On being wrong | Kathryn Schulz
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- Опубліковано 25 кві 2011
- www.ted.com Most of us will do anything to avoid being wrong. But what if we're wrong about that? "Wrongologist" Kathryn Schulz makes a compelling case for not just admitting but embracing our fallibility.
- Наука та технологія
The feeling of being right, since we usually have it, is not a reliable indicator of being right, since we often aren't. Such a great point.
Let's take a moment to appreciate all of our teachers that assigned this to us- you guys are great!
My psychology teacher assigned this to us!
@@qt_omni8476 same
How bout just be to teachers who've assigned this to us?
My nutrition teacher put this video in a PowerPoint.
@@christinachoi5679 You’re completely right. Looking back on it, it was quite shallow to only commend English teachers for assigning this video when in reality we should commend any educator who assigns this video. Going to edit my comment right now!
@@christinachoi5679my PE teacher assigned this to tell us we’re wrong about him watching us shower through a hole in the wall. Very ignorant to assume English teachers. He’s not even from England!
"How does it feel to be wrong, before you know you are wrong? It feels like being right:" Spot on! Well put!
I actually always operate from the default position that I am probably wrong. And the more convinced I am about something, the more I try to prove myself wrong. And I am never ever ever as happy as when I am proven wrong, because then I learn something fundamentally new. And THAT is a point she missed totally!. And the only point she missed. This is a wonderful talk.
This is a very useful comment. Thank you for that! :-)
Wow, you have a great attitude, that's different in this way from most people. I wish we all thought like you -- like a true, good scientist!
And how does it feel to be right before you realize you are right? Nothing. It's amazing, the trickery of words.
I don't believe you
You’re wrong.
"I think therefore I am." -René Descartes
"I err therefore I am." -St.Augustine
"The less he understands something, the more firmly he believes in it." -Wilhelm Reich
Everyone has reasons to convince themselves why the belief they hold is right. Being wrong isn't the real problem, it's the need to feel that we're always right. Perhaps in addition to asking ourselves if we could be wrong, we should first ask ourselves why we want to be right about something we don't fully understand.
I watched this right when it came out diring my first year of graduate school. I still watch this every few months even now. This is by far my favorite TED Talk of all time. Her work is so niche yet so desparately needed. Just fantastic.
Or I don't know maybe I'm wrong and it sucked.
very interesting and powerful lecture on the need to be right. I love the words she said at the end, "step out of the terrified space of rightness"
I personal have a fear of being wrong because we have been made to think if we are wrong we don't know what we are doing and people will make fun of us and laugh. We must not be afraid to make mistakes and laugh at our own selves because non of us are perfect.
Thank you for this Talk. Oh I love you for this. Thoroughly enjoyed!
One of my favourite lectures =] I do try to question whether I am wrong... it allows you to see an alternative view, and it allows you to empathise- something we could all do a little more
“Maybe I’m wrong” is the epitome of epistemic humility. Depth of knowledge & insight in any field must always come with at least an equal amount of unknowns.
Great advice. Humility plays a huge part in doing this right.
So glad my lit teacher assigned this video to watch for homework
Anite T, my media teacher assigned this video for homework too!
my ap lang teacher told us watch this for homework, currently making a rhetorical triangle for it uaibvefkbefygwaujch
Sounds like a good teacher.
Same
@Cheeseking sup
Hate being wrong but I feel the most resolution when someone calls me out. It takes time to accept fault tho, be patient and open to change. Life will reward you for learning
Great advice! I've listened to it twice and jotted down key ideas I want to use.
So true! I hope there are more videos related to this.
Great speeches by Kathryn Schulz. Often success involves serendipity, but you can learn from things to seize that when it comes. Plus I feel like if I try to force a result in life it is more elusive than when I sit back and try to learn things as I go.
Wow I wasn't expecting to enjoy this as much as I did. Added this to my favorite's! Great message!
I watch or listen to a lot of Ted Talks and this talk was even more pertinent today as it was 6 years ago. One of the best I've seen in a long time! Great job..
Thank you for sharing this video.
I loved the idea of not being too certain about what we believe, since our perception of the world is just that. (Perception) :)
Also, Kathryn had a really fascinating way of weaving everything into her story of how she was so certain that the picnic road signs were Chinese characters, making it such a tangible example!
Great talk. I was that lil brat in class that answered every single question, right or wrong (50%). But thats how I learn. I crave learning new things, so finding out I am wrong means I just discovered something new!
Wonderful, thoughtful presentation...thank you!
Watching this again two years later, it's a great reminder. Hilarious presentation and spot on!
Hilarious?!? Low bar.
I find this truly interesting...and so true. Making mistakes can be humbling.
Oh dear how much i love your talk.
This is, by far, some of the best 18 minutes I have ever spent on UA-cam... Ever.
The same speaker has another Ted talk which is really good too, "Don't regret regret." 😁👍
Awesome video! A philosopher in the making!
If we were always thinking we might be wrong no one would have the confidence to do anything!
"The only true wisdom lies in that we, in fact, know nothing." Socrates.
Paradox you know still 😅
Insightful and honest look at being wrong. I love her ending about looking around at one another and looking out. "And then something else happened…"
Ted talks are the life lessons I need that my parents never taught me
I love being wrong because it allows me to open my mind to a new perspective and more importantly learn from that perspective. I don’t care if someone is wrong or not in a discussion it doesn’t change the way I feel about the person at all but if you can admit when your wrong or admit you learned something new from my perspective you gain my respect.
I absolutely love this. Thank you.
i spend my life
i think i am wrong of i am trying to do,
but now i will go full trust
in it,and if am wrong i will learn from it
Really loved this -- thank you Kathryn!
Can't get enough!
Dr Robert Burton, wrote about the scientific reasons for this in his book, "On Being Certain." A brilliant read along the same line of logic....highly recommended.
One of the best TED talks of all! Thumbs up to this video!
Thank you Kathyrn, thank you Kerstin! Meg Ryan's character, Joe Versus the Volcano - "my father says there are only a few people awake in the world and they live in absolute constant amazement"
Great points. This is great information and training
My parents can never admit that theyre wrong and it affected me mentally. Before, i used to be fine when im wrong because i learn something. Now that my parents keep making me always te wrong one, being wrong is more personal than before. Im not going to be like them who cant admit that theyre wrong, but being wrong(whether or not i am) is more damaging.
Great talk
very inspiring !!!!! We learn so much from our mistakes... and what we didn't think would ever happen :)
Check out her book... It's awesome
I love this talk! I love the book! This is brilliant! 🥰🥰🥰
Being wrong all the time is a GOOD THING. People don't always get this.
This is a terrific eye opening presentation that everyone should watch.
I hear that a lot. That I either haven't read the bible (yes I have) or that my mind isn't open enough. The fact is that as a kid my mind was open enough to believe all the fairy tales I was told in church. Then I started reading and questioning, and not being so close minded to avoid anything contradictory that might upset the peer group and make me question the comforting simplicity of the myths or the certainty of the infinite sadistic punishments.
Thank you for this!
To my mind its about letting go of control...however I could be wrong....
I highly recommend the audible version of the book she wrote. Wonderfully narrated, and definitely consciousness raising.
Try this for a change... Everyone talk/think/analyze/judge only about him/ herself for an entire day without blaming/excusing/commenting or even praising whatsoever outside of the Self. This is still a huge challenge for me... But incredible experiences and eternity moments of realization are indescribable.
Much blessing to All.
This feels close to home today in 2021
Admitting When You're Wrong, 2 sides:
On researching what I might find on this topic on You tube, I found a number of videos.
All of them essentially touted the merits of Admitting you're wrong, however none mentioned that this is predicated on there being safe grond to do so, that is, free of risk of the confession being abused or opportunised.
When a person exposes any vulnerability of this general type under unsafe circumstances, or in unsafe ground, he actually commits another wrong, albeit that wrong being often inadvertent.
When such a situation is then abused or opportunised, the adage "Two wrongs don't make a right" applies.
More than that, in doing so he generated a peer pressure for others to admit their mistakes and shortcomings on unsafe group, thereby exposing all to a self-exacerbating situation of distrust and unsafeness.
Nonetheless it may be necesary to become close to accusative to avoid such a response being seen as an "excuse", rather than a real concern.
Her speech really reminded me of this movie "Waking Life".
Confidence comes from
Certainty.
Certainty comes from
Clarity.
Clarity comes from
Simplicity.
Simplicity comes from
Ignoring details.
That's why Confidence comes from Ignorance.
So the more confident you feel, the greater the chance you are ignoring something.
No, that's living in fear. If you don't fear being wrong then you're not afraid to do things. That's true confidence, confidence that being wrong is ok.
Excellent talk. But I suspect the reason all this seems like new thinking to Kathryn is that she has always looked at the world form the paradigm of her obviously high self confidence / esteem. To some of us at the opposite end of the self confidence spectrum this is normal.
It's easier to be ok with being wrong, and to look honestly, open mindedly, to see where the truth lies, if you don't tie your ego to your intellectual position: Debate the veracity of the concept rather than arguing that 'I am right'.
Bear in mind that, 'people believe what they want to believe'.
And that, 'I believe' really means, 'I want this to be true and am going to pretend really hard that it is'. There's no such thing as belief. Something is pretty much true to the extent to which it is proven. To the extent of the evidence.
Or so I would suggest. : )
Very well said. Possibly true 😀.
Maybe she's just pretending its new to her to entice the audience into opening up to her humbling message. Otherwise she'd come across as acting superior.
so inspiring !!
So yeah that was really good, and well, she came on my recommended watch list in our data analytics class. Waow! really good speech!
I really needed someone to tell me this. Because I am torn apart by both the feeling that I'm right and the insecurity of possibly being wrong. I need a break from myself
As a motivational speaker that was once a navy SEAL says, on UA-cam, "get out of your head and achieve more than you thought possible"
Just tell yourself what's what
I use this video in my AP Gov class. I encourage students to debate the issues. But what inevitably happens is that students will make all three of her unfortunate assumptions while debating. So after the first heated discussion I show them this video. It makes future debates much less heated.
"I'm never wrong, except for the once time I tought I was wrong, but I was wrong about being wrong" xD!!!!
great talk..i like it a lot as far as i can say..
I've never thought that people needed to be told this, I have always known these things but I use the feeling of knowing I am wrong and everything I do could in some way be wrong but I just haven't seen how yet as a wonder and something to look forward - I know different people think in different ways but I thought everyone knew, like they leared that wya in there heads - just another thing indeed for me to be wrong about but smile at the vast diversity of different people.
this is excellent
My opinion is that in life; which seems to be such a paradox, we also sometimes have to trust that we are right. Marriage is usually based on a trust in 'the one' an Olympian champion doesn't choose to believe they will fail. Life seems to demand a balance between being open to being wrong, and trusting in yourself you are right, to me anyway.
Truly Fantastic!!!!
@eugenetswong It's not just about admitting your fallibility to others, moreso, admitting it to yourself. Facing the fact that you can be wrong, often encourages more consideration of the choices we make. More examination usually leads to less mistakes. You can see this every day, drivers travelling at excessive speeds in the misguided self-belief that they are infallible, that their vehicles are impervious, that they are safe...
i'll have to agree with some of her thoughts. she has excellent points!
11:16 it gets really good. At 11:58 one of the greatest quotes ever.
This was awesome.
I am in the tiny terrified space of rightness. How do I get out of it? It's more complex than "stepping out" of the bubble. Tell me step by step, how I can abandon the identity that I have created for myself on the basis of being right *without* feeling like nothing.
@JChua61 :^D We weren't arguing about the book, but it's called "The Invisible Gorilla". It talks about how good our memories, and observance skills are, and 4 other weakness. I can't remember the other 4. There is a web site that talks about it.
That being said, you don't sound annoying when asking about a book. :^)
Best ted talk ever...!! Oops May be I am Wrong...😅
The last stage doesn't necessarily have to be evil. It could be stubbornness. Someone who has all the facts, doesn't piece them together as we do, may be assumed to be stubborn without attaching a label that they're evil. I commonly think this way.
@RadAlarm True. But if you get too many questions wrong you fail and that is bad. The lesson being one really really sucks at what they're doing. "Regardless of subject matter." I have to say there are of course some subject people just understand much easier than others. I think its really a lesson in discovering what that subject is. After all what would be the benefit of pursuing a subject that is excruciatingly difficult versus a subject one can at least with moderate effort (nmc2c)
That was a good one.
@ShallowBeThyGames I agree with you on this, as well. However, the fact is that she seems to act as if there are no consequences to being wrong. It's as if she was saying, "We'll just admit that we're wrong, and then no big deal." I totally agree with you that we should own up to it, but we shouldn't be too surprised that people don't want to.
ideas worth teding
A very interesting presentation. Very enlightening.
But... What if she's wrong?
The third one should be panic, and self-reflection on whether or not you're wrong. Great talk though.
Why no cc on videos of TED
I liked this one. Most valuable part I thought was when she talked about how we're taught that being wrong is taboo (the student example). No one wants to get that low grade.
How come I never noticed Sarah Kay in the background of 4:29
Who is Sarah Kay?
Wow, her point about the distinction of how it feels to be wrong, rather than how it feels to realise you are wrong is some god damned logical and insightful jiujitsu.
I was raised my entire life being told I was wrong, beaten in to my literally, now as an adult the possibility I am wrong doesn't have any effect other than my desire to be less wrong, if I can.
Maybe a benefit of my hell was assuming I'm wrong and wanting to be shown how to be less wrong. Who knows, I could be wrong :D:D
Which point did you see that?
Excellent video. Thanks!
i loved this talk, took alot from it. some people who are commenting are already saying things she was talking against -_- and she's right, people really hate being wrong.
@eugenetswong Sorry for sounding annoying, and butting in, but may I ask which book you two are arguing about? It sounds really interesting :P
Being wrong hurts exponentially worse the more you think and/or insist you’re right. It’s a simple idea. If you’re wrong about something minor that you really don’t care about, you laugh it off like the Chinese campground road sign.
@gusphraba Essentially, it is.
While I agree that we must question authority, we also must obey sometimes for the purpose of civil order on the things that we have questioned and found correct.
@MagnusMistro nice barney quote ;)
Definitely a thought-provoking talk. My mind is boggled now and I don't know whether or not I have to rethink everything I have ever believed or devoted myself to because... what if I'm wrong about all of it?
brilliant
@ShallowBeThyGames I agree with you, but what happens to the surgeon and his job? Obviously, he can't lie, but admitting a mistake can often cost a person a job.
The definition of creativity.
this is so true, omg
A military cop taught me, "If you're right, you're right. If you're wrong, you're wrong. But never second guess yourself." Being double-minded is a far worse fate than being wrong, because you never know if you were actually right the whole time.
Not that we should settle for being wrong, but we do need to remember that Chaos "uhhh...finds a way" to upset our convictions. Strange stuff happens every day, folks!
The biggest problem is when you know you are wrong and your pride stops you from admitting it. It happends to me all the time, in other people of course ;-)
With the interesting things going on during the Pandemic & the way people are dealing with this; we need talks like these!
Do we? 🤷🏻