After proclaiming how great they are at their career/job early in the relationship, at some point theyll suddenly become the continuous victim of job loss, so basically you'll just have a squatting dependent on your hands once they get comfortable in time. So be just as wary of any chameleons that claim they believe in 50/50 finances as those that dont.
@@GenericName4488 years wise long.. but u only get a chance to see the difference when after u break up a long term relationship.. and it was only once he tried.. most like was like well maybe it was just this one girl turned out this way... Tried another and saw it was same thing again.. concluded appropriately and next time he was like no thanks . Seems fine.. could have learned quicker if actual relationships ended sooner.. but u dont know when things got sour
After a 30 year marriage, I’m single and will never go back to sharing my life with another woman. I’m totally free, have tons of hobbies, and loving it.
Even if kids are involved, try and persuade her that it’s the best option. In my opinion I think you can engineer this “living apart together” move ideally with one kid, or pushing it… two kids that are easy to handle. The sad reality is the relationship will likely fizzle out if you cohabit. What’s the point living with a woman who doesn’t love you deep down, I ain’t going out like that mate, no way!
This man speaks 100% facts and the truth. I’m 44 and recently divorced. I fully confirm everything he said. Society and laws made it too easy for women in our modern world. They have nothing to lose and zero consequences for any wrong doing. So never give up your dignity as a man.
I agree 100% from my own experiences. I've noticed how all my married male friends are domesticated like pets, having to ask "permission" from their wives to do the tiniest things for themselves.. simply put, it's pitiful and shameful. LIVE ON YOUR OWN!!, AND BE A REAL MAN!!
I've heard about that. The woman picks a fight over every little thing and slowly trains the man to become a passive servant to her whims in his efforts to keep the peace.
They're nuts. They're always looking over the fence to see if the grass is greener over there. Incapable of being content, especially with themselves. Needing external attention just to feel good about themselves.
@@jinkazama2555 I find it can change me from missing my girl during the week to getting too much of her and longing for time alone. Better to miss someone than be sick of them. I don't think couples living together is ideal. Probably a necessity with kids tho. It also helps if your house or apartment is spacious with many rooms.
@@asmithgames5926it’s not what it used to be 3 decades ago those times are long gone and living with a woman in todays society is waste of time for a man unless you want all the toxicity and headaches that come with it. It’s better to be happy alone than be secretly miserable with someone who doesn’t respect you.
@@jinkazama2555 I'm not the original poster but I tried it with 3 women in my 20s and 30s. The sex quickly dried up, they got complacent and did NOT want to share bills and financial responsibilities. Sex became more of a chore. No surprise BJs, no couples showers, no random day sex, etc. It just went away. And they became needy, winey, emotional, etc. It was horrible. Plus they wanted to decorate,.... ugh...
I'd go so far as to say that men are generally more capable of living alone and of getting by with less, economically speaking. we generally consume less and collect less decorative objects / clutter too. relationships where two partners are sharing their habitats generally favour the woman, and her contributions are more easily substituted by money or simply superfluous.
The collect Nick Nacks, Bric A Brac,. Garbage with no utility at all. On the odd occasion when they buy a tool or some miniature screwdriver set for changing the battery in the garage remote, it will always be some low end garbage tool that isn't fit for any purpose. There's no concept of quality, none whatsoever.
Have to agree. I tried it 3 times (I was about 26, 33, and 35). It never worked. Women immediately dial back on the key things men want. They get settled and very secure and stop putting out with zest because they lose competition anxiety and get very complacent. They just stop trying. No lingerie. No spontaneous BJs. No couples showers. They are always "too tired" or "have to get up early...". Do NOT do it men. All risks, no rewards.
I'm 40. Had 8 relationships. Never lived with one of my girlfriends full time. Always had my own place. The more time I spent with them the more our personalities clashed. It is what it is.
Unleashed and unhinged. I lost too much in my marriage to consider it a second time. Work hard, keep your shit together and you are assured of success and more importantly, control.
A lot of people who do these types of videos pretend like they don't care about all the random people walking about, but this guy lives it to the bone. My guy here literally doesn't care. Impressive.
Through my personal experiences, I have discovered that women are generally "Takers" in relationships - whether you cohabitate or not. Men tend to be "Givers" in loving relationships. Men, don't fall in this trap: When what you freely give to your woman becomes an expectation, it's time to leave. I love living alone. Wouldn't have it any other way.
there is nothing more essential than a safe resting space. women get pissed off by men resting. this makes cohabitation impossible. exactly what Troy says at 8:30. women start making up things to do when you do the most important thing: relaxing. and relaxation for a man leads to free-thinking leads to creativity. nothing stifles creativity as much as a nagging woman.
Great advice man! I could not agree more. I have tried living with girls, and without and its definitely better to NOT move in with your lady. It keeps the relationship spicy, and it gives you the time to focus on what you need to do to to make money.
First, consider the only ways a man can maintain a girl's interest: 1) Mystery 2) Occasional Absence 3) Space 4) Potential for Jealousy None of these are possible when you live together. Plus, you'll see her without makeup and you'll be stinking up the bathroom. Not romantic.
After a very long experience with women at different levels of relationship and commitment, I 100% agree with every single word said in this video. However, I have known some men who just can't live alone and they need that (even paying the high cost that is takes). So, being all true, this advice is not for everybody.
Agree. I have an old friend who literally cannot be by himself or he gets lonely. He went from living with his mum to living with his girlfriend. He has never lived alone.
I married and made a child with a woman in a different country. So far, I’m finding that loving from a distance is less stressful on me than being with her. Either way, I will support my wife and child, including financially, but I’m doubting whether or not I should bring her, as it might complicate things in a more stressful direction.
I recently got divorced after a 18 yr marriage, and I tell any women I date that I don't see marriage or cohabitation in my future. Most of them are actually on the same page, and the ones that aren't I just don't see more than once. You can get all the positives of dating without any of the negatives, if you don't cohabit. Troy is 100% spot on with this video.
I had a FWB for a few years. I figured it would be easier to move her in with me. Everything fell apart really fast. We haven't spoken in 3 years now. Don't ever do that.
Just like the latest iPhone no longer seems as exciting after the first month, same happens to relationships. There is nothing special about relationships unless it is based on something deeper like sense of duty or religion. Relationships are not meant for happiness but for survival and today each person can survive quite well alone.
I can totally agree, I got my girl to move in with me and I found myself less and less attracted to her all the time. If you're any good in bed a girls gonna want sex off you all the time and they don't deal with rejection well, I generally found relationships become much more transactional as soon as you're living together.
My plan is to get married and still keep separate living spaces own bed, own bathroom, own kitchen. Own hotels on vacation etc. I wouldnt want to share those things even with the guy I'm in Love with. Its not all about sex but male and female relationships are mainly about sex. Men and women dont need to talk so often just when necessary. Everyone needs other friends to talk to and if you dont want to do domestic work hire a maid service or a handy man instead of complaining.
Best arrangement I ever saw: Guy was rich enough to have a large two story home, first story was hers, second story was his, they live as single, but married, and have to "date" each other. Personal space AND unity. Some people have really figured this out.
My partner and I do this. Well we have our own room/bathroom each, which are on different floors. We have quite different sleeping preferences so it works for us
Married 22 years and together with my ex 24 years. Lived together prior to getting married. Biggest fcken mistake young men can make - big time. In addition, I had no idea how hypergamy was so prevalent within their character (which explained any intimacy and relationship I ever had with a woman). All men out there , before you settle down into “her wonderful world of commitment” I recommend two books you must read; a) the rational male by Rollo Tomassi, and 2) the unplugged alpha by Rich Cooper. Both are excellent must reads and they also have UA-cam channels as well. If you want to keep your manhood , your sanity and all of your shit, then educate yourself. It will improve your confidence with women and the ability to recognise you are definitely the prize whilst also protecting yourself, regardless of what our current culture and society tells us. Power and peace to you all brothers 💪🥊👍!!!
Trust me. The only woman you can live with is your mother, until you move out. My dad died 2002 so Im back with mum and its cool. No rush. Just go in dates with women but never under the same roof.
@@RealTroyFrancisHaving respect is a quality of a noble and self actualized man. By your reactivity you only proved that you are hurt and project that bad image of woman to other men. It is easy to see.
Silly comment. Doesn't even make any sense. Biology is Biology.. Nature is Nature. Anything you have in abundance will and does LOSE value.. Therefore living together, being around her nearly all of the time, will eventually lead to her losing attraction for you.. As human beings we generally appreciate things that are scarce, much more than the things that are in abundance. Why do you think Gold or Diomand is more precious than coal or rocks? Your clearly a surface level thinker.. Maybe learn a little about biology and human nature.😅
Troy walking alone in a dark coat reminds me of the song 'Man of Sorrows' by Bruce Dickinson. Here on the street, a small Troy is speaking He pays to a thot, he does not know, he cannot feel All of his flings of younghood he will remember He will not cry, tears he will not cry
Deep down women love mysterious men, forget about societal marriage pressure of living together, deep down it's not what women want either. As a man if you need it, find a way of hitting it without attaching any strings. We humans have tried to go against nature for two long. Males in nature are only preoccupied with: number one Finding food to it, number two chasing females and this should not be different when it comes to humans. Males are actually more excited when they are free to chase any female they please; chaining yourself to a particular female is boring, unnatural and lacks creativity. Females don't like it when you are chained to one of them; they'd like to have you also. Infact even the woman you would be chained to won't like it either. Being with her all the time puts her under tremendous pressure. We only live 70 years, if we are lucky; so why live that short time in boredom. I've seen some people use unwanted pregnancy and STDs as reason to stay with one partner. They will cheat and defeat that argument anyway. When you are single you can choose to abstain from sex for considerable amount of time, saving energies that your body can use otherwise, and defeating the pregnancy and STDs argument. Staying free is how the universe operates, We've tried to go against nature, it just won't work. Now, children have never been difficult to look after if we can overcome ths materialistic world We've created, think about it. Plus, we should not use them as reason to live miserably with someone.
GET TO KNOW the person A LOT before you move in and or get married! And also, keep in mind that if you MOVE IN and you do not get married, you might still be in the eyes of the law COMMON LAW married. Beware!!
Laughed at every time I would say , " you have a better chance of success married to someone you just met than someone you lived with for any length of time"? Mostly from the ladies?
Honestly, what do men and women have in common anyways? If you are young with nothing and build a life and family together, staying each others best friends, then all to ya. But, if you don't have anything to co-create together, then the preference difference of the genders, don't actually support an environment of quality time spent together. They don't share the same interests. Maybe that explains the boss/secretary romances.
Kind of like buying a new car . Loses half or more of it's value as soon as it drives off the lot . Except in this case once you move in together you accept ALL the risk. Dating in the West is like playing Russian roulette with a pistol
I dont agree... this seems to be a formula to not commit. Respect in a relationship is key, and keeping your other constantly wondering about your fidelity is not, in my eyes, the best of ideas. And not moving in together does not guarantee that you will keep your phisical relationship interesting.
This piece of advice goes for those who want to cut their blood line. You are talking about the tattooed aimless drabs here. If you want a son which makes a lot of sense for a mature man, how do you not want to live together!? An ultimate suggestion would be: man up guys
This video is 100% true only for man no simp stay single never get married plz wake u ass up you will lose everything the justice system will take everything u work hard and give to her
Your home may be more peaceful if you learn to give your partner space on both sides. Your own room is a must. If you demand a woman continuously placate you, as you put it, I humbly suggest the problem may well be with yourself and your demands.
Everything you say is spot on. Someone needs experience and wisdome to get what you are saying. Of course, he needs to be informed in the first place from experienced men who can teach this stuff such as yourself. 👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
Listen guys, still single and never have a live-in girlfriend, unless marriage is your intention. Period! Keep your options open and the ability to bring women over to screw at your apartment/condo. When you have a live in girlfriend, you give up your freedom.
When you cohabitate the sex decreases and the interior decorating increases.
After proclaiming how great they are at their career/job early in the relationship, at some point theyll suddenly become the continuous victim of job loss, so basically you'll just have a squatting dependent on your hands once they get comfortable in time. So be just as wary of any chameleons that claim they believe in 50/50 finances as those that dont.
Nesting instincts
If by interior decorating you mean "crap everywhere" then yes.
My interior decorating is already on point, I don't need anyone to fuck it up lol
You boys need to pick better. My wife buys more tools than crap for the house. We then make and build stuff together.
The worst prison in the world is a home without peace.
Nailed it. The most lonely I've ever been, my ex-wife was in the same house with me. Make it make sense?
That is one of the greatest things I ever saw!!
@@anastasiosdimtsis1 really?
Nailed it. I lived with my first ex for 7 years, second ex for 10 years. I will never, EVER live with a woman again.
How easy did you brake up each time and moved on?
@chrisgilling543- right on bro!!!!
Only took 17 years. Fast learner huh?
@@GenericName4488 years wise long.. but u only get a chance to see the difference when after u break up a long term relationship.. and it was only once he tried.. most like was like well maybe it was just this one girl turned out this way... Tried another and saw it was same thing again.. concluded appropriately and next time he was like no thanks . Seems fine.. could have learned quicker if actual relationships ended sooner.. but u dont know when things got sour
Let me guess, you moved to her place?
"familiarity breeds contempt" in short.
Yes true. my mother often told me that.
It also breeds disrespect
You could put it that way, yes..
You nailed it.
Can also breed attraction
I feel fortunate that i'm wise enough to realize that marriage and moving in together is bs. I prefer peace and freedom over daily turbulence.
After a 30 year marriage, I’m single and will never go back to sharing my life with another woman. I’m totally free, have tons of hobbies, and loving it.
@@jessebfly how old are you now?
Perhaps living with a man? 😅😅😅
What about kids?
Even if kids are involved, try and persuade her that it’s the best option. In my opinion I think you can engineer this “living apart together” move ideally with one kid, or pushing it… two kids that are easy to handle. The sad reality is the relationship will likely fizzle out if you cohabit. What’s the point living with a woman who doesn’t love you deep down, I ain’t going out like that mate, no way!
This man speaks 100% facts and the truth. I’m 44 and recently divorced. I fully confirm everything he said.
Society and laws made it too easy for women in our modern world. They have nothing to lose and zero consequences for any wrong doing. So never give up your dignity as a man.
A divorced male isn’t one to give advice about relationships. You have clearly failed.
@ThrowAway-f6q, you are obviously young and inexperienced in life and have a lot more to learn, good luck.
I agree 100% from my own experiences.
I've noticed how all my married male friends are domesticated like pets, having to ask "permission" from their wives to do the tiniest things for themselves.. simply put, it's pitiful and shameful.
LIVE ON YOUR OWN!!, AND BE A REAL MAN!!
This exactly describes most married doormats/males. Especially my 'yes dear' uncle who did as he was told .
I've heard about that. The woman picks a fight over every little thing and slowly trains the man to become a passive servant to her whims in his efforts to keep the peace.
"Men put themselves in a jail of their own making" 😮
These is basically what Esther Villar said.
It seems very few women can ever be truly happy……there’s always something better just around the corner.
They're nuts. They're always looking over the fence to see if the grass is greener over there. Incapable of being content, especially with themselves. Needing external attention just to feel good about themselves.
Amen. Both times I moved in with a girl in the past, it lowered the quality of the relationship.
what happened exactly?
@@jinkazama2555 I find it can change me from missing my girl during the week to getting too much of her and longing for time alone. Better to miss someone than be sick of them. I don't think couples living together is ideal. Probably a necessity with kids tho. It also helps if your house or apartment is spacious with many rooms.
@@asmithgames5926it’s not what it used to be 3 decades ago those times are long gone and living with a woman in todays society is waste of time for a man unless you want all the toxicity and headaches that come with it. It’s better to be happy alone than be secretly miserable with someone who doesn’t respect you.
@@jinkazama2555 I'm not the original poster but I tried it with 3 women in my 20s and 30s. The sex quickly dried up, they got complacent and did NOT want to share bills and financial responsibilities. Sex became more of a chore. No surprise BJs, no couples showers, no random day sex, etc. It just went away. And they became needy, winey, emotional, etc. It was horrible. Plus they wanted to decorate,.... ugh...
@@timsimmons9995 o no il pray for u how are u now
No marriage or cohabitation. Ever.
Amen brother! And no sex, 4G all the way. 🎉
@@laumay7364 what is 4G
Don't live with anyone else period.
Yeah. Cause your cat stops beeig afraid of losing you.
I love cats more than women.
@philyeary880: my cats were also good company, loyal, caring and honest. I'd be hard pressed to say the same about women I've been with.
@@drewthompson7457 agreed, and they're interesting....I'm bored to tears by most women I've met.
I'd go so far as to say that men are generally more capable of living alone and of getting by with less, economically speaking. we generally consume less and collect less decorative objects / clutter too. relationships where two partners are sharing their habitats generally favour the woman, and her contributions are more easily substituted by money or simply superfluous.
💯💯💯
VERY TRUE 🏆🏆🏆🥇🥇🥇💯💯💯
The collect Nick Nacks, Bric A Brac,. Garbage with no utility at all. On the odd occasion when they buy a tool or some miniature screwdriver set for changing the battery in the garage remote, it will always be some low end garbage tool that isn't fit for any purpose. There's no concept of quality, none whatsoever.
I like how this is filmed.
Learning to be single and content is great gain.
Did it three times with three different woman. Everytime it brought serious decline to the relationship. Learned my lesson now. :)
Competition anxiety lessens.
anyone tried it and moved out as soon as he felt the decline? how did it turn out after moving?
Did it two times, and will NOT do that again..
God, what a mistake...
Learn your lesson quick.
Leave women alone. Let them be free to meet who they really want.
Need to keep them on their toes, fella.
Women complicate everything in your life
This is so true man.
As well as add nothing along the way
Lol well put.
@@bill74ish You guys need to date more diverse and interesting girls.
@@user-yg7kb1mt9z, I completely agree. That's why you need to leave them alone.
Have to agree. I tried it 3 times (I was about 26, 33, and 35). It never worked. Women immediately dial back on the key things men want. They get settled and very secure and stop putting out with zest because they lose competition anxiety and get very complacent. They just stop trying. No lingerie. No spontaneous BJs. No couples showers. They are always "too tired" or "have to get up early...". Do NOT do it men. All risks, no rewards.
so true tim
I'm 40. Had 8 relationships. Never lived with one of my girlfriends full time. Always had my own place. The more time I spent with them the more our personalities clashed. It is what it is.
@@timsimmons9995 Diversify your tastes, stop going for the same types of girls
@@Professor__S 8?! You just can't couple bond after all that body count laying waste in your soul...
@@evathespeaker9537 it's not like I didn't try to settle down. Your acting as if I've had 8 marriages😂
As a very experienced man, I must say this video is 100% correct.
My experience: Had both male and female roommates. Both suck. Better to live in your own space with nobody to mess up your life.
Unleashed and unhinged. I lost too much in my marriage to consider it a second time. Work hard, keep your shit together and you are assured of success and more importantly, control.
A lot of people who do these types of videos pretend like they don't care about all the random people walking about, but this guy lives it to the bone. My guy here literally doesn't care. Impressive.
Through my personal experiences, I have discovered that women are generally "Takers" in relationships - whether you cohabitate or not. Men tend to be "Givers" in loving relationships. Men, don't fall in this trap: When what you freely give to your woman becomes an expectation, it's time to leave. I love living alone. Wouldn't have it any other way.
there is nothing more essential than a safe resting space. women get pissed off by men resting. this makes cohabitation impossible.
exactly what Troy says at 8:30. women start making up things to do when you do the most important thing: relaxing. and relaxation for a man leads to free-thinking leads to creativity. nothing stifles creativity as much as a nagging woman.
agree women generally try to pressure men to do more for them (selfishly(
I was married now divorced, this is very true
If You allow it- Give her things to do
@@Leocifre Go for chill hippie chics, you all be dating some uptight glamorous types.
@@gmyersgilmer9470lmao! You'll learn
If it's the right woman... everything will work out.
Silly opinion
@@Vision-dd8flPoor you.
In india traditional houses the mens and womens parts of the house were seperate. Good system!
Too many women kill the fun.
Thats what they do..
Date a man. Some of you don’t even like or stand women.
If cohabitation messes it up, it just means that particular woman is not the type for a serious relationship.
Great advice man! I could not agree more. I have tried living with girls, and without and its definitely better to NOT move in with your lady. It keeps the relationship spicy, and it gives you the time to focus on what you need to do to to make money.
It's not like you do anything besides watch corn all day but ok, well done!
Leave the women alone.
Once you figured that out, you're definitely gone.
First, consider the only ways a man can maintain a girl's interest:
1) Mystery
2) Occasional Absence
3) Space
4) Potential for Jealousy
None of these are possible when you live together. Plus, you'll see her without makeup and you'll be stinking up the bathroom. Not romantic.
Summary: loss of competition anxiety.
Routine is enemy number one of romance
Very good accurate list...
And oh how very true it is.
This list is like a bad soap opera. A woman who is actually quality will be interested in the real you.
@@gmyersgilmer9470 its about keeping her. I generally agree with the list, in moderation.
💯 true. 52 been there done it. Will never live with another woman..
After a very long experience with women at different levels of relationship and commitment, I 100% agree with every single word said in this video. However, I have known some men who just can't live alone and they need that (even paying the high cost that is takes). So, being all true, this advice is not for everybody.
Well said. Many men just can't keep it together without a woman living there.
Agree. I have an old friend who literally cannot be by himself or he gets lonely. He went from living with his mum to living with his girlfriend. He has never lived alone.
True. Children always have a hard time being alone.
"Living together makes you just friends" - girl who was having an affair with me.
Makes you roommates
@@luckyrockmore2796
That it does..
And pretty lame room-mates as well...
you didnt see any signs of your woman cheating while living with her?
Most women are like bratty children. Where relationships are just a sick game to be played. Good deeds, loyalty are met with contempt.
Yes and social media fantasies intensify that to 100x more.
Is your mom like a bratty child?
You walking in public doing red 💊 talk. I love it!!😂
I've been living with my wife for 30 years. If you have a DeLorean I can borrow, I can head back in time like Marty McFly ! 😂😂😂
Don't give up on her
😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅make it a DeLorean ...limo edition ...I'm rolling with plus I know more people that wanna roll
don't forget the mini fridge and the blacked out rear windows 😎
Can I borrow it when your done
He's already had her for 30 years, it's probably gonna be a while.
I married and made a child with a woman in a different country. So far, I’m finding that loving from a distance is less stressful on me than being with her. Either way, I will support my wife and child, including financially, but I’m doubting whether or not I should bring her, as it might complicate things in a more stressful direction.
My opinion: If you live in a western country do not bring her home. Support her and the child and visit periodically.
great to see someone enjoying freedom, Don't change Troy, it was great to be a part of your telegram group
It's gotten so bad out there I just came across a YT video titled "Why You Should Never Live With A Woman"
😂😂😂
I recently got divorced after a 18 yr marriage, and I tell any women I date that I don't see marriage or cohabitation in my future.
Most of them are actually on the same page, and the ones that aren't I just don't see more than once.
You can get all the positives of dating without any of the negatives, if you don't cohabit.
Troy is 100% spot on with this video.
lol my guy out smack in the middle of the public giving the game out.
let those who have ears hear, as jesus said :D
Having babies messes up everything
nah, just don't live with her
@@nyahhbinghiexactly
@@gregabrams5792 How far away from her should one live? and also check out aubrey de grey
Robo women are coming to help you with yor attutude.
@@nyahhbinghi then how?
Such important advice that isn’t spoken about often enough, and it’s ruining many guys’ lives
I had a FWB for a few years. I figured it would be easier to move her in with me. Everything fell apart really fast. We haven't spoken in 3 years now. Don't ever do that.
Sounds familiar. Pretty soon, i even started to call her 'honey'.
A man who can’t commit is already a red flag.
Just like the latest iPhone no longer seems as exciting after the first month, same happens to relationships.
There is nothing special about relationships unless it is based on something deeper like sense of duty or religion. Relationships are not meant for happiness but for survival and today each person can survive quite well alone.
Not in bidens economy
I agree with bro. How would you have time for ps5 if you live with girl. No way man live free, live like rockstar
I can totally agree, I got my girl to move in with me and I found myself less and less attracted to her all the time.
If you're any good in bed a girls gonna want sex off you all the time and they don't deal with rejection well, I generally found relationships become much more transactional as soon as you're living together.
100%
One of the best on UA-cam
I lived 18 years with my mom, it was pretty good lol
Haha. Good one
Can't relate
😂 😂 👏👏 Congratulations
Love the information. Thanks
My plan is to get married and still keep separate living spaces own bed, own bathroom, own kitchen. Own hotels on vacation etc. I wouldnt want to share those things even with the guy I'm in Love with. Its not all about sex but male and female relationships are mainly about sex. Men and women dont need to talk so often just when necessary. Everyone needs other friends to talk to and if you dont want to do domestic work hire a maid service or a handy man instead of complaining.
This man speaks the truth.
Best arrangement I ever saw: Guy was rich enough to have a large two story home, first story was hers, second story was his, they live as single, but married, and have to "date" each other. Personal space AND unity. Some people have really figured this out.
So - he’s paying for her to live a single life? SHE’s the one who’s worked it out!
What’s keeping her putting out there is the sentence ‘Guy was rich enough’.. more so than the set up probably
My partner and I do this. Well we have our own room/bathroom each, which are on different floors. We have quite different sleeping preferences so it works for us
Most women are far too high risk to even tempt fate... Statistically, you'll lose.
Married 22 years and together with my ex 24 years. Lived together prior to getting married. Biggest fcken mistake young men can make - big time. In addition, I had no idea how hypergamy was so prevalent within their character (which explained any intimacy and relationship I ever had with a woman). All men out there , before you settle down into “her wonderful world of commitment” I recommend two books you must read; a) the rational male by Rollo Tomassi, and 2) the unplugged alpha by Rich Cooper. Both are excellent must reads and they also have UA-cam channels as well.
If you want to keep your manhood , your sanity and all of your shit, then educate yourself. It will improve your confidence with women and the ability to recognise you are definitely the prize whilst also protecting yourself, regardless of what our current culture and society tells us. Power and peace to you all brothers 💪🥊👍!!!
so nice to see an European capital city with actual Europeans in it.
No partner no problem
You have to work on the house just so your replacement boyfriend can enjoy the work you did. 😂
Your swagger and delivery are a major boost of confidence to me man. Love the video.
Trust me. The only woman you can live with is your mother, until you move out. My dad died 2002 so Im back with mum and its cool. No rush. Just go in dates with women but never under the same roof.
Sad society.
Sad that these broken men give toxic advice. Having a family and a loving woman is one of the most beautiful things in the world.
Source? Oh yes. The 50% divorce rate.
Idiot.
@@RealTroyFrancisHaving respect is a quality of a noble and self actualized man. By your reactivity you only proved that you are hurt and project that bad image of woman to other men. It is easy to see.
@@FreeFlow__ Spot on. I can't believe his response to you...
Silly comment. Doesn't even make any sense. Biology is Biology.. Nature is Nature. Anything you have in abundance will and does LOSE value.. Therefore living together, being around her nearly all of the time, will eventually lead to her losing attraction for you.. As human beings we generally appreciate things that are scarce, much more than the things that are in abundance. Why do you think Gold or Diomand is more precious than coal or rocks? Your clearly a surface level thinker.. Maybe learn a little about biology and human nature.😅
Historically men were too busy to be hanging around the house except mabe asleep.
The economics of everyone having their own home is dubious, to say the least.
they say the grass is greener on the other side but in reality one is
just deluded themselves
Troy walking alone in a dark coat reminds me of the song 'Man of Sorrows' by Bruce Dickinson.
Here on the street, a small Troy is speaking
He pays to a thot, he does not know, he cannot feel
All of his flings of younghood he will remember
He will not cry, tears he will not cry
Nothing better & more true,than the voice of experience.
Poland looks BEAUTIFUL. Cheers, thanks for the advice.
Deep down women love mysterious men, forget about societal marriage pressure of living together, deep down it's not what women want either. As a man if you need it, find a way of hitting it without attaching any strings. We humans have tried to go against nature for two long. Males in nature are only preoccupied with: number one Finding food to it, number two chasing females and this should not be different when it comes to humans. Males are actually more excited when they are free to chase any female they please; chaining yourself to a particular female is boring, unnatural and lacks creativity.
Females don't like it when you are chained to one of them; they'd like to have you also. Infact even the woman you would be chained to won't like it either. Being with her all the time puts her under tremendous pressure.
We only live 70 years, if we are lucky; so why live that short time in boredom.
I've seen some people use unwanted pregnancy and STDs as reason to stay with one partner. They will cheat and defeat that argument anyway.
When you are single you can choose to abstain from sex for considerable amount of time, saving energies that your body can use otherwise, and defeating the pregnancy and STDs argument. Staying free is how the universe operates, We've tried to go against nature, it just won't work.
Now, children have never been difficult to look after if we can overcome ths materialistic world We've created, think about it. Plus, we should not use them as reason to live miserably with someone.
Absolutely spot on.
It can work if you have separate bathrooms and separate spaces. But the problem with this is that most cohabitation opportunities are not like this.
GET TO KNOW the person A LOT before you move in and or get married! And also, keep in mind that if you MOVE IN and you do not get married, you might still be in the eyes of the law COMMON LAW married. Beware!!
I agree with you a %100 it's such a bad idea to begin with. Date until you get bored with each other and move on.
yes,specially if youre over 30
Just got my new place after 6 years with a woman. Nothing but trouble
Laughed at every time I would say , " you have a better chance of success married to someone you just met than someone you lived with for any length of time"?
Mostly from the ladies?
Man and woman can be just friends, provided that they're married. 😃
Honestly, what do men and women have in common anyways? If you are young with nothing and build a life and family together, staying each others best friends, then all to ya. But, if you don't have anything to co-create together, then the preference difference of the genders, don't actually support an environment of quality time spent together. They don't share the same interests. Maybe that explains the boss/secretary romances.
Kind of like buying a new car . Loses half or more of it's value as soon as it drives off the lot .
Except in this case once you move in together you accept ALL the risk. Dating in the West is like playing Russian roulette with a pistol
I will agree with what this man is saying.
Then why did Jennifer tell me that you have been sending love notes to Dylan Mulvaney?
I live with frogs and salamanders. the best bros ever!
I dont agree... this seems to be a formula to not commit. Respect in a relationship is key, and keeping your other constantly wondering about your fidelity is not, in my eyes, the best of ideas. And not moving in together does not guarantee that you will keep your phisical relationship interesting.
This piece of advice goes for those who want to cut their blood line. You are talking about the tattooed aimless drabs here.
If you want a son which makes a lot of sense for a mature man, how do you not want to live together!?
An ultimate suggestion would be: man up guys
This video was awesome. Really good advice and I needed to hear that. Thank you.
why be in a relationship in the first place?
Desperation
Coz everyone is doing it I guess lol
if you have parental love her , not only sexual love for her body
@@ouch9326 what are you talking about?
@@rexaustin2885 what do you think
This video is 100% true only for man no simp stay single never get married plz wake u ass up you will lose everything the justice system will take everything u work hard and give to her
this video should be required viewing for all young males. both of my kids did this and paid or are currently paying the price.
Absolutely nailed it.
Worst decisions of my life being spelled out here. Take heed.
Good women are become a rare commodity hence men willing to put with more just to stay with her.
This man speaks out the truth!!!
Your home may be more peaceful if you learn to give your partner space on both sides. Your own room is a must. If you demand a woman continuously placate you, as you put it, I humbly suggest the problem may well be with yourself and your demands.
I'm a woman and I wish that a man would just help me pay my rent without having to live with him. Lol.
The purpose of living together is to have kids and care for them. So you dont need to do this if you don’t want kids. RIP Coach Red Pill
Everything you say is spot on. Someone needs experience and wisdome to get what you are saying. Of course, he needs to be informed in the first place from experienced men who can teach this stuff such as yourself.
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this video reminds me good old julien RSD videos :( great video btw
Why guys are so restless to get domesticated is a mystery.
All that glitters is not gold
After listening, you might prefer to live with a guy.
Listen guys, still single and never have a live-in girlfriend, unless marriage is your intention. Period! Keep your options open and the ability to bring women over to screw at your apartment/condo. When you have a live in girlfriend, you give up your freedom.