Bi-curious straight guy? L😂L Contradiction in terms within an oxymoron with in a contradiction in terms. Bi-curious straight guy is not a word or an orientation. It’s a made-up, euphemism, confused, closeted homosexual/bisexual people use.
That poor straight man was so confused 😂 I like to imagine him supposed to be be in a “do Christian’s and conservative Christian’s think the same” video and just got in the wrong line up 💀
This video was so much fun to film and even more to watch. Loved meeting all of these guys, so sweet. Brian thank you again for the opportunity, I love being in these style of videos. So many different aspects of life! I always walk away learning a new perspective & making a new friend ❤
Very cool u do such Really though there is so many positions man let's not limit people to top and bottom when theres sides to at leastthat and some have less choice as to what they are
Bottoms getting less respect can be associated with patriarchal views. Women in hetero relationships can be considered "submissive" and "less than" the man, and this has impacted queer sx as well.
I love how they were all trying to help the one guy figure out his life in the middle of the video. At first I thought when he said "she" it was just a language barrier because in chinese the main pronouns used are neutral when you're talking about other people but clearly not lol. That poor straight/bi/etc. guy lol.
It annoys me deeply that people associate bottoming to being submissive or being feminine. I am actually a very masculine man and a bit dominant but I love to bottom.
Hate to break it to you but it's submissive by default. It's a feminine attribute by default. It's like you trying to argue that you can be manly while playing with dolls or wearing a dress. Yes, you can in theory, but it's still a feminine submission.
@user-js6yq4hr1n I feel disrespected by DL guys. They are so one sided and usually only care about getting there rocks off only. Oh yeah and they go to great lengths to hide whenever you get together with them. I mean they take caution when meeting you that no one sees them when they're with you. I hate that most of all. I'm grown and I hide from no one.
@@DasslerJimenez you are the guy in the green polo shirt and brown cargo pants? If so it just looks like there is grey hair on the sides and in the back and on top is this brown hair that doesn’t really match and is just sitting there.
As a power bottom, I WILL DOMINATE ANY TOP I COME ACROSS. I might go up and down like a seesaw, but my arse is an absolute c*ckgobbler. I am the daddy of the situation. And yet, I’m feminine. Big and burly, but femme. Full black makeup.
I’m a power bottom. I am the dominator, and I am a big transman bloke, yet I’m still femme as f_ck in my makeup and attire. Don’t go about thinking femme means pushover/submissive, honey, cause that’s not just misogynistic, but it also perpetuates yet another stereotype. And top doesn’t mean in charge, neither. Going “up and down like a seesaw” to quote Cupcakke on a top’s lap or even being the bent over bloke, one can still be dominating. It’s a matter of respect. We hold that which they wish for. That is power.
Omg i laughed my heart out!! Thank you guys you were vere eloquent, natural, honest and genuine. I really loved to Venezuelan man who admitted the féminine attitudes with gay friends because thats so true! As a masculine bottom i have to say it is sometimes difficult to really assuming my preference as if being submissive was taking away my masculinity.
I find it interesting that the guys that believe they weren't born gay told stories that suggest the complete opposite lol For ex, It sounds like Israel realized he didn't like girls once he became more in tune with himself and was confronted by other guys that probably sensed that in him. It's not as if those guys that hit on him changed his attraction to women. Rather, he was forced to look inward and realized he wasn't attracted to women the way he initially assumed he was due to being indoctrinated to believe so. Just because you come to that realization later than others doesn't automatically suggest you were "nurtured" to be gay. But to each his own.
as time goes by and i feel more comfortable with myself in every single way, the more vers i become. nowadays i honestly can't tell which position i like the most cuz i love them both, in different ways obviously, but just as intensely. i feel that it is such a pity that so many gay men limit themselves to only one position, you guys really missing half of the fun! i say this when i used to believe you either were a top or a bottom in the past, but right now i'm pretty convinced that as long as you find the right man, you can definitely enjoy both positions just as much. but of course this only my experience. pd: but i do believe that bottoms deserve more credit as they have a tougher work to do, while tops just be chilling haha :)
Thanks for this video! I’d love to see this video become a series because it’s enlightening to non-gay people just how diverse gay experiences are. Thanks Brian! Also, I’d like to see a video that focuses on sexual repression, as in, that last question can branch out and make a whole episode on its own (prompts about parents, prompts about gay views on spirituality (like: “why do gays think god made us this way?” , and also speaking to how various religious upbringings affected how we see ourselves. what it means to be gay, having guys examine at what age they became aware of their gayness, what men have done to resist their gayness). As a trans woman who has struggled with ‘am I really trans, or am I just a gay man? is transness actually on the same spectrum as gay?’ I’d love to hear what others think about it.
Nothing could have been better than finding out halfway through that one of the guys cast for the video had no idea what the questions he was answering meant and was just going with the flow. He pumped up the entertainment value for sure!
There's a lot of pressure on tops though to perform like a porn star. We can't fake it. And the moment we aren't rock hard the bottom is immediately asking questions... "is he not attracted to me? Does he have ED? He just sucks, so I'm not giving him a second chance." I get performance anxiety, especially when I'm not super comfortable with someone, but I'm never super comfortable at the begining, so this is all a source of stress for me as a top.
No, that's just for people who like to imitate porn. That's nonsense. If you are not super comfortable, and don't dear to say it, than your only problem is to say "no thank you". If you are not so sporty, you lay down and somebody sits on you. You still are the top, even when not on top. OF course one can just be physicly exhausted. 3rd time a day I'm also not "performing" that well any more. Or then I'm on diet and haven't eaten enough. But if you know the reason, you don't worry, you don't develop anxiety.
1:05 to be fair, you can be truly in love with someone and communicate that you do like switching, and then you can openly switch, or stay one way for a long time, like being truly in love with eachother, will allow you to comunicate all this. im a straight guy, and ive been with my girlfriend for +9 years (and im 24) and for most of the beginning of the relationship, i was primarily dominant, i was "big strong man", but as we got to know eachother and opened up more, and communicate properly, I am still mostly dominant and "masculine". but she knows that occasionally I enjoy when she's a lil dommy mommy xd so yea, its all about communication, acceptance and understanding your partners side.
The second season of INTERVIEW WITH THE VAMPIRE just started. I truly hope we will get even more seasons, the story is just amazing. People b*tch about how there is nothing new and good to watch, but when studios and artists finally deliver, barely anyone is spreading the word. That's why we need to encourage them more, so they will experiment more!
I'm a gay man (don't mind the avatar) and I have never felt more disconnected from a discourse ever. I don't understand why anal sex has to be the default option when all the whole "community" talks about is rejecting heteronormativity.
Common if you don't identify as an anal person that's fine but you don't need to shame the vast majority of gays that are practicing anal sex. Sometimes, you minorities are really looking for reasons to cringe.
@@jckholmes9194 I just find it weird how identifying as a top or bottom is an important distinction but then they get offended when straight people ask “so which one of you is the woman” and reply with “neither of us is the woman, that’s why we’re gay, you just don’t get it *insert eyeroll*”
@@theSupercasa It makes sense to get offended by something like that because your preference in sexual position does not define your gender. In the "gay man" sentence, there are two things: sexual orientation (gay) and gender (man). There is no woman in a two-gay man couple. Not that being called a woman should be offensive. The offense is the implication behind the affirmation. It implies homophobia and sexism, implying men who bottom are "lesser than men" - which also implies women are lesser than men, thus sexism. This affirmation is also prejudiced because it implies that, in straight sex, the woman is always the one receiving and the man always the one giving - which, although it's mostly true, isn't absolute. There are straight men who want to get bottomed by women, and there are women who want to top men. They exist. lol So, I believe this was an unfortunate example to defend your point of view. That aside, I agree with you that there is much more to sex than penetration itself. To many people, it isn't necessary at all. But to others, it is a vital factor, and that's why the top/bottom/vers labels exist. It is valid, nonetheless, even if you don't identify with it.
@@jaytops taller men automatically assert dominance, power, control and authority. I wouldn’t take lil man seriously as a top. Then again, Im a top and 6’3. Don’t get me wrong; I don’t mind shorter men, but he’s REALLY short. To each their own…I suppose.
I LOVE this format and I love videos like this. Such an awesome way to hear from many different people. Please, if you want to give *your* opinions in the video as a producer, please stand among the people in the video. When you give your opinions from behind the camera like I've seen in other videos, I feel like you're telling them all what they're supposed to think instead of being a true unbiased mediator of the experiment/conversation/video. If I were there I wouldn't feel comfortable to share what I *really* want to if the people producing the video behind the camera are basically telling me what they want me to say.
A big reason why jubilee has been so successful with these videos is because they're very good at being neutral and not influencing their participants in the videos, so that those people feel comfortable enough to share what becomes the most *juicy* sound bits.
Bottom deserved more appreciation for me . Respect should be given for both top and bottom equally. But being bottom is hard . As a bottom I experienced this alot but at the same time I cant stop
The point that the guys were making for nurture in the nature vs nurture debate is actually counterintuitive if you really think about it. They were overtly taught to be a certain way from a very young age which had a huge impact on their early lives up until they realised their nature later on in life. Had they been left alone to figure out the world and themselves when they were younger, they might have also realised their same sex attraction sooner. So exposure didn't turn them gay, exposure just unlocked what they already were, and were conditioned to not recognise earlier in life.
The case with my guy and me is special: He is 100% top and I am 100% bottom. We don't think or behave the same. Our partnership has been going on for ten and a half years now.
First question is kinda silly... like you can have fantastic sex as two strict tops or two strict bottoms, or switch positions from time to time. In sex you should find sth both of you like. A top forcing themselves to bottom for someone is not how a healthy relationship is built
My BF and I got together in June of COVID. It is what put us together. Both bottoms. We do what we need to do in the bedroom as everything else is perfect. We went from bottoms to bottom-verse. We take care of each others needs and share. It can work if you're willing. If everything else is checked off and you're not willing to share in the bedroom once in a while? That's selfish and you're probably the type that says they can't find their special person. Self-sabotage.
I read too many Korean webtoons and Japanese mangas, my brain is scrambled. This video is so amazing, I can't ask my gay friends these things. They already feel fetishized by us women, that's why I don't want to push their boundaries. Thank you, gentlemen!!!
I like to see each person’s individual style. I get to know each person a bit during the duration of each video, so I don’t need the participants to wear color-coded clothing
@@oyoyoyo7624 that's fair, i myself dont pay as much attention to their style compared to what they say, sometimes only listen to the audio, I guess arm bands or something more minor could do the trick
@@keepcalmanddie This is a questionnaire game. Question asked "are you attracted by masculine men", people separate in groups, walk apart. Next question, people form other groups, depending on the next question, and so on. Yes OK, by colors for tops and bottoms it would be easier to see, if grouping for this, corresponds to grouping by the current question.
My partner and I are completely in love with one another and our position titles melt away with each other. Traditionally I’m top and he’s bottom but we have so much chemistry that we change all the time and we love both positions. When u meet ur soul mate u truly can give up everything for him! If he got sick and couldn’t be intimate anymore I would be completely content with just having him with me and wouldn’t need sex with anyone else.
Sex is power, indeed. What I see is that being a bottom is culturally default of a submissive position because of the pure physiological definition of penetration, whereas subjectively it can be interpreted as something powerful since the bottom has the access to what the top wants, the access to pleasure. Aside from that, I think what the tall black dude said was equally interesting... depending on a dude's nature, being a top can be seen more as a pleasure-giving experience than a subjection-to-submission kind of thing, and that is power as well. It really is quite relative.
To me that bottom power thing reminds of a Chihuahua or Napoleon type complex. That physical size translates more social presence or political power. That isn't the case at all in my experience with humans and working with animals. Some of the largest people or animals can be the biggest babies and be so shy they barely exude any of said characteristics at all. Whereas some of the shortest people, smallest animals, or animals that are most unassuming, have more gravitas than beings thrice their size.
I was definitely born gay. I hit the gay jackpot because my mom's best friend's child was gay. So we did a lot of things together for the first time. We even continued our relationship until he died a few years ago in a car accident.
As a healthcare provider, and a prominate bottom I might have a partial view, but I am troubled when people are surprised by the existence of "residue" after being in certain places where "residue" is sometimes present.That type of bottom shamming is what I have a problem with. It is crucial to acknowledge and comprehend the possible consequences of any intimate interaction, particularly in terms of readiness and communication between partners.
Please remember that this is more so a view from a guy and his friend group more than a pov of all gay men. The views on masc men is very interesting to me when all of these gay men could be viewed as "fem" in a different setting. I think we need to focus more on breaking hetero norms than enforcing them because that's all this masc vs fem argument does. News flash fellas, you're all f****** at the end of the day 🤷🏿. I say that as the same, for you softies. Also, this convo is damaging to our youth. The masc vs fem argument is just a reaffirmation to our more Feminine brothers that there is something wrong with the who they are when there is in fact nothing wrong or less desirable about fem gay men(this is coming from a non fem gay man).
Bless the “straight” dude’s heart. He was so confused…about everything.🤦🏽♂️🤣
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Hes bi for sure...
Never figured who was who lol.
The straight guy, i can't 🤣
HOW DID YOU ACCIDENTALLY BRING A STRAIGHT GUY LMAOOO
wait wuuuuuut ??
@@Vzaj- 10:01 girlllll
@@Vzaj-tbh I probably shouldn’t have said gay bc he’s probably bi but idk. But hi!
I don’t know I felt like there was some kind of language barrier a little bit 😢
Just what I came here to say!!!!!lmaooooo
Lmfao that poor man was so lost. Thank you all for being so kind. Gays can be mean 😂
haha I'm glad everyone was a good sport about it.
Yeah I was going to say. I don't think he fully understood what was going on.
I'm nice 😌 only mean if someone gets mean first.
Now that label of "Bottom?" in the vid makes sense
@@levistokes3960 He thought top and bottom meant if you were on the bottom and the person was on top of you lmao, so funny.
The orange guy is when you’re not qualified for the job but apply anyway 😭
Very that!!! LOL
Lmfao
Reals 😂😂
That was so funny I loved it lol
And a big thankyou to undercover bi-curious straight guy! This became a HOLE other video for a moment there 😂
😂
Bi-curious straight guy? L😂L Contradiction in terms within an oxymoron with in a contradiction in terms.
Bi-curious straight guy is not a word or an orientation. It’s a made-up, euphemism, confused, closeted homosexual/bisexual people use.
What?
Not there being a straight man in here for half the video LMAO
Lmbooo right... sir are u lost or just that curious ..lol.. he was funny though😂😂😂
The older guy was the best. He is genuinly living his best life
Thank you, I am the older guy 😅
That's me! Thank you!
Hahaha, im your boy, Thank u
@@dilanshari7537❤
his quote in 11:13 was my fav
the fucking straight guy killed me
Who??
I feel like he’s not straight tho
@@cosmicbeesechurger5907 Are you the straight guy? 🤣🤣
When the straight guy realized he was straight, I hollered 😂😂😂😂😂
Soooo… the nice Asian gentleman misunderstood the sign up sheet?
😂
I think they just desperately needed an asian to complete the demographic mix lol
My guy joined the wrong episode 😂😂😂
"inside your mind, body, soul"
"YOUR COLON" 😅😅😅😅😅
Stupid
Kyle cracked me up so much! I thought the body switch thing was hilarious, but laughed even harder when the full confusion was revealed!
What would be interesting is one with Black LGBTQ+
Experiences vs White LGBTQ+ Experience
Adding this to my notes !!
agreed.....
Nah, that's boring.
We know that racism (and race differences)
exists - we hear about it all the time lol
I’ll go
True
The straight guy moment was hilarious
That poor straight man was so confused 😂 I like to imagine him supposed to be be in a “do Christian’s and conservative Christian’s think the same” video and just got in the wrong line up 💀
A lesbian version would be interesting ngl
I agree!
YES
Are lesbians have top and bottoms?im curious
Interesting is an interesting word to use😍😁🤸♂️
@@Christina-yc4dnnot really though we have the turn pillow princess. I found that our gender/sex roles are alot more fluid than queer men's.
The orange shirt man has no idea where he is 😂 this was hilarious and the topic was interesting.
Bruuuh how did the not gay guy make it here 😂😂😂😂
This video was so much fun to film and even more to watch. Loved meeting all of these guys, so sweet. Brian thank you again for the opportunity, I love being in these style of videos. So many different aspects of life! I always walk away learning a new perspective & making a new friend ❤
Very cool u do such
Really though there is so many positions man let's not limit people to top and bottom when theres sides to at leastthat and some have less choice as to what they are
Loved the video! Would have loved to hear your take on “I was born gay”. Do you mind sharing it here? 😌✨🌈
Bottoms getting less respect can be associated with patriarchal views. Women in hetero relationships can be considered "submissive" and "less than" the man, and this has impacted queer sx as well.
LMFAO THE FACT THAT THE "STRAIGHT" GUY SNUCK IN HAHAHAH
that is so fucking hilarious.
I love how they were all trying to help the one guy figure out his life in the middle of the video. At first I thought when he said "she" it was just a language barrier because in chinese the main pronouns used are neutral when you're talking about other people but clearly not lol. That poor straight/bi/etc. guy lol.
"straight/bi/etc guy" had me cackling. A vibe lmao
It annoys me deeply that people associate bottoming to being submissive or being feminine. I am actually a very masculine man and a bit dominant but I love to bottom.
Hate to break it to you but it's submissive by default. It's a feminine attribute by default. It's like you trying to argue that you can be manly while playing with dolls or wearing a dress. Yes, you can in theory, but it's still a feminine submission.
Bless his little straight heart... what an adorably confused man. I stan him!! :D lol
Mitchell is hilarious lmao
Also, me being strictly top but agreeing that bottoms shall be respected more
❤😂
Mitchell was my favorite. It was his "The Office" style stares into the camera that did it for me 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@user-js6yq4hr1n I feel disrespected by DL guys. They are so one sided and usually only care about getting there rocks off only. Oh yeah and they go to great lengths to hide whenever you get together with them. I mean they take caution when meeting you that no one sees them when they're with you. I hate that most of all. I'm grown and I hide from no one.
The Venezuelan guy was amazing and living his life! Love it!
Thank you, I am living my life good!❤
@@DasslerJimenezare you wearing a wig in this video?
@@TabithaStar no that's my real hair, why?
@@DasslerJimenez you are the guy in the green polo shirt and brown cargo pants? If so it just looks like there is grey hair on the sides and in the back and on top is this brown hair that doesn’t really match and is just sitting there.
@@TabithaStar no, I am wearing a black polo and a khaki pants.
I love how all these people break all the stereotypes that tops are dominant and masculine and bottoms are submissive and feminine ❤
All the "tops" here are capping. You'd get them round and they'd have their legs up in the air before you close the door
As a power bottom, I WILL DOMINATE ANY TOP I COME ACROSS. I might go up and down like a seesaw, but my arse is an absolute c*ckgobbler. I am the daddy of the situation. And yet, I’m feminine. Big and burly, but femme. Full black makeup.
I’m a power bottom. I am the dominator, and I am a big transman bloke, yet I’m still femme as f_ck in my makeup and attire. Don’t go about thinking femme means pushover/submissive, honey, cause that’s not just misogynistic, but it also perpetuates yet another stereotype. And top doesn’t mean in charge, neither. Going “up and down like a seesaw” to quote Cupcakke on a top’s lap or even being the bent over bloke, one can still be dominating. It’s a matter of respect. We hold that which they wish for. That is power.
@@ManyArmedMooseDeishut up
I mean, bottoms ARE submissive lmao
Submissive and feminine aren't the same thing tho. I'm most certainly not feminine
Omg i laughed my heart out!! Thank you guys you were vere eloquent, natural, honest and genuine. I really loved to Venezuelan man who admitted the féminine attitudes with gay friends because thats so true!
As a masculine bottom i have to say it is sometimes difficult to really assuming my preference as if being submissive was taking away my masculinity.
Thank you, I am the venezuelan men in the video. ❤
@DasslerJimenez Oh you made such a big difference in the discussion! Thanks for your great contribution
Thank you that means a lot to me! ❤
@Pierre-LucTremblay you're hot bro .
I mean did the asian dude get paid? lol 😂 his part was probably my favorite uncomfortable moment lol 😂
loved it, we need a ladies version next for sure
Non-Gay Guy: *Starts talking about chicks and just being curious but not on any team*
Me grabbing a Blue Hoodie: "HE DOESN'T EVEN GO HERE!!"
I find it interesting that the guys that believe they weren't born gay told stories that suggest the complete opposite lol For ex, It sounds like Israel realized he didn't like girls once he became more in tune with himself and was confronted by other guys that probably sensed that in him. It's not as if those guys that hit on him changed his attraction to women. Rather, he was forced to look inward and realized he wasn't attracted to women the way he initially assumed he was due to being indoctrinated to believe so. Just because you come to that realization later than others doesn't automatically suggest you were "nurtured" to be gay. But to each his own.
as time goes by and i feel more comfortable with myself in every single way, the more vers i become. nowadays i honestly can't tell which position i like the most cuz i love them both, in different ways obviously, but just as intensely. i feel that it is such a pity that so many gay men limit themselves to only one position, you guys really missing half of the fun! i say this when i used to believe you either were a top or a bottom in the past, but right now i'm pretty convinced that as long as you find the right man, you can definitely enjoy both positions just as much. but of course this only my experience. pd: but i do believe that bottoms deserve more credit as they have a tougher work to do, while tops just be chilling haha :)
and hell yeah, i was born gay. one of my oldest memories is wanting to hold a male friend's hand all day long.
@@rodriubertiright lol ! me too ! but I'm totally a top tbh.
being a top is hard work too that's why I stay in shape lol. plus most guys I top are bigger than me . I'm 155 pounds so I have to have something.
LISTEN TO THE OLDER MAN! ❤️ he gets it! Also, that tall one with the dreads! ❤️ loved that internalized homophobia realization! ❤️🩹same!!
Thank you!
Mitchell's late slow walk to the other side sent me... "yeah no I'm not switching" I love the insertion...
Thanks for this video! I’d love to see this video become a series because it’s enlightening to non-gay people just how diverse gay experiences are.
Thanks Brian! Also, I’d like to see a video that focuses on sexual repression, as in, that last question can branch out and make a whole episode on its own (prompts about parents, prompts about gay views on spirituality (like: “why do gays think god made us this way?” , and also speaking to how various religious upbringings affected how we see ourselves. what it means to be gay, having guys examine at what age they became aware of their gayness, what men have done to resist their gayness). As a trans woman who has struggled with ‘am I really trans, or am I just a gay man? is transness actually on the same spectrum as gay?’ I’d love to hear what others think about it.
Bottoms definitely deserve more respect because it’s allot of work. I’m a top and I respect my bottoms.
I could not understand the straight man for one second
He was just as confused as you 🤣
me too lol
The Venezuelan person is fun... Good prompts and fair enough responses.
Thank you, I am the venezuelan guy in the video!. ❤
Thank you I am always fun! 😂😅
Nothing could have been better than finding out halfway through that one of the guys cast for the video had no idea what the questions he was answering meant and was just going with the flow. He pumped up the entertainment value for sure!
There's a lot of pressure on tops though to perform like a porn star. We can't fake it. And the moment we aren't rock hard the bottom is immediately asking questions... "is he not attracted to me? Does he have ED? He just sucks, so I'm not giving him a second chance." I get performance anxiety, especially when I'm not super comfortable with someone, but I'm never super comfortable at the begining, so this is all a source of stress for me as a top.
No, that's just for people who like to imitate porn. That's nonsense.
If you are not super comfortable, and don't dear to say it, than your only problem is to say "no thank you".
If you are not so sporty, you lay down and somebody sits on you. You still are the top, even when not on top.
OF course one can just be physicly exhausted. 3rd time a day I'm also not "performing" that well any more.
Or then I'm on diet and haven't eaten enough.
But if you know the reason, you don't worry, you don't develop anxiety.
That one guy in the gold chain was really funny with his honest answers 🤣
I feel like bottoms deserve more respect then tops because they're disrespected so much 😤😤
1:05 to be fair, you can be truly in love with someone and communicate that you do like switching, and then you can openly switch, or stay one way for a long time, like being truly in love with eachother, will allow you to comunicate all this. im a straight guy, and ive been with my girlfriend for +9 years (and im 24) and for most of the beginning of the relationship, i was primarily dominant, i was "big strong man", but as we got to know eachother and opened up more, and communicate properly, I am still mostly dominant and "masculine". but she knows that occasionally I enjoy when she's a lil dommy mommy xd so yea, its all about communication, acceptance and understanding your partners side.
The second season of INTERVIEW WITH THE VAMPIRE just started.
I truly hope we will get even more seasons, the story is just amazing.
People b*tch about how there is nothing new and good to watch, but when studios and artists finally deliver, barely anyone is spreading the word.
That's why we need to encourage them more, so they will experiment more!
How were the guys chosen for this, we’re they not interviewed? How would it a surprise on video there was a straight guy, wtf?
People: "Are top, bottom, or vers?"
Me: "Single 😭"
The straight guy was so confused 💀💀💀
another fun one. thanks for having us ❤
i loved your vibe a lot!
LOVED seeing all the laughter and how much fun you guys were all having
I'm a gay man (don't mind the avatar) and I have never felt more disconnected from a discourse ever. I don't understand why anal sex has to be the default option when all the whole "community" talks about is rejecting heteronormativity.
Right? Non-penetrative sex can be just as fun.
Clearly they're important distinctions for its members.
Common if you don't identify as an anal person that's fine but you don't need to shame the vast majority of gays that are practicing anal sex. Sometimes, you minorities are really looking for reasons to cringe.
@@jckholmes9194 I just find it weird how identifying as a top or bottom is an important distinction but then they get offended when straight people ask “so which one of you is the woman” and reply with “neither of us is the woman, that’s why we’re gay, you just don’t get it *insert eyeroll*”
@@theSupercasa It makes sense to get offended by something like that because your preference in sexual position does not define your gender. In the "gay man" sentence, there are two things: sexual orientation (gay) and gender (man). There is no woman in a two-gay man couple. Not that being called a woman should be offensive. The offense is the implication behind the affirmation. It implies homophobia and sexism, implying men who bottom are "lesser than men" - which also implies women are lesser than men, thus sexism.
This affirmation is also prejudiced because it implies that, in straight sex, the woman is always the one receiving and the man always the one giving - which, although it's mostly true, isn't absolute. There are straight men who want to get bottomed by women, and there are women who want to top men. They exist. lol
So, I believe this was an unfortunate example to defend your point of view.
That aside, I agree with you that there is much more to sex than penetration itself. To many people, it isn't necessary at all. But to others, it is a vital factor, and that's why the top/bottom/vers labels exist. It is valid, nonetheless, even if you don't identify with it.
This video would be so insightful for the straight men that’s” bi curious “ it’ gives you a idea of a comfortable open gay man experience ❤️
This group is super friendly like, it seems like they all hang out
i'm mid video and the straight man has revealed himself and im LMAO
This devolved into pure chaos completely.
i loved all the different personalities on this episode
I love this video, such a nice group with a sense of community haha
Colton's attitude is so mature and admirable! :)
I love these kinds of conversations !! PLEASE more like this
I'm a top, but I'd DEFINITELY flip for Colton.
FACTS!!!! And he's down to flip!!! LES GOOOOOOOOOOO!!!
I mean I guess if you like guys that are 5’5
@@TightyWhiteyTrash weird comment.
Don't see why height would be a factor
@@jaytops taller men automatically assert dominance, power, control and authority. I wouldn’t take lil man seriously as a top. Then again, Im a top and 6’3. Don’t get me wrong; I don’t mind shorter men, but he’s REALLY short. To each their own…I suppose.
Men do not play the role of a woman in the ass is the wrong place that is for shit/ it is a exit
I'm loving the quiet guy in the background with the Slavic accent. He know who he is and what he likes. None of the other guys do.
I LOVE this format and I love videos like this. Such an awesome way to hear from many different people. Please, if you want to give *your* opinions in the video as a producer, please stand among the people in the video. When you give your opinions from behind the camera like I've seen in other videos, I feel like you're telling them all what they're supposed to think instead of being a true unbiased mediator of the experiment/conversation/video. If I were there I wouldn't feel comfortable to share what I *really* want to if the people producing the video behind the camera are basically telling me what they want me to say.
A big reason why jubilee has been so successful with these videos is because they're very good at being neutral and not influencing their participants in the videos, so that those people feel comfortable enough to share what becomes the most *juicy* sound bits.
it's eyes opening. Thank you for this wonderful video
There really should be a bisexual men's one that would be amazing
I agreeeeee
Yess
Bottom deserved more appreciation for me . Respect should be given for both top and bottom equally. But being bottom is hard . As a bottom I experienced this alot but at the same time I cant stop
The point that the guys were making for nurture in the nature vs nurture debate is actually counterintuitive if you really think about it. They were overtly taught to be a certain way from a very young age which had a huge impact on their early lives up until they realised their nature later on in life. Had they been left alone to figure out the world and themselves when they were younger, they might have also realised their same sex attraction sooner. So exposure didn't turn them gay, exposure just unlocked what they already were, and were conditioned to not recognise earlier in life.
I can’t imagine how the straight man ended up there😂 I want a movie about him honestly.
The case with my guy and me is special: He is 100% top and I am 100% bottom. We don't think or behave the same. Our partnership has been going on for ten and a half years now.
13:02 tops best watch out lol the bottoms bout to unionize! 😂
My fav video so far 🎉
Mine too!! I need one with lesbians!!
How a straight man come. Up to this show. What is the procedure to invite people to this
IAM DYING MAN IT SEEMS LIKE THEY JUST PICK THEM UP ON THE STREET
How can anyone hate the gays? This videos shows we’re so fun!
I really think Colton was feeling Brian in this ep
“What do you mean by switch? You mean bodies or switch lives?” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
"So I guess we will just.. continue the video without you" lmfao
You're a GENIUS for making this video
The two guys with backwards hats totally did it! 😂
It’s giving cunty 🔥
First question is kinda silly... like you can have fantastic sex as two strict tops or two strict bottoms, or switch positions from time to time. In sex you should find sth both of you like. A top forcing themselves to bottom for someone is not how a healthy relationship is built
My BF and I got together in June of COVID. It is what put us together. Both bottoms. We do what we need to do in the bedroom as everything else is perfect. We went from bottoms to bottom-verse. We take care of each others needs and share. It can work if you're willing. If everything else is checked off and you're not willing to share in the bedroom once in a while? That's selfish and you're probably the type that says they can't find their special person. Self-sabotage.
Tops tend to be able to switch easier in my opinion. Bottoms tend to be more reluctant to change.
16:42 literally most of the men that do drag are tops. Which was shocking to me so i would’ve disagreed with this off jump
Omg that is so untrue! I would say drags are representative of the general quotas in the gay community. 20% tops, 30% versatiles and 50% bottoms.
@@Pierre-LucTremblayexcept definitely not 50% bottoms, just go out of the big cities
@Methylglyoxal I grew up in a suburbs...yeah 50%
Yea ive met way more drag tops than bottoms
BEEN WAITING FOR THIS ONE
ITS HERE
I have always seen bottoms on a pedestal because of all the work it takes too.
I read too many Korean webtoons and Japanese mangas, my brain is scrambled.
This video is so amazing, I can't ask my gay friends these things.
They already feel fetishized by us women, that's why I don't want to push their boundaries.
Thank you, gentlemen!!!
Am I the only one not buying Mr. Orange Shirt as str8??
He seems like a pretty honest person. Bi-curious basically.
yaooooww... this is hilaaaarious.. how did this guy get on set??? dwlwlwlwlwlwlwlw
The guy in the orange was so sweet and lighthearted! That was funny
Yesssss lesbians nextttttt !!! 🧡🧡🧡
i personally would like if you could differentiate both groups off of different colored shirts or something
I like to see each person’s individual style. I get to know each person a bit during the duration of each video, so I don’t need the participants to wear color-coded clothing
@@oyoyoyo7624 that's fair, i myself dont pay as much attention to their style compared to what they say, sometimes only listen to the audio, I guess arm bands or something more minor could do the trick
The concept of this, is to not have groups. It's to show depending on the question, people change the group. People are individuals.
@@holger_p reread the title of the video
@@keepcalmanddie This is a questionnaire game. Question asked "are you attracted by masculine men", people separate in groups, walk apart.
Next question, people form other groups, depending on the next question, and so on.
Yes OK, by colors for tops and bottoms it would be easier to see, if grouping for this, corresponds to grouping by the current question.
My partner and I are completely in love with one another and our position titles melt away with each other. Traditionally I’m top and he’s bottom but we have so much chemistry that we change all the time and we love both positions. When u meet ur soul mate u truly can give up everything for him! If he got sick and couldn’t be intimate anymore I would be completely content with just having him with me and wouldn’t need sex with anyone else.
Hilarious how mid video the straight guy was kicked out 😂😂😂 must have been a language barrier. It made it hilarious
Sex is power, indeed. What I see is that being a bottom is culturally default of a submissive position because of the pure physiological definition of penetration, whereas subjectively it can be interpreted as something powerful since the bottom has the access to what the top wants, the access to pleasure. Aside from that, I think what the tall black dude said was equally interesting... depending on a dude's nature, being a top can be seen more as a pleasure-giving experience than a subjection-to-submission kind of thing, and that is power as well. It really is quite relative.
To me that bottom power thing reminds of a Chihuahua or Napoleon type complex. That physical size translates more social presence or political power. That isn't the case at all in my experience with humans and working with animals. Some of the largest people or animals can be the biggest babies and be so shy they barely exude any of said characteristics at all. Whereas some of the shortest people, smallest animals, or animals that are most unassuming, have more gravitas than beings thrice their size.
"I like...the insertion" 😂😂😂
Mitchell was my favorite
interesting that tops think they werent born that way but bottoms do
I was definitely born gay. I hit the gay jackpot because my mom's best friend's child was gay. So we did a lot of things together for the first time. We even continued our relationship until he died a few years ago in a car accident.
As a healthcare provider, and a prominate bottom I might have a partial view, but I am troubled when people are surprised by the existence of "residue" after being in certain places where "residue" is sometimes present.That type of bottom shamming is what I have a problem with.
It is crucial to acknowledge and comprehend the possible consequences of any intimate interaction, particularly in terms of readiness and communication between partners.
From the first question, you can see the confusion. I'm glad I have given up on men. Thank you for the reassurance.
Please remember that this is more so a view from a guy and his friend group more than a pov of all gay men. The views on masc men is very interesting to me when all of these gay men could be viewed as "fem" in a different setting. I think we need to focus more on breaking hetero norms than enforcing them because that's all this masc vs fem argument does. News flash fellas, you're all f****** at the end of the day 🤷🏿. I say that as the same, for you softies. Also, this convo is damaging to our youth. The masc vs fem argument is just a reaffirmation to our more Feminine brothers that there is something wrong with the who they are when there is in fact nothing wrong or less desirable about fem gay men(this is coming from a non fem gay man).
Israel and Dasler and Mitchell were amazing!!!!!
Thanks