the longest I ever went without watching porn or masturbation was 25 days this year and it was the greatest feeling of my life. I actually felt alive and optimistic towards life. I was addicted since I was 13, now I'm 30. I find myself being able to go 6-7 days before relapsing again but I want to kick this habit to the curb for good
I was addicted from 23 to 40 I've been totally free for 1 year now. And finally my senses are back. I see clips of it and its gross to me . I actually hate it and have the power to never view. As weird as it sounds. I got in my knees and prayed and begged God to take it away from me for three straight days. And it literally was taken away from me? I had tried everything before this. God be the glory. Hope he helps you guys
@vonBottorff not only that, technology is also wiring our brains in different ways. Very sinister, and pron is one of the biggest brain molding machine out there.
Dr, Trish is just an amazing intellectual, her words can really motivate and encourage people, so very fortunate that you are sharing your knowledge and teaching to millions of people
I believe the majority of us who watch dr trish or are into no fap lifestyle don't have a serious partener at all and some of us were never in a serious relationship anyway once in our life... so yeah abstaining from masturbation completely does not answer the big question : how do you get a partener that you are actually attracted too ? Talking to a lot of girls is not the answer because I have been doing this, this month, and I still got non stop rejections and I am not even ugly or fat
@@Dark_Angel555Any idea why women reject so brutally. I am a fairly handsome man and have had many women tell me that i look great but that doesn't translate into romance or love. I have been met with multiple rejections and it has gotten to a point where I feel I can't find anyone and would always end up getting rejected no matter how much I try.
@@Morpheus_neo_trinity the only thing that I can say and that I test so far is how many rejections does it take until you get one girl that you are decently attracted to at least - the entire september month I did close to 150 cold approaches and so far nothing - I dont even go for their number I always go direct and try to find out if they are attracted to me - at least 50 % of them say they have a boyfriend right off the bat no matter how you try to approach it - its the most common type of rejection for me - I have a boyfriend rejection Other than keep trying until one finds me attractive for whatever reason all I can say is don't give up on no fap lifestyle cause I did approaches while I was on porn and let me tell you that rejections were even more brutal and I didn't even received compliments back then ... at least now while not masturbating and not watching porn I receive polite rejections more and yes even compliments from women like you get that don't translate to nothing - but overall women are friendlier to me compared to while I was on porn ... despite me feeling that interact the same with them - I don't say anything different before and now
@@Morpheus_neo_trinity Because being polite and dropping hints often don't work. If it's not an enthusiastic yes it's a no and many men just ignore that, so we learn to be more aggressive. Also, majority of the time, unless you're a teenager, it's not about the looks, it's about behaviour and vibe. going to therapy and working on yourself is usually more likely to get you a decent long term relationship than just trying to look good.
Hypersexuality is no joke I’ve been diagnosed with it since 7th grade . you get these uncontrollable sexual images that go through your head of girls you know or just wanna bone during random times like out of bordeom , when your relaxed , or when you’re off guard , you have to be “AWARE” when you go on long streaks is when your urges start to pound and there’s no stopping it but meditation and exercise always get me through the day keeping my mind off just a little . your mind start to crumble and it can be a painful urge as you keep going idk if u supposed to : cold shower , 🚿 meditate and fight it , listen to a certain tune , or let the urge go through 😢 Once you release 💦 you start to bingeeee and now you can’t stop maturbating it’s get real tricky . Which leads to a flatline 🤞🏿✔️
I had a relapse twice few days ago due to high sexual urge ,It as affected my life a lot I’ve been Into this act within the range of 8years it as affected my life till now I still tried to recover within those years but my effort wasn’t a enough and now I’m 23yrs of age and counting and now I have no time on my side anymore ,I’m just trying to think things through and find a new journey out of life cause I’ve made a lot of mistakes in the past which is presently telling in my future,but I’ll be going for a adventure of my life soon.
Does anyone else experience the video blips? 3 minutes in and I’ve experienced it 15+ times. I enjoy and learn from these videos but I can’t take it anymore.
I don't see any reference to any studies in this video. Its difficult to understand your interpretation without these studies that you reference continuously. Please provide links to these studies.
What about if you don't have a partner? Masturbation to porn is the safest pleasure. It's a double edge sword. There's a lot of darkness to porn and I see it's impact on my confidence. I've wasted far too much time pleasuring myself looking at my phone. It's safe but lonely. With the right partner I see no need for porn, but with no partner, I don't know what else to do for sexual relief and pleasure.
I used to think that way until I met a partner and started to deal with SAD and man, its horrible because it leads to other problems like huge sexual anxiety, you fall into a loop
@@lucasazevedo679I think it is not a huge problem if you only do it only once a week or so. Its best not to overthink or feel overly guilty. But certainly its best and especially morally to phase it out completely. ❤
Do not seek pleasure in sex. Sex is for procreation. Seek to phase it out and replace it with other habits . Do not think too much about it and focus on integrating your sexual energy into your daily activities. That is key. Being lonely is no excuse buddy. Be a strong man with good habits. So just phase it out and replace it with prayer and after some weeks your desire will go down massively and then your mind will shift and it will not consume your mind anymore even if you may relapse once although preferrably you do not.
@@karlheven8328Man i have been averaging close to 3-4 masturbations a day since past one year which is almost close to 1440 ejaculations a year. My confidence is low and I am socially anxious as well. It felt like Dr trish was talking about me throughout the video. I hope i can make a turn around at age 29. Never had a woman in my life and it's tough to tackle this loneliness phase. Its incredibly tough and feels super lonely everyday 😭
@@karlheven8328I married because I'm a sexual man. If I wanted to live a sexless existence where prayer is the focal point, I would have become a Benedictine.
You can have high free testosterone if you have low androgen receptors it's just not going to express the masculine genes including aggression. There are men with high testosterone and low androgen receptors who look and act feminine .
De. Trish, I appreciate your work and your commitment to this channel. However, I get lost on this view of being in a relationship. I am single and have been for some years. What should I do then? Also, I am on semen retention and Nofap. I noticed that such pathways as the ones mentioned above can be bad for semen quality. My question then becomes "How long in semen retention/Nofap does it take for it to negatively affect my semen quality"? Anyways, I appreciate you and what you do.
Sorry to hear that man. .Get back up and Be careful. It’s way easier to relapse a second time. All of your progress is not lost. You’re still doing great.
I couldn’t even imagine having 7 months, I just hit one month. Thank you for being an example of sobriety, and starting over! Stay strong family, you and I got this!
It’s not a loss. Every streak away from P makes you stronger. It took me 5 years of frequent relapses to finally give it up for good. The gains from your 7 months is NOT gone. I want you to say it to yourself. I remember how bad it felt after a relapse. You’re getting closer to total freedom. Never give up.
Living with high libido and/or hypersexuality is just depressing. I wish there would be drugs against high libido. It's painful when we can't live out our sexuality, and in a world with a loneliness epidemic, this is all too common.
I would love to hear this topic explained with someone (me) with Bipolar disorder. Ive been married for 25 years and the waves of hypersexuality, followed by hyposexuality are awful gor our marriage, especially as ee get older. My wife is supportive but im a moving target so she doesn't know how to help, and I dont know what help to ask for.
And what about men who are physically unattractive, and they are not able to have any real sex life because of that? What is the solution for them? :))
Attraction is not only physical traits. Study how to be attractive man through youtube videos and you'll see there are many aspects to become more attractive. After almost two years of being in a self-improvement journey, in my opinion semen retention is #1 and affects everything.
Dr T, this is where I have a conundrum! I love weight training and know it is great on many levels but after a workout I feel so crazy horny!!! So, now you have pointed out correlation with high T and hyper sexuality it makes sense but doesn't make doing NF, SR or PMO easy!! and btw, with healing your mold issue, you're actually de-aging now!! ))
I have no opinion on this. But I do of one thing though: lots of mentions to studies, and no source, whether in the video, the description, or Dr Leigh blog. On the other hand, there are a lot of links to buy her services. Which makes me very suspicious about the quality of the information here and the "mission". I would have liked more context about this information: - studies sources. - numbers and context: for example, at which point masturbation is healthy? At which point is it not healthy? - why is hypersexuality not in the DSM? What's the debate about it among scientists?
Yes, the hair that is supposed to grow on your head is now growing on your hands. 😂 sorry I had to. In all seriousness. I think genetics are more at play here.
Yes, it lowers your Zinc, and other nutrients that are important for hair growth. Vitamin E oil, Tea tree oil, and virgin Olive oil can help with hair loss.
What about when the Hypersexuality is a function of Bipolar disorder. I have type one and one month Im a stud, then the next month, im disinterested. Is it still part of testostetone?
Of course you are not lonely. It's been easy for you. You're an attractive woman. What about the countless older men "out there in the world" who have no chance with women. Loneliness & rejection sap the confidence and you feel ugly & unwanted. You're the girl who visited a bar (with your boyfriend !) and numerous men rushed forward to buy you drinks and presumably befriend you. You're the girl who said that men who say they can't find a woman are talking "BS. Losing respect fast.
@@4ev3rmore dude thats like saying women are attracted to money.. lmao of course they are. But if you ever noticed in your long ass life that ugly guys can pull Hot girls. Its called game.. a.k.a “their value is high somewhere other than there looks”
In my opinion: Women have emotional needs before realizing anything. So amazing how ugly their husbands look. And yet dog faced, bauld & bull frog bellied it never ceases to amaze me how women have all the say when it comes to picking a partner. Makes me wonder if they have any standards anymore going out in yoga pants, tattoos & multi pierced too boot. Ladys like ogers because it makes them feel more secure about themselves. Women used to go after the men they wanted - not any more. Ugly men have better chances at beauty being gay guys go after the good looking men. Women do get what they allow into their lives & they can't expect second chances with children.
I practice caliber since 2022 .l am from india 🇮🇳. According our religious culture thats call bhamhachariyee life style. I am very happy to watching that vedio but l want to know after marriage how practice ?
It’s very difficult to not Jimmy the dog. After five days you’re pacing the floor thinking about nothing but sex. The first couple of days are pretty cool. You have more energy etc but after about five days or a week all u think about is sex
Hello, i am daily addicted to pornography and masturbation. I have schizophrenia which is more difficult to have a relationship. I want to quit. But i feel some powerfull urges and i can t stop. I need help...but i don t have so much money. I beleive one of the reasons my former girlfriend left me was that she found out that i was addicted to pornography and masturbation. Now i m single....and i suffer. Can you give me some free advice in which you explain how to quit pornography and masturbation with basically information. Thank you.
What about when your partner puts you on a diet of less sex? I'm talking about marriage here. Once a week becomes once a month, then soon it' once every blue moon. You still feel sexual but there is no option out there other than porn or cheating, (and cheating is not on my option list)... I am curious about how you suggest to deal with this if porn is off the table too. And before you say find another partner, 90% of other married men I know and who would talk about this report EXACTLY the same thing... lack of sex, avoidance of sex and in one case 10 years without it in a 20 year marriage. Go for a run or take a cold shower just delays the issue, not a solution.
@@Billy-the-Kid just imagine for a second he gets a side chick. Later on the marriage falls apart. She now can use the infidelity as a way to get spousal support. Thus this man not only has to divorce but also has to give her half of his income for 10 years.
Andrew Huberman has a good take on this: It all depends on what gets YOU going. If that's your fetish, it's doing the same thing to your brain as some hardcore midget porn is doing to someone else's.
I think you make it sound very intelligent and somewhat logical, but there seem to be some leaps of faith or logic where you've tied two characteristics together to sound like they are dependent, related, or inversely related, but I'm not following how you took multiple studies and somehow tied them together. For example, if a study found that 50% of men between 20-39 years old wore jeans to work. While another study shows that 45% of men between 30-39 chewed gum at work. That does not prove that men between 30-39 wore jeans and chewed gum at work. What I would love to know is what studies you are referring to and why the names of the studies were left out. When people are being purely persuasive, they use a fallacy where they refer to those who seem like they would know the facts, but they tend to leave out the details of who these people are, how they got their results, what they conducted their studies to explore or determine per their hypothesis, and the overall results which might show a very different result when looking at the bigger picture. In my own personal opinion, what I believe is happening in this video is that an intelligent woman who has established an audience and following, doesn't like men who masturbate and has produced a video that makes it sound as if they have a hormone imbalance, specifically men who supposedly masturbate more than she thinks they should, also watch porn and have trouble performing with a partner. There are some errors in this leap of logic. I happen to love reviewing and researching US Health Department studies where they conduct surveys with the largest sample sizes of people in the world. Look this one up - they also asked tens of thousands of American citizens of all ages and both genders (or without regard of gender as they identify however they choose) about their sex habits including their masturbation habits. Even better is that they do this every ten years and have done so since at least 2001, to the best of my knowledge, and they compare each survey to track changes. Granted, males from 20-29 are those who reported masturbating more frequently than any other age and gender category. That has been true since they started conducting this survey. However, from 2011 to 2021, a massive change in one gender and age group's frequency has the researchers anticipating that the 20-29 males will no longer hold the crown for most frequent masturbation. The group is the ages of 50-59 females who have the most respondents who masturbate more than once per day at 20% and who were only a few percentage points behind the 20-29 males when the survey was taken. Whether you masturbate only occasionally, or you're a 50-59 year old woman in the fringe percentiles who masturbates five or ten times per day, there is absolutely no correct amount of times that a person should fantasize about sex or any correct or better frequency, duration, or method for how often or how you masturbate. Here is another error. Not all men who masturbate often have performance issues. In fact, there are dozens of other studies that have proven that those people (not just men) who masturbate the most, also have the most sex and have the lowest rates of sexual dysfunction. Those who masturbate the least or respond that they don't masturbate at all are also those who responded as having the least amount of sex and have the highest rates of dysfunction. See if this makes more sense than the video (because I know it does): those who masturbate the most also likely have the highest libidos. They enjoy sex, their bodies are functioning well so sex is enjoyable. Their minds are tuned to sex because they enjoy it. Because they are very familiar with their sexual functionality and because they are very familiar with their bodies, they are more accepting of their bodies and they are knowledgeable of how to operate their sexual selves. And, because they masturbate often and are comfortable with themselves, they tend to not be as embarrassed, they tend to not have the anxieties and mentally rooted issues with sex, therefore they are open to more sexual opportunities with others and when they have these opportunities, they are more successful at having positive, enjoyable experiences because they know how their bodies work and are more accepting of their body image. That is why I know she is flat wrong. In addition, not all men watch porn when they masturbate. I'm a very frequent masturbation enthusiast who typically sets a window no shorter than two hours each time I masturbate, but I usually do it several times in a row and often exceed that window of time. More than half of the time I masturbate, which is four or more times per week, I set a window of three or more hours. I know this because I masturbate with intent and I keep a journal of my masturbation. Here is the part that clicked and when I knew she made up the results to fit her distaste for masturbation: when I masturbate, less than 10% of the time I am masturbating do I ever watch porn. What she fails to mention is also the type of porn that is being watched. I will not watch partnered sex between a man and woman because watching a man have sex is a huge turn off for me. I also don't watch lesbian porn or anything where there is someone moving or operating the camera, where the woman is performing acts on a webcam for pay, or where the woman who is masturbating is not in complete control of what is being filmed, what she is doing, or where there is any lack of authenticity, but that is less than 10% of the time I masturbate. What I watch most are UA-cam videos of women discussing male masturbation, or better, their masturbation, which there is no shortage of content. So, who is really watching all of the porn? PornHub did their own market research as they too thought an army of over testosterone'd masturbating, ill performing men were their only audience, but they were shocked to discover that of those who logged in, searched, and watched porn for twenty minutes or more (which is a key sign they got themselves off), 3 out of ten users were female. Of those who searched for the most unique or kinkiest videos including scat, waterworks, extreme anal, family based fantasy, gang bang, and a whole bunch of stuff I don't want to mention because I'm getting ready to ride my anal/prostate thrusting machine and masturbate for a few hours, women consumed the large majority of what PornHub considered "out there but for those odd people who like freaky stuff". So, keep blaming men, testosterone, and making up fake facts from nonexistent research and feeding it to some poor guy who feels guilty about masturbation, or worse, his wife who guilts him into not masturbating but lies on her back in the bed and says, " Go!" to make him responsible for her starfish lack of pleasure and does zero to get him aroused, yet expects him to have an erection like flipping a light switch on and off. They are lost already anyway. As for me, for the past two decades, i studied masturbation, yes, studied, meaning that I read books, took classes, researched scientific, medical, and mental health journals, and no, it wasn't just masturbating a lot (although that did happen too). I learned that shame, guilt, and embarrassment all prevent people from truly learning how enjoyable and healthy masturbation is for every person. I learned how to have multiple orgasms, full body orgasms, and how to prolong an orgasm for minutes (had my first when Ted Nugent's guitar solo starts in Stranglehold and it didn't stop until the very end of the song, seriously, it frightened me because I thought I was stuck like that). And, I just turned 50, but I currently have a sex life that is better than any man's that I know, I look younger, I am healthier, I am depression free, I don't miss any life events due to masturbating, and my sex life is way, way, way better now than it was when I was in my twenties, thirties, and probably forties (its only been two months). I continue to learn more, achieve levels I never dreamt existed, and a really hot 29 year old bartender asked me out but didn't know I was over 40. I attribute most of this to embracing masturbation, enjoying it until the neighbors call to check on my yelling, and from having such intense experiences and numerous orgasms (although they aren't the true focus or end of the session) that I smile a lot, which keeps me youthful, as well as a few very physical hours of doing it super hard providing me with a great cardio workout. Now, its time for me to do the exact opposite of the video and setup my anal masturbation machine, the lubricants, lots of towels, some strokers and sleeves, then light a candle and put up a mirror to watch myself go at it as energetically as I would my hottest date ever. I hope some of you see through the charade of the video. I doubt anyone read this far and am waiting to verbally and intellectually destroy the moron who posts, "too long, didn't read" as if it isn't obvious that they don't read.
If you read the Old Testament of the Holy Bible you learn that men who had sex with their spouse (Leviticus 15:18) and men who have had a nocturnal emission (this also may imply to the act of masturbation) (Leviticus 15: 16-17) were not permitted to enter the Tabernacle of Israel and later the Jerusalem Temple as they were seen as in an "unclean" state. This also meant that they were not permitted to partake in temple/sacred food until a period of time had elapsed and you have cleaned yourself. Also, during military campaigns, God's presence was believed to amongst the Israelites camp and an emission of semen meant you were to be excluded from your community for becoming unclean (Deuteronomy 23: 9-11) and men were not meant to intimate with women as this would most likely result in semen being released (1 Samuel 21:1-6, 2 Samuel 11:8-11). Although our modern day and age would scoff at these biblical verses, I personally believe that these principles point today's men who adhere to a conservative view of a Judeo-Christian faith to the Almighty who desires his followers are on a path of purity. It is more like the Almighty does not want you to come into his presence after you have experienced this dopamine hit and released your semen, both voluntarily (i.e. sex with a partner /solo sex ) and involuntarily (i.e. nocturnal emission).
So I'm assuming you would prefer to go to a much "milder" heaven? Because heaven, by definition, is a place much bigger and better than this world where people can indulge in sexual and other materialistic pleasures freely. And you don't need to worry about making money in heaven. At most, you might have 130 years to enjoy in this world but you might have millions of years to enjoy in heaven. Everything you see in this world and much more is also available in heaven - only better.
the longest I ever went without watching porn or masturbation was 25 days this year and it was the greatest feeling of my life. I actually felt alive and optimistic towards life. I was addicted since I was 13, now I'm 30. I find myself being able to go 6-7 days before relapsing again but I want to kick this habit to the curb for good
Same here. The most I went without was 7 weeks. So keep working
I was addicted from 23 to 40 I've been totally free for 1 year now. And finally my senses are back. I see clips of it and its gross to me . I actually hate it and have the power to never view. As weird as it sounds. I got in my knees and prayed and begged God to take it away from me for three straight days. And it literally was taken away from me? I had tried everything before this. God be the glory. Hope he helps you guys
Did you do it every day?
Did you do it daily for that long?@@Tapeworm1983
Stay strong when you have a long streak and your mind plays every trick to bring you back down
This is like a rich person telling a poor person to stop thinking about money.
OK coomer.
@vonBottorff not only that, technology is also wiring our brains in different ways. Very sinister, and pron is one of the biggest brain molding machine out there.
Dr, Trish is just an amazing intellectual, her words can really motivate and encourage people, so very fortunate that you are sharing your knowledge and teaching to millions of people
Thank you for validating why I'm going back to school for sex therapy. Your channel is a "what not to do" example.
Not all of us can get a partner.
I believe the majority of us who watch dr trish or are into no fap lifestyle don't have a serious partener at all and some of us were never in a serious relationship anyway once in our life... so yeah abstaining from masturbation completely does not answer the big question : how do you get a partener that you are actually attracted too ?
Talking to a lot of girls is not the answer because I have been doing this, this month, and I still got non stop rejections and I am not even ugly or fat
@@Dark_Angel555Any idea why women reject so brutally. I am a fairly handsome man and have had many women tell me that i look great but that doesn't translate into romance or love. I have been met with multiple rejections and it has gotten to a point where I feel I can't find anyone and would always end up getting rejected no matter how much I try.
@@Morpheus_neo_trinity the only thing that I can say and that I test so far is how many rejections does it take until you get one girl that you are decently attracted to at least - the entire september month I did close to 150 cold approaches and so far nothing - I dont even go for their number I always go direct and try to find out if they are attracted to me - at least 50 % of them say they have a boyfriend right off the bat no matter how you try to approach it - its the most common type of rejection for me - I have a boyfriend rejection
Other than keep trying until one finds me attractive for whatever reason all I can say is don't give up on no fap lifestyle cause I did approaches while I was on porn and let me tell you that rejections were even more brutal and I didn't even received compliments back then ... at least now while not masturbating and not watching porn I receive polite rejections more and yes even compliments from women like you get that don't translate to nothing - but overall women are friendlier to me compared to while I was on porn ... despite me feeling that interact the same with them - I don't say anything different before and now
@@Morpheus_neo_trinity Because being polite and dropping hints often don't work. If it's not an enthusiastic yes it's a no and many men just ignore that, so we learn to be more aggressive.
Also, majority of the time, unless you're a teenager, it's not about the looks, it's about behaviour and vibe. going to therapy and working on yourself is usually more likely to get you a decent long term relationship than just trying to look good.
Very nice presentation Doc.
Hypersexuality is no joke I’ve been diagnosed with it since 7th grade . you get these uncontrollable sexual images that go through your head of girls you know or just wanna bone during random times like out of bordeom , when your relaxed , or when you’re off guard , you have to be “AWARE” when you go on long streaks is when your urges start to pound and there’s no stopping it but meditation and exercise always get me through the day keeping my mind off just a little .
your mind start to crumble and it can be a painful urge as you keep going idk if u supposed to : cold shower , 🚿 meditate and fight it , listen to a certain tune , or let the urge go through 😢
Once you release 💦 you start to bingeeee and now you can’t stop maturbating it’s get real tricky .
Which leads to a flatline 🤞🏿✔️
Very interesting and informative video, thanks.
Good Luck Buddy! Get well soon! & Yes, this makes perfect sense. Great Talk Dr. Leigh!
Hope you have survived the storm okay 👍 good luck 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏👍
I had a relapse twice few days ago due to high sexual urge ,It as affected my life a lot I’ve been Into this act within the range of 8years it as affected my life till now I still tried to recover within those years but my effort wasn’t a enough and now I’m 23yrs of age and counting and now I have no time on my side anymore ,I’m just trying to think things through and find a new journey out of life cause I’ve made a lot of mistakes in the past which is presently telling in my future,but I’ll be going for a adventure of my life soon.
It's amazing you don't know how much pretty you are giving me and i am taking so much, I am so excited
She's already married dude!
Bruh 💀.
I don't care what the numbers say.....THIS channel is worth a MILLION subscribers. 👍!!!
What a gem 💎🔥
Does anyone else experience the video blips? 3 minutes in and I’ve experienced it 15+ times. I enjoy and learn from these videos but I can’t take it anymore.
Nofap day 8❤ i love it. Got such a better mind now.
I don't see any reference to any studies in this video. Its difficult to understand your interpretation without these studies that you reference continuously. Please provide links to these studies.
Thank you very much ❤
What about if you don't have a partner? Masturbation to porn is the safest pleasure. It's a double edge sword. There's a lot of darkness to porn and I see it's impact on my confidence. I've wasted far too much time pleasuring myself looking at my phone. It's safe but lonely. With the right partner I see no need for porn, but with no partner, I don't know what else to do for sexual relief and pleasure.
I used to think that way until I met a partner and started to deal with SAD and man, its horrible because it leads to other problems like huge sexual anxiety, you fall into a loop
@@lucasazevedo679I think it is not a huge problem if you only do it only once a week or so. Its best not to overthink or feel overly guilty. But certainly its best and especially morally to phase it out completely. ❤
Do not seek pleasure in sex. Sex is for procreation. Seek to phase it out and replace it with other habits . Do not think too much about it and focus on integrating your sexual energy into your daily activities. That is key. Being lonely is no excuse buddy. Be a strong man with good habits. So just phase it out and replace it with prayer and after some weeks your desire will go down massively and then your mind will shift and it will not consume your mind anymore even if you may relapse once although preferrably you do not.
@@karlheven8328Man i have been averaging close to 3-4 masturbations a day since past one year which is almost close to 1440 ejaculations a year. My confidence is low and I am socially anxious as well. It felt like Dr trish was talking about me throughout the video. I hope i can make a turn around at age 29. Never had a woman in my life and it's tough to tackle this loneliness phase. Its incredibly tough and feels super lonely everyday 😭
@@karlheven8328I married because I'm a sexual man. If I wanted to live a sexless existence where prayer is the focal point, I would have become a Benedictine.
Okay. You have to make sure that Slack doesn't alert when you shoot. I've checked my phone several times while watching this video.
Thank You , Vermilion , Ohio !
Vermilion, Ohio > Vermillion, Ohio
Drop your current streak here⬇
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You can have high free testosterone if you have low androgen receptors it's just not going to express the masculine genes including aggression. There are men with high testosterone and low androgen receptors who look and act feminine .
De. Trish, I appreciate your work and your commitment to this channel. However, I get lost on this view of being in a relationship. I am single and have been for some years. What should I do then? Also, I am on semen retention and Nofap. I noticed that such pathways as the ones mentioned above can be bad for semen quality. My question then becomes "How long in semen retention/Nofap does it take for it to negatively affect my semen quality"?
Anyways, I appreciate you and what you do.
Just relapsed after 7 months
Sorry to hear that man. .Get back up and Be careful. It’s way easier to relapse a second time. All of your progress is not lost. You’re still doing great.
How do you feel mate? 7 months is outstanding, congratulations for achieving that.
I couldn’t even imagine having 7 months, I just hit one month. Thank you for being an example of sobriety, and starting over! Stay strong family, you and I got this!
It’s not a loss. Every streak away from P makes you stronger. It took me 5 years of frequent relapses to finally give it up for good. The gains from your 7 months is NOT gone. I want you to say it to yourself. I remember how bad it felt after a relapse. You’re getting closer to total freedom. Never give up.
I wouldn’t feel bad at all. You went 7 months. You can obviously do it again.
Living with high libido and/or hypersexuality is just depressing. I wish there would be drugs against high libido. It's painful when we can't live out our sexuality, and in a world with a loneliness epidemic, this is all too common.
The medication finasteride kills sex drive in most men ...
Nunca tive hipersexualidade, ficava preocupado e me perguntando se eu tinha algum problema. Que alívio saber que na verdade sou uma pessoa saudável
Dr trish.... you look good today
FYI: Reboot by having only one fantasy woman in your mind. In short order, the other fantasies will be cleared out.
I would love to hear this topic explained with someone (me) with Bipolar disorder. Ive been married for 25 years and the waves of hypersexuality, followed by hyposexuality are awful gor our marriage, especially as ee get older. My wife is supportive but im a moving target so she doesn't know how to help, and I dont know what help to ask for.
Went to TRT & my total test is now 950 and free test is 21.8 and my libido is still in the gutter & relying on ED meds constantly
Balance is key.
You are a goddess who is helping men across the world.
Truly
A Goddess? Ouch- she’s a professional not a goddess. #sexualconnotations
Simp
Your definitely blue pilled
@cinesanti7Only worship God🙏✝️ Amen
And what about men who are physically unattractive, and they are not able to have any real sex life because of that?
What is the solution for them? :))
Just be confident bro
Statistics show there is no hope. Focus on other things. I am living proof. 59 never had a woman never will.
No way youre 59 and neve ahd a womanr@waynefisher4296
@@wolfyy9660 BS rubbish
Attraction is not only physical traits. Study how to be attractive man through youtube videos and you'll see there are many aspects to become more attractive. After almost two years of being in a self-improvement journey, in my opinion semen retention is #1 and affects everything.
Dr T, this is where I have a conundrum! I love weight training and know it is great on many levels but after a workout I feel so crazy horny!!! So, now you have pointed out correlation with high T and hyper sexuality it makes sense but doesn't make doing NF, SR or PMO easy!! and btw, with healing your mold issue, you're actually de-aging now!! ))
I guess now it's time for you to start chasing some skirts 😏
You helped me get through masturbation
I have no opinion on this. But I do of one thing though: lots of mentions to studies, and no source, whether in the video, the description, or Dr Leigh blog. On the other hand, there are a lot of links to buy her services. Which makes me very suspicious about the quality of the information here and the "mission". I would have liked more context about this information:
- studies sources.
- numbers and context: for example, at which point masturbation is healthy? At which point is it not healthy?
- why is hypersexuality not in the DSM? What's the debate about it among scientists?
You can find out more about all the studies from my videos here: drtrishleigh.com/blog/ ;)
Can excessive masturbation make you go bald?
Yes, the hair that is supposed to grow on your head is now growing on your hands. 😂 sorry I had to. In all seriousness. I think genetics are more at play here.
If your hair doesn’t get the nutrients because you waste them in other ways…probably even if I am not aware of any studies
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Yes, it lowers your Zinc, and other nutrients that are important for hair growth. Vitamin E oil, Tea tree oil, and virgin Olive oil can help with hair loss.
Hypersexuality = higher testosterone, Higher testosterone = man hair loss pattern. I interpret it like that
trisha is playing the tricks
Meditation is more pleasurable but it gets boring after awhile. 😂 Time to get creative.
What about when the Hypersexuality is a function of Bipolar disorder. I have type one and one month Im a stud, then the next month, im disinterested. Is it still part of testostetone?
Of course you are not lonely. It's been easy for you. You're an attractive woman. What about the countless older men "out there in the world" who have no chance with women. Loneliness & rejection sap the confidence and you feel ugly & unwanted.
You're the girl who visited a bar (with your boyfriend !) and numerous men rushed forward to buy you drinks and presumably befriend you. You're the girl who said that men who say they can't find a woman are talking "BS. Losing respect fast.
@@builtdif5715uh no women are definitely attracted to looks. denying so is ultimate cope
@@4ev3rmore dude thats like saying women are attracted to money.. lmao of course they are. But if you ever noticed in your long ass life that ugly guys can pull Hot girls. Its called game.. a.k.a “their value is high somewhere other than there looks”
In my opinion: Women have emotional needs before realizing anything. So amazing how ugly their husbands look. And yet dog faced, bauld & bull frog bellied it never ceases to amaze me how women have all the say when it comes to picking a partner. Makes me wonder if they have any standards anymore going out in yoga pants, tattoos & multi pierced too boot. Ladys like ogers because it makes them feel more secure about themselves. Women used to go after the men they wanted - not any more.
Ugly men have better chances at beauty being gay guys go after the good looking men.
Women do get what they allow into their lives & they can't expect second chances with children.
I practice caliber since 2022 .l am from india 🇮🇳. According our religious culture thats call bhamhachariyee life style. I am very happy to watching that vedio but l want to know after marriage how practice ?
It’s very difficult to not Jimmy the dog. After five days you’re pacing the floor thinking about nothing but sex. The first couple of days are pretty cool. You have more energy etc but after about five days or a week all u think about is sex
She said “ feel the urge” huhuhu yea huhuhuhu
Hey Beavis huhuhu She said “ intercourse” huhuhu
Hello, i am daily addicted to pornography and masturbation. I have schizophrenia which is more difficult to have a relationship. I want to quit. But i feel some powerfull urges and i can t stop. I need help...but i don t have so much money. I beleive one of the reasons my former girlfriend left me was that she found out that i was addicted to pornography and masturbation. Now i m single....and i suffer. Can you give me some free advice in which you explain how to quit pornography and masturbation with basically information. Thank you.
Wow
Was your girlfriend not putting out?
What about when your partner puts you on a diet of less sex? I'm talking about marriage here. Once a week becomes once a month, then soon it' once every blue moon. You still feel sexual but there is no option out there other than porn or cheating, (and cheating is not on my option list)... I am curious about how you suggest to deal with this if porn is off the table too. And before you say find another partner, 90% of other married men I know and who would talk about this report EXACTLY the same thing... lack of sex, avoidance of sex and in one case 10 years without it in a 20 year marriage. Go for a run or take a cold shower just delays the issue, not a solution.
Find a side chick.
@@Billy-the-Kidhorrible advice
Is it due to porn addiction?
@@Blackdeathpodcast Nope. Practical advice.
@@Billy-the-Kid just imagine for a second he gets a side chick. Later on the marriage falls apart. She now can use the infidelity as a way to get spousal support. Thus this man not only has to divorce but also has to give her half of his income for 10 years.
😊 hi
Plz doctor talk about ejaculation and prolactin.
63 years
Is maturbate by watching actress bikini photos good or bad ????
Is it same as watching porn???
Plzzzzzz replyyyyyyyyy 🙏
Andrew Huberman has a good take on this: It all depends on what gets YOU going. If that's your fetish, it's doing the same thing to your brain as some hardcore midget porn is doing to someone else's.
No it's not good. U can only watch yr partner bikini..
I think you make it sound very intelligent and somewhat logical, but there seem to be some leaps of faith or logic where you've tied two characteristics together to sound like they are dependent, related, or inversely related, but I'm not following how you took multiple studies and somehow tied them together. For example, if a study found that 50% of men between 20-39 years old wore jeans to work. While another study shows that 45% of men between 30-39 chewed gum at work. That does not prove that men between 30-39 wore jeans and chewed gum at work.
What I would love to know is what studies you are referring to and why the names of the studies were left out. When people are being purely persuasive, they use a fallacy where they refer to those who seem like they would know the facts, but they tend to leave out the details of who these people are, how they got their results, what they conducted their studies to explore or determine per their hypothesis, and the overall results which might show a very different result when looking at the bigger picture.
In my own personal opinion, what I believe is happening in this video is that an intelligent woman who has established an audience and following, doesn't like men who masturbate and has produced a video that makes it sound as if they have a hormone imbalance, specifically men who supposedly masturbate more than she thinks they should, also watch porn and have trouble performing with a partner.
There are some errors in this leap of logic. I happen to love reviewing and researching US Health Department studies where they conduct surveys with the largest sample sizes of people in the world. Look this one up - they also asked tens of thousands of American citizens of all ages and both genders (or without regard of gender as they identify however they choose) about their sex habits including their masturbation habits. Even better is that they do this every ten years and have done so since at least 2001, to the best of my knowledge, and they compare each survey to track changes.
Granted, males from 20-29 are those who reported masturbating more frequently than any other age and gender category. That has been true since they started conducting this survey. However, from 2011 to 2021, a massive change in one gender and age group's frequency has the researchers anticipating that the 20-29 males will no longer hold the crown for most frequent masturbation. The group is the ages of 50-59 females who have the most respondents who masturbate more than once per day at 20% and who were only a few percentage points behind the 20-29 males when the survey was taken.
Whether you masturbate only occasionally, or you're a 50-59 year old woman in the fringe percentiles who masturbates five or ten times per day, there is absolutely no correct amount of times that a person should fantasize about sex or any correct or better frequency, duration, or method for how often or how you masturbate.
Here is another error. Not all men who masturbate often have performance issues. In fact, there are dozens of other studies that have proven that those people (not just men) who masturbate the most, also have the most sex and have the lowest rates of sexual dysfunction. Those who masturbate the least or respond that they don't masturbate at all are also those who responded as having the least amount of sex and have the highest rates of dysfunction. See if this makes more sense than the video (because I know it does): those who masturbate the most also likely have the highest libidos. They enjoy sex, their bodies are functioning well so sex is enjoyable. Their minds are tuned to sex because they enjoy it. Because they are very familiar with their sexual functionality and because they are very familiar with their bodies, they are more accepting of their bodies and they are knowledgeable of how to operate their sexual selves. And, because they masturbate often and are comfortable with themselves, they tend to not be as embarrassed, they tend to not have the anxieties and mentally rooted issues with sex, therefore they are open to more sexual opportunities with others and when they have these opportunities, they are more successful at having positive, enjoyable experiences because they know how their bodies work and are more accepting of their body image. That is why I know she is flat wrong.
In addition, not all men watch porn when they masturbate. I'm a very frequent masturbation enthusiast who typically sets a window no shorter than two hours each time I masturbate, but I usually do it several times in a row and often exceed that window of time. More than half of the time I masturbate, which is four or more times per week, I set a window of three or more hours. I know this because I masturbate with intent and I keep a journal of my masturbation. Here is the part that clicked and when I knew she made up the results to fit her distaste for masturbation: when I masturbate, less than 10% of the time I am masturbating do I ever watch porn. What she fails to mention is also the type of porn that is being watched. I will not watch partnered sex between a man and woman because watching a man have sex is a huge turn off for me. I also don't watch lesbian porn or anything where there is someone moving or operating the camera, where the woman is performing acts on a webcam for pay, or where the woman who is masturbating is not in complete control of what is being filmed, what she is doing, or where there is any lack of authenticity, but that is less than 10% of the time I masturbate. What I watch most are UA-cam videos of women discussing male masturbation, or better, their masturbation, which there is no shortage of content.
So, who is really watching all of the porn? PornHub did their own market research as they too thought an army of over testosterone'd masturbating, ill performing men were their only audience, but they were shocked to discover that of those who logged in, searched, and watched porn for twenty minutes or more (which is a key sign they got themselves off), 3 out of ten users were female. Of those who searched for the most unique or kinkiest videos including scat, waterworks, extreme anal, family based fantasy, gang bang, and a whole bunch of stuff I don't want to mention because I'm getting ready to ride my anal/prostate thrusting machine and masturbate for a few hours, women consumed the large majority of what PornHub considered "out there but for those odd people who like freaky stuff".
So, keep blaming men, testosterone, and making up fake facts from nonexistent research and feeding it to some poor guy who feels guilty about masturbation, or worse, his wife who guilts him into not masturbating but lies on her back in the bed and says, " Go!" to make him responsible for her starfish lack of pleasure and does zero to get him aroused, yet expects him to have an erection like flipping a light switch on and off. They are lost already anyway.
As for me, for the past two decades, i studied masturbation, yes, studied, meaning that I read books, took classes, researched scientific, medical, and mental health journals, and no, it wasn't just masturbating a lot (although that did happen too). I learned that shame, guilt, and embarrassment all prevent people from truly learning how enjoyable and healthy masturbation is for every person. I learned how to have multiple orgasms, full body orgasms, and how to prolong an orgasm for minutes (had my first when Ted Nugent's guitar solo starts in Stranglehold and it didn't stop until the very end of the song, seriously, it frightened me because I thought I was stuck like that). And, I just turned 50, but I currently have a sex life that is better than any man's that I know, I look younger, I am healthier, I am depression free, I don't miss any life events due to masturbating, and my sex life is way, way, way better now than it was when I was in my twenties, thirties, and probably forties (its only been two months). I continue to learn more, achieve levels I never dreamt existed, and a really hot 29 year old bartender asked me out but didn't know I was over 40. I attribute most of this to embracing masturbation, enjoying it until the neighbors call to check on my yelling, and from having such intense experiences and numerous orgasms (although they aren't the true focus or end of the session) that I smile a lot, which keeps me youthful, as well as a few very physical hours of doing it super hard providing me with a great cardio workout.
Now, its time for me to do the exact opposite of the video and setup my anal masturbation machine, the lubricants, lots of towels, some strokers and sleeves, then light a candle and put up a mirror to watch myself go at it as energetically as I would my hottest date ever. I hope some of you see through the charade of the video. I doubt anyone read this far and am waiting to verbally and intellectually destroy the moron who posts, "too long, didn't read" as if it isn't obvious that they don't read.
If you read the Old Testament of the Holy Bible you learn that men who had sex with their spouse (Leviticus 15:18) and men who have had a nocturnal emission (this also may imply to the act of masturbation) (Leviticus 15: 16-17) were not permitted to enter the Tabernacle of Israel and later the Jerusalem Temple as they were seen as in an "unclean" state. This also meant that they were not permitted to partake in temple/sacred food until a period of time had elapsed and you have cleaned yourself. Also, during military campaigns, God's presence was believed to amongst the Israelites camp and an emission of semen meant you were to be excluded from your community for becoming unclean (Deuteronomy 23: 9-11) and men were not meant to intimate with women as this would most likely result in semen being released (1 Samuel 21:1-6, 2 Samuel 11:8-11).
Although our modern day and age would scoff at these biblical verses, I personally believe that these principles point today's men who adhere to a conservative view of a Judeo-Christian faith to the Almighty who desires his followers are on a path of purity. It is more like the Almighty does not want you to come into his presence after you have experienced this dopamine hit and released your semen, both voluntarily (i.e. sex with a partner /solo sex ) and involuntarily (i.e. nocturnal emission).
I’m ashamed to admit I relapsed while watching this video😔
How some of you find arousing things in normal youtube videos that show no sexuality ? Like how ? How does your brain even think ?
Was it while watching her? 😂
@@joshuagoldstein8116 yes.
So I'm assuming you would prefer to go to a much "milder" heaven? Because heaven, by definition, is a place much bigger and better than this world where people can indulge in sexual and other materialistic pleasures freely. And you don't need to worry about making money in heaven. At most, you might have 130 years to enjoy in this world but you might have millions of years to enjoy in heaven. Everything you see in this world and much more is also available in heaven - only better.
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Does normal pictures of wife count as porn?
Im on TRT and horney all the time!
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trish is getting hotter & hotter 😅
Bruh
@@awsambdaman so many indian & arabic creeps in the comments. so weird. ick.
Goofy ahh comment.
@@fukai-sama lots of thirsty desert-dwellers in the comments here. so gross.
@@ToThePureAllThingsArePure fr.
One solution to all this menace. Early marriage.
Porn should be outlawed … masturbation is never okay.
Doc is looking hot today.