WHEN TRANS ALLIES TRY… | NOAHFINNCE
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the amount of dopamine i get when you say “hello underachievers”- never stop
oh my god yes
So true
Literally yes. Just yes.
Literally bro
True that
When I was
A young trans
My father
Took me in to the city
To get a long-gender affirming haircut
He said
child when
you grow up
will you be
the savior of the HRT
the testosterone and the estrogen
Because
One day
I’ll E you
A transfem
To guide you in your gender
To join the trans parade
WAIT UNTIL IT FADES TO BLACK, RIDE INTO THE SUNSET
WOULD I LIE TO YOU? WELL I'VE GOT SOMETHING TO SAY:
I'm trans
G
F# B E
D G C
B E A
D
I love you
Petition for a full 10 minute video of Noah bloopers and ONLY Noah bloopers.
I second this
I third this
I fourth this
I fifth this
I 100th this
My first "gender affirming" haircut was when I was 14, and my mom thought short hair would look good on me. Ironically, she is now a raging transphobe 😀🙃
oof
Hope you are alright! Remember you are loved!
Was it serving long gender
Or shortgender
Personally as a non binary person who wants their hair a bit longer
I'd rather do it myself than get a haircut for 50$
Fr. I literally cut my own hair yesterday (it actually looks better than going to get a haircut) because I didn't feel like paying for a haircut
I’m non binary too and I go by my first name which is Chance and also they/them as a backup
And for me personally I wanted a hairstyle that’s in the middle between long and short can’t really find one yet
fair enough. im getting my hair done tomorrow (mullet + dyed) and i know its gonna be expensive but my parents dont trust me to do it myself. im super excited, tho
@@BumperChip_ I’m just curious what color or colors are you going for
@@TakeAchance365 pink and blue! (currently, my hair is blue and mostly brown)
Noah is such an ally✊✨
ally✨✊✨
such a good ally, he takes T to really understand the trans experience ✊✨
@@waytoobiasedhe got top surgery to relate to us better ☺️✊🏻✨
She isn’t an ally to LGB people.
@@xeganxerxes4319you forgot the 't' in LGBT babes x
"My hair is not being an ally" is my hair everday
"I just think", "I know I ended on 'I just think' but I don't know what I just thought" must be one of the most relatable things...happens too often, like, no idea what going on in my own mind 🤣
"my hair is 😤NOT😤 being an✨ ✊ally✊✨ rn" -Noah Adams, 2023
2:40 “Gender affirm- the long- the long gender aff- the long gender”😂😂 Full ADHD brain there… honestly me too…. I feel you lol
Thanks so much for being here and posting.
I live in Canada and there has bean a lot of crap against trans kids. As a trans kid this has made my life so much harder. You music and general online presence has been helping me through this stuff. Your so awesome.
As another Canadian trans kid I support you ❤
@@Sleepy_HoomanOFFICALsame here!!! 💅✨🏳️⚧️
Yes as another trans minor from Canada we're all in this together!
🫶🏻
So hard living in Canada. A rich free democracy.😂
My 'when allies try' moment: A school counsellor told me not to worry, that he would make sure i would socially transition quietly so people wouldnt know, even though im very open about being trans. he also told me i had to use the unisex bathroom thats in like a weird far away place from my classrooms so i didnt feel uncomfortable or unsafe. didnt do anything wrong, just not quite right
I think people tend to think of gender affirming haircuts, gender affirming clothes etc much more at the beginning of their transition. After a while it just becomes part of your style and totally normal and you don't necessarily consider it gender affirming anymore. But at first everything is new and exciting. That's how it was for me anyway.
The wom*n/m*n is very weird to me as a nonbinary person lol. Just say it's gender neutral. On the other hand I think folx vs folks is not necessarily about gender neutrality, it's more of a punk thing.
P.S currently considering flying to England from Germany to see you on tour
glad to know we all have moms who are terrible at cutting hair
fr as a little kid I would ask my mom for short hair and she would give 7 yr old me a bob cut
I feel so affirmed when you say "have a good day or don't", because yes that is me
Such a ✨token straight cis ally✨
Ally✨✊✨
@@puffbair yes an ecxellent ✨ally✨
ah yes I love a good cis ally :D
I’m not like homophobic-
I’m an ✨ALLY✨
if ykyk
@@ItzNancy_ ik babes im like the 1# heartstopper fannnn ( but imogen is definelty a lil ✨fruity✨
i eat grass for a living.
same bro
Saaameeeee
My guy using his appendix
Me too but I don't get paid
My high school labeled all the bathrooms "boys +" and "girls +" with just paper signs in an attempt to make them gender neutral lmao
Years ago, realizing I would eventually lose my hair, I started shaving my head. I didn't know at the time that this was my way of dealing with gender dysphoria, because I did not want to show visible signs of male pattern baldness. Now that I've come out as nonbinary agender, I guess one could say that shaving my head is a form of gender affirming haircut.
“I want something… gender affirming, you know?”
“Oh yeah, of course!”
*click*
*BZZZZZZZZZZZZZ*
Lmao YES, I try to be gentle on the ones who are clearly trying, even if they don't quite get it perfectly just yet. Meet people where they're at, and all that. We're all on a journey, and if their journey is already on the way towards being more accepting of other people, who am I to make them feel bad for not being at the destination yet? At least, that's what I try to do. Sometimes I get impatient and try to just throw people in a wheelbarrow so I can carry them along the path to acceptance faster, but they usually don't like that 😅
Seeing Noah live next week I'm so excited omg
2:46
i mean, sortof?? id feel safer there atleast. like, "oh hey these people dont want me damned to hell" but the overpricing seems backhanded LMAO😭😭
i have to refrain myself from saying “have a good day or don’t” at my job when I ring people out
Mullet = long gender
It's like long furby. But gender.
No this whole video had me lolling. Pure comedy delivery and editing, absolutely 10/10. The long neck 😭😭😭
Thank you so much for posting and being your awesome transgender self. I love your music and content! 🏳⚧
Omg love ur pfp! I used to have the exact same one 😄
I really wish I lived in the UK so I could come see your show. I missed the US tour. 💔 Love you Noah.
Your pronunciation of womn and mn has really given me the giggles 😂😭
CANT WAIT TO SEE U ON TOUR AGAIN
Noah, I absolutely love your hair at the moment
5:50 actually, here's an interesting fun fact from Germany:
Since German isn't a very gender neutral language and if there is a group of teachers, they will all be called the male plural (die Lehrer), if there is only one male teacher in there, there have been people who invented a thing called "gendern"
It is either a _ or a : or a * in the word, which symbolises a slight pause you make while speaking to kind of "leave space" for everyone who isn't female or male and to separate the gender including word from the female word. Example:
Die Lehrer - male Plural Form
Die Lehrerinnen - female plural form
Die Lehrer*innen - inclusive Plural form.
However, gendern is heavily discussed in Germany and there are many people that hate it and make fun of it. Some say it sounds unnatural and others say it's a grammatical disaster. Others really have something against including people that aren't men.
I don't understand people that are so heavily against gendern. Like, it's not that hard...
I know right! Like, it’s really not that hard. And as far as I know nobody wants to force anyone to use gendern when they talk, wtf are they talking about “taking away free speech”
I've watched people get so enraged when I've suggested to use all female plural in a group of mostly women and like one man. Like I've insulted their mom. But when non-men wanna be included it's "Genderwhansinn". Pathetic.
Though tbf, I prefer new gender neutral solutions that flow well language-wise over the Gendersternchen any day (look up Entgendern nach Phettberg and the De-e-System)
I am so tired of this discussion....
It's going on since at least 35 years.
Let's get rid of "die", "der" and keep only "das"
@@icarusxedits exactly! And then exactly those people talking about "taking away free speech" want to ban gendern - apparently they only care about free speech when it benefits them.
We do love allies! - As always, much love and rainbows, Professor Pride.
As an ally who really wants to be an ally I appreciate being called out on these things! Once I did the randomly drop the “yeah she was called X before, insert dead name” and I wish had been called out earlier. 😢😅
“We would never complain about an ally doing aloe-ahhhh-ally type things…ally”
- noahfinnce, 2023
TIME STAMP PLZZZZ
@@gayestmess_ 0:16 (btw love ur username lol)
I very much relate to you going to a Conservative boarding school. For me, a Catholic Conservative boarding school in a really homophobic country. I've got a few months left but your videos and music are very encouraging and just make me feel better and more hopeful about life... in the past couple years I've been watching your videos you've helped me through my dysphoria ....you and Corry are very funny, love your videos together ❤
Thanks Noah!
i live noahs music sm i listend b4 i got into his vids
your hair is at an all time high rn IT LOOKS SO AMAZING WTF???
like its honestly good
RIGHT!
Longer haircuts are often more expensive than shorter cuts. All they're doing is specifying the gender affirming in their description. Longer haircuts generally take more time. It probably could have been worded better. Like throw gender affirming at the top and then go into pricing for long versus short cuts.
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As a nonbinary, I wish there were gender neutral bathrooms in my state that isn't my own bathroom 😭
I just end up going to my agab bathrooms since so many people will look at me strange if I mix match bathrooms ;-;'
"MY HAIR IS NOT BEING AN ALLY RIGHT NOW"-NOAH
I saw a “folx” earlier today and I was like “that kinda feels nice cuz like they’re probably trying to be inclusive but isn’t folks already gender neutral and inclusive?”
i think it has a history with being a term for males but started to get used for everyone, but take that with a grain of salt because i’m not sure
from what I know it's more of a punk/scene thing, like punks sometimes used to be spelled punx sometimes, but were so used to the x being used for gender neutrality that we automatically assume it's that
@@Link-dx1lx it was my education professor using it in a PowerPoint for our lecture so I don’t think she meant it in a punk way lol but that’s good to know thanks
I love how 'folx' is meant to be a gender-neutral term when 'folks' already is one😅 I kinda respect the grindset honestly.
Idk why i like watching your videos so much. Im def not trans or gay. You genuinly make me laugh.
Lol. Just changed both signs to "restroom" or "toilets". Boom, gender neutral restrooms. That's what one of my workplaces did. No one cared.
“a half double man double princess” -Noah 2023
the american accent in "longer gender" has me sobbing
your hair is a complete mood omg- 🥰🥰
I had long hair in intermediate (middle school) and was sometimes mistaken for a girl. Normally form behind when you couldn't see my face. I was also kina small too so that didn't help. I went for a more masculine cut in high school. Now I'm in my 20s and have long hair again (because I'm a punk rock artist) but have never been mistaken for anything other than a man. My body has a manly shape partly help to the gym and I also have a beard so that helps. I'm not trans so I can't relate but I do understand how annoying it can be to be misgendered.
I might be a little bit genderfluid though as some days I feel more feminine and like to dress like a woman and act like one. I won't leave the house like that though. Or maybe I just like crossdressing. I'm unsure but whatever the case I'm comfortable with who I am.
Love your content - thank you!
THE CAT MEME SCARED ME
This video definitely affirmed my gender :)
Jessie Gender did a video about "women", "womyn", and "womxn". If she did another one now, I suppose she'd have to add "wom*n".
And yes, whenever I begin a sentence with "When I was a young..." the next word that pops into my mind is always "warthog"!
1:55-1:56he sounded so American right there for a second😂😂
I love that this was uploaded the moment I came to look for a new video
on first gender affirmin haircut... Mine was at 15 when i got put with a foster parent who didnt like how my long gender hair was just a mess of hair that didnt look remotely good bcuz of complete neglect prior to then...
Tho if we are bein more technical, i had my first gender affirmin hair*style*, which one cud call a cut of hair or a haircut as a noun not verb, when i was 13 and my biomom had moved out of a very rigid exstepdads place to be with her latest new boy toy of the yr; bcuz she and him didnt care if i grew out my hair, but that ex had cared a lot about enforcin such masculinity stereotypes on me
My biomom actually loved my hair long and commented many times that it made me look like a rock star she wudve listened to growin up xD
Thing is, while technically thats when my long gender was bein affirmed... It took me til 27 to figure out i was long gender and not a man like i thowt; and til 28 to actually come out (i speedran that journey actually, it was from Feb to Oct of one yr; i came out the wk after natl comin out day xD So like, any day now actually (no i dont remember the exact day, facebook does tho; but they wont tell me til it happens :p))
And uh, ive not gotten a single gender affirmin haircut since comin out bcuz my long gender has been affirmed by my haircut since i was a young teen... I dont care to pay money for folk to trim it up for at all bcuz id rather have slightly longer split ends instd of have even ends xD
Also like, its the perf length to me and it has been since i was 16 and the hair had grown back from the several inches of it that got removed (tho the thing that rly improved it was the thinnin out of my hair that person did, bcuz my hair was much more prone to matte prior to that and its nvr returned to bein like that. Ive no idea what magicks were used there to achieve that)
Im 33 nowadays and have had my properly long gender hair over half my life, tho only been out as long gender for the past five yrs, or under a sixth of my life so far.
LOVE U NOAH UR AMAZING HAVE A GREAT DAY EVERYONEEE
god I love you
you're so chaotic WHEN I WAS A YOUNG WARTHOOOOG
as a cis ally, this kind of making fun of us is...*so* richly deserved.
speaking for myself, I have been a colossal fool about trans stuff too many times to count
I can't wait for the Dublin show
Excellent video! "Struggle bus" made my night! I think I'm the next stop after they picked you up lol
I think it's nice they try, but wow, some of them completely miss the mark and I agree, it's great brain fodder!
i dont even know half the genders quite frankly i dont even know mine
no clue what the frick i am anymore, so i think im just going to say i’m an ally who can decently understand trans people and loves watching your videos and listening to your music
We love Noah
I set a time to watch this I’m being so fr ❤
im about to cop this so hard
I'm feeling very ✨️Gay✨️ right now
Idk why I shared this but yeahh
“My hair is not being an ally rn”😭
WE LOVE A GOOD ALLYYY
stan allys ✊
I FORGOT
THE IMOJI IDK HOW TO EDIT
press the 3 dots next to ur comment @@Ethan_beanboi
@@_lavender_pebbles_ thank you lol idk how i didnt know
im part of the lgbtq community and this is my best friend valentina, she's an ally. talk valentina
ally
thank you so much noah for making me feel long gender. ive had so much dysphora lately with being longender, but your vidoes make me so happy that i forgot i was longender. ✨✊✨🏳🌈
Hey Noah! Love your vids! Yesterday, I got a “short gender haircut” and I would have probably not have gotten it if it was actually called that😭 I would have gotten so scared😭
I'm loving this shitpost I needed that in my day. Thanks Noah, keep it up! Don't burn yourself out.
Me and my friend were talking about our hair shape/natural style determining you sexuality after my friend bullied my straight hair and I popped the joke ‘hairs straighter than me’ (I’m sorry😂) and her hair is like curly as hell and we were saying ‘ok so your hair is curly meaning you ain’t straight you are gay.’ She then said ‘your hair is straight…. *me standing next to my girl friend* (I’m female as well) we just starred at eachother for a solid 5mins 😂 then my gf decided to hunt her down and chased her into the forest 😂
The amount of adhd energy is off the fucking CHARTS in this vid. No but seriously, I also have adhd and when I'm particularly tired or a even a little tipsy my ability to word just goes out the window, I feel your struggle, Noah 😭😂
You're MY inspiration to transition
"My hair is not being an ally right now."
FIRST ALSO LOVE U NOAHHHH
I got my first gender affirming haircut yesterday 😜
7:22 “A half double man double princess ✨”
The more the queer community can take themselves less seriously and just enjoy being trans, queer, two spirit etc. the more allys we’ll have. I’ve lost two trans buddies bc I accidentally outed them to another trans person and the other I misgendered them one singular time, again an accident. I didn’t take it too seriously thank goodness bc I could have easily been turned off/felt ashamed and shut down. We could have easily stayed friends, too. I really appreciate this video.
we love allys :))
cracked video, had to laugh a lot and laughing is gender affirming
tbh i think i would not look good with a buzz cut but i solely want the experience of shaving my head at some point
I shall now carry the phrase "hair therapist" with me until I die.
NOAHJHHH
Personally I can get my hair cut for around $20. You would have to compare it to the other prices at that place, but $55 seems pretty expensive for a haircuts
I wish i lived in the uk so i could see you this time😔
i am non-binary and have gone to a hairdresser for years. she is married to a non-binary person and has a trans child, both of whom she adores and supports fiercely. in fact, she recently started a nonprofit that provides esthetic services (cuts, colors, wardrobe consultations, massages, acupuncture, the list goes on) to trans people who want that kind of support. her pricing is expensive, though it’s not nearly as steep as the hairdresser that was mentioned here.
i am terrified of cutting my own hair to the point that i’ve had nightmares about it. for me, it’s worth it to pay a premium to know that i’m safe when i have to be vulnerable by letting someone else cut my hair.
Noah please do a tour in the us (Maybe even Hawaii bc I live there)! I want to see you irl but my mom wont let my fly out to the uk or to the mainland :(
Me personally, my favorite gender is noahfinnce’s new tour, pronouns uk/ireland, you should go if youre in the area
3:17 Literally y last year every boy at my school got a buzz it it was horrible! Also I LOVE YOU CONTENT ❤ YOU HAVE A BEAUTIFUL BRAIN 🧠
I got uh, jump scared in the first second, wearing headphones. I'm unsure if it was the sound alone, or the cat face that flashed across the screen, or both.
So real, I feel that 😭
Yay, ! Finally a bathroom I can use as a demigirl! /j
My work place has single person bathrooms for the customers but our break room ones are gendered
OMG EARLYYY
😂😂😂 Noah you need a break !!!! … and still loving the ✨✊🏻✨
Asterisks is for gendered languages (spanish, italian, french...) although grammar nazis and conservatives here say it's killing our beautiful language, without realizing that it has evolved quite a bit since Dante's times. lol.
i do love when people change the spelling of gender neutral words in order to make them gender neutral. Like, ok, but how did you even get there 🤣
I love you noahhhh 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻