Myths About Gender Confirmation Surgery (Male to Female GRS/SRS)

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  • @_samanthalux
    @_samanthalux  3 роки тому +915

    Hi everyone! My surgeon was Dr. Ellie Zara Ley at the Meltzer clinic in Scottsdale, Arizona 💚 I highly recommend her and the clinic as a whole 🥰
    Instagram & Twitter: @_samanthalux

    • @justjoyce81
      @justjoyce81 3 роки тому +2

      dear samantha lux, i have autisme and the reason why i want to be a girl is to learn how to communicate. the video you just made would be impossible for me to make because your looking at a dead camera and realising there's an audience behind it. Without a reference or reaction from another person i can't communicate. i have 2 best friends and 1 sports club with people i care about. do you think that transitioning for the sake of having female skills/attributes is a good reason? (it's not my only reason, but it is my most importent one)

    • @a2point083
      @a2point083 3 роки тому +19

      @@BadboyBadboy-jm8nx bruh what?

    • @Slow_Internet
      @Slow_Internet 3 роки тому +16

      @@BadboyBadboy-jm8nx wtf, please tell me you are not harassing her

    • @BadboyBadboy-jm8nx
      @BadboyBadboy-jm8nx 3 роки тому +1

      @@Slow_Internet nobody harassing her I like her UA-cam channel she awesome

    • @TheCrateOfLemons
      @TheCrateOfLemons 3 роки тому +43

      @@justjoyce81 I am not the person you asked, but I feel I can answer adequately. I do not feel that transitioning as a way to gain social skills/traits is a valid reason. In fact, I believe you would find that it won't really improve your social skills at all on its own. However, if you feel that you are a woman despite your birth designation, I encourage you to explore those feelings and find out if transitioning is what you want or if it's something lesser for you.
      I am also autistic, and I worked through my socialization issues through time and perseverance. My advice to you would be to simply try to put yourself out there. Make some friends in a video game and start having conversations. Role playing on forums or by playing DnD also helped me dissociate from my normal mindset and learn skills that I would have been otherwise to anxious to learn, simply because I'm setting myself into a fictional space in my own head. Voice calls over things like discord helped me distance myself enough to become comfortable and start learning more socialization skills as well. Eventually, I also got a job at the front register in a Walgreens. The requirement to talk to hundreds of people a day really got me into the swing of things, but I would only recommend that once you feel comfortable holding a conversation several times a day. It's just like any other skill. Work at it, and little by little, you will improve. Over time, you will build an internal reservoir of references to communication between neurotypical people and will be able to call on them without even having to think about it. This is coming from someone with autism, just like you. :)

  • @taylor29ish
    @taylor29ish 3 роки тому +3724

    I'm completely new to the whole trans thing (I've never actually met a trans person). I'm a 39 year old white straight male, from a very conservative town/family/upbringing. I've been pretty much been set in my "John Wayne" ways my whole life, but I'm glad I discovered your channel, your videos have definitely changed my perspective on a lot of issues. I became a dad for the first time last year. I used to think... "what if he's gay?" "what if he decides to become my daughter one day?" and now I realize... who cares? as long as my child is happy, that's all that matters. P.S Samantha you are a stunningly beautiful woman (inside and out).

    • @martinamiau6069
      @martinamiau6069 3 роки тому +473

      your kid is lucky to have you 🖤

    • @Tatocat
      @Tatocat 3 роки тому +378

      I can simply tell youre an amazing father :)

    • @mikuenjoyerXD
      @mikuenjoyerXD 3 роки тому +268

      Yesss!! We love the change for acceptance 💖

    • @AlyssaNguyen
      @AlyssaNguyen 3 роки тому +104

      Could be both! 😆

    • @hadley20
      @hadley20 3 роки тому +117

      you are an amazing dad! i hope that all parents can be as accepting and kind as you!💖

  • @katiek.982
    @katiek.982 3 роки тому +2091

    NORMALIZE LUBE! cis! trans! straight! bi! gay! men! women! nb! e v e r y o n e w h o w a n t s i t. LUBE IS GRRRRRREAT.
    p.s. A++++ content :) :)

  • @lilly7945
    @lilly7945 3 роки тому +1694

    I know this is off topic, but girl you’re glowing today!

    • @hauntedteethcupboard
      @hauntedteethcupboard 3 роки тому +68

      She’s always glowing

    • @galaxyflamingo
      @galaxyflamingo 3 роки тому +14

      @@hauntedteethcupboard truth

    • @cronus8773
      @cronus8773 3 роки тому +10

      @@hauntedteethcupboard we knew that lol

    • @Jjjbbb5678
      @Jjjbbb5678 3 роки тому +11

      Thats a dude

    • @jackielendel1530
      @jackielendel1530 3 роки тому +47

      @@Jjjbbb5678 what makes u think it’s okay to go around commenting rude things? IT WILL GET BACK TO YOU

  • @summerdepression753
    @summerdepression753 3 роки тому +961

    if this makes you feel any better, i’m a cis-woman and even i need to use synthetic lube... i have no idea where this stigma came from 🤷‍♀️

    • @covereddonuts1279
      @covereddonuts1279 3 роки тому +63

      Wait their stigma against using synthetic lube? Why?

    • @frickinfrick8488
      @frickinfrick8488 3 роки тому +177

      @@covereddonuts1279 some people think using lube means the girl isn’t aroused or the guy isn’t doing a good enough job. Truth is self lubrication just sometimes doesn’t work well enough and that’s fine! I know birth control has made it a bit harder for me so I’m more than happy to bring out the lube, nothing to do with arousal. No shame in making it more comfortable.

    • @lotteizero2710
      @lotteizero2710 3 роки тому +64

      @Natalia Sarmiento Being cis/cisgender means you identify with your birth sex to put it simply! :0 I hope that helps a little!

    • @summerdepression753
      @summerdepression753 3 роки тому +29

      @Natalia Sarmiento ok so by you watching this channel you know what a trans parson is and what that means. a cis person, is literally just a person who identifies as their birth gender. so, i was born a woman and identity as such, making me a cis-woman, as said above

    • @d.w.1805
      @d.w.1805 3 роки тому +31

      @Natalia Sarmiento yep! if you identify with the sex you were born as then you identify as cis :)

  • @DariaJane13
    @DariaJane13 3 роки тому +1908

    We should get 1 dollar for every person who asks if we could get pregnant.
    Also, you look bomb cister🔥

    • @ivonnatrolue6747
      @ivonnatrolue6747 3 роки тому +120

      How about a dollar for how often people avoid eye contact? That'd be way more lucrative.

    • @tealrose3248
      @tealrose3248 3 роки тому +105

      One day. We've had heart transplant surgery for decades. The only reason infertile women, including trans women and also cis women who have had a hysterectomy for endometriosis or whatever, and cis men, can't be made pregnant and carry to term, is because we haven't bothered maturing the technology.

    • @ivonnatrolue6747
      @ivonnatrolue6747 3 роки тому +61

      @@tealrose3248 Infertile women do not include trans women. Trans women are men that have transitioned. It's not at all like being a biological woman who can't conceive.

    • @tealrose3248
      @tealrose3248 3 роки тому +145

      Ivonna Trolue a woman who can't conceive and/or carry to term is infertile. Whether that's because of hormonal or structural issues doesn't really change the outcome. There are plenty of intersex type conditions where an XX woman is born without a functional uterus, and there are XXY women, as well as trans women, and survivors of endometriosis or uterine cancer or whatever. The outcome is a woman who can't have a baby. That's what medicine needs to address.

    • @thequestionasker
      @thequestionasker 3 роки тому +6

      Buna Daria :D

  • @psychoseagull3104
    @psychoseagull3104 3 роки тому +1496

    Imagine if trans people could just like, body swap with each other and everyone got what they wanted. That's be awesome.

    • @miracledinner2244
      @miracledinner2244 3 роки тому +65

      uterus might be the first one

    • @pedro-pascals-armpit
      @pedro-pascals-armpit 3 роки тому +170

      I wish we could just change sex at will like some fish species, or shapeshift. that would be awesome. but honestly all of these problems are solved just by more societal understanding and acceptance

    • @nevreiha
      @nevreiha 3 роки тому +15

      When they gonna invent brain transplants tho? Also enbies gonna find a problem in this lol

    • @TheCrateOfLemons
      @TheCrateOfLemons 3 роки тому +22

      @@nevreiha How about we don't recreate Get Out? Thanks.

    • @nevreiha
      @nevreiha 3 роки тому +3

      @@TheCrateOfLemons ah good idea

  • @ankita1756
    @ankita1756 3 роки тому +805

    I’m only 15 years old and i’m not apart of the LGBTQ community or anything but i love watching your videos because i feel really educated and informed on transgender people ❤️ keep doing these videos!

    • @n.c.pictures
      @n.c.pictures 3 роки тому +64

      If only there were more people, who want to educate themselves, like you

    • @avarayne8091
      @avarayne8091 3 роки тому +11

      Same !

    • @-Solidwater
      @-Solidwater 3 роки тому +31

      @@n.c.pictures Gotta love allies.

    • @TheCrateOfLemons
      @TheCrateOfLemons 3 роки тому +11

      Hey, good on you. It's way too easy to just take the word of people around you instead of looking into it yourself, especially when you're young.

    • @willykittin3840
      @willykittin3840 3 роки тому

      @@puppetseducer wdym

  • @kezzstar24
    @kezzstar24 3 роки тому +1218

    I don't get why self-lubrication is such a big thing, given there's a lot of cis women who have problems self-lubricating. Also, I just love your channel and how straight-forward you are.

    • @ournewnormalnow8432
      @ournewnormalnow8432 3 роки тому +60

      Yes! Especially post menopause.
      Trust me, vaginal dryness is real and it sucks.
      Coconut oil, anyone?👍

    • @kaylithorsen7017
      @kaylithorsen7017 3 роки тому +65

      @@ournewnormalnow8432 bruh I’m a teenager and even I struggle with dryness. Coconut oil is a lifesaver

    • @acherryblossom9403
      @acherryblossom9403 3 роки тому +11

      Uhh I think ima get outa here

    • @Sophia-vk5bq
      @Sophia-vk5bq 3 роки тому +19

      And I always thought coconut oil just made a mean Vegan Corned beef. 🤔

    • @hannahyalea
      @hannahyalea 3 роки тому +14

      @@Jjjbbb5678 The only thing that’s “fucking disgusting” is this comment. Stop being so damn judgmental.

  • @kasvimethi7497
    @kasvimethi7497 3 роки тому +691

    off-topic but you're so so beautiful

  • @goose3566
    @goose3566 3 роки тому +889

    me: a cisgender woman watching this to be educated so i can help my transgender friends feel more comfortable

    • @hauntedteethcupboard
      @hauntedteethcupboard 3 роки тому +32

      We love you!

    • @goose3566
      @goose3566 3 роки тому +27

      @@hauntedteethcupboard and i love u too :)

    • @hadley20
      @hadley20 3 роки тому +21

      same! also ofc samantha is so pretty and fun to watch so

    • @galaxyflamingo
      @galaxyflamingo 3 роки тому +9

      same wheeze

    • @goose3566
      @goose3566 3 роки тому +7

      @@hadley20 yea :3

  • @iheartbailey9157
    @iheartbailey9157 3 роки тому +329

    ugh gorgeous as always

    • @_samanthalux
      @_samanthalux  3 роки тому +67

      Thank you 🥺🥺💚

    • @johnbrads5340
      @johnbrads5340 7 місяців тому +1

      Yes you are and so beautiful Samantha

  • @josedavidarellanoroman5107
    @josedavidarellanoroman5107 3 роки тому +353

    i came out to my parents four months ago and they didn't quite believe me and started to deny my whole experience and yesterday in family therapy I cried because my father told me he couldn't ever respect a trans woman and if i decided to dress up as a woman that would be insulting our home and I cried more.
    I can't wait to be independent so I can transition because for the moment that's just impossible and in my foreseeable future i would be having the body of a man. Thanks Samantha for giving me hope and love when at home all I'm being fed up is hate towards this kind of thing. I'm twenty and I've repressing this for such a long time now, and thanks to you and people in the community I now realize there's nothing wrong with wishing you have been born the other sex. I aspire to be like you someday, even if my family doesn't accept it. Love to all.

    • @tealrose3248
      @tealrose3248 3 роки тому +35

      José David Arellano Román you are valid. I hope you've got better people around you now.

    • @satan4518
      @satan4518 3 роки тому +39

      I’m so sorry honey :( as a cis gender Latina I feel for you. There’s so much machismo traditional bullshit in the community that holds us back and keeps parents from loving their children as they are.

    • @satan4518
      @satan4518 3 роки тому +21

      Stay strong and make as much money as you can right now, build your savings so that you could move out as soon as possible to take care of yourself and live your life like you want. It’s going to be hard, but we all believe in you queen ❤️👏👏👏

    • @hadley20
      @hadley20 3 роки тому +12

      i’m so sorry that happened to you. pls remember that you and your feelings are valid no matter what. ily even if i don’t rlly know you

    • @poopystinky3468
      @poopystinky3468 3 роки тому +6

      just keep hoping that one day they'll accept you

  • @kt114
    @kt114 3 роки тому +220

    Honestly, lube just makes everything better. Using lube isn’t a negative thing at all. Never feel bad for wanting to use lube during sex. This goes for everyone.

    • @ladybaabaa3294
      @ladybaabaa3294 3 роки тому +6

      Exactly! Who cares if people use lube or not!? Whatever works is a good thing! And why are there SOOOOO many different types of lube, edible lube, etc etc? Because there is a huge demand for it! 😍

    • @ebogar42
      @ebogar42 3 роки тому +1

      @@ladybaabaa3294 Yeah, a demand for it because it's fun to use sometimes. If you need it every time to get wet enough to have sex, something is wrong. Maybe try not fucking nasty guys could help.

    • @katiest.vincent4283
      @katiest.vincent4283 3 роки тому

      This 100 percent this!

    • @johnbrennan3735
      @johnbrennan3735 3 роки тому +1

      I agree. Unfortunately somehow "societal standards/expectations" develop which are really unhealthy for the vast majority of people.
      Everyone should feel comfortable doing or not doing what is right for them and their partner.

    • @johnbrennan3735
      @johnbrennan3735 3 роки тому +6

      @@ebogar42 how about ladies who hit menopause and have hormone changes, or need to have their ovaries removed as it does the same thing. Some women have more or less vaginal secretions than others.
      Learn the anatomy and physiology before declaring what is "normal" and lose the judgement.
      Maybe help educate the guys you feel are "nasty" how to be less so as opposed to blaming women.

  •  3 роки тому +286

    You're aweasome

  • @Aurochhunter
    @Aurochhunter 3 роки тому +117

    I always figured that 'genital reconstruction surgery' was a better term to use; more descriptive, and 'bottom surgery' sounds like something a proctologist would do.

    • @jalifritz8033
      @jalifritz8033 3 роки тому +4

      Oh that’s a way better term.

    • @pitbullmom7039
      @pitbullmom7039 3 роки тому +15

      Gender confirmation works too.

    • @phowbow3161
      @phowbow3161 3 роки тому +9

      fyi: There are two terms that are commonly used: SRS "Sex Reasignment Surgery" or GRS "Gender Reasignment Surgery" 🙂

    • @Aurochhunter
      @Aurochhunter 3 роки тому

      @Brett Wagland Not really, seeing as a mtf sex change doesn’t actually involve amputating the penis, more like turning it inside out to create a vagina.

    • @dat2ra
      @dat2ra 3 роки тому

      There's actually no such thing as a "proctologist".

  • @niyam6958
    @niyam6958 3 роки тому +135

    You look pretty today!

  • @yeva3408
    @yeva3408 3 роки тому +183

    Did you know dangelo wallace talked about you in his recent video?

    • @emily3
      @emily3 3 роки тому +25

      I love when my faves shout out my others faves!

    • @connorfernandez1778
      @connorfernandez1778 3 роки тому +6

      what did he say?

    • @_samanthalux
      @_samanthalux  3 роки тому +108

      OMG yes 😳😳🥺🥺🥺

    • @emily3
      @emily3 3 роки тому +73

      @@connorfernandez1778 the video was about Blaire White and the harmful, often times flat out wrong, rhetoric she spreads... he was talking about the blaire white video about jk Rowling’s new book being “not transphobic at all”, that Samantha debunked and basically said Samantha lux has a good video on it, and she is well researched and uses actual scientific studies to back up her claims, unlike blaire white lol

    • @connorfernandez1778
      @connorfernandez1778 3 роки тому +13

      @@emily3 Oh, I need to watch the video then. It's nice that he pointed out Samantha's awesome videos.

  • @MickeyJWind
    @MickeyJWind 3 роки тому +281

    I just heard a girl who had bottom surgery with local anesthesia only and was awake, but drugged, most of the time. I find that crazy for such a surgery.

    • @patrickchambers5999
      @patrickchambers5999 3 роки тому +35

      I also heard about someone from Canada who had a spinal block rendering her bod numb from her waist to her toes. A shield blocked her view of what was going on.

    • @ninasavic1951
      @ninasavic1951 3 роки тому +12

      @@patrickchambers5999 Maya Henry? ☺

    • @amathystunicorn
      @amathystunicorn 3 роки тому +39

      I had the spinal block myself, was out for most of my surgery, but woke up for about the last 15 minutes of my GRS. Couldn't feel anything really but some pressure and no pain at all. There is a screen so can't see anything.(The spinal block lasts for the best part of 2 days)
      The Surgeons and Nursing at GRS Montreal gave such excellent care and instruction to all of us. They have had many patients from all around the world.

    • @JimmiAlli
      @JimmiAlli 3 роки тому +5

      I think I would faint if I had to have surgery like that. Last time I went for a blood test I almost passed out.

    • @amathystunicorn
      @amathystunicorn 3 роки тому +2

      @@JimmiAlli as I said, couldn't see a thing because of the screen across the tummy. I think what woke me up was that my arms were getting sore from being stretched out.

  • @crazygirl2359
    @crazygirl2359 3 роки тому +33

    Totally respect all the points you make, just want to say in regards to the period thing - I understand your perspective and I don’t think anyone should tell a trans woman that they are “lucky” not to get it because they have a different struggle, but also I see a lot of transwomen saying that cis women are “lucky” to get periods and this also comes off as insensitive to cis woman like myself who struggle with horrific period pain, endometriosis and other issues that are always brushed under the mat. I hope we can both stop saying things like this to each other and acknowledge that there are negatives and positives to all situations.

  • @Dreemurr-01
    @Dreemurr-01 3 роки тому +88

    I wish I could be as beautiful as you

    • @hadley20
      @hadley20 3 роки тому +10

      you are! you are an amazing person inside and out even if you don’t feel as though

    • @lavacakes
      @lavacakes 3 роки тому +7

      SAME

    • @--Ezra--
      @--Ezra-- 3 роки тому +4

      YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL. Much love

  • @stfu8193
    @stfu8193 3 роки тому +67

    I'm a transman but still watched the entire video for my queen
    You look gorgeous!!

    • @stfu8193
      @stfu8193 3 роки тому +3

      @@puppetseducer man*

    • @stfu8193
      @stfu8193 3 роки тому +8

      @@puppetseducer But my gender is MAN, so shut up now, stop using your basic third grade biology to police other people's gender, Karen.

    • @misswannadie1316
      @misswannadie1316 3 роки тому +5

      @@puppetseducer you litterally have no life I see you on every comment you don't even have a fing profile pic because you ashamed of how much of a asshole you are

    • @Alyssamariem3
      @Alyssamariem3 3 роки тому +3

      @@puppetseducer you’re an idiot. Ever heard of intersex? Clearly not. And there’s a difference between gender and sex babe. Go educate yourself instead of being a loser troll scrolling through the comments on a trans WOMAN’s video. That’s weird as hell, you have some issues going on in your head. Hope you get help 😘😘 and some education

    • @Alyssamariem3
      @Alyssamariem3 3 роки тому +3

      @@puppetseducer worry about yourself. Maybe go speak to a therapist about why you’re projecting your self hate towards others.
      Jesus I just clicked on your page and all your recent comments are on trans related videos. Do you not realize that’s not normal? Why are you obsessed with trans people? Their lives don’t affect you whatsoever

  • @Christina92488
    @Christina92488 3 роки тому +54

    I hate that feeling of being depressed, especially when there really isn't adequate reason to be. We are young, beautiful and have a whole life to live. We can change everything about our selves and yet still be so depressed.... I know what you mean, I'm sorry you are struggling.

    • @supersonicfan9584
      @supersonicfan9584 3 роки тому +4

      You can still experience chronic depression without knowing why you are being depressed that's kind of how it works because when you think about it depression is a chemical imbalance it doesn't care what you do, it will eventually overwelm you.

    • @Christina92488
      @Christina92488 3 роки тому

      @@supersonicfan9584 I know lol. That's what I'm saying

  • @lunaturberfield8309
    @lunaturberfield8309 3 роки тому +39

    Wow the amount of misconceptions I had about bottom surgery, like I had heard almost all of them! Thank you for making videos like these, it is channels like yours and jammidodger that really helped me to understand the trans community and experience better. ❤️

  • @chronogaruda2003
    @chronogaruda2003 3 роки тому +76

    This was a very interesting video! There was so much I learned here.

  • @jaimefox7762
    @jaimefox7762 3 роки тому +94

    I’d look half this good after I transition I would be overjoyed.

    • @sienn5607
      @sienn5607 3 роки тому +1

      skyrim pfp !!

    • @misswannadie1316
      @misswannadie1316 3 роки тому +3

      @@puppetseducer lol are you just scrolling threw comments because your some ugly neck beard transphobe? I have seen you everywhere 😂

  • @acherryblossom9403
    @acherryblossom9403 3 роки тому +78

    LOVE YOUR VIDEOS SOOOO MUCH!!!!! Your so inspiring to me.

    • @_samanthalux
      @_samanthalux  3 роки тому +18

      Thanks for the support bb 🥺💚💚

  • @verdantbf
    @verdantbf 3 роки тому +52

    As a trans girl, you are one of my biggest inspirations

    • @randyfields8047
      @randyfields8047 3 роки тому +1

      Hell yeah

    • @studygram_
      @studygram_ 11 місяців тому

      same! im a trans girl as well. 🫶🏻🏳️‍⚧️

  • @alecosaurusrex1266
    @alecosaurusrex1266 3 роки тому +87

    saving up money for top surgery be like: 👀💅

    • @jamesbw2
      @jamesbw2 3 роки тому +11

      sell art. any art. digital if you have a fancy tablet. traditional if you dont. sell art to certain fanbases. and get a go fund me bc even one pound is better than nothing.

    • @rm2915
      @rm2915 3 роки тому +7

      I'm not sure if I'm trans but sammeee I hate my chest
      As some say, *TEATUS DELETUS*

    • @sxukablajt6299
      @sxukablajt6299 3 роки тому

      @@rm2915 gimme sum teatus

    • @solmoman
      @solmoman 3 роки тому

      @@rm2915 don't do it!!

    • @cactuscallie5090
      @cactuscallie5090 3 роки тому

      Saving up money for top surgery be like... eyes and painting fingernails?
      Emojis have gotten out of control. All they are to me now is bad grammar.

  • @Sam-pw1hg
    @Sam-pw1hg 3 роки тому +75

    I haven't finished this video yet but when you get the surgery do you get to pick how you look or is it a surprise an you so pretty I'm born a girl an I look like a potato

    • @xanaxyzz
      @xanaxyzz 3 роки тому +12

      You get to pick how you look like, you just tell them what you want to change and how you want things to look like.

    • @nathitaxo
      @nathitaxo 3 роки тому +9

      Wtf no, in that surgery everything can happens, it depends in the genitals before surgery, the doctor, and the experience

    • @notsafeformiranda4271
      @notsafeformiranda4271 3 роки тому +9

      @@nathitaxo For many people its a combination of both. You can pick a certain vulva appearance as well as the non-visible aspects (ie depth), however sometimes it won't look exactly like the person wants it to because of surgical complications, tissue types, medical mistakes etc. However if you find a reputable doctor you strongly minimize that risk

    • @23V33
      @23V33 3 роки тому +2

      Potatos are beutiful :D

    • @delrosario7453
      @delrosario7453 3 роки тому +1

      Everyone wants and should be able to look good not just transpeople 💌

  • @dodogamarama2294
    @dodogamarama2294 3 роки тому +83

    When uterus period transplants are a thing you can have mine for free

    • @misswannadie1316
      @misswannadie1316 3 роки тому

      @@puppetseducer no I think you are the disgusting one my dude

    • @Nataliepena06
      @Nataliepena06 3 роки тому +1

      Earl Jones k earl

    • @Marixpress2
      @Marixpress2 3 роки тому +6

      @Earl Jones It's already a thing and babies have been born from transplanted uterus. Google it.

    • @TheHungerGame3
      @TheHungerGame3 3 роки тому +1

      It's already a "thing" but trans women are not eligible for that, so that "not trans women" ( sorry im not english and i dont know the word for that ☹) with reproductive issues are being prioritized .

    • @Marixpress2
      @Marixpress2 3 роки тому +1

      @@TheHungerGame3 Yes, only cis women (assigned female at birth) have received transplanted uteruses so far - and have been able to have babies. It's pretty incredible.

  • @snaps4emma
    @snaps4emma 3 роки тому +4

    girl.. not to sound like a snowflake but "what I wouldn't give to get periods", coming from someone who ended up in the ER multiple times with endometriosis pain that wakes you up in the middle of the night screaming, you don't want periods.

    • @Bubbles_552
      @Bubbles_552 3 роки тому +2

      Well endometriosis and having periods to be able to get pregnant are different. Like, she doesnt wish she had endometriosis she wished she had normal periods

    • @lilkittyplayz9841
      @lilkittyplayz9841 3 роки тому +1

      Some people don’t have pain

  • @Puckrocker
    @Puckrocker 3 роки тому +20

    Kudos for being so open about such personal things. I can’t imagine ever having that much courage. I appreciate the education. Keep doing what you’re doing!

  • @CutiepieTinWhistle
    @CutiepieTinWhistle 3 роки тому +4

    7:45 is so sad :( the world can be so cruel sometimes! You're a beautiful person inside and out, like so many others who feel outcast or mistreated, for NO REASON but other people's naivety. Keep being you sweetheart, you're doing great! I hope you always feel accepted for being yourself. x

  • @bencanevari4056
    @bencanevari4056 3 роки тому +64

    As a man currently experiencing dysphoria, I appreciate your channel

    • @spadessongs
      @spadessongs 3 роки тому +2

      Wait so do you identify as male or female. Sorry your sentence confused me lol

    • @jamesbw2
      @jamesbw2 3 роки тому +6

      @@spadessongs well i assume they are a trans masculine individual. so if you are ill give you some euphoria dont click if your trans femme.
      you look so handsome today. you are your parents favourite son. you look really flat today omg. real men cry sometimes. keep going king

    • @--Ezra--
      @--Ezra-- 3 роки тому +2

      @@spadessongs they didn't specify if the nature of their disphoria, but in general dysphoria means a profound state of unease or dissatisfaction.

    • @bencanevari4056
      @bencanevari4056 3 роки тому +1

      Jesus Christ this went south quickly

    • @bencanevari4056
      @bencanevari4056 3 роки тому +1

      @Brett Wagland It's not so much I need cheering up, I just want to find a trans community near me

  • @TheCrateOfLemons
    @TheCrateOfLemons 3 роки тому +10

    I wish my ex would have heard that last one. He was always so set on transitioning as if it would fix everything for him. He eventually viewed my pushes to get therapy for his childhood as controlling and unnecessary and stopped going entirely, I think because he convinced himself that the transition was the only issue. I think that to this day he still believes transitioning will stop almost all of the pain and sadness, and it breaks my heart. I hope he's kept up the therapy even after he left, but I unfortunately have no way of knowing. I felt like there was more to it as well, because, as much as he talked about HRT and how much transitioning would change his life, he never took me up on my offers to pay for it. At this point, I hope he's gotten past whatever block that was and has either transitioned or found the other reasons for his unhappiness.
    And yes, I am properly using his pronouns for those of you who might have thought it was a gay relationship to start. It wasn't. He made me realize gender doesn't matter when he came out to me. I used to be a good, straight Christian. I am now a sinful, pansexual agnostic.

  • @Sawdustinthemakeup
    @Sawdustinthemakeup 3 роки тому +31

    Whew this kinda makes me less nervous about considering bottom surgery

  • @rachealserrano.8286
    @rachealserrano.8286 3 роки тому +28

    Girl as a cis women who didn’t know a shit about the trans Community, one can I be your best friend 😂, two thank you for helping understand about the community and extra😂😂😘

  • @olufunmilayoadebambo1744
    @olufunmilayoadebambo1744 Рік тому +2

    I tjink think the doctors encouraging and carrying out this surgery should be jailed gor taking advantage of these children and youths. Thanks for your revelation

    • @kaylaable
      @kaylaable Рік тому

      You should be jailed for breathing

  • @richardfondriest965
    @richardfondriest965 3 роки тому +2

    Samantha you look absolutely beautiful, I only hope that I can look as good

  • @imdeadinside9069
    @imdeadinside9069 3 роки тому +13

    Girl your makeup is amazing today!

  • @lilsaam
    @lilsaam 3 роки тому +30

    HIII SAMANTHA

  • @jaidachaneltrujillo9500
    @jaidachaneltrujillo9500 3 роки тому +12

    i needed to hear this, it gives me hopeeee :) 🖤

  • @ava-hussynationmod8622
    @ava-hussynationmod8622 3 роки тому +2

    As a CIS woman. I would gift u the good the bad and the ugly when it comes to carrying a child and give birth! .... Periods...oh helll.No periods are horrible

  • @SkyLene
    @SkyLene 3 роки тому +2

    I totally understand why you might want to have a period but at the same time, as a cis girl, I can tell you it can be extremely limiting in life, make me depressed, make me hate my body and feel disgusting and force me to lie down from pain. This is not to say „I’m right and you shouldn’t wish for a period“, just clarifying that people who menstruate complaining about their periods is absolutely valid because they are shit for most people and make the lives of most of us so much harder.

  • @emily3
    @emily3 3 роки тому +33

    We love you our beautiful educated queen!

  • @rosariomain6856
    @rosariomain6856 3 роки тому +11

    Hey

  • @sorinlemon2236
    @sorinlemon2236 3 роки тому +16

    i’m a cis female so i can’t speak for everyone, but i love the “tmi” bits. i’ve always been curious and i can imagine more information for transitioning people is helpful and comforting to them too. i love you and your channel ❤️

    • @sorinlemon2236
      @sorinlemon2236 3 роки тому +1

      @Brett Wagland i’m not sure i understand what you mean

    • @sorinlemon2236
      @sorinlemon2236 3 роки тому +1

      @Brett Wagland that didn’t really clear anything up, i think you mean that there’s cis gender (identify with assigned gender ) and transgender (dose not identify with assigned gender) but trans women and cis women are both just women? that there isn’t a difference? i was just clarifying that i am not part of the trans community so i can’t speak for those who are..

    • @studygram_
      @studygram_ 11 місяців тому

      ​@@sorinlemon2236just ignore transphobic illiterates 😂

  • @claudeelliott3993
    @claudeelliott3993 3 роки тому +2

    My only comment is that you are an absolutely beautiful woman and I could care less how you got there!! Be happy in your own skin and as I often tell unhappy people, (not that you are) DLTBGYD which translates to "Don't let the bastards get you down"!

  • @LatinaKamilla
    @LatinaKamilla 3 роки тому +2

    Normalize lube for sure!!! Not using enough lube can lead to UTI’s in women! So lube it up y’all! Haha Also, you do have to dilate the rest of your life. Eventually it can just be like once a week but if you stop dialating you lose depth in your neovagina. My friend has been post op 12 years and my other friend post op 4 years as well and they’ve both lost depth in there because they didn’t keep up with dialating. PLEASE DIALATE!!!
    P.s. I have some friends who did it in Thailand and I recommend getting it done there. There are doctors who are trained well enough for many many years and there are procedures where you don’t have to dilate! My friend had it done in Thailand by Dr.Kuldech (trained 20+ years) and her vagina smells great, never had to dilate and her depth is about 8-9 inches without dialating!!! It is possible y’all! Choose the right doctor. (And I know about my friend cuz I stuck my hand in there and everything lol. She also said sex is good!)

  • @yeva3408
    @yeva3408 3 роки тому +12

    Queen 🥰

  • @rosariomain6856
    @rosariomain6856 3 роки тому +6

    How are you

  • @stokleemiller5918
    @stokleemiller5918 3 роки тому +6

    I'm not too worried about the surgery or the pain after. Since I turned 22 I have had 30 plus surgeries for a skin condition that my doctors could not treat even Mayo only offered the surgery option. Luckily after I started HRT it actually started healing. I know what its personally like to live with multiple open wounds that did not seem like they would ever heal. I love your content Samantha Lux keep up the great videos.

  • @pennymay1608
    @pennymay1608 3 роки тому +1

    For a cis girl, wetness comes from glands in the cervix and womb, trans girls obviously don’t have those so...how can they get wet? It must just be sweat right? I hope this doesn’t come across as rude because I’m genuinely confused.

  • @stokleemiller5918
    @stokleemiller5918 3 роки тому +21

    What do you think is a good amount of time to take off from work for recovery? I have read 10 days to 3 monthes. 3 months I dont think I would have a job afterwards

    • @availanila
      @availanila 3 роки тому

      Does your work offer maternity/paternity leave?? That's pretty much the same time.

    • @stokleemiller5918
      @stokleemiller5918 3 роки тому

      @@availanila I'm only part time so I dont think so but I'm definitely going to look into it

    • @edenmarsh4127
      @edenmarsh4127 3 роки тому

      I was off work for 12 weeks post op :)

    • @stokleemiller5918
      @stokleemiller5918 3 роки тому

      @@edenmarsh4127 I'm figuring about that time frame. Unfortunately the best time for me to do it will be during the summer😭😭😭😭

    • @edenmarsh4127
      @edenmarsh4127 3 роки тому +1

      @@stokleemiller5918 yes, unfortunately it's not something you can rush, I went back a couple of weeks early (I was so bored!) On the plus side, before you know it you'll be several years post op and looking back on it! :)

  • @maddiesimpson1693
    @maddiesimpson1693 3 роки тому +7

    You are awesome debunking these myths and an inspirational person to other trans women, such as myself. I hope I can meet you in person one day, just to thank you for helping others and myself move forward in our transition. I am currently in the hair removal process for GCS and this video gave me lots of things to look forward towards getting my surgery, since I didn't know some of these. Thank you for this and keep up the great work.

  • @exxology1
    @exxology1 3 роки тому +5

    Saying reassignment surgery regret is minuscule is factually incorrect! Just look it up, plenty of people have come to regret their decision & they shouldn’t be shunned by the community! As cases rise so will regrets..

    • @exxology1
      @exxology1 3 роки тому

      @Punkie Junkie Exactly! It’s not doing them any favors to do that…

  • @edibleuph
    @edibleuph 3 роки тому +12

    First

    • @_samanthalux
      @_samanthalux  3 роки тому +9

      Thanks for coming 😳💚💚🥺

    • @edibleuph
      @edibleuph 3 роки тому

      @@_samanthalux you’re welcome!! I love your videos!! 🥺💖💖

  • @em5528
    @em5528 3 роки тому +6

    You look so beautiful!! I love your makeup and hair today. Love you and your positivity! Keep it up Samantha

  • @ivonnatrolue6747
    @ivonnatrolue6747 3 роки тому +2

    And no one thinks you can get pregnant by the way. That isn't a myth.

    • @MrGameManIsCool
      @MrGameManIsCool 3 роки тому

      Yea people do

    • @ivonnatrolue6747
      @ivonnatrolue6747 3 роки тому +1

      @@MrGameManIsCool And where are they? The collective society knows trans people have no womb. We know that. You know that. No one thinks you're getting pregnant sweaty.

    • @robertomorales1305
      @robertomorales1305 3 роки тому +1

      @@ivonnatrolue6747 people who don't exactly know what being tran is or new people to the community.

    • @ivonnatrolue6747
      @ivonnatrolue6747 3 роки тому

      @@robertomorales1305 If you don't know what it is then guess what? It ain't shit.

    • @robertomorales1305
      @robertomorales1305 3 роки тому

      @@ivonnatrolue6747 took you 8 months to come up with that?

  • @frickinfrick8488
    @frickinfrick8488 3 роки тому +18

    Thanks for making this, I know it’s rude to ask about and embarrassing to talk about but it’s something I’ve always been curious about. I’m really glad the surgery is so comprehensive so trans people can have the parts they need, and it’s pretty amazing how good surgery is now for this to be possible.
    I also find it funny how most of these myths are things some cis people deal with too. People try so hard to invalidate trans people for not having “fully functional” parts and just end up invalidating cis people who struggle with sexual disfunction in the process lol.

  • @carolinejunge176
    @carolinejunge176 3 роки тому +6

    That necklace works so well for you 💕💞

  • @Baconmutt
    @Baconmutt 3 роки тому +9

    I was expecting to hear that they just chop it off on the list.

    • @leix7
      @leix7 3 роки тому

      That one is so common and so strange. It's like they think you could just find some dick in a dumpster somewhere every time a trans girl gets a surgery.

  • @mynameiselvispresleygirlsa5911
    @mynameiselvispresleygirlsa5911 3 роки тому +2

    I know how you feel about periods and why you would like to have them.. but... From someone who has horrible periods with severe cramps/ruin almost all of my undies... I envy your lack of bloodletting. And don't even ask about period poops.

  • @inktime
    @inktime 3 роки тому +1

    I’m a guy. I still don’t fully understand how all this works, but if you were born male it’s pretty clear to me you were supposed to be female. Your gorgeous! If I saw you on the street there’s not much chance I would mistake you for male.

  • @thehuman_being2559
    @thehuman_being2559 3 роки тому +25

    i know the period thing or prego thing is different for some people.
    Some may want a period and be prego,
    some may NOT want to it all depends on the person

    • @galaxyflamingo
      @galaxyflamingo 3 роки тому +8

      last year i was on my period and was ranting about it to my trans mtf friend and i feel bad cause i ranted about woman shit and she was prolly feeling dysphoric and stuff but aaa i apologized to her and she said its all good so aaa

    • @thehuman_being2559
      @thehuman_being2559 3 роки тому +4

      @@galaxyflamingo thats a big OOF

    • @galaxyflamingo
      @galaxyflamingo 3 роки тому +3

      @@thehuman_being2559 yea, me and her are homies and shit but we dont talk as often but thats mainly cause friend group drifting

    • @Jjjbbb5678
      @Jjjbbb5678 3 роки тому +2

      Too bad it will never happen because they’re men

    • @Isadoriyah
      @Isadoriyah 3 роки тому +2

      @@Jjjbbb5678 IT WILL HAPPEN CAUSE THEIR BEST FRIEND IS FEMALE

  • @joclynslaysgiants3344
    @joclynslaysgiants3344 3 роки тому +6

    Hi. Im always here. Love you!

    • @acherryblossom9403
      @acherryblossom9403 3 роки тому +2

      Hi Jocelyn I just watched your live into before I came here! Your channel is growing so good! I love it!

    • @joclynslaysgiants3344
      @joclynslaysgiants3344 3 роки тому +1

      @@acherryblossom9403 ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

  • @danepatterson8107
    @danepatterson8107 3 роки тому +4

    What drives a trans to leap these hurdles? It's so much work and so frightening and physically painful (and emotionally existential, which must be terrifying). I just can't fathom something driving me to change my body to a new reality. You are so brave. I hope you find great fulfillment and happiness.

    • @studygram_
      @studygram_ 11 місяців тому

      what is "a trans"? cisgenders like you need to stop your transphobic habit of constantly dehumanising us. get a hobby, baby machine

  • @dspencer8827
    @dspencer8827 3 роки тому +2

    Your so beautiful you should have no regrets ,and an inspiration too

  • @ninjacraftb
    @ninjacraftb 3 роки тому +2

    As someone who is with a trans woman, I actually find your videos informative and help me understand my partner more

  • @DavidWright-vr6vw
    @DavidWright-vr6vw 3 роки тому +3

    Very helpful video.... so I can understand what my kid is going to face as she transitions physically.... I'm sure she wouldn't want to talk about these things.... but good for perspective. Thanks for this.

    • @snem9381
      @snem9381 3 роки тому +1

      You sound like a great dad!

    • @DavidWright-vr6vw
      @DavidWright-vr6vw 3 роки тому +2

      @@snem9381 Well, let's hope it turns out that way! As a parent I will always be worried about my kid's happiness and health. Before coming out to us parents she was tortured. I never want to see that horrible depression and sadness ever again! She's 17. No one should have to suffer like that!

    • @snem9381
      @snem9381 3 роки тому

      @@DavidWright-vr6vw that's great, there's a really good Facebook group called 'Transgender Education and Discussion' you may like!

    • @DavidWright-vr6vw
      @DavidWright-vr6vw 3 роки тому

      @@snem9381 Tx. I will check it out!

    • @flyingcactae5080
      @flyingcactae5080 3 роки тому

      That's cute

  • @nocturnalgray
    @nocturnalgray 3 роки тому +11

    That’s so cool trans women can self lubricant! Don’t get me wrong there’s nothing wrong with lube, I just think it’s so amazing how far science and surgeries have come! By the way if uterus transplants become available I will gladly give you my uterus ❤️ I have no desire to be pregnant or have periods so I would happily give it to someone that would put it to use

  • @franciscasimoneulloacacere6891
    @franciscasimoneulloacacere6891 3 роки тому +4

    6:16 Amen.
    It is one of my dreams to be able to be a mommy to my own children, and sometimes thinking about it too much get me in really bad depressive mood.

  • @shannond1511
    @shannond1511 Рік тому +1

    The def lubrication thing varies between cis women too, just about everything you talked about is true for any woman and not every cis woman even menstruates. I’m only 30 so Jo it’s not menopause and I didn’t have a hysterectomy, but mine naturally stopped about 8 yrs ago. And before it stopped I only got it about 2-3x a yr

  • @amyleblanc224
    @amyleblanc224 3 роки тому +1

    Hello Samantha. I live in Phoenix, AZ and have had a consult with Dr. Ley at the Meltzer clinic and I wish that I can go to her, but she does not take my insurance. So I am going to San Francisco to have my GCS surgery with Dr. Satterwhite. I have done my research on him and he has done alot of Trans surgeries and knows all about them. My therapist has also recommended Dr. Satterwhote as well so I know that I am going to a good doctor that also takes my insurance so it will be covered.

  • @henrydominguez7118
    @henrydominguez7118 3 роки тому +19

    I have to say you’re so beautiful!!!

  • @cowbell2231
    @cowbell2231 3 роки тому +3

    I JUST WANNA SAY YOU LOOK SO STUNNING IN THIS VIDEO

  • @LUckybones25
    @LUckybones25 3 роки тому +3

    I used to be so confused by anything transgender related, but you really helped to change my perception. Thank you! And by the way, you’re gorgeous 😍

  • @vadriss1
    @vadriss1 3 роки тому +1

    I had mine two years ago n now my lips are the biggest bitches everrrr!!!!

  • @aileene534
    @aileene534 3 роки тому +2

    Just got randomly recommended this video lol but just wanted to say girl you’re super beautiful

  • @eoinclarke9605
    @eoinclarke9605 3 роки тому +11

    Couldn’t wait for this

  • @gabiburner
    @gabiburner 3 роки тому +4

    Thank you for talking about all of this, it's so educational for everyone - even those of us that won't ever go through these things. It's easier to join you in any arguments against rude people if we are better informed about what being a transgender person might involve. I really appreciate your time and the effort you put into sharing your story!

  • @harveyts3
    @harveyts3 3 роки тому +3

    Why am I subscribed to this channel? I assume it is because you are charming. Thank you for putting info out that is intended to help. Anyone reading this who isn't a totally happy CIS gender person, I wish you the best on your journey, and thank you for excepting people like me who just want to learn. Cheers everyone.

  • @cliveroberts8760
    @cliveroberts8760 3 роки тому +2

    Damn you are beautiful

  • @carterrennerfeldt1607
    @carterrennerfeldt1607 Рік тому +1

    man...there are a lot of scientific fallacies here. bottom surgery can be a wonderful thing for many trans individuals, but there are some serious limitations/concerns to consider. i've not doubt samantha's intent is good and honorable, but she glosses over many things one should definitely know before undergoing such a major and irreversible life change.

  • @yannia76
    @yannia76 3 роки тому +3

    i am born a female and seeing transgender i notice they look more feminine than me i wish i take care of my self more to look feminine

  • @kyan9797
    @kyan9797 3 роки тому +6

    I love your content, I'm not trans but it actually makes me learn about some aspects of trans people's lives. Thank you for all the educative videos you've done! 💜 You're beautiful queen

  • @ThisiswhereitsAT2013
    @ThisiswhereitsAT2013 3 роки тому +3

    Thank you for this video! Also you are literally one of the prettiest women I've ever seen. Like wow 😍

  • @eshaanshahaproductions9863
    @eshaanshahaproductions9863 3 роки тому +2

    Love the video. Very informal.

  • @emilyhawkins4114
    @emilyhawkins4114 3 роки тому +2

    i went to dr ting and am a year and a half post op, and i havent been able to orgasm and some sensation down there doesnt have full feeling. Hoping for the best but just wanna put this experience out there for those considering this operation

  • @space_dog_zephyr
    @space_dog_zephyr 3 роки тому +3

    You look like a hotter version of Phoebe from FRIENDS
    And I wish I could rock make up like you can😢

    • @space_dog_zephyr
      @space_dog_zephyr 3 роки тому +1

      @@puppetseducer Why do people like you exist?

    • @space_dog_zephyr
      @space_dog_zephyr 3 роки тому +1

      @@puppetseducer You feel like a flat earther and an anti-vaxer

  • @chuuchxn4643
    @chuuchxn4643 3 роки тому +5

    Im early 😆

  • @lotun1156
    @lotun1156 3 роки тому +3

    Hey I hope you get to see this, for some reason I got one of your videos in my recommendations. And then was curious to see if you were really trans cause I had a hard time believing it, so I watched your reaction video to your old you and omg you've came so far, I got emotional watching this. I started to think how hard it was for you to live this whole transition.. I was thinking like how did you manage to get through all the hate and the struggles of the voice changing and all the changes you did.. I am speechless a bit cause I want to express to you how much I am just amazed by how much you've achieved. I am glad you look happier now

  • @TrangPakbaby
    @TrangPakbaby 3 роки тому +1

    I’m a cis woman but I love ur videos simply because ur a cool az chick! Ur SUPER funny naturally ❤️

  • @damienlobb85
    @damienlobb85 2 роки тому +2

    You're amazing Samantha. Keep doing your thing hun! You look fabulous. The world is progressing and I think you'll find there's far more lovely people out there then not.

  • @zeparxaphan839
    @zeparxaphan839 3 роки тому +3

    Oh- I thought when the title said ‘bottom surgery’ I thought she meant butt surgery 😂 I still watched anyway since I definitely needed to learn

  • @junidacosta5977
    @junidacosta5977 3 роки тому +5

    hey Samantha! There actually is a uterus surgery! It's originally for cis women who can't get pregnant so they actually can get pregnant. But nowadays they know trans woman can actually do this surgery too. Look it up! It's really REALLY interesting!

  • @InkyPF
    @InkyPF 3 роки тому +3

    Thanks for this it’s really helpful

  • @reggyreptinall9598
    @reggyreptinall9598 3 роки тому +1

    Why do you think people are so concerned with what other people do? Especially, when it doesn't even effect them at all. I can understand, maybe if I was chick I could be jealous of your watermelons. Because my watermelons might be as nice as yours. Other than that I am completely clueless 🧐🤔🙄😑

  • @troybrothers8583
    @troybrothers8583 3 роки тому +2

    Even though im straight I would like to date a transgender women!!

    • @arcanevoid9199
      @arcanevoid9199 3 роки тому +3

      dating a trans women isnt gay btw

    • @troybrothers8583
      @troybrothers8583 3 роки тому

      @@arcanevoid9199 Its not people tell me it is :(

    • @arcanevoid9199
      @arcanevoid9199 3 роки тому +1

      @@troybrothers8583 aww :(

    • @troybrothers8583
      @troybrothers8583 3 роки тому

      @@arcanevoid9199 Maybe I should date a transgender women

    • @arcanevoid9199
      @arcanevoid9199 3 роки тому

      @@troybrothers8583 date who ever you want :)