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КОМЕНТАРІ • 459

  • @staceymurf
    @staceymurf 2 роки тому +301

    As a bisexual woman, I adore seeing bi/pan guys! Too much stigma on bi/pan people, especially the men. 💖💜💙
    You’re all VERY attractive. 🥰

  • @InDifferencewhat
    @InDifferencewhat 2 роки тому +258

    As a bisexual woman myself I totally agree with you.. as bi erasure is a thing still in the lgbt+ community videos like this makes me so happy and proud to be bi.

    • @learleanatrimmer2892
      @learleanatrimmer2892 2 роки тому +7

      And It's Really Sad 😔😔😒😒

    • @hussaineh89
      @hussaineh89 Рік тому +2

      This post is lovely and empowering bisexuality

    • @geno5169
      @geno5169 5 місяців тому +1

      I guess I’m a bi/ guy! But I’am married to beautiful woman! I had my first gay sex with my cousin! This happened for a while! Pretty intense too! I couldn’t figure out where to meet guy’s! So I feel in love wife ! We got married yes i still think about ny past moments! I actually fantasized about meeting guy’s in public restroom! And exploring my past with someone! I had this moment with my one friend! It’s not easy being married a
      To my wife and having these thoughts!

  • @moonlight_sparkle6659
    @moonlight_sparkle6659 2 роки тому +231

    I love seeing the bisexual community FINALLY get the respect they deserve!!

    • @learleanatrimmer2892
      @learleanatrimmer2892 2 роки тому +5

      Not In This Dam Comment Section 😂😂😬😬😒😒😔😔

    • @moonlight_sparkle6659
      @moonlight_sparkle6659 2 роки тому +11

      @@learleanatrimmer2892 you're telling me. The biphobia is so nauseating 🤢

    • @rtmquaz2515
      @rtmquaz2515 2 роки тому +1

      I don’t respect it

  • @perrrofrrredy
    @perrrofrrredy 2 роки тому +62

    Literally love seeing an entire community of bisexuals. I thought I was alone. Warms my heart 🥲💙

    • @Why_Knott_Me
      @Why_Knott_Me 12 днів тому

      I thought I was alone too! No one talks about being bi!

  • @Annicaha
    @Annicaha 2 роки тому +152

    Bi men need to prove they are attracted to women and bi women need to prove they are attracted to women..... Why is it still a thing? Alot of bi people are struggling with internalised biphobia, please don't add to that by making us straight or gay. I would be so happy to find a bi man or women to live my bi self with.

  • @mckai4717
    @mckai4717 2 роки тому +144

    Please do more bisexual men videos to help clear the awful stigma/stereotypes surrounding them. This is a step in the right direction ❤️

  • @s.leochapman417
    @s.leochapman417 2 роки тому +38

    It's quite astonishing that most of the negative, sceptical comments on this thread come from gay men. The irony is both immense and very disappointing.

  • @wicked_deftlady
    @wicked_deftlady 2 роки тому +76

    Proud bisexual here. 🙋🏻‍♀️ We belong and deserve respect and acceptance, just like everyone else. One love. ✊🏿✊🏾✊🏽✊🏼✊🏻☮️☯️🌈🌍🌏🌎

  • @bixby451
    @bixby451 2 роки тому +63

    “I can be the all you can eat buffet” 🤣 I love these guys

  • @robertp181
    @robertp181 2 роки тому +31

    I came out at 34 and I was married to my wife (who is also bi) for 16 years before I really realized that I was bi. She had asked me several times throughout the years if I was sure I wasn’t gay or bi and I always said no but once I realized that I was bi, I said yes the next time she asked me. We talked about it and nothing changed. This was 4 years ago and we are still happily married today. I should’ve known I was bi all along though. I was 8 years old when beauty and the beast came out and I had a crush on both Belle and Gaston. 🤦🏻‍♂️

    • @geno5169
      @geno5169 5 місяців тому

      I had my first gay experience w my cousin ! It was intense! Sexy! Then with my friend! Then I had nobody! So I thought to marry a beautiful woman! Now a days! I seen myself thinking about my past experiences! I actually have fantasies about meeting a guy in a public restroom somewhere! Anywhere! I’m here with my wife! Actually thinking more about my past! I miss those moments and times !

  • @breeramsey899
    @breeramsey899 2 роки тому +102

    And i wish some people would stop saying that men can't be bisexual and see that there is a B in LGBTQ.
    Happy coming out day to everybody 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈

  • @sam_597
    @sam_597 2 роки тому +87

    Look at all these bi-cons!! This really makes me happy

  • @xomcrrockstarxo
    @xomcrrockstarxo 2 роки тому +36

    My man is bisexual and I am pansexual. He said I made him feel safe when he told me and I didn’t bat an eye. I loved being that woman for him.

    • @samsca8529
      @samsca8529 2 роки тому +3

      You’re awesome

    • @georgehuerta1990
      @georgehuerta1990 2 роки тому +1

      Thank you that was great I am sure it was big for him

    • @GracieHakim
      @GracieHakim 5 місяців тому

      😍

    • @geno5169
      @geno5169 5 місяців тому

      You’re a beautiful wonderful wife! Our daughter just told us last night! She’s pan! I had gay experiences in my teens! With someone close! I got married! I have seen myself thinking more about my past experiences! I actually think about meeting a guy in a public restroom ! I’m married and think about how it was with a guy!

  • @randycottle3778
    @randycottle3778 2 роки тому +15

    I’m a bisexual man and currently still in the closet but working my way out. I love this video, and being able to see actual bi people. It’s definitely comforting I’m not alone

    • @kcrown364
      @kcrown364 2 роки тому

      Hello

    • @Saiyan_Steph
      @Saiyan_Steph 2 роки тому +2

      Yeah man you’re not along I came out at 21 and found out I was bi at around 12 or 13

  • @LegionIvory
    @LegionIvory 2 роки тому +37

    Yay! Bisexuality! 😄
    It's about time we got individual representation! We're always grouped with other sexual identities. We exist on our own! ❤💜💙

  • @irishboymalloy
    @irishboymalloy 2 роки тому +34

    As a bi man who has only come out to a few close friends, this really encourage me,

    • @perrrofrrredy
      @perrrofrrredy 2 роки тому +4

      this video encouraged me also.

    • @georgehuerta1990
      @georgehuerta1990 2 роки тому +2

      Yeah I am starting to come out to some of my close friends now

    • @irishboymalloy
      @irishboymalloy 2 роки тому +2

      @@georgehuerta1990 You got this man

    • @geno5169
      @geno5169 5 місяців тому +1

      I can’t. come out! I’m married ! But wish I had those experiences again! My first time with a guy was with my cousin and friend! I miss it

  • @PHUSHEY
    @PHUSHEY 2 роки тому +18

    I was almost killed by my last girlfriend and spent a night in jail because she determined that I was bisexual. Then, I spent close to $10k trying to clear my name in the courts. I hope that no one ever has to go through what I went through. The discrimination that targeted people have to go through is real and sometimes outright dangerous. I have been left with permanent mental scaring from my experience.

    • @Annicaha
      @Annicaha 2 роки тому +8

      I'm sorry this happend to you

    • @benjaminreyes3624
      @benjaminreyes3624 2 роки тому +2

      You'll find another girlfriend... Maybe the girl commenting above👆 she might be into you

    • @PHUSHEY
      @PHUSHEY 2 роки тому +4

      @@benjaminreyes3624 Sorry, but one of the scars I bear is that I now fear being with anyone.... so you could say that I now identify as asexual. The answer is not as easy as finding "another girl".

    • @benjaminreyes3624
      @benjaminreyes3624 2 роки тому +1

      @@PHUSHEY if and when you get passed this. You'll find another girlfriend or you might not want anyone and that's up to you

    • @bobbydickenson6532
      @bobbydickenson6532 2 роки тому +3

      I'm confused did she call you bisexual and you attacked her? What's going on here

  • @gregnye9382
    @gregnye9382 2 роки тому +13

    It’s so awesome to see these guys comfortable and proud of who they are and how they define themselves.! Happy coming out day!

  • @mailestangler4296
    @mailestangler4296 2 роки тому +18

    I truly jus want to say, that it is wonderful to have a sesh with Bi people. There's so many questions and disbelief of bisexuality. Were not only too gay for the straight people but also to straighter for the gay people. Like, jus lemme be attracted to who I'm attracted to, it's not as complicated as people who aren't Bi make it out to be.

  • @HeartPlant
    @HeartPlant 2 роки тому +38

    Hell yes! Big bisexual love to you all 💖💜💙

  • @autumnfayee
    @autumnfayee 2 роки тому +37

    My husband still struggles to accept I’m Bisexual. He use to be like ur either straight or gay and all my gay/lesbian friends didn’t believe in Bi either 🙄 so I really struggled coming out and didn’t until after I was married 🤪 my only regret is not having a proper relationship with a woman before hand. But now I get to have 3 sums so it worked out lmao

  • @teamkelly89
    @teamkelly89 2 роки тому +12

    I soooo feel you, as bisexual woman i get called confused and get so frustrated

    • @DJFreeway-DJExit-DJClaritin
      @DJFreeway-DJExit-DJClaritin 2 роки тому +4

      People do not like complexity unfortunately and only prefer the idea of extremism at one end or the other.

    • @geno5169
      @geno5169 5 місяців тому

      I see myself bi! I’m married! I still have sexual thoughts about my past! I’m married and miss my sexual pleasure experience w a guy! My first was with my cousin! Intense gay sex with him! I miss it

  • @maryallison0509
    @maryallison0509 2 роки тому +18

    My son came out to his Dad and I as gay in 2014. We were both really supportive of him. As soon as he got the words out of his mouth he did a HUGE exhale of relief. And all I could do was stand up and hug him. Telling him I loved him. And that nothing changed. He was still my bright eyed kiddo. I was thrilled that he FINALLY felt comfortable accepting who he was. He works as a attorney for people in the LGBTQ+ community who have faced adversity in their jobs and housing. And I started a second career as a counselor to help people with coming out and other struggles they may encounter. I just love what GRINDR is doing for the community. Exposing different people to a community who may not be able to say they have ever seen a person in the LGBTQ+ community. Love what you are doing to showcase that we are all normal. And that we are all just people.

    • @sketchbookessay
      @sketchbookessay 2 роки тому +4

      The world needs more moms like you ❤️

    • @maryallison0509
      @maryallison0509 2 роки тому +4

      @@sketchbookessay
      Thank You so very much. But I’m just doing my job. My children are my life and the kids I come in contact with at work are my bonus kids. I have feed and housed and gotten them jobs and permanent places to live. I would want someone to help my kids if I wasn’t here on earth. So again thank you

    • @Imaniconnie
      @Imaniconnie Рік тому

      😭😍💗💜💙🫂✨😭😍

    • @geno5169
      @geno5169 5 місяців тому

      Our daughter came to us last night! Saying she’s pan! I said it’s ok! I had many gay experiences in my teen! With. My cousin!

    • @geno5169
      @geno5169 5 місяців тому

      You’re a wonderful mom!

  • @breeramsey899
    @breeramsey899 2 роки тому +17

    Bisexual people are valid and yes when do exist. 💖💙💜

  • @IvanValencia-og4xh
    @IvanValencia-og4xh 2 роки тому +7

    Thanks for this vid still figuring it out and Experimenting and being a Bi-Curious George 😂

  • @gilbertherrera9329
    @gilbertherrera9329 2 роки тому +6

    as a bi man, I think my sexual orientation is an open secret to my family. I think that they are aware of who & what I really was. But there's no confrontations at all. The first time my mom talk about it she said she don't believe on gossip that I'm a gay. But as of now, I'm in the right age, I only opened my sexual preferences to my mother. She knew I had boyfriend before. At first she don't agree but maybe, a mother's love persist that even she didn't want me to be a gay, as her son, she learned to embraced my real personality.

  • @chrisjeremy8109
    @chrisjeremy8109 2 роки тому +29

    It has been 4 years since TheNotAdam (RJ) has uploaded on his channel and This is where he appears next 😅👍

    • @learleanatrimmer2892
      @learleanatrimmer2892 2 роки тому +1

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @lumorbenpanaernest8225
      @lumorbenpanaernest8225 2 роки тому

      😩🤪😩📼😩🍬🧃💕

    • @tcfoxdude
      @tcfoxdude 2 роки тому +4

      He admitted cheating many times on Will. And then demanded spousal support.

    • @okayiguess24
      @okayiguess24 2 роки тому +1

      And he still uses the same old jokes

  • @katzicael
    @katzicael Рік тому +5

    As a gay guy, I love bi guys - they have perspective and views I may not necessarily see, especially as an autistic guy.

    • @geno5169
      @geno5169 5 місяців тому

      I got married! because I couldn’t find anymore guys! I had some intense experiences w someone close to me! I’m married now i still think about my past experiences! I actually think w trying something with a guy in a public restroom!

  • @matosair
    @matosair 2 роки тому +8

    I almost cried watching it. Thx 4 ur testimonials, guys 😘😘😘😘👍🏻

  • @xXxXkuramaxXx
    @xXxXkuramaxXx 2 роки тому +6

    I identify as a Caramel iced coffee. And everybody wants a sip.

    • @augusts1
      @augusts1 2 роки тому +3

      LOL. Go on w/your tasty self!

    • @tjzambonischwartz
      @tjzambonischwartz Місяць тому

      Perhaps the most stereotypically bisexual beverage choice possible.

  • @LeChapeauMusic
    @LeChapeauMusic 2 роки тому +14

    Well I can relate to all of these!

  • @marlonfortuito4190
    @marlonfortuito4190 2 роки тому +2

    They are VERY straightforward on their answers. Me im dead to realiuzed who i am most specifically on public. Love u guys

  • @FilmSureelist97
    @FilmSureelist97 2 роки тому +4

    I love this. Bisexuals in the community are so swept under the rug.

  • @Chihiro_eilish
    @Chihiro_eilish 2 роки тому +6

    Love You Grindr

  • @ontariofirs7347
    @ontariofirs7347 2 роки тому +5

    Im a gay guy and I hate bi-erasure. I would date a bi guy if we ever click.

    • @samsca8529
      @samsca8529 2 роки тому

      You’re awesome

    • @SamuelSamuelSamuel1
      @SamuelSamuelSamuel1 Рік тому

      Same, And it kinda weirds me out how that’s seen as special that we would. 😭

  • @jeffersonlam2969
    @jeffersonlam2969 2 роки тому +6

    Never thought I'd see Grindr lifting up bi voices!

  • @rosefox4245
    @rosefox4245 2 роки тому +2

    RJ's yt series of Ask A Bi Guy helped me so much when I was figuring things out and it's so so cool to see him thriving

    • @tcfoxdude
      @tcfoxdude 2 роки тому

      He admitted cheating on Will multiple times and then wanted spousal support.

  • @Strangedisciple
    @Strangedisciple Рік тому +3

    Been Openly Bi since... 2019. It's been interesting to say the least! Love all you my Bi Brothers & Sisters! As well as everyone in between & other, I love all who come from Earth our Mother. Have a good day! 💚

    • @geno5169
      @geno5169 5 місяців тому

      I too see myself bi- I’m married because I couldn’t find any guys! I had some intense experiences with a close relative!

  • @SIDI0USz0MBIE
    @SIDI0USz0MBIE 2 роки тому +7

    Us bi guys get shitted on. Im happy to see this video 💗💜💙

  • @mjl7214
    @mjl7214 2 роки тому +13

    Please do more bi/pan videos!! This exposure means so much to so many of us.

  • @augusts1
    @augusts1 2 роки тому +7

    OMG, I love Keita. He's so adorable.

  • @Furihando
    @Furihando 2 роки тому +3

    I'm a bisexual (trans)man married to a (one of those cool) straight cis woman. We are monogamous and I'm still bi. I admit that it is often easier to be seen as a "normal" hetero cis man now. But that doesn't mean I will not stay or fight with my community when needed. Still have my queer and straight friends. I lived and experienced every possible combination from being seen as a lesbian woman to a gay man. I always was bisexual. Who we end up with is no choice.

  • @Saiyan_Steph
    @Saiyan_Steph 2 роки тому +1

    I came out as bi to my family and friends last year when I was 21 and I found out I was bi when I started high school at 13 when I understood my feeling more and my family and friends are super supportive.

  • @ggukspigtails2211
    @ggukspigtails2211 2 роки тому +6

    AHHH the BIs finally!!!

  • @lilyh1470
    @lilyh1470 2 роки тому +1

    As a bi woman, I have never related so much to 4 guys before. Thank you for you visibility.🤧🤧💙

  • @travissmith-fox9892
    @travissmith-fox9892 2 роки тому +2

    Being bi makes me feel so confused sometimes, one day I want chicks & other days I want guys... And my gay friends don't understand and the 1or2 straight friends I told or found out don't either lol

  • @thelastdaybreathinginetern1385
    @thelastdaybreathinginetern1385 2 роки тому +3

    I'm not bi, I'm a feminine gay goth and metalhead guy, but I found this video interesting.

  • @OutOfMarbles127
    @OutOfMarbles127 2 роки тому +2

    Not RJ putting on his trade voice 😆

  • @xoduispurger5206
    @xoduispurger5206 2 роки тому +2

    wow havent seen rj on youtube in long time.im a bisexual male that just got married to wonderful women.

    • @geno5169
      @geno5169 5 місяців тому

      I too see myself bi/ I had first experience with my cousin! It was intense! I couldn’t find anymore guys so I got married! I still think about past! I miss those days! Those moments

  • @kingkeemtv8532
    @kingkeemtv8532 2 роки тому +3

    I am bi,but I feel like if girls know that they wouldn’t date me….

  • @COMPFUNK2
    @COMPFUNK2 2 роки тому +6

    As a 40-year-old male who likes women but doesn’t like labels (for myself), I am glad to see this. I knew something was different about myself when I was 11 but I wasn’t comfortable saying it out loud until I was, uh…39. 😶

  • @ritstandog7815
    @ritstandog7815 2 роки тому +5

    Love you all my bi people out there!!

  • @alecmcleod1004
    @alecmcleod1004 5 місяців тому

    thanks for the help!

  • @emilcph
    @emilcph 2 роки тому +4

    The guy in colourful shirt is so annoying! 🙄

    • @tcfoxdude
      @tcfoxdude 2 роки тому +2

      If only you knew how he treated his ex-husband, Will. Cheated on him many times. And then wanted spousal support after he got dumped.

  • @NavonodTV
    @NavonodTV 2 роки тому +5

    As a bi man, does anyone else have days or weeks where they’re more attracted to a women or men

    • @ahmedzone7022
      @ahmedzone7022 2 роки тому +1

      You need help

    • @samsca8529
      @samsca8529 2 роки тому +1

      @@ahmedzone7022 Lmao how? He’s just being honest about his attractions and how they work. Tf?

    • @samsca8529
      @samsca8529 2 роки тому

      Yes.

    • @ksstwiggs6746
      @ksstwiggs6746 Рік тому

      Yep!

    • @bendemare5270
      @bendemare5270 Рік тому

      it's called a bi-cycle . We make plenty of memes with that part of our experience

  • @kasnarfburns210
    @kasnarfburns210 2 роки тому +1

    This reminds me of an OLD episode of the OLD Ricki Lake show. Both the host, Ricki Lake, AND much of the audience were scolding various guests for having it BOTH ways. So they had a dating game where each bi guest went on separate dates with a man and separately with a woman. And they had to decide WHICH they prefer. Imagine!!

  • @kasnarfburns210
    @kasnarfburns210 2 роки тому +1

    I've come back to this video. I would think the second guy might have a difficulty convincing people - at least upon first meeting him -- that he's NOT simply gay....LOL. This reminds me when I first learned synesthesia was - that what to many are distinct and separate senses might be blended in some people. We're all biological. There are NO fast and simple rules to organisms much less human beings. And the beliefs we harbor are so often just prejudice that we've acquired from the culture.

  • @tanujgarg792
    @tanujgarg792 2 роки тому +2

    He realised it when he was at the store and checking the husband but then also his wife. And not because they looked together.

    • @geno5169
      @geno5169 5 місяців тому

      I do that in public! I wish I could have that experience in public! Even though I’m married

  • @alex.d.08
    @alex.d.08 3 місяці тому

    thank you for this video! I totally agree with you!

  • @rymanjones3
    @rymanjones3 2 роки тому +3

    all of these men are just ✨✨✨

  • @bloodytemptation6951
    @bloodytemptation6951 2 роки тому +1

    as a bi man i agree and my fam still dont know only a couple of my cousins do

  • @elitettelbach4247
    @elitettelbach4247 2 роки тому +1

    Omg I used to watch RJ all the time! He was probably one of the first online personas I encountered that was talking about bisexuality. Haven’t see him in years though. Shoutout to my fellow bi guys 💖💜💙

    • @tcfoxdude
      @tcfoxdude 2 роки тому +1

      He admitted cheating on Will multiple times.

    • @michealaleck6164
      @michealaleck6164 2 роки тому +1

      Hey buddy ❤️

  • @francotomatillo
    @francotomatillo 2 роки тому +3

    Huzzah bisexual representation! Also, hey it’s RJ!

  • @gla8213
    @gla8213 2 роки тому +8

    I love bi men

  • @lingeringquestions519
    @lingeringquestions519 2 роки тому

    This is long and I have ended up, even just offline, talking about this way more than I ever thought I would be. As a kid, I just lived with this reality that we, kids, had to be afraid of not growing up to be the sexuality and gender identity that the most people wanted, including families, and it made me afraid to have children as a kid. I'm still afraid to have children, not be enough, and then not be able to make the world as safe. I have other fears too, but I actually wondered about this at such a young age. And then pre-marital sex and other things that were once seen as sinful, and sometimes still are, were sympathized with way more.
    I feel bad when anyone mentions that being around Christians was and is hard for their experience and for me being apart of the system. As a kid (Connecticut, late 90s, early 2000s), and I've been told I was nice, like by someone who came out and we had these talks about her worrying a witch (and adult who called her gay in a bad way, and this would have been before age thirteen) made her gay. I, and others said it was a sin, but not to be mean, and some to be mean.
    Some of us got shocked out of that a few times until it stuck to a point of me learning about inclusive interpretations and hoping in that. I get scared, learn, pray, look at how hateful and destructive the extreme side is, the hypocrisy, and I do it over. I've had flash backs to being around scary people. I'm straight/cis and even I have trauma.
    Some people socially hated it, even in the fifth grade, and were out to get people, they outed people, they made their lives miserable, even if they only suspected and there was a nonChristian side to this. I didn't try to out anyone on purpose or hurt anyone, but I wish I had the understanding I have now. I also just thought sexuality happened to people, until one of my friends worried a witch had done something, but we dropped that theory pretty fast. I did wonder if sexuality could change, but I didn't think praying it away would do it, just that it randomly happened.

    • @lingeringquestions519
      @lingeringquestions519 2 роки тому

      I grew up in a United Church of Christ church. It's a progressive denomination, although each church and person will vary, and there is reform based on different arguments about what certain Bible passages really mean. We have openly LGBT+ pastors, same-sex marriage. Churches vote to become Open and Affirming, although not having that label doesn't always mean unaccepting. My church, before we got the label, had a gay man as a pastor who married a man in another church.
      My parents and grandma were from generations that were constantly told LGBT+ people were sinful, but we all stayed at the church and they recognized him as the pastor. All of them at one point, and my grandma has since died, showed signs of understanding for gay people and, my parents, more my mom, talked about this more, transgender people. I think this would go for nonbinary people.
      I learn a little about my denomination being accepting when I was like fourteen and fifteen and then more when I was eighteen or nineteen, throughout my early twenties, even now at twenty-eight. There are still too many Christians of any sexuality or gender identity, like straight, cis, closeted, out with restrictions (some of these people are nice), liars who say they got changed, who make it hard for LGBT+ people.

    • @lingeringquestions519
      @lingeringquestions519 2 роки тому

      I will always get having fears about what Bible passages mean and what God would want, but not what was and is still done to bisexual people or anyone else in the LGBT+ community. Even if you look to Leviticus and say the entire thing means that being gay is bad, or anything for how to dress and transgender and nonbinary people, Jesus stopped death penalties, so hate crimes are clearly wrong. Also, I'm sick of hearing really awful theories, mean smiley speeches, when not many other people get it this bad, and false promises.
      The way people have weaponized Christianity is a big part of why LGBT+ people have it hard, although not the only reason, but I blame even myself and struggle with that. I've been told not to feel bad, but I can't always make people feel safe right away or at all (you can't be someone's community and I'm very much not into even sharing about me and guys) and my past, even my childhood, is my past.

    • @lingeringquestions519
      @lingeringquestions519 2 роки тому

      Some other people go hard, even outside of Abrahamic religions, but I don't know how LGBT+ people in those groups feel and some people don't think certain non-Abrahamic religions have to see homophobia, transphobia, or any other anti-LGBT+ feelings as sinful. I've heard people from some non-Abrahamic religions have seen it as bad, like some Sikhs don't think they can have same-sex marriage, but I don't know what this feels like versus being anything in the LGBT+ community in different sections of Christianity.
      I've even seen people bust out their view of science to hate or belittle same-sex couples and people that can be in them, like I was told by someone science proved Lesbianism is bad once.

  • @danssaddimple9133
    @danssaddimple9133 2 роки тому +3

    sending a big virtul hug to all bisexual men! i'm a bi woman myself dating the most wonderful guy who also happens to be bi 💖💜💙

    • @bendemare5270
      @bendemare5270 Рік тому

      💖💜💙🏳️‍⚧️ thank you

  • @greyboyer9329
    @greyboyer9329 2 роки тому

    Not the underwear aisle. Bless that aisle😂😂😂😂

  • @TheCerebralMirage
    @TheCerebralMirage 2 роки тому +3

    Constantly coming out... its always a struggle to convince gay men that I'm into women and women in into men. Going to gay bars is usually difficult and there's always a big explanation needed on having a different gendered ex.
    Beyond this. Gay men big assumptions about what sexual position you're gonna be. It's hugely loaded in the LGBT community to bi.
    Bisexual men experience the most IPV of all men. Bisexual women experience the most IPV of all women.
    Folks don't understand us, and we suffer from violence for it.

    • @samsca8529
      @samsca8529 Рік тому

      @Mark Keller Dude what is your problem lmao

    • @samsca8529
      @samsca8529 Рік тому

      @Mark Keller Dude wtf lmao why am I even arguing with someone so bigoted rn that’s really fucked up, you should be ashamed.

  • @tomtomtupaz686
    @tomtomtupaz686 2 роки тому +1

    As a Bisexual, I agree with you guys.. Can I have special someone there ✌😅😅😘

  • @ChefAndreMaxwell
    @ChefAndreMaxwell 2 роки тому +3

    I'm gay. But I love my Bisexual people! #gay #love #truth #CHEFANDREMAXWELL

  • @sarahock6146
    @sarahock6146 Рік тому +1

    I'm bisexual too, yay representation! It's truly sad how biphobic other LGBTQ+ can be sometimes. You'd think they would understand discrimination sucks already.

  • @geno5169
    @geno5169 5 місяців тому

    I feel confused too! I’m married but think about my gay experiences ! I’m with my wife! Think about meeting a guy in public like a bathroom!

  • @Salsero12
    @Salsero12 2 роки тому +5

    "all you can eat buffet"? Some people I swear. Glad I'm a demisexual and hope someday you decide to speak on us... Although I'm sure it's not popular on Grindr 🤣

  • @geno5169
    @geno5169 5 місяців тому

    Our daughter just came out during dinner last night night! Saying I’m pan! I’ve been feeling more gay thoughts even though I’m a married man! Am I bad thinking these feelings??

  • @lorennclaireee
    @lorennclaireee 2 роки тому +3

    Ahhh I love RJ!

  • @oscardaone
    @oscardaone 2 роки тому +1

    Something about Bi guys seem appealing to me or maybe it’s roots itself “crushing on a straight guy” mentality I had back when I was a teen. I find them more attractive more than gays.

    • @AW-zv2to
      @AW-zv2to 2 роки тому +1

      It’s natural, gay men were exposed to more prenatal estrogen so bi men are more masculine

    • @samsca8529
      @samsca8529 2 роки тому

      @@AW-zv2to This is a dumb homophobic and pseudo scientific thing to say. Gay men are not inherently any more feminine for liking other men.

    • @bendemare5270
      @bendemare5270 Рік тому

      wtf

  • @bishbosh4815
    @bishbosh4815 2 роки тому +6

    This is probably just a stereotype, but what... not bothers but, idk, it's just the fact that there is such an over emphasis in the gay/bi community, hell the whole LGBT community, on being flamboyant and feminine. How can many gay/bi men have the "gay voice", and hey maybe it's just their accent, but there are definitely characteristics that are often associated with "queer" men such as voice and fashion and appearance and overall flamboyant personality that I don't connect with. I'm a bi guy, but I just feel like a straight guy that likes guys too, I didnt have to change who I am or fit into a stereotype or change my clothes or appearance or my voice to announce to the world "I'm bi and proud!" And I'd like to feel like I'm not the only bi guy like that.
    Now I'm not saying there's anything wrong with these guys or any other G/B men, everyone should be comfortable with who they are and be themselves, I mean two of em have beards so they still have masculinity, I just wish that so much of G/B in the media was so saturated with femininity, ostentatiousness and queerness. I just dont want all G/B to feel like they have to be like that and that's what "normal" G/B men should be like. Dont be afraid to be masculine AND gay/bi!

    • @nicolasmeola
      @nicolasmeola 2 роки тому

      I definitely hear what you're saying about lack of representation in the media for queer men who are "straight passing." I also think that traditional senses of "masc" and "femme" are becoming antiquated - after all, these terms have no solid meaning other than what society ascribes to them. I don't see four men who are changing how they present themselves in order to announce their sexuality, I see four men who have found comfort in their differences and no longer wish to hide them. I think this also brings up an interesting point; do "straight passing" queer men benefit from straight privilege? Perhaps it's giving away this privilege that prevents queer men from seeking comfort in their more "femme" traits. Food for thought!

    • @bishbosh4815
      @bishbosh4815 2 роки тому

      @@nicolasmeola yeah I'm not saying they are at all, I'm just saying this how how gay/bi men are often represented in media, they find men like this to be the voice of the gay/bi community

    • @bishbosh4815
      @bishbosh4815 2 роки тому

      @@nicolasmeola maybe its just my preferences to "straight acting" men

    • @samsca8529
      @samsca8529 Рік тому

      I think the problem is you assume these men are putting on a show, or are forced to act a certain way, once they come out, when they are really just being their true selves. That being said, I do understand the feeling that a lot of queer men in media are always presented as fem and that gay culture often times feels a lot more fem than you are and like you have to adapt to be a part of it. I get that. There definitely are spaces were it’s not like that and where there are bisexual and gay men like you, and there are celebrities who are bi and gay men who are more masc as well, you just have to know how to find them. Also, I don’t know your situation, but getting more gay/bi male friends and meeting more gay and bi men in real life will help you realize how different we are, and how we are varied and don’t all fit under the same umbrella.

  • @andyprice
    @andyprice 2 роки тому +2

    I wouldn't mind some of Nick!

  • @andi_wyldlander
    @andi_wyldlander 2 роки тому +3

    Why do the gays give us bisexual suck a hard time about it. I thought I’d get love, support, and celebration.

    • @AW-zv2to
      @AW-zv2to 2 роки тому +3

      A lot of us have had bad experiences with Bi men only seeing us as easy sex while in between relationships with women, and not viewing us as viable relationship options. Gay men myself included fall in love easily when someone expresses interest in us since our dating pool is so sparse. In my experience it was a different kind of hurt to know that I was nothing to him while he meant everything to me. I know all Bi men aren’t like this but it’s hard not to generalize especially since it’s human nature.

    • @AW-zv2to
      @AW-zv2to 2 роки тому

      to know that If I was a woman he would’ve loved me, and i’d have been able to give him normal sex, societal acceptance, and children. But i’ll never be able to give him any of those things and that’s why i’m nothing to him.

    • @samsca8529
      @samsca8529 Рік тому +2

      @@AW-zv2to It’s crazy how y’all hook up with dl closeted married bi dudes for fun, get your hearts broken, and then refuse to date openly bi men who are clearly not the same type of dude.

  • @Corey.Laundon
    @Corey.Laundon Місяць тому

    As a bi sexual man i have a question is it okay that i always want to be a top and never bottom is that okay?

    • @Corey.Laundon
      @Corey.Laundon Місяць тому

      And is anyone single up for a date.

  • @geno5169
    @geno5169 5 місяців тому

    I see myself bi/but I’m married ! I miss it!

  • @endangeredmexican9644
    @endangeredmexican9644 Рік тому

    Straight but I'm here just to try to get rid of the uncomfortable feeling I get around lgbtq ppl

  • @juan90s81
    @juan90s81 2 роки тому

    I am myself. I don't agree with labels. The same community who has advocated to the lgbtq community has stigmatized others to a point of feeling uncomfortable.

  • @zachalejandro
    @zachalejandro 2 роки тому +2

    I wish all people could still just respect people’s lives. If people want others come out, let them. Especially with parents who have gave birth to you! My grandparents knew and they were kinda okay/don’t care about it. Why do parents have to actually throw questions or this or that. I didn’t actually tell my mom yet. She always into God though. But I still want to just know if God actually loves all regardless of sexual relationships/orientations. Something tells me, is God/Jesus himself gay or bi? I will never know. I don’t know because I can’t really communicate with God. However what I do know is, you should live your life the way you want. Because you only have one life on Earth

    • @rossresley660
      @rossresley660 2 роки тому

      Zachary:
      A) you can communicate with God. He’s more accessible than anyone on earth, or heaven.
      B) God is both male and female. Both were created in his/her image, so lgbtq is the Norm.
      Also, fuck the patriarchy and all the historical damage it’s caused.

  • @geno5169
    @geno5169 5 місяців тому

    It’s crazy I’m married to my wife! But wish I had that experience again with a guy! Am I bad?

  • @Dustemikkeltullekopp
    @Dustemikkeltullekopp 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you

  • @tarrigonhawkins
    @tarrigonhawkins 2 роки тому +4

    I think you could have picked a better spokes-person for your brand than RJ Aguilar. He openly admitted to being abusive to his ex-husband.

  • @lumiao1685
    @lumiao1685 9 місяців тому

    Coming from a bi woman - I love how gay they all are 😍

  • @caliken10
    @caliken10 2 роки тому +2

    Can we see these guys on a regular basis like the old gays?

  • @eternalbliss624
    @eternalbliss624 Рік тому

    Dont you guys hate it when you come out as bi but your friends think they can "pull you" or just decide to do only gay jokes from that point forward? I hope I'm not the only that has that problem 🤣🤣

  • @mxikru
    @mxikru 4 місяці тому

    Bro imma straight cis female and I’m taking rj & nick 💋🙏

  • @amyb0621
    @amyb0621 2 місяці тому

    RJ is the love of my life

  • @alexbarclay6597
    @alexbarclay6597 2 роки тому +3

    Thank you guys for this honest video

  • @DaddyOfTheSugarVariety
    @DaddyOfTheSugarVariety 2 роки тому +6

    I came out as bi hoping I would find a girl(I was confused) so I wouldn't have to deal with the gay feelings but eventually came out as gay.

    • @d.o.m.i.
      @d.o.m.i. 2 роки тому +7

      that's normal, and I'm glad you found yourself eventually. i'm just hoping you're just sharing your story and not trying to make a bigger point about bi men

    • @DaddyOfTheSugarVariety
      @DaddyOfTheSugarVariety 2 роки тому +2

      @@d.o.m.i. No, just sharing my story.

    • @d.o.m.i.
      @d.o.m.i. 2 роки тому +1

      @@DaddyOfTheSugarVariety great :D

    • @benjaminreyes3624
      @benjaminreyes3624 2 роки тому

      I said I was bi in highschool to soften the societal blow black but I knew I didn't want to date women at all. So then I came out as gay.

    • @DaddyOfTheSugarVariety
      @DaddyOfTheSugarVariety 2 роки тому +1

      @@benjaminreyes3624 I did crush on girls, but I didn't grow up with any gay influence. Because I'm male, I thought my attraction to men was wrong & unnatural.
      Even the church I went to never brought of homosexuality & yet I still tried to pray the gay away.
      I fooled around with a girl once & it just felt wrong.

  • @southernhippie9058
    @southernhippie9058 2 роки тому

    Coming out is not easy at any age. Especially coming out for a second time as a grandmother. No one in the family was mean about it but more of why at your age?

  • @nicolejones1579
    @nicolejones1579 3 місяці тому

    I just can’t see Nick being bi I think he lying.

  • @camecex
    @camecex 2 роки тому +1

    Keita is my snack

  • @geno5169
    @geno5169 5 місяців тому

    I guess I’am bi/ but I’m married to a beautiful woman! I had my first gay experience with my cousin! It was intense! Then my fry! My cousin moved! I got married! I wasn’t able to find anyone !so I got married! Yes I still have my fantasy about meeting a guy in a public bathroom! I wonder how my experience would be in a public bedroom! I still think about mt past experience! I actually miss that sexual experience with a guy! How do you find someone?

  • @ItalianoOrg
    @ItalianoOrg 2 роки тому +2

    As bi male, love it

  • @milesn6945
    @milesn6945 2 роки тому +2

    proud & Bi 💜💙💖