to me that way. In the Moment its hard for me to eypress myself tho since ive learned to tolerate bullshit like that in my childhood for a long long time
You were too nice to her. You need to set boundaries very very early in the relationship. Make it very clear that you will not tolerate any disrespect from her or you will walk away. Having the ability to walk away from a relationship is absolutely crucial. She needs to feel that to have respect for you and also worry about actually losing you. A woman can not love a man she has no respect for.
This is so true I was the nice people pleasing and sacrificed so much and I was in that scarecedy mindset and she left me and I beat myself up at the beginning then I worked on myself had a purpose and went out my buisness and gave her silence and man it really changed the landscape now I don't allow to be disrespected anymore and I let her know with a few words without getting emotional that I won't put up with nonsense and gave her silence they get the message trust me
It's not your job the correct somebody else's behavior and I generally follow The rule of three. First times an error twice is an oversight third time's a pattern..
A not nice person is a not nice person. Dont let they cuteness fool you been there twice. Waiting for the femine woman to come out it never does. Just watch how aggressive they are listen how they talk to people.
Thanks for your positive asskicking talks, Shaun ! You´re a Top Motivator and you talk the Real Talk ! Absolute Great Content on this Channel - love it ! 👍👍👍
its really crazy how many 'mans realtionship Advice/Red Pill ' channels are blowing up. This just shows how fucked our society is. Guys just stop validating these girls, quit social media, work FOR yourself, not ON yourself.
So true man, say..."hi ...bye... " get off the phone, quit the texting bs. Hard to take this but stop f/booking them. stop social media altogether! Tech. is great however, we did it to ourselves.
The funny part about me is I've NEVER thought about how much money I had. How much I'd spend on her. I always let it be natural and spent on her when I wanted to. The expectation was you wanna be with me for me. If it wasn't like that then obviously I put her in her place or leave. I'd even throw it on her and say what you do for me?
So what's the best way to deal with disrespect from a girlfriend? Giving her silence or speaking to her about her disrespectful behaviour while maintaining frame or without yelling at her?
The first thing is to be invaluable or at least be going somewhere. If you’re not highER value than her and more importantly be confident at whatever level you’re at.
As soon as they live with you then they start there BS .Always rent your own place out and go live in there place if you want to cohabit . Under no circumstances let her move in ever.
This is something they don't want to go through! trials to see if they fit to be your woman.. They do this to men all the time. And the disrespect that women do to their men( screaming.. arguing, lying).. either two things: walk away or ignore her until she apologized. Good video G.👌
The only way to deal with a disrespectful girlfriend or woman is to radically distance yourself from them and never look back. Now this is a long term solution.
Many guys needing help with this type of female behaviour is in marriage situations with kids and invested. In this situation, it's not so easy to just walk away from family you've been building, maybe that's why they act crazier in marriage.
im in the worst relationship ive ever been in right now. im 27, shes 21. Shes screams at me almost daily. Im at the point where if shes starts yelling now imma just throw hands. Fuck it. my mental health is basically destroyed.
wow i dont even remember this comment, to update she continued screaming til about late January. Shes finally moving out soon thank god. Worst 2 years of my life.@@SlyC Im never dating again bro
she moved out 2 days ago, only part that sucks is she took the kitten i helped raise which sucks. But yeah, new chapter just started bro. Hope you have a nice day@@shawnalexander1158
I'm sorry, what? Handle a disrespectful girlfriend. The first instance she disrespects you, it's donzo. She's out the door, goodbye, good luck with your search! Guys, please do not take disrespect from a female because she will keep disrespecting you and use you. The way to test her is ask her politely to make you a cup of coffee, if she refuses, pack her bags and kick her out.
Bro, it’s only a matter of time before you’re interviewed and featured on Fresh and Fit. I want to see you tell your story on there and interact with the ladies on their night talk! As well as on Roommates with Hafeez & Co. That would be lit 🔥
Shaun, you don’t think that being silent is a form of passive aggressive behavior and enforcing healthy boundaries and checking her when they are crossed is a better option?
Hey Shaun thanks for this video. Well, about three days back, my girlfriend broke up with me and she said she doesn't have hope for the relationship any more. I've been so down in those days but as I've been watching ur videos I started gaining some more things in my mind that I didn't know. Now recently few hours back she has been calling me. But I've not been picking up. So my question is, should I pick up her calls or keep the silence?
Thanks for the video! Just a tip to help you grow your channel - please improve your audio. You are using an auto input level - resulting in the hum increasing when there is a gap in your talking. You need to fix the input level on your audio recorder. Also I super recommend Davinci Resolve for video editing because it includes an incredible ai voice isolation function on the edit screen. But the main thing for you to do is just set a fixed audio input level when recording your voice. Best of luck.
My question is how do you FIX this??? in a situation where by she can’t walk away she knows no man would put up with her crazy ass she wants you as a husband but all you wanna just do is to use her to learn CONTROL to be in frame always but you already fucked up losing frame once so how do you go from there??
Bro me and my women went through a break up and currently I'm still stay there with here going on two and I be dam ahe is so despectful bro she talk to a due when I'm at house and her ass even go out while I'm even at the house I feel like I'm stuck
You are still there, that's why you are suffering. The more you see her talking to some other guy, the more you are sulking. I know it is difficult to endure such disrespect, but you need to question what she has been giving you all these months and years. You expected love, equal give and take and her company and look what she is returning you,anxiety, stress, frustration, sleepless nights, restlessness. Has she hypnotise you, if not, just leave her. Don't become frog of the well. Kick at her back, once for all. Yeah difficult, but that's what she deserves. Perform or perish.🎉 God bless you bro.
I would like to point out there is a huge difference between a woman that fears God and those who don't. They need to be held accountable otherwise it's just a free for all.
Sadly 6 years in and i'm finding out how difficult it is to change behaviour and the sad part is we live together. Almost convincing myself to just cut and run. 😂
Leave bro.... I was living with my gf on a 10 month lease. I ghosted once lease ended, cut her off completely. She was disrespectful and mentally draining
@@Kaizen671 We broke up 6 months after my original comment and we live seperatly now... I've gone on a few dates since and met some beautiful smart young woman and one of them is showing promise, a fresh start.
I got emotional and overreacted and went outta frame with my disrespectful girl, now I want to ignore her but I feel the impact of doing the ignoring thing won’t be felt since i already lost my emotional balance and yelled at her so what do I do? Do I play dumb keep calling her just for me to correct the situation where I fucked up ??
thank you man for ackowledge my experiences with your experiences. dated people who used to post seminaked pictures on social media and provoke my reactions. Just one thing bro, now i apply this to people these days days and now women dont date me at all, so relationships are just luck? what will be your opinion about this
My girlfriend is a real mean woman and always crazy but she been with me for 10 years and she's always saying she wants to leave so I tell her go get the he'll out but she never leaves, but I put up with it because I'm in my 60 and don't want to start a new relationship because I could care less if I'm with a woman ever again and she knows it but I treat her very nice and polite that's why she never leaves because she knows she the problem.
Dude l enjoy ur teachings though l hv this challenge. I girl am dating ghosted me for 2 weeks and l pulled bad but she's back claiming that l hv changed. Brothers wat should l do coz l love this bby
I've got a question so ugh I hate to say this cause it really hurts me but my girl constantly ignores me when I try to talk like a adult it got so bad one night I lost my cool and started destroying things in the house well she ran outside screaming at the top of her lungs that I'm tryna hurt her like what I'm a black man and I've never put my hands on her that was like a year ago she literally just did the same thing tonight because I got mad that she was ignoring me just out of anger I called a bit so her response was to literally start screaming that I'm putting my hands on her
I’m bout ready to whoop that trick fucking tried talking tried arguing tried silent treatment tried about everything at this point only thing I haven’t tried was sign language
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If a woman is being over the top disrespectful, she’s just going to be that way no matter how cool you do or don’t react. Don’t let them try to swindle you into thinking it’s because how you act or react. Just leave her and save yourself the years.
I have a disrespectful / mean girlfriend but we have a 1 and a half year old son that means the world to me … I don’t know what to do it’s a constant battle with her it’s like she resents everything I do and I just like to keep the peace but she says I ignore her and I never listen to her and she gets aggressive at times in front of the baby like breaking things , slamming doors , and hurting herself to prove a point and her manipulative behavior is just wrong it’s a non stop cycle
@@davidstaychillen2274 if she wasn’t like this before the baby. She may have postpartum depression. It can last for years unaddressed. Recommend therapy. If she doesn’t want to, then you have a choice you must make. If she was disrespectful before the baby then you shot yourself in the foot but it’s not the end of the world. Just remember, if you aren’t okay, you can’t do shit for your kid. And you don’t want your child learning and experiencing these traumas. It’s unacceptable. Good news is, there is a healthy way out.
TRUE OP.
Yes
Postpartum depression it just childish behavior spoilnes of a woman. Dont fall for that. She have depression dont deal with it
If she grew up watching her mother disrespect and devalue the father in the household then it will be embedded in her psyche/nature to do the same to any men she comes across the rest of her life and adult life.
Very true!
@@ShaunZachary New subscriber. Great content and knowledge homeboy. Keep doin what you do.
Appreciate ya man- thanks for watching 🙏🏻🙏🏻
Speaking facts 💯 you gotta be willing to check her on her disrespectful behavior and you gotta be willing to walk away from these chicks at anytime 💯
Should women do the same with disrespectful boyfriends?
It doesn't matter or make any difference how much we like a women. It's how much a woman likes a man. Can love a woman it's no relationship if she has no attraction
Shut up 🤣 if they are treating you like shit then you walk away and go and f*ck a new woman, you are the prize not them
This is the absolute truth !
If i only knew this info 18 years ago! I did not had a frame and my wife was so disrespectful for the last 2 years. Last mont i just walked away. Now divorce to follow. Thank you.
🙏🏻 ✊🏼
I just broke up with my ex as I've had enough. She has disrespected me by calling me names and accused me once of something I didn't do(being on a dating app). She had trauma from her previous exes and although I kept on reassuring her that I'm not like her ex by making her feel loved and safe. I tried to make things better for us but no matter what I do for her I always end up getting disrespected and I feel like I'm the one paying for all the shit that her previous exes have done to her.😢
Just focus on your self
I feel for you, man.
I broke up with a girl who were cheating on me, but some time later she started messaging me, suggesting that we should try again.
As soon as I asked her whether she is sorry for lying to me or not, she said that she doesn't understand why am I making such a big deal out of that, instead I should start "acting like a man and agree with her invitation to have a serious talk in person."
I was shocked, to say the least. Naturally, I refused her wicked advances toward me and called her disrespect out, after which she straight out started calling me names and pointing to my weaknesses which I had made a mistake to open up about them, when we were in the honeymoon phase.
Some girls are monsters under a beautiful disguise.
Any tolerance toward a woman is your path to her DISRESPECT.
Same thing and we broke up same time 7 months ago. Walk away. Mine tried to come back. I miss her sometimes but better to move on. She will change at first but revert back to her old ways with time
The best thing you could do is just get away from a person like that I had somebody do that to me long ago when i was younger and then tried to project and act as if I was doing that to her. From the name calling, to the jokes that were actually nothing but disses, trying to downplay my accomplishments, and then getting upset because I wouldn't open up about traumatic experiences of my own life when I just didn't care to talk about them. It's hard to deal with somebody that's so morally superior to everybody else but then at the same time saying they have every problem under the rising Sun.
It is not your job or anybody's job to wake up and constantly prove yourself to someone when you aren't doing anything. I've had to endure lectures about honesty and loyalty as my character gets craped on and attacked.
Every time I joke about or say would be taking literally and then used as ammunition later and then after a while I just got sick of it. It's for this very reason that I predominantly keep to myself.
I was married for over 20 years and at 42 she suddenly unexpectedly passed away. I’m 45 now and finding myself back in the dating scene. Last time I was dating it was pagers and pay phones lol. What I knew with the wife was to make it work, when I got back in to dating that first one was a disaster. I did all the wrong stuff. I miss my wife but to succeed and be happy for this next part I need to continually adjust and get better in every facet. Thanks for the content.
Sorry for your loss bro. But yea dealing with these women now a days, the dating game has completely changed from those golden days.
Sorry to hear it bro, I'm in a similar situation. I think these types of channels get generalized as for players or guys looking to womanize, but that's not most guys intentions here. We're here to do better with women because they are brutal.
Wow I am dealing with exactly the same thing!
Watch corey wayne instead
You're gonna get crushed by those women my dude. You have to toughen up.
My man deserves a MEDAL
Bro you helped so much with going through a divorce! 💪🏾 keep doing the good work!!!!
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Had to learn that on my own recently.
Great to have Teacher like Shaun.
WIsh I knew all of that earlier, but every relation is a lesson.
We all have to go through it to some extent bro.
Best advice I never knew about until now! She starts showing signs of insecurities and starts making ridiculous accusations Run!!!
Pay attention to the red flags actions are important than words
"Only a complete idiot would argue with a woman and appeal to her logic." - Erich Maria Remarque.
"Only a complete idiot would argue with a man and appeal to his logic" - Me
Desire is more intense an emotion than getting something.
Oh yes women's emotions change every 5 minutes
Every part in this video is absolute truth and solid advice. Have done all these things, letting emotions get to me when treated wrong by her, only giving her more power and making her feel more valuable about herself and eventually walking out of the home with child.
I’ve developed a zero tolerance for disrespect.
I’ve been in some of the most stressful relationships you can imagine. Now that I’ve done the healing work, I value my peace way too much to accept disrespect.
@@nickislearning I feel the exact same way. I used to be very lenient towards a lot of people and in all honesty I don't mind jokes about how I spend a lifetime making them myself.
But when somebody is actively being over the top disrespectful and some attempt to provoke somebody while calling them manipulative. It's time to call it quits. I've had to cut a lot of people out of my life because of this type of behavior. I've had people that I thought were close to me and people that I've helped for years attempt to assassinate my character at the drop of a dime. Always remember your peace is non-negotiable..
Quite class in session the professor is teaching valuable wisdom. 💯
Man my Girlfriend starts to use me as a doormat, I‘m a non confrontational kind Guy and can control my emotions really well. People somehow mistake that for weakness sometimes tho and no idea how to correct it.
My Girlfriend is on her period and the last days the disrespect got to a level i dont tolerate, in the moment i control myself and basically ignore it, maybe be a little more distant. I‘m not into arguing tho so no idea if i should confront her about it and just tell her or ignore her the next couple days.
I think imma ignore her for a while hope it helps and if it doesnt i need to breakup.
It pisses me off tho that people assume I‘m somebody to talk to that way just because i‘m a kind Guy. I‘m pretty Masculine got myself trough alot of shit and built a life for myself, aint noone talking to me that way. In the Moment its hard for me to eypress myself tho since ive learned to tolerate bullshit like that in my childhood for a long long time
I feel you brother, best you don’t react and end up in jail though
You were too nice to her. You need to set boundaries very very early in the relationship. Make it very clear that you will not tolerate any disrespect from her or you will walk away. Having the ability to walk away from a relationship is absolutely crucial. She needs to feel that to have respect for you and also worry about actually losing you. A woman can not love a man she has no respect for.
Women try to provoke. Your correct.
Lot of psycho chicks I've dated
“I Am The Prize!” 👍🏼
That MEXIICAN girl checked you dawg! LOL.
This is so true I was the nice people pleasing and sacrificed so much and I was in that scarecedy mindset and she left me and I beat myself up at the beginning then I worked on myself had a purpose and went out my buisness and gave her silence and man it really changed the landscape now I don't allow to be disrespected anymore and I let her know with a few words without getting emotional that I won't put up with nonsense and gave her silence they get the message trust me
Pathetic that grown adults need to have their behavior corrected.
It's not your job the correct somebody else's behavior and I generally follow The rule of three. First times an error twice is an oversight third time's a pattern..
A not nice person is a not nice person. Dont let they cuteness fool you been there twice. Waiting for the femine woman to come out it never does. Just watch how aggressive they are listen how they talk to people.
Quality advise; keep it coming Bro!
I wish I would’ve found your channel a long time ago
Better late than never my guy! Thanks for watching 🙏🏻
3:18 “handing out commitments, like hot cakes! “ 😂😂😂😂
Loved that bit too😂
@@DavidKing-pq6br 😂
Peace.
Thank you.
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Dead on!! Thank you Sir
*Pile of gaslighting. If there is genuine attraction, frane maintenance etc would never be needed.*
I completely had a different perspectives of maintaining frame but this video said it all. Thanx Shawn 💯💯💯
Thanks for your positive asskicking talks, Shaun !
You´re a Top Motivator and you talk the Real Talk !
Absolute Great Content on this Channel - love it !
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Thanks bro I appreciate the kind words 🤜🏼🤛🏼
its really crazy how many 'mans realtionship Advice/Red Pill ' channels are blowing up. This just shows how fucked our society is. Guys just stop validating these girls, quit social media, work FOR yourself, not ON yourself.
Dig it yes yes💯
So true man, say..."hi ...bye... " get off the phone, quit the texting bs.
Hard to take this but stop f/booking them. stop social media altogether!
Tech. is great however, we did it to ourselves.
The funny part about me is I've NEVER thought about how much money I had. How much I'd spend on her. I always let it be natural and spent on her when I wanted to. The expectation was you wanna be with me for me. If it wasn't like that then obviously I put her in her place or leave. I'd even throw it on her and say what you do for me?
Thanks man dealing it for on and off 13 years relationship
Great video believe me bro i have been preaching this to my boys and getting them out of the friends zone lol they are getting it now 😂
So what's the best way to deal with disrespect from a girlfriend? Giving her silence or speaking to her about her disrespectful behaviour while maintaining frame or without yelling at her?
Thank you for the wise words Shaun.
This guy deserves a fuckin medal spot on !
The first thing is to be invaluable or at least be going somewhere.
If you’re not highER value than her and more importantly be confident at whatever level you’re at.
Personally, this is a wake up
So powerful
100% right.
Does this apply to marriage with kids?
I'm so glad there are a good number of real red pillers on the internet
Good info brother.
As soon as they live with you then they start there BS .Always rent your own place out and go live in there place if you want to cohabit .
Under no circumstances let her move in ever.
So true mine living with me 6 years and it's hell
No, it’s even worse if u move into her place. Idk a single man that’s ever worked out for.
Another great video .
This is something they don't want to go through!
trials to see if they fit to be your woman..
They do this to men all the time.
And the disrespect that women do to their men( screaming.. arguing, lying).. either two things: walk away or ignore her until she apologized.
Good video G.👌
“…handing out commitments like ‘hotcakes’” 😯🤣🤣
Fire, brother 🔥 TY!
The only way to deal with a disrespectful girlfriend or woman is to radically distance yourself from them and never look back. Now this is a long term solution.
Yep
Many guys needing help with this type of female behaviour is in marriage situations with kids and invested. In this situation, it's not so easy to just walk away from family you've been building, maybe that's why they act crazier in marriage.
im in the worst relationship ive ever been in right now. im 27, shes 21. Shes screams at me almost daily. Im at the point where if shes starts yelling now imma just throw hands. Fuck it. my mental health is basically destroyed.
Do it bro
wow i dont even remember this comment, to update she continued screaming til about late January. Shes finally moving out soon thank god. Worst 2 years of my life.@@SlyC Im never dating again bro
@@zezegambles I understand how hard that can be broski. Glad your finally movin on from that toxic life and it gets better from here in out for ya
Leave her
She's not worth your future bro
she moved out 2 days ago, only part that sucks is she took the kitten i helped raise which sucks. But yeah, new chapter just started bro. Hope you have a nice day@@shawnalexander1158
These are all facts. Too bad it took me 40 years to finally get it. Awesome video. 💯
Needed this
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I got asked - and then 3 weeks later was asked why i never left her alone when she left 3 months before.. f'd up
Thank you for this ❤
Great Advice
bois, I have 14 of these videos in my playlist, I'll be a new breed at the end of it all🥳
Wat if y’all got kids together and y’all broke up but she still disrespectful and acting crazy
I'm sorry, what? Handle a disrespectful girlfriend. The first instance she disrespects you, it's donzo. She's out the door, goodbye, good luck with your search! Guys, please do not take disrespect from a female because she will keep disrespecting you and use you.
The way to test her is ask her politely to make you a cup of coffee, if she refuses, pack her bags and kick her out.
You can't make your own coffee? Really?
Bro, it’s only a matter of time before you’re interviewed and featured on Fresh and Fit. I want to see you tell your story on there and interact with the ladies on their night talk! As well as on Roommates with Hafeez & Co. That would be lit 🔥
It’s a goal of mine to get on freshandfit. It’s only a matter of time. I fuck w Myron heavy
@@ShaunZachary inshallah
@@ShaunZachary All in due time mate!
Shaun, you don’t think that being silent is a form of passive aggressive behavior and enforcing healthy boundaries and checking her when they are crossed is a better option?
I’m confused by the question bro. Email me if you still want this question answered if you can explain it differently
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This one hit home 🏡
Hey Shaun thanks for this video.
Well, about three days back, my girlfriend broke up with me and she said she doesn't have hope for the relationship any more. I've been so down in those days but as I've been watching ur videos I started gaining some more things in my mind that I didn't know.
Now recently few hours back she has been calling me. But I've not been picking up. So my question is, should I pick up her calls or keep the silence?
I wouldn’t. She’s playing games
Commitments like hot cakes. Lol
Great point!!! 👍🏽
Thank you 💯 I’m learning from you big bro
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What happens when you lose frame boss and you do the back and forth with her ?
She’s loses attraction
My question is how do you FIX this???
in a situation where by she can’t walk away she knows no man would put up with her crazy ass she wants you as a husband but all you wanna just do is to use her to learn CONTROL to be in frame always but you already fucked up losing frame once so how do you go from there??
What happens when they completely switch it up on you after year 4 or 5 ….-and ir already knee deep .
If she disrespect you tell something tell her the same dont stay quite cuz ur cool show her what ur dont just let her go like that
Bro me and my women went through a break up and currently I'm still stay there with here going on two and I be dam ahe is so despectful bro she talk to a due when I'm at house and her ass even go out while I'm even at the house I feel like I'm stuck
Walk away bro. Your life will get so much better. Be a man not a simp 👍😎
Thanks bro I'm been trying but sometimes it hard
You are still there, that's why you are suffering. The more you see her talking to some other guy, the more you are sulking. I know it is difficult to endure such disrespect, but you need to question what she has been giving you all these months and years.
You expected love, equal give and take and her company and look what she is returning you,anxiety, stress, frustration, sleepless nights, restlessness. Has she hypnotise you, if not, just leave her. Don't become frog of the well. Kick at her back, once for all. Yeah difficult, but that's what she deserves. Perform or perish.🎉
God bless you bro.
I would like to point out there is a huge difference between a woman that fears God and those who don't. They need to be held accountable otherwise it's just a free for all.
Sadly 6 years in and i'm finding out how difficult it is to change behaviour and the sad part is we live together.
Almost convincing myself to just cut and run. 😂
Yep. It’s very difficult man
Leave bro.... I was living with my gf on a 10 month lease. I ghosted once lease ended, cut her off completely. She was disrespectful and mentally draining
How’s it going now…still together?
@@Kaizen671 We broke up 6 months after my original comment and we live seperatly now...
I've gone on a few dates since and met some beautiful smart young woman and one of them is showing promise, a fresh start.
@@TruthCrucifiedAny update?
I got emotional and overreacted and went outta frame with my disrespectful girl, now I want to ignore her but I feel the impact of doing the ignoring thing won’t be felt since i already lost my emotional balance and yelled at her so what do I do?
Do I play dumb keep calling her just for me to correct the situation where I fucked up ??
Yup I gave her all I had too easy..
14:25 all the way to the end fellas (Gold)
I think you mean how to handle a disrespectful “EX” girlfriend.
Your killing it brother 👊
Maaaaaan🤦🏾♂️👍🏾💯
thank you man for ackowledge my experiences with your experiences. dated people who used to post seminaked pictures on social media and provoke my reactions. Just one thing bro, now i apply this to people these days days and now women dont date me at all, so relationships are just luck? what will be your opinion about this
Dude; you are something else…
I walked away!!!
Free as a bird
Great video
My girlfriend is a real mean woman and always crazy but she been with me for 10 years and she's always saying she wants to leave so I tell her go get the he'll out but she never leaves, but I put up with it because I'm in my 60 and don't want to start a new relationship because I could care less if I'm with a woman ever again and she knows it but I treat her very nice and polite that's why she never leaves because she knows she the problem.
Dude l enjoy ur teachings though l hv this challenge. I girl am dating ghosted me for 2 weeks and l pulled bad but she's back claiming that l hv changed. Brothers wat should l do coz l love this bby
She’s recreational use only until she proves otherwise. I would put in zero effort with her, invite her over.
I subscribed and this is my first time watching you. 💯 you should be a preacher. I’ll go to your church 😂
🤜🏼🤛🏼 welcome bro
Yep. 3:18. Lol.
I’m waiting for an impersonation of a sissy boyfriend. Hilarious 😂
I've got a question so ugh I hate to say this cause it really hurts me but my girl constantly ignores me when I try to talk like a adult it got so bad one night I lost my cool and started destroying things in the house well she ran outside screaming at the top of her lungs that I'm tryna hurt her like what I'm a black man and I've never put my hands on her that was like a year ago she literally just did the same thing tonight because I got mad that she was ignoring me just out of anger I called a bit so her response was to literally start screaming that I'm putting my hands on her
I’m bout ready to whoop that trick fucking tried talking tried arguing tried silent treatment tried about everything at this point only thing I haven’t tried was sign language
WORD!
I walked away for good
Straight facts
Do u care about how much alimony & child support she’s gonna collect?
Is there really a unicorn?
Perfect ❤
Idk about that year thing
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